She made a right choice to cut ties from her own family and start a new life

@Amoth_oth_ras_shash

11 күн бұрын

defo , not only was she self made but they expected to have it handed over no charge and the arrogance to talk about ''life is not always fair''

Emily did just right. Jake doesn't know the hardship involved in building up an enterprise. It will only crumble down if Emily gave in to their demands.

@barbarajoyce6424

24 күн бұрын

he dropped out of college because it was too hard. h0ow the heck is going to run a business, apart form into the ground.

Are you kidding me? Of COURSE she was right in standing her ground. She didn't owe those three idiots the right time of the day. Great story! 👍👍

Compromise only works when both side are willing. Such toxic people wouldn't compromise and that led to the estrangement. They felt so entitled to everything and they got nothing in the end.

What on earth was up with those parents. Unbelievable. How dare they ask her to turn over her business to a brother because he needs it. It’s not just some thing you can do she build that shop. Turned it into what it is. And the parents wanted the brother to take over and have her just walk the floor no way, those parents something wrong with them seriously wrong with them. Your daughter builds a business. It wasn’t in luck. She worked at that place for seven years learning everything she needed to know then she bought the guy out when he retired and she expanded the business in that place made it bigger And you wanted her to turn it over to her good for nothing brother. Maybe if he had gone to college like he was supposed to instead of taking his college fun and playing around he might’ve been able to get himself some kind of job where you didn’t have to try and steal Your daughters business. And once again, stop treating your children differently there is no golden child they both your children treat them equally love them equally. If you notice in all of the stories where there’s a golden child where the parents put everything into it, the golden child seems to fall flat on their face, needing help from the one that everybody snicker that saying you’ll never amount to anything. They are the ones are usually amount of some thing not the golden child.

@SuzetteKath

Ай бұрын

That is how many parents view the gender difference between males & females. That daughters are to hand over anything the sons want. No matter how much sweat and tears the daughter had in order to bring something to fruition. To them, those daughters will never be as good as the sons are in their eyes.

@redstar8257

Ай бұрын

I’m just afraid the brother would run it to the ground and destroyed everything the sister work so hard to build. First: He has no experience in management or in the automotive mechanic industry field. Second: He’s lazy and lack work ethic. (School dropout and can’t get a job). Third: He didn’t build it from the ground up and was given freely so sees very little value in the shop. He wouldn’t be passionate about running it. Forth: She already sees the direction she wants to take the shop. He would not have means or ability to take it there. Fifth: Sixth: Seventh: Yeah the shop will just be ruin in his hands.

@ydcee3123

Ай бұрын

​@@redstar8257None of that matters. It was her business she built. It belongs to her.

I have a similar, yet different story. My parents were utter A-holes. I was the 3rd out of 4 children. They coddled my youngest brother and made my life a nightmare. I ended up leaving home at 18, during my Junior year of High School. I went to school and worked. I had rent, car payment, utiliities, and food to pay for. Fast forward, I did 21 years in the Army, have 5 educational degrees and have accomplished on my own, without my crappy parents. I still talk to my folks, but will never forget all of the crappy stuff they did.

@karenbrown1485

22 күн бұрын

I went through similar (although my younger brother wasn't coddled like the one in this story!), and I also left home at 18. Looking back, I believe my successes were due to my fighting spirit which I may not have had if I had been treated differently. It looks like you've done really well in your life, for which you should be applauded. Whilst writing, I would like to add that, although I'm not from your country (but still on the same side!), I thank you for your service.

Get out and I’m calling the cops and I’m getting a restraining order on all three of you get the hell out now

@lancerevell5979

23 күн бұрын

AGREED!! 🤨

Sweet karma for the toxic mother and father and brother lol

The moment they said any of that crap I would say get out of I'm calling the police. And now, I don't care anymore. Period.

If her brother couldn't do well in school there's no way he could run a business.

She had every right to do so. Because that's her business. You don't let someone mess with that.

Family hää? He would ruin the shop within a month. He knows nothing about it call police asap. The parents may bail him out but they will never get her back into their lives even if they really want her.She had to tell her parents to let their Jake work for something himself.Good she had her lawyers. Well done, Emily nobody needs a family like that you are better at life withoutit so sad it sounds.

The first part of the story was interesting, then it went into what I can only describe as a check list of things people think matter in certain groups instead of finishing the story.

She did the right thing!

Emily’s parents are the reason for the downfall of their entitled son. They have thought him no sense of responsibility and the sad thing is they cannot see how they hampered his independence and his ability to progress.

The rhetorical questions asked at the end of each story can be rather irritating

What a toxic family!

Remember when I wanted a bicycle I got the secondhand and my parents bought Jake a brand new bicycle. We’ll buy Jake a new Mechanic Shop 😅

@Felix24148

16 күн бұрын

I frequent my local bike shop, and have even lent a hand sometimes. The owner's son is a real piece of work who was caught making out business checks in his father's name and cashing them. And then he got a "No one steals from my dad but me" attitude due to some later incident I don't have details on. But I can say this from being in that shop. Sometimes it's better to buy a used bike from them. Because most new bikes are bought at Walmart. But at a bike shop, they might have something of a much better brand that's used for a similar price.

I find the parents r rude an out of place. I don't understand this give away your business all in the name of family who does that?

@shells500tutubo

27 күн бұрын

Many families cater to a ne'er do well child while the others work hard to gain any little bit of recognition. It is not uncommon. My friend's brother was in and out of prison when we were kids (I never knew why he was "away on vacation" so much, lol), skipped out on bail after his parents put a second mortgage on their house to get him out, and they still praised him while it was the oldest son who was paying their bills.

Whether both parties could find a compromise or not if her brother doesn't have the knowledge or the skills to run a car maintenance service, then she has every right to say no. Cause he wasnt trying just taking over her business he was taking everything she accomplished on her own without aid of family then there parent's told there son that he owns the place without going through paperwork or going through court to try to claim ownership of a car mechanic business yeah she made the right call to let the police take him away and try to prevent anyone else take what she built after puting her blood, sweat, and tears into owning that business. I was glad her parents didn't show up for the expension party cause things wouldn't have gone their way if they did.

Need more women like you in a mans world.

@LarryMan51

27 күн бұрын

Amen, !

You do you boo that golden child is absolutely 💯 get his karma just like your vile toxicity of parents. Be happy and love the life you are building with out there toxicity

Had she allowed her brother to take charge of the business, her best option would be to leave town anyway. He would have run the company into the ground within a year, taking every penny he could for partying, then the entire family would have blamed her for its failure.

Sounds like because Jake was a boy the parents felt he should control the business not a girl.

@shells500tutubo

27 күн бұрын

Not all the time. This could easily be Ernie instead of Emily and the parents would still favor Jake.

She was right to stand her ground. The parents favored the son and would have him take over their daughter's business with no knowledge of how to run it. He would have destroyed it in no time,, leaving them both with no income. Strange, how parents behave sometimes. The have no knowledge of their own daughter's value.

She made the right choice!

Take a hike Jake! Who says nine hundred eleven?

@YDV669

Ай бұрын

The AI vocalizer does. It's in the union contract, words must be pronounced wrong as a joke because humans can't tell the difference anyway.

The role had been switched,the main character is a man and the spoiled brat is the sister. This story is from reddit, it's more longer because they use longer and complicated words but I can still remember it well.

OP..Good for you. Leaving that toxic family..Never let your toxic family back in!!😮😮😮

She did rightly!

Mrs Thompson boffs penguins!

I can commiserate. My little Sister was tge Golden Child, getting perks I didn't. But I did learn to be more selfreliant.

🤦Amazingly, like many of these videos, the victim allows the mental abuse to continue too long, never having a backbone or a stern F U. Like giving to much line to a big fish, or to much leash to a big dog, then surprised when it gets unruly

@karenbrown1485

22 күн бұрын

The "victim" in this instance was a child so had no power, and certainly saying FU to your parents would be an absolute no-no!

I hope you told your parents NO and told them to get out before you call the police!!!

When someone tells you to " hand over" something you own. Tell them to "Eff off", and get lawyers involved to issue, with cease and desist orders.

@marluxia8832

14 күн бұрын

That's good when you have your own house, and what if you don't? My family keep on taking away my stuff, including money, "because my brother (or my sister) needs it more than I do". If I resist, stand my ground and fight back (sometimes physically), they would just take it away regardless in my absence and have me face the fact that it's gone and I must accept it.

I would have said HeLL n!! They raised a bum, that's their problem it takes hardware to achieve anything in life. She made that from scratch. How dare they say it's owed to the bum they raised.

She should of said go out and earn your own shop!

Emily was fully in the right.

I wouldn't trust that guy to take care of a house plant

Success isn't an object to be handed to someone. It has to be worked for.

Compromise only works (mostly) when both parties are willing to meet each other halfway. If bro wanted into the business, he could've applied to sweep the floors and do the scut work all businesses have; not much, but it would be a start. He'd have to prove himself, a lot, before being offered any greater responsibility. If he did that with relatively little complaint, he definitely start coming out ahead in reality instead of in his own mind.

She did the right thing. If she gave in, what will it be next time? There is no end to their entitlement.

« We’re a family » - hope those words also provided the employees with stocks in the shop

This is when my employer would call out to the floor asking for "assistance" . . . and by God getting it.

I was expecting her family to do something even more nastier. Like, robbing Emily's car maintenance shop, or setting it on fire just to spite her. Or to lay claim to her business. But I'm glad everything turned out alright for Emily.

She was right for standing her ground

Having come from a family where as a child and teen I was basically treated the same way as opposed to my brother, not only did she do right but I actually feel she was still a little too polite about it!

Emily was totally right, her family was wrong. It was worst when a family friend tried to correct her not knowing all the details.

They have pushed her and brought her down so many times, so she did the right thing.

Most Car mechanics job needs a certificate or license to work on cars.

@lancerevell5979

23 күн бұрын

And the business license, property taxes, etc. are all in HER name! It is HER business, period.

Of course, Emily did exactly what she should have done. The lazy slimy brother would have ruined the business.

In the end, only family mattes. Since her birth family is disfunctional, she needs to start her own, marriage, children, home and such. Business is great, but it doesn't matter a hundred years from now.

She is 200% right

Such parents don't deserve children. This types of incidents are perfect example that why Every child deserves parents but every parents don't deserve childrens....

Got some "Do it for Dan" vibes from the parents and brother. Was kinda hoping to see them do something else crazy in the latter half of the video. But her covering her ass in every way under the sun was pretty smart.

100 percent the right choice and just because someone is blood don't mean that they are family

Yes, Emily was right

Yes

If Jake was that good at business he could have started his own. He'd have just squandered that opportunity like he had others.

I'd have told them all to **** right off and if they wanted me to hand it over to the brother, to take it to court.

Go you girl keep at it

You really want to get a mechanic upset or angry? Or any technician. Accidentally hitting your head on their tools while still in their hands can be bad for your health.

The story may or may not be true, but there are a lot of people out there that go through similar estrangement that they never wanted, but had to go through. In this story she was right to look for protection, the family did not value her health and welfare.

Hire him for a job he can’t fuck up and tell them to fuck off. If he works correctly then promote him.

If people are not willing to work hard at something, from the ground up, then people like Jake don't deserve success. Its people like Emily, who put in the endless work, etc, who gain and earn their success. Emily, stand your ground. Jake needs to learn on his own. The wrong thing was the parents coddled Jake, and gave into every demand he had. OP NTA

I did that with my brother who wanted me to pay for his car repair when he had 9K in his bank account and said that was for his house repair. I said I know how to do all the repair work for your house. You would not pay me and that is why you have to pay for this car part. He never spoke to me again and he died 5 years later. Only 2 of his children and our sister was at the funeral.

Not no but he'll no,get to stepping 😢😮😊. If you want him to have a business you can get him one

I think she did the most rightful choice her biological family most especially her parents was not fair enough on giving her true love, care and support as their child, and when she was old enough, she use this as a tool in life to overcome the every hardship that lead her to success. And when she so successful her family who have no any particular contribution for what she achieve, are trying to take that away from her, just for the sake of them his unreliable, selfish and good for nothing younger brother. Once for all she provide and establish her own source of income all by herself, so it is not a family business, but all her own well establish business, so their is no one not even her own family could simply take that away from her, and she have all the right to do everything, in order protect for what is rightfully for her, and for her alone.

I know many female engineers from China and India. They're just as good as male engineers.

Her family was toxic yes, however I'm not convinced that a lady had the hands to assemble and properly torque engine bolts. This story is too far fetched. 🙄

The parents and the spoiled brother were completely out of order it may have been different if the parents had built the business but they hadn't in fact they had nothing to do with the business so they had no right to decide who should run it and if the brother had ended up with the business it would of most probably ended up bankrupt within a few weeks as he would be running something that he knew nothing about

good thing she hade a strong spine and told them to sod of when wanting to steal the stuff she worked up the funds to buy herself , because far to often humans being pack animals causes parents or siblings to be able to exploit biological ties :/ as old gods people knew , family is about far more then biology i mean , if the bro himself hade come with respect asking for the favour of being taken in as apprentice on a minimum wage or such despite having a track record of being dipsh.t ,that i could have understood

Looks like the story of op and his garage business...but the roles are reversed....the original...op is a guy who owns two garages...and the sister is the one who demands the business with her parents....

It's your place so why should your parents just come in and make demands kick them out and that is it why the long song and dance 😢

11:32 " a world dominated by men.." They *HAD* to add that in didn't they, how misandric! Imagine if this story was about a man trying to become a teacher in a "world dominated by women" ..you think that would be ok and accepted without comment??

yes

Sorry, but can we have more drama with the family rather than reciting a boring life

@shells500tutubo

27 күн бұрын

👏👏👏👏

Good for her, but a lame story. "My family wanted my biz. Bro broke in. Got restraining order. Expanded biz. The End".

We know how mumsy muyht soothes things _ the cathouse!

Mom soft?

aThis has to be an AI story. I have never heard of such BS,

Emily built her business on her own. No help from mom, dad or brother. What right did they have to demand she hand it over to her brother....none. I suspect it would eventually have become a cash cow for him as he runs it into the ground. Emily was right to make sure the business was hers and hers alone.

Corny😂😂😂

Her shop not theres

Seriously,why can't there be reconciliation? Always the negatives

@karenbrown1485

22 күн бұрын

Oh, I don't think there would have been any compromise that the parents would have accepted in this case!

Okwhat emily did is impressive and im glad she got thru the problem she had with family but.I am sorry but this story sounds like a gigantic pat on the back than more of the trouble she has gone thru. Like she is trying to defend herself while giving herself pats on the back. And the way she described her relationship whit the person she hired . "She returned my smile while wiping the sweat from her brow. That sounded love story-ish . And as the sun settled it show my accomplishment etc...etc... etc. Sound more like a writing point than anything. Again I am not taking away anything she went thru . I think she made the right decision. But I think that she need to talk to a therapist cause by the sounds of how it is wrote she is beating herself up mentally.

I really hate the expressions on jerk's face.

STUPID STORY, WHAT HAPPENED TO THE FAMILY, WHY DIDNT SHE MADE HER POINT OF VIEW MORE CLEAR, NOT JUST EXPELLING THE LOSER BROTHER, BUT SHAMING THE UNFAIR PARENTS AND SHOWING HOW UNFAIR THEIR WAYS WERE AND WONDER ABOUT THE REASON, MAYBE SHE IS THE DAUGHTER OF AN AFFAIR. IDIOTIC STORY, WITH RIDICULOUS MORALISTIC ENDING AND STUPID QUESTIONS BY THE RIDICULOUS AUTHOR.

Pro tip. Dont tell a prospective employer “ You were last on my list!”

@karenbrown1485

22 күн бұрын

I thought I was alone in thinking that! 😊

Dude I have heard that this is a other stolen reddit and it is gender swapped

That's it? 🙄

Cut down on the ads. This channel is very abusive with them.

@karenbrown1485

22 күн бұрын

None of the channels have any power over the ads unfortunately.

@emilynelson5646

14 күн бұрын

@@karenbrown1485 If you pay for KZread Premium there are no ads.

This video is stolen from @ Mr Reddito animated series. Not cool.

Palpable

NTA

bs story

We know what aunt Linda’s lips are glued to!