my future on youtube...

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Hello beautiful friends! In this video we sit down and have a chat about my career on youtube and what I am wrestling with. I would love to know what you think in the comments 🤍
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  • @sydnicook6822
    @sydnicook68224 ай бұрын

    A little encouragement from a fellow Creative…I like watching your videos when you’re being real and honest with us. Being a full time Creator has ups and downs. Not everything you make is going to be amazing or go viral and not everything needs to. Hustle Culture has made us believe every interest needs to produce money or fame. Sometimes, making the thing is enough, even if no one sees it. Keep doing what feels right at the moment and be more disciplined where it really matters. 😊

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    4 ай бұрын

    Speaks right to me! Needed this 🫶🏼🫶🏼 thank you

  • @coldavenue2325
    @coldavenue23254 ай бұрын

    A guy here. I watched your testimony video and the video of how you two met. The way you look, touch and talk to one another made me weep, because that is exactly what I look for. My generation of men has been so badly addicted to porn and hookups that the whole dating culture became chaos. Spread the message of purity out there with Kyle. Help young guys to learn how to approach women, help young women to value themselves, and most importantly help us fight the new drug leaving men alone and women abundant. You two have that gift, pray for us out there.

  • @bethannnelson5375

    @bethannnelson5375

    4 ай бұрын

    This comment should be highlighted! As a mother of 3 grown daughters with my youngest at 28 and desperately searching for a man that wants to date with intention, I hear you and I pray for you. My older two are engaged or married to their high school sweethearts and feel like they would both be single if they were put into the dating pool in current times.

  • @laurakibben4147

    @laurakibben4147

    4 ай бұрын

    Mine was too (porn addiction). My first BF out of highschool had his magazine collection and we're not talking playboy and penthouse 😏 I fought him over it from 87-95 before finally giving up. Told myself I'd rather be abused than cheated on in that form. We would have never stood a chance if Internet had been around them. Nor did any attempts at love thereafter mostly because of it. No regrets tho.

  • @sewwithore3618

    @sewwithore3618

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes it is difficult out here to see godly men and women. Our generation need Christ more than ever ever. As a single Christian woman I sometimes lose hope when I see how majority of men behave in the dating culture but we can’t loose hope with God all things are possible

  • @toohottexas
    @toohottexas4 ай бұрын

    I love your "girl talk" chatty videos and vlogs/day-to-day stuff. I think your personality is just calming and relatable and I like seeing or listening to you doing your life. Being real and yourself is like a breath of fresh air, especially when other content creators lean more towards produced or "highly entertaining" videos. There is a space for your type of content on KZread, I promise!

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! Definitely can do more girl chat videos in the new year 🫶🏼

  • @SereinaB
    @SereinaB4 ай бұрын

    I love the simplicity of your channel. Just you keeping it real with no background music, not jumping clips every .5 seconds, etc. When I'm feeling overstimulated, your channel is a breath of fresh air! I personally enjoy all the vlogs!

  • @AKooksJournal
    @AKooksJournal4 ай бұрын

    Go where God is calling you, and if you don’t hear the call yet, just keep waiting. I believe He will direct your steps! I love all of your videos, and I think your subscribers do as well because we enjoy your general presence and who you are. Keep going and growing!

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes! Thank you! 🙏🏼

  • @nashiellycanetas5969

    @nashiellycanetas5969

    4 ай бұрын

    Love this. Definitely

  • @gennazachrich5257
    @gennazachrich52574 ай бұрын

    I actually love your videos because you don’t make content like others. You are just real and showing life as a Christian and it’s so inspiring! I found you back in April of 2020 and you could post a video of a montage of you cleaning and I would watch the whole thing! Thank you for always being real and I hope you continue making videos no matter what you create!

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts ☺️ definitely needed a little reassurance

  • @gabriellapavlov3308
    @gabriellapavlov33084 ай бұрын

    I’ve unfollowed so many “popular” creators but you are one of the only ones I haven’t unsubscribed to. You’re humble & authentic, your humor is great and I actually love that your channel is like comforting and you are a real person that so many women can relate to. And you are a new mom so just being present for your child’s firsts of everything and putting effort into your marriage during this transition has so much more value than any other career. You are doing amazing and clearly focusing on the RELATIONSHIPS God has set before you and I just love Kian! 🩷

  • @daniellekramer93

    @daniellekramer93

    4 ай бұрын

    I’m curious who you have unsubscribed to. I follow a lot too

  • @miriamuhrinova6986

    @miriamuhrinova6986

    4 ай бұрын

    The same here! I have unfollowed so many this year, but it feels always so cozy, chitty-chatty with Kian. 😊

  • @gbmorones
    @gbmorones4 ай бұрын

    I personally do not care for aesthetics, it has the potential of coming off as superficial. The reason why I am drawn to your channel is videos like these, where you talk about things that are raw and real to how you feel. I listen when I’m getting ready and it feels like I’m having a conversation with my closest cousin or my sister and I love it. I guess it really depends on you, because ultimately you will want to create content that you also enjoy doing so you don’t feel it’s grueling. Either way I’m here for the long haul, I think your main focus should be to just reach a bigger audience of women because it seems your subscriber base is women like me, and women of the faith ❤ find a healthy balance 💫 Love you girl, you got this.

  • @tashalynn8205
    @tashalynn82054 ай бұрын

    Motherhood is a full time job. If you wanna continue KZread because you love it then I would cause a hobby is so nice to keep for yourself. But I wouldn’t put too much pressure on yourself. Also I appreciate the realness of your vlogs instead of the super aesthetic ones that aren’t a true example of real life. You’re doing great momma! Keep being you 😘

  • @snicole6731
    @snicole67314 ай бұрын

    I think this has been said a lot already, but your presence is just calming and naturally inviting. I appreciate your content so much and your willingness to be genuine about your walk and what you’re struggling with. Though so many of us love you, enjoy this time in early motherhood and don’t feel pressured to produce content unless you actually want to ❤

  • @withthetrans
    @withthetrans4 ай бұрын

    So many others have already said it, but you are one of the few creators I actually watch and continue to follow because of your authenticity. It's super refreshing and honestly brave in this world where there's so much pressure to employ all these strategic "methods" for "success." What you shared near the end really reminded me of a convo I had with a mentor a few years back. I told him I felt confused because for so long I was interested in reading and learning about "success" and "leadership" etc., but I noticed I was losing interest/motivation and was getting more and more drawn to spiritual formation, soul care, inner healing, etc. He really encouraged me that I didn't need to feel bad and should just follow that leading... because God shifts our attention towards different things in different seasons for a reason. Looking back, it makes total sense now why God did that, because that shift was just the start of a brand new chapter in my journey that I wouldn't have been able to experience if I'd kept trying to force myself to do the things I feel like I "should" do - versus what I was just genuinely hearing and being tugged towards by the Holy Spirit. A phrase that keeps sticking with me that I felt God speak to me so clearly the past year has been: Passion fuels, but purpose sustains. I had been finding myself paralyzed by sooo many options, but what I realized is that it's not bad at all to try different things and just test them out... but at the end of the day, what I really need is a CONVICTION this IS what God has made me for and is inviting me to focus on in this specific time of my life - otherwise it's sooo easy to eventually just fall off the tracks / lose motivation / stop when things get hard if you don't have a compelling enough reason and WHY behind it. (A "why" that really resonates with you, not just one others say you "should" have.) Praying that God would reveal to you the specific thing(s) he's calling you uniquely to focus on in this season of your life - for yourself, your family, and his Kingdom purposes. Whatever you choose to do (or not do!), as long as you keep walking with him like you already have been all these years, his amazing grace, sovereignty, and provision will be ALL over your life! Hope this encourages you, from a fellow Christian creator to another. 🤍✨😊

  • @AmarachiNnadozie
    @AmarachiNnadozie4 ай бұрын

    whatever it is that you love filming, I encourage you to film more of those! I've been watching you for a while and it seems like you've built a good community on this platform, myself included. Honestly, just focus on creating what brings you joy and creating the things that God has placed in your heart. The people who love you will support you! Happy new year to you and your family 🤍

  • @jackiemay3737
    @jackiemay37374 ай бұрын

    First off let me say I enjoy watching all your videos. I think you need to do what makes you happy and don’t compare yourself to others. You are a very special person and I hope you continue doing what makes you happy. Also, you have such a beautiful family and your little is absolutely adorable.

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🥹🤍 that’s so kind

  • @lizzynestel9670
    @lizzynestel96704 ай бұрын

    I have watched your videos since the single diaries. I love how real you are in your videos then and now! You feel like a friend and I appreciate just the true rawness. I don’t get that from many other influencers. You are a great encouragement to me!

  • @Alessandra-ec2hr
    @Alessandra-ec2hr4 ай бұрын

    You’re one of the creators I’m so excited to receive a notification for. Your videos are the most “real life” and authentic. Even this dilemma of not knowing what to post is so relatable. How many of us go through seasons where we just don’t know what to do and nothing seems exciting or something we want to pursue. Think about it, you just had a baby and shared a beautiful faith filled testimony on how you got pregnant, moved to Hawaii with all the different living situations, Kyle’s job changes, getting married and getting sweet handsome, plus that bit of living on the road. It’s been adventurous but not a production and I think a lot of us can relate because our lives as non KZreadrs are like that. I do miss you sharing your faith, but understand if now isn’t a good time or if it is too draining on your mental health. Those were how I found you in the first place and it’s helped support my faith in waiting. I love seeing God still moves. Vlogs are always fun to watch while I’m at the gym. Travel vlogs are really special but I also want you to feel like you can truly unplug….as I would be doing on vacation. The reality is, life changes and you’ve adapted to those changes very publicly. My hope is Jesus will give you some ideas for what your youtube channel could look like in this season. For a very long time I never commented on KZread videos but lately have felt inspired to as a response for getting so much insight into your life. Just wanted you to know we’re here, you’re loved and most definitely cherished! Happy New Year Kian 🤍 to you and the fam - Kyle, Legend, and Handsome!

  • @emilywing359
    @emilywing3594 ай бұрын

    I hope this doesn’t pressure you to stay in the social media world but everything you explained that you do differently than other creators is the reason why I watch & love you! Your real, not sugar coated, calm and not or overly hyper nature is so refreshing!

  • @casey4085
    @casey40854 ай бұрын

    I love your day in the life/productivity vlogs!

  • @molly_frances
    @molly_frances4 ай бұрын

    I love your vlogs. It’s so neat to see peeks into your life in Hawaii and it always feels like an encouraging kind of catch-up with a friend. Personally, I like the more *authentic* , less aesthetic videos. But honestly, your vlogs are always beautiful, you’ve created a beautiful home on a beautiful island. 🌸🌊

  • @beltranalmendrarociodejesu8384
    @beltranalmendrarociodejesu83844 ай бұрын

    EVERYTHING about your content is perfect to me, i love the simplicity and honesty you put in them, it's inspiring and encouraging, you're aesthetic it's a cheff kiss, i absolutely adore it

  • @caitlinwatson4322
    @caitlinwatson43224 ай бұрын

    I love your authentic and genuine self in your videos! God has created you so uniquely and I believe He is using you to create a safe space for others and encourage others to be real!

  • @reanne9356
    @reanne93564 ай бұрын

    I really enjoy your videos and how chill you are. If you were wanting bc to switch it up, you could make an attainable goal. Like post twice a week in your usual format. Or maybe once a month have a themed video/try a different style. I think at the end of the day people watch KZread to feel connected. And you’re doing that already. So maybe just increasing the amount you post could do the trick. But it’s totally up to you!

  • @oliviaharrelson8581
    @oliviaharrelson85814 ай бұрын

    I totally enjoy consuming your content and feel like it’s super aesthetically pleasing! Your videos are very themed. But I really appreciate watching your vlogs. As a new mom myself, they’re realistic yet peaceful. And I enjoy letting them play while I clean or just am around the house.

  • @karagrace643
    @karagrace6434 ай бұрын

    Your videos are way more approachable to watch! I get tired of watching content that is “perfect” all the time because it makes my house and my stuff and my clothes and my social media look very “blah”. I don’t want to watch videos that look like a live-action Pinterest board and are clearly curated to be seen in a certain way. I want real videos and about real life that I can relate to! And you strike a perfect balance. Your videos are very “themed” and aesthetic, but you also share about real life which is what I appreciate. ❤

  • @kaely_taylor
    @kaely_taylor4 ай бұрын

    Love your videos Kian! My favorite are your vlogs and just going with you about your day. Your authenticity is what I always admired❤

  • @belovedinjesuschrist
    @belovedinjesuschrist4 ай бұрын

    Just you doing what you do brings me joy and encouragement. Your videos are my absolute favorite. You're seriously doing great where you are at.

  • @jenniferjacques4971
    @jenniferjacques49714 ай бұрын

    I get so excited to watch your videos because they feel so authentic and raw! ❤

  • @KarissaFontenot-wl8ig
    @KarissaFontenot-wl8ig4 ай бұрын

    I have been loving your content!! I watch a few more aesthetic creators and they are amazing, but I find myself getting so excited to watch your content which is aesthetic in its own way! Just feeling like I’m doing life with you as I do life in my home is so wholesome and cozy to me. If I were a creator I’d probably show up as myself like you do which makes your content so so relatable! Which I love! I do wish your vlogs were longer/more frequent. And if your asking for preferences, I do enjoy daily/weekly vlogs a lot more than sit down videos. Feels more real. ❤ Love you, girl! So grateful for all that your share! 🤍

  • @jenniferlarios4851
    @jenniferlarios48514 ай бұрын

    You’re content is a joy to consume for us ❤ I love that you stay natural and you just take us along on your day. If the way you’re posting and what you’re posting is working for you, it’s working for us. We love it. Its such a refreshment to watch.

  • @Estiexo
    @Estiexo4 ай бұрын

    I love your candid and imperfect moments in your channel tbh I’m sure a lot of us will be here whatever you post or decide!

  • @bellavita3097
    @bellavita30974 ай бұрын

    Give yourself some grace you just had a baby you don’t have to figure out the world today just take it day by day the older he gets the more time you’ll have one video week is sufficient with a newborn once he starts school you can do anything you want. You don’t have to have a theme just be yourself we’re all out here just trying to survive. You just happen to be surviving in a beautiful location. Enjoy.☀️🌊🌴

  • @rubylight4019
    @rubylight40194 ай бұрын

    I search your channel a lot looking for new videos because I find them super enjoyable to just sit back and watch. You’re so relatable and down to earth which isn’t something I see a lot. it feels like hanging out with a friend which I think a lot of people are missing in this day in age. I think for me personally, I’d be happy with watching any video you put out, but for the idea of growing having themes could help. 🤷‍♀️? .. but if you do, please stay being you in the unfiltered. I love that!

  • @nicoleberg6474
    @nicoleberg64744 ай бұрын

    I love your videos

  • @feliciac6062
    @feliciac60624 ай бұрын

    You are doing great! I have been watching your videos for about 4 years I think. I have always enjoyed all your videos the sit downs and vlogs. I also love your content now as a new Mom (which you are rocking btw) and just always being real bout everything. Continue being you and enjoy this time with your baby it goes so fast. Leave the rest in Gods hands.

  • @Margaret.Probst
    @Margaret.Probst4 ай бұрын

    Kian I've followed you since before the cruise and I love your videos! You're very real and down to earth and it's so refreshing. You put it out & I'll watch!

  • @kristinjohnson8907
    @kristinjohnson89074 ай бұрын

    I feel this with my business! I feel like as my faith has grown, my “what is important in my life” has changed for the good, which has shifted my perspective on being “boss babe/successful”

  • @cassandra_hackman
    @cassandra_hackman4 ай бұрын

    Hi Kian! I’ve been following for a while, and I honestly just love your content how it is! I don’t think you need to try harder or feel any pressure to do things differently than what you are comfortable with or what works for you in this season of life. It’s a blessing that you can do what you do without “working too hard” and still make a living from it! Enjoy it!!

  • @indymast3443
    @indymast34434 ай бұрын

    I love your content Kian! I love the random pop-ins from Kyle, and the randomness/realness of your videos/vlogs. I come to your channel for a reason and you should own your style. The only suggestion or idea I would say for content is I would love more Hawaii type content. Like what it's like living there and just the type of things you do outside for fun, seeing the landscape and all that. You live in such a unique place and I would love for it to be emphasized more! Whenever you talk about what it's like living on Maui I find it so interesting!

  • @user-pw7bo3lq1h
    @user-pw7bo3lq1h4 ай бұрын

    I know that underlying guilt mom feeling! it's been really hard to deal with...I have to really set my mindset really strongly and talk to myself about how it really is ok. xo

  • @brookegeorge2455
    @brookegeorge24554 ай бұрын

    I like your style of vids! I barely watch KZread and you are one I always check to see what you’ve posted!

  • @faithfitz
    @faithfitz4 ай бұрын

    i love your videos because you are being real and i love when you share your faith! please dont stop!

  • @ByHisGrace-
    @ByHisGrace-2 ай бұрын

    I absolutely understand that mum guilt, I think some of us more sensitive types have this a little more hardwired in us but let me say, it is GOOD and NECESSARY for you to have self care and for hubby to be responsible for the baby. I never did this and it has come back to bite me.

  • @WaitingOnGod
    @WaitingOnGod4 ай бұрын

    I feel you sis! I’m on the same boat and I’m not even “successful “ on here with many followers. But then I get the encouraging texts from friends that watch the videos and I see there’s purpose in them. All for God’s glory

  • @NiyahSimone
    @NiyahSimone4 ай бұрын

    I totally get it and have been having similar conversations with my husband. Honestly, this year I’m not into the whole striving, hustle, grind, etc. my main aim for my audience/online ministry is to foster more connection and really show up to serve. and in my personal life, leaning more into, the “softlife.” I believe God gives us the desires of our heart a.k.a. his desires if we are living a life pleasing to him… So it’s very possible that you’re feeling the way you’re feeling because he knows you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be right now and there’s no need to fight it. I absolutely LOVE your content and how genuine you are, sometimes the overly scripted and planned content from other creators isn’t as easy to relate to. This is where you stand out PS legend is just too adorable 🧡🧡

  • @kiandravanise3162
    @kiandravanise31624 ай бұрын

    I love watching your videos Kian!! You’re so beautiful and I love your genuine self!!

  • @antoniamarieguitas4051
    @antoniamarieguitas40514 ай бұрын

    I watch you because you are you, and I like the content you choose to create. No need to compare yourself to others, or worry about doing what they are doing. Continue to just be you, and the right people will follow.

  • @maritzah.4039
    @maritzah.40394 ай бұрын

    New mom here! Personally I love that you are yourself! And I honestly can relate with my own personal career currently. I enjoy my job and couldn’t see myself doing anything else, but I look around and see so many people working so much harder than me. Makes me feel lazy? But then also, I’m a very “go with the flow” and a “Type B” person. There’s times I put my whole heart in and there’s times where I work but I’m not “feeling it”, but a lot of the time I just want to be home with my baby boy raising him 🥺

  • @taylorharrison2384
    @taylorharrison23844 ай бұрын

    New subscriber here! I binge watched a ton of your videos this week. I love and admire your truth and honesty. I think do what makes you happy and not what other people expect of you :) I know money is a part of reality, but to me, it always comes after my happiness. It’s very tempting to fall into the mindset that you have to do everything for monetary gain. I’ve been there and I’m here to say - Life is full of so much more love when you prioritize what can’t be achieved with money ❤️

  • @MadeleineMarcheel
    @MadeleineMarcheel4 ай бұрын

    I'd say: find out what makes you YOU (what's your niche?) and then just run with it! 😃 But only of you feel motivated, too. You were saying a few times how you didn't feel motivated to put in more effort - maybe that's your cue that you shouldn't? 🙂 What if you filmed some challenges (Is that still a thing? Am I old school?? LOL) with other creators? Maybe that could spark ideas and help with the entertainment aspect... ? Just food for thought - I think you're wonderful, Kian and your authentic self will always convince and touch hearts! ❤

  • @bumpinLiLPeep
    @bumpinLiLPeep4 ай бұрын

    Hi Kian! :D Happy New Year to your Fam!

  • @ashleypyepthatsme
    @ashleypyepthatsme4 ай бұрын

    I love your KZread videos and content on IG. I’ve been following you for a few years now and look forward to watching your videos every time you post. I like that you’re real, transparent, honest, authentic, and genuine. I love that you’re open about your struggles. Your videos are relatable, down to earth, and not so curated which I love and appreciate. I feel like we’re besties lol and I love your family too. I’m honestly just super invested in your life and enjoy seeing you evolve, grow, learn, and live your life. I feel like I’m doing the same right along with you! ♥️

  • @corinneseay671
    @corinneseay6714 ай бұрын

    Love your videos and style, just be you and be real! Shoot what you love and to be honest when you said you felt like you were having an identity crisis, a lot of that is postpartum….I have 2 girls and I 100% felt that as well.

  • @MollysStory
    @MollysStory4 ай бұрын

    Kian, I appreciate your honesty and the content you share. It is peaceful and enjoyable to watch. Keep being you! ❤

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas0184 ай бұрын

    I love how simple your vlogs are. It feels like I'm chilling with you as you go about your day. Honestly, just keep doing what you're doing. Don't try and chase after what's popular right now. Not a fan of everything having the same stereotype. You are so personal and speak your mind and the truth which is very valuable.

  • @pufferfish_be
    @pufferfish_be4 ай бұрын

    Just wanted to say that I enjoy watching your videos because you are real in them. I like the content that you want to put out no matter what that is. It is all up to you to decide what your channel looks like without comparing it to other creators. If you are inspired by some other videos you can always try it out and see if you like to do something similar to theirs but it doesn't mean that you have to keep doing something you don't want to do or don't feel like doing. In my opinion the best is to look for what you love to create instead of looking for success. And being a mom not it is more than ok to have other priorities. Anyway Happy New Year! 🥳

  • @kierracollins1869
    @kierracollins18694 ай бұрын

    I love your videos!! They’re you! You don’t have to change anything!

  • @lisa-amara
    @lisa-amara4 ай бұрын

    Kian I’ve been watching your videos since 2020 and I genuinely look forward to watching your videos everytime you post!! I love your authenticity and realness and you’ve inspired me in so many ways! 💕

  • @cathrynwright4882
    @cathrynwright48824 ай бұрын

    I love your videos just the way they are. They are authentic, raw, and so real which is why I love your channel!

  • @Micah5-5
    @Micah5-54 ай бұрын

    I also appreciate how authentic your videos are! I came across your videos in 2021 and they have been such a blessing! I really enjoy how you share your faith along with real life in such a genuine way. I think in the culture that we are living in that can be rare and you are such a breath of fresh air as a creator! This quote comes to mind: "Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail". I think it is tremendously refreshing to have a creator making their own path opposed to following the trends. I think what you are posting is wonderful and is blessing so many people! I will be praying for you as you navigate this time that Jesus would give you discernment, peace, clarity, and direction with what is currently on your heart. Know that no matter what you post you are so special, valued, and more than enough and are appreciated by many people!

  • @sarahreavis2924
    @sarahreavis29244 ай бұрын

    I love how honest and real you always are, Kian. I watch you because you feel like a real person who I would be friends with. I actually really appreciate that your videos aren't super curated and aesthetic because it's exhausting to look at content like that all of the time. Just my perspective

  • @AarianaVictoriaW
    @AarianaVictoriaW4 ай бұрын

    I love your videos and watching your journey Kian! It really helped me feel understood when I was first starting my walk with Christ. A lot of your videos in the beginning were on topics I didn’t really feel I could talk to anyone about. So they quickly captured my attention. I think you should also prioritize your mental health too and give yourself grace in this season. You just had a baby 🤍 I say pray about it and ask God what he would want to see more. And maybe try to remember why you started. Work doesn’t have to be difficult for it to be worth it. We just want the best / happiest version of you :)

  • @kendramichele1277
    @kendramichele12774 ай бұрын

    🥹Legend is SO adorable! ❤️❤️ and you are so beautiful Kian 💕💕

  • @sarahdietz8903
    @sarahdietz89034 ай бұрын

    Hi Kian, just wanting to share some love by letting you know that your channel is my favorite out of all my subscriptions. ❤️🥰 You share the most relatable, most authentic and real, enjoyable videos and they are always a joy to watch and I look forward to them. You're like the big sister I never had but always wanted! So it's nice to know we are at least sisters in Christ! ❤️ Please never change. I found your channel during a hard season of life and it brought me so much comfort and encouragement. All my love to you, Kyle & sweet Legend 🤍

  • @sarahsoberanez44
    @sarahsoberanez444 ай бұрын

    I love your style of videos! Keep doing what you’re doing girl 💛

  • @sarahsoberanez44

    @sarahsoberanez44

    4 ай бұрын

    Also!!! If a podcast would be great for your sit down faith based videos :) which I love too ❤

  • @adrianaschulz701
    @adrianaschulz7014 ай бұрын

    Kian I love your content!! I love it all!! Your aesthetic, style, personality, etc!! You’re such an inspiration!! I’d love more content but I feel like as a mom it’s super important to be there for your kids and husband!!🤍

  • @elysepryor3728
    @elysepryor37284 ай бұрын

    I really love your content and your perspectives! Although if you did start a podcast I’d definitely listen to it, you and Kyle both have great wisdom 😊

  • @user-pw7bo3lq1h
    @user-pw7bo3lq1h4 ай бұрын

    your hair colour is so so beautiful ! the warmth with your complexion is honestly stunning! xoxox

  • @samanthahicks7764
    @samanthahicks77644 ай бұрын

    Kian! I want to give you a big hug. I’m a fellow external processor and often spiral and overthink. I hope some of these comments are encouraging to your soul. I have been following and watching you for about 5 years now and love how honest and open you are about being a believer and work and family but also having healthy boundaries and talking through that. As a viewer and someone who has been praying for you family through your marriage and miscarriages and both of Legend, I would love to see what you are passionate about. Have the freedom to make content that fills you up not what breaks you down. Whether it’s a new hobby you have picked up or how you’ve been hearing from the Lord or an encouragement you have from others or planning a shower for friends. All I think we want to see is more of who YOU are because God has made you so intentional. If you want to be more intentional not for success sake but because you have a burden for the people who watch or want to encourage women who have walked where you’ve walked then we would love that. But if you don’t that’s okay too. We love you for who you are not what we want you to be.

  • @angelavanoosten1

    @angelavanoosten1

    4 ай бұрын

    This!!!🩵

  • @tprus
    @tprus4 ай бұрын

    I love watching your videos so much - like others have said, it feels like I’m just hanging out with a friend! It’s very comforting, and honestly has led me closer to the Lord as well just by the little snippets you do share about your faith! You encourage me in my marriage and home life as well, and I love seeing bits of your island life. Wherever the Spirit leads you, He will use you! 🤍

  • @sherbetstraw
    @sherbetstraw4 ай бұрын

    Legend is SO beautiful my goodness! And loving your hair it looks so so good brown! ALSO your mug looks amazing !!!! I'm now tempted to go do some pottery

  • @whitneymarieroberts
    @whitneymarieroberts4 ай бұрын

    I love watching your videos as is. I just vibe with your personality & so it doesn’t matter to me if you put more into it or not lol I’m gonna watch regardless 💛

  • @doodles-n-companyBernedoodles
    @doodles-n-companyBernedoodles4 ай бұрын

    I think a long term questioning of whether that is what you want is an answer that it’s not, and that’s okay! Your channel will still grow as you post things that are actually a priority for you to share.

  • @anastasiahounnou
    @anastasiahounnou4 ай бұрын

    I hear what you're saying, and it makes me think about Colossians 3:23-24 - Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. I'm feeling the same way as you, but I plan to take things more seriously because I desire to work in excellence for the Lord. Might be something to think about! Love your content by the way, keep going girl!

  • @user-fh9ll8sh2b
    @user-fh9ll8sh2b4 ай бұрын

    Hey sister, I found your channel through a friend who sent yours and Kyle's boundaries video and I have followed ever since. That was before I got married and before I had my now four month old son. In postpartum your videos have been something I look forward to weekly. They are calming and relatable. Just to encourage you and say keep going as the Lord leads you 🙏 may He bring wisdom on the topic

  • @ninaw8186
    @ninaw81864 ай бұрын

    I like that you’re authentic, this is your life, vlogging you and Jesus has you in this season, it’s what God lays on your heart ❤

  • @tiffanytownley3666
    @tiffanytownley36664 ай бұрын

    I love that you keep it real. ❤️

  • @mirellathompson5562
    @mirellathompson55624 ай бұрын

    I like the simplicity and realness of your videos

  • @andreamozes8280
    @andreamozes82804 ай бұрын

    I like your videos the way they are! That is why I'm waching them! 🤗 I like your personality and way of thinking. I think you should go the way is more comfortable to you. God Bless 🥳🥳🥳

  • @gabl3400
    @gabl34004 ай бұрын

    I would love some sit down topic videos!

  • @ilyneventura
    @ilyneventura4 ай бұрын

    Hey Kian I don’t usually comment but I’ve been watching your videos for couple years now and I just wanted to say you made perfect sense in this video but you don’t need to do more. You are so real and your videos are amusing as they are. If you are happy with your lifestyle and are well off with what you receive from yt that is more than enough keep doing what you’re doing we are all blessed and enjoy your videos as they are. But forsure never stop doing yt I love your videos 😭😭🫶🏼

  • @healthboss2477
    @healthboss24774 ай бұрын

    I’ve been following you since you got engaged and you have inspired me in more ways than one. I like watching your videos and hope you continue on your KZread journey not just for me but for everyone else who you inspire. As a woman and a business owner I feel you in if I should try harder. One thing that has helped me is not motivation but discipline and also not by my strength but by Gods. So whenever I feel like I don’t have strength to go run my business I lean on God for his strength and guidance. Blessings 🫶

  • @LoveeeeelyM
    @LoveeeeelyM4 ай бұрын

    I do love you being yourself. I love your authenticity 🙏🏻💌

  • @nashiellycanetas5969
    @nashiellycanetas59694 ай бұрын

    Yes would love to see more faith base videos! Show us your church routine / what you do to stay consistent with the Lord. What does he talk to you about in certain seasons. Love how open you are with everything.

  • @nashiellycanetas5969

    @nashiellycanetas5969

    4 ай бұрын

    I love you no matter what you post but I would definitely love to see more faith base life stuff!

  • @HaleyMariah
    @HaleyMariah4 ай бұрын

    I totally relate to the mom guilt! Feeling like 2 hrs is so long… 3 years and 3 kids in and still working on it lol we can pray for each other 💛

  • @Pointblankhome
    @Pointblankhome4 ай бұрын

    okay personally i prefer the non aesthetic stuff.. it always seems so fake TO ME idk i like the real stuff where it can help me mentally prepare for motherhood. You dont need to do youtube as a career though. Have it as a hobby and have your career be motherhood. Its one of the most respectable, God honoring, beneficial for your family for generations, coolest job ever. Its a job that literally not everyone gets to be blessed with! Plus i find people who do videos when they feel like it / want to end up creating more quality down to earth content

  • @holybiblelover4412

    @holybiblelover4412

    4 ай бұрын

    THIS! I thought motherhood was going to be easy based on what I'd seen on KZread, but I just had my second baby and it is hard being sleep deprived and in survival mode in the fourth trimester. It's 100% worth it. (I also don't live near mine or my husband's family, so that plays a huge role in it too).

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    4 ай бұрын

    Such a good word! Thank you

  • @lauragodoy6151
    @lauragodoy61514 ай бұрын

    we just love YOU - periiod.

  • @angeladargie4829
    @angeladargie48294 ай бұрын

    I love simple, sit down chatty vlogs!

  • @ByMelissaMitchell
    @ByMelissaMitchell4 ай бұрын

    Hi! I work in the corporate world and a lot of the time it feels like I’m pushed into hustle culture. I can relate to your sentiments because I too have a 5 month old and I’m rethinking what success looks like. I started reading the book Dream Small by Seth Lewis. Definitely recommend! God has been reminding me that success is in the little things like showing up for my baby each day. All that to say, I can relate to what you said. I’ll be praying for you. ❤🥰

  • @hillaryswartz6381
    @hillaryswartz63814 ай бұрын

    We like you for you! I enjoy the aesthetic videos too, but when I watch your channel, it’s to watch your style of video. I love the realness! It makes me feel like there are other people out there who aren’t trying to look like they’re perfectly put together; but they’re content and doing life (all kinds of random hobbies and whatever) and they’re really, messily human - like me. 😊 Hope you and your family have a blessed 2024!

  • @tspur428
    @tspur4284 ай бұрын

    I understand what you’re feeling and no matter what you choose will be in God’s plan and the best decision for your family. I would like to say that I love your videos! I’ve been watching your channel since you and Kyle met on the cruise! I love your light for the Lord and that’s what has kept me coming back! I’ve enjoyed your vlogs and watching your relationship and family grow. My faves are the q&a’s, all things about marriage and the little projects you have going on around the house (what happened with your garden?). I would love to follow along on a devotional with you or reading the Bible and journaling. Maybe how you and Kyle incorporate your Bible studies together… this is personally where my husband and I need help. Something like that. Thanks for all your content - Praying for y’all!! -❤ Taytem

  • @luqicharmz
    @luqicharmz4 ай бұрын

    I like the sporadic content. It’s a fun little surprise when you pop up. And I also appreciate the realness. I am a hot mess dumpster fire most of the time and creators that appear to have it all together make me question my own validity. Please continue to just talk to me while I’m doing chores because it’s like having a mom friend that doesn’t require any input from me.

  • @onthedl87
    @onthedl874 ай бұрын

    Hi friend! I had to stop my watch through to tell you I love your videos as is! The authenticity you bring is such a breath of fresh air!! Don’t let any lies or insecurities tell you otherwise. Comparison is such a trap! That being said if you want to stretch your legs and try something new, have at it!! I think that your enjoyment and interest in being a creator however you walk that out is what keeps people coming back for more.

  • @NoelleSam
    @NoelleSam4 ай бұрын

    I enjoy imperfect channels and videos. I enjoy sit down videos. I do wish to see more topic videos, because it is a bit confusing sometimes to pick a video to watch when there is no definitive topic 🕊 (peace bird which is dove with olive branch)

  • @elenalele
    @elenalele4 ай бұрын

    Hi Kian! I’ve watched you since i started following The Lord 2020. I’ve loved to see you move into marriage and now motherhood from the single diaries. I personally don’t expect or miss the sit down videos at all. It feels like you have outgrown that and i appreciate what you are creating. Ofc i recognize that with your visual eye you could aim a lot higher with the aesthetics of the videos and i bet it would make you more proud of what you are putting out there as a creative person. I love seeing your lifestyle in hawaii as someone who lives in a completely different environment and i’m grateful to be part of your journey as a reader of your video diary. May our Lord guide you and give you wisdom and I pray you will be sparked by joy and it will set into flames the next phase of your journey dear sister in Christ ❤️✝️

  • @elenalele

    @elenalele

    4 ай бұрын

    And please don’t read my comment as ”you should aim higher” i’m just saying you could. I see the creativity in you, i see the visual eye God has gifted you with and i believe in you :)

  • @josalmon4742
    @josalmon47424 ай бұрын

    Legend just sits there listening to you! He’s handsome like Kyle!

  • @shayanadavis4554
    @shayanadavis45544 ай бұрын

    So I haven't seen your channel in forever and Legend is ADORABLE! And he follows your every move 😍 And yes mom guilt is real and working mom guilt is always feeling like you should be doing something else.

  • @therealsubaekhyang
    @therealsubaekhyang4 ай бұрын

    I enjoy your slower vlogs but also sit down videos

  • @mpat100
    @mpat1004 ай бұрын

    Happy 2024 and lots of blessings for you in 2024

  • @jenniferthompson5146
    @jenniferthompson51464 ай бұрын

    Skirt sweater combo was cute!

  • @bsale2024
    @bsale20244 ай бұрын

    Go where God leads you. Your content (especially the stuff surrounding faith, family and fun) is always enjoyable. Just seeing Legend’s growth and development is a pleasure. He gets cuter by the day!

  • @Patrizia.Isabella
    @Patrizia.Isabella4 ай бұрын

    Hi Kian, I’m a Christian artist and creative as well and I have grappled with the same questions you are asking! I’ve found that whatever comes out naturally is the best for our mental health. I’ve tried the hustle and grind of trying to grow in certain areas and all it does is stress me out and leave me in a position of comparison, but comparison is the thief of joy, remember that. As much of a gift that KZread has been in your life, I also think having Legend has changed your desires because he is now your focus and your greatest gift. Many people want more and more and more, and trust me, I get that. But to be content with where you are and with what you have is one of the greatest gifts in the world, cherish that within you ❤️ Let what you do come naturally not forced, and you will remain in a state of peace. Follow the joy and follow the peace, girl ❤️

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