He loves me too much & I can't stand it

They say that your sister is your best friend, but what if she becomes the biggest threat to your love life?
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Disclaimer: This is not professional advice, please take this series lightly. Treat my opinions as something coming from your friend. For those suffering from depression and mental health issues I would seriously recommend going to a professional.
#Relationshiptalk #selfrespect #relationshipissues

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  • @SuperWowstyle
    @SuperWowstyle4 жыл бұрын

    Doctor approved : coronavirus safety tips - kzread.info/dash/bejne/hZOmz8GPhbiXhM4.html

  • @sanhitabanerjee1727

    @sanhitabanerjee1727

    4 жыл бұрын

    Di I have emailed u I also want u to solve my prb

  • @suryasukumaran4326

    @suryasukumaran4326

    4 жыл бұрын

    Di can you share your mail id??

  • @The_Indian_Polyglot_Official

    @The_Indian_Polyglot_Official

    4 жыл бұрын

    Di i have mailed please check out😥nd reply me please

  • @RahulKumar-ci4by
    @RahulKumar-ci4by3 жыл бұрын

    Platinum bro😄😄 calling her parents financial idiots was lit🔥🔥

  • @maalinihema_
    @maalinihema_3 жыл бұрын

    Find someone who addresses you like platinum...Not his girlfriend, but I was blushing😂😭

  • @peppermintdior
    @peppermintdior3 жыл бұрын

    Diamond, i was in a very similar situation when i was 19, second year of college. Those kind of guys are just immature, really you don't have to force yourself for the sake of someone else.

  • @prajwalsharma5877
    @prajwalsharma58773 жыл бұрын

    Diamond is a good girl. It's ok to break up, if you are not on same page with your partner.

  • @vijaylaxmi9849
    @vijaylaxmi98494 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes after listening you, I'm like..wowwww, how can you be so amazing in handling all the complicated problems of life so easily......I Everytime , after watching you,wish that I could have you in my life as my Doremon or angel 🤗🤗...who would have solutions to all my problems....You are amazing didi😘❤️

  • @SmileWithPrachi

    @SmileWithPrachi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oley. How sweet..thanks :) P.S Doremon is one of my favourite characters!

  • @uniqueworld1095

    @uniqueworld1095

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@SmileWithPrachi cute comment :)

  • @harshagobinath9384
    @harshagobinath93844 жыл бұрын

    Is it weird that I m more interested in the new names than the actual content of the stories 😂

  • @shivranjinighegde1113

    @shivranjinighegde1113

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes it's weird

  • @uraniumdepositsonly

    @uraniumdepositsonly

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao no chill

  • @jananic6113
    @jananic61134 жыл бұрын

    Diamond, there is a high possibility that you are in a narcissistic relationship. Read up on what that is. You are definitely smart, more self-aware and have rightly identified your feelings. Stick to your decision and break up. Friends usually don't understand you that well when it comes to relationships. They only see the lovey dovey side of your relationship and suddenly seize to see you as an individual. Which is very common amongst people your age. So don't worry. Your friends will eventually get you. But you stand up for yourself. You are doing the right thing. Also, if you did date a narcissist, you'll automatically feel that things are going too fast, and everything is going as per their plan and you start feeling lost. You start losing yourself in this process. Please do read up and check that you haven't been experiencing narcissistic abuse. Plenty of videos there on KZread to help you through every stage of it. Dr. Ramani's videos are really helpful. Just praying that you weren't with a narcissist. All the best to you and believe in yourself 😊

  • @budgetandbeauty
    @budgetandbeauty4 жыл бұрын

    Dear platinum......please break up with this girl..... Talking about money matters would suddenly make u into a villian....... And trust me you would never ever figure out a way out of this mess..... I have been their......u will be manipulated every now and then..... U will end up paying for everything every time.And all that these people will remember is how reluctant u were to give money.... They will manipulate u into blving ua not good enough a person .......love includes understanding and understanding is all inclusive..........good luck

  • @rubyshine8926
    @rubyshine89264 жыл бұрын

    Dear platinum, U still have time to move on. I know this is hard for u , but think about your future. U will get your love one, but as time pass by, their parents will start relying on you which somehow start cracking your relationship with ur partner & could worsen the situation. Peace of mind is v important in life. So think about how your future might be horrible/frustrating which result in anxiety.

  • @DevikaRani.
    @DevikaRani.2 жыл бұрын

    Noooo don't give money for the parents! Tell your gf to stop providing for them!! It is not her responsibility!

  • @molankonyak127
    @molankonyak1274 жыл бұрын

    When ever I come to this Chanel.. I learn something new. n tads awesome.

  • @338aishwaryasinha3
    @338aishwaryasinha34 жыл бұрын

    Hello platimun, To let you know, i am a single child and would love to pay for my parents when they get old. And as per your problem, that you dont want to pay for your girlfriends parents then its better for you to call off for the favours.. but do not make your girlfriend. I would suggest you... that you dont pay for her expenses when she is broke. And let her know that her parents need to be considerate... and also let her know.. what she would have done if you were not there to help her at this time of crisis.

  • @venkatsaigoud21
    @venkatsaigoud214 жыл бұрын

    just waiting for episode ...!!! thanks coz of you i can learn something in life!!

  • @nandniprasad498
    @nandniprasad4982 жыл бұрын

    You are doing a great job, trust me.. you are so clear & have fantastic ideas as well of a lot of situations. Keep it up 👍

  • @rashmishetty3019
    @rashmishetty30192 жыл бұрын

    I feel sorry for Platinum... he should not entertain such things which drains him and his girl financially... but imagine for the same situation if the genders were reversed, then many would have defended guys parents and the guy giving money to his parents...and would have demonised bahus who object to it for the sake of their own financial well-being...

  • @mansic905
    @mansic9054 жыл бұрын

    Always adding some insightful perspective on important matters! Could you please increase the frequency of Smile with Prachi episodes? And not just limit it to Sundays? Thanks and Best wishes 🙂🙂

  • @vanmathigurumurthy3858
    @vanmathigurumurthy38583 жыл бұрын

    Hey prachi i just love the way you approach each and every problem

  • @snehabanerjee4380
    @snehabanerjee43804 жыл бұрын

    I'm early today, liked it even before watching, cuz Prachi, you ROCK!!

  • @minaximehta1536
    @minaximehta15363 жыл бұрын

    Hello Prachi ,I m a mother of 27 year old son facing same problem n i recommended him to watch this video. I agree that it's my son's responsibility also to look after her parents so that they can live comfortably.but it should be in balanced way ,I m a single earning lady n till date never took a single penny for anything from him but always given them .

  • @banipriya
    @banipriya4 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful ❣️ suggestions 😍👌😍 nice video 😍

  • @shreyayadava_
    @shreyayadava_4 жыл бұрын

    Prachi di😍you are like an elder sister to me and i love you very much♥

  • @deepikar3853
    @deepikar38534 жыл бұрын

    Prachi you're looking awesome in this beautiful black dress 😍😍😍

  • @GraphicArtistGauri
    @GraphicArtistGauri4 жыл бұрын

    Yehi haal he sabka ... Jo serious he ... Usko casual hi milte he 😒

  • @Sojournersays
    @Sojournersays4 жыл бұрын

    Dear Diamond; i feel for u. Somehow i can relate ur situation with Ross and Rachel's from FRIENDS. May be the guy is over emotional and loves picturing you in his future. On the other hand i know exactly what u feel. May be for u; it is liking a strong crush but for him it is love that too intense And over powering! U r only 20 and it's too early to plan a future i agree but u just can't blame him for this. He has planned his entire picture and u are so prominent there. I think u two should sit together and discuss what is going wrong. Tell him that u two want completely different things from life. That he should go for someone who wants exact same things from life. Help him look into the things.. tell him that U like him. But the feelings from ur side is not so strong and intense as compared to his. U r much more practical career oriented, For whom having an identity is more important than being his wife. If u r ready to lose him ( since it is quite obvious that u two will end up breaking up) then go ahead and clear all these things up. U two have different plans for future.. different goals. Ur paths may collide at a distant future but not anytime soon, If he is willing to wait till that time and u both are ready to walk those extra miles. Otherwise take the decision no matter how hard it is for u or him! Go on different directions accepting it was never meant to be.

  • @Yourfrienditsmee
    @Yourfrienditsmee4 жыл бұрын

    Dii.... Seriously... Glad about savings account thing suggest i am starting my job in may-june and was thinking about savings also because i am a shoppoholic i will waste all my money thankyou so muchh ❤️ You gave me ideaas how xan i save and not spend much

  • @payalbansal4810
    @payalbansal48102 жыл бұрын

    You are looking so lovely Prachi in this top😍

  • @goelayushi09
    @goelayushi094 жыл бұрын

    U are looking so beautiful i cant take my eyes off from you. And it is difficult to listen ♥️♥️

  • @sakshikumar6831
    @sakshikumar68314 жыл бұрын

    Sahi hai yar aur ek Mai Hoon Jo serious relationship ke liye mare ja rahi hai aur isko mil Raha hai toh isko chahiye nahi 😂

  • @338aishwaryasinha3

    @338aishwaryasinha3

    4 жыл бұрын

    People are different.. some are more inclined to be free from all commitments at such a young age. And wants to make their carreer

  • @preranadholakia1069

    @preranadholakia1069

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @kavitasharma8689
    @kavitasharma86893 жыл бұрын

    When I was 19-20 yr old...I was in the same situation...

  • @monisha861
    @monisha8614 жыл бұрын

    Nice cloth 😍😍😍😍

  • @coloursoflife862
    @coloursoflife8624 жыл бұрын

    Second writer, U dont give them money, but please don't stop ur girl from helping them. Tell her to pay bills by herself & giving little cash is not harm but she should know where her parents are investing. U never know may be they have taken credit for her education & all. I don't earn much but being an only child of my parents, I pay most of their bills & I'm happy to do this because we can never pay them enough & I will not want my husband's interference in this. U don't give but please let her help her parents & don't tell her that u don't like it because it's a very sensitive topic & they are their parents.

  • @frenchwithbonjouracademy1656
    @frenchwithbonjouracademy16563 жыл бұрын

    Platinum , what if your gf is lying and minting out money from u?

  • @krima2160
    @krima21604 жыл бұрын

    Hello dii and every one bee safe

  • @user-wh6zu1dr7n

    @user-wh6zu1dr7n

    4 жыл бұрын

    Self quarantine pls :)

  • @sukug1989
    @sukug19894 жыл бұрын

    Are you still in Bangalore @prachi???

  • @saloni9194
    @saloni91944 жыл бұрын

    Hi Prachi Di I completely relate to Diamond's situation and and your suggestions of breaking up is absolutely right and I even tried doing this several times But I'm always threatened by the other person saying that if I do so then he'll commit suicide and such other things because of which I step back It is really suffocating because of which I can't focus on my studies too Also , I can't share any if this things with my parents Can you please suggest what should I do as I'm in a terrible situation from last 5 months and can't take any of this more Please reply

  • @sparkle6828

    @sparkle6828

    4 жыл бұрын

    Saloni _ hello are you still in that relationship?

  • @vidhichoudhary5565
    @vidhichoudhary55654 жыл бұрын

    House tour please

  • @ninadnagpure880
    @ninadnagpure8804 жыл бұрын

    Diamond, one thing you need to do is completely break all contacts with him after you talk to him and after you breakup...and make sure you don't leave him even a string of Hope coz he'll hold on to it... Make it clear and just leave him on his own... he'll be just fine...! Be kind, considerate and understanding at the same time be assertive and bold.

  • @maruthigs1026
    @maruthigs10264 жыл бұрын

    Prachi platinum will definitely give her savings or investments what next??

  • @suryasukumaran4326
    @suryasukumaran43264 жыл бұрын

    Hi prachi.. I'm your biggest fan.. I've a problem to tell you.. but I don't know how to tell you that.. pls help me..

  • @LiveLifeee
    @LiveLifeee4 жыл бұрын

    Prachi , I think you have mistakenly put the caption of the last video , plz look into it once

  • @SmileWithPrachi

    @SmileWithPrachi

    4 жыл бұрын

    So so silly of me. Thanks for pointing this out

  • @AditiMehre
    @AditiMehre4 жыл бұрын

    I have mailed my problem to you two weeks ago ..but you didn't reply..please check your inbox and suggest a way out for my problem .its urgent .

  • @rochellegonsalves9028
    @rochellegonsalves90284 жыл бұрын

    Hi di

  • @vidhichoudhary5565
    @vidhichoudhary55654 жыл бұрын

    Please give is your house tour

  • @pavanichella
    @pavanichella4 жыл бұрын

    Diii u didn't reply to my mail😞😞😞😞

  • @rushipandya58
    @rushipandya584 жыл бұрын

    Har har Mahadev

  • @harijha7560
    @harijha75604 жыл бұрын

    Hey platinum your GF's parents are using you for their interest please leave her asap and if possible find another one or do arrange marriage

  • @paruljindal8009

    @paruljindal8009

    4 жыл бұрын

    What 🙄he loves her

  • @harijha7560

    @harijha7560

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@paruljindal8009 he can move on its his life it's his choice better to get rid of golddiggers

  • @harijha7560

    @harijha7560

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Jugaad Recipe no modern era women especially working don't like to do this they want to live in nuclear family and also earning 2 to 5 times then her if she don't get this she lodge false 498a dowry case on entire groom's family

  • @befirstalt9850

    @befirstalt9850

    4 жыл бұрын

    He will definitely take prachi's advice rather than yours. He said he really loves her so why would he leave her?

  • @dazlingstyles1599
    @dazlingstyles15994 жыл бұрын

    I messaged u in ur e-mail no reply please di reply me

  • @akanksha2281
    @akanksha22814 жыл бұрын

    If i want some advice? Where am i supposed to send my letter to? BECAUSE I NEED SOME HELP

  • @bamidilakshmi8916

    @bamidilakshmi8916

    4 жыл бұрын

    You ok ?

  • @INFJRavenclaw

    @INFJRavenclaw

    4 жыл бұрын

    Send an email to her. Her email is mentioned in the description.

  • @theempress5313
    @theempress53134 жыл бұрын

    Why caption is not matching with the letters?? .. Btw this series on is the bestttttt❤️❤️ Thank you

  • @mounikavarma1176

    @mounikavarma1176

    4 жыл бұрын

    The caption relates to the last video dear.

  • @theempress5313

    @theempress5313

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mounikavarma1176 oh okay thank you 😊

  • @babyboo7603
    @babyboo76034 жыл бұрын

    How to email you?

  • @preranadholakia1069

    @preranadholakia1069

    4 жыл бұрын

    The email is in the description of the video... You can email her there 🤗

  • @bhawnakumari6014
    @bhawnakumari60144 жыл бұрын

    Hello ma'am, i want to share my problem with you..may i know how to connect with you?

  • @rakshithaj1696

    @rakshithaj1696

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kindly mail her... 🙂

  • @harshapatil9388

    @harshapatil9388

    4 жыл бұрын

    What is her mail I'd?

  • @ayananaaz9628
    @ayananaaz96284 жыл бұрын

    Prachi di , U did not mention anything about Platinium using the word idiotic n all for his gfs parents Even though her parents took some wrong financial decisions They r asking their daughter for help is totally f9 I m sure they have not been always wrong n bad in financial condition that is the reason they have made her daughter something n she is earning... platinium, if love her firstly u need to learn to respect her and her parents as well, when u said eventually I have to pay becoz her salary dint came... if have objection in paying n she is paying u back.. take it... don't say u can't take from her...becoz ders No pt in paying n not taking back when u r really not doing from heart.

  • @coloursoflife862

    @coloursoflife862

    4 жыл бұрын

    Correct. I also felt the same

  • @nainachauhan1110
    @nainachauhan11104 жыл бұрын

    Hey Prachi! How are you? My name is naina. I really need an advice from you for my situation. Prachi, I’m becoming really dependent on my friends and relationship for my happiness. If I had a fight with my friends then I go to my boyfriend and vice-versa. But I think both of the people are not good for me in the long term. My friendship is 3-4 years old but the only common thing I can analyse after being into this friendship from so long is she only calls me when she needs me. In case of my relationship as well, I think my boyfriend is with for sex. But I’m so emotionally attached to both of them that I can’t leave them. I really love both of them but both of these things are becoming toxic My main problem is I can’t be happy without them It is very difficult for me to stay home alone I’m scared of loneliness. I feel very insecure. What should I do? Please I really need your advice, I mailed you as well. I’m becoming emotionally weak.

  • @parmarmonika7142

    @parmarmonika7142

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Naina.. try to make yourself not available all the time for both of them and see who stays, to keep yourself not dependent on them so much to get "used" make yourself BUSY in the things you like to do..

  • @SmileWithPrachi

    @SmileWithPrachi

    4 жыл бұрын

    You need to make new friends. So you won't fear being lonely so much. Also practice assertiveness. Say 'no' to the things people want from you. Your problem is not just fear of being alone, but more than that - you fear their lack of approval. You like being needed. (To some extent we all do). Please talk to a therapist and work out the self esteem issues. You are aware of your problem and their intent - you will recover quickly if you get help. All the best dear :)

  • @nainachauhan1110

    @nainachauhan1110

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do I really need a Psyciatrist help for this?

  • @avid_abhi

    @avid_abhi

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nainachauhan1110 You don't need any psychiatrist. You just need to control your dependence on people. Be more emotionally strong, enjoy your own company, keep yourself occupied, work for your dreams and passion. This is just a phase you're going through. It will pass, so don't stress much. Start doing more physical activities, particularly jogging/gym/workout, as it is a great thing to do for self contentment and beating stress. Stay strong all the time👍

  • @keerthananc6187

    @keerthananc6187

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@nainachauhan1110 see the reason y Ur dependent boils down to a few other issues which can be dealt alone also but needs a lot of patience , but it's better u meet a psychiatrist they'll be able to help u soon Just remember never be too emotionally dependent on anyone.

  • @xyzabc1080
    @xyzabc10804 жыл бұрын

    My ex got married i don't y im feeling low how do i cope up with myself??

  • @vardhanpravin1989

    @vardhanpravin1989

    4 жыл бұрын

    whether you are m/f ..i am in the same boat since one year.she got married..it was more than year..definitely it hurts...that too it hurts more in the initial days.try to be busy what ever you like to do and think about the family and friends who cared about you and spend more time with them..in the end as simple as that we cannot force him/her anyone to stay in our life be strong.time heals everything.

  • @xyzabc1080

    @xyzabc1080

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@vardhanpravin1989 tqsm ... yes im in initial stage

  • @preranadholakia1069

    @preranadholakia1069

    4 жыл бұрын

    Focus on things like career. A person can leave you, but your career won't. There's a lot more to life than someone who's already left. ❤️

  • @lolitapinto4445
    @lolitapinto44454 жыл бұрын

    1 lakh rupees hmm is like dream for me.

  • @meriatminnuantony

    @meriatminnuantony

    4 жыл бұрын

    true...i was looking for someone to comment this... 1 lakh per month🥶🥶

  • @sureshmastersvoice6080
    @sureshmastersvoice60804 жыл бұрын

    What is the real definition of love? Please..

  • @uniqueworld1095

    @uniqueworld1095

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love is something that you find in yourself when you are fulfilled enough to enjoy and stay happy in your own that make others fall in love you as well So for me real definition of love lies in you love yourself love automatically finds you

  • @sureshmastersvoice6080

    @sureshmastersvoice6080

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Smarty Girl you are right . After Four and a half years togetherness my wife decided to divorce.

  • @sureshmastersvoice6080

    @sureshmastersvoice6080

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Smarty Girl definitely. My life is perished.

  • @sureshmastersvoice6080

    @sureshmastersvoice6080

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Smarty Girl I'm from India, Kerala

  • @sureshmastersvoice6080

    @sureshmastersvoice6080

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Smarty Girl no. She has no interest for it. I think she has a affair before I knot. She hide it from me. She hasn't express any soft corner to me after the marriage. I'm a English trainer. So I had lots of students and colleagues. So my marriage was more expensive. I booked expensive auditorium, food and stage decorations were Event Management, and I booked cars and luxury bus for carrying invited people to the auditorium. Really expensive marriage. Now I am in debt.

  • @uniqueworld1095
    @uniqueworld10954 жыл бұрын

    I like your advice's but this is wrong about diamond She already committed it 3 months back Now its quite betraying because love can happen and even grow in 3 months What she could do in this situation is not what u just said If she say break up he will promise her to take things slower down, even if he will, that decision of him would come out of his fear to loose her Next thing what she can do Instead of using word break up If he really love her he will understand it She could have sit and talk to him that I am feeling suffocated this way I want my life like this I want to accomplish my career goals first as a priority Believe me if he love you would definitely support you this way that you would have never imagined And if he don't love you how do he support you in accomplishment of your dreams Then you can leave him its your choice But if you just leave him without giving him a chance to let you understood, this is not right ethically because this is like leaving someone out of no fault Talk to him arrange things don't rush it out You love him already that's why you don't wana hurt him just you feel your career as your priority One pretty suggestion struggle in fulfilling dreams is damn hard in any field but if you have someone or someone's support who love you then it would lead to a much better destination. Good luck God bless you

  • @manjirishinde2218

    @manjirishinde2218

    4 жыл бұрын

    But she is dating that guy for 3 weeks

  • @uniqueworld1095

    @uniqueworld1095

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@manjirishinde2218 no listen the video again it's 3 months not weeks

  • @manjirishinde2218

    @manjirishinde2218

    4 жыл бұрын

    See 0.50 the 1st line it says 3 weeks according to the letter

  • @uniqueworld1095

    @uniqueworld1095

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@manjirishinde2218 yes I have seen it again it's 3 weeks But I am still on my point and i.e love can happen in 3 weeks too No one should commit in a relationship without knowing that you love them Because this is not right JB MN Kiya aao JB MN Kiya jaao no it's not the way She should have think all this before committing into a relationship

  • @venkateshp1856
    @venkateshp18564 жыл бұрын

    Ur not a psychiatrist...

  • @chetanbv6566
    @chetanbv65664 жыл бұрын

    Hi Platinum, I would suggest you break up with your Girl Friend, It doesn't end up good after you got married. Your GF's money lending to parents will haunt you, once you are couple

  • @akanshabhadani4875

    @akanshabhadani4875

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's so stupid why girls can't take care of parents yar.. Boys apne parents ko sab dete hai but why is prpmblm in place of girls no offence but