If stupid people want to give her money... who cares? It's not your business.

@thomasyork6640

4 жыл бұрын

That's true, but why let someone hurt themselves? I would hope my family would protect me from getting 60,000 in student loans.

@shazz286

4 жыл бұрын

@@thomasyork6640 if they get a money from the go fund me they'll probably not need the loans.

@roxannegordon6162

4 жыл бұрын

Thomas: She won't listen. She's 23?....he isn't sure about this close relative.......she is aggravating this man because, maybe HE had to pay for his ed and she may not.

@barvdw

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed that some people want to give her money, however, I would strongly doubt she'd get anything close to the 60K required. And while getting 2-3K is always handy to have on hand, it's not going to make much of a dent in her incoming debt. So my advise to the young woman would be, prove me wrong you can get that financed through GoFundMe or whatever, but prepare to be disappointed, and have a plan B ready in that case. If she's ready for that information, she might open her mind to other options, like actively looking for scholarships, or a novel idea, waiting for that graduate a couple of years, get some experience which will probably help her pursuing that degree later in life, too. GoFundMes are for people who are desperate, mostly, imo, and she's not desperate. It might not be her dream trajectory to wait, but it's not the end of the world, and yes, other opportunities will come.

@aeromedical6750

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY - let her find out that the public at large is not interested in funding her education. It must be nice to expect other people to pay for your opportunity to make $100 plus K on other peoples dime. When YOU are invested in your education, YOU will be much more inclined to stick with it.

He should go to college and get a degree in business. And major in MIND YOUR OWN!

@lindamiller3539

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@memberofthelambily1340

Жыл бұрын

Good one

I miss the good old days where people minded thier business.

@steveeab2364

4 жыл бұрын

Those days never existed

@shannon2748

4 жыл бұрын

@@steveeab2364 true

@danielvasquez3758

3 жыл бұрын

Well if she gets into real unplayable debt, then she’ll start to blame the world and want a bail out.

@garrettmesser3977

3 жыл бұрын

When the tax payers pay off her student loan it’s everybody’s business

Just don’t donate. Problem solved. Moving along. 🤦🏽‍♀️

@cellogirl11rw55

4 жыл бұрын

Why not? A lot of college students use Go Fund Me to help with their expenses. She's got it all figured out and doesn't need to donate if he doesn't support her decisions. She doesn't need his approval.

This fella is WAY more interested in his wife's cousin than he should be. His wife should be concerned.

@mballa423

4 жыл бұрын

That's what I was thinking. I feel like the main issue might be that he doesn’t want her to go out of state and leave… Peculiar. He almost sounded emotional about it.

@00700556

4 жыл бұрын

mballa423 yeah, I didn’t get that. It to me sounded like they have a close knit family and it’s probably affecting everyone and he has to hear about it all the time.

@solidice242

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@Donnie-sg2cj

3 жыл бұрын

What’s wrong with you people? And we wonder why the world is the way it is

@BingBong3.13

Жыл бұрын

​@@Donnie-sg2cj guys are creeps , I'm a guy

“The whole family it’s upset” this a lucky family if this the only problem they have.

This guy must not have anything else going on in his life that this is what he's concerned about.

This guys been waiting for a reason to call Dave since he picked up the copy of total money makeover 6 weeks ago😶

@tinawelch2545

4 жыл бұрын

DEAD. 😂

@ayecarumba4928

4 жыл бұрын

🤣

@magicworld3242

3 жыл бұрын

LOL.....FACTS

Caller sounds like a jealous busy body. His wife's cousin's business is none of their business. He needs to get a life. This is a jealousy issue.

@garrettmesser3977

3 жыл бұрын

Nah, his wife is complaining to him about it for some reason.

@chuckiedavidson719

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like he’s sleeping with his wife’s cousin

This is a good lesson in learning how to mind your business.

@Laffy1345

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. You are correct.

Why do you care? Just don't contribute. An seriously, a nurse practitioner is like a small step down from a full physician. I'd support her dream mentally although not financially.

Dude. Wife’s cousin? Get a life.

@jayhillz3705

4 жыл бұрын

Ben B 😂

@jayhillz3705

4 жыл бұрын

Ben B he must be a white guy

@benb7727

4 жыл бұрын

Jay Hillz82 I can’t stand guys like this. He is not trying to save this girl. He is trying to prove he is right and has everything in life figured out. We call this douchebaggery.

@lmichelle5613

4 жыл бұрын

@@benb7727 my thoughts as well!

@lutherjacob

4 жыл бұрын

He is probably trying to get laid on the backend. I know men

Your wife's cousin? Get out of that young ladies Kool-Aid!

@jayhillz3705

4 жыл бұрын

Zade Muhammad brown nose...

@Sovnarkom

4 жыл бұрын

@@thegalaxycosmos7703 True for Muslims but extended family in the West are generally not as close nit.

@clarifyingquestions

4 жыл бұрын

@@thegalaxycosmos7703 Agreed! or at least it should be but we white people do not value family ties the same way other cultures do - hence the comment feed's nasty comments.

@hiramrosajr8231

4 жыл бұрын

Zade Muhammad no its not

@citylife2394

4 жыл бұрын

@@clarifyingquestions It's sad that white western culture doesnt value family anymore.

I had a similar conversation with my sister, who was also going to school for a nurse practitioner degree. She graduated with $100,000 in student loans and then got a job that agreed to pay off her student loans after 3 years of working. Not saying it was a good idea on her part, but I was pleasantly surprised when it somehow worked out XD

@markg999

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe they release her before year 3.

@iLLWiLLx21

3 жыл бұрын

mkay0502 So she was stripping?

@amyrussell860

2 жыл бұрын

There is such a desperate need for nurses right now as well as mid level providers like nurse practitioners yes, I c an see how it panned out. And yes, I am an RN.

Hey Dave, my father's brother's nephew's cousin's former roommate needs college help, whatta I do?

@ferz2014

4 жыл бұрын

lol

@RomilCPatel

4 жыл бұрын

Fathers brothers newphew just leads back to you since fathers brother is your uncle and you are his newphew

@iLLWiLLx21

3 жыл бұрын

Romil Patel You’re everything I hate about social media

@warwick802

3 жыл бұрын

Father's brother = uncle Uncles nephew = cousin Cousins's cousin = cousin Hey Dave, my Cousin's former roommate needs college help. whatta I do?

@Homeside301

3 жыл бұрын

@@iLLWiLLx21 the social media.

Why does this affect him at all?? Who cares what his wife's cousin does with her life?? Unless...it's him we are talking about.

@Ndasuunye

4 жыл бұрын

Perhaps they're close? There are some western families that are close with even the most distant genetic relatives

@cateyes2103

4 жыл бұрын

@@Ndasuunye Perhaps too close

This guy needs to mind his business Seriously

he minding EVERYBODY’S business BUT his.

@johnbrown4350

3 жыл бұрын

Xylitol I Gg ggiigig x gthe said givvbh g

"You can't smack someone on the back of the head unless you have your arm around their shoulder first"

Wife's cousin? 😂😂😂 Dude needs to get a life and mind his own business. That 23 year old womanchild can make her own decisions, she doesn't need your guidance fool.

@SR98889

4 жыл бұрын

The Crypt Keeper exactly my thoughts

@Ryan_DeWitt

4 жыл бұрын

Who cares? As stupid as I think gofundme is, no one holds a gun to anyone's head and makes them donate.

@georgewagner7787

2 жыл бұрын

Research now says the brain isn't finished growing until 25

It's none of your business...move on.

I would say worry about your own backyard first!

This guy is just jealous from the GoFundMe thing! 🤣

@ferz2014

4 жыл бұрын

lol

@Mr.Legend_Speaks

3 жыл бұрын

Nah. He has a thing for the wife’s cousin! He wants to keep her close! 😂😂😂

I went to Np school for 2.5 yrs and worked full time. It was rough

How embarrassing.... no shame!

@monkas7270

4 жыл бұрын

Wichael Meston women these days lol

@pandaberries3430

4 жыл бұрын

@@monkas7270 dumb nosey men these days.

It would be funny if people start flooding her gofundme account and donating enough to pay for all her schooling just to prove this guy wrong.

@PoodleParti

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, what is her name?

@carlosmiro4932

2 жыл бұрын

Why would anybody pay for her private graduate school? She’s on 23 and her own.

Let her try her Go Fund Me campaign and keep your nose out of it. I doubt it will be successful but that's her call. If/when it fails it's not your place to say anything. It's none of your business, and asking Papa Dave to back you up by giving you a big Ramsay stick to beat her with is pretty controlling and attention seeking. What a creep.

He's lowkey into his wife's cousin.

@luccianoblock5127

3 жыл бұрын

Idk he said they are close must be for a reason

She’s definitely going for CRNA school. These programs are only offered at private universities and when you get accepted...you go. They’re technically NP’s and make over 200k a year. I say go

Wow not even your own cousin but your wife's cousin.... I would never be so involved in distant family's finances. It's pretty rude to randomly give someone advice they didn't ask for. Even ruder to call a radio show and rant about something that's none of your business. People need to get a life. Focus on your own finances and your own choices.

@roxannegordon6162

4 жыл бұрын

No name ok: I think there's more to this; he's more involved. Perhaps he paid for his degree and angry that she has a Go-Fund-me page and might not have to pay anything. That would tick him off. A distant family member? If I got that call from my relative I'd say it's too bad and be done with it. I wouldn't dream of 'rallying the troops' to get into it. None of my business. This sounds like a buttinski.

@ayecarumba4928

4 жыл бұрын

We rant off about our neighbors business all the time

Most advanced programs in medicine (MD, DO, NP, PA) usually require you to apply broadly, and you don’t end up in your home state depending on where your state of residency is. For example, in California getting into an in-state MD program is extremely competitive and you’ll mostly like have to go out-of-state, whereas in Oregon it’d be more realistic to stay in-state.

I went to college on a “GoFindMe” account. My Dad pretty much had this conversation with me: 1. GO forth out into the working world 2. FIND you a job 3. Get back to ME and I’ll help with some of the expenses. Seriously, I helped my Dad run a business after going to school during the day to put me through school. It wasn’t easy, but I had no debt when I got finished. I couldn’t breathe carrying the school loan debt some of these callers share with Dave.

All of the comments I see that they’re telling the guy to mind his business, but I think it’s great that even though he’s not that close (by blood) cares enough to not want this girl to start off her life with a bunch of debt. His wife may be worried too and talking with him about. It’s nice to see that he cares.

@Price8903

2 жыл бұрын

True

@JohnGrayFinance

2 ай бұрын

So many of the comments are also suggesting he wants to or already is sleeping with her. Like a man can’t even care about extended family without being a creep apparently. I understand a lot of the commenters may segment family but some families are really close. It’s just so interesting to see so many people assume secret motives of a guy who has said nothing more than “I don’t want her to make these mistakes if I can help it”. He may not be able to stop her, but I certainly don’t think it’s a crime to care, especially if he has to hear about it from other family all the time.

This guy sounds like a busy body know-it-all nightmare. What is his deal? Mind your business dude and don’t contribute if you don’t like the action. Simple.

The whole family is pretty upset about it. Wow dude your family must have HUGE problems

It sounds like the family has an "image" they are trying to present and they are embarrassed she's asked others to help pay for her education.

I think this guy is talking about my ex... They're even the same age! 😂 Wow.

🤣Thumbs up if you agree he sounds like he’s crying while talking.

This girl is right, nursing programs and nurse practitioner programs are highly competitive, and if you dont have the highest GPA its extremely difficult to get into the cheapest school, so your next best bet is to go out of state or to a private institution. It's not impossible to find a cheaper school but very hard and if she doesn't have many options, it might be her only choice.

Honestly nurse practicioner programs are extremely competetive (as a nursing major) and she'll be making 120k out of school. Not bad.

Wife’s cousin ? Say what lol

@gabriellejones6451

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

“My wife’s cousin” derp.....

GoFund Me is like the public and social equivalent of begging on the street. Some people really need it but you can’t be begging to go to a good college.

@maremacd

4 жыл бұрын

Daniel Iles - Small Business Good point. People used to ask for and receive money when they were truly down on their luck. Now you are asked regularly to fund people’s dreams. I could retire with $500k more in my ira. Maybe I should start a fund???

@valuecalc

4 жыл бұрын

maremacd , why not? Don't you deserve the help? Asking is not wrong.

@rrrrrfffff

3 жыл бұрын

True, it's not wrong to ask. It's wrong to assume you deserve it.

She is not even an RN YET !!!!! She had a long way to go ....

My 30yr old daughter in law has just started taking the online courses necessary to get her Nurse Practitioner degree. Its insane someone convinced this child that it takes a 60k yr school to get her NP degree.

Accepted into a nurse practitioner program, RUN DONT WALK. I, myself, applied to multiple programs, and it was probably the most competitive process I was ever involved in. Any person that is accepted Into a NP program should 100% if that’s what they truly want to do. NPs in my area average 180k a year. 60k is small investment for career. This guy needs to mind his business. Sounds like he’s a bit jealous

@georgewagner7787

2 жыл бұрын

It's 60 per year not total

Honestly I would just sit and laugh if I had someone say they were doing a GoFundMe for college. If some people are stupid enough to give to them then they deserve to throw away that money, I wouldn't.

But Dave, "if she moves out of state I will lose her!" 😉

My cousin is like my sister, nothing distant about it. I get what he means about close family bcuz I was raised really close to all my aunts and uncles and there children.

We have people that are close to us that aren’t even blood related. I’m glad their family cares about a person they think is making the wrong choice. They need to address the fact that kids these days have grown up thinking GoFund Me is a quick fix and never develop this discipline to solve their own problems and expect other people to bail them out or pay their way. That is the problem this family is seeing.

This guy is really talking about him self

NPs work through school ALL THE TIME. You can do it part time all the time. Second, she is not a nurse if she’s a tech. Third, NP is NOT very competitive, so if she’s saying she can only get into one school, I wouldn’t want her taking care of me

I would ignore it. If they pushed me to donate, I’d say go fund yourself.

Dave just told him he was gonna hang up on him and he hung up on him 🤣🤣🤣

The US Public Health Service (usphs.gov) has several programs that offer scholarships or loan repayment for health care providers who agree to work in a medically underserved community. This commitment is only for a few years. The loan repayment program was a true blessing to my family.

@chrisr8772

4 жыл бұрын

Philip Allard I live right by a college that cost 5k annual ...

There is more than one way to skin a potato.

I should have started a GoFund me for my deceased dog Bandit 😔

@thatswhatshesaid8153

4 жыл бұрын

R.I.P. Bandit 😥

@MightyQuinnj

4 жыл бұрын

I think that a moment of silence in Bandit's memory is in order...... ...Bandit, gone but not forgotten, Amen

@fleskenialation

4 жыл бұрын

F

@beckymigdal5650

4 жыл бұрын

jfloresdrums I’m so sorry

Upset that they didn’t think of the idea?

Me : He should probably stay out of it. Also Me : I wish someone would slap me on the back of the head and stop me from going a few hundered K into debt.

@rrrrrfffff

3 жыл бұрын

Same! I went $36k into debt to go to a private college and my family was *BROKE*, and not ONE person in my life (close relation or distant cousin lol) told me I was making a mistake or should consider a different school, or go get a job first and save. They all drank the Koolaid along with me. And now guess what I make a year with my fancy degree... $36k 🤦‍♀️ For the record - it was for a specialized degree that was only offered at this school near me. The next closest I would have had to move and definitely didn't have the money to pay for that. Also, it was $36k *per year*. Thankfully I got grants and loans enough to cover 3/4 of the cost. Can't imagine the hole I'd be in now if that wasn't the case!

Yes! I love this. I was trying to convince my friend to get away from that “one door” mentality. She felt as if there were no other options for her because of ONE OBSTACLE. There’s always another way. If that doors locked and I don’t have the key, you better bet I’m finding a different path! “Where there’s a will there’s a way”

My sister in law went to school for a Respiratory Theory degree (local community college). She worked as an RT while going to nursing school (same community college and then local state college). She worked as a nurse while going to school to be a nurse practitioner (local state collage). Shes now a successful LNP with no debt. *eyeroll*

My English teacher was getting married and posted a gofundme page to fund her honeymoon. As a man I would be super embaressed to ask any stranger for funding. That like being an interner bum

those convinced against their will are of the same opinion still. i love that.

My school you have to sign a contract that you can’t work in the first year so you don’t drop out

There was a Dave Ramsey video of a nurse in graduate school with almost 300k student loans. Play her that clip dude

@JK20239

4 жыл бұрын

300k for nursing school. Definitely a scam

@SactoKevin

4 жыл бұрын

cutehumor and she was trying to justify it the whole time too haha

As an RN, I know of many nurses who work while they are going to nurse practitioner school

First, you cannot take NURSE PRACTITIONER degree without your BSN/RN degree. Second, you HAVE to have atleast 1-2years of clinical experience NOT medical assistant experience. Third, everyone I know including me who is taking a nurse practitioner school are working full time. She’s delirious!!!

@JK20239

4 жыл бұрын

NP is a masters program. You need additional 60k to make 80k?

@peter-jm1pu

4 жыл бұрын

Your badass keep it up! Best of luck to you.

My cousin lived as my sibling until he went to college, y'all don't know what he means when he says "close". No need to attack him

@cjscjs1064

4 жыл бұрын

It's his wife's cousin, not his.

@TacitSwine750

4 жыл бұрын

Anyone that is worried about their extended family's finances needs to get a life. Also, it's not about their relationship. It's about the fact that he feels that he has the key to her success. It is not his place to discuss her finances. If she wants to start a GoFundMe, let her do it. She's dealing with something that every other sensible human being on this planet has to deal with, so if these people are stupid enough to do something that nice for someone who doesn't truly deserve it, then they can do that. He just needs to worry about his own finances before he decides that he's going to try and fix hers.

@Dazak

4 жыл бұрын

CJS CJS, my cousin loaned us $25,000 interest free for my wife's education. Thankfully we have a close knit family which is not selfish.

Glad I'm living in Norway. Free education :)

@carylhalfwassen8555

4 жыл бұрын

Alex Norway Does everyone get to go to college in Norway regardless of academic qualifications? Higher education institutions in USA milk government loans to super inflate prices for nonessential courses. It is mostly a scam unless for medicine, STEM, accounting etc.

@---cr8nw

4 жыл бұрын

I don't think you understand what "free" means. The teachers are still getting paid. The campus was expensive and might even still have a mortgage. People are paying for college, whether they go or not. The people that are benefitting from a college degree gain something at the expense of everyone. That's the LEAST equitable model I can think of. Additionally, it eliminates a substantial incentive to succeed.

@jamieshannon9809

3 жыл бұрын

@@---cr8nw Finally someone else who realises that free isn't actually "free". EVERYTHING WE DO IN LIFE bears some cost. The main costs are Time and Money. In the UK after 30 years if you haven't paid off your college education costs/grants/loans - it gets written off. I'd like to see people try the same procedure with their mortgage or loan providers. I think it might end up differently.

@tastysnack1

3 жыл бұрын

Yet your taxes are thru the roof.

What's wrong with a gofundme, hey if you want to pay for my college, nothing wrong with that!

@oscarbarron1302

4 жыл бұрын

Its tacky to stick your hand out for a handout

@rrrrrfffff

3 жыл бұрын

@@oscarbarron1302 tacky doesn't mean it's wrong... Definitely not for everyone, and most don't get funded anyway, but if you got the guts to do it, why not try it?

She has a bright future ahead of her, he doesn't. That's his real issue

Did save say 60k a year for school isn’t bad?! That’s terrible

@rrrrrfffff

3 жыл бұрын

Probably not for an NP degree. They make a TON of money once they get the job, and the schooling is *hard*

He should just mind his own business.

Here's what you do....grab the popcorn and enjoy the show!!!!

Dave is this a new studio? I love it

@User-qu7pq

4 жыл бұрын

I haven’t watched in over a week I noticed too

@MsMaxinejoy

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, new building.

This guy kinda needs to stay out of her business...

My husband is in the Nursing Masters Program and he also works full time. His works pays for it. To apply for masters program you need to have RN license and working minimal of 2 years. No Master Programs school will accept you without a license and experience. The "girl" doesn't even have her RN license. Something just doesn't add up.

Well that’s definitely an interesting way to fund for college 😂

60 K a year not bad? I must’ve heard something wrong here.

This is dumb, lots of RNs work & do their NP training simultaneously. Not only that she needs more time as a RN to become a well grounded NP. I see it all the time with other RN. I have an associate degree x4 but bail out MSN RNs when I do Rapid Response because I’m an RN/ Paramedic with 20 years experience in Emergency & Critical Care Medicine. MA is not an RN. Let a hospital system pay for your school. Plenty of opportunities out there. She needs to keep searching. 👍🇺🇸💡

My "wife's cousin" 👀 😂

Like Dave said, why are you starting the conversation, move on dude.

I went NP/Midwifery school and worked as a nurse. It is no impossible but sounds like she need to pass her NCLEX first. I wouldn’t recommend going to graduate school for NP without working as a nurse first. Call me old school but I think you need to practice nursing first.

You guys fixed the lighting in the new studio! Niceee!!

An NP is one step away from a doctor. It's a good investment at any cost. She'll always have a job with a good income and great benefits.

Totally crazy. Some people can be such beggars. College isn't even worth it most of the time!

thirsty for drama

He sounds really concerned about this girl.

@teeduck

3 жыл бұрын

This guy is weird

I think this guy is sleeping around with his wife’s cousin behind her back. I for one wouldn’t care at all what my wife’s cousin was doing with her life. What she does effects me in no way.

I love reading all the comments and seeing the difference in culture. Wife's cousin is very close family member in my opinion. Cousins are basically brothers and sisters to us since we're often raised in the exact same house and your auntie feeds you, clothes you and yells at you the exact same way your momma does. And you love both the same...

This dude can't even get straight what she majored in, and we're supposed to believe he's wiser about the matter than her, Dave? Please, get real. He's a busybody. She could be going to CRNA school which is totally worth going out of state for to study for what they do and earn.

IT’S. NOT. YOUR. PLACE!

Does she want a trip abroad or a new car? Start a gofundme for that 🤷‍♂️

"the idea that they encourage you to not work is not true.. what program is it? oh jk, it is true." 😂 even as an undergrad biology/pre-health major, profs encouraged us to not work if we had that option, but many students had to (and took much longer to graduate, or left the program).

Guy thought he would seem heroic and smarter than her by making this call.. let the girl do her own thing and worry about yourself dude😅

Sometimes when I’m asked to contribute to a GFM, I just want to say go fund this 🖕🏻.

@jayhillz3705

4 жыл бұрын

maremacd 😂

Who in their right mind would donate to this go fund me???

SCAMS GONE WILD !!!!!!!!

Like he doesn't have his problem..... mind your own finances

What did I just watch? lol.