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@roseclimbpaintcont

2 ай бұрын

It's not working. I haven't changed at all

@roseclimbpaintcont

2 ай бұрын

The only part that's working is I can self-soothe it doesn't change the terrible relationships

Being rejected by someone you love, is the hardest thing ever. You always try to reconvince them again.

Coach Craig is right, most women/men have the courage to leave when they have a back up plan.

I had a similar situation with my ex. Her mom called me asking to check on her cause she was spiraling with drinking and partying. Plus it was Mother’s Day and she’s a mom of two. So I gave her flowers and showed appreciation for what she’s doing by herself. So she let me inside her house(which I haven’t been in since January). So we were talking and she was hungover from girls night. It was like we never broke up before. So I left cause I didn’t want to over stay my welcome. Her son didn’t want me to leave(he’s six). She also said that she would send me photos of his kindergarten graduation. She walked me outside and she gave me a long hug (about a minute or two). I said can we talk later. She said yes and I left. Two days later, I text to see how she’s doing. She proceeds to say said I still want me contact. Confused me. So later, I messaged her saying if we can talk face to face. She said no and I’m making her uncomfortable (cause ex would come to her house randomly and verbally and physically abuse her). So she said that I’m acting like a stalker and her ex. Her mom called and said that I was making her uncomfortable. So I told her the situation and she understood my side and just told me to give her space and do my thing. She def hot and cold.

Sometimes this all is just too much. I’ve been in this same situation and it is so hard to not be resentful behind all of this all the while being in love. I think it’s just crazy. The highs and lows you guys talk about does nothing but create more anxiety than anything. It’s just crazy…. Says a person who has been in no contact for 38 days. It hurts really really bad.

She's a Fearful Avoidant, i.e. crazy. They can't handle their emotions and shut down, so they block, unblock, lots of emotionally immature, selfish, evil and childish behaviour. She's a complete waste of time and will only cause more pain and hurt. Never date a FA, it only leads to a discard and pain.

You should do a video about how she might test you after a breakup to see if your confident, changed etc. Like responding late etc

@sadiqua7

Ай бұрын

Exactly, my ex reached out last week to say sorry for just responding after 3 months of silence! I responded the next day and it’s been 5 days and he’s not responded smh. Why apologize if you just will continue the same immature behavior? Temperature checks are so annoying! Stay gone if you want to be gone.

Maybe she is punishing him by saying she can't give him the number one priority spot. It sounded like a jab. She felt like he wasn't giving her priority so now she is trying to show him what it feels like.

I'm really busy with trying to flip this house upside down lol, sounds like something my family would say and they're doing a good job at it

Hello i love all you videos. When im feeling down i just watch it. Can you do a video of what if cant do no contact because we are living in same place for financial reason. I strongly feel he is secretly pursuing somebody because he became cold. How do you make them come back?

So.. after breadcrumbing for 5 weeks I finally had enough and told her no more. I end up blocking her so she email me if we could talk. One week later she's over it she's done and moving on 🤔. Now one week later of no contact she calls me asking me if I sent her strawberries mm no. Then she tells me shes dating a co worker.. no mix signals there. Over it ooo and now she says she never loved me yet 2 months ago she wanted everything with me

Sounds like manipulation to get something from you

From where did coach Craig get the idea that there is another man?

@Lucy-jc5wg

2 ай бұрын

I think it's because she is highly demanding of a partner's time and attention and depends on them as a total support system. So her feeling confident enough to leave him now despite being cut off from what appears to be her primary/only source of emotional support possibly suggests that she's getting her needs met elsewhere, perhaps from another man. Likewise, the mixed signals and fluctuating could be her figuring out who she likes best, not wanting to put all her eggs in one basket.

@CoachCraigKenneth

2 ай бұрын

Wisdom 😉

I have questions i what know please can every relationship coach could answer i would be happy 1 if i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating 2 can i have affair without never never having sex. 3 is it really affair without having no sex 4 can i have emotional and physical affair without having no sex?

If a relationship is challenging, its not a relationship.

@CoachCraigKenneth

2 ай бұрын

lol what?

@khawajamazhar9188

2 ай бұрын

@@CoachCraigKenneth lol, not from a therapist point of view though.

@Zemohc

2 ай бұрын

@@khawajamazhar9188 I share this sentiment. Sure there's challenging things but a relationship itself shouldn't be challenging. Getting the flowers should be the challenging part and not understanding each other and being there for them.