My biggest regret was hiring my cousin as photographer. We paid her, she did the photos. But other then a few she posted online, we never got our pictures. No explanation (she claimed she lost them?) really, and it also ruined our relationship. I have learned over the years not to hire friends, family for anything. Then if you have issues, it doesn’t break relationships or make things awkward.

@bandwido

11 ай бұрын

We had a friend do ours. He handed us a few pix a couple of months later, in the Kodak folders, not even in a book! He supposedly lost 3 rolls of film. Only one picture with my mother! (BTW, this was our gift too.) I'm still bitter 43 years later. I totally agree with this comment!

@Kaytka

11 ай бұрын

@@bandwido I’m sorry. 😔

Your Mama looked like a queen...she picked the right dress. My one regret was not hiring a professional protographer. We had a pretty simple wedding but I wish I had good photos!

@theworkathomemama7148

11 ай бұрын

Agree!

@brianaandkyle

11 ай бұрын

I wish mine took more pics of my guests! Of course I like to have them of myself and family but the other is sot something I had thought about before

My biggest regret was too many unnecessary diy projects, also getting married during mother's day weekend and prom made it hard to find hair/makeup & flowers. Also I would make a rule that if anything goes wrong- don't tell the bride/groom, tell the venue staff, parents, anyone else. Don't stress a couple out.

Everyone looked so nice. The picture with both sets of parents is beautiful. Both moms looked so nice and you looked like a princess. Just stunning. Wishing you both all the best.

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!!!💞💞

I’m only 24 seconds in and I love what you said about regrets! It’s a huge pet peeve for me too. Regrets are a part of life! They can help us grow, learn, or even help us give advice to others!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Exactly!!! It’s not necessarily a bad thing to regret something as long as you learn from it!

This video is making me so excited for my wedding next summer! I love hearing about all the details of your big day. Looking forward to the 20 things you wouldn’t change video 😊

My biggest regret was not getting a videographer.

Your mother looked so beautiful in the pictures. The blue dress was the right choice. Airfares during the 4th weekend were crazy we flew to Kentucky from Austin for my niece's wedding and the cost of the tickets was mind-blowing. Soon you won't remember your regrets as you will just enjoy married life with Zac.

@Odiekins

10 ай бұрын

I remember my regrets six years later 😂

In Poland wedding reception is much longer. IT usually starts about 4-5pm at lasts till about 4am(sometimes even longer). Sometimes wedding lasts 2 days-main event on saturday and shorter party on sunday

I didn’t do an autopsy of my wedding the days following. I planned it, it was my day. I did what I wanted. I opted out of a videographer and limos, and didn’t miss either. 25 years later, I don’t wish I could watch my wedding. Also, I asked my photographer to do CANDID pics outside of the official photos. I have the best reception photos of everyone having fun!

@jaimec3159

11 ай бұрын

Yes!!! I don’t regret no videographer either 22 years later!

your wedding looked GREAT! the fireworks added a fun touch. I also understand about breaking "tradition" and not being separate from your significant other before the wedding...I think that should be an individual decision FOR SURE. my mom planned my sister's wedding and stressed about EVERYTHING...she still complains to this day (6 years later). I threw up during the whole thing (heatstroke lol).

My regret -- I paid to get my makeup done but didn't realize lipstick was not included and I was expected to bring my own .. I didn't have any so was completely without lipstick on my wedding day.

@nleem3361

Ай бұрын

Wow, I wouldn't have thought to ask about lipstick. I'd just assume it was part of the "makeup". Your makeup person should have told you ahead of time. But, thanks for sharing so we know to ask.

@airyballoon

4 күн бұрын

Wait really? That’s kind of weird that the MUA wouldn’t include lipstick! Did she only have options you didn’t like or no options at all?

Clancy, you wedding photos are so gorgeous! Wow you and Zac both looked so good. I personally loved the white suit.

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!!💞

Kathy looked amazing!!!! After all her dress drama, she chose the right one. At the time of my wedding, I had the same hair issue. My hair never held curls. I don’t know what my hairstylist did that day, but my hair held up perfectly. I will say she used a lot of hair products. 🤣🤣 Does your hair look a little flat in some pictures….yes. Does it take away the beauty of your pictures…no. Your photographer did amazing. I especially loved The Burke Family photo. 💕💕

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!💞💞💞

I love your honesty Clancy

Congratulations Clancy on your wedding. Your mom and dad look amazing, mom gorgeous!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!💞

I loved spending the night before away from my husband, my friend stayed with me so I wasn’t alone and saying goodbye to him felt so exciting

your dad was so proud of you in that video at the tin roof!lol awww also your mom looked so good,you looked like an absolute princess, your smile in the photos radiates love and happiness

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

You’re so sweet! Thank you!!💞

Congratulations on the wedding! The venue is my fave! Everything looks amazing and you were so beautiful! The only thing that shook me is how a wedding ends at 11pm 😮In my country it typically ends around 4 5am and it starts at 3-4 pm 😀

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Oh wow, that’s crazy!! I think that’s actually how it was for my cousin’s wedding in Ireland - but I was so tired I ended up going back to the hotel around midnight while everyone partied for hours 😂

Your mom and dad looked amazing! Moms dress was perfect! Zac’s mom and dad too! Gorgeous photos!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

You are so sweet!❤️❤️

It looked like everyone had a great time 😊 The fireworks were super cool in the background too

Everyone looked so beautiful! Your mom is smokin’! Also, I love this lipstick color on you!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!❤️❤️

Happy Wednesday! Thanks for sharing! For future brides they can keep this in mind! Hope you all are having a good Wednesday ❤️

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

I hope it can be helpful!! Thank you! ❤️

Your mom looked STUNNING!!! Also your make up + white shirt + hairstyle in this video suits you so much!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!🥰

I love your makeup in this video. You look so glowy and pretty 😊

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🙂

Makeup and hair in this video is spot on. Suits you so well

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Aw thank you!!💞

I like when you mix it up between vlogs and more curated content! Do you have any plans to do more videos like "what I spend in a day"/budgeting tips? Also, do you plan on sharing your full wedding video when you get it back?

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Yes I absolutely can!! :)

You looked beautiful!💗 Your Mom looked beautiful!💗 Loved all the photos you inserted! Another great video!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!❤️

Thanks for being YOU clancy❤ Such a genuine and real person😊 also, you look like you could be in the bold and the beautiful!!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Aww! Thank you!! ❤️❤️

@Rise2392

11 ай бұрын

@@ClancyBurkeX ❤️

Whoo next video with Clancy’s and Zach’s positives!! I’m hoping to see it soon!!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Next Wednesday!! Thank you for watching! ❤️

You all looked amazing!! Your mom picked the right one!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!!❤️

Been married for 11 years in November but I’m still watching because I watch all of your videos even if they don’t really apply to me ❤

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Awww thank you! 🥹💞

@alonalyons8685

11 ай бұрын

I have been married for 10 years. And still watched everything because I can give my daughter advise for her wedding in the future. (My princess is 7))))

I totally stand by your holiday date feelings. I got married around Cinco de Mayo (which is HUGE in arizona) so it's hard to go have a romantic dinner for our anniversary because everyone is partying. My bday is around Valentines Day so it's hard finding a restaurant that isn't packed with romantic diners. LOL

This was amazing thank you !!! Getting married in October in New Zealand. Love the tip about staying in the same room the night before, didn't even think about this but I definitely think it suits us as a couple and will probably relax us both more than being apart

Your dress is amazing! You looked absolutely perfect! ❤

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Aww thank you!!💞💞

Lol my ceremony was at 2pm 🤣 (at a church) and then reception was 4-10 because we had a 2 hour cocktail “hour”. So glad we added that extra hour! We took photos during the first half and could enjoy the second half. One regret I have is that my photographer didn’t get photos of our cigar bar or dog biscuit bar lol. I don’t think any guests did either 😢 A silly regret but I spent so much time making everything.

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

That’s sooo smart to have a 2 hour cocktail hour!!!!

@TheKerryBerry01

11 ай бұрын

@@ClancyBurkeX 100%!! Especially because a lot of people usually say that’s the best part of a wedding.

Your wedding dress (the first one) was perfection!! You looked gorgeous!!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!💞

Your mom's dress ended up so beautiful!

Love the pictures. As you said, everyone has regrets about many things. Overall the wedding day was perfect! You looked great as did Zac and all the parents!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!!💞💞

@jax3320

11 ай бұрын

And her brother did too :)

LIVE for your vlogs!!! Love from Indy!!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Aww thank you!!💞

Good morning Clancy, 🙏 thank you for always sharing 😘 have a wonderful week.

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching!!

Love a Zac and Clancy Wednesday ❤ sending you happy vibes ✨️ up thumb for you and Zac

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!!:)

Finally someone who talks about regrets. Yes I have regrets and even on my wedding. I forgot to get someone to record the wedding. Oh we have pictures but didn’t get to see everyone walk down the isle be fore me or at reception.

Your Mom and Dad looked so good! 🥹

My biggest regret was not having enough money. I wanted to do some things but couldn’t because we didn’t have the money

This was awesome!

Love your vids Clancy!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!! ❤️

The photos are amazing! Your mom’s look turned out stunning 🤩 Love the hot pink in your bouquet too!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!🥰

@Touranjo20

11 ай бұрын

Love her moms look omg!!

Loving your makeup in this video, can you do a tutorial? Also love the random roll of toilet paper 🧻 on your nightstand 😄.

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you! Yes, I can! And that’s what Zac used for tissues 😂😂

My husband and i spent the night before our wedding together. We needed the time to connect since we were both pulled up n so many directions up to the ceremony

I love the dress your mom went with - jewel tones with fair skin seems to make the eyes stand out. And Tom, he looks like he's about to make some mischief in that picture of the three of you. Stunning. (would love to see a picture of you three with Neil - hope you got one!)

Yesss, do a try-on haul!

What a beautiful couple and wedding … and omg your mothers were so stunning! Wow !! ❤

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Aww! Thank you!!❤️❤️

Wonderful sharing my friend Clancy and your wedding pictures are looking too too beautiful you are my inspiration and I wish you have a amazing day 😃💫💖

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!!❤️

Just moved into my college dorm as a freshman and finishing the night off w Clancy to feel more at home ☺️

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Aww that’s so exciting!!! Good luck on your freshman year!!! ❤️❤️

My biggest regret was not getting a videographer. Tbh me and my husband were so ready to go so I didn’t care that it “ended early”. I was so exhausted but we also did a brunch with friends the next day which helped the feeling of not spending enough time with friends on my wedding night. I wish I didn’t talk to so many people, but I felt like I didn’t get to enjoy my wedding..I just met new people all night long 😢

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

It’s sooo hard to talk to everyone! That’s awesome that you did a brunch the next day though - the wedding day is not enough!!

Your mom looks absolutely stunning!

Thanks for the advice Clancy.

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!:)

Nice pictures. Looks like a beautiful day🎉

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!! ❤️

Your mom looked amazing!!!

Our wedding was 5-11pm and honestly I was exhausted by 1030 😂 dancing was from 8-11pm and then we had an after party at our hotel - I think I got unbelievably lucky, but I cannot think of one thing that I would’ve changed about the wedding day 😅 like literally between my wedding planner setting the schedule making sure the day ran smoothly and my bridal party handling everything from feeding me to bustling my dress for me we were set - I didn’t do any touch ups either by 930 I looked a hot mess from dancing lol

This is really helpful, thank you ❤

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

You're so welcome!💞

You all look good, but damn your mom looks so amazing in that dress. It's worth all the dress struggles. 👗 🤌

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

YESS!!👏🏻

I should have included my sister more. I was so confused though. With the temple ceremony where my family couldn't attend, and then the reception. We got lucky they built the Temple right next to the church building where we had the reception.

I liked that you didn't have bridesmaids just family ❤

Your wedding photos are BEAUTIFUL!!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!❤️

Great advise! I’m having my wedding in 6 months! 😊

I need to know your lipstick situation in this vid 👀 I love that color!!! 😍💄

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

I’m using the too faced melted matte liquid lipstick in the shade “suck it” with “faux” lipstick by MAC on top!!

My biggest regret was not saying NO when people offered to do things for us. Ie, I'll do your hair and makeup , I'll be your videographer. It always turns out bad. My cousins husband was going to be our videographer and they cancelled 2 weeks before the wedding.

i would love to know what lip colour you're wearing, it's stunning on you!

👀👀 lovely pictures your parents an zac look great. Clancy you look beautiful. Ps love the bedroom. It was your wedding day life isnt perfect ❤

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!❤️

There should’ve been a note with the dress from company you picked it up

Dam girl, can’t lie, those are some pretty big regrets 😮 thanks for sharing

I’d love for Zach’s perspectives, because though there is many people that say it’s the brides day; and they make the event. Although to me it shouldn’t be just her day, and her event; but their event. I feel sometimes men or the significant other is left out of the decisions made, and if I was to have a wedding in the future, I don’t want to be left out of it; and enjoy our day. Glad to see your thoughts are well of course, and hope your week is well 1:33

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Watch through the end of the video!! Zac gives his take haha

@u140550

11 ай бұрын

@@ClancyBurkeXI’m seeing it now, I’m happy to see it!!!

I’m recommending two different descriptions of this (helpful) video : “lessons learned” or “after action review”. Both capture all the things you want to share with us, yet put it into a things to learn position. Regret is such a strong word anymore. Your last point is key - don’t worry. You will be married regardless of what happens ( unless you forget to get a marriage license. 😅)

Weddings are so funny - a million things can go right just at the same time a million tiny things can also go wrong. You just have to shrug it off and just make sure you get the entire thing recorded for when you are both old and want to relive the moment. I absolutely dont understand why people dont put the money in for really good photos and footage of the entire day. You only get it once. I will be spending well over 3000 for mine. Got a really good band and so much more that I never panned in the start but I know guests will never forget it and neither will I.

What kind of centerpieces did you do ? My venue has fake flower centerpieces that I was going to do, but then some people saying real flowers are nicer. I’m thinking of DIY them myself with flowers I buy

I legit went through a LOT of the same 'regrets' back in 2012 when I got married. (except the drinking and 2nd dress lol) But I don't remember looking in the mirror to touch up once! What the heck? lol Your wedding looked SO lovely!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

I guess it’s a good sign we were having too much fun to care about what we looked like!!!

@lalilandadventures

11 ай бұрын

@@ClancyBurkeX absolutely!!! Although I have some regrets when I look at pics 😭🤣🤣

Your mom looks amazing!

Im dying laughing at the day by day decision of whether regret is present or not

I wish I would have had a videographer. We had an epic EDM dance party segment at our reception with glow sticks and I have just one 8 second video from my maid of honor. 😅 Luckily my sister-in-law got a few videos of the first kiss, introductions, pie cutting, first dances, and garter grab/toss so I'm very grateful for that. Also I'm so glad my bridesmaid is a seamstress' daughter because NO ONE told me anything about pinning the train up. Hahaha. I had no drinks at my wedding (apple juice for champagne because I dont like it) and I was very happy with that choice.

Personally, I don't think it was "too much vodka" but may be some vodka+really stresfull day made you feel more relaxed at the after party..))

I loves your moms dress!

Everything looks beautiful.

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!!💞💞

It’s so funny how sassy Zac can become 😂

Clancy, you’re hair looks great longer!

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!!💞

You looked great! How were your feet at the end of the night? Did you change shoes?

I wish I had done a videographer. My father in law filmed but it was rough. I do appreciate he got footage though. I hired a wedding coordinator that I met through a venue and wholeheartedly regretted her because she was a mess.

Love it thank you

I love how I’m still watching this - already married and chose not to have a wedding 😂

YOUR MOM LOOKS AMAZING

Your wedding looked beautiful! I just got engaged (I'm in NKY) and have been thinking about Drees Pavillion because of you. Do you recommend it?

@ClancyBurkeX

11 ай бұрын

Yes, I am so happy we chose this venue!!! I talk more about this in my next wedding video

I really weird question... what phone case is that? It's so pretty, and I wanted to get a bridal case for my iPhone for my wedding so it goes with the aesthetic lol. Great video, i'm getting married in Nov and this has been super helpful!

Clancy your mom and dad looked amazing

Lol. The toilet paper roll 😂

@smgdley

11 ай бұрын

I can’t stop noticing. Last vlog too 👀

As you probably know, weddings here in Ireland kick off about 1pm and continue for two days, my only regret was the open bar on the second day because our bank balance took a serious knock 😂😂, it was actually worth every cent though, we all talk about it all the time as one of our best weekends ever.

@mashrefawadhalrajab

11 ай бұрын

Fr ur look very beautiful 😻

I'll come back to this video in a few years when/if (lol) I plan my own wedding! Love this video idea

34 years ago, we had are reception at a legion. It cost 75.00. If you didn’t make a mess you got your money back. Plus I forgot to let down the train on my dress.

@Odiekins

10 ай бұрын

We did the same thing!!!

I completely do not understand why people in US have weddings just for few hours. We usually start a church ceremony around noon/maximum 2pm and we have fun all night, usually till 4am in Poland. Some people do also a "after wedding party" next day do its the same fun from 6pm till 4am.

Sent this to my sister, as she's getting married in October!

@Odiekins

10 ай бұрын

Mine too! 10/20

@VeggiesbyEos

10 ай бұрын

@@Odiekins omg mines is 10/21!