This just reminded me that there are still decent men out there who're willing to support their significant others through thick and then. Thank you🙏

@aditijha6432

3 жыл бұрын

In dreams. Families like this doesn't exist. Yes but this channel is trying hard to bring a change. Let's c.

@friendshiprocks8673

3 жыл бұрын

@@madarauchiha4034 I have seen only 10 percent people like this. But happy to see that people's mentality r changing slowly in India but I think it will take 500 more years to see signifact changes in Indian society

@chinumonu1

3 жыл бұрын

One of my friends neighbor supported his wife in her career . She too had to go to USA on project after two years she took PR or something and sent her husband divorce papers this too is happening. The boys family was very supportive feels sad for such family. Nowadays girls too don't appreciate good in laws. Don't know what they are looking for in a husband and in laws.

@Aparna.S93

3 жыл бұрын

@@madarauchiha4034 I'm glad u came across good people but there are still a lot of people who need to change and it isn't very easy. There are people suffering each day. The world is a lot bigger than you or me or any single person's experiences. So just because u had the best ones doesn't mean the worst doesn't happen elsewhere. Such people deserve sympathy and support, not rude comments.

@Aparna.S93

3 жыл бұрын

@@madarauchiha4034 Ok u r just showing ur culture by calling me names.. I'm not judging😂 I guess there r ppl who need to up their language n cultures too.. U have my sympathy😊

We just need the right voice to let our egos go away...😊❤️

@roochiraguha754

3 жыл бұрын

Yes Nijo sir

@shreyasinha1171

3 жыл бұрын

Please make a video on choosing adopted adopted kids over biological

@jagrutimahadik494

2 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly 👍

@shreyasinha1171

2 жыл бұрын

@Hi There I'm sorry to hear this. Then you people will choose biological kids, isn't?

@vinothaelangovan5832

Жыл бұрын

Hai Nijo ... My situation is exactly opposite of this . I am an obstetrician , a very busy and restless career. I have delivered so many babies but still I need my own child to play with. I really need rest . I am longing to be a housewife. I need to spend time with my family , take care of my husband and all. But , The society keeps on pressuring me saying that , "You are a doctor, and you know how big is this position, how hard is it to reach here, and simply to quit it is the worst idea". My husband is the only person supporting me to quit my career, as he could see my stress and sufferings and also he is missing me at home. Is wanting to be a good housewife really that bad , Why is every woman wanting to go back of being successful always ? For me , The real success is living a stressfree life , If they could get that respect and peace as a housewife itself , then I think they are the most successful woman. After considering pregnancy, postpartum, nursing the child, undergoing high peak of stress for 3days in every month why still no woman is able to think they naturally deserve some rest than men ... I really don't know nowadays in the name of woman rights , such things have become a pressure to every woman. I respect and salute woman who are successful in their career. Their endurance level is really great. But, their endurance is becoming a threat for every other woman outside who wants to lead a normal life. This is evident now as nowadays, even in matrimony websites it is included that they need a bride willing to continue to work after marriage. Just imagine us asking , we need a groom who could deliver a child after marriage. I didn't want to hurt anybody. But , Just wanted to say every individual is unique , with different expectations...

Random people : i had 3 kids in this age . Me : so should i dance

@maryjoseph5452

3 жыл бұрын

They don't have other work

@ar.shivankarchauhan4415

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@mohitaahuja4956

3 жыл бұрын

😄😄😄😄😄

@iamsweetpotato2285

3 жыл бұрын

@@maryjoseph5452 true . Just time pass and they like to give us " gyaan " .

@riddhiii914

2 жыл бұрын

@@maryjoseph5452 YES

I'm reality this is not always the case. Especially in Indian homes,lots of them haven't accepted this view. To those that hold this view thank you.

@ayushonkar850

3 жыл бұрын

People's mentality needs to change.

@nyx._.hazel_

3 жыл бұрын

@@ayushonkar850 Yes 😑

@subhasishchakrabarty9792

3 жыл бұрын

Career is important for both males and females. And those who have got an opportunity, must try to be financially independent and self sufficient

@bignavin10

3 жыл бұрын

Those days when there were no tv, mobile, only entertainment was from kids..... so producing them was very important.......

@paromita10

3 жыл бұрын

I didn’t have any kids inspite of societal pressure!

This is a form of peer pressure. Seriously. I pray nobody is related to parents such as this one.

Finally Shantmanu emerged as a good husband and not a rude/cheater/selfish husband.

@risingstars7432

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@GauravSingh-so1sc

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@funtimewithsushmita1197

3 жыл бұрын

yeah really 🤣

@saisirishadevi2429

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah😅😅😅

@awwify

3 жыл бұрын

hahahhahahha true that

It’s so nice how the son explained his mom and his mom understood

I don't know why each MIL tries to be the main decision maker in a family including in planning a baby. Planning a baby is purely couple's choice and no one should interfere in this matter between them. This should be a common sense. I see many relatives, many mother in law's do the same. They keep on insisting about kids , trying to convince their son, putting pressure on daughter in laws. Shame !!

Baby will become a whole family's desicion where actually those two people who are frst involved and are gonna lead their life forever but they won't understand

My Mom in law always prays for me to get a very good job and she wants me to achieve success always. Along with her sons, she even wants me her daughter to reach great heights 🥰

This type of MIL and husband very rare in real life

@anishasingh4488

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Na to husband itna understanding hote hai in general. Aur sasu ma, itni achi apni bahu k lie, impossible

@soundaryabalaji1741

3 жыл бұрын

Not only my husband and mil. I live in a joint family husbands grandparents uncles and aunts. Nobody has spoken about it to us.

@AryanDwivedy

3 жыл бұрын

@@anishasingh4488 Women are not supposed to work. It's a duty of man to take care of her. Before marriage it's father responsibility to take care of her after marriage it's her husband's duty to take care of her and after husband it's her son's duty to take care of her.

@anishasingh4488

3 жыл бұрын

@@AryanDwivedy so glad to hear your thoughts. I wish my husband too had same thinking like urs..

@tahaali4090

3 жыл бұрын

@@AryanDwivedy father ki responsibility hai ok But husband ya bete tak dependent nahi hona chaiye Girls should be self independent

Body hamari Life hamari Responsiblty hamari Aur faisla dusro ka

@cmtrilleven14yearsago65

3 жыл бұрын

Responsiblity dusroki bhi hoti hai But still Ye badiya tha guru

@Immortal-721

3 жыл бұрын

Correct

@AryanDwivedy

3 жыл бұрын

@@Immortal-721 Women are not supposed to work. It's a duty of man to take care of her. Before marriage it's father responsibility to take care of her after marriage it's her husband's duty to take care of her and after husband it's her son's duty to take care of her.

@cmtrilleven14yearsago65

3 жыл бұрын

@@AryanDwivedy y, there are many women who work,and are single handedly more richer than many family's combined

@aartishaw6359

3 жыл бұрын

@@AryanDwivedy why women's are not supposed to work every body has the right to be financially strong and build their own career why should women always depend on father, husband or son?? Why not she can be financially independent??

I wish every girl gets a husband like this one a mother in law who understands

@ruthminar6262

2 жыл бұрын

How many percentage of the lucky girls there?

It's so nice how the son explained mom and she understood 👏👏

If husband is supportive to his wife like this women can succeed in all but we can't find such men's😔...good story....Thank you

I like how this Nijo guy conveys a great message in under 10 mins.

This is really sensitive topic especially for women and the way team presented and concluded was incredible. Keep doing good team

Hardly happen like this in real life.. I had a govt job in my hand and I was forced to have a baby to continue my job.. later, after the baby I left my job...finally after the baby, again pressure for the second child.. neither my parents are suppouting nor my in-laws... Already 30 and still my career is not yet stable...

@bijithab.558

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you

@aj-kl1hz

3 жыл бұрын

yaa thats is problem u must talk to them yaa first baby is necessary on time as lots of complications are there. second mein u can have some time of 5 6 years this is my opinion. the choice is urs as this is ur personal life

@manasakb9382

3 жыл бұрын

But how did you leave your government job ? 😐 These days cracking a govt job is extremely difficult with huge competition . You shouldn't have left your hard earned job. You are already standing on your own feet. When no one supports you atleast emotionally, how are they going to support financially? Your comment made me think . 😒 my heart goes out to you. After I get married, I will stand strong not to leave my job for any reason.

@nishagawade3545

3 жыл бұрын

Koi baat mat sunna unki, apne liye stand logi tabhi kuch hoga, yeh mat socho ki dusre kush rahe isliye tumhe ye decision lena chahiye, tum Zindagi mein sabko khush nahi rakh sakti, ye reality hai khud ko satisfaction do, jakar apne liye aachi job dhundo. God bless you

@justanintrovertwithcooldp7

3 жыл бұрын

Mein toh ye baat acche se samajh gaya hu ki pehle career jaada important hai. Ek baar jab life set ho jaye toh hi baby plan karna chahiye. Tabhi bacche ko accha future milega aur uski jarurato ko jaada aasani se pura kar payenge. Par jyadatar indian family ye baat nhi maanenge. 😐

The ghee shakkar, hugging situation was a goosebump and touching moment for me

Supporting mother in law.. Sometimes we never get support from parents only..

In some cases the mother in law and husband will be forcing the woman to keep delivering babies until baby boy is born,the mother in law in the video is far better than those people

@a.mallikarjun340

3 жыл бұрын

Correct brother

What a lesson family should understand each other

What if she never wanted to hv a baby ever? She should b given the right to choose what she feels is right for her. The last line where mil said next yr kuch nhi sunna chahti took away the real lesson.

@kristina_kashyap

Жыл бұрын

Sadly,that does not happen in India that too when you're married

@ankurimaborah4119

Жыл бұрын

@@kristina_kashyap one has got to have guts to do it...sadly most of us follow the rulebook of the society without questioning.

Bro. In reality people though the daughter in law out of the house .& provoke their son to beat her, insjlf her call her infertile, characterless & harass her in every way.

Dakshi acts do good!!...... 😀😀

Well done Mr husband... Osm man.. I appreciate u.. I request all mother in law to be just like a mom.. Pl,

Nijo you are so real. There is spark of reality in your vids. God bless you.

Good one. But why is it that always the woman need to sacrifice her career? Saddist mentality of our society. Recently saw a film Saras that is of the same idea as this story.. But very few women actually gets the privilege of choosing, it's mostly imposed on women to plan a family, even if she is not ready.

This would NEVER happen in real life. The grandmother would have killed the daughter in law in real life for dishonouring her- well that is my experience anyway! This is why I left the Indian community so I would be free of pressure to do anything from the community and the Aunties. Caring about what other people think all the time is a huge prison and the only way to escape it and not care what others think is to leave that community.

@soumyadipmukherjee6627

2 жыл бұрын

Well now india is changing people are coming out with new views

@jamesbondtraining

2 жыл бұрын

@@soumyadipmukherjee6627 well I am a 2nd generation Indian living in the UK. I left that community and I am never going back.

@soumyadipmukherjee6627

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesbondtraining who told u to comeback I never said I just told india is changing u can see the change from now only in urban areas

@jamesbondtraining

2 жыл бұрын

@@soumyadipmukherjee6627 Guess I'll never know then.

@soumyadipmukherjee6627

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesbondtraining yes u be in foreign better for u itself

I think he just saw Sara's (a malayalam movie)..😂

My family tried to pressure me into marriage I ended up clowning them and roasting them for years. I also embarrassed them publicly and privately !!! They just remain silent around me 😅😅😅😅🤣🤣

Respect is alright but it's high time that girls/women need to prioritize their careers. We need to think about those endless nights that we spent doing hardwork for our dream. Nothing comes before your happiness, not even the family.

Always first career , whether a man or woman, after that family or something like that.

This is the reason why fewer women are there in good positions in India. They are not able to concentrate on their work due to such family pressure

Our society is still too far from reaching this perspective. Hope your video brings in a meagre change ahead. Really have no words for the mother in law who just proved कभी सास भी बहु थी

I mean in laws should never insist on children right away it's up to the couple and there is time there is no shortage of children in India career should be a priority because children are an obligation for 18-20 years to which some are just not committed or are busy after a successful career there will be all the time in the world for kids and raising them

Lovely 😍😍🌹 grateful to join the Nijo community ❤️❤️thank you so much

Wonderful 🙏hope the society also changes. Very required. Each person in the world makes a difference 🙏

Always support your family in anyway possible ..shaant and dakshi love you in these videos .

I am 38 year old still did not think of having any kids , even my wife is also with me on this but the society kept pressurising us however , we did not bend to it !! Having kids or not is couples personal choice , the person having kids doesn't become superior than others just because he carries 2,3 kids on his shoulder , A kid is a 20 year old project and we should be careful and prepared before bringing him onto this misery planet

@user-ok6oi1hi4f

6 ай бұрын

Right 👍 but you r support for wife is very imp for your wife.any person can said anything.and it's husband and wife's own decision not for

Superrr video . This video is really an eye opener for many mother in laws. God bless you Nijo.

Sadly how many husbands think the way shaant thought and how many are supportive. Ironically most of them only think about themselves that's why the real skills are forced to curb and kill. And finally there's a robotic slave in flesh

I am 20 year boy And I love all Stories. This stories really inspiring me. Touching my heart. ❤️ Love from Nashik Maharashtra ❤️😊

Finally some sensible video 🙌👏

I would worry if my company had a policy not to have babies. I was promoted when my company already knew that I was expecting. The best of my talent was not stopped by my pregnancy, it only showed the potential in me

@bb-ss6ts

3 жыл бұрын

Where do you work? Can I apply?

@helennesan7708

2 жыл бұрын

Honeywell... You can google the Career site and apply

I hope so that every girl gets such a great husband and mother in law

Very heart warming story the way a son explained his mother was very beautiful n in respectful manner i appreciated the video n think that now this is the time that we have to change our mindset n try to make our parents n elders understand the importance of our goals n ambitions

Character of distance relationship is just awesome ☺️

if i was her, i wouldn't give a damn about anybody. i would just inform everybody. kis kis ko khush hone hai, khush ho javo agar nahi toh bhi mujhe farak nahi padti. dreams are dreams. usse upar kuch nahi. if you are thinking of giving up on your dreams, you should think twice about whether it's really your dream or not.

All actors have been hand-picked by king Jonson. Precise to the T.

Thank you for sharing good videos

Wow. Wonderful idea 💡. Loved this episode very much

Very nice heart touching story thanks for sharing 🙏

I can totally relate me to it but reality ends at 3:35 😂😂😂 after then I stopped about my dream. DREAMS ARE DREAMS FOR ME 😀

Hello guys you really doing well done and great job I can see your all episodes and it's really work full for everyone I can say it because I am also psychologist as well as I am a counselor to

NO ONE SHOULD MARRY

@vishnoo_prasad_m

3 жыл бұрын

True🤫

@swethagv5707

3 жыл бұрын

True

@friendshiprocks8673

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

@Immortal-721

3 жыл бұрын

True

What a coincidence? Just finished watching the newly released malayalam movie SaraS. Similar theme.

@AryanDwivedy

3 жыл бұрын

Women are not supposed to work. It's a duty of man to take care of her. Before marriage it's father responsibility to take care of her after marriage it's her husband's duty to take care of her and after husband it's her son's duty to take care of her.

@AryanDwivedy

3 жыл бұрын

@thakkumikku that's what I'm trying to say. Not letting women work doesn't mean that you're disrespecting her. But She's should have full control over her husband/son money. And I say full control doesn't mean that go and blow their money in unnecessary things. You should be able to fullfil your basic needs.

@ashanasinha671

3 жыл бұрын

@@AryanDwivedy why would she have control on someone's money when she can have her owm 😊

@ritikakainth4500

2 жыл бұрын

@@AryanDwivedy its not just about money ..women have some dreams too.....women have some aspirations. Women want to be independent... they want to take up a profession they always dreamt of..

This channel is one of the underrated chaneel.......most deserving channel

Family planning should not be a barrier to your career....... please parents, consider your children's dream first.....

I wish something like this becomes true in my life. This societal pressure to have kids is really hard to deal with specifically when you're a business owner trying settle down the first steps of your business

Thank u brother for all such encouraging videos .... God bless u always.....

Excellent message

Waheguru g mehar karan tuhada te 🙏❤️

You people always come with good topics.......Keep it up.

Loved it ❤️❤️🥺

amazing concept

Dont know why but this made me cry

I married at just 1month before my 19th birthday, but now iam aTEACHER,writer, 😍mom of 2kids❤

U ppl come up with excellent topix, keep it up

Superb👌👌👌..

Awesome video 👍👏👏👏

Hi Nijo! Plz make one on mother of a daughter insulting her son-in-law n interfering his married life as well!

All husband should understand dis n support especially in-laws should support

Niji sir 's acting is awesome,,

I want to join your positivity group but I don't have facebook account, and I m not allowed for it. So is there any other way to join that group.

Finally dakshi played good role

The mother in law has so much power that she decides when her son will have children

Be single is better

My eyesfilled

Simple and good knowledge

Really nice!

Very nice content

Stay single stay happy...

I always think that women should not be pressurized to marry or have children. They have their dream too

Attention to channelNijo Johnson, nice clip, thanx .

Thanks Jonson

Your content is so good

Super 👌👌

I dont understand why these girls are soo sad about what will the guys mother think!!?... Let her think what she wants. Why do you have to think soo much about what makes his mom happy!!?.. Just focus on your life, you are not a child, you are grown up, it's you who has to take the decision of putting a child in your uterus or not!

Super bro 👍🏻

Waiting for more inspiring videos

Imagine if she not able to.concive after her US trip....or if getting pregnant got delayed...how horrible her life gonna to be with that mother in law

What a supportive husband.

Career is crucial.

Very nice

.Adoption is the best way of being parents.

You and dhar men is great 👍

apki sari stories bht achhi hoti h lkn real m esa nhi hota koi b apni glti realise nhi krta

This is not a reality. We find very rare mother in laws like this.

So related... but not with good ending like this.... unable to fulfill only dream