She is now afraid bc she probably buried him without his people's consent and she can't face them now

You're a real man, Mr Mark. Joy, this is a God-given husband to be. May God make this transition easy for you guys to get married and live happily after. We're praying for you guys for everything to work out. You deserve it. Joy, you're in safe hands with this wonderful man. God keep you all.

@kentv3122

Ай бұрын

You're a great man indeed to try to form a bond with her. God grant you the grace to over come all the abstacles Mr Mark please don't be discouraged.

@kentv3122

Ай бұрын

Let Joy try to remember probably there was his father's close friend who could help her to locate her root. I strongly believe there is more to this, possibly she is not her biological mother.There something she doesn't want Joy to know which could probably open if she meets the kins men.

That woman must not be given the opportunity to destroy her daughter’s happiness?

JOY after you get married to this man, and you start having babies, REMEMBER THAT YOU SHOULD NOT CALL HER FOR OMUGWO... OTHERWISE SHE WILL JUST TAKE OVER YOUR HUSBAND AND DESTROY YOUR HOME. it's good to forgive but be Wise.... forgive but keep her very very far away from you o😮

@user-yo5pb7qy3r

2 ай бұрын

A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

this man is God sent to the woman ❤

Carlo Pikin, so far the girl knows her father's hometown, you people can help trace her father's kinsmen.

@NedumCharles

2 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly

Make sure u marry this lady, she is a wife material.

My dear Joy you know your surname your state and your village if you do go about to do your investigation to know where you come from forget these your mother of a person help your mother is evil, so please stay away from that your mother please run dear

My brother, stick to Joy and work out everything the best way ? Do not succumb to that woman’s evil devises?

Look for the town and village you will surely find her people

There’s something the mother is covering or does not want you to know about her that the kingsmen will reveal about her

Beautiful advice gentlemen. I pray .

Don, u,ve spoken perfectly well bro.

@devinjames8007

2 ай бұрын

I admire the team of donvelly and Roland. They are so good together.

God bless you and your marriage❤❤

Joy is matured enough to ignore her mother and travel home to search for her father's kinsmen and explain herself out of the mess her mother initiated. I salute your courage Mr Mark.

The man is a good guy. I prayed god should see them true.

Don DON DON, I respect your words of encouragement and thoughts to Mr. Mark. You never chew your words, you say it as it should be.. I heal you working with Roland. Carlo Pikin. May God continue to bless and protect you all Amen

Nice couple wishing you guys god’s blessings in the Relationship

Please trace her with the town 's name people will help pray well God will help us

Please help her trace her village through her surname and state

Carlo please why not get a pastor too , to hear what God is into this matter because I don't understand Joy's mother and what she's up to thank you and God continue to bless you and Don in Jesus name amen

Respect Sir. You could have taken advantage of Ms. Joy You gave her comfort and intimacy 😊

As long as Joy knows her family name and the state or village her father comes from, they can locate her father’s kinsmen. This is not hard at all. Joys mom is evil, I can’t imagine a mother doing this to her only child. Joy pls forgive her but love her from afar. Don’t ever let her come near your house before she takes over your man. If the woman collect the bride price that will be her doom I don’t think she knows that. Her problem is she’s not ready to face her husband’s family because of her atrocities. What a wicked woman! Joy’s fiancee, the Lord will bless you. The God that brought you together will sustain you. You are a rare gem. God bless you bro🙏🏾 I’m sure joy’s paternal grandmother must have warned her son not to marry that evil woman. Guys pls if you have a good mother, that is warning you against marrying someone, pls take heed because mothers has this intuition. May our children not marry their enemies as wife or husband🙏🏾

The woman has no right to collect the bride price. I think she hate the father and his family.

Ask the girl if she knew any of her fathers friends and you go on from there, I believe someone will connect you to somebody and something meaningful will definitely comes out from there

There must be a person who knows this woman and the family of her husband when he was alive. She is not going to change and will not change.

God bless man for doing the right thing to respect her, and honour your faith

The man and his family should meet joy family not her mother , i wish you both best wishes

She’s still unrepentant or remorseful of her wicked ways? My brother do not let her succeed in destroying Joys life?

The mother has evil intentions and delight in the downfall of her daughter.

She has no good intentions for Joy? And must not be allowed to get her way?

All I know is that, the woman is irresponsible and wants her daughter’s down fall?

I live in US but originally from Nigeria, Igbo to be precised. And I also understand how marriages work in igbos culture cos I got marriage in igbo land and also had our court/white wedding in the US. With that being said, I will suggest that both couple can go ahead and have the court wedding and continue with their family lives while they gradually resolve the issues on ground which is finding Joy's kinsmen and performing the traditional marital rites. As you can hear from what Mr Mark says that he will like to be legally married to Joy before having any intimate relationship with her, as his faith demands. So all I am suggesting is that you can still marry in court and move on with your wife while you wait for Joy's mom and family to come around and do the needful which I think might take a while.

That woman is in sane! UK

Joy l want to warn you to be careful and seek a man of God to be involve in your case because your mother will do everything to frustrate your happiness, start now before is late.

Joy please stay away from your mother she is not good to you watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲

Get the Father's family name they are known as in the village

SISTER KEEP AWAY FROM YOUR MUM. Do NOT invite her for OMUGWO.

Please help the lady to find her father family

Oga Roland and Oga don velly I trust you guys very much just try to bring peace between now the daughter and the mother even though she has her own part of the dowry as the mother but she has to leave the father's family to collect their own. My husband suffered for his children alone but when he died I called his family to come and collect for their father's.

I feel the church can be involved in this matter.Joy needs to know her roots . Mr Mark still be patient as the Church Carlo pikin and push to help Joy know her roots

God is in it all. He will perfect what He has started in the life of Joy.

Please help joy and her fiancé to put her name on the Facebook,social media ahead of will get her relatives.i am aslo praying for them to 🙏

Let Joy go to her dad's Family's. And talk to the dad's family by herself. She's the one that wants to do wedding. She suppose to go to her dad's family and her mother family to tell the family and invited them from their She should ask for the Marriage list. That is the best thing to do that will make her happy with her Fiance ❤️.

Whatever happens don’t leave joy

Why all these meetings in the city. This Joy says she was close to her dad. She should know her dad's name and family name and village. Instead if all the insults with her mom on social media why not go looking for a patensl linage.. Some narration are not clear here. If Afro-Americans go this far doing DNA to trace their steps back to Africa .. Does Joy want to say her father never told her his village or if he had family or not...😮😮😮😮😮 This husband to be seems confused. Please trace her dads village stop calling the mom out she has done and said her own ..

The way l see this man. Is a God fearing some. He didn't mind the back ground of his fiance. Ohh!. It's hard to see such person nowadays. This is , the way of Christ indeed. May God see br mark through ijn

This is a simple thing, you people should assist her locate her home town and village where she came from, as long the girl still know the name of her father the whole matter is settled

Don Velly thank you for your words

In Lagos every communitys in all the states in Eastern region of Nigeria has a monthly meeting places in Lagos. Joy, if you know the name of your town just investigate around Lagos you will discover where they usually have their monthly meeting go there and introduce yourself to them, they most recognize who your father was. And they will show you to your fathers direct family members, wishing you the best of luck.

Don't try it oga make sure you see joy kindred not the yeye mother

Go in search of Joy’s father’s relatives and find out exactly why Joy’s mum is avoiding them…..

The mother Kpai the hospital

Joy humble yourself before your mother whilst looking for help from her before you can marry, you can't fight with her when your hand still in her mouth, give her the respect she deserves. Your man should have done his homework longtime when he met Joy her mom threw her out u should have tried and settle some situation, but he refuse to do it because he found lady on the street, why u didn't try to make peace between them by then now you see the challenges now. Tell ur wife to be submit to her mom so that she can help her to marry. Carlos

@laraxtivi994

2 ай бұрын

The best comment ever. She needs to respect her mother no matter what so she can be respected by her own children in future.

Help them to look the family on the social media

well to cut to the chase, don't waste further time. Find and reach out to her father's family. Prepare to exclude her mother from the proceedings so that her shenanigans don't bring things to a halt. Afterwards, have a small court wedding and live your lives.

Joy go to the village you come from, your name can lead you to your family. Villages are small communities that relate each other and are well bonded. They can help you trace your father's people. Your surname is all that matters.

THANKS FOR D UPDATE BY THE WAY IS AN INTERESTING NEWS SO FAR SO GOOD 👍

You guys should go and meet joy mothers family from there you will na know joy fathers family ok

Pls, let's not forget the rules of marriage. Help her locate her kingsmen

Pursue till you overtake

Please Joy look for your father's relative and your husband should pay them the bride price.

That mother has a dirty secret. She's on the run for the death of her husband. Her time is up and she must face the music.

Please can you put this on social media she will get her relatives

SISTER, PRAY

Get her mother's relative and or friends to talk to her, Joy should forgive her mother and move on in life. God has replaced her late father with a loving husband.

THIS IS SHOULDN'T BE SOMETHING THAT WILL PUT JOYCE ON TORMENT AGAIN. GO BACK TO JOYCE BIRTH CERTIFICATE, HER FATHER DEATH YEAR, HER FATHER OR FAMILY FRIENDS, THE PLACE SHE WAS BORN AND FIND THE INFORMATION TO GO TO HER FATHER'S VILLAGE. PEOPLE THERE WILL KNOW THAT NOTHING IS JOYCE FAULT. FORGET ABOUT THE MOTHER, SHE IS EVIL. 💔💔💔

For me the can proceed to do court marriage maybe later the mom will understand .

If u know the name of the village the late man come from , why not get his photo and go there to do a back ground check also

If your mother still refuses to show you your father family sue her to court. At least you have proof already through this KZread program

If the lady knows her father’s home town, family or any close uncle or relative, you should approach them first before you hood further talks with her mother. Marriages in Africa, especially in Nigeria is between 2 families. No mother is allowed to can give her daughter away in marriage without the consent of her the bride’s father, family, relatives etc Such a marriage will not recognised in most traditional African circles….

I believe with the father's name and village you can easily trace the family. I don't believe Joy's mum. My firm believe is that Joy's mum has committed so much and you know the kinsmen will find out what killed their son and the mum will not leave the village without confessing to her sins. Please go ahead and trace Joy's father's family.

Please let her tell you the little she knows about her father. Father's full name, State, LGA, village name and if she knows the main family they know them in the village you can search for them. Put the mother aside. Also, if possible she can go back home to her mum and pretend to be sorry but her mission is to get some of her father documents and pictures that may be lead.

@user-gc9mg4ht6i

2 ай бұрын

On point

How does that or wish country they do this ifeven in obodooyinbo it can happen in that way

Young man u confessed that u met Joy on z Street & u r deeply in love wit her Do u see RED FLASHES IN U R LOE ENDEAVOURSM

Why can't you go on with the marriage and keep searching for the relatives;which you will discover one day.

The daughter should get her mother arrested I believe that after spending some day in the police station she will now tell her daughter who they family members is and how to located them

Go and do court marriage and move on with your life. If you really love her. Love supersede everything in this life. Don't let tradition to truncate your love.

Finally, if the situation remains the same with her mother, I think that the next thing to do is to approach the welfare department of the local government of where her mother lives or where this husband to be lives. If the woman remains the same, that welfare can fill the gap of her family and marry her out as her family. Alternatively, any man or her pastor can stand in the gap as her father or family to take care of her marriage (&) or you guys (Carlo & Don & team) can make out time & enquire on how people from orphanage homes marry & let her marry the same way. The essence of my suggestion is that this marriage proposal needs to be accomplished & must be carried out & completely undertaken. This good daughter of a bad mother should not be allowed to be disappointed by her lovely man due her mother’s misdemeanour.

You guys are dealing with a mad woman.. you need to turn and get mad too to match her.

The mother wants to detach her daughter completely from her father's kinsmen because of her past misdeeds. After everything she will want to ride the daughter and she son inlaw. By that time she will be asking for forgiveness