It raises a red flag for me when the caller speaks so vague.

The guy is buying his way out. It must be really bad, I don't blame him

@MillieonaVespa

4 жыл бұрын

edgar4531 neither do I .... he really wants a clean break away from this lady ..

@riverdaletales8457

3 жыл бұрын

This is why you don't get married .

@xyzsame4081

3 жыл бұрын

@@kjsfl386 Nope - he had a lot of time to learn all about the flaws of the soon to be ex wife. He has a new model. There are plenty of women that would try to get a man with good income and he has a chance to get a younger model that way.

@bettywith2girls

3 жыл бұрын

​@@xyzsame4081 Exactly! He's replacing her with a newer model. This might be a good thing, tho, for her if the children are all grown. Usually the atmosphere at home isn't the best (you can almost always tell if he is seeing someone else by how he treats you) so maybe it's better to cash out, live by yourself (do what you want) or get another one who treats you better.

She doesnt sound sober-minded. Something isnt adding up with her.. I would love to hear his side of the story.

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My friend's wife of 12 yrs filed for divorce after 3 months at a new job. She feel in love with someone at her new job. Now he is super depressed cause he is the one who got her the interview for it.

@candyluna2929

8 жыл бұрын

that's messed up

@valdomero738

8 жыл бұрын

holy cow

@mverma7845

5 жыл бұрын

That is messed up, he should get her fired now

@HurricaneGaming509

5 жыл бұрын

Can't trust these hoes

@priyabhagat2707

3 жыл бұрын

Bro Best Advice My Father left me 440000$ in Property that brings 2k evermonth I am Married an before that I transfer that to moms name at the end She left me before r marrage

Sounds to me like he really wants to get away from her

Stop relying on these men get your own

@Ed-gs9xh

5 жыл бұрын

Vanessa the Urban Tarot Goddess.... I appreciate your response. It's odd that you didn't get any likes tho. I totally agree with you. If women focused more on there career than trying to be married, things would maybe work out a little bit more smoothly because she has a income.

Chances are good that this woman was the problem in the marriage and the man is trying to get her out of his life completely by making that offer.

@TheQuickyouknow

8 жыл бұрын

Agreed, no guy willing gives up that much money to get out of a marriage without a reason.

@Smileyyy21

8 жыл бұрын

Or he has someone else.

@TheQuickyouknow

8 жыл бұрын

Smileyyy21 If he had someone else the ex wife would probably know. This man is paying for his sanity.

@janebaker4912

7 жыл бұрын

BS!!! he's just having a pathetic mid life crisis and found a younger idiot

@YouArentSlick

7 жыл бұрын

Dremin2009 the fact that she has a male "friend" helping her out with this divorce process kind of raised my eyebrows.

Took me less than 50 seconds into this video to figure out she was manipulative.

@horacevu

4 жыл бұрын

same! Something about her voice, she sounds innocent but I can hear the stern and evilness in her voice. She's the type of women to who fake cry and plays victim. Good on the guy for running while he still can.

@Sombra_Azul_

4 жыл бұрын

@Andrew H "straight business" XD

@riverdaletales8457

3 жыл бұрын

This is why you don't get married kids !

@Surfer041

3 жыл бұрын

She deserves nothing.

@bettywith2girls

3 жыл бұрын

Oh Lord...give me a break!

BMW has the audacity to run an ad before I watch Dave Ramsey. Stay strong my dudes, we can change our family tree!

Living off a check from an ex only keeps you emotionally embroiled in a marriage that is now over.

@JasonfromMinnesota

8 жыл бұрын

+laurel jade yes it is almost as bad a gov assistance

@sarrahconley3923

8 жыл бұрын

+pjgumby lol I agree. take it all.

@laureljade3476

8 жыл бұрын

pjgumby this is dripping with resentment. take the lump sum (if you're going to be a money grubber),and get a new one. Alimony is fine you still plan on doing his grocery shopping indefinitely,. no one owes you a dime. I can't take women who say they are feminists yet demand alimony seriously. No one is forcing a woman to be kept. This is the 21st century

@onwednesdayswewearpink2761

5 жыл бұрын

Dave's advice was good advice. If all things are relatively equal take the money and let him go be with his girlfriend

@laureljade3476

5 жыл бұрын

a man who marries a mistress creates a job opening.

I love how she complains that she will have to pay the upkeep that she gets in the divorce.

Imagine you are splitting with your wife and you hear her call this show to get advice on getting your savings.

@cg741graf5

4 жыл бұрын

shino475 don’t cheat, raid accounts, or run dumb into middle age and a call wouldn’t be needed.

Everyone is calling her greedy, but it sounds like he made plans with her to downsize her business, for them to sell the CT house, and move to FL for lower cost of living. THEN served her with divorce papers. When you pull something like that, you SHOULD lose more.

you have a house worth $250k and money take it.

She when from crying to understanding real quick when the numbers get discussed.

@michaelmarquez6133

3 жыл бұрын

I heard her drooling through the phone haha

@stephaniemchh6476

3 жыл бұрын

@@michaelmarquez6133 +1 914 228 2041

@bettywith2girls

3 жыл бұрын

She was obviously crying from the start of the conversation. Give me a break.

Alimony was from a time when women couldn't work and make money like they can today and when they did need it but today is different and should be case by case if it's 100 that she can't support herself then yes if not no

Dave never asked this woman how much money she earns. Yet again, women are not expected to act like grown up adults and take care of themselves.

She should move to Fl and sell the house in CT. That way, she does not pay state and federal income tax on her settlement money.

@juju10683

7 жыл бұрын

sounds like the divorce started in Connecticut. I think CT rules would apply.

@VGAppSolutions

4 жыл бұрын

you have to pay income tax on a divorce settlement? Doesn't that mean income tax has been paid TWICE on that sum?

If she signs up for alimony, she risks her ex stopping the payments at any time. My friend whose husband walked out on a long-time marriage for another woman kept stiffing my friend on the alimony, forcing her to take him to court endlessly until she had no money to fight. I agree with Dave. Take the lump sum.

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

If no kids, then why any alimony?? Alimony is legalized slavery. Why can't you both part with what you had before the marriage? Alimony is childcare for adults. It is 2020 for crying out loud.

Dave gave great advice but didn't answers Susan's main question. What should she do with the money? If she got $200,000 free and clear, where should that money be placed to make more money?

So sad. she is devastated. but she can live again. She just has to go out and get a new life.

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

"A new life" on the back of the ex-husband. Right?

Marriage is betting someone 50% of your stuff that you'll love them forever.

@annc5442

5 жыл бұрын

littlemarcus15 or that they’ll love you forever... :/

@annc5442

5 жыл бұрын

ABC2018 huh? I said marriage doesn’t guarantee that your husband/wife will love you forever. I personally don’t care to get married. I have my own engineering degree, I have my own dog, and I already went through the whole “he met some other girl and decided he didn’t love me anymore”, so actually I don’t really ever want to get married and I’m not sure what you’re referring to.

@minastirith997

5 жыл бұрын

prenup is an insurance for that bet

@lisavaden9903

5 жыл бұрын

@ABC2018 WHY??

@zoolookers

5 жыл бұрын

No it's not. If you work and your wife is stay at home a women deserves half. It takes two to tango

A lot of people here are snarling that she is getting payment/alimony but the guy has taken large sums out their joint money in order to pursue various business ventures so it is actually unknown if she is making anything extra overall in the long run. Not all the facts are available

Taxes in CT are crazy high. He’s buying you out and leaving you with the expensive bits, and moving to a more affordable life in FL.

So she's calling Dave instead of calling a good lawyer?

In Connecticut that women is about to be paid, after twenty years of marriage in CT you get paid alimony for life.

I think she is so overwhelmed that she is completely unable to think straight. She needs someone to walk her through this. When someone is being that generous in a divorce, the hair stands up on the back of my neck.

@stephaniemchh6476

3 жыл бұрын

+1 914 228 2041

If you own a business, why do you need alimony or medical from your EX?

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

Anyone can claim to "own a business".....um, actually making a regular profit, to pay the bills, is another story. I'm guessing it is more of a "hobby", supported by her husband, and his employer provided Healthcare.

It’s a good thing Dave isn’t a judge cause he is so against men in almost every situation it’s ridiculous I guess he thinks that after a divorce the man should just sign his paycheck over to the ex wife and the man be homeless

@deborahmeek6529

5 жыл бұрын

Gary Mcelhaney he just is a true believer in marriage like me, one marriage, that’s all you need having multiple marriages is kinda gross

@Ed-gs9xh

5 жыл бұрын

PREACH....

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

Marriage is a State thing and needs to be redefined. “Marriage”, aka signing the Government contract, has been dying for years. Family courts are so biased toward females, that males are avoiding the official contract. Have the religious ceremony of your choice, share your life with someone, but never get the Government involved.

@AlfieTank

4 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure Jesus himself did say there is ONE way to end a marriage and thats infidelity. Which is top 3 Reasons for Divorce today. 80% is usually initiated by women because by law The man(Primary bread winner) Pays for Both peoples Lawyers regardless of whos at fault 🤷🏿‍♂️

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

Alfie Tank Thank you for bringing your hobby, I mean Religion, in to the discussion.

She’s getting $350k of his money, what is her problem?!

@HurricaneGaming509

5 жыл бұрын

It's not enough. Give them an inch and they'll want a mile

@TomiaMacQueen

5 жыл бұрын

It's not his money, they are married FOR 21 YEARS it's their money. That's the problem. She should already know exactly what they have. It's a partnership, split it 50/50 and get on with your life. Want a clean break then open all the drawers, liquidate, do the math, split it accounting for ongoing benefits to both people and get on with your life.

@HurricaneGaming509

5 жыл бұрын

@@TomiaMacQueen What did she do to earn it exactly? It's his money. He earned it.

@Ed-gs9xh

5 жыл бұрын

He's setting her up nicely. A place to live that's paid off and 150,000. What more do you want women?? Come on dude..... that's greedy. He cared enough for you to make that offer and you STILL want to weigh your odd?? GREEDY

@FrigidWhisper

4 жыл бұрын

@@TomiaMacQueen He is giving her more than half! The house, 401k, IRA, etc.

I’ve been in a marriage where I would have given her everything and started over with nothing just to get away. Sounds like that’s what this is

Ngyuenxuan Mai Yes, sadly when people date someone exclusively, with the intention of marrying them at some point, too often, attraction is the main emphasis, so neither focuses on the very important matter of having complementary outlooks on things like morality, family, handling finances, etc.

Alimony... One reason why I'm not married. No man who makes 100K or more should get married if they aren't already. And always get a prenuptial agreement

@kevsip1002

7 жыл бұрын

Pre-nups are no longer enforceable in most states. Judges just overturn them. Just DON'T get married. MGTOW!! What do women bring to the table....except for.....?

@jenniferlazyfoot9044

7 жыл бұрын

+Kev Sip we bring....

@jenniferlazyfoot9044

7 жыл бұрын

+Kev Sip lol

@FunnyFlirtTalks

7 жыл бұрын

Kev Sip what if you want to have kids ?

@cocodakilla

6 жыл бұрын

Most women wont take money. Just dont cheat or abuse women simple. And dont shun a woman who is great and go for stupid things such as looks or whatever. Mgtow is as bad as radical feminism

She sounds like she's trying to take all of it, the usual...

Divorce means all bets off. Ties are severed. There's no more hold nor responsibility to one another. Unless kids are involved.

Sounds like she is going to be good financially. I think she just doesn't want to get a divorce. I dont know if that was the best advice on this one.

I'll never get married

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

Repeat that every. Single. Day.

@Sombra_Azul_

4 жыл бұрын

@@Eaglejake Cheers!

I would take the 200k in a lump sum; part of a loaf is better than nothing, just get the bread now!!!

Is her "really good friend" the reason why her husband served her divorce papers?

@naomimay82

4 жыл бұрын

Jason Jones You gotta wonder........... 😳

I'm not giving away my 401K. That's money I saved

@mohdkamil2596

7 жыл бұрын

ominous450 Right on man!!! You will never give ur 401K to the govt nor to ur ex-wife.....defend it

@dailytimes6787

7 жыл бұрын

Then don't serve your wife divorce papers

@tclearinghouse

6 жыл бұрын

Or even better, don't bother getting married to a gold-digger

@lovethefeelingofspring5973

6 жыл бұрын

Thad Clearinghouse or better yet don’t cheat on your wife of 21 years s

@lisavaden9903

5 жыл бұрын

Why not.. he the one WANTING the divorce!!!

Yyyyep.. Never getting married..

@suzycreamcheesez4371

5 жыл бұрын

so don't! problem solved!!

@HurricaneGaming509

5 жыл бұрын

@A. Banana Why exactly is he giving her money for leaving her? That's extortion. This is 2019, women can have any job they want if they work for it. Explain to me what the purpose of alimony is.

@ChooseU4ever

5 жыл бұрын

Atlanta guy marriage is a trap

@clarkclarke

5 жыл бұрын

@@ChooseU4ever And what is the problem????

@veggiegal9095

5 жыл бұрын

Hurricane Gaming Often in a long-term marriage the woman (let’s face it usually it is the woman) has delayed her own career or taken a less rigorous track in order to raise the children of the marriage. This has a profound affect on her personal income earning ability. There is a reason that states grant alimony because the lower earning person always has sacrificed in other ways. For example I was a registered nurse but had to stay home to take care of my premature children and my career many years later would’ve been completely different with a much higher earning potential. Just because somebody is not earning a paycheck does not mean they are not contributing in a very meaningful fashion to the family unit.

So sad!! Poor lady, as much as it is teamwork shows you at the end of the day you need to have your own savings and always keep your on work/career up! Never depend on anyone!! Not even your spouse.

@baseline6786

7 жыл бұрын

Golden Wizard women love to say they are independent. they are strong. but they do ride their mans coat tails.. and they jump off as soon as you stop giving or if life doesn't go exactly their way.

@Ktspitfire007

7 жыл бұрын

Base line it's kind of ignorant to lump all women together don't you think?

@cocodakilla

6 жыл бұрын

Base line maybe men shouldnt cheat?? He wasted her time when she could have worked yet pushed her to staying at home

@reginasemenenko148

5 ай бұрын

​@@Ktspitfire007Some people just hate women.

I get it --He is done..

Great advice Dave... Have your own life!

"really good friend will be my attorney.." is she sleeping with him?

@amandah3205

6 жыл бұрын

apope06 really good friend setting up meeting for attorney

@pblcllc1623

6 жыл бұрын

apope06 yep

@chrysichrysi7889

5 жыл бұрын

So you sleep with all of your good friends? Wow.

She owns her own business, he makes just $100,000, she gets $200,00 more than husband in the settlement, and she wants more? Alimony? That is for stay at home wives, not business owners. Put on your big girl pants and go to work.

Alimony is a joke.

@cg741graf5

4 жыл бұрын

Rob L not if the one spouse is not working to raise the kids, run the house, and is the support for the working spouse. If the couple has an agreement then that’s the deal.

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

@@cg741graf5 Ridiculous comes to mind. "Raise the kids"? It is 2020. Both "raise the kids". All working females I know (career oriented) have the child and are back in the workforce 3-9 months later. This staying home to "run the house" is an excuse not to work (deal with work stress, actually performing, dealing with a Boss, co-workers, commuting, etc.). Everyone cooks, cleans, shops, pays bills electronically, takes the kids to school, picks them up, etc. What a deal! Stay home with the kiddies, bond with them, at age 5 you get a break 8 hours a day. What a deal! Then after you get bored, and file for divorce, you can put your spouse in to slavery (aka alimony) by raising the "I raised the kids" flag. Great deal on the front end and the back end as you can take "early retirement" after having a child or two. I want in!!! Sign me up for this deal!!! SMH.

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

Legalized slavery. Child care for an adult.

It sounds like she might be drinking or maybe it’s just her emotional state.

The motivation for him-she sounds like a pain and he wants out.

Marriage isn't the problem. The people are. Men, marrying the wrong woman costs you just like hooking up with the wrong man costs us women. Everybody pays for a bad decision of the heart. Men with your wallets and women with our hearts. Either way, it is a deep scarring pain that does not go away very quickly. Stop blaming marriage. Marriage is the institution. It is the two in the covenant that determine whether it is good lifelong or ends with a bitter taste. Before you say "I do", make sure they are the right one. "Well, how will I know if they're the right one? There's no possible way you can know that!" Yes, there is. "If someone shows you who they are, believe them"-Maya Angelou. People show you who they are through their actions and behavior and habits. People can talk a good game but what they do, in and outside of your presence, is consistent with what and who you are truly dealing with. That is the person you are dating, that is the person you are marrying, that is the person you are married to. I believe in marriage. I'm still getting married. My marriage is not ending in divorce or being offed by some greedy no-good. "How do you know? You think you know everything!" Because I said so and I'm making sure that we are both on the same page, have the same goals and ideals about our marriage and money BEFORE we get to the alter. That's how you know. Protect yourself BEFORE making any big decision and marriage is definitely a BIG decision.

Yes people some women can push men to ask for a divorce even after 21years. Some women do things that impact the relationship in different or similar ways as men. Unless we hear his side of the story, we can all assume he is Trying to Run As far away as possible.

Hire a lawyer. Doesn’t work this way in Connecticut.

I'm just wondering if she plans to do his grocery shopping AFTER the divorce.

sets them both back. at least, with the money she gets she can live (without working) while receiving a 4yr degree, and begin working well to support herself from there. just have to pull yourself up by your bootstraps. sounds like a decent deal to me. i didn't have health insurance when I was in college. i worked 20-30hrs week for the first 2 years (chose community college to save money), then, had 3 paying summer internships while at a university before graduating. she can do it. we all can.

There’s more to the story than we actually know ?? stay tuned!!

they don't seem to have built much wealth for a 100k income in 21years my guess is he is making 100k right now but wont be forever just take the 200k extra now because if you hold out for alimony it wont last more than 3 years before he falls apart. if future alimony was worth more than 200k he would have built more wealth than that.

3 sides to every story

Take it and move on. Money now is worth more than money later.

@Sombra_Azul_

4 жыл бұрын

Qué?

lol that dude is hiding money and another woman.

@HurricaneGaming509

5 жыл бұрын

You're assuming

@Sombra_Azul_

4 жыл бұрын

@@HurricaneGaming509 And I'm praying...

@lavinder11

3 жыл бұрын

@C C the courts are not against "men like Dave." Awards are granted automatically due to men not showing up for their hearings. Look at the stats.

I wanna hear from the guy. Why the heck do these guys get married?!?

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

All Females, and some males, are conditioned from birth for the goal of "Getting Married". Our culture endorses it, and and encourages it. Marriage in 2020 needs to be redefined.

@RKmndo

4 жыл бұрын

I got married because I'm a bit of a traditionalist. I wanted a FAMILY. I didn't really have one growing up, as my folks split up when I was 2. If you're not a traditionalist, I don't recommend getting/being married in a westernized country. You may marry a good woman, but her feminazi friends and the bias in family courts can turn her, especially if the narcissists or sociopaths at work see you being too happy with your life and destroy your career. Don't live in a common-law state with a woman either. Some women can be trusted, but the system can't. Until the system is repaired, only get/be married in a non-western country. Learn from the mistakes of other men.

It could be that they guy is just finished with all of it and wants out.

You can tell by the way she talks about how he emptied their savings several times that she was never really behind him in his business efforts.

@waypay1

5 жыл бұрын

Sounds to me like he's a dreamer who blows through their savings on his bad ideas. 🙄

@mycustomizedlife6992

4 жыл бұрын

How could he blow through the savings and still pay her out in a divorce while also having a 6 figure salary? That means he didn't blow through anything. She said they have 2 houses..doesn't sound like they're hurting for money

wow If he's offering his 401k up front he really wants out. I would never give that up. he's being reasonable let that man be happy.

@onwednesdayswewearpink2761

5 жыл бұрын

OMG why can't anybody else besides me and Dave see it. He has a girlfriend! He needs to get out quick to keep his new love happy

@dr.dermixgirlmd7479

5 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Barrett- oh I see it too. The new woman wants him OUT free and clear, with no ongoing alimony tying him to his ex wife. No man gives up all of that so easily (401K, IRA, and the paid for CT home) unless as Dave said, he’s buying his freedom to be with someone else and go live happily ever after in that Florida house.

I’d just take the offer & let him be happy with the other woman because it’s clear that’s what it is

@HurricaneGaming509

5 жыл бұрын

We both know you're actually way more petty and messy than that. You would drag the divorce and run him for all he got.

$151,000 and having a paid $200,000 house is very manageable to get your life back together, the big thing to do is to stop and stay in that house, you have it, it's paid off and try to grab back these people you cut connections with, even if you have to lose a little in the deals, that way you can rebuild the connections and such.

She sounds more concerned about deciding which offer to take than being heartbroken.....am I the only one who hears that...

In Connecticut Maintenance Payment $2,500.00 a month. A good divorce lawyer in CT will cost $40+. I'd hold out for $500K lump sum. Honey, should always have an emergency fund hidden away. Many fortunes have been lost because somebody had "a good friend"

Guys this is a good advertisement to never get married, never let her move in with you or you with her, keep her at arms length so to speak

her husband probably turned a homosexual and didn't want to tell her.

Alimony should be short term..5 yr max

@TerryOnDemand

5 жыл бұрын

You're being generous. I'd say 2 years TOPS! If a person cant get themselves to self sufficiency in 2years --They are a free loader🤷‍♀️

@HurricaneGaming509

5 жыл бұрын

@@TerryOnDemand Big facts. Makes no sense to be enslaved by someone you're no longer with. Plus we're in 2019. Women can get any job they want if they qualify and work for it.

@ALEXFVHS

4 жыл бұрын

Florida is alimony for life state

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

If no children, then there should be no alimony. Alimony is legalized slavery. Too many woman "take the pack off" after marriage. Maintain your career. Excel at your career. More than half of marriages fail. Plan for the worst. Hope for the best.

We don’t have alimony in Australia. Not sure why an ex needs to pay for this woman’s future.

@Jie-rz2hf

4 жыл бұрын

We do have 'spousal maintenance' however it's only provided for a finite time.

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

Alimony = Legalized Slavery. Childcare for an adult. Needs to be eliminated, or a standard amount and duration needs to be set in stone. Childcare only lasts 18 years. Why would anyone receive lifetime alimony?

Living on less than 10000 a year....after divorce...count yourself, fortunate, very

Why do people automatically assume that she got her heart broken because he filed for divorce ? It takes a lot for a man to file for divorce.

@victoriagarcia5533

5 жыл бұрын

R V not all men.

@onwednesdayswewearpink2761

5 жыл бұрын

You mean like his new girlfriend? That's why he's offering her with sounds like a pretty decent deal just so he can go be with her?

@PatriceMarieDobson

5 жыл бұрын

No. rv. It only takes a CONNIVING liar to give a sucker punch from the back. I bet that he has been cheating from day one.

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. 7 of 10 divorces are filed by the female. It must be very bad if the man files.

The pain in her voice.. This was a sad call :(

@georgenwuya3417

6 жыл бұрын

M

@skubadoobie

6 жыл бұрын

Charlene S poor man, who knows what he had to put up with

Poor little thing, keep the tears coming and you will get more.

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

They know the code words "It's not fair"......followed by the alligator tears.

get a lawyer for goodness sake

This divorce has been brewing for a long time.

It took me along time to learn not to keep picking losers to be involved in relationships with. Decades of experience are screaming at me that this guy just wants to get crazy out of his life. He'd probably chew of an arm to get rid of this moon bat. Listen to the way she's talking, she wants to maintain a connection.

@Eaglejake

4 жыл бұрын

Men file less than 3 out of 10 divorces, for obvious reasons. She is probably a nightmare.

@overcomerbtbojesus

2 жыл бұрын

“Moonbat” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

She is not going to get 50K and she will not get it for the rest of her life.

She's getting a whole paid for house and more than half his retirement. What's her problem? Oh she lost her job? boo hoo, get another one she can take care of herself. She's grown.

I'm curious what caused them to divorce.

As soon as you say I do it turns it into a business agreement

This is why you don't get married. It is entirely ridiculous to think that ANYONE has access to someone's finances, other than the person who's name is on the account. Joint accounts are for suckers.

From what she said the financials were she should accept the offer with the only caveat that he pays $2,400 extra for an attorney of her chosing to go over the numbers to ensure validity of figures. Sounds like she going to be left with a fair distribution of marital assets.

Oh my goodness, if you get fired from your job you don't get to keep getting paid by that former employer. Men don't get to keep getting "resources" from women, so why do women think they deserve to keep getting "resources" from men? You're lucky he offered you anything.

@ahanson140

9 жыл бұрын

Tatianna Irizarry-Melendez Since when has infidelity been against the law (except for in the military)? Termination due to pregnancy is a one-time pay-out if you can prove wrong-doing. Alimony in many states is for LIFE. As in, women (for the majority) receive payments for longer than they were married in some states. Totally unproductive and exploitative in natural towards men. Also, your comparison is apples to oranges.

@Houston810

9 жыл бұрын

Tatianna Irizarry-Melendez So in the situation you are describing the woman/mother I am assuming is provided with with free food, free housing, free clothes, free everything in returned for being a "hard working dedicated mother and a dedicated wife" yes? Why would you continue to pay after terminating that position? P.S. saying you "BELIEVE" men should pay a punitive fine for adultery in certain situation IS saying you think infidelity should be illegal in certain situations

@ahanson140

9 жыл бұрын

There are very few to no situations where an able bodied person perfectly able to work deserves alimony. Child support is often disguised as alimony as well. We're not talking about child support, we're talking about providing monetary support to someone that can provide for themselves if they weren't such leeches.

@Houston810

9 жыл бұрын

Tatianna Irizarry-Melendez I'm going to assume you understood the context and what I meant by the " terminated position" comment and not address it. My question here is WHY you think a woman deserves or is entitled to be supported while she "gets back on her feet"?

@Houston810

9 жыл бұрын

Tatianna Irizarry-Melendez Ok assuming children aren't a factor (either there are none, the father has custody, or the father is paying for childcare) the only reason you give here is that "it takes a while to find a job". So lets grant that as a truism and I'll rephrase my question to: Why do you think a woman deserves or is entitled to be supported while she is looking for a job? Because you are using phrases like "Of course" as if this should be obvious or its properly basic. Which it just doesn't seem to me.

Do not under any circumstances do not forgo alimony you will need it

Never been married, but I feel her pain. Let's ignore the money issues for a moment. Who wants to start dating someone after u have gotten so comfortable with ur better half? Trust me bad news travels fast. Most guys don't want to date a divorcee. I hope her husband and her tried counseling before he filed those papers.~ Leonard

@kstayblessed

2 жыл бұрын

Somebody always going to want her. Plus he isn't leave her messed up.She will have money to help her.

This wouldn’t even be a decision to make ...start fresh take the home and money offered and move on ! You build on your small business and get your own life on track and let him have his .....I would not be waiting on someone’s payment cheque or cover to cover my healthcare payment every month ...that’s mad ....there really is a lot to be said for being independently minded

@riverdaletales8457

3 жыл бұрын

Always two sides of the story and theirs always a right way/ right answer.

This call makes no sense. She didn’t even disclose what she makes working which would have some factor in alimony.

let him gooooooooooooooo.

He filed in ct because in Florida he would owe the standard of living during the marriage

I'll bet my last dollar that her husband is dumping her for a younger woman; you don't jump ship without a lifeboat to land in!!!

@janebaker4912

7 жыл бұрын

Debra Williams and I hope that younger one screws him over and he gets what he deserves

@laureljade3476

6 жыл бұрын

leaving their wives for their desserts (e.g. cupcakes, tarts and strudels)

@nataliyak9555

6 жыл бұрын

Liberty First totally 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@cocodakilla

6 жыл бұрын

Why bitter cat ladies. Imagine your mother being traded in or sister?

@crimansizers5840

5 жыл бұрын

Both men and women divorce their partners (though I believe women initiate more ~60-70% is the statistic I remember). Point is it didn't work and we don't know why. Lets not wish him death simply b/c he is the one filling.

I'm amazed that Dave makes the mistake of double counting the lump sum for the alimony at ~200K. If she gets 350K and he gets 140K, the total if ~500K so ~250K each is the baseline. So starting from that baseline the lump sum for the alimony is ~100K not ~200K.

@kingkoopa157

5 жыл бұрын

Dave is an idiot lol. and he makes a living by selling money management advice lol

Always two sides to a story

lol Victoria Juarez Anciso yes I did this because she cheated on me all the time so bye bye

A wiseman once told me, do you know why divorce is expensive? Because it’s worth it!

You sir and the woman on the other line is precisely the reason I will most likely never get married.

Sometimes, getting a devoice paper is a blessing. Should never be with anyone who wants out. Plus, she's getting a settlement from it. 👍

😭

Yup I’m getting a prenup