Genuine question here to anyone who would know, where in the Bible does remarriage follow divorce (lawful divorce that is, according to God). I do know that there are grounds for divorce but haven’t seen in the Bible where Gods says that person can remarry. Please answer if anyone knows.

@Bindi_Marc

5 ай бұрын

Hello :) I read the following: 8Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because of your hardness of heart; but it was not this way from the beginning. 9 Now I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, *except for sexual immorality,* and marries another woman, commits adultery.” Matthew 19 (ESV) This verse appears to pass judgment on divorce and remarriage *except* in the case of sexual immorality.

@candyxoxo19

5 ай бұрын

If you are lawfully divorced then why not remarry?

@Kedesh14

5 ай бұрын

@@Bindi_Marc thank you very much for this response 😌

@maddymedelina2612

5 ай бұрын

It doesn't say. People just think that because they are no longer tied/married, they can do it again, but it's not what God said.

@dunamis333

5 ай бұрын

@@Bindi_Marc The phrase "sexual immorality" is a watered down translation and does not exist in the original text. The original word is fornication. The "fornication clause" many are using as a reason to remarry only applied to betrothed wives in Jewish times! It cannot be used today to divorce a spouse. A betrothed couple waited for about a Year before they consummated their marriage. If within that Year the betrothed wife committed fornication, the betrothed husband could "divorce" her to marry someone else. This is what Joseph wanted to do when he thought Mary had committed fornication not adultery. "Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery..." [Matt.19:9] Fornication is not adultery and adultery is not fornication. If they had the same meaning the Paul wouldn't have referred to them in the same text."Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness..." [Gal.5:19] After a marriage has been consummated, if a spouse then commits adultery, a separation, not divorce, is permitted. If the spouse repents, however, a reconciliation must be sought. If he or she doesn't repent and goes off to marry someone else, the innocent spouse must remain unmarried and continue to pray for a reconciliation. This may or may not happen. "Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife." [1 Cor.7:10,11] Adultery cannot dissolve a marriage covenant it can only defile it. Many are using a watered down version of the Bible to practise adultery and are calling it a remarriage, it's not. This man is living in adultery with a woman who is not his covenant wife. He has treated his covenant wife very very treacherously. He's under God's wrath and if he doesn't repent he will perish for what he has done. "Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the Lord hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant...take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth." [Mal.2:14,15]

So I haven't listened to any of the video yet, but based off the screenshot for this video, it sounds like he should have stayed married to the first wife.

@TstarHey-yx2li

5 ай бұрын

That's what I said

There’s a good chance the first wife’s chronic illness/autoimmune was triggered by the stress of the divorce. Feel bad for all involved because it could have been avoided by just honoring the vows they took.

@nikhefe16

5 ай бұрын

So so true!

@philipmoyo1511

5 ай бұрын

The covenant is still binding between the man and his first wife before God. These problems occur because we want to enter into a Heavenly ordained instituition using man made precepts and when things go south we run back to scripture to justify the course of action we want to take

@dunamis333

5 ай бұрын

@@philipmoyo1511 What many fail to understand is that in Christ the covenant of marriage has been reverted back to what it was in the very beginning with Adam and Eve. This means the Old Testament Laws on marriage do not apply to Christians today. Adultery, physical abuse or dersertion doesn't dissolve the marriage covenant. This is why if the woman is being physically abused she should separate herself from her husband for safety. This does not mean, however, she's free to marry someone else. "Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried..." [1 Cor.7:10,11] Men have been given a direct command, from the Lord Jesus Christ, to not divorce their wives. Any man who does so is not saved, such a man has a dead faith. The church today is filled with such men "Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord...a husband is not to divorce his wife." [1 Cor.7:10,11]

@leeleefromthed

5 ай бұрын

Or "til death do we part" became a curse when they parted before death 🤷🏾‍♀️ Our words have meaning. I've seen several couples just so happen to get chronic diseases after divorce.

@lanahundley8625

4 ай бұрын

The stress of all the work she put in for years outside the home. 😢😢

When situations like this arise and the parties involved don't have a foundation of biblical wisdom, they are truly at a loss as to what the right thing to do is. So sadly, they resort to asking people on the Internet for their "advice" which is nothing more than their equally misguided opinions. And as Bindi mentioned, their advice is terrible. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Truly so sad. We see such foolishness in society and it's because people have genuinely never been taught. I myself am a newer Christian and learning so much only now in my 30s. I am grateful that God spared me from many mistakes I easily could have made previously.

This was a great biblical analysis. Thank you for sharing your insights. Seeking a *_provider man_* and avoiding putting yourself, as the woman, in that role is advice I never heard from my church family. I wish it was a more readily understood concept when I was on the marriage market/dating season.

I’m divorce and my Ex husband still sometimes helps me financially. However, if he ever remarried I’d never ask him for money. And if I did the new wife would have to know about it. But I wouldn’t ask. This is why the divorce rate is so high in the Christian community. The main reason is not knowing the word of God. This was a really good teaching.

@karenmartin4221

26 күн бұрын

Do y’all share children?

@fabbeyonddadancer

11 күн бұрын

Protestant community correction and it’s because of liberal progressivism and feminism mainly

Good intentions don't always produce good results

You broke it all the way down. As a wife, I would be upset that my husband is taking funds from out household to care for his ex.

@cathylake9072

4 ай бұрын

The same as you would expect him to take on the financial responsibility of a child he had or his mom, you knew he had a wife he put away for non biblical reasons, so he is responsible for her also.

Follow the book! You never regret doing the right thing.

The time for that came and went. You will ruin your current marriage. Move on.

His “ex wife” is his only wife in God’s eyes.

@philipmoyo1511

5 ай бұрын

Thats part of some truths that are being watered down to justify some of our actions as Christians yet we fail to realise that we are in a spiritual warfare. When it really boils down to it, how many can say they are in a marriage that God HAS JOINED TOGETHER ? I want to believe there are a lot of second marriages that God doesnt recognise especially amongst the Christian community but we want to coddle people at the expense of the truth much to their own damnation

@leeleefromthed

5 ай бұрын

At the same time; God created marriage. What, not who, He put together, let not man put asunder. People really need to petition God before getting married 💯

@philipmoyo1511

5 ай бұрын

@@leeleefromthed Thats the most important aspect, our carnality is revealed in moments of crisis and suddenly we are quick to qoute Matthew 19 when things dont go away and we run to secular courts falsely believing they have the power to dissolve a divine covenant. Thats one of the devils greatest deception regarding marriage. A seed he planted in the hearts of the israelites during the exodus by hardening their hearts with DIVORCE becoming a phenomenon amongst Gods chosen. Our God is not a Lord of chaos , no way He would permit divorce knowing it would bring the chaos like the scenario presented in the video. I will still hold onto the belief that the 19th chapter of matthew that we so easily cite we have misinterpreted because of the hardness of our hearts. No way can a covenant with God be broken. God is a perfect God and as long as we are on earth we should be striving to be PERFECT JUST AS OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN IS PERFECT . If we cannot understand the true importance of marriage from creation by way of bible study then we should not marry otherwise we will become the vessel the devil uses to make a mockery of marriage

@wendymtzc

2 ай бұрын

Nothing could be further from the truth, the Bible actually teaches that if someone divorces and remarries they cannot go back to the previous spouse

If my husband and i were in a situation where an ex wife was sick, needed help (the story doesnt state if its a one time $ help) and financially we could be a blessing and help i would be ok with this. The problem to me in this particular situation is the husbands reasoning (excuse) to give the help. Its one thing to want to help someone in need and another to feel an obligation because they were married, wich is probably why the new wife doesnt think is the right move. I agree he should listen to his current wife...

It's funny that you did a video on this. My father in law was secretly giving my husband's mom money when she asked for it. My husband told him to stop because he wasn't respecting his current wife. He kept giving her money until his wife found out and told him to stop. So I'm on board with your answer. On another note, I love your afro!!!!

I absolutely love your Fro 🌸🌸🌸

My wife of 35 years died 5 years ago. I am now free to remarry

@Shiboys

5 ай бұрын

Nothing to do with this video! 🤷🏻‍♀️

@kristenyoung7853

5 ай бұрын

Yes, she did mention "til death do us part". You are free to remarry. She didn't say you weren't 😊

@BeaSiegal

2 ай бұрын

Nobody cares bro

@gabrielamontenegro8090

Ай бұрын

Should we be congratulating you or something

Your hair is absolutely giving health and beauty ❤

This out of order, not knowing what I was to look for in a biblical husband, was me. Divorced me and immediately got with another. I felt this. Thankfully I was educated afterwards and have an amazing biblical husband now🙌🏼

Sound, solid advice, Bindi. I did think what would be the "Christian" thing to do in this situation e.g. if we see our neighbour hungry or naked and we say "I'll pray for you" instead of actually helping, that would be unbiblical. However, in this context and especially because he and his new "wife" are not in agreement, they need to get into agreement and he needs to focus on providing for and protecting his "new" spouse and family. Him assisting his "ex" wife now may lead to financial issues for him and his new wife in the future. We need to be as wise as serpants and make good "investments" with our money...

Sister, this was a powerful message. You dropped some major gems. Thank you for this perspective and lesson❤

@lanahundley8625

4 ай бұрын

Agree!!

He can help her find the link to food stamps. My husband will never help any woman financially that he had a relationship with in the past.

There's a verse that really brings out the fruits of this kind of imbalanced marital relationship. Ecclesiasticus 25:22 KJV “A woman, if she maintain her husband, is full of anger, impudence, and much reproach

@theparttimehomemaker

5 ай бұрын

Yes, I absolutely love that verse in Ecclesiasticus. There's a reason why books were removed from the Canon...

@Godsdaughter1025

5 ай бұрын

@@theparttimehomemakerwow I went to look for this thinking it was Ecclesiastes not realizing it was a whole other book!

I pray to never be in such situations. Just better to be single.

@KatEL777

5 ай бұрын

Don't marry a divorced man!

@florindagonzalez5700

5 ай бұрын

That's scriptural. Even the apostles said it was better not to marry because Jesus made it clear you cannot put your wife away other than sexual immorality/death. This let's me know, since nothing is new under the sun, men have since the beginning of time wanted to put us away because of the hardness of their hearts (I see this often in today). It takes a man who fears God, respects his word to be eligible for marriage. Which would have a lot of people single if we waited for men to be truly eligible for marriage. Not impossible, but very difficult, in my opinion.

He has a soul tie to the ex wife and still spiritually married to her

Wait, what❓ who was at fault❓any kids involved❓Why is he still that close to ex❓

Now you see, this is why God only allows divorce in specific circumstances. This is why He only allows remarriage in the event of death. These confusions aren’t meant to happen.

@nikhefe16

5 ай бұрын

No, he doesn't. If adultery or abandonment happens you are also freed.

@deebestest100

5 ай бұрын

@@nikhefe16 would you mind showing me the verses that indicate that?

@edenredeemed

5 ай бұрын

@@deebestest100Probably referring to Matthew 19:8-9. But that verse is incredibly misunderstood. I only just understood by the illumination of the Holy Spirit about a month ago. There is NO reason God allows for divorce not in the Old Testament or the New.

@j.j2846

5 ай бұрын

Matthew 19:9 NKJV And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.” The key word is except. The scripture is pretty clear. Nothing to be confused about. Good News Translation I tell you, then, that any man who divorces his wife for any cause other than her unfaithfulness, commits adultery if he marries some other woman."

@poik247

5 ай бұрын

Biblical instances of permissible separation: ”If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.“ ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭13‬-‭15‬ ‭ESV‬‬ (Desertion) ”“It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.“ ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭31‬-‭32‬ ‭ESV‬‬ (Adultery) ”But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.“ ‭‭1 Timothy‬ ‭5‬:‭8‬ ‭ESV‬‬ (neglect/abuse) this one isn’t explicit, but it is a proclamation that anyone who fails to care for their family is WORSE than an unbeliever. We can assume this is a form of abandonment and sin that any Godly man or woman should not be associated with in the covenant of marriage.

Thank you for your Biblical insight. I wish i had known someone who spoke this to me as a young person. So many young people get married, not understanding the Biblical role God designed for them, and it ends with them making the wrong choice for a spouse.

Would we be having this same response if it were a member of the church who fell ill and this man felt a calling to help and support them while they were struggling? I understand the boundaries, and I think if he listens to his wife that would still be the right thing to do. But also this could potentially be an urge that God has placed on his heart and his wife is more concerned with what it all means to her than what God is asking of her husband 🧐 Very tough situation, praying that Gods will be done.

@bronwilson2390

5 ай бұрын

I think in this specific situation it doesn't seem to be a God calling, because his reasoning for wanting to help his first wife is because he still feels responsible for her, so it's not coming from a place of "There is someone in our community who needs help, and we are able to provide that for her."

@dahliaherrod4301

Ай бұрын

I think he can take his concern to the church and ask them for support so the sole burden doesn't fall to him. It would be inappropriate for him to financially support his ex, especially if his new wife isn't on board. Let the church step up as commanded by God to care for someone infirm.

Yes I absolutely agree with you Bindi Marc. He is not sharing everything that need to be said I do believe. Actually, that is just creating more problems.

@karenmartin4221

26 күн бұрын

My first question is why are They even still in touch enough for him to be aware of her health struggles (unless there are children involved.)?

I am a single woman and am wary of talking to male friends who have subsequently married without their wife being present. I don’t want to be a potential source of worry or contention. Women, if a man is married, leave him alone, be he a friend or an ex. His wife will NOT like knowing that her man is paying attention to a woman who is not a close family relative, and even that can be tricky at times.

I’m SO glad you covered this. I saw this a week ago and thought I was going crazy. I completely understand the current wife.

He sounds like he wants to remarry his ex. He is only ruining his marriage by wanting to give his resources to another woman. If they got a divorce then why is he dealing with her. Weird.

What an excellent answer, with so much Bibical wisdom interwoven. Thank you! 😊

Bindi, I feel like you may have contradicted yourself a little bit. You said first that the man should “listen to his wife” meaning his current wife. But then you brought up the Biblical point that divorcing someone for non-Biblical reasons and then marrying someone else is akin to (or literally is) adultery. I’m not an expert on this, but it seems to me that this implies that in the case of a divorce for non-Biblical reasons, the marriage hasn’t truly ended in the eyes of God. If that’s the case, it seems like the man still needs to financially help his first wife. Then you say, “now that he’s entered into a new covenant,” but I don’t know if that’s possible in God’s eyes, if the old covenant is not over. (I truly don’t mean this as an insult to anybody. It’s a topic I’m still learning about.)

Love your videos bindi! God bless you💐

IF it was an old guy friend that supported him back when, and was in trouble, then it would be ok to lend a helping hand in friends time of serious trouble? He and current legal wife should together decide - and perhaps wisely use an intermediary like a church to make arrangements for them to give anonymously - that the church would actually be giving to the first wife. He should not be in a direct relationship with the first wife - but he really does owe her this kindness now when she needs it as long as he has the extra resources to do so. He and current wife could be like 'secret santa'. God sees. They will be rewarded for this. It would be best first wife never found out about the financial arrangement... ever.

@sashanoel167

5 ай бұрын

I really like your suggestion. I think it's admirable that he wants to help her, but I think he must take his now wife's feelings into consideration. He can help her anonymously with the 2nd wife's permission.

You said this so wonderfully😊😊

New subscriber, I like how you took the time in breaking down piece by piece. The scripture is clear about God Covenant on marriage & the example of how to walk it out.

This was very sound. Thank you.

Many comments saying he wants to help her because it’s his ex wife or he feels responsible for her still. He wants to help her because she helped him FIRST. And I personally think that is an honourable and natural inclination of good people. Good people are always ready and willing to be there for those in their dark times who were there for them. I would like to believe that if I was the wife , I would allow us ( as a couple) to help her to a point ( idk what that point would be b.c idk enough about the situation) while also helping her to access more resources besides my husband.

The rainbow on your color bone tho. Look at the lord

You went in! This was good and put things into perspective. I was considering a relationship with a man who divorced for unbiblical reasons.

So glad I found you

If he _feels_ that way,he shouldnt have divorced her. Geez

Sending money via bank without physical contact to help a human in distress… should not be an issue… no contact, no phone calls… just helping out especially if the person is terminally ill… meaning the 1st wife may not last very long… since she assisted him… put emotions aside … do no contact and let the 2nd wife do all the transactions

I 1000% agree and I think you broke this down very thoroughly, logically and biblically. I don’t see any emotional or personal opinions besides sympathy for the 2 women as well as accountability and stating all facts, that’s why I love your videos. This was a big eye opener and will prevent women from being taken advantage of. This situation almost reminds me of the movie acrimony. This is so good for young girls to know. It also looks like he is a very selfish man and I doubt he was a believe because it’s almost as if marriage was not viewed as a partnership where his wife deserves fair treatment and consideration.

As far as him feeling a duty to the first wife, that ship has sailed. He let that duty go when he divorced her a couple of years after her putting him through college.

The first wife is the covenant wife ! Marriage is till death do you part. Any second, third, or fourth marriage is not recognized by God and is Adultery if the first wife is still alive ! Getting remarried regardless of what the reason is while the first spouse is alive is adultery. This applies to unbelievers as well. Sexual immorality or adultery, Abuse(all kinds), unbelievers etc does not permit someone to get remarried if the first spouse is still alive.

@thussaiththelord3378

5 ай бұрын

@HelloooDear! Well said!!!!!!!!!!!!! Praise God! Finally someone who actually believes in the Word of God and uses that to answer this question. Praise God! Romans 7:2, Matthew 19:9, 1 Corinthians 7:10 and so forth. Praise God!

@HelloooDear

5 ай бұрын

Hallelujah !

@CherylrhondaMoreland-wv2fj

3 ай бұрын

If he is an abuser and cheats the other party is free to marry God would not force someone to stay in a crazy situation like that. God also gives us wisdom

@thussaiththelord3378

3 ай бұрын

@@CherylrhondaMoreland-wv2fj That is your mind talking; not Bible. Prove that with Scripture. We don’t care what you feel and believe. Scripture rules.

@thussaiththelord3378

3 ай бұрын

@CherylrhondaMoreland - What is adultery? Start there.Then turn to Romans 7:2.

Facts on facts on facts! Men and women in a marriage need to remain in their roles!

Wow this is great teaching. Its sad she did all that fir him. Now she is sick sadly and he couldn't hang in there and remarried not he is feeling the guilt. Wow you are nailing it

😮With this culture living nowadays, folk think, long as they, enter into Weddings, Marriages, & Certificates, it's okay; True, Real, Marriage Covenant Vows, are established, by means, of a converted relationship, with "ALl-MighTy"!!!; folks nowadays, have many flawed ideals, then try to put God in it😮

@philipmoyo1511

5 ай бұрын

They trying to mould God into who they think He should be and find themselves in a bind.

According to the Holy scriptures, he is bound to his first wife as long as she liveth. Romans 7:2. In God’s eyes he is considered an adulterer, Matthew 19:9 and should NOT be remarried, 1 Cor 7:10-15. There are other scriptures to name a few. It doesn’t matter what societal views are; The eternal God trumps all that junk. The second wife means nothing to God with that 1st wife still living; PERIOD. Any other advice is from Satan the devil out of hell. I recommend Pastor Gino Jennings on this topic. God has really blessed the Man of God and anointed him to preach in the name of the Lord Jesus!

Hey family, what are bible shows you would recommend for young children? I’ve been digging for some ❤ thanks’ 😊

I strongly disagree. How ungracious of the new wife to not allow his husband to help someone in need who was in the past of great help to his husband, if he can actually afford to help. Of course I don’t think that he should disregard his current wife’s opinion. But I would tell him to sit down and have a serious talk with her current wife and come to an agreement about the term in which the ex-wife could be helped, and respect the agreement. I think he made a bad choice with the new wife :-/ she sounds petty.

Wow, strong words! But that's the way it is! Thank you for not being scared to share the biblical view on this- the younger generation NEEDS to know the truth. Question though: do you think the adulterous marriage in a scenario like this should end? I have a friend who was cheated on by her husband, and he is now remarried... should him and the new wife be able to join a church together in this adulterous marriage? I don't know a solution here. It's so sad all the way around.

I’m sorry I’m only at min 9 but I have some objecting thoughts! lol. First I don’t support unlawful/unbiblical divorce. However, based on the context give for the responders of this platform I am assuming these are not believes. Potentially. Now with the time between divorce & meeting the new wife it seems that it’s fair for the new wife to believe the man has grown. Additionally, I see it as a kind & compassionate gesture for the husband to want to care for his ex-wife in her condition, yet considering his current wife. I also understand him wanting more guidance. However believe or not I don’t think random people on a social media is the best place to get that wisdom. From my own personal experience. My father (granted he is a man who does not respect nor understand the boundaries of marriage) has cared for his first wife when she fell ill although he was now married to his 3rd wife. His first wife is a believer & once she was able she cut ties, respectfully. From that I can see how the man could not understand the boundaries of marriage & is likely an unbeliever. So I can see Bindi’s point.

You are absolutely right. Though I would support the ex-wife, FINANCIALLY, in the spirit of helping a person in need. I can't watch someone or anyone for that matter, suffer when I am capable of helping them...

The spirit of offense is strong! Lord deliver and set free.

What a great video.

Much blessings to you! What if he have children with his ex wife, would it be ok to still help?

Pastor voddie Baughman does a great job on marriage is for life

So good.

Hi does anyone know if Bindi is a member of The LDS church ? I’m trying to figure out what Christian denomination she belongs to not that that matters but if she does belong to LDS I have so many questions because I’m interested in learning more about Latter Day Saints ❤

@caribanna1865

5 ай бұрын

She’s not LDS but I think she is Reformed Christian not sure exactly the denomination.

@ChrisC97232

5 ай бұрын

Please don’t join the LDS We human call it a church but it is sure not Christ’s church They teach another gospel than that of the Bible, to which apostle john and apostle Paul warned about those teaching another gospel as being anti Christ

@ChrisC97232

5 ай бұрын

This video compares LDS teachings with those from the Bible: kzread.info/dash/bejne/opp6q82SZZbalqQ.htmlsi=Gf15DF3YvIrFdLUP

@InHisImage999

4 ай бұрын

LDS are not Christian. I believe all Christians should learn about world beliefs, but tread lightly and understand they believe in heresy and a false gospel. I know very lovely people that are LDS, but lovely doesn't mean theologically correct. They are deceived.

@onyinyeprincess2912

4 ай бұрын

Run away from LDS. They are not part of the body of Christ and have extra revelation and books aside from the Bible. Please run!!!!

I understand what you are saying but, we don't know if he understand what are the biblical terms for devorce before he put away his first wife. Bibically he could still be married to her. I don't see an issue helping his first wife, because we are our brothers keeper. We are to love one another. Why can't she trust het husband, and have mercy on someone who is in need eventhough it is his ex wife. God is love. All i see in this case is someone who is in need. I couldn't wait until the video is finish to comment. Because I would of help her.

At least he is asking. Most men would just give and the wife wouldn't even know.

At first I thought it was OK for him to help his ex wife but after your explanation, I now know it is wrong. This woman stood with him through thick and thin she did her best to save her marriage, he waited untill he graduated then divorced her, he is selfish. Thank you bindi for sharpening other sister. 😍

@bunbacheso

5 ай бұрын

The Bible says remarriage after divorce for a non-Biblical reason is adultery. It seems to me that if it’s adultery, the first marriage covenant is still in place. If that’s the case, doesn’t the man have a responsibility to financially help his first wife?

@davinajuma8381

5 ай бұрын

@@bunbacheso He left her because they were straining financially or which ever way, no adultery mentioned, he moved and remarried, the ex wife we don't know, so the man committed adultery not the woman according to the information we have.

@bunbacheso

5 ай бұрын

@@davinajuma8381 right! That’s what I’m saying. He is committing adultery because his first marriage isn’t truly over from a Biblical perspective. And if his first marriage isn’t truly over, he needs to help his first wife financially. I could be misunderstanding, but this is what seems most logical to me.

@tiffanyprice9733

2 күн бұрын

​@bunbacheso You're right. The first wife is his covenant (biblical) wife. She is still alive. Divorce and remarriage while the first covenant spouse is still alive is committing adultery. This second "wife" is an adulteress, sleeping with another woman's husband.

Hi I have a question: What If the husband hits you or slaps you or beats you more than once? Is that a ground for divorce in God’s eyes or do we as wives endure it?

@wendymtzc

2 ай бұрын

The Lord doesn’t expect you to endanger your life, you can definitely leave just keep in mind that if you want to still honor God you would not seek to remarry.

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God bless your Binc Marc with your Godly Biblical advice.I lot of people need to open there Bibles,Get Godly Counsel,tough love,and Couples,who are Christians that can give Biblical Marriage advice Today's World in some situations is backwards, Good is evil and evil is good!God bless you Mrs Marc!

@davidprice4777

4 ай бұрын

Correction:Bindi Marc,my apology!

This sounds like Tyler Perry’s Acrimony

What happens if the spouse becomes sick! And the wife has to work? Basically my situation. He is home with our children. I’m working. I think this husband needs to send his ex an amount of money 💰 for what she did. He then needs to cut ties with her.

I appreciate this perspective 👏 Follow the book ie Bible. God is wiser than all of us. I agree with your perspective, it is spot on 👌.

Is your hair still microloc’d?

@BelovedbyHim

5 ай бұрын

She is a loose natural now. She has a video about her new hair journey.

I think he should respect his wife's wishes, but I also think that she could be more compassionate in this situation. Were it me in that situation, I would ask my husband to not have contact with the ex-wife, but I would administer some form of financial aid from our family to the ex-wife myself, proportionate to our ability, her need, and the support she previously provided to my husband. Biblically, we are called to compassionate giving and the entire issue of divorce & remarriage is a mess. I don't think saying, "That's not our problem" is appropriate given the circumstances. What is God-like? What shows the love of God to the ex-wife, who is a person Jesus loves?

Caretaker and giving someone money is two different situations

@yes7639

5 ай бұрын

@@homegrownLeeit is justified is adultery was committed

@TamaraRudnicki

5 ай бұрын

​@@homegrownLeeI was with you 100% UNTIL you advised that he commits divorce a 2nd time. The damage to the first marriage is already done. There is no need to add damage to the second marriage. True that this is all fall-out from the previous mistakes. But doing the next right thing by honoring his current marriage is all he can do now.

@imolaszasz2128

5 ай бұрын

I totally agree. And helping someone in need does not mean that you took up the role of being their provider.

Biblically, only divorce is Unbelieving spouse and Adultery. People who are Christians, especially need to do it Biblically in all Situations. John 1 States:If you love me,you will obey my Commandments!Keep up the Biblical advice Binc,God Bless!

The Christian thing to do is obey God's law and don't get remarried until your first wife is dead God's plan is always better. I so respect your view which also lines up with God Almighty

14:48 her do that too ! 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

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If he has children with her, it could be his business. If they have no children, then he has no business with her. It's that simple.

I definitely would be helping out my ex-wife or anyone who had poured so much into me to get me to the position l am in. I will honor my wife but l will repay her kindness/investment even if it is one lump sum.

@imolaszasz2128

5 ай бұрын

Yes! 🙌

Your not allowed to remarry until the other spouce dies

Post please

@Bindi_Marc

5 ай бұрын

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She was supporting him EVEN after he graduated??

nope, you chose to marry that divorce man that bailed his wife who took him through school so you can now benefit all of his 1st wife sacrifice. it is already a mess and obviously not a biblical marriage, this is why God have these rules to prevent these mess. He SHOULD HELP HIS 1ST WIFE. This is the consequence for all the 3 of their decisions. 1st wife should had never played that role in the 1st place, the fact he allowed his that woman to take care of him shows the type of man that he is. The 1st wife was naïve and this is her consequence, she should have chosen a man that wouldn't allow her to work 2 jobs to take care of him, he didn't love her and left her the 1st chance he got. Now she is alone. The 2nd wife should shut up and accept the hand that she chose. Many of you women are salty because you too do not have a biblical marriage and / or is divorced that was not biblical either. You pay the consequences for you actions and he should help his ex wife because he is already a huge messed person and in a messed up marriage. He should have never left his 1st wife and is committing adulatory remarrying. He is still obligated to his 1st wife. The bible talked about when a man divorce his wife he has to pay her so women don't end up in his 1st wife position.

I wouldn't provide for a ex wife but she can be my second or 3rd wife

@RunninUpThatHillh

5 ай бұрын

😂

From a Protestant view

He should indeed help her.

@Supernaturalseamoss

5 ай бұрын

No he shouldn't

@sarahpierre12

5 ай бұрын

Why do you believe that he should?

@redaleta

5 ай бұрын

@shieempress9608 I agree with you. He should help her. If you want to go down the path of Jesus, remember the question, "am I not my brother's keeper?" Why would you let someone suffer if you can help them.

@Supernaturalseamoss

5 ай бұрын

@@redaleta nothing to do with supporting a ex she is to go find a husband

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

5 ай бұрын

​@@redaletaI didn't see any biblical figure being told by anyone, including YHWH himself, that he's responsible for financially providing for an ex wife WHILE remarried. Never.

Drop the EX

You should include your hubbys perspective. That would be nice.

19:55 🤔are that children of God ? 👂🏾

Everyine fighting about scripture is the reason there are so many denominations in Christianity... its kinda a red flag for me to begin with

God hates divorce and adultery not supposed to Mary anybody until your spouse dies bound by law as long as you live ❤

Idolatry is adultery in the Bible. Worshipping idols is adultery. When your belly is your God that is idolatry.

God does not believe in divorce unless there was adultery. We can’t pick and choose God’s words

Then no one is ready 11:53 ! God have no say in it then ! 😂😂😂 . That not bible.

There is NO unbiblical reason for divorce as God hates divorce and never sanctioned it. Please provide chapter and verse. He did sanction through the Apostles “Separation” 1 Cor 7:10-15. Not divorce. NO!!!!! Please don’t lie on God as that is blasphemy of the Holy scriptures. Separation is not divorce. Divorce is what America promotes, not God! If that’s the case why would God say through the Apostle Paul in Romans 7:2 that the woman is bound to her husband so long as he liveth? Right. And for those that will argue that’s for the woman only, 1 Cor 7 teaches us that if the wife depart from her husband but wants to be reconciled, she can indeed be with her husband. That means hubby can’t be married to another for reconciliation to take place. No reason at all for divorce; not abuse, sexual immorality; nothing. God knew aforetime that folks would marry the wrong persons for whatever reason and that is why He in His wisdom implemented the law of separation but forbids remarrying. Let’s get this right according to God’s word; not your FEELINGS.

@L.Cumming

5 ай бұрын

But Jesus said divorce is allowed when there's sexual immorality.. It literally came out of Jesus Christ's mouth, not apostles or angels.. His own mouth. The thing is, we only read the parts of the Bible that support whatever agenda we have.❤❤❤

@thussaiththelord3378

5 ай бұрын

@@L.Cumming Actually most people; 99.9% of people misinterpret that verse. It takes the Holy Spirit to rightly divide scripture and not your own mind. Scriptures MUST harmonize and NOT contradict each other. You can’t have the prophets and the Apostles arguing with in scripture, but harmonizing. In that verse, Matthew 19:9, there are two types of people mentioned; fornicators AND adulterers. They both produce sexual immorality; not just fornicators. An adulterer is married so they cannot fornicate. A fornicator is either single folk or engaged (espoused, betrothed). Two different types of folk here. He is not giving married couples a right to put away or divorce or remarry as that would contradict Romans 7:2, that a woman is BOUND to her husband as long as he is ALIVE; no other reason besides DEATH. NONE. Same applies to the man. Married couples can separate and become reconciled back to each other. That’s it!!!! Lastly, read Mark 2:11, which is the same exact verse Jesus spoke in Matthew; only difference is the line “except it be for fornication” is not there. So, yes, if someone that is engaged sleeps with another, he or she can put them away and not continue on to get married. Ask God for insight and never use your intelligence to interpret Holy scriptures. Scriptures harmonize and not contradict. God bless ya!

@thussaiththelord3378

5 ай бұрын

@@L.Cumming God hates divorce. ”For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.“ ‭‭Malachi‬ ‭2‬:‭16‬ ‭KJV‬‬ Scriptures must harmonize and not contradict. 🙂

@wendymtzc

2 ай бұрын

@@L.Cummingthe exception is fornication not sexual immorality…

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Not in a biblical point of view let say he be come a doctor how will he work towards that situation

Oooo. I strongly disagree with your idea here. I don't disagree with the listen to your wife but people, you do not from a Christian standpoint repay good with evil. I don't think he should have gotten remarried to begin with but you don't just do nothing, you set up a go fundamental or something. You do NOT just leave someone who helped you to thst degree in the dirt. It is sin to go against one's conscience. That said I would also pray. God has a solution where it won't compromise the current marriage. Thst 2nd wife to me sounds entirely uncompassionate and she oughta be ashamed of being so uncaring if that's what's going on

I dunno man. You sound kind of bitter. Does your husband have an ex wife? You make a lot of assumptions. Eg, thinking he shouldn't have any clue what his ex wife is doing, how do you know his mother and her aren't good friends etc? Sound bitter and maybe a little insecure Bindi.... sorry.