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@homosexualsapiens

3 жыл бұрын

on a video of wholesome memes

@homosexualsapiens

3 жыл бұрын

he was sponsored by THEM lol

@stupidperson3382

3 жыл бұрын

@@homosexualsapiens hilarious.

@farateq

3 жыл бұрын

Eleanor Shepherd fricking glorious

@madambob7481

3 жыл бұрын

lol

I went from “what’s a transgender?” to “hi I’m trans!” in less than 2 years

@oliverjustvibing3173

3 жыл бұрын

Same lol, I was like: 👀 how- when I thought about that

@EvanMMD3939

3 жыл бұрын

me too

@spitedrowning

3 жыл бұрын

same lmao

@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339

3 жыл бұрын

That’s great 🥳 My sister’s gf is unfortunately still in the “I theoretically know I’m trans and I support the idea, but aAaAAaah” phase. But she’s out to me and my family so yay progress 🤗💗

@jackriver8385

3 жыл бұрын

same but with non binary

“I like your name” Most trans people: thanks I chose it myself! My gf: thx my girlfriend got it for me

@ellielee4982

3 жыл бұрын

That's cute

@cascadden4388

3 жыл бұрын

Aww!! (Also your username is so cute and funny)

@weresofansie1457

3 жыл бұрын

@@cascadden4388 ty! Your username is fun too.

@bathtubs.

3 жыл бұрын

:0 what is it? you don’t have to tell me i was just wondering. have a good day!

@weresofansie1457

3 жыл бұрын

@@bathtubs. I’m not really comfortable giving that info out, but I will tell you it suits her perfectly! You have a good day as well.

As an English teacher, "they" is waaaaaaaaay better than he/she. It's concise, it flows well, it sounds natural. Other English teachers, get with the program already!

@beth1402

3 жыл бұрын

@@flexparachute i have a question, if you are referring to multiple people what pronoun would you sue because it confuses me a lot how other languages don’t have “they”

@beth1402

3 жыл бұрын

@@flexparachute ok thanks for explaining:D i think other languages should start seeing “they” as a plural and singular pronoun because not only does it make it easier for people outside the gender binary but it also helps when you don’t know the gender of someone, it’s a lot easier than saying he/she

@leyza9450

3 жыл бұрын

@@beth1402 in french we would replace they by "the person" and not using any pronouns (or using elle because the word person is feminine even if the person can be a guy). A neutral pronoun was created by LGBT+ people tho, it's iel (il = he and elle = she) so I sometimes use it but it's not really known yet outside the community unfortunately.

@leyza9450

3 жыл бұрын

@@beth1402 and we can't use they i' french as a neutral pronoun, it's more complicated then that because there is a feminine and masculine plural : ils and elles. So we could use iels ^^ Actually we're talking a lot about inclusive language right now in France but the government reaaallyyyy don't like it. But the history of grammatical gender in France is actually very interesting! For example, when there is a man and several women, we commonly use the masculine plural. We learn in school "le masculin l'emporte sur le féminin" which means basically that masculine wins against feminine which sounds highly sexist ^^ people think French has always been like that but it isn't true.

@beth1402

3 жыл бұрын

@@leyza9450 oh ok that’s cool !! i knew what il and Elle meant but i didn’t know they created another

I have a wholesome/amusing story that the binder text messages reminded me of. About 10 plus years ago, I used to exclusively cosplay guys so bought a binder and I also used to dress VERY "tomboy"ish (like super baggy clothes) and had my hair cut short. After several years of cosplaying guys, I decided to cosplay a couple of girl characters and thus didn't require my binder for that particular convention, so left it at home. Convention ended, mum picked me up at the train station to take me home (at like 10pm or something, it was fairly late) and pulled in to the petrol station so we could grab me quick food and so she could refill the car. We're at the checkout when mum turned to me and go "oh, you left your... your... your... boob-be-gone... your flat-flat bra... whatever it's called at home. Did you mean to?" The (male) cashier was like "?!?!?!" and I was like "it's called a binder, and yeah, I didn't need it" that was that, mum went back to the car whilst I bought my stuff, and the cashier was looking very thoughtful, and handed my stuff and went "here are your items... mister man" I did explain the situation, that I wasn't trans, but still feel that guy was very sweet to try and be mindful like that. Especially factoring in this was pre 2010 as well as the fact that I lived in an extremely rural, homophobic/sexist/basically-think-the-deep-south-but-without-the-hospitality area. And I call my binder "boob-be-gone" and "flat-flat bra"

@randommeowthekitty6482

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god, that's so sweet... also, I'm not trans but I like to cosplay guys, too. I'm now wondering how much a binder would help with that...

@caljones

2 жыл бұрын

“Boob-be-gone” that’s amazing

@imjustgr8

2 жыл бұрын

"mister man" i'm sobbing

@itzautumn8986

2 жыл бұрын

Ima call binders a "boob-be-gone" or "flat-flat-bra" now

@ginathecookie

2 жыл бұрын

@@itzautumn8986 same It's perfect

The thing with Elliot Page is I never knew his dead name. Therefore he is just Elliot Page. I do not want to know his dead name either so if you’re seeing this, and know, don’t give it to me.

@megp9id

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I didn’t know who he was/where he was from before.

@bandamani

3 жыл бұрын

I'd seen him in Umbrella Academy and knew about him previously from The Last of Us as well, one of my fav games of all time. But their deadname never even comes to my brain anymore, it's like my brain deleted it, or rather pushed it far far back.

@cupcakebecka

3 жыл бұрын

@@bandamani Hey, just letting you know that (contrary to popular belief) Elliot wasn't actually in The Last of Us haha. He did act in Beyond: Two Souls however!

@bandamani

3 жыл бұрын

@@cupcakebecka dw I knew that lol, but he was who Ellie's model was based on, they changed the look in part 2 to appear more similar to her actress instead. But she was based on Elliot before because at the time they were a lesbian icon.

@eratasutol

3 жыл бұрын

Same! When I heard about his coming out and his new name I said “I don’t know who this is all I know is that I will support them” and then I learned they’re really popular and I went “support hasn’t changed but nice”

Jammi: *shares memes that are wholesome for all of us to see* Also Jammi: *is literally sponsored by a sex shop*

@therainbowziege2317

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@EvanMMD3939

3 жыл бұрын

ikr

@freya002YT

3 жыл бұрын

😜😜😜😜

@tobz6779

3 жыл бұрын

I'm just cooking a wholesome American breakfast with sex toys

@stupidperson3382

3 жыл бұрын

ikr

Me:*is trans* My gf knowing and being surrportive:im gonna tell our children daddy is a transformer

@bee-pv8ph

3 жыл бұрын

!!!!!!AHHHHH that's so cute

@meherinmouly

3 жыл бұрын

Aww, thats cute

@someoneudontknow4304

3 жыл бұрын

I wanna be a Bubblebee

@cristinaacosta8938

3 жыл бұрын

That is so sweet

@Castiel_Chuuya.irl.fr.

3 жыл бұрын

Aww! That’s adorable.

"Trans is a social construct!" Linda, _everything_ is a social construct

@gr1m_XP

2 жыл бұрын

I like your name, it rhymes with brick.

@maiya5560

2 жыл бұрын

@@gr1m_XP Thank you?

@gr1m_XP

2 жыл бұрын

@@maiya5560 You’re welcome!

@gr1m_XP

2 жыл бұрын

@just me 🧣🧣 Same!!

@IndustrialParrot2816

2 жыл бұрын

except peanut butter

"The evolution of transness" We need a t-shirt of that

@jamiefrost8058

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@lacabraasada

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@medicalbasils

3 жыл бұрын

I would be spending my transphobic parent’s money for that lmao

@jamiefrost8058

3 жыл бұрын

@@medicalbasils really good idea I support that

@Detective_Grav

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

THE EVOLUTION OF THE *T R A N S*

@moved.6963

3 жыл бұрын

IT IS EVOLVING THE RIGHT WAY

@crnflk5425

3 жыл бұрын

YESSSS EVOLUTION OF THE *TRANS*

@reithegay609

3 жыл бұрын

Ok unrelated but your profile picture is AMAZING

@moved.6963

3 жыл бұрын

@@reithegay609 i agree!! :) i like your profile pic too

@crnflk5425

3 жыл бұрын

@@reithegay609 I also agree

" 'You are what you're born as' Oh, so I'm a baby then?" I died.

@apolloismydad

2 жыл бұрын

I think it's a good passive aggressive way to say that you are immature

@sheersternfeld1914

6 ай бұрын

A better reaction would be: Transphobe: you are what you're born as! Trans person: oh, is that why you're acting like a baby?

I literally said “My first kiss was with a girl so it doesn’t count” in second grade or something and I can’t help laughing at it

@lastgrlonearth

3 жыл бұрын

I said that when I was in 3rd 😭😭💀

@Ghosting.Iguess

3 жыл бұрын

My first kiss was a mistake so technically I haven’t had it yet

@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ghosting.Iguess lol, mood

when ever i read "trans fat" i can´t help it but say "me"

@meteorsoda369

3 жыл бұрын

same

@mackthompson616

3 жыл бұрын

auajaodkfk same

@galacticbreadboi9796

3 жыл бұрын

Me...

@devent10n

3 жыл бұрын

Relatable

@LinniC93

3 жыл бұрын

me: *cis fat*

"MOM IM NOT TRANS! even though i want to get my hair cut and i want a binder and my friends refer to me as he/him, I SWEAR IM NOT TRANS I JUST REALLY LIKE 'STUDYING' PEOPLES TRANSIONS!"

@fuckwit107

3 жыл бұрын

Literally me rn

@Moo-2310

3 жыл бұрын

MOM I SWEAR I'M NOT NON BINARY! Even though I want a binder and a haircut and my friends call me they/them, I'm telling you I'm a girl through and through!

@ERIF2003

3 жыл бұрын

@@jessemonzione this is so me lmao

@nikkibella1607

3 жыл бұрын

"FAMILY (my mom ain't homophobic so I'm just putting family for all the others) I AIN'T BI!! Pink, blue, and purple are just a beautiful color sequence so I happen to color in it a lot now.

@cherryjawbreakalt

3 жыл бұрын

Felt

I also missed out on the 'got it off my chest' joke, but I replaced it with the even worse joke of 'and remember, after I get these off you'll be EVEN CLOSER to my heart when I hug you'. I outdid my own father with that terrible dad joke, and I'm not sure either of us are over it yet xD

I'm spanish and trans. My english teacher was super supportive with me and my pronouns. He's always correcting others classmates to say "they" everytime they say he or she and I think it's wonderful and my face is like this 🥺

@Sunny00002

3 жыл бұрын

I speak spanish too. Which word do u use instead of they?

@fruiteend

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sunny00002 I study Spanish at uni and always wanted to know. I feel like genderneutral language is more complicated, so I'm very curious!

@BM-jy2gh

2 жыл бұрын

@@fruiteend Can't speak for Spain but I'm French and France has invented new gender neutral words for "they" so maybe Spain is similar

trans guys: glad i got that off my chest trans girls: it's really starting to grow on me enby people: AaaaAAAAAaaA everyone: valid edit: Dysphoria is a really weird thing, and if you dont identify with this comment, its understandable. the only thing that not debatable is that everyone is valid

@jayemover_16

3 жыл бұрын

Me (NB): WHAT DO

@goldeythehamster3968

3 жыл бұрын

As an enby person, this is accurate

@commander_xon201

3 жыл бұрын

as an enby, I can confirm, this and s accurate :D

@thatoneherbdude

3 жыл бұрын

*clears throat* AaaaAAAAAaaA

@grapeleiva2266

3 жыл бұрын

What’s an enby?

Random story: Once I read a label on a denim jacket as a „demi” jacket, and my demi-self got really happy over what turned out to be my bad eyesight 😂😅

@okalright3941

3 жыл бұрын

What did it actually say

@Jaybird196

3 жыл бұрын

@@okalright3941 denim

@sharonoddlyenough

3 жыл бұрын

Ok, now I want a denim jacket.

@princessthyemis

3 жыл бұрын

Aw I love it this made me smile :-) so wholesome and cute :-)

@jonnestyronicha497

3 жыл бұрын

Me when I hear the word "gamer" lol--I immediately think "gayyy-mer?"

My little sister (shes 6) likes to tell everyone that she has "a sister and a sibling and max is my sibling" and i just- ive taught her well.

@notayuu1121

3 жыл бұрын

that's so cute!

@paranoiid_corpse

3 жыл бұрын

Your little sister is so cute (:

@maxipad967

3 жыл бұрын

ayyyyy fellow sibling called max how you doin

@princecabbage4336

3 жыл бұрын

@@maxipad967 Haha, Im good. Just got my 2nd vaccine yesterday so Im a little blegh but other than that

@packrat2004

3 жыл бұрын

My older sister hates the word sibling, makes her uncomfy idk why. I'm genderfluid so she asked me is she could introduce me as "he's my sister". I like it.

At the Beginning of the school year: My English teacher: oh and you need a Binder. My trans self thinks: wait what?!

@Castiel_Chuuya.irl.fr.

3 жыл бұрын

Lol. I understand

@dannyboy6017

3 жыл бұрын

Nice pfp

@matheohno

3 жыл бұрын

@@dannyboy6017 me? Thx

@katanah3195

Жыл бұрын

This hasn't happened to me or my brother... because we call the school supply "duotangs" here.

Jammidodger: Says his height in centimeters Americans: Inconclusive data, we still have no clue how tall he is

@Millixxxxxx

3 жыл бұрын

Thaha! It's the other way around for the rest of the world. Whenever an American said their height I had to google it... But then I finally got it into my head: 1 foot is about 30 cm. Which would make Jamie 6 ft 3 (?). Not sure about the 3 inches though.

@Millixxxxxx

3 жыл бұрын

Just googled it once again: It's actually 6 ft 1.

@dandylion2775

3 жыл бұрын

Me, dividing it by 2.54 "*ah, yes*"

@hvasomhelst

3 жыл бұрын

Y’all really should learn about metric system lol

@shellysimmons8812

3 жыл бұрын

I don't get what's on their rulers, like if they use inches and cm rulers how haven't they worked out that 30cm basically equals 1 foot lmao ;-;

"Do you like trans memes?" Jamie I AM the trans meme

@bee-pv8ph

3 жыл бұрын

WHY. Do we all love frogs. What is that?? WHAT IS THAT??

@zachary7508

3 жыл бұрын

@@bee-pv8ph Theyre cute and very good boys :D

@bee-pv8ph

3 жыл бұрын

@@zachary7508 you're so damn right. I'm getting a frog with my partner soon. So. Excited.

As someone who has completely changed my name (for other reasons), the “i chose it myself” meme hit differently for me. I only hope that one day all of us who have chosen our own names can speak that with ownership, agency and pride. ❤️

@JadeStone00

3 жыл бұрын

Me too! Congratulations :)

Most likely no one will read this, but here’s a laugh: Someone wanted me booted from a “mother group” on Facebook, because even the fact I was trans, I was “too much male” for her feeling comfortable. Yeah, she made a post with my name hanging me out for the entire group, instead of just contacting the admin, whom I had already talked to and who knew I was a seahorse dad.

@Sandied

3 жыл бұрын

Seahorse dad? That I haven't heard before and I love it. O.O Also congrats on the new addition.

@rhiannonstrickland8943

3 жыл бұрын

May I ask for your pronouns? I'm so lost in this story. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, I'm just confused.

@emilysmith2965

3 жыл бұрын

OP is a guy who gave birth, hence the “seahorse dad” reference. His name is also clearly masc… Isaac is a man’s name. So, he/him.

@igamealex

3 жыл бұрын

@@rhiannonstrickland8943 Sorry for the late answer. My pronouns are he/they.

@randommeowthekitty6482

3 жыл бұрын

@Emily Smith I have a non-binary friend who deliberately changed their name from a gender-neutral one to a feminine one after coming out so this is not necessarily true, and as he said, his pronouns are he/they.

So I dont understand the issue people have with saying "they" for people. In writing, in society, etc, we have always used "they" to describe someone to either A. Being unsure of their gender or B. To keep it mysterious for whatever reason (like in writing). I use "they" if I am not sure, cuz easier and then no one can be offended. But now that NB/trans people use it as a permanent pronoun people are all up in arms like it is something new!

@PilkScientist

3 жыл бұрын

For, like, 100 years out of the entire existence of english people believed a stupid rule about "he" being the default pronoun, until everyone decided that was absolutely stupid and made no sense and we went back to how it'd been the previous millenium or so. But we only decided to do that like 20 years ago and schools *jammed* these shitty grammar rules down the previous generations's throats, hard. And people use that as an excuse to be terrible.

@BeerElf66

3 жыл бұрын

Some cultures have gender neutral forenames, so you can't tell by the name what the gender is. "They" is always better until told otherwise.

@HeyImDepressed

3 жыл бұрын

One of my closest friends are nb and their parents told them why it's hard for them to switch. It's apparently due to the fact they where both brought up in a way and they where taught that calling a person they was disrespectful apparently. Idk if that's the case for most people or just my friends parents tho I think they finally can do it tho but they weren't trying to be disrespectful or anything ;-;

@dandylion2775

3 жыл бұрын

@@HeyImDepressed yeah, one of my friends partially uses it/its but I'm used to it being an offensive term for people so I'm struggling, luckily I have time to get over it

@jamesbw2

3 жыл бұрын

yall know you used to be plural, thats why you say "you are" instead of "you is". youd only say "you" to people you respect or a group, to everyone ls youd use "thou". but then more an more people would use "you" because its respectful to everyone. it got to the point were "thou" would be disrespectful so no one used it. if someone isnt gonna use they/them pronouns, they better be about to never say "you"

can we talk about how GORGEOUS the trans women in the 50s are!!

@catboysephiroth560

3 жыл бұрын

They are freakin SMOKIN, absolutely killing it in those photos. A legion of goddesses.

@catboysephiroth560

3 жыл бұрын

@ZOEY BENZ - STUDENT 8:33 is when the group of trans women

@kugiekizuchi.

3 жыл бұрын

FR

@rachaelmienie7916

3 жыл бұрын

Go ahead please

@river.ate.your.geese.

3 жыл бұрын

Someone please get me a time machine

9:19 I can't believe this is a REAL thing, Markiplier never even talks about this, I feel so validated.

My eldest sister called me he recently for the first time while refering to me and I'm very happy, not a meme I just wanna spread wholesome vibes.

"yeah but on your birth certificate -" Wait what, how did you get it??? This can't be legal

5:11 7 pounds? That's pretty cheap for a baby.

@jaytoplay0

3 жыл бұрын

I was just sitting there looking at your comment, and it finally clicked lol you are talking British money not lbs

@jaytoplay0

3 жыл бұрын

Ok why is my most liked comment about me being dumb?

@lewisbaitup6352

3 жыл бұрын

@@jaytoplay0 because dumb is fun

@hi-vt2wt

3 жыл бұрын

@Sariah Alvino hello Schrödinger's cat

@couldntcareless7884

3 жыл бұрын

Do you know a market price for a baby? Please share, I may wanna buy one, would be nice to know how much does it cost

Quick! Someone celebrate with me! I am 25 and I finally came out to my parents as male (ftm) over the weekend. Unfortunately they did not take it very well, but it’s a gigantic relief to be out after so long. I finally feel like I am in control of my life again 🏳️‍⚧️❤️😊

@so-um7dm

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats!

@freya002YT

3 жыл бұрын

Howdy Jordan ❤️ awesome. Glad to hear it.

@maanderson9519

3 жыл бұрын

Dude, that's amazing! I'm sorry they weren't supportive, but good on you for taking that step. You're valid and wonderful

@alexanderbrasshaw6932

2 жыл бұрын

Woo!

Me: makes myself as a man in the sims and gets major dysphoria because I suddenly had to confront that I was afab Also me: totally not trans.... Me literally 6 months later: move I’m trans

@Alex-zi3kl

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah i play as a male on every game i play and my parents know… Also me: bro how much more obvious is it mom? Me again: i also wear baggy shirts and baggy pants at home Me at School: wearing leggings and wearing a baggy sweatshirt at school Also me at school: i hate my dang pants I wish i was in my sweatpants My Parents: well you need to look like a girl at school Me in my head: 😡😡 dont make me explain all of this its just as obvious as everything else

@Alex-zi3kl

2 жыл бұрын

I also have barbies yeah long story short i made almost all of them boys

@katanah3195

Жыл бұрын

Me getting excited over the latest gender updates to the game for no reason I can discern, making myself as a nonbinary but female in the binary selector Sim, feeling massive gender euphoria, still denying I'm anything but cis because I do like to present feminine occasionally.

6:16 i once saw someone call them 'deboobinators' i vote we should rename them that

@magimerlyn9596

3 жыл бұрын

Especially since ftm people aren’t the only ones who use them. I’m an enby and have always hated my chest ever since I got them when I was like 12. My mom ordered me my first binder for my birthday

@Ruthavecflute

3 жыл бұрын

That's awsome.

@coffeezombie6032

3 жыл бұрын

@@magimerlyn9596 GO MOM!

@magimerlyn9596

3 жыл бұрын

@@coffeezombie6032 I’m so excited for it to get here.

@anomienormie8126

3 жыл бұрын

My deboobinators will take down boobs in the entire trans state area!

“I was a woman and I was born a woman!” “...your poor mother.”

@shanw.2948

3 жыл бұрын

Wow yeah getting a baby's head through that tiny hole is already hell, it must be truly horrifying to need to pop out a fully adult woman out of there 😂

@Newfiecat

2 жыл бұрын

This caught me off-guard 🤣

@kaijaremes3761

2 жыл бұрын

For some reason that reminded me of "His poor wife"

My friend Mike is trans, and sometimes my parents will accidentally use the wrong pronouns or his dead name, and I’ll politely correct them. They’re very nice about it, and I’m glad I have parents that accept everyone for who they are, and have raised me to do the same

Comment on the one about multiple pronoun sets: I'm a demigirl who uses she/they/he pronouns. I think it's important to ask and not assume what someone means when they provide multiple sets. Personally, for me, that means that I'm cool with she/her, they/them, or he/him, and if you use one set exclusively, that's perfectly fine as long as I know you still perceive me as a demigirl and you're not using my multiple sets as a way to pretend I'm a different gender or something. As long as I know you're perceiving me the way I want to be and as long as you're respectful, any set is fine, even if you use it exclusively (this is why, despite she/her pronouns being a set I use, it sometimes makes me uncomfortable when hearing it from people I'm not out to). I do have friends who use all three for me, which is also fine with me. However, for other people, they might not want to be exclusively referred to with one set if they provide more. It's important to listen to people. If someone wants to be referred to using a mix of the pronouns they've provided, then you must do so. Other people's pronouns might change. So make sure to ask, even if you think you already know what someone means.

@shaErk

3 жыл бұрын

Super off topic but: Basil 🥴

@samiam9202

2 жыл бұрын

:0 AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY Me too!

6:50 "she-" *_BWAAAAAMP_* "... So anyway, my daught-" *_B W A A A A A M P_*

@Ace-kolya

3 жыл бұрын

I want an air horn for this reason. Not the training, the bwaaping!

@wormonstring5381

3 жыл бұрын

im gonna get this for when i come out

@therealgarlicbread3481

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ace-kolya Whenever my uncle misgendered me saying she/her, *purposefully* I’d say, “sorry to interrupt but how’s your husband?” He’d sharply inhale and say, “I’m not gay!!!” And I’d snap back, “And I’m not a girl” 9/10 would recommend, but do with caution.

@Ace-kolya

3 жыл бұрын

@@therealgarlicbread3481 omg yes! I'm trying this now!

I was thinking recently, of all the different body altering surgeries available, gender affirming surgery is the only one where you have to under go extensive psychological counselling before you get it. It’s also got by far the lowest regret and/or reversal rate, seriously low like 0.05% vs an average of 40% for elective cosmetic surgery. Maybe we should require counselling before any elective cosmetic surgery?

@LeafyK

3 жыл бұрын

THIS

@saturnvenice3123

3 жыл бұрын

Yas

@ashtons8626

3 жыл бұрын

Lol or maybe don’t require counseling for any of them?

@StephenBoothUK

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashtons8626 From what I’ve read a big problem with elective cosmetic surgeries is that someone feels unhappy or distressed and fixates on a feature that they need to get ‘fixed’, for example they decide that if they get their nose fixed then they will be happy. So they get their nose fixed but are still unhappy because it wasn’t their nose that was the problem. Then they think it’s some other body part so they get some work done on that, and are still unhappy. The process continues because they are trying to fix the wrong thing. As I understand it, the counselling that trans people receive is intended to confirm that they are indeed trans and are not misinterpreting their feelings and the issue they are facing is not that they are trans but something else. There are forms of body dysmorphia that are not gender dysphoria but someone who is not aware of them may interpret as gender dysphoria. We can’t know how another person actually feels in their body but if they describe something that feels a bit like what we feel then it’s tempting to think that we may have what they have. It would be interesting, and maybe telling, to know what proportion of people who initially identify as possibly trans work out through counselling that there is a different cause of their unhappiness and when they get the proper support for that are able to feel right in themselves. If someone has gender dysphoria then they should be able to access the treatments and surgeries that will address that, but if they don’t have gender dysphoria then transitioning is unlikely to help and may actually make things worse as they’ve done the thing that they thought would make them feel better and it didn’t. Maybe the current level required is excessive, but that is an argument for reviewing and amending the counselling rather than throwing it away completely.

@eliasklein9311

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, but gender reassignment surgery treats gender dysphoria so it isn't a cosmetic surgery

I had a conversation about transgender people with my grandma. She’s not educated on LGBTQIA+ subjects but she’s not homophobic or transphobic. She asked why there are so many more trans people now and that she’s never known any trans people. I rattled off about how there’s more acceptance and education now and went on a 5 minute rant. After this she looked me right in the eyes and asked “...... ArE yOu GaY?” I said no and laughed She was right

I have been told by a total of 17 online friends now that either they were under the impression I was cis or just forgot I was trans and it makes me happy

I'm not trans- Im cisn't

@Ruthavecflute

3 жыл бұрын

That is simultainiously wonderful and awful. I don't know which reaction button to hit lol

@No.more.babies

3 жыл бұрын

I’m using that now

@frozenweevil4022

3 жыл бұрын

Hmm yes

@mazzyisgreat7589

3 жыл бұрын

Im cis but this is the best thing ive ever heard lol

@feonixrizen4960

3 жыл бұрын

I love it

I often genuinely forget that the word binder is typically used to refer to school stationery. Petition to rename chest binders "King Squishers"? 😂

@auldthymer

3 жыл бұрын

There's a 1966 movie with Haley Mills called "The Trouble with Angels". It's about a catholic girls' school and the troublemaker in attendance. They take a trip into town for undergarments. One of the older, more conservative nuns refers to them as "binders". She is told she is too old-fashioned; they are called "brassieres". So binders in the context of Trans-men is a new use of the word. (they still functioned as binders, only in service of the "ideal" feminine shape in certain fashion eras.)

@yoyohan9

3 жыл бұрын

@@auldthymer That's fascinating! I love learning about the history behind word usage so thanks for sharing ^-^

@someone857

3 жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes

@grimnerdary9837

3 жыл бұрын

Perhaps only chest squishers or something else neutral? Dont forget nonbinary people 😊💖

@yoyohan9

3 жыл бұрын

@@grimnerdary9837 Omg you're so right! I'd completely forgotten when I made this comment

"nowadays you cant tell who is trans" yea thats kinda the whole point

My mom told me she bought me a binder and I was shocked bc I haven't come out to her yet. It was fricking stationary.

@katanah3195

Жыл бұрын

Last night my mum SCREAMED through the whole house "WHOSE BINDER IS THIS!!?" and I tell you, I about had a goddamn *heart attack* - then I remembered I haven't yet figured out the best way to get one without an Incident or gotten one yet, so it couldn't possibly be mine, but I better go up there so Mum doesn't think I'm avoiding the situation. Yep, it was stationery. And it wasn't mine. I brushed off looking like I'd just had a panic attack as "Well Mum, you screamed like a goddamn banshee! Ya startled me half to death, man!"

Once my friend was telling me about this aesthetic-y binder he bought and for a few seconds I was like “you’re a cis man?? You dont have anything to bind??” Before I realised he was talking about stationary

“The evolution of trans-ness”

@imgoinsurfin

3 жыл бұрын

i read this right as he said it 😹

@can_tthinkofausername

3 жыл бұрын

best quote

@thewholecircus

3 жыл бұрын

Trans ness. From the mother series.

I'd just like to say I've known I was trans for 4 years. I've known I was bi for about 3 or so years, and I known I was demi for also 3 years. I figured I was all set for life with my identity- but I just figured out I'm ace, like an hour ago. I just wanted to say this to say it's okay to for you to change your identity when you've already come out or if you're still figuring yourself out. It's perfectly acceptable, no need to worry. As long as you're comfortable with yourself you're perfectly fine.

I’m so jealous of literally anyone that gets support from their family-

I'm not trans, but it took me a moment to realise, that "binder" has also another meaning except the "trans accessory" - and it's mostly because of you, Jamie 😉

@paardstaart2182

3 жыл бұрын

Same tho

@Ninetails2000

3 жыл бұрын

Transcessories

@violettaverse9822

Жыл бұрын

I've always called the stationary Binder as a thick file so I was kinda surprised about it having a double meaning

I got my offspring their first binder for their birthday and they were so happy! Happy tears! 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ Love my baby Enby!

@bee-pv8ph

3 жыл бұрын

Thankyou for being a supportive parent 💞

@Ghosting.Iguess

3 жыл бұрын

My offspring- 😭😭💀💀 I want my mother to refer to me as this rather than “oh my kid/child” 😔

@stephw6046

3 жыл бұрын

@@bee-pv8ph It's my job and privilege as a parent. 🥰

@stephw6046

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ghosting.Iguess other good ones: My spawn, my Baby Goat (kid, get it? Get it? 😆).

@Ghosting.Iguess

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephw6046 lmdao yes I get it I love them I’m making my mum call me all of these 😭😭

When I told my therapist I wanted a binder (in the context of talking about me being enby) and he went, “... Okay, what do you want to put in it???” And I was like ???? My tits???? Lmao he got it after that but it was funny

Probably the smallest demographic you have, but i 'm still young and I'm forever grateful for the perspective you have given me

I've seen a lot of hate towards Elliot Page, and that made me think- the world is such a horrible place. I don't know how many people need this rn but I'm just going to let you know- you are valid, you are amazing, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Have a great day/night ❤️🏳️‍🌈

@Firegen1

3 жыл бұрын

If it can bring any cheer to your heart, Abigail Thorn's announcement and all the responses I've seen have shown people can be respectful, celebratory and kind. I so wish people had been like that to Elliot. He deserved so much better.

@rhinoprincesafterburner

3 жыл бұрын

Same for you! I know this feeling when you think the world is a horrible place. But it made me incredibly happy how many people supported Elliot, like Ian McKellen and other actors. There are many good people out there, the hateful ones just always louder. I am a trans-teen and to this day have never expirienced big discrimination and live in a kind circle of people. The good people are somewhere out there, I hope you find a lot of them :)

@rxcentlydxceased

3 жыл бұрын

@@rhinoprincesafterburner thankyou

@rxcentlydxceased

3 жыл бұрын

@@Firegen1 thankyou

@useroffline9999

3 жыл бұрын

@@Firegen1 fr. i think the positive reception to abi coming out (which is well deserved btw) is partly because she’s cultivated a trans positive audience by virtue of living her “im just a really good ally” phase through youtube videos. elliot doesn’t have that, so sadly, they’re just sort of out there to all sorts of assholes who like the movies they’re in.

"Transition." In my head, this word belongs to trans people now. I don't make the rules.

My teacher for Tabletop Gaming club uses everyone’s correct pronouns in the group and I was really nervous to ask him to refer to me as a they (I’m an anxious enby bean) but he was super cool with it and told me to correct him if he uses the wrong one it’s easily one of my favorite after school activities 💚

i had a mouth full of water when you said "chestnuts" and there was almost a horrible disaster

I went to an adult toystore once and all they had was a "Do Your Taxes" Action Playset

@EvanMMD3939

3 жыл бұрын

lol

@morijin1919

3 жыл бұрын

Nice

@tylerphuoc2653

3 жыл бұрын

How limited. No *Darning for Dummies* or *Troubleshooting Toilet Problems* or *Practical, Simple, and Freezable Recipes* reference books? What a shame.

My brother has been out as trans for three years and my mother who argues that she has been nothing but supportive still dead names him and I recently had a very stupid argument with her about not dead naming him when talking about him in the past tense. Seeing the airhorn meme, I will be trying it in the future. Update: so I actually did it. Lets just say it made my mums birthday an interesting experience, but it definitely sent a message.

@annamermaid6359

3 жыл бұрын

Do it! Even if it annoys her, that's the point! It will help educate her and in the end it will help your brother!

@Xman34washere

3 жыл бұрын

air horn pog

Hungarian only has "they". Like he/she is just "ő", they (plurally): "ők"

I’m not trans, but every time I see something from someone trans, and actually coming out melts my heart, I love seeing people being confident/comfortable in who they are and can actually say who they are, my heart goes out to all of you who are trans, if you’re in an unsafe environment then I pray that you’ll get out of there ASAP and find people who’ll protect you and treat you like the human you are

Me and my girlfriend are German and they go by she/they. So since German doesn’t have an option for they I chose to use they in English and she in German.

@blacktesseract3798

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! We definitely need to normalize genderneutral terms in German. My friend is non-binary and pronouns are always a hassle.

@apfelkuchen2158

3 жыл бұрын

@@blacktesseract3798 oh yeah i get that, it annoys the fck outta me, but then I'd mostly refer to them in english hedhsjsj

@annahank4053

3 жыл бұрын

@@blacktesseract3798 Same, Im a he/they (ignore my username) and it bothers me that german doesnt have gender neutral pronouns.

@blacktesseract3798

3 жыл бұрын

@@apfelkuchen2158 Yeah me too. It helps that we talk Denglish all the time anyway.

@blacktesseract3798

3 жыл бұрын

@@annahank4053 Yeah, it really sucks.

As a she/they, PLEASE call me by both. I'm so used to only femenine pronouns so it makes me happy when people respect that I use they/them as well.

@duskjohnson8195

3 жыл бұрын

Saaaaame. Like I'm still experimenting. I don't want to give up my she her... But I want they them too. Pls both.

@apbern4797

3 жыл бұрын

Uh so not trying be rude but how do I use both

@duskjohnson8195

3 жыл бұрын

@@apbern4797 mix it up. It takes practice.

@duskjohnson8195

3 жыл бұрын

@@apbern4797 he might change the pronoun from paragraph to paragraph or sentence the sentence. My sibling changes it up from conversation to conversation.

@apbern4797

3 жыл бұрын

@@duskjohnson8195 thanks

Every month we have to run transaction reports but they're all generally called trans reports and when I eventually come out to my colleagues, I really wanna send a trans report to them and when they open it its just a picture of me 👍

@sunflowersandsarcasm4518

3 жыл бұрын

you need to do that. I think i'm gonna give them an ace out of a deck of cards, but it's my face. (i'm ace, in case that wasn't clear.)

@starkpark9602

3 жыл бұрын

@@sunflowersandsarcasm4518 I really need to keep an Ace of Spades in my wallet because that is hilarious! am-ace-zing idea ;)

@sunflowersandsarcasm4518

3 жыл бұрын

@@starkpark9602 thx. that was a pantastic pun

I never had the "I'm not trans" phase, I had the "oh no, that's me" realization lmao

Person: "Gender is what in your pants" Me: "ok then I guess you identifie as poop"

@meteorsoda369

3 жыл бұрын

That's already true because gender is what's in your brain, duh

@an_autistic_pot_of_stew

3 жыл бұрын

PFFT-

@fluffystuff500

3 жыл бұрын

MY GENDER IS LINT!

@altaidox

3 жыл бұрын

Me, who packs almost all the time: nice

@megp9id

3 жыл бұрын

OOF-

Having to say "he or she" while learning English has always bothered me so much!! Why the hassle? (Let's not even talk to some people or online articles defaulting to "he" when they're unsure and lazy, that's even worse. In my native language, we just have one gender neutral pronoun. And it works. It's so much easier to use "they", why isn't it more well-spread?

@abeltrame0000

3 жыл бұрын

That's so cool! What language do you speak? In my language, Italian, it's actually the opposite, we only have "he" and "she", and no gender neutral pronoun... it sucks :(

@Werevampiwolf

3 жыл бұрын

I always got marked down on essays for writing "they" instead of "he or she" and I kept doing it anyway because "he or she" is stupid

@xxx-ie9ic

3 жыл бұрын

@@Werevampiwolf I've gotten checked for it because "it's informal." (huge eyeroll) I also continued to do it because I hate the fact I could be misgendering someone otherwise. It's literally so stupid.

@megp9id

3 жыл бұрын

@A Beltrame I’m a native English speaker, and the same goes for Spanish. There’s El/Ella, and I think there’s a gender neutral “Elle”, but that’s not really talked about nor official.

@xilj4002

3 жыл бұрын

I had access to English cartoons, so I refused to do that he-or-she when I wasn't sure of the gender. I think most teachers let me use they...

I use she/they pronouns. For me it means that I identify as a woman and use she/her pronouns. But I don't mind at all if people use they/them pronouns, especially if we don't know each other that well and maybe haven't had a chance to discuss pronoun preferences. Either way is fine by me. But thanks for the reminder that other people might prefer different things!

I was treated to a horribly transphobic video on shorts so I ran to this video to get the sour taste out

@damjay005

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry these people suck but we need to keep living

I'm not even a trans woman and that "grow on me" joke made my entire week.

I absolutely loved the older sibling who air-horn-trained their parents for the little bro. I really wish everyone could have a caring older sibling TwT 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚🖖

@PochamaRex

3 жыл бұрын

honestly I might have to try that

@r2Gt06

3 жыл бұрын

@@PochamaRex You go, love! Good luck! 🤗

@Chris-H5

3 жыл бұрын

I can just smash that like button. I totally love it too !

the way i IMMEDIATELY started smiling when the video began

For me its 2018: whats trans 2019: I support trans 2020: I think I might be trans 2021: I’m trans 2021.5: came out as trans

Me: *having an anxiety attack about getting my MRI results on Tuesday* Jamie: *uploads* Me: *smiles and quickly watches the video*

@oliverjustvibing3173

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you get good results!

@HParadoxa

3 жыл бұрын

I hope the result will be helpful for you future health journey ♥

@sefratatouille

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck 🤞

@lucymiller8172

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sending you lot's of love and hugs💛💛💛💛

@andylovesbats4566

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you're doing good! Hold on, anxiety is tough, but I'll believe in you, you'll get through it! Ps.: Sending love :)

My friend came out as trans the other day and I was so happy for them. Then I realised I dont actually know much about being trans. I found your chanel to educate my self. Now i support him even more. Thanks for helping me be more educated👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽You mede my friend be happy when he found out how much i love him ether way. THANK YOU

@miserablepumpkin9453

3 жыл бұрын

You're a good friend!

@emilijaperic341

3 жыл бұрын

@@miserablepumpkin9453 thank you, that is nice of you

6:19 idk why but the single strand of hair falling sparked joy

7:13 I really relate to this like I jumped from being a cis gender girl to non-binary and I am now trans. Yeah I tried to repressed most of my gender dysphoria didn’t work but I’m happier now so that’s cool.

Move! I'm trans and/or gay! - Moses to the water

@HatsuneMaddie

3 жыл бұрын

Gay moses is my new aesthetic no takebacks

@mickytherat8020

3 жыл бұрын

@@HatsuneMaddie *our new aesthetic.

The first video of Jamie’s I saw was the bi memes one and I thought “cool a bi guy” then I realized he does trans stuff and that’s a great metaphor for my life

Your meme videos are my favorites doesn’t matter what kind of memes I just always get a kick out of them

I feel that first meme. Although I've known I'm trans for about a decade, but was trying hard to deny it and/or change it, but recently started watching trans youtubers and have come to accept myself. Now if only I could get coming out over with and start transition...

Since I came out as NB my best friend just started to call everyone they unless 100% sure of their pronouns. She is the best friend I could ever ask for I love her so much.

Never thought I’d see the day a company selling adult toys would sponsor Jamie

NGL this is the perfect channel: Jamie is so wholesome, and I love learning about new things.

You are always the happiest and most smiley whenever you're looking at trans memes it makes me so happy idk why

Hi, I'm a trans boy. I'm 14, a little over a year on Testosterone and I just wanna say I love your videos. They helped me come out.

@ryleighd7147

3 жыл бұрын

congrats!🎉

@therainbowziege2317

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats!

@valllllleeeeeeerrrrriiiee

3 жыл бұрын

Good job

@seymorebuttsdeeznutz

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats!

@Emily-fb5er

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats!

I had a friend tell me that they chose their name and I didn't understand at first cause that kind of stuff was kept under the rug at my old school. I've discovered that I am much happier at my public school because you can list your preferred pronouns and there are many people that are a part of the LGBTQ+ community. I'm not quite sure what I am yet, but I think through the internet and my school I can figure it out. I mostly just suck up the information like a sponge because I don't want to be misinformed.

@JoeMama-1diot

3 жыл бұрын

SOU PROFILE PCITURE...?? SOU.. SOU HIYORI.......? SOU..

@ashlyngalaxy8398

3 жыл бұрын

@@JoeMama-1diot Hello!

Instead of the normal "me trans? No!" Thing I didn't know what being trans was so I was 13 and like "look at me! So girly! Such a girly girl I am sooo girly!" And the next year just after turning 14 I met a trans guy and was all "panick!" Because I had been trying to force myself to be feminine thinking my feeling would go away with time and then I realised that they never would and I'd always feel like a man. And just a few months before that I had caved and gotten all of my skirts and dresses and tight fitting cloths in a fit of "fuck it!" So I was in crisis mode for awhile trying to come to terms with who I am

I was having a really awful morning, decided to watch this video with my breakfast and it really cheered me up, so thank you 🥺 While the 'reacting to transphobic memes' videos are very funny, the trans positive reaction videos are definitely my favourite! :) Although I can't get over the amount of dad jokes sometimes haha

"So I heard there was a trans girl living here. Do you by any chance know her?" "Well of course I know her. She's me."

When I first heard what binding was, I thought that you took a school binder, cut one of the covers off, and use it to flatten your chest xD

Thank you Jammi, you always put a smile on my face!🥰

3:41 That one hit me pretty hard too. But also kind of made me feel a little better. My first appointment with a phycologist is coming up soon and I'm transitioning (or at lest planning to) some what late in life. I worked for a long time to get around what aversion therapy from when I was little did to me, at lest well enough to admit who I am. So it's like I've waited all this time and now every second feels like an hour. But the fact that the meme exists at all and your reaction to it at lest reminds me that I'm not alone. It's sometimes hard to keep that in mind after all these years of being alone with this and being afraid to tell anyone and what they might say or do. So I guess what I'm trying to say in a rambling kind of way is thank you for this channel. You and others like Samantha, Noah, and whoever that wonderful person is what made that meme. Which seems like a thought pulled straight out of my brain right now, help me feel not so alone just by doing what you all do.

In college I took a professional editing class. My professor took a day and a half to talk about singular they and neopronouns. She even offered extra credit to those who went to my school's LGBT+ Group's Pronoun Day and wrote a short essay about it. There were some people who didn't understand neopronouns and singular they, so she ended up talking about why pronouns were important to individuals and why we should ask for a person's pronouns before interviewing them. She also had us do an assignment in which we used all different types of pronouns and how to correctly use them. My heart.

it took me like, 10 years from stage “what me? trans? never” to realize im nonbinary but hey we all evolve differently :p

@enbiaroace

3 жыл бұрын

Me: trans? Pff of course I'm not Also me: is openly nonbinary to most friends

@bandamani

3 жыл бұрын

Yea I started to realise something was up beyond just being a tomboy at around 11, but had so much internalised transphobia and doubted myself so much that it took me until a couple months ago to realise I am trans, and be able to say it without feeling like I'll vomit (thanks, Kalvin). I'm about to turn 18 in a couple weeks so I suppose it took me about 7 years, and right now I haven't begun any kind of transition but I hope to do so soon. I'm not sure what label fits me right now though, I just call myself transmasculine and hope to be called by he/they irl.

@ItsAlwaysOct

3 жыл бұрын

I might be trans but like idk, cause being called a "man" doesn't sound accurate, even though I'm 18 now, but like.. I'm not a girl either.. I'm just.. Me! And I don't feel like expressing myself through a filter of gender, I think? I just wanna be gender-neutral lol

@r.taylor8836

3 жыл бұрын

@@ItsAlwaysOct you should maybe research Nonbinary and identities that fit within it? Do you maybe fit somewhere there? It’s taken me a decade to understand my own identity as a nonbinary person, and it’s obviously something you need to figure out for yourself, but despite my attachment to and adoration of femininity, I feel the same way when I look at who I know myself to be. Good luck on your gender contemplation, and I hope you can either find a label that fits or feel comfortable even with a lack of one!

@fartmancentral69

3 жыл бұрын

@@ItsAlwaysOct thats cool! you don't need to "pick" a label or do anything that makes you uncomfortable, the whole point is to feel like yourself and being gender neutral or apathetic is totally good

this cheered me up hugely! Your channel is so nice and good, and I hope you have a great year.

Such a fun video. I love your hair just like that. Thank you for saying "subscribe if you like. No pressure" that's why I subscribed😊 HUGS and Love

I've recently seen a "it's transpossible" lorry and it made my day xD

this is exactly what I needed today "hey spuds!"

I've seen this video so many times and it just brings me so much joy every time it is my favorite video on youtube