My Parents Are Wrong, What Should I Do? - Nouman Ali Khan
How do we deal with family members who are disobeying Allah or are badly influencing us due to their misguidance? A sister asks this question to Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan during a Q&A session at the Divine Speech Urdu (#AkhriMoujza) program in Islamabad, Pakistan.
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the biggest difficulty comes from the hands of those whom u love unconditionally and perhaps inevitably. people with supportive parents are the luckiest. may Allah SWT give us courage and open the hearts of our loved ones
May Allah make it easy for you my dear sister and grant you consistency over Islam.
@amanullahsiddiquei
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Aameen...
@dramaloverz1507
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Aameen
@inspiringmuslim
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Ameen
@hayabint-e-aslam4380
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Ameen, jazakillahu khair sister 💐
@sadiyahansari8612
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@@hayabint-e-aslam4380 is that you in the video?
"O you who believe! Keep your duty to Allah and fear Him, and speak (always) the truth." SURAH AL-AHZAB AYAT 70 🤲🤲
Brilliant and a very insightful answer. So glad Allah showed me this video. Alhamdhulillah
@n.tasnim1105
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Yeah i really needed this video too.Alhamdulillah 💗
@aniqa71596
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The great thing is that when i was searching an answer to my question and same thought as ustad came to my mind even i didn't know about this ayah as i have listen many times and don't know details of this ayah but its the blessing also to know right thing at right time
Ma Sha Allah His way of explaining Quran is so amazing 👏
Indeed we live in a difficult world. In difficult times. Where our own families create obstacles in doing what is right.
@n.tasnim1105
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So true 💔
I have been trying to tell that to my parents all my life, but they have made me psychologically Ill, with totally lacking self esteem and confidence. They constantly insult me for speaking against wrong and do difference between son and daughter. I don’t think there is a solution for that. Now my mom is sick and I take care of her, even now she never gives any importance. It’s extremely Saddening and disturbing, all my quAlity as a person have died.
@Ambreen9
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May Allah make it easy for you sister. Sometimes, we are doing everything that is right, the things that Allah would want us to do, but inside, we need someone who love us and understand us, but when your own family or your mother doesn’t understand you, then it does become really hard. And it really effects your iman and worship. Not that we don’t have faith or tawakkul in Allah, it’s just that our emotions can’t handle such things and our iman get tainted and our hearts become hard. It’s really hard to deal with these situations. May Allah grant you ease and all of us.
@fatihamataiche5899
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May Allah bless you in this difficult situation 😢 I Love you ❤sister in Islam ☪️ Tribulations are there to get us closer to Allah
@NiceGuy88
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Sister, if that's the case, remember the example of Ibrahim(A.S) and Maryam(A.S).
@self-sufficient9315
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@@Ambreen9 thank you.
@self-sufficient9315
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@@fatihamataiche5899 thank you.
May Allah (SWT) make things easy for you and all of us.🤲
Is behn n baht hi achha puchhi ye msla Mera v tha
WAllahi In these day I am struggling about this think and didn't search anything about this thing but what a help it will definitely help me in shaa Allah
@phy290
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Inshalla
@nawazishalam9535
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Today I was thinking how can I stop my parents from going to mazars since it is shirk and I got this video what a coincidence
@RenMarti21
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@@nawazishalam9535 plz click on these hashtags #exmuslim_sahil #adamseeker #ahmadexmuslim
The scholars and the preachers are real gift to the ummah.
Assalamualaikum everyone recite this after every Salah/نماز 👇👇⬇️⬇️ Take screenshot Subhan Allah 33 times Alhamdulillah 33 times Allaho Akbar 34 times Surah ikhlas 3 times Surah falaq 3 times Surah naas 3 times Surah kafiroon 3 times Ayatul kursi 3 times Surah fatiha 1 time Durood e Ibrahim 3 times May Allah guide all of us Ameen
JazakAllahkhair for this wonderful explanation, I too have a few things to say to my love ones but nervous to say. May Allah make it easy for me and everyone Ameen ❤
@surrayakhan3757
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Jazak' Allah* Ma Shaa' Allah* Sub Han' Allah*
@n.tasnim1105
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Ameen 🤍✨
@gautamdebnath4046
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@@surrayakhan3757Bhai, I think too much Arab culture Islam destroyed Pakistan like Afghanistan
Haya bint e Aslam May Allah make it easy things for you
Noman Ali Khan is the best teacher for tha Yong generation. He is very knowledgeable and experienced teacher mashallah
MaashaAllah. SubhannAllah, this is so beautiful. You can see the sincerity in this exchange. It made me cry.
@miscgar9663
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Muhammad copied books of Bible and made Quran. He married many to help them. He killed many as they were bad. So he added polygamy and jihad and made Quran. You will get many women on earth and in heaven. Beware in the last days many logical men will make many to fall. Pray nonstop till you know God Jesus is the only way truth and life.
Nouman ali khan may Allah subhantallah bless u abduntaly and may u rise n shine may u be the love of Allah subhantallah
Thank you for the subtitles.....frm sister in syahadah....Malaysia
جَزَاکَ اللّٰہُ خَیْرًا کَثِیْرًا وٙاٙحْسٙنُ الْجٙزٙا فِی الدُّنِیاٙ وٙالْآخِرٙہْ✨ 💖🥺
Thank you so much for uploading hindi aur urdu language ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wasn’t expecting that kind pf answer. Nicely put!
Noman Ali Khan,a scholar whom i love most,may allah enhance his knowledge & enable him to serve the whole ummah as well.
I really love him...just for Allah
Zindagi rahe to MN b app Ka live session attend krn ge In Shaa Allah....
@Affan197
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Kahan hota hai islambd mn live session?
اللہ آپ سب کے لیے آسانیاں پیدا کرے۔ اپنے اندر یقین پیدا کریں صرف اور صرف اللہ پے توکل کریں اور دعا پورے یقین کے ساتھ مانگیں۔ اللہ بہت بہت بہت غفور و رحیم ہے بہت سننے والا ہے ❤❤❤
@TariqRashed-et7kd
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Ameen Suma ameen Beshak .
Ma sha Allah v nicely explained JazakAllahu khaira
Beautiful question....
Thank you, excellent, easy to understand. Please don’t go like other successful speakers and start hiring media team to make your videos and materials. Keep things as they are.
Allah noman sb ko bhot sara ajar dy
Aj k waqt may har insan ko is ka ilm hoga toh kooch behtar hoga
Thanks for translation. Can understand even though i don't know Urdu at all
Jazakallah k hmare mulk mn b koi hy jiska deen ka itna acha ilm hy MashaAllah
Thank You Nouman❤
جزاک اللہ 🌷
Mr Numan Ali Khan brilliant scholar ❤
Ma Sha Allah Ma Sha Allah superb sir❤May Allah SWT keep you always on such a beautiful path,ameen sum ameen 💕 live long and healthy
I have also the same problem..May allah make easy for us to talk righteously with our parents..
You’re so good in Urdu!!!😮
Jazaq Allahukum khairan Shaikh💐💐💐💐💐
Jazakallah khair bro ❤️❤️
Masha Allah bahut khoob!
May Allah bless him more Ameen ❤
Jazak Allahu khair
Jazakullahu khair
Assalam o alaikum sir. I have started learning Quran but your way of explanation is easy to understand for me. I first heard you on a social media. And then i heard your tafseer of surah bakrah. I want to learn tafseer of quraan, also applied for a gift. I cannot afford the payment. I was hoping if there's a way i can learn quran tafseer.
Thank u soo much for this video,really needed this.
Massallah wallahi such a wonderful words Allah bless you Noman sahab 💞🍂
may Allah bless all of those who are struggling...with the positivity the sister said " In sha Allah" and they way brother Nouman received it touched my heart.
Oh brother I love u for the sake of Allah SubhanatAllah. May Allah SubhanatAllah guide us all. Ameen
جزاك الله خير
I was also in need of such anwer..jazak Allah.khir
👏very beautifully explained
Jajakallah alhamdulillah Ustad Sukriya i think i got the answer, may allah blessd you Ustad and blessd my family especially my Father 🥲
MashAllah! Beautiful response as always from Br. Nouman. JazakAllah Khairan!
May Allah guide us through the right path and forgive us
My family also doesn’t allow me to wear hijab. And are on wrong at several level. It’s so difficult sometimes
@videogamesplanet6631
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Don't listen to them. They are ignorant and wrong for that. I was denied marriage at a decent age where I had a job and good education. Ever since then I have stopped listening to anyone that's in my family. If you are an adult and can go independent, do it quickly. Also just do your prayer and ask for forgiveness from Allah. Unfortunately, our people only care about their ego, culture and whatever the devil tells them to do. It's disgusting.
@razamughal9095
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@@videogamesplanet6631 so what are you going to do about marriage?
@misssimmi2
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I find that absolutely unbelievable. We are in a day and age where it's almost impossible to get young girls or older girls to wear hijab and it's so hard as a parent. Here you are WANTING to wear hijab but your parents don't allow it! They are lucky to have a daughter like you who wants to be closer to Allah. Don't listen to them as you are in the world to please your Maker. Just politely tell them they are wrong and you have to listen to Allah's commands and please Him. May Allah give your parents hidayah and make it easy for you x
@storycharms
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Be patient dear sister, hold tight to your truth. Only Allah knows what's in your heart. Better times will come inchallah. ❤
@popscola2574
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Your family dont get a say. They arent gonna be in ur grave. They're not worried about ur akhirah so disregard them
MashAllah he explained it soo Amazingly❤
Plz hurryup ...send for youtube ...akhri mouja in urdu.
MashAllah best explained
So beautifully said
Mashallah Thank you, for eazy way explaining Quran to us. May Allah give you(Also all of us) more knowledge and wisdom. Ya Allah give us the wisdom and strength to represent Islam.
Jazak Allah
Shukrn kaseera❤the answer of my question 🤍....May Allah bless this sister😘
Waiting for full video ❤❤
جزاک اللہ
Jazakallah khair bhai
❤Allah save you every time, every day and every years❤
SubhanAllah. Jazakumullahu khayron Ustadh❤️. Rabbi yassir Sister who asked the Q🙏💐
@RenMarti21
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plz click on these hashtags #exmuslim_sahil #adamseeker #ahmadexmuslim
My favorite sir. 🇮🇳❤️
MashaAllah beautiful sister ❣️
Thank you so much
Jazakallah khair
Vegar is always a joy to watch
I feel u my dear sister. May Allah make it easy for and keep you steadfast on his path. تقبل الله منا و منكم
@RenMarti21
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plz click on these hashtags #exmuslim_sahil #adamseeker #ahmadexmuslim
Subhanallah kitni deeni ladki hai, meri pyari behen Allah apki madad kare or apke maa baap ko seedhe raaste par laa de
@hayabint-e-aslam4380
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jazakAllahu khair
@Unknownperson-ob7fu
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@@hayabint-e-aslam4380 may Allah bless you and always keeps you happy and gives you success in both worlds
@gautamdebnath4046
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@@Unknownperson-ob7fuBhai, last 50/60 years we hearing Allah help us , Allah help us but Allah no help Muslims, Allah helping Nasara Christian and Jews
@Unknownperson-ob7fu
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@@gautamdebnath4046 my brother these world is a test and Allah test those whom he loves the most, indeed the help of Allah is near, brother we have to be patient, we have to be steadfast to islam, we have to pray, read quran and ask Allah for help, be patience brother, may Allah bless you and gives you patience
You must always say the truth.
❤️🥀 LA ILAHA ILLALLAH MUHAMMADUR RASULULLLAH❤️🥀😊☺️😊 (There is no god but ALLAH. Hazat Muhammad sAw:message of Allah) ❤️
Commendable video😊😊😊
Masha Allah
How soothing the intro sound is 😅
Plz plz plz plz plz l crore time plz upload complete video.. plz we love you sir
May Allah SWT help us do just that amiinn
Ji. AllahoAkbar💓Ji. Beashaq💓 Ji. Alhamdulillah 💓🤗
Please come to HONGKONG Sir...
I am also facing the same problem...
@RenMarti21
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Jazak Allah Sir please english vedios main urdu subtitle bhi add kiya karain please Jazak Allah
Mostly Desi Mothers and females in family are following these weird culture that they learned from their parents and refuse to abandon them. Big Ego problems with them.
Listening him for the first time speaking urdu
💮 SubhanAllah 🌼 walAhumdullilahi 💮 wallahuAkbar 🌼 Allahumagfirli 💮 Allhumawaramni 🌼 warzukni 💮🌼
@RenMarti21
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I think the case varies from person to person, Some people don't feel like saying things again and again, because saying something even twice irritates them. And for children, it is obligatory also to respect their feelings.. also if things are going wrong way this way, one should stop saying and rest his/her case to Allah.. He is the caretaker for all things, He will make a way out one can't even imagine.
Subhan Allah
Assalam Alaikum sir I was listening to ur lecture and indeed it was a reminder and it was very gratifying it is a test of Allah Subhanwattalla inshallah be patient and Allah will guide them and be strong with iman with kushu and kadu Allah guide whom he will Sir I am affiliated with Icna and helping hand May Allah Subhanwattalla bless you and keep you in his protection and make dua for me and entire Muslim ummah ameen Barakallahee Feek
Bilkul 💯
I really Urdu language its amazing Even though I don't understand
Nouman sir please do more speeches in urdu and upload it, it would be very helpful to share with our loved ones who doesn't know english. May ALLAH SWT bless you in both worlds
@RenMarti21
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plz click on these hashtags #exmuslim_sahil #adamseeker #ahmadexmuslim
@yusufkhursheed1284
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@@RenMarti21 bruh they are the most dumbest peoples i have ever seen 😂😂, all they do is to spread hate.
@yusufkhursheed1284
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@@RenMarti21 bro get a life do some work in life these things won't help you in surviving 💀
@yusufkhursheed1284
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@@RenMarti21 bro get a life do some work in life these things won't help you in surviving 💀
Walden tabhi bhi nahi samjhty hai sir ... Jis Tara se Walden apne bacho k liye nek hidyat k liye dua karty hai .. usi tara wo bache bhi un k liye yahi dua karty hai .. Allah assan kare ye muskil ko or jo hum khety hai wo sahi hai un k liye wo bhi samjh aa jaye in ko to Allah ki badi mehrbani hogi .. 💗
MashaAllah
@RenMarti21
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Nice
Please doctor come to Algeria we really want to talk to you
SubhanAllah, Masha Allah Virtues of Darood Ibrahimi: “Indeed on the Day of Judgement, The one who reads more Durood upon me will be more closer to me”(Tirmidhi) “Whoever recites Durood upon me once, Allah grants him ten blessings, Forgive his ten sins, And raises his levels” (Nisaai-Sharif) Durood Ibrahim In Arabic: اللّٰہُمَ صَلِّ عَلٰی مُحَمَّدٍ وَّ عَلٰٓی اٰلِ مُحَّمَدٍکَمَا صَلَّیْتَ عَلٰٓی اِبْرٰھِیْمَ وَعَلٰٓی اٰلِ اِبْرٰہِیْمَ اِنَّکَ حَمِیْدٌ مَجِیْدٌ اللّٰہُمَ بَارِکْ عَلٰی مُحَمَّد ٍوَّ عَلٰٓی اٰلِ مُحَّمَدٍکَمَابَارَکْتَ عَلٰٓی اِبْرٰھِیْمَ وَعَلٰٓی اٰلِ اِبْرٰہِیْمَ اِنَّکَ حَمِیْدٌ مَجِیْدٌ Durood E Ibrahim In Roman English: Allahumma Salle ‘Alaa Muhammadinw Wa’Alaa Aali Muhammadin Kamaa Sallaeta ‘Alaa Ibraaheema Wa’Alaa Aaali Ibraaheema Innaka Hameedum Majeed. Allahumma Baarik ‘Alaa Muhammadinw Wa’Alaa Aali Muhammadin Kamaa Baarakta ‘Alaa Ibraaheema Wa’Alaa Aaali Ibraaheema Innaka Hameedum Majeed Durood E Ibrahim In English: “O Allah send peace on Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) and to the family of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) as you sent peace on Prophet Ibrahim (A.S) and the family of Prophet Ibrahim (A.S) Indeed, you are praiseworthy and glorious. O Allah, bless the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) and the family of Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) as you blessed Prophet Ibrahim (A.S) and the family of Prophet Ibrahim (A.S) Indeed, you are praiseworthy and glorious.” ..