As a man, and father of two girls, I do appreciate what women go through for child birth. Glad the baby was born healthy. Looking forward to seeing Adeline growing up in such a great family!

@michelewilliams3761

Жыл бұрын

Kevin i think its so great you watch her and said what you said about birth that was very very nice

@mygirldarby

Жыл бұрын

Yes birth is very dangerous for women. I don't think all men understand that in their heart. Women are given an intuition about pregnancy and we alone should get to decide if a pregnancy continues. We must trust women to make the decisions they've naturally made from the beginning of time. When that right is taken away it is disastrous for women and for society.

@mickeymousey1239

Жыл бұрын

@@mygirldarby not true at all women bodies are made to have babies I have friends who are midwives. millions and millions of babies are born so

@oxfordpictionary

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, that is a sweet comment 🥲

@busy_at_the_moment

Жыл бұрын

@@mickeymousey1239 if women’s bodies were made to have babies then why do they die during childbirth?

My girls and l have added your family to our nightly prayers , may your family live in health , peace, joy and prosperity.

@irmauys3068

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing 😌 Sorry to hear that you had a tough time giving birth, but at the end God blessed you and your family with a lovely baby girl. May God bless and protect you and your family.

@ogmama7577

Жыл бұрын

Great idea to pray for Victoria and her family. I will gladly add them to "my household" prayers. Thank you 😊

@nordicson2835

Жыл бұрын

@@ogmama7577 Thank you , we are all one family.

I thought I wanted the water birth, but then after 10 hours of contractions when I was finally able to have the epidural as an option, I said GIVE IT TO ME 🤣 Literally thought I would never agree to have a needle put in my back, but the pain was so blinding I was like GET IT IN THERE. Epidural was like a blessing from the heavens. I then just fell asleep until baby was ready to come out several hours later. Pushing didnt even hurt. Epidural saved me. So thankful I had it

@astronat2325

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! Doctors who deny or discourage from using epidural (this is a common practice in Poland for example) should be held accountable. Then they wonder why women don't want to have children

I am sorry to hear you had such a long and excruciating labor experience. While I have not given birth myself, so many women share their intense birth stories that I presume you are not the only one. I hope the unpleasant memories fade and enjoy this time getting to know your new daughter.

@lesleyhubble2976

Жыл бұрын

I’ve had the one, that was nearly 20 years ago at 42, it was a big thing for me because I wanted it for so long, I think the more you have the less it becomes a big thing. Well I would think so?

@gailcurl8663

Жыл бұрын

Don't try and be a Hero!! Childbirth HURTS!! Bring On Those "Drugs"!!

Well done ! Having had 2 children myself many years ago ,i have never forgotten either of the births and how painful it was ,and my babies were a lot smaller than yours ! We women are a tough breed and if men had to give birth ,then the earth population would be nearly zero ,so congratulations ,you did it ! and she is beautiful as are you and Agatha .Very best wishes for a happy future to you all .

@elliottmanning

Жыл бұрын

You are so tight, men could not handle giving birth!!!

@TheTamago

Жыл бұрын

Loooool so true !

@Nnennaafolabi8624

Жыл бұрын

😂

Beautiful family ❤️ I love to see youtubers who are not fake and actually make valuable content! Be healthy and happy!

@kikiarhi5301

Жыл бұрын

Such a refreshment in this fake perfect youtube world.

@trailerparksupervisor7046

Жыл бұрын

I agree boys

I screamed through my labor too. Just like you, I had no control. And with my first labor I had back labor too. It’s the worst! Women are TOUGH and very strong. You did it! And both of your daughters are beautiful and healthy. They are what we are so grateful for. But the labor process is very long and hard for some. I’m so happy you’re recovering easily, you deserve that! And congratulations again, to you both!!

Such an understatement! “Not a fan of giving birth…”. Wow! You had a hard birth experience for sure. Good thing you’re aware. She’s a beautiful big girl! Congratulations to you all. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️❤️

I had the same experience...3 days labour, 4.4 kilos baby... :) women are warriors! Congratulations!

@Fruechtchen

Жыл бұрын

Same here!! 😅

@mic8952

Жыл бұрын

Oh ya! I too had a 4 day labor! It was horrible! It was in 1997! I am blessed to have 1 child! I am very thankful!

Just amazing, love sent to you all. I had two 'babies' many years ago. My eldest is now 42! I can say that no two births are 'text book' or the same. Every birth is unique - I was present at all the births of my amazing four grandchildren. Three went amazingly well. The birth of my first grandson was however traumatic, my darling eldest daughter experienced placenta previa, it was horrendous. Due to the blood loss after my Grandsons birth my daughter was in intensive care. My brand-new grandson was cared for by me and my amazing son-in-law, for his first two days. My daughter had spoken to me many times about her wanting a 'home' natural birth, and I thankfully changed her mind. She had attended all of her pre-natal checks and scans, and everything was 'fine'. I just thank the lord that she was in the hospital. Much love sent to you all.xxx

@SusanHarrell530

Жыл бұрын

They didn't notice that on an ultrasound and do a c-section? That's scary.

I'm watching this a year later. So happy your second delivery had a happy ending. I can't imagine your doctor asking you not to scream, haha. My first one was induced, and I felt like Regan off of the Exorcist with each contraction. Super intense and painful. When I was pregnant with mine, I asked him about episiotomy. He informed me that he would just let me tear. I practically clutched my pearls at the thought. But then he explained that healing an episiotomy is like healing a paper cut. It takes days for the cut to heal back together (like panes of glass) and it's painful. But a tear, because it's like a torn hang nail, is rigid and "knits" very quickly. My recovery was very quick.

I had that back pain and I was ok if i died. I didn't feel one contraction. My nurse had probably delivered 10s of thousands of babies and had zero sympathy. I ended up with an epidural and c-section as baby was compressing the cord. my second pregnancy was contractions for 2 months...never dialated. another c-section. having a baby is not fun but the results are worth it!

Aw, Agatha's hair is so long! And Adeline is such a pretty name. Definitely a big girl! But she still looks like a baby doll. So sweet.

You are an amazing mother and your story needs to be heard, as we often forget how harrowing our birth stories are. Like you, my second birth was much worse than the first and my husband nearly passed out himself from shock. I never had a third child haha!

Even though you talk about the experience that was intense and painful, somehow you make it so entertaining to watch :) Great storytelling and editing. You are a wonderfully cheerful person, kind and strong! I saw over a dozen of your videos, you are so fun to watch, intelligent, and honest.🌼 Thank you for sharing! Congratulations on having a baby and a smoother recovery. 💛

Vika! Sorry to hear that this second delivery was such a difficult ordeal, but thank you for sharing and for even being so thoughtful to include a disclaimer. So wonderful to see Adeline and how wonderful that she is happy and healthy. Much love to you all!

Thank for sharing your story and for not playing down how painful the experience was. I'm so glad you and your baby are healthy and doing well.

Your story made me cry, it was so moving. You are so strong to go through that! And welcome to the world, Adeline!

I think you are such a natural at these videos. That baby is beautiful 😍❤️

Oh Vika, I'm so sorry you had such a hard labor, but your little Adelina is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

Glad to hear you've recovered so fast after the whole birth experience! Take care of yourself x

Both of my births were horribly painful and complicated too. I loved being pregnant, and like you, as soon as they baby was out I was okay, but birth was horrible! You're not alone Vika💕💕💕💕

Vika, thank you for sharing Adeline's birth story. You had many, many of us praying for you! Thanking God you successfully endured the birth and the baby is healthy and you are fine. She is a big girl. Prayers answered!!!!!

Oh my gosh, Victoria, I cried just hearing how much pain you were enduring!

I teared up a little while listening to your story. I'm thankful that you and Adeline are doing really good.

You are amazing. Praying for you and a steady recovery. Adeline is beautiful!

Wow. Just wow. You deserve a medal! In the US, doctors would have absolutely given you an epidural, and probably a C section. I’m not saying that is better in any way, just how it’s done here. But I do know most doctors try to listen to the mother’s wishes if she wants a natural delivery. So glad she’s safely here! Her name is beautiful!

@powderandpaint14

Жыл бұрын

Atleast the epidural sounds like it woul have made such a difference, I'm sure she woul have preferred to have some pain relief than be in that much agony for such a long time. Never mind the pool!

@Sophya7

Жыл бұрын

@@powderandpaint14 yes I don't get why they insisted on the pool. She wanted it before but things didn't go as planned. At this point they should've given her an epidural instead of puting her in the shower and telling her to wait 6 more hours and go through all this pain on her own

@user-ym9ds1ox3u

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree, she definitely should have gotten an epidural even though she was induced, wow!

@jj-if6it

Жыл бұрын

@@Sophya7 yeah what the hell is a shower going to do

@passionfruitfruit

Жыл бұрын

I simply cannot fanthom why she wasn't given the epidural☹️. She was paying for the whole stay anyhow, and they seem to have done so little to even help her☹️

You poor bean! What an appalling time. I wish you had had an epidural during that process. So glad both you and Adeline came through safely. She is gorgeous!

Oh wow thank you for being so honest Victoria. When I had my daughter I was screaming and thought I was going to die. When the baby came it was so wonderful although, I was exhausted from the birth and it took me a while to recover. Every birth is different and it is important to be honest about the birth experience. I had puerperal psychosis after the birth of my daughter and people do not understand the trauma of birth even when we prepare so much. Thank you so much for your honesty and I wish you and your family many blessings.

You have the best KZread. It’s so honest and real. Thank you. Congratulations

omg she's so precious!! Congratulations, this sounded so intense but glad you both are happy and healthy!

Congrats from the States!!! Your baby is sooooo beautiful! I wish the best health for you and your family!!!

Oh my, had goosebumps listening to your story!

That is one of the most touching, beautiful videos you have ever done. So true what you said about the pain being forgotten once you see your perfect little baby.

Wow, Victoria, - you are so brave & strong! Thank you for saying the truth and not trying to sugarcoat the difficult experience of giving birth.

Congratulations she's so beautiful !! glad you both are good and healthy!

Bless your heart. I’m so sorry for your birth experience. She is so precious. Congratulations on having 2 beautiful daughters.

Wow, that sounds like it was incredibly stressful for all of you. I'm so happy to see you're okay. What strength you displayed to get through that!

She is beautiful!! I'm glad you both are healthy!!

Beautiful family! Congratulations!!!🥳🥂💗👶

So sorry to hear that you had to go through so much pain. Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl! I'm quite sure that what you're describing is a birthing stool. I used one for both of my births. It's so low because crouching on it sometimes helps to bring the baby down.

Congratulations again on you're new addition. I'm very happy you are bouncing back quickly, sorry to hear your labor was so difficult. Praying for you and your beautiful family. Much Love

Great job ! You should be very proud of yourself and your new baby !!

Lovely to see you and Adeline. So glad you've recovered well. 💕💕

Star is born hehehe congrats :) you're so brave for telling us also about this expierience just as it was! All the best to the whole family :)

@yorkymc

Жыл бұрын

Star is born class words

What an experience Vika! Thanks for sharing your birthing experience with us. You have a beautiful family ❤️

OMG Vika, I felt your story so much I held my breath listening to you. I have given birth twice, screamed everytime and thought I would die. It still blows my mind how much pain you can go through giving birth. And then be so happy as soon as the baby is out. 😅 I wish you and your family all the best!

The chair is called a birthing chair or stool and has a long traditional. The dr. who delivered my first daughter made it known he would not get down on the floor to deliver a mother on one of those so I went to a different hospital for my second (4450g), though she was so big I was on a standard delivery table. And the third was a water birth, also 4 kg. I am sorry you had such a traumatic time, I was lucky that mine were pretty quick, despite my babies being big. It‘s interesting that you were never offered a Caesarean at all. We women do tend to move past the pain of childbirth quite quickly, so it‘s good to hear you‘ve had a great recovery and are enjoying your beautiful Adeline! 🤗(mother of Aveline!)

@denverdubois5835

Жыл бұрын

I thought that was interesting too. Perhaps it's a regional thing that they just don't go for a C-section? I think that here in California she would've been given that option pretty quickly.

Congratulations Vika! Continue to feel better, and I look forward to seeing your next video with you and your beautiful family.

Wow! Thank you so much for sharing your story. What a “labor of love.” So glad you and the baby are safe and healthy now. 💞

i love your honesty about how you feel of the birthing process.

You are the most beautiful people I have ever come across on KZread. You deserve to have so much more subscribers, not those american family channels who are total mess! You are so down to earth,you show us the real important things in life🌸💜

@danaboidek8416

Жыл бұрын

agree!!!

@Gunslinger_Disciple

Жыл бұрын

Key word American...Sadly majority of us over here are so entitled and spoiled , and most just pump out content clickbait for the money

Congratulation! All the best for you and your family!

Congratulations! Much love and blessings

Aaaaw she is so cute! And so big! 💕 Congratulations again and good to hear you are doing fine!

I'm so glad you were able to get through such a hard process and that your baby is healthy.

You are incredible! I'm so happy you got such a happy and healthy family :) wishing you the best for this new adventure in a new place!

Adelina is beautiful! Congratulations and I hope you are recovering well despite a difficult birth. Labor and delivery is such a crazy experience. You have to make so many tough choices along the way, when to trust your own body or when to listen to the doctors. I’ve been induced twice, the first time I wished I had waited and the second time it worked really well and quickly but only because I had already progressed quite a bit on my own. But I try not to dwell on the details because it’s really hard to make the “perfect” decision when so much is going on and the goal is to keep everyone safe and healthy but that doesn’t necessarily result in the most easy or smooth experience.

Vika! Wow! Everyone who has delivered a baby can recall the delivery like it was yesterday. My one and only was 37 years ago. Nothing compared to your story, although to me it felt intense. But as I listened to you, my heart rate sped up, my palms started sweating and I started breathing deeply, as you recalled the events of that day. Congratulations to you for hanging in and for sharing it here with us. Adeline is beautiful, healthy and strong--just like you. Many blessings to you and your family in the days and years ahead. 🙏❤🥰

You're wonderful! I love to see your stories

Such an interesting video, dear Victoria. It is great, that your recovery is so fast! All the best for you and your family ❤️😊

You are incredible! Absolutely amazing. Thank you for sharing your story. I've been watching you for a while and had a lot of respect for you before but now, wow! You are a strong woman who will raise strong women

Wow what a story! So glad everything came out okay for you and baby ❤️

Vika, I appreciate your vlog. It was so vivid that I felt I was in the room with you too. Congratulations to your family.

That was so intense! I was holding my breath and tensing up through the whole thing! 😫😮‍💨 I'm glad everything turned out so well! God bless all of you! ❤️🙏🙏

I wish all the best for you and your family. I have been following you for a while and I keep checking when you post new videos. Thank you!

What an experience you had and your description was really difficult to hear but I am so happy both you and Adeline or looking and doing so well. Thanks for sharing and best wishes to you all!

Oh my what a hard experience, listening to your story, my mind brought me back to labor pains almost 32 years ago. I was blessed to only have hard labor for 4 hours but it was all in my back too. I'm glad you're recovering nicely. Blessings to you and your family. 💕

Well done and congratulations! Really like the way you are describing it, just as it is without sugarcoating it and simply stating that it was bad. You have two beautiful girls now!

Thank you for telling us your story. It sounds like it was excruciatingly painful for you. Adeline is beautiful and look at her sleeping so well! I’m so glad you have recovered. I look forward to seeing more videos of your family. Alison xx 💗

I love hearing birth stories, or should I say birth journeys. Although all our birth experiences are different across time and culture it is very relatable and unifying. Blessings from Australia.

Welcome to the world, Adeline. May you and your family be blessed! A speedy recovery to your mom. I hope Agatha treasures her little sister.

Best wishes to your family! May health and happiness be your constant companions! ❤️

It was probably so much more intense and painful because they induced you. I’ve done it 3 ways: once induced, once natural, and once with an epidural. The pain and intensity was WAY worse when I was induced! I’m so sorry it was such a difficult experience!! I am so grateful you have such a healthy little angel at the end of the struggle!❤️

@justathumb

Жыл бұрын

i had such a strange experience - i was induced with a pill too, and contracted for 2 days, a minute and a half apart, without feeling a thing! didn't dilate AT ALL, until they used a foley balloon...then they pumped up the pitocin and the pain went from zero to unimaginable, i couldn't even scream, i would just gasp and white knuckle the bed handles. got an epidural asap for 12 hrs of relief, but then the pain came back and it turned out she was too big and couldn't fit through my pelvis, and epidural's can't affect nerve pain. had an emergency c-section after that. it's crazy to me that Victoria's baby was even bigger than mine, and she got her out! Don't know why i went on that ramble, but congrats on your bubs everybody 😅

@rockyshocks101

Жыл бұрын

Same! I had horrible back labor with induction. 😣

@michelewilliams3761

Жыл бұрын

Had 3 babes all natraul literally wanted a epidural they said I was to young..my last I had at 29 had a great dr who blessed me with an epi....life changing would never had another kid without one lol

@amylangford9151

Жыл бұрын

Always, always epidural after induction. It's so much more painful than natural labour. I can't believe they told Vika to stick with the water birth.

@bubble-world8164

Жыл бұрын

​@@amylangford9151 that's the "bad" side of birthing plans etc. when woman signs to a strict plan for their birth, the doctors often are afraid to do things outside the plan. that makes decisions more difficult. every birth is different so I think it's nearly impossible before to know what exactly one would want during this process

Sorry you had such an intense delivery. She is a beautiful baby and I know you are so glad she is here. Glad you are feeling better. Take care of yourself. God bless. ❤️❤️❤️

Oh my dear girl, you deserve a beautiful quiet baby girl so your recovery is quicker. What an experience for you. You look amazing Vicky and so beautiful. Thanks for sharing your experience with other women. It is a very good account of how things happened for you without being too graphic. Best wishes to you all. God bless xxxx

Bless you for sharing your birth story and such a very private and personal time with all of us. I am a mama of 5. One set of twins. Your story bought back so many memories.🙏🏼

Congratulations! You did wonderfully and you have a beautiful family.💕

Wow! You are a hero! Blessings to you and your family!

Congratulations 💗 welcome to the new baby girl to the family 💗

Oh my..I am happy you and baby are well and you had wonderful care there..My goodness I hope your family is complete now...Beautiful family ,stay safe and well.

I dont know how I stumbled upon your channel.. but I've been a fan since then and I'm always happy to watch your videos. Thank you for sharing all of this.. I always look forward watching

thank you for sharing such an intense and physically and mentally taxing experience. and also so soon. thank you wish you and your child the best

This video could act as a form of birth control lol 😂. My goodness I’d never survive. Your looking so happy. Love 💕 the baby’s name

@mbrunnen04

Жыл бұрын

Yes😂😂😂

@1ACL

Жыл бұрын

totally!

such a crazy story! ... but congratulations to the family and welcome to Adeline!

Thank you for sharing with us this most important chapter in your life. So sad that you had such a painful time.( I refused to be induced) Thank goodness that you have a healthy life style. You are a true champion to other young women. Glad that baby Adelina is sleeping so well. 💚😊

Whew! Vika. I have a tipped uterus and I have heard about how it can cause back contractions. That is so much. You’re amazing. I’m relieved for you and she is beautiful and yes, big and healthy. Sending love from the states. 💖

You are so young and so brave!! Many congratulations to you and your wonderful family from Italy

I continue to be amazed by you!!! It was very obvious from your last video that your beautiful 2nd daughter was a big baby and my goodness you really went through it bringing her into the world!!!!! And men of course feel so helpless even tho they try their best. I think the whole 'labour' frightens them beyond imagining - with fear for both partner and baby. Thank God you were compensated with an easier recovery and that you had a nice day out with your mom and little family. I remain totally and absolutely in awe of your strength, attitude, and serenity. Are you EVER JUST TOTALLY FRAZZLED?? Can i buy some of your serenity 😇. Love from Ireland.

Wow, what a fighter you are! 💪👏 Be proud of yourself! 💕

Congratulations ! So happy you are ok and its 4 of you now! Blessings from Canada💖💖💖💖

Viki, Thank you soo much for sharing your experience and do this video! Very interesting! I am happy that you are getting better. All the best to you two and your family. God bless you!

So glad to hear you made it through this ordeal and got a healthy baby girl out of it. It took forever with my first one, too, and I was barely dilating. I wound up with a C-section bc the umbilical cord was wrapped around my baby's neck. With my 2nd I knew it was automatically going to be another C-section, and I'm not going to lie, it was a relief.😚 Wishing you and your family all the best for the future. Enjoy your new baby!💕

Thank you for sharing your labour story. You have a beautiful family

Beautiful baby girl! So glad you are doing so well now! ❤️

🙋🏻‍♀️I’m here for the birth/recovery stuff, and the regular lifestyle stuff too. :) so happy you’re feeling better! ♥️♥️♥️ Adeline is beautiful and so resembles Agatha!

You did an amazing job. I’m so sorry it was so painful but you have a gorgeous daughter and family. God bless.

Well done Vika . Sorry that you had to go through that but now you guys have a beautiful second baby girl. All the best to you and your beautiful family 🥰

Thankful that both you and Adrienne are healthy and doing well! God has made us women so strong!

Many good wishes for your family with this new baby girl. I am sorry you had to go through such a painful birthing experience. Please take enough time to recover. It is good to see you look so happy now. Much love ! 🙏💕🌷