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My kid hates learning

When our kids resist (or downright reject) learning from us, it can be incredibly frustrating. I have 5 tips that will move you from frustration to your child's #1 teacher.
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Video Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:12 Tip 1 - Interesting lessons
02:46 Tip 2 - Routine
04:32 Tip 3 - Teaching well
07:40 Tip 4 - Behavior
10:42 Tip 5 - Screens
13:46 Takeaways

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  • @sandramason4672
    @sandramason46722 ай бұрын

    Again, you have "hit the nail on the head" 100%. Well done for saying it like it is. Some parents find it difficult to know what to do with their little ones when they are very strong willed and need some guidance. You will not crush your child's emotional intelligence by not letting them get into negative behaviours.

  • @limiwa
    @limiwaАй бұрын

    Love this! Thanks for the tips. When I decided to teach my 3 year old son his letter sounds I set up opportunities for learning throughout the house: magnetic letters on the fridge, foam letters in the bath tub, games/puzzles in the living room, flashcards on the table, electronic toys that say the letter sound for car rides. I thought I would just focus on a few letters at a time, but I ended up following his lead, no pressure. In just a couple weeks he had learned all the sounds. I would play games like "swat the sound" to get a better idea of what he knew. I was surprised that other than maybe 3 or 4 sounds he had them all down. As he gets older I'll definitely move into a more structured routine. For now, it's working and I'm impressed with how quickly he's picked it up.

  • @shez5964
    @shez5964Ай бұрын

    Step 4 reminded me of advice from a well known child and family psychologist who says that one very vital skill parents need is the ability to be comfortable with their child SOMETIMES being uncomfortable.

  • @NovasYouTubeName

    @NovasYouTubeName

    23 күн бұрын

    Thanks for this that’s so gooood and I always need that reminder

  • @shannonlancaster
    @shannonlancaster2 ай бұрын

    There is not a moment of this video that isn't worth watching. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and for not sugar coating anything.

  • @NovasYouTubeName

    @NovasYouTubeName

    22 күн бұрын

    I 100% agree. Every moment is gold!!

  • @MagretYankey
    @MagretYankey15 күн бұрын

    I am in tears. All these years I wasn't doing things right. My boy is 2yrs 10 months old but I think this lesson can help me help him. Thanks a lot

  • @vivibelswoopy
    @vivibelswoopy2 ай бұрын

    You’re amazing!!! Thanks for your tips. As a homeschool mom I’m going to be using more fun activities.

  • @melissadavis4981
    @melissadavis49812 ай бұрын

    Yesssss!!!! Calling it like it is was what I needed to hear thank you sir 🙏🙌❤ My daughter is doing fantastic with reading and other schoolwork but I feel like in other aspects of the day she could learn to hear "no" more and follow up with my threats more often. Also with the screen time, yesss! She gets very inconsistent rules with screen time unfortunately we aren't the best with following our own rule. It's terrible on us. She doesn't get a lot of screen time (maybe around 2-4 hours to watch a movie or 2) it's usually at the end of the day with dad if he's had a long work day while I go to work. Also, as I mentioned before on another video, she does really well with the Reading Eggs app and I think it helps that it's not so fast paced... it's pretty slowed down and she sometimes gets annoying with how they force her to listen lol But I know we can take this advice and change up some things.

  • @lowiep.9258
    @lowiep.9258Ай бұрын

    Amazing!! Simple yet brilliant advice! Changing the world one child at a time. ❤

  • @JoyEkpata
    @JoyEkpata2 ай бұрын

    This is one of the best videos I have ever watched on child's learning. Thank you Spencer.

  • @Gavivi87
    @Gavivi872 ай бұрын

    Brilliant. Simply brilliant.

  • @NovasYouTubeName
    @NovasYouTubeName22 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your straight up honesty, reality check, and fantastic instruction for us instructors. In my 9th year of homeschooling my kids and this is super helpful. (I’m always learning better ways to do what I do!)

  • @sisterstaciess2614
    @sisterstaciess26142 ай бұрын

    The work is worth the reward. Thank you!

  • @TheScg712
    @TheScg7122 ай бұрын

    This is sound information. Thank you Spencer for making this simple, clear and straight up for me to give my child the gift of confidence of their true competence.

  • @toddlerscanread

    @toddlerscanread

    2 ай бұрын

    You’re welcome!

  • @RatedBamaTV
    @RatedBamaTV2 ай бұрын

    I found your channel 2 days ago. No disappointment! I love it!!!

  • @toddlerscanread

    @toddlerscanread

    2 ай бұрын

    Welcome! Thanks for the kind words!

  • @carenlzarate8603
    @carenlzarate86032 ай бұрын

    My daughter with moderate Autism struggles alot with trying to read , doesn't like writing, I want her to understand she needs this skills , she obviously doesn't know how important this is for her life..

  • @LifesTeaLeaves

    @LifesTeaLeaves

    24 күн бұрын

    I'm right there with you mommy 💓 🌺 we'll get there

  • @fonguevalerienkangotmirabe497
    @fonguevalerienkangotmirabe497Ай бұрын

    My 9 years old child still finds it difficult to read and write well. I would please like to have some tips and strategies to help him read, write and reten

  • @lakeviagoode-barber8041
    @lakeviagoode-barber804114 күн бұрын

    I need this video, we're about to start the Homeschool year off and I'm almost dreading it. This video has given me a much better understanding of what I'm doing wrong, but also how to correct it. Thank you!

  • @kcweepy
    @kcweepyАй бұрын

    My son who is gifted and already knows a lot said the reason why a certain teacher was his favorite (I asked him out of all teachers he’s ever had which one is favorite). was because every single day he learned something from her. Kids WANT to learn. They like teachers who push them and expect a lot. It’s more rewarding for them than a lazy teacher and a lazy classroom.

  • @lisashirtz7224
    @lisashirtz72242 ай бұрын

    Thank you. Good points. Good luck with changing the world. I support you.

  • @MegaDianaflores
    @MegaDianaflores28 күн бұрын

    I've been doing all of these, so it's no wonder my 4-year-old is giving me a lot of pushback. Deep down, I knew I was doing it wrong, which is why I subscribed to your videos. I ordered your cards and I am looking forward to learning from you. I love reading, and I want to be able to share this hobby with my son since my husband is not into reading books. I also ordered hooked-up phones, but my son did not appear to care for them, and the material came in too fast for me-it was new material every month. My husband and I are full-time working parents, so your methods and tips are the best for our family.

  • @MnqTrader
    @MnqTrader2 ай бұрын

    Great video! Thanks for these tips. Have a great weekend 👍

  • @emperatrizayala3095
    @emperatrizayala309515 күн бұрын

    Great job! You are an amazing teacher! You are speaking with the truth! Thank you 🙏 🤝🤝🤝

  • @abdullahaliyuw
    @abdullahaliyuwАй бұрын

    Thank you very much for your wonderful advice. Your efforts are beneficial to us beyond your imagination.

  • @Msstarstruck12
    @Msstarstruck122 ай бұрын

    I love your videos and will be implementing these tips. Both my kids learned the sounds quite organically, then they learned to blend sounds and read cvc words using balloons. My issue is the routine part. That is truly the hardest part for me. My son wants to learn and so does my daughter, they ask to do it ( but it’s when THEY want) so it doesn’t work for me. We also just came back from vacation and the first couple of times I tried to do learning time my son says “ugh I hope it’s not long” and that bothers me.

  • @dennesesandy786
    @dennesesandy7862 ай бұрын

    Love your vids. Problem is, in the classroom at school there is no games or activities. How then do I move forward. It's setting them up when the classroom is boring, so the teacher has a difficult time teaching the student who is used to learning through fun.

  • @adaywithasinglemom
    @adaywithasinglemom16 сағат бұрын

    Great Video! Thanks for these tips.❤

  • @falaqrahman5046
    @falaqrahman5046Ай бұрын

    Finally, i got someone related to kids learning, whom i can trust..😊 and recently i started my youtube channel also

  • @JustaCuriousity
    @JustaCuriousity14 күн бұрын

    12:37 its so true. Im trying to get rid of tablets now. If my kid wants yo watch youtube on tv or tablet, i ll bring him out for a walk or anything he wants except screen. Thank you for reminding.

  • @sharonangela498
    @sharonangela4982 ай бұрын

    Brilliant!! Love it!! Thank you!!🥳❤

  • @tanyahendricks7907
    @tanyahendricks79072 ай бұрын

    Love this. Every point is so true.

  • @phelokazimelitafa7242
    @phelokazimelitafa7242Ай бұрын

    Wow , Thank you so much 🎉🎉🎉very helpful

  • @sidrasaadat8155
    @sidrasaadat815511 күн бұрын

    This is genius! Love you insight

  • @darhonnazirovdarhon8655
    @darhonnazirovdarhon86552 күн бұрын

    Bro, thank you a lot for your brilliant guide🏁🏁🏁👍👍👍👍👍

  • @h.malik.s
    @h.malik.s2 ай бұрын

    Amazing advice

  • @BubuCabrera
    @BubuCabrera7 күн бұрын

    Thank u do much

  • @gingerhughes9707
    @gingerhughes97072 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!!!!!

  • @Joannettalove22
    @Joannettalove222 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @toddlerscanread

    @toddlerscanread

    2 ай бұрын

    You’re welcome!

  • @Binns2003
    @Binns20032 ай бұрын

    Any suggestions. Granddaughter loves playing in the water. Any form sprinkler bathing swimming pool

  • @srayec.7741
    @srayec.774120 күн бұрын

    I bet!

  • @ashleyirizarry-diaz6415
    @ashleyirizarry-diaz6415Ай бұрын

    Wow best video iv seen in a while thank you!

  • @savingswithslym
    @savingswithslymАй бұрын

    All facts💯

  • @fastpitchmermaid4550
    @fastpitchmermaid4550Ай бұрын

    What amount of screen time is appropriate

  • @naomimioanee5358
    @naomimioanee5358Ай бұрын

    Hello sir yesterday i saw one of your other video and its just what i needed so i wanted to thank you Sir this time i have a question if you dont mind me asking cuz i wanted to change and help my son to love learning and to listen Step 4 what you think i should do if he keeps saying no if i ask him to do something

  • @Primavera1111
    @Primavera11112 ай бұрын

    HOW TO FIX those other 23h and 55min for stubborn kids?

  • @hopeandprayers
    @hopeandprayers2 ай бұрын

    Amazing video

  • @fatimaullah5529
    @fatimaullah55292 ай бұрын

    🙂🙏

  • @user-xr3xe8bm5f
    @user-xr3xe8bm5f2 ай бұрын

    How do we reach you

  • @toddlerscanread

    @toddlerscanread

    2 ай бұрын

    You can DM me on IG or check out my free workshop for more info! www.toddlersread.com/free-workshop

  • @786sara2
    @786sara26 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤ tax

  • @misseveville9806
    @misseveville98062 ай бұрын

    I'm curious why a mental disability wasn't considered. They could be dyslexic and its just not clicking for them. Follow up with your pediatrician and get your child evaluated.

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