She's 31 with huge health issues and can't work. What can possibly go wrong?

@christinebutler7630

Жыл бұрын

And would be high risk in pregnancy, can't chase after the kids, can't keep up the house. Cue Dr. Now.

@Eric_Bassett

Жыл бұрын

Yeaaa he needs to walk away

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

SELF-INFLICTED health issues. . .

@boston312

Жыл бұрын

hmmm, alimony, child support (if she can have kids), his retirement, his health benefits, his assets. And this is after he works for 10 years busting his tail for her when she refuses to work.

@macneoh7418

Жыл бұрын

Everything

If she thinks it's "her day" she doesn't understand marriage

@Stantorr

Жыл бұрын

Can you blame her ? She's been brought up to think so.

@saltysaty8686

Жыл бұрын

@@Stantorr I can blame someone for thinking a lie for 31 years... the first 15-20 yeah I can see that much after that is a decade of stupidity not glowing past it.

@Neddie2k

Жыл бұрын

She just wants a wedding (Disney fantasy), nothing to do with marriage.

@James-vj5hz

Жыл бұрын

She doesn't understand thermodynamics either.

@linuxsurfer2002

Жыл бұрын

In principle, I agree with you, but in reality, there is an entire industry (weddings) based on it being her day.

She doesn't want a marriage She wants a wedding. Good god

@supereee7

Жыл бұрын

I feel bad for men like him who marry women that only want a wedding. Most of the marriages end in divorce.

@kellywaddell4448

Жыл бұрын

Soooo many people are that way. That’s why the divorce rate is so high. Very sad

@guyheavengym

Жыл бұрын

Women ☕️

@briandavis1115

Жыл бұрын

Thats exactly what my x wife wanted. She wanted the ceremony and ring. Compromise and relationship not so much.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

@@supereee7 Divorce? Nah, more like a life sentence for a guy like this, going in with his eyes open!

If someone refuses to marry me because I’m not spending enough on the wedding then they can find a new groom 😂 what a terrible person to be so selfish

@NanaWilson-px9ij

5 ай бұрын

Why does HE need to pay for this huge wedding?

@pappas610

3 ай бұрын

​@@NanaWilson-px9ijYou're confused.

@Isaacmantx

3 ай бұрын

@@pappas610no, that is a valid question. If SHE wants a specific wedding so badly (enough to delay a wedding for 5 frickin years), then why isn’t she or her father paying for it?

DO NOT GET MARRIED!!!!!! Run for the Chopper!!!!!!!!!!!

@briansmith5239

Жыл бұрын

GET TO THE CHOPPAA!!

@richthepup

Жыл бұрын

🚁🏃‍♂️💣💥💥

@mackenzieneal331

Жыл бұрын

They're going to need a Bigger boat!🤣🤣

@MartiniGTGP

Жыл бұрын

DO IT NOWWWWWW

@Mr24MT

5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Once he said morbid obesity Dave’s thinking don’t marry her lol

@fusiongaming8612

Жыл бұрын

My ex also was obese when we dated. After over a year later though, she's unfortunately is having similar issues being morbidly obese and I definitely felt like I dodged a bullet.

@th3_crappi3_kill3r

Жыл бұрын

LOL exactly

@ThreePuttBogeys88

Жыл бұрын

Love is truly blind, I guess.

@MexiBron

Жыл бұрын

LOL she gotta GO

@kayn2756

Жыл бұрын

He could be obese too. 😂😂😂

"If we were married, I would want to go into marital counseling" - HUGE red flag

@linhaton4957

Жыл бұрын

Agree. So many couples have issues before the marriage and should stay single. If you are with the right person with the same values, you should be getting along fine.

@samanthayates8812

Жыл бұрын

@@linhaton4957 are you married?

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

Then it would be TOO LATE, unfortunately for him.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

@@samanthayates8812 What does the marital status of the other comnenter have to do with it? This is entirely about common sense.

@samanthayates8812

Жыл бұрын

@@stellarocquie7957 I can ask what I want

“Morbid obesity” - “Ok, let me take a step back” 😂😂😂

@fatvegan4621

6 ай бұрын

More steps than it sounds like the fiance has been taking 😅😅

@VenerableBede2510

5 ай бұрын

DUDE RUN. it’s not like she can catch you.

@joejitsuway960

5 ай бұрын

*long pause* "I mean if she's the one Henry" 😂

@jadedqueen3619

5 ай бұрын

Lol!! Am dead

@akarna69

5 ай бұрын

😂 put that hippo in the gym

“Diabetes and morbid obesity” Dave looking concerned: “Um…”

@fortunateson2

Жыл бұрын

But Rachel's blank expression when he said that 😆😆😆😆

@astrea79

Жыл бұрын

Yeah if she's more concerned about a wedding than her health, her priorities are very messed up

@4656superman

Жыл бұрын

Just buy her a wedding cake and find a girl who cares about herself as much as she cares about you....

@Tunechi65

Жыл бұрын

​@@4656superman you mean just buy her a wedding cake😂

@injones74

Жыл бұрын

Caller: "Diabetes and morbid obesity." Dave: "Sell the car."

The woman is on a downwards spiral, refuses to compromise on anything and the fiance doesn't look for solutions but ways to enable her insane behavior, jeez, run Forest, run.

@Neddie2k

Жыл бұрын

The man doesn't realise that she is not the 23 years old he was engaged to, she is now at the wall and still making demands.

@frankbatista.official

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, some people don't even wanna change to make things happen

@momsPITA

Жыл бұрын

"Love is blind". And "all fair in love and war" that man wants his lady to be happy over his own happiness. He's doing very Good just needs help

@cesaravegah3787

Жыл бұрын

@@momsPITA No, he is doing terrible, he say himself that if married they would be on therapy, stop that stupid trend of trying to keep happy grown women who behave like spoiled children, that on only leads for a miserable life for the man and eventually for the woman too.

@kstar1956

Жыл бұрын

@@momsPITA no he's a FOOL and those stupid troupes is exactly why she's behaving the way she is. People have bought into these stupid fantasies. She's probably just been using the whole wedding thing as an excuse to NOT get married because that is just ridiculous. They deserve each other, two fools "in love" have a blast in debt lol

This dude is a doormat.

@GrimAsythes

Жыл бұрын

Bro don't talk down to doormats like that.

@monicamolina2221

Жыл бұрын

100% she is settling for this poor simp. She doesn't want to marry him

@OffTheBeatenPath_

Жыл бұрын

@@monicamolina2221 like she has a choice

@jasonrodgers9063

Жыл бұрын

@@monicamolina2221 Sounds more like HE'S the one settling.

@gabrielhillceo

Жыл бұрын

I think he needs to not get married and move on. After all the years of bad health? There's more to this and it has to get sorted before getting married or his finances are gone. She cannot be this selfish and expect an actual marriage to work.

She wants the wedding but doesn't care to be a wife. Dude run for your life!

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

You're a poet and didn't even know it, LOL!

@kaelaleedaley

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely right

@benkelley6561

Жыл бұрын

@@stellarocquie7957 I just LOL'ed

@erwina4738

Жыл бұрын

If they get married I am 100% certain they will be unhappy with each other, he will be MISERABLE, he will be blamed for the marriage not working out, and they will 100% get divorced.

@roseother8306

5 ай бұрын

She has been his wife for 5 years. They have been living together, walking the baby steps together, both working. They bypassed the preacher.

Let her go, she’s a liability

@joyaustin6581

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

He sounds pretty codependent, though.

@chartuck

Жыл бұрын

A HUGE (emphasis on HUGE) one.

@no4seriously

Жыл бұрын

The WEIGHT of her issues…

@funkinthatrunk3795

3 ай бұрын

Dave: Sale the wife

Yikes. She’s refused to marry him based off her need of him financing an expensive wedding DAY. Now she’s expecting him to fork out $800/month to pay for her health insurance? Sir - move on. She’s going to be a burden as a wife and as the mother to your children. SEVEN years - come on.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

GOING TO BE a burden? It's pretty clear SHE ALREADY IS!

@katiejon17

Жыл бұрын

@@stellarocquie7957 right?!

@zw3565

Жыл бұрын

She needs to also work on her health being obese is not a good thing either.

@curiouscat3384

Жыл бұрын

I would first get straight with her and give her a chance to fix her health if she wants to stay with him.

@Lauren-vd4qe

6 ай бұрын

a burden as a wife? she IS a burden whether shes a wife or NOT! children? sorry to b so graphic, but how is a dude supposed to push past layers of morbid obesity to even ATTEMPT to um...well, you know....she wouldnt even need BIRTH control, SHE IS the birth control....

She wants "her day?" Yeah, dude, you need to leave.

Tired of these Women that want their day. Funny how they will not be traditional, but want the traditional wedding.

Run brother, sounds like she can’t catch up either LOL

@TainaPR2024

2 ай бұрын

Damn!!! Lol.

This is straight out of my 600-pound life! He's an enabler!!

“Her Day” needs to be the day she got on the treadmill.

There is be a bigger relationship issue. She chooses waiting for 'her day' over insurance, potential bankruptcy and marrying the person she claims to want to marry.

@frankbatista.official

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you Steven

@SteveC484

Жыл бұрын

Seriously she's a catch. And Dave's advice is to "get married today" 🤣

@SteveC484

Жыл бұрын

Just heard the rest. Morbid obesity 🤣

@genxx2724

Жыл бұрын

@@SteveC484 I’ve never seen Dave backpedal so fast.

@BabyGators

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, he needs to RUN before it’s too late. Marriage and kids DO NOT fix relational problems.

My X GF told me she wanted a 25k wedding ring, needless to say she's my X GF...

@maryk446

Жыл бұрын

25K for a ring? My whole wedding cost less than 20K.

@Aggie4life77

Жыл бұрын

You did the right thing! She wanted a 25k ring and would divorce you 10 years later claiming irreconcilable differences and took half your sh*t!!

@kevinmcfarland4322

Жыл бұрын

That is absolutely mental. Glad you escaped that one brother. Imagine all the other things you could do with 25k instead of showing off to friends who don’t care

@kaiung7542

Жыл бұрын

Dumb. Spend 5k on a ring and use 20k for a car or something else.

@davem4193

Жыл бұрын

So happy to hear you dodged that bullet brother.

He is not a boyfriend/husband to her. He is her *caregiver.* Walk away, sir.

She has diabetes and morbid obesity to the point where she can’t work. But she wants a “her day” wedding she deserves? My husband is diabetic with severe issues and STILL works full time.

@myentertainment55

Жыл бұрын

We can suggest that she got her diabetes for being obese - morbidly obese for many years. To be obese and especially morbidly obese is a sure way to get it.

@konichiwa3744

Жыл бұрын

She going to need a stage curtain to roll down the isle in

@cdbf98

Жыл бұрын

That’s what I’m thinking too! I asked on another comment but I’ll ask here too, at what point does obesity constitute unemployment?? I don’t get it.

@localjess838

Жыл бұрын

@@cdbf98 when they are unable to sit or stand for a time that requires them to carry out their job duties. Dizziness, fainting spells, frequent bathroom use due to blood sugar fluctuations

@ebonyqueen86

11 ай бұрын

She wants “her” big wedding day but she aint working for it??? Oh helllzz naw.

“Health problem is she’s obese” I could see if she had like a brain tumor or cancer or something, but this can literally be fixed with diet and exercise.

@christinebutler7630

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like this.one.migh t require bariatric surgery.

@WelshCorgi321

Жыл бұрын

And counseling.

@thestorybehindthat5236

3 ай бұрын

If she's legit unable to work something's really wrong. There's probably another underlying issue going on that's causing this. Autoimmune and thyroid related diseases can screw up your system really bad, attack your organs, and zap you of your energy + put on a ton of weight and cause diabetes.

@owlblocksdavid4955

Ай бұрын

Diabetes can't be, but the morbid obesity can

You run or she runs on the treadmill

@zeal4god402

Жыл бұрын

😆 🤣 😂

If he marries her, he has a long life ahead of him.

@Andrew-3445

Жыл бұрын

She would be a multi-million dollar anchor compared to marrying someone who can help earn, invest and grow with.

@turdmcgurd

Жыл бұрын

Not if she’s morbidly obese. Probably got about 10 years left

@owlblocksdavid4955

Ай бұрын

Unfortunately, she probably doesn't :(

Husband and I have been married 10 years and we paid less than $2,000 on everything. My wedding ring was less than $100 from Walmart and I’m still rocking it. When you love someone you don’t care about the cost of the wedding. You care about the marriage not the wedding itself.

@user-pj3on8qm6e

8 ай бұрын

Agreed, my wife and I wanted a small wedding. I wanted a court house wedding and she wanted a fee friends to be there, we settled on a back yard wedding saving thousands. It was so good people started copying our idea! No need to be flashy

@tryingtogetby

6 ай бұрын

Totally agree we did wedding, party and honeymoon for £2500, we had a lovely day, party and even a honeymoon at Eurodisney.

@Lauren-vd4qe

6 ай бұрын

We got married in a park, with picnic lunch on picnic tables, I made my own dress, my parents refused to attend, whole thing cost $200, ring $100; now married almost 50 yrs!

@bufficliff8978

5 ай бұрын

I cared about both. Someone wanting a nice wedding doesn't mean anything about the intent of the relationship, and cheap-wedding moralists tend to believe they're better than people who wanted a nice wedding. I've been to bad weddings and cheap weddings, and nicer weddings and more expensive weddings were more fun and relaxing as a guest. I wanted my guests to have a great time, and I didn't want to worry. The girl in the call is mentally ill, and he shouldn't marry her, but a normie girl who wants a nice wedding isn't inferior to y'all, and most people who put themselves on a pedestal for having a cheap wedding do think they're better than other people.

@marymccartor9373

5 ай бұрын

@@Lauren-vd4qe My wedding was a lot like yours. Friends made layer cakes and we cut 'em in half and chained them together. The only thing we paid for was the honorarium for the minister. Oh, and a pair a new shoes.

When Dave said I smell a rat I literally screamed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@BitterComments

10 ай бұрын

Probably the rat that crawled under her rolls and died

The show took a whole new spin as soon as Dave asked what her health problems were. Suddenly Rachel's demeanor changed from helpful and chatty to instantly shutting up and quietly looking down at her fingernails and the quiet and concerned look on Dave's face said more in that few seconds than either one of them verbally said the whole show. I have no idea if this caller is going to read these comments, but in my opinion this girl needs to go and now. At 31 years old she is way too young to be dealing with these kind of health issues. It seems to me that this is the kind of woman that doesn't take responsibility seriously as she wants what she wants when she wants it if it's food, money, things, etc. Basically a 2 year old in a 31 year old body. This woman is going to be a big liability for this guy for the rest of her life. This woman sounds like a taker and he sounds like a giver, bad combination.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

What does her AGE have to do with her health problems? No one, I repeat, NO ONE of ANY AGE should have those ( self-inflicted ) health problems!

@littleripper312

Жыл бұрын

She's mentally ill and not even seeking help. This would be like looking after an alcoholic who isn't even on the road to recovery. No thanks.

@michaelb.8953

Жыл бұрын

@@stellarocquie7957 That's my point. If she's dealing with these health problems now at her young age it's only going to get worse and way more expensive as she gets older if the root cause of this isn't fixed, and it looks like this woman doesn't want to take accountability for anything in life.

@charlesg7926

Жыл бұрын

@@stellarocquie7957 are you just low intellect? As you get older, your joints and bones get bad, so obesity is OBVIOUSLY more understandable if you’re old than if you’re young. Obviously, nobody should be obese regardless, but it’s more understandable when you’re old like 50+, why does this generation not have any freaking common sense?

@charlesg7926

Жыл бұрын

And I agree with Michael 100%. She seems irresponsible, lazy, sedentary, and doesn’t have accountability. Not even financial accountability. And she thinks like a teenager. That’s not good for somebody of her age, very very bad

My guy, she ate her way out of her job and wants her special day. You don't want that future.

@bfbrmm

3 ай бұрын

It hurts me to agree with this, but agree I do

If she is morbidly obese she can fix that and her diabetes would go away. Their situation is much deeper than finances

“She has to stop working because she has morbid obesity” Sounds like a keeper

@thailanddiscovery6832

Жыл бұрын

Lol

Dave has some massive self-control to not dig in on her being morbidly obese. Props!

Girls who REQUIRE these expensive "special" days are immature and focused on the attention and not the marriage.

They keep on that path the only “Special Day” is going to be a funeral and not a wedding 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Rachel's facial expressions really make these episodes great. Lol

@frankbatista.official

Жыл бұрын

That's true haha

@evoted1978

Жыл бұрын

Priceless!

@FTG2Eli

Жыл бұрын

love it

@MrMustangrick

Жыл бұрын

spaz

@semosancus5506

Жыл бұрын

Agreed she is made for this stuff.

He doesn't need to go to marriage counseling, he needs PRE-marital counseling.

@OscarSchneegans

Жыл бұрын

Um... no. He needs to run away from her, then get into some intense therapy so he can understand why he values himself so little that he'd even consider chaining himself to a woman who's literally eating herself to death.

@COINsimp2024

Жыл бұрын

@@OscarSchneegans do you even understand the point of pre-marital counseling? I literally just said that.

@OscarSchneegans

Жыл бұрын

@@COINsimp2024 Do YOU understand the point of premarital counseling? This is from Better Help's website. "premarital counseling can help you and your partner address issues that married couples commonly struggle with." That's not what this guy needs. He doesn't need a partner at all until he figures out why he chose to inflict this woman on himself.

@COINsimp2024

Жыл бұрын

@@OscarSchneegans The point is many decide in pre-marital counseling not to get married. This is what I'm saying.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

What he NEEDS is his own apartment and a new, HEALTHY relationship.

She wears the pants, yet she is the one not contributing at all. Life will be miserable if you have no say.

@jazzymichael

Жыл бұрын

I don't think she can fit in the pants

@Andrew-3445

Жыл бұрын

Crazy to get bossed around by someone who's totally given up to the point she can't even work.

@lizh4933

12 күн бұрын

And those are very large pants.

my husband and I married at our old apartment for $400, saved up bought a house, had a daughter and we will have the wedding of our dreams for our 10 year anniversary one day. Her "day" can be any day if she really loves you.

@georgewagner7787

Жыл бұрын

Good idea. Have the party when they can afford it. She maybe watched Cinderella as a kid

@Efalonda

Жыл бұрын

Such a good pick me

@curiouscat3384

Жыл бұрын

Yep lots of people have a very simple "marriage vows" ceremony or even at the courthouse and then do something special years later to commemorate it. Watch those wedding dress shows and no fat bride is happy about how she looks in an expensive wedding dress much less her photos.

@sharroon7574

3 ай бұрын

Vow renewals are so bizarre to me unless someone cheats or literally comes back from the dead I find it strange to repeat vows. Honestly, weddings are so over rated anyways.

Red flags!! If you both loved each other to get engaged …you would have gotten married after a couple years and made that “special day” happen with what resources you HAD!! Lots of people have their special wedding by being creative and learning how to save on extra costs. For example: wedding on a Sunday, keep the guest list lower, find family to make the bouquets and go thrifting for centerpieces. It ain’t that hard!!! Just long hours of love planning. She sounds like she’s truly unhappy and miserable and her overweight status is causing depression and the truth is she will never have that “special day” because there is no satisfying an individual like that. You could blast through tons of money to have a wonderful wedding and still it would NOT meet expectations because something is wrong inside. A wedding is Not a bandaid …oh no Get out sir!! Get help

@saltysaty8686

Жыл бұрын

So many red flags.... We'd be in martial counseling be cause I can't give her the day "she deserves" O lordy...

@Black_Jesus3005

Жыл бұрын

For sure if you’re motivated enough.

@ilai7893

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't help but wonder whether a "plus sized" dress is at the center of this, since she knows she can't adhere to conventional beauty standards re: dress size/ slimness due to her... situation

I came here for great advice from Dave and Racheal…..I stayed for the comment section 💀

Engaged to someone with morbid obesity at 31. Everyone salute this man

@lawrence-juniornalty

Жыл бұрын

Salute for unnecessarily complicating his life by tying himself to this woman. Wahala

@Elizabeth-yg2mg

Жыл бұрын

Just goes to show that anyone can get married.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

@@Elizabeth-yg2mg For ANY reason!

@georgewagner7787

Жыл бұрын

She might not have been so big at 24 and now he's attached

@redclayscholar620

Жыл бұрын

I guess it is polite to salute a sinking ship.

She wants a wedding more than she wants to be married. Find someone better.

@KJ-nv9uz

5 ай бұрын

I think part of the problem is co habitating. This, for so many calls in limbolationships.

So much wrong with this call, I don't even know where to start. Young men... do not be this guy.

Rachel's face when he said her health issues 😆

@fauxbro1983

Жыл бұрын

Well to be diabetic and obese at 31....yeah runnnnn

@debbiericker8223

Жыл бұрын

@@fauxbro1983 "MORBIDLY obese"

@random-nz7dy

Жыл бұрын

"....ok if she's the one" lol

@saltysaty8686

Жыл бұрын

4:04 yeah that silence and the ok....

@ryand4940

Жыл бұрын

Had my dying 😂

TO HENRY - lots of love from Scotland -but seriously - RUN BROTHER BE FREE!

@Bill-up9xw

Жыл бұрын

Right!!!! Lol sad but that's my honest opinion too! Not worth the rest of your life brother! Run!

Wake up, Henry! You're 34 and still have time to find a better partner.

“Well if she’s the one u wanna marry” 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣-- then Dave said , lemme take a couple steps back . Funniest clip I’ve seen on here

@genxx2724

Жыл бұрын

This is the same episode with the guy he called a sugar daddy.

@marbs8615

Жыл бұрын

hahahahaha

This dude sounds like such a nice guy. You can tell he wants to make it work.

@elizabethblane201

Жыл бұрын

Nice and naive.

@Fiery154

Жыл бұрын

Bless his heart.

@elvisii4220

Жыл бұрын

Yea a nice guy- naive

@rabcaxyz2

Жыл бұрын

....but she doesn't want it to work!

@mitchd949

Жыл бұрын

Too bad he doesn't apparently have any male friends or role models to shake some sense into him.

Morbid obesity is not a health condition, its compounded interest on very poor food choices

@jeraldbottcher1588

2 ай бұрын

I disagree. The poor food choices and needs are symptoms of something much deeper.

“Her day” probably includes consuming the entire wedding cake by herself. Don’t do it, dude.

@kevincicchetti1887

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@janesjanes8229

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@dasheffield5596

Жыл бұрын

You’re wrong for that one 😅.

@patriot925

Жыл бұрын

🤣

@asiaanderson5556

Жыл бұрын

Mercy😭

My dude... find someone who isn't still a child.

This woman wants a wedding not a marriage.

People saying they can't afford to get married but what they really mean is "I can't afford an extravagant party". And it's not the bride's day. It's the couple's day.

@thomascuvillier7250

Ай бұрын

In this case what it really means is: "I've spent it all on snacks"

My husband and I were married at City Hall. That was 40 years ago. At this point a “big day” is just plain foolish. Cut your loses now. It’s the marriage that counts not the wedding.

These seven year engagements are ridiculous! I always thought an engagement was somewhere between 6 mos. To a year. And these over the top weddings are ridiculous too

Sad thing is this guy sounds like a good fella. He’s trying everything.

@saltysaty8686

Жыл бұрын

He needs help with his self respect...

@frankbatista.official

Жыл бұрын

Yep, sometimes you gotta make sacrifices to make things happen

@dalewetzel3029

Жыл бұрын

He sounds like an idiot. Sorry

@derekd1510

Жыл бұрын

Simpin' ain't easy...

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

EXCEPT self-preservation..

Dave said “welcome to GrownupGirl Land! 😂😂😂 I’m dying. Dave always has the best phrases!

Dave flipped that real quick!

Caller: this is the love of my life Dave: I smell a rat 🐀 😭

@matthewphillips5483

4 ай бұрын

Dave is so based sometimes.

She can have her day "on the streets."

@thatswhatshesaid8153

Жыл бұрын

Word. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@handleyobusiness

Жыл бұрын

Just like Lori Harvey. 😆

@APRzz

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@Bill-up9xw

Жыл бұрын

Yup! My ex had her day, "in the streets" this guy may have picked her up! Dang!

The moment he said morbid obesity would be the same has someone saying a person is a gambler an alcoholic or a cheater. You run you dont get married. But it takes someone else with issues to put up with those kind of issues.

@l.v.6384

Жыл бұрын

the moment he said that. You could tell Dave thinks her sickness is laziness

@derekd1510

Жыл бұрын

@@l.v.6384 Gluttony and Sloth are among the seven deadly sins for a reason...

@Mattie_Ice

Жыл бұрын

It's possible he is too. Justifies her weight that way. In his mind perhaps.

@Fiery154

Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right about “takes someone with issues to put up with those issues.” I had a coworker with some significant mental health issues and other co-workers couldn’t figure out why she couldn’t “find a nice guy.” She dated alcoholics and other people with issues. It’s bc well off sane people don’t want to deal with that dumpster fire. People who also have issues can’t be too picky.

@aprilgonzalez7893

22 күн бұрын

It’s also the fact that she’s being stupid about her “big day” when she needs to be focusing on her health instead. On top of the fact that she contributes nothing and he’ll have to be her caregiver on top of that if things don’t change.

I had a friend who’s wife lost her job due to obesity and was able to get SS disability. He was obsess too and ended up dying of an enlarged heart which caused her to die two months later due to depression, etc. Both in their lower 50s and all brought on because they could not stopping eating too much and we as a society rewarded it with disability payments.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

BINGO!

@joyaustin6581

Жыл бұрын

In the end was it more cost effective to pay the disability for a short life or pay for a long healthy life on social security?

@jimmay1988

Жыл бұрын

We all know obese ppl, even in the military, and I get on them to improve. Many cheap/free resources out there for Nutritionists (WIC programs) and fitness. Obese ppl are plain lazy.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

@@joyaustin6581 WHAT???

@littleripper312

Жыл бұрын

People who eat themselves into obesity are mentally ill. They didn't die of eating, that's just a symptom of mental illness. We need to stop pretending over-eating is just a casual lifestyle choice and is okay to live that way. These people clearly need help like an alcoholic does. I know so many people who want to get healthy but they don't know how to get over their addiction.

Dude if you get married to her you deserve whatever bad happens to you. Love doesn’t mean make poor choices.

So, uumm... sis wants a wedding more than she wants a marriage...👀

She deserves an expensive wedding like she deserves to eat whatever she wants... Sound like a nightmare for this guy.

I was listening to this on audio only but had to rewind to see Dave and Rachel's reactions to the beginning. 😂😂😂

Major health issues at 31, have to solve that problem before anything else.

At a point where we are uncomfortable to ask people to be healthy. You can feel the tension and that they want to say what they are really thinking. She needs help I wish the best

@mithicash1444

Жыл бұрын

That is exactly what I was thinking! 💯

@curiouscat3384

Жыл бұрын

I spelled it out in my comment above :)

Dave is in rare form here, and I mean that in the best way! No other host is as direct as him. He makes a great team with his daughter.

Everyone wants to be a princess and expect someone else to pay for it

People don't "deserve" anything, but life liberty and the PURSUIT of happiness. People EARN it.

@drewdelaney4166

Жыл бұрын

It’s a joke!!! Problem is when you serve your country and sacrifice your mind body and spirit and come back to try and incorporate yourself back in society only for America to stab us in our backs. It’s pathetic joke on us!!

@OscarSchneegans

Жыл бұрын

Pretty hard to pursue anything when you're morbidly obese.

@Jaxmusicgal23

5 ай бұрын

They changed property to “pursuit of happiness”…. Do you see the problem with that? How can you quantify “pursuit of happiness “ This woman wants a wedding and it will “make her happy “ for it to be as large and big as she desires. This is why changing that phrase has been detrimental to our society . Just because it makes you happy, doesn’t mean you have a right to it . The Bible does not back that up and obviously we see that our hurts can deceive us about what will make us “happy”… even healthy hearts can be deceived, and if you are mentally unstable and unhealthy, your “pursuit of happiness” is going to be very toxic to you and others.

@saltysaty8686

5 ай бұрын

@@Jaxmusicgal23 pursute does not equal getting. you need to get a dictionary. if thats what your saying people need to be taught something besides self loathing in schools. You can try to obtain what ever you want, doesnt mean anyone else has to give it to you.

Rachel’s face when the caller said “morbid obesity” 😂

@lovethemflowers

Жыл бұрын

I didn’t see any change in her expression. (?)

@cashway0420

Жыл бұрын

she always has that look lol

@tracygaluszynski1868

Жыл бұрын

Yea,it changed for like a split second.

That advice was far more mature than anything I would've said.

In two years we get to hear about this divorce...

@sleepyjoe1685

Жыл бұрын

She will be dead from morbid obesity.

If she thinks it is only about her. then she is not worth your time.

That wind sound was me flying out the door.

Dave did a full 180 the moment he heard “morbid obesity” as the health issue 😅

@zxsw85

Жыл бұрын

Rachel’s facial expression 😂

@BitterComments

10 ай бұрын

The dude’s wife did a 360 the moment she got on the scale.

@tamaraliscia3408

9 ай бұрын

The caller sees red flags that are more than related to money, he just doesn't want to say them aloud because he loves her and does not want to be disrespectful, or hurt her feelings if she listens to this. Her weight is a huge, huge, red flag and it impacts every moment of her life and every thought, emotionally, financially, psychologically and physically. How sad. She may want her "big day", hoping it will finally make her feel worthy, special. And, it will ... during the planning and choosing which cake, what colors and what kind of flowers. And it will ... during the ceremony and reception. The next day, she will be back to her normal life, unhappy, unhealthy and insecure. Forget about setting a wedding date, that will need to come later, if at all. Counseling ... PRE-marital counseling is an absolute must.

@matthewphillips5483

4 ай бұрын

@@BitterComments At least.

She's gonna roll down the aisle and knock down the wedding party like bowling pins 🎳

@cita_m

Жыл бұрын

This comment reminded me of when I was 9+ months pregnant. I felt like Violet from Charlie and the chocolate factory and they were gonna roll me into the hospital. 😂

@matthewphillips5483

4 ай бұрын

I literally laughed out loud from this comment. Thanks for adding some joy to my day. :D

Let someone else be the next schlep for her!! She sounds like a princess who thinks every toad is her prince and must acquiesce to her desires. She should see the good thing this poor guy is trying to do, but I'd still say he needs to walk!!

@keithg5187

Жыл бұрын

Yeeeep

Her Day? 😂

Rachel's expressions tho 🤣

If its not "our day" and instead "her day" then she aint the one my friend.

@Jaxmusicgal23

5 ай бұрын

Amen!!! Two people are getting married that day… It’s not the “brides” wedding …. It’s both of their wedding. Two people be becoming one in marriage . It’s also not the end of effort and hard work and loving someone … it’s just the beginning of the most important relationship in your life. If you don’t see it that way, and you think it’s an easiest escape for yourself, or to get what you want to look important that day… You have no business getting married

@iPervy

5 ай бұрын

@@Jaxmusicgal23 Right on!

Another great call from the show thank you so much for putting them out there for young men to hear. Young guys you out there? Don’t be this guy. Good luck

@Neddie2k

Жыл бұрын

Not sure how the guy can't see.

@blackworldtraveler3711

Жыл бұрын

@@Neddie2k Well I watched many episodes of Columbo growing up so I'm thinking he has a good life insurance policy on her.

@stellarocquie7957

Жыл бұрын

@@blackworldtraveler3711 LOL

If she can’t understand it’s “our day” time to RUN!!!

RUN HENRY RUN!!!

I know alot of people that is over weight and diabetes. Lost weight and diabetes went to normal. Dude Run. Tell her to watch Dr Derg.

I had an ex girlfriend like this.. noticed I said ex. Delusional!

@Infraredx

Жыл бұрын

Good on u bro dont look back lol

It's a hard life for a simp

@Gus_Chiggins

Жыл бұрын

He as weak as they come

"I mean... If she's the one Henry... " 🤣🤣🤣

@OtisFlint

Жыл бұрын

That got me...😆

@junglemoderne6550

Жыл бұрын

That was good 🤣

WHY Dave scratched his head when he heard morbidly obese 😂😂😂. Why on earth is he even trying to marry her😂😂😂😂😂

4:08 😂😂 "i mean, if she's the one, henry" translation "uhh, you might want to leave her"

"Diabetes and morbid obesity." I guess her big day is gonna be a REALLY BIG DAY. If she lives that long.

Run in the other direction as fast as possible - stubborn- selfish Self centered - health issues - no job - mental issues? - not a recipe for a healthy marriage

@Jaxmusicgal23

5 ай бұрын

Not just no job…. Her lifestyle literally made her so incapable of working she lost it. That’s not good .

The health is fixable. She just needs to decide to do it.

@jqvu87

Жыл бұрын

I lost 45lbs just by switching to a plant based diet, no gym membership needed. It takes sacrifice and perserverence.

Bro she dosent love u, run 🏃‍♂️ 🏃 🏃‍♀️

@hiteshadhikari

Жыл бұрын

Ofcourse she doesn't love him He ain't a twinkie or a 🍕

Break up yesterday!

I started laughing so hard when he said the health condition😂

@MartiniGTGP

Жыл бұрын

I said "Run for the hills!!!"

Bro, if you are seeing this. Run away from her!

RUN ! ! ! ! !

@jamesdean6744

Жыл бұрын

Not like she’s going to catch him

@sophia8405

Жыл бұрын

I smell divorce already

@cybertrk

Жыл бұрын

If she runs too… problem solved?

@matthewwilliams9200

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@front331

Жыл бұрын

​@@jamesdean6744 She's obese. she's not going to catch him.