My Boyfriend Never Pays for Me _ | Feminism & Gender Role Reversal
If office is his job, is household her sole responsibility? Or what do you say to A young woman in love, whose boyfriend never pays for their dates?
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This channel is so underrated! It deserves more subscribers.
@meralorocco3072
2 жыл бұрын
This channel is important for underrated people only. The people who only belief in gossips only
I m here to learn english and improving my listening power , and wish someday i will speak like you
@rathodpooja1996
4 жыл бұрын
I'm also 👍😊
@jananisekar5575
4 жыл бұрын
I too
@shweta4309
4 жыл бұрын
All the best.. you have written everything correct in English... So don't worry.. you will be fluent with time ♥️
@mohammadaamir3278
4 жыл бұрын
Me too. Actually I learnt a lot of things from her , including English.
@pruthapatel12
3 жыл бұрын
You will
I just found out about you....and i m genuinly addicted to this channel...u r just awesome ❤❤
@yashsinha6059
4 жыл бұрын
Same here yrr
@Sohinig823
3 жыл бұрын
@@trigcat3107 wtf dude.. who told you what? Are you lost? ... are you new to commenting on youtube?
That lip shade is EVERYTHING!!
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Gayyy
@harshagobinath9384
4 жыл бұрын
@@jakesky3155 excuse me?
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
@@harshagobinath9384 y r u gay
@harshagobinath9384
4 жыл бұрын
@@jakesky3155 I'd take that as a compliment coz I m a girl and thanks..🤐
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
@@harshagobinath9384 why someone has to be gay? U perform natural obligation? Do u
Looking at her and hearing her words gives me positive vibes♥️
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Hiv positive
Never ever stop this series.
I feel so very bad for flower. the fact that she was able to bring up to her boyfriend that she wasn't comfortable with him acting a certain way in such a polite manner says a lot about her. It's sad that she had to put up with that kinda behaviour for three whole years.
@riyas8428
4 жыл бұрын
@Tunir Kilikdar I never said that a man is a woman's servant and idk where you got that statement from. And as Prachi didi said even if the roles were reversed I'd have the exact same thing to say. Spending on your family is not wrong, but expecting your significant other to always be the one spending on you is.
@riyas8428
4 жыл бұрын
@ULTIMATE MGTOW agreed. But there's no mention of who's inviting who here. And I don't think there is a possibility of only her inviting him on dates for the entire three years of them being together.
@--MahadyHasan
3 жыл бұрын
I think the man has some strong grudge against modern feminism and he is trolling her in a twisted way.
@hackerbhau1709
3 жыл бұрын
@@--MahadyHasan LoL
@thedesignerways
3 жыл бұрын
@Tunir Kilikdar yes equal rights, but not if the only one is paying. that's not equality. and if someone also looking her family and paying for the relationship than the man need to do the same.... That's called equality.
Totally in love with the way you speak❤ i could listen to you for hours!!
Fruit, you can say the same thing you have written in the letter to your Wife. Communication leads important role in the relationship. Talk with each other spend some time with her. I am sure, she will definitely understand.
Your voice is so soothing and what i loved is that you take every letter so seriously... 😇
I really like the steps you've took for solving people's life... For us it may be just a video.. But for the people who suffer will definitely gain so much confidence abt ur ideas... Keep rocking di❤you're doing a great job
Great vid! Thanks for sharing. I appreciate how you talk about this complicated issue. I'm new to KZread and it's great to see what others have been sharing about social justice issues. Thanks again!
Prachi di you r so realistic and worthy of respect ....anyone can share their feeling s with you and you always come up with the best solutions Thank you Love
Your video just brightens up the weekend:)
Hey flower, just try to give some indication that u have some financial problem , then see his reaction. If he still ignores to pay the bill or just ignore ur financial problem then break up with him. Bcz he doesn't care about u , ur feeling towards ur family...
@rimiarian9777
3 жыл бұрын
Very good suggestion brother ...✌✌
@hopeslies3364
3 жыл бұрын
@TK S She isn't asking her boyfriend to pay for "her"; she's asking him to pay for "the both of them" just like she has been paying for the both of them all the time. You don't have to be in a relationship to understand that nobody else should be paying for your expenses. So, why should the guy expect the girl to pay for his expenses whenever they go out EVERY SINGLE TIME? It's his relationship as well, he has certain responsibilities as well. It's a personal disgrace that he should expect his girlfriend to pay for him all the time.
@hopeslies3364
3 жыл бұрын
@@trigcat3107 umm... you've totally misunderstood the concern here. They're in a solid relationship, it's not just a crush. I think you've confused one story with the other. I do not remember the other one, so wouldn't be able to confirm.
@tanisha9732
2 жыл бұрын
V
i heard it from a dating coach so i would share that there should always be equal investment of everything in a relationship..u should never compromise your worth for any person...your values should not change
@Possiblesharma5132
3 жыл бұрын
That is true, equal payments but it seems that here girl has financial problems and is complaining about gifts.. I mean if my gf is not financially good, does that means that I should pay more on bills or it should be equal? .. I don't think , it's her partner responsibility for her financial situation.
@pcy6141
3 жыл бұрын
@@Possiblesharma5132 don't u understand what's in letter..even on dates he never pay..nobody is saying he is responsible for her financial situation..if a boy spends thousands on his gf then she is named as gold digger by our society so why not now he is just some asshole gold digger , that most of boys can't digest
@Possiblesharma5132
3 жыл бұрын
@@pcy6141 ... Hmm....no I don't think so a girl is a gold digger if she marries someone for money.. She has the right to choose what's best for her ... My c
@powersoul4772
3 жыл бұрын
Noo only boys should pay
@Advik-Gaming64
3 жыл бұрын
@@powersoul4772 you are the one in the story or wt😂
Hey Prachi...it was only yesterday when I saw your video for the first time...u are such a beautiful soul...hope you always stay smiling... Btw you are really pretty too...
She has a quite cheerful mood today! 😀
Thanks a channel like this was needed for youngsters now a days... People are so gullible now a days.. especially in relationships.
I love this series.... I too have a problem wrote an email to you months back....but i feel like my problem is not more than these people.... But for my problem I just want to cry....scream the hell out of me..... sometimes I feel like I Just want to die....because I'm frustrated with these daily chaos
@iwanttopoop8067
4 жыл бұрын
Wanna talk? If yes share your Instagram id. Im here :)
@CrazyCrystalsTheMakeupStore
4 жыл бұрын
@@iwanttopoop8067 crazycrystals_themakeupstore
@miliaurora1038
4 жыл бұрын
@@CrazyCrystalsTheMakeupStore If you use telegram, I can help you too :) Sharing your pain will take the burden off you
@CrazyCrystalsTheMakeupStore
4 жыл бұрын
@@miliaurora1038 thankyou so much for your kind gesture....but i dont use telegram and yeah the girl who replied me and an another girl helped me alot.... I talked to her and I feel lighter now.... But it feels good that in this busy world people are there to help Each other
@mridulmeenakshi9637
4 жыл бұрын
I am feeling exactly same..... I hv so much to share but no one to share
Very professionally answered .✨
The suggestions for the second letter by fruit, is really helpful for me. Thankyou ...
I would love to see Prachi in a cat liner someday
@champagneproblemz7386
4 жыл бұрын
Yes I always think that ❤️
@krishnakumari7015
4 жыл бұрын
What is the meaning of cat liner?
@harshagobinath9384
4 жыл бұрын
@@krishnakumari7015 Winged liner. Look it up on google
I hope all the people could be this mature lyk Prachi ❣️lyf would be easier ryt ♥️♥️
I saw you talking about this video on superwow style and having been waiting for it since then 😅😛🙈
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Hi
God bless you Prachi dee. You're such a wonderful person ❤️
I have been really following you from quite long,I want to you to make a video on body shaming and skin color shaming ,and how to come thru that, how to be confident
The way you try to communicate with people is great and it will help us a lot...
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Hey
I think (as far as I have seen), this is the only comment section that doesn't even have a single hatred comment. So happy for you.
@pcy6141
3 жыл бұрын
Hehe no there are negative comments here n there ...coz whatever u are doing u just end up getting negative comments on Internet ...but Prachi di or writers don't deserve any negative things
Flower, please tell him exactly what you feel before breaking up, Plus I think that he doesn't think of you as a main priority ( sorry to say that but that behaviour clearly signifies that). Just be clear before breaking up, because most of the time with are soo much in our heads, that we disregard emotions. So let it out and then break up if you feel like.
I used to do same as flower but no more I said him straight, he also learned and things have changed if I give him money he returns it back
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Can u give me Ur flower 😋
@PadmapriyaSairam
4 жыл бұрын
Aarti i recommend you to watch school of affluence channel... You will not regret about it...
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
@@PadmapriyaSairam I won't
Fruit, ur not wrong but I think u should communicate with ur wife. My husband looks after all the financial responsibilities & I take care of household, yes I do work but as a single child I have to take responsibility of my family. My husband offers me help in kitchen after his work hours. See I'm not telling u to help ur wife everyday but sometimes u can help her in cutting vegetables or folding clothes like that. May be there was reason whu she left her job & may be now she is regretting that division. Just talk to her coz communication is very important in a relationship.
@coloursoflife862
4 жыл бұрын
@ULTIMATE MGTOW irresponsible?? Really? Looking after house, cooking cleaning, looking after husbands health inlaws kids are big responsibilities. Some woman manages all these with their jobs.
@coloursoflife862
4 жыл бұрын
@ULTIMATE MGTOW see its not same with everyone. Every couple have different ways of handling things & sharing responsibilities. All I wanted to say is communication is important, fruit will not understand what his wife is going through or feeling until & unless he makes an effort to communicate with her.
@aniketjaiswal3147
3 жыл бұрын
@@coloursoflife862 cheers to you mam. Many girls should learn something from you. Feminism will only ruin marriage and a boy's life and career. We should support gender equality. I think both men and women are meant to co exist and they have their own responsibilities. I don't mind doing all the household work and looking after everything. My wife can do job while I can do a house wife work. Jai Hind🇮🇳🇮🇳
@ragsmakeover4936
3 жыл бұрын
What ever u do please do it with love💜
@tanisha9732
2 жыл бұрын
F
Hey flower if at all u r reading this- I would like to tell u that once I had a conversation with such a guy n his point of view was that I do not want that girl to take advantage of me n in case we break up in future, i might regret spending on her. That was his point. Please make sure that even ur partner doesn't think in the same way bcoz for ppl like these money is all that matters n do NOT have any emotional connection with anyone.
@vedaam9189
4 жыл бұрын
Tunir Kilikdar yeah and every guy is a rapist.. (The way you are generalising things..i think this also must be true for u?)
@alexcarter4518
4 жыл бұрын
@@vedaam9189 Not rapist but We want sex from our partners... It's a biological need....The definition of marriage has changed in this generation.....before people got married and didn't even expect sex from their partners but in this day and age sex is an expectation. Without it relationships are hardly going to survive.
@vedaam9189
4 жыл бұрын
69696 subscribers without any video challenge 😂😂😂😂lolzz u didn’t even watched this vdo. And didn’t even read previous comments . You don’t know on what topic debate is going onn. The person above is saying that every girl is a gold digger. So giving him a sarcasm i said to him that if every girl is a gold digger then every guy must be a rapist according to u. There is no talk regarding marriage or sex going onn over here pal...!!
@evildgirl7559
2 жыл бұрын
@@harshitsrivastava7557 Not every girl is a Gold digger !
today's letters were best explained...mature and balanced explanation
Flower, this guy is a cheapskate. Plain and simple. If a guy never pays for you, it means he does not care for you.
Hello ma'am! am ur new subscriber☺ I found ur advices are so helpful 😍😍😍 thank u ☺
You never fail to give good suggestions 🙌🏻
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Hi
Here early for once!
if he never pays or gift you that means you are nothing to him.it's already so late.break up right now.
@KishanKumarkishanacharya
4 жыл бұрын
Any way they are breaking up so why we need to spend money on them. When they break up collect all the money.
@BinisWorld
3 жыл бұрын
watch full video then comment. 3yrs relationship, not even a single gift.these are men??
@BinisWorld
3 жыл бұрын
Before saying unrelated talks see the incident then talk.
@igt2173
3 жыл бұрын
@Tunir Kilikdar Its ur thinking process not everyone else
@igt2173
3 жыл бұрын
@Tunir Kilikdar if u say Women doesn't love a man they love only if he can provide? then i can also say man doesn't love woman they only want to have sex Fair Enough for u? I gave the opinion based on ur mindset
Wow di🙏🙏🙏🙏you are amazing 🎉🎉🎉 main kabhi aisa nahi soch pati❤️
Brilliantly explained....
Respect and love to you Prachi ❤️
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Gayyy
Never misses your videos :)
You looking super cute di. I was waiting for you video❤❤
You're amazing, just a suggestion,you should really start a podcast
Hi Prachididi, video is good and informative but i do not find subtitle button, why so ? it helps lot , kindly advice how to start ? sanjiv deshle pune india
One kind request to you mam ❤️ can you start a new channel or new series with your husband for boy's men's you just specificly tell each thing were much , a girl she gets knowledge information from your video's we do need some knowledge for men's as well ♥️🤟 hope you understand what i want to say😊🤞✌️
@prakritisharma4110
4 жыл бұрын
Men can also have knowledge from her. She is there for them also. She never said that she is here only for girls. Even boys send their issues to her.
@swapnilpawar6600
4 жыл бұрын
@@prakritisharma4110 yes you are absolutely right mam ✌️ but a men's perspective can easily be underestand by men ♥️😊😌
@mohammadaamir3278
4 жыл бұрын
@@swapnilpawar6600 no bro it's ur attitude to see that I am also a boy n feminist but it doesn't matter that
@miliaurora1038
4 жыл бұрын
@@swapnilpawar6600 There's Swetabh Gangwar also...you can DM him on Instagram. Check out his KZread channel almost 1M subs
🌺:- as prachi Di said he should treat you better.. be with one who treats you better and even you mentioned in the video it's not about money it's about you man doing atleast something for you I can totally understand your point and relate to it .. it is clearly mentioned in the video when you raised the issue he said he gives all the lectures about being independent and feminism.. he is just manipulating the topic and even you also so that Ye baat spend na krne ki Upse na aajaye and he is throwing everything on you and making himself look great ..he doesn't want to spend .. and you have responsibilities of your family as well .. think about it break up with him .. in today's world I feel a girl should always have savings for herself it's very important for her survival you never know what future brings us .. please don't be with this guy !
Brilliant prachi..❤🙂
First view and first comment prachi di
Best part was, Being a housewife should not ashame you. And also we must glorify household works. That's how we will be able to solve many problems.
Flower, This is a dead beat husband in the making. A feminist believes in equality, this dud is using that word as a euphemism to tell you he doesn't care enough for you. When you care about someone, you want to show appreciation to them. A birthday card, a bunch if flowers, etc.
@hackerbhau1709
3 жыл бұрын
@Geet Donde yup agreed, how he is even dating her if a girl says she is feminist it's red alert.
@drReetHooda
3 жыл бұрын
@Geet Donde you are absolutely dumb! Many men openly say that they are feminists as well and they respect those who say they are feminists too, unfortunately insecure men like you can only handle weaker women who can’t stand for themselves so that you don’t end up feeling insecure and it will hurt your ego. I have seen mature men respecting feminists and that definitely means some are more educated than you are!
Hi prachi.....yesterday i caught u for the fst time....... I'm not able to control me to see all ur previous videos ....n made me subscribe at an instant........
In a way you are also freeing the minds of your viewers from such stereotypes. 😊
This smile with me prachi series is just so good..
Hey prachi I have a question I'm in a doubt where can I ask to you
You are awesome prachi di ❤️
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Hey gorgeous
This channel is so underated oh my god
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Why? God
@varshamishra3340
4 жыл бұрын
@@jakesky3155 look at her no of subscribers
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
@@varshamishra3340 so sad Imma cry
@varshamishra3340
4 жыл бұрын
@@jakesky3155 why? 😂
Dii, can you please tell me where to text you ? I thought to search for email in your latest video but I didn't find any. Please dii.
Di i want to write something to you where should i write it ?
Flower..if you are not happy its simple move on..point of being in love is being happy n you are not..clear n cut..
dii can you please tell me where and how to send you letters please please dii I literally needs your help dii please guide me i cant share these stuffs with anybody and this is killing me from inside please guide me about how to write letters to you please reply me i really needs your help
AM a big fan of u prachii
I really feel bad for fruit, honestly speaking a true loving guy will refrain from paying for his gal, in fact he should take pride in doing so. And yes, the gal should be ready to pay n offer him the gifts but it can be optional. Whereas the male should definitely take a lead in doing so as it makes him more responsible n prepared for the future family expenses.
I watched all videos and I'm so impressed😍 and I too have a problem that I want to share with you and need your help but I don't know how to contact or write a letter to you how can I write a letter that only reach you help me 😔
Hey dii, i have watched a few videos of yours and your suggestion are very correct snd to the point, please tell me how can i reach u nd write you a letter
Dear Prachi Di.....I want to share my problem with you....but I don't use Instagram or Facebook 🥺🥺🥺🥺from where I can tell you my problem 😞 please reply.... I'm really depressed
How can I write to you I really need your suggestion please help me!!!!
@meeradiavisine1210
3 жыл бұрын
Same here
maam i am thing i can say or no i never seen feminist women you in my entire life so any way i really respect you madam.
Good content
You look so beautiful di❤️
Flower dear both of u should pay equally... as u have responsibilities of ur family too and dear u sud start saving for urself too. its really important. I really cant say if u guys or him specially were in serious relationship?? I was in a relationship with a guy from simple family I took most of our expenses it was not even an issue until he started taking advantage of it,we quit. Now ur Bf seems to be self obsessed, selfish in his own needs and expenses. Being from a well off family I can understand that his family might had warned him against gold diggers, but he is cheap and selfish. such people definately will marry a girl with a huge dowry and not a responsible and kind woman like u... I hope u get it
Agar aapde baat Karni hai to Kaha mess karu Di?
Hey prachi di I have mailed you my problem please tell me the solution.
Where can we connect with her
You are looking fabulous today just beautiful the moment hou said ba bye it was so happy and cheerful for me
This needs to be more popular than PewDiePie
Can please someone explain me how to mail prachi ? I really want to discuss my situation 🖤
How to write to you parchi didi??
Wow....subscribers are increasing..
Flower's BF sounded like CHAD.
@jkshallinheritearth3883
3 жыл бұрын
Chad is living in USA, for India it's Vijay
@puelladvie6317
3 жыл бұрын
@@jkshallinheritearth3883 What is the Indian equivalent of a Stacey?
What if the boy is not financially stable then should I be considering the same advice plss let me know it will be a great help
@That_misfit
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah i want to know same
Please help me Prachi..... I seriously want someone to listen to me and suggest me what needs to be done in my situation. I had written to u as well months back but it's ok. I am in a relationship since last 7 year and I don't want to end it but I am not happy in that relationship as well. I am so confused.
@miliaurora1038
4 жыл бұрын
The point of relationships is to be happy...you said you aren't happy... break up, move on.
I know this is so irrelevant to this topic. But may I know the shade of your lipstick Pachi didi?
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Why are u gay?
I like the background
3rd 😍😍😍
2nd viewer ❤️
@varshamishra3340
4 жыл бұрын
Toh? Nachu?
@sarannya696
4 жыл бұрын
@@varshamishra3340 ha .. please... Nacho na
I don’t know how to approach Prachi di even I want my letter to be read
@yashsinha6059
4 жыл бұрын
Just Email your question
@deepadcruz6483
4 жыл бұрын
@Mr. Catcher wasn't that in superwowstyle channel, she has way more than 1 million subs there. I don't think she has to makeup stories, she is interacting with people all over india via this channel.
@yashsinha6059
4 жыл бұрын
@@user-zx2fn4lm4d rhne do yrr itne arguments ki jarurat hi nhi hai ab jaisi jiski soch agr use lgta hai ki didi (prachi) stories bnaati hai so let him think it's his loss he's missing some of the good advice for life.
@sanika5067
4 жыл бұрын
@Mr. Catcher These letters are very real and I've seen such things happen to my friends. Ofcourse they might seem unrealistic to people who are in their 20s or 30s now or people who come from traditional families/ small towns. But sadly this is common between the teenagers these days.
@yashsinha6059
4 жыл бұрын
@@user-zx2fn4lm4d Hn, uske mind me jo perception hai vo use hi sch maanega.
Hii flower, I suggest you to watch school of affluence's video about this. Search School of Affluence on KZread ( here only 😄) . She got a piece of advice for you.
@Chapa24.
3 жыл бұрын
100% agree ! I watch Anna Bey too.
Sometimes as a women u need to understand men
@AnuragSharma-pn8io
4 жыл бұрын
@Tunir Kilikdar do not choose bad men which are few then gets burned and blame all men same
@divyaa7145
4 жыл бұрын
All men to there sisters:all men are same ,dont trust men...... ._.
@AnuragSharma-pn8io
3 жыл бұрын
@@divyaa7145 its not always men job to listen to women problem n theire tantrums plz sometime women too need to listen to men
Make a video... How to make and keep modern day feminist happy.......
mam how i need to approach u , i need to share my pblm vth u but i dnt hav ur xact mail id to send my letters , mam plzz help me vth dis and im new to dis one
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Share here
Iam addicted you by one min...
Please do a podcast with Shwetabh Gangwar
Rewatching roadies 8 just to see prachi
Hi prachi dii A year ago i was in a long distance relationship with a boy.we met only once and there was no meeting after that and whenever he wanted to meet me due to some reasons we were always unable to meet.after approx 2,3 month we decided to become a Friend only as we were not able to handle long Distance relationship I just remain single because somewhere I just started loving him and also it was my 1st relationship,he had other relationship and got cheatef,he came to me back and said that I love you and long distance doesn't matter for me and after that my life became hell as he was very much possessive and took screenshots of my call logs and then he cheated me repeatedly 2,3 times and since he is also a nice guy always told me about all those things and after some time he suddenly said that I am sorry,and I don't love you and he can't handle all this long distance.but it's too late I became too much attached to him.i cried a lotttt My father wants me to get married but my mom support me as I am not able to take all that responsibilities and I am not able to forget him,i just called him today and he is happy with his new girlfriend.i am just 20 years old Recently my mother is also not well so I have to do all household works but as I had never did this I get too tired and not able to study and all these things seriously made my life soo miserable What should I do Diii please help me I just can't talk to anyone about these topics because my family is too much conservative😓😭😭
@harijha7560
4 жыл бұрын
You are just 20 years old you should focus on career and be self dependent financially first
@medhasuman7814
4 жыл бұрын
@@harijha7560 thank you for your advice infact I think soo But I am stuck and I am not able to remove him from my mind,i just don't know how to remove him completely from my life😥
@harijha7560
4 жыл бұрын
@@medhasuman7814 that's fine but think about other girls they are more focus on their career and dreams it's competitive world you have to work hard and forget about relationship for some time
@medhasuman7814
4 жыл бұрын
@@harijha7560 thank you😇kisi se iss matter pe bat krke bht Achaa lgga Bht light feel ho raha hai thank you so much And I will try to give my 100 ℅on my study instead of wasting my previous time and mind on a cheater thank u 😇😊😊😊
Should I be with someone with whom I have no future with??
My all focus was in your Lip shade😅❤
@alphaproductions211
4 жыл бұрын
Lesbian?
@alphaproductions211
4 жыл бұрын
Lesbian?
@deepikarao260
4 жыл бұрын
@@alphaproductions211 whattt!!!!!
Prachii.. You are doing a great job.. How can I write a letter to you..
@jakesky3155
4 жыл бұрын
Ur one look can cure erectile dysfunction !! U know that?