Mom Sues Son for Unpaid Car Loan | Part 2
32-year-old man took $1,000 from his mom to buy a car - and then crashed it after only three weeks.
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“I do what I can. What you want me to do?” Stop having kids.
@traquilasmith831
Жыл бұрын
Exactly right. Dont have kids if you not ready for full responsibility. Dont expect for someone else to take fully responsibility when you bring kids in the world poor kids. 😒🤦
@claireBwiza_4029
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@leelew.1462
11 ай бұрын
EXACTLY 😂😂😂
@Itscannatella
11 ай бұрын
Exactly he needs a vasectomy
@myamemebell
11 ай бұрын
Right!
Those are YOUR children, period! The absolute nerve to say what else am I supposed to do!!?? Take care of them, wtf. That’s a joke.
@akcj1
Жыл бұрын
Right. Typical bum bm.
@JaviAir2003
Жыл бұрын
HUH?!?!?
@_Y.Not_
Жыл бұрын
Take care of them or don't have them. Why is someone who can't support himself having 4 children?
@rodboijones7390
Жыл бұрын
@@_Y.Not_ exactly why have kids if you know your not gonna take care of them?
@brendakabanda2181
Жыл бұрын
@@_Y.Not_ ikr, the nerve of him.
I agreed with JJ she's a single lady talking care of your responsibility ✅
@andywoode6072
Жыл бұрын
The mother is making him irresponsible
@maryrodger5130
Жыл бұрын
@@andywoode6072 Absolutely right! The word no only has 2 whole letters but for too many it's hard to say.
@8213apice
Жыл бұрын
@@andywoode6072 can’t nobody make a grown man irresponsible. He’s that way because he wants to be.
@Jerharris90
Жыл бұрын
@@andywoode6072 Real men take responsibility for themselves.. they don’t blame other people. You should take that advice.
@LotsofLisa
Жыл бұрын
I’m trying to figure out how in the world she’s giving him money on top of taking care of his kids. She’s allowing that mess.
He is so unappreciative of all the help his mother has done for him. What difference does it make if she asked to care for them? Clearly she did so because he wasn't doing a good enough job. The fact he expected to get paid for helping her move, and "borrows" money then refuses to pay it back to her is absolutely disgusting. Such poor morals.
@kimberlymorris7622
Жыл бұрын
He’s pitiful!!
@Jdman5000
Жыл бұрын
She raised him
@kimberlymorris7622
Жыл бұрын
@@Jdman5000 #realtalk
@marilynwillett804
Жыл бұрын
@@Jdman5000 --True, I don't know why blacks worship their sons but are tough on daughters, from what I've read. Even though she raised him he has a conscience he knows hes a good for nothing bum. She probably took in the little girl because she doesn't want the child around his friends.
@Jdman5000
Жыл бұрын
@@marilynwillett804 blacks? Let’s not judge an entire race by one woman on Judge Judy
His attitude stinks..
@snsn7251
Жыл бұрын
Enabled by the mother
Defendant: "I gave them willingly" Also, defendant: "She asked for my children. She asked to help me out."
@Yourfavorite-cx6jz
Жыл бұрын
I thought she would have caught that
@bungle0h521
Жыл бұрын
i think its just a bad cut if the video
@8213apice
Жыл бұрын
I believe he just dropped them off
@MadeYouLookWithYaLookinAss
Жыл бұрын
He's a real POS
@hashtagslim
Жыл бұрын
Ummm this isn’t contradictory if she asked for them and he agrees he still gave them willingly so it still makes sense thats JJ didn’t say anything
Please don’t have kids you can’t support . Not just financially!! Sad sad sad
Once a man tell me he has kids with a few females. RUN 🏃🏿♀️
@JamieM470
Жыл бұрын
Right? "I'm an irresponsible slut" should be the biggest red flag ever.
@Beautenaturelle88
Жыл бұрын
This! Run very far away! 🏃🏾♀️💨
@tony3900able
Жыл бұрын
🤷🏿♂️Same for women wit multiple baby daddy's 🏃🏿✌🏿‼️
@gouldty
Жыл бұрын
A man won't tell you he has a bunch of kids with different women if he's just looking to score and mooch off of a woman.
@dawayiseeitproductions566
Жыл бұрын
Why??
Some people, like the defendant, wake up in the morning and pour themselves a great big glass of audacity. As a grown man you shouldn't expect anyone to support you but yourself.
Don’t have kids you can’t support 🗣🗣🗣
@augustuslc
Жыл бұрын
Or have kids, mature and become responsible enough to support them.
@HelenByrd-yf9cf
2 ай бұрын
Or have kids that you refuse to support. I know his mother won't do this, but she could go to court to ask for child support. At that point, his wages will be garnished. In that situation, I can see him quitting that job and finding work elsewhere until his check gets garnished for child support and so on and so on.
A lot of people with mothers like this have no clue what it would be like without them. This man would be stuck at rock bottom if not for this woman. That’s a queen! I’d kill for a mother like this.
I think her son’s problem is that he never grew up. Since he had his first child as a teenager, he stayed in the teenager mentality. It shows, since he still had more children throughout his 20s, and in his 30s, he still wants more and more from his mother. Thus, he is not thinking as an adult with adult responsibilities, but of that of a teenager still living with their parents.
@lovejones92
Жыл бұрын
Very well said! My eldest sister was a teen mom as well and unfortunately mom and I experienced a situation similar to this one. Luckily she stopped at having just two kids, but my niece and nephew suffer to this day because of the actions their mom (my sister) has made and continues to make in her life. It’s even affected me mentally to where I don’t want kids of my own seeing how negligent my sister was with hers and I had to step in on occasion to help my mom raise the kids. I’m in total agreement with not having kids if you can’t or won’t take care of them!
@8213apice
Жыл бұрын
That’s how most BM are.
I pray that the children are well and the mom gets to enjoy her life and rest
@meganmeehan1565
Жыл бұрын
I would specify HIS mom, not the grandchildren’s mom. She’s a low life who bailed on her children! I hope she is racked with guilt and does the right thing and step up as a mother. With all his faults, at least this guy didn’t abandon his children completely. Either way, those children deserve better! Grandma is a saint.
@dawayiseeitproductions566
Жыл бұрын
Did you really actually pray?? Or was it just something good and typical to say??
@tinathomas3288
Жыл бұрын
@@dawayiseeitproductions566 I wl did pray and just prayed again
Makes me appreciate my mom even more for all that she does for our children including my stepson. We give her money every time she watches the kids just because, and it’s helps her so much. Love and appreciate you mommy, Praise Yah!!! ❤️
@trishlong7702
Жыл бұрын
Same here! We would be so lost without my saintly mother getting our little ones off of the bus, loving them, watching over them, making them so comfortable & feeding them until we get off of work to pick them up 💗💗💗 (my beloved sick Dad too, who's absolutely involved!) Couldn't be more grateful and I tell them every. single. day! And OF COURSE PAY THEM, since it's clearly a very big deal-- even if they refuse. They absolutely earn & deserve it!
@iasmibondrea1337
Жыл бұрын
same me🎀
Just because you don't ask someone to do something for you, and they choose to step out on a limb doesn't mean you shouldn't appreciate what's being done. That should be even more reason to be thankful, because you didn't even ask and the person stepped up. I have been told so many times "I never asked you to though" such a slap in the face.
@ThePrimeMinisterOfTheBlock
Жыл бұрын
So .. don't help them
@antwonnyy
Жыл бұрын
@@ThePrimeMinisterOfTheBlock they said that .. after she helped them. Can’t see the future
@ThePrimeMinisterOfTheBlock
Жыл бұрын
@@antwonnyy I shouldn't need to spell it out for you .. so don't help them any more
@ThePrimeMinisterOfTheBlock
Жыл бұрын
@@NeonForceGetsuga you're vulnerable to exploitation because you put too much stock into what other people think. Selfishness begins in your own mind, you have to cultivate that field ..!
@ThePrimeMinisterOfTheBlock
Жыл бұрын
@@NeonForceGetsuga it's all about you, buddy. There is nobody else.
Homeboi is not responsible at all. Time to grow up & be a man/father to those kids. So far, he has done nothing but create broken home. Here is a thought, if you cannot take care of your kids..then don't have any ugh-sigh 🙄🙄.
@marilynwillett804
Жыл бұрын
He's the type who thinks it's a big deal if he shows up at the hospital or buys diapers. I was married at 19, husband was 20, he always worked steady, we raised 3 kids, bought a home at 23, 24.
@paulesposito5856
Жыл бұрын
Zip up bro
@ASmith-jn7kf
Жыл бұрын
Of course he's not.lol. More responsible than most since he and his mom have custody of the children and he didn't just abandon them like their mothers.
@bobbythorman7421
Жыл бұрын
I wish developed countries would tell that to 3rd World countries and as well those who transplant themselves to countries with social benefits. Stop spongeing off the rest of the World.👺👺
@Poppa_Reed
10 ай бұрын
He has custody of his kids. He is a single father. Give him a break
He's stoned AF
@bencavallero6776
Жыл бұрын
He is definitely mentally impaired
This woman needs to get out of that situation before it gets her ill. I wish her all the best.
Wow he seems like a real piece of work for 32 and have 4 kids and 2 deadbeat baby mothers. Seems like his mom is making sure those kids are stable but she's being taken advantage of by everyone around her. So sad.
Guy just loves the streets in my opinion. He'd rather be out there, than be a productive citizen.
@ThePrimeMinisterOfTheBlock
Жыл бұрын
Reckon I agree. Yo yo yo Mr white
@airwolf3607
Жыл бұрын
He loves his weed that's for sure.
@sailormoon206
Жыл бұрын
He said he has a job. What part of that has to do with the streets?
@christophermillett2273
Жыл бұрын
@sailormoon206 damn, 3 months ago this comment was made. Maybe you should get a job or a hobby. The way he talks to people, especially a superior in court tells me that.
Dude is high. Can barely talk and open his eyes
@szzk7937
Жыл бұрын
It's obviously something he does daily but it doesn't mean he smoked before the court, the eyes stay like that.
The one who says the most always contributes the least
Ma’am if he’s not putting gas and paying for oil change he’s not responsible and he’s not paying you back
@_Y.Not_
Жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing, why would she "loan" him $1,000 when she already knows he's not responsible and already not contributing to the upkeep of the car she loans him.
@Indigal
Жыл бұрын
@@_Y.Not_ because she know JJ will fit the bill
That's like someone offers to help you build a shed and you watch them do it all .. "well you asked to help" lol
Haha, I love hearing Judge Judy laugh!!!! She's so freaking awesome!!!!
@marilynwillett804
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that unlike Judge Millian and Judge Mathis she doesn't put on a show acting like it's all funny.
@unique2023-lr8nu
11 ай бұрын
She laughs then goes straight to the serious face lmao
Good for her stepping up to take care of his children rather than giving them up to foster care
@johnwt7333
7 ай бұрын
Well to be fair, HE was raised by HER. And if we go by looking at previous results, maybe foster care would have been better.
Defendant: "I didn't take money from her, she offered to me." That's tells me everything about his IQ.
@nick8252
Жыл бұрын
He also needs to remove the hot potato from his mouth when he talks 🤦
It's always been grandmother's raising grandchildren for whatever reason. This son doesn't even have a clue that she might want to have a life outside of raising children all over again.
@8213apice
Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t have took them in.
@delishme2
Жыл бұрын
And she better have some super stashed away, because you can bet your bottom dollar he isn't taking care of his mother when she is older either. He can barely wipe his own backside let alone take care of his responsibilities. You know I heard somewhere recently men discussing when they thought they could say they become men. You know what the answer was ? You are a man WHEN you are ready to take on the responsibility of another person !! Ding, ding,ding. This one is still a boy at 32.
JJ told him something that he needed to hear 15 years ago. “You’re not doing enough”. And I hope he went home and adjusted his follow up question to JJ from “ What do you want me to do?” To “What am I going to do to care of all my children and relieve my mother from my responsibilities? Sometimes asking the right questions and holding yourself accountable is all you need to turn your life around.
Poor children
He is the guy on the dating site I would block! How do you keep running into women not fit to raise kids and you have four by 3 of them! Now with your mama!
@8213apice
Жыл бұрын
Yup
Is JJ serious about the deer???? Literally people hit deer with their cars all the damn time (I have!). Look at statistics, there are over 1 million deer accidents per year. ESPECIALLY in forested areas, like MN where I live, and the South.
@lilscooter93
Жыл бұрын
i was looking through the comments for one like this because i found her reaction really surprising too! i saw three deer on the side of the road on my way home tonight -- when you leave a relative's house they say "watch for deer" lol
@penelopep.maggie5976
Жыл бұрын
Bc She knows they’re full of it! She was saying its funny how most of these degenerate people who come in her courtroom just happen to get into an accident by a deer, when its bc they were probably high or drinking
I love how incredulous she is when someone says they hit a deer. Maybe in a suburban/urban area (and still not impossible) but I grew up in the boonies and hitting dear was very common. And the blood and fur all over the car was plenty of proof.
@orionb5217
Жыл бұрын
Same I hit a dear a year ago in my car and it was totaled she kinda acted like stuff like that doesn’t happen
@courtney2262
Жыл бұрын
Right sometimes JJ acts as if she knows everything, she hasnt experienced all aspects of life. I literally have deer crossing signs in my neighborhood because theres always car accidents involving deer. Its happened to 3 people I know personally already
@bcjammer
Жыл бұрын
I’ve hit two, my dad has as well. you can’t see ‘em till you’re hitting them…and yeah they make a huge mess. luckily only one of my hits totaled the car but it was the nicest car I’ve ever owned too :( jj doesn’t drive in the country all the time…a few trips to wyoming doesn’t count
So sad 3 of the kids' moms aren't in their lives, either 😢
Couldn't help but laugh about the deer story. Happened to me with my parent's car when I was 17. Just my luck, foggy night, driving 25 mph on a curvy road and a huge buck jumps out right in front of the car. There really was nothing I could do about it, it happened so fast and so close. The buck's head hit the windshield cracking it and put a huge dent in the grill of the car. It got up and jumped away only dazed by the incident and the damage to the car was surprising. Of course my parent's had doubts about the story until they found hair in the grill xD
@meganmeehan1565
Жыл бұрын
Damn, that’s scary! If you were going faster, you may not have walked away from that incident! For that reason (and many others), I’m glad I don’t live in the sticks anymore! I was always paranoid driving home from work at night because of my husbands story! Exactly like you describe yours, except he didn’t hit the deer. Instead, he swerved out of the way and slammed into a telephone pole and totaled his truck. Because of the state of the truck, the police officer was in shock that- not only he was alive, but he didn’t even have a scratch on him! Someone was definitely looking over him as a guardian angel! But yeah, car accidents involving deer are wayyyy more common than judge Judy is giving credit for. Although this guy doesn’t seem very honorable, so he could be lying.
@luumuu7205
Жыл бұрын
@@meganmeehan1565 omg !!!! I am so blown away from what happened to your husband. The same exact thing happened to me! Coming from a late shift going from one small town to my home 20 minutes away. There was a small deer with a larger one. Luckily I was already slowing down for curve but still at pretty high speed of 60mph. When I hit telephone post I got out super fast no marks on me. Only difference I had a mean sheriff who thought I had something on me teaser me! I fell to the ground when he then picked me up & banged my head to trunk of my car. I had no scars on me until it arrived. I never been in jail I was so scared! I was 25. Latino & gay maybe the reason but I didn't think that at the time. He only did that after I called him an ass hole for calling me a dumbass for not bringing sweater when I asked if I could sit in car it was Jan in Texas.
@meganmeehan1565
Жыл бұрын
@@luumuu7205 wow. That really is crazy that after such an accident, you were treated so poorly. I’m sure you were already shaken up from the accident, then to be physically assaulted on top of that. Yeah, calling a cop an asshole was in poor taste, even if he called u a dumbass first. But just so you know/ for future reference, it is 100% legal to use curse words to police. It’s covered under freedom of speech. So he for sure overstepped his legal authority. You should’ve sued! Either way, I’m glad you got out of the accident alive! :)
@natalee217
Жыл бұрын
Where I live, there's deer all over , I'm always afraid I might hit one
@L.Spencer
Жыл бұрын
I will say when I lived in Alabama I did see quite a few deer.
The sad part is, so many people have this mentality when it comes to THEIR CHILDREN!!!!! This very short clip is extremely EXHAUSTING!!🙄😤😤😤
When Judge Judy laughed @ 0:22 seconds, I just about lost it. On another note: I hate to hear a parent, Mother or Father, say, "Im doing what I can," in reference to taking care of THEIR CHILDREN. You don't get praise for doing what your SUPPOSE to do. He sitting up here with that brokeback Excuse as if he can't just take the children if he wanted to. Boy your mama is taking care of YOUR children because you CAN'T.
@dharmallars
Жыл бұрын
Exactly like, what if your mom wasn’t helping you? What would happen? You can’t care for them and you admit that so they’d get taken by social services. So??? You should be on your hands and knees praising this woman every day because if it weren’t for her your kids would be in the foster system, but instead you’re taking money from her and not giving it back? The grandma is such a better person than me truly she’s a saint. Because I would have told him if he’s taking money from me while I’m helping him out for free he can pick his kids up tomorrow morning or I’ll leave them on the front porch of a fire station.
JJ has many homes. Good for her. She has mentioned Her properties in Wyoming, NY, California, Florida, Israel. I think there are others. This lady has worked hard for herself and her family and is building generational wealth. So much respect.
I have never run into a deer, but my brother, sister and grandfather have. It isn't as uncommon as JJ thinks depending on where you live. The deer will literally jump out in front of your car at night and there isn't much you can do about it.
@cutejaners
Жыл бұрын
Agreed, I commented something similar.
@Sara-xk1ns
Жыл бұрын
I think it’s more she’s saying it’s a convenient excuse people use when they’re uninsured bc there’s no witness to say otherwise. Of course it’s common. But most people don’t end up in court bc they hit a deer
@girlonfire8855
Жыл бұрын
@@Sara-xk1ns I understand what you're saying, but if you're buying a car for a thousand dollars, it's actually very inconvenient for you to hit a deer because chances are, like he said, he only had minimum liability on it, which means he's shit out of luck... And she didn't really press him on the insurance issue, she just didn't believe that he hit a deer... which is really confusing cause it literally happens all the time. Maybe not in NYC or LA but most other places.
@marilynwillett804
Жыл бұрын
At night if you are driving carefully, you can see when they jump out, I;ve been driving for decades lived in Alaska, if you are always aware of your surroundings you usually can apply the brakes in time.
@limerind7493
Жыл бұрын
I've hit 4 deer
SMH 🤦🏻♀️ I feel for the mom . She seems like a very hardworking genuine woman
@kimali7477
10 ай бұрын
She is an enabler. You have to teach your children about accountability and responsibility.
Is THERE HOPE FOR THIS MAN?? Dear GOD
@maryrodger5130
Жыл бұрын
Did he say that he's 32?
@marilynwillett804
Жыл бұрын
Why don't the women understand how vitally important it is for a boy to have a good responsible father in his life? a man who is always there to guide, discipline and encourage. Daughters too but it seems especially the boys suffer.
@EH23831
Жыл бұрын
@@marilynwillett804 the women understand it- it’s not always THEIR choice whether he sticks around…
That Laugh Hahahahaha 😆😅😂
@snsn7251
Жыл бұрын
Right!!
The judgement was fair 👏
I agree with everything except the deer part. Judge Judy you don't know what the hell you are talking about with that 🤣
@binkytube
Жыл бұрын
I don't agree with Judge Judy saying, "deers". Lol
@kimm6589
Жыл бұрын
Right??? Sometimes her wealth bias shows a little too strongly on this show.
Judge Judy’s dismissal of the deer was a little rude and unnecessary. People hit deer all the time. I hit one last year; jumped out at last second and absolutely nothing I could do to avoid it. $7,000 worth of damage to my car. Luckily paid by insurance. But deer collisions are very real and happen all the time.
@jeoff1954
Жыл бұрын
I was thinking that, too. It's all too common thing here in the south as well; especially in the fall and winter when they become more active.
@morrison0
Жыл бұрын
Yes! I'm from Texas and if you're driving around in rural areas especially at night you have to be very careful. My parents hit one when I was a kid and just a few years back my friend hit one driving me home late at night from a concert. Like you said they jump out in front of you and there's pretty much nothing you can do.
@pamelahaze3211
Жыл бұрын
That's right BC CANADA... Alberta...quite common..the person or persons in the car are lucky to survive..if the deer is feet first through the windshield..it's game over. A moose appeared on the highway in front of us at night...I am glad I wasn't driving..my bf was and he had more experience on rural roads...we were in a Honda prelude...we would have been goners if I had been behind the wheel.
@Lisa-mp8mz
Жыл бұрын
YES! I have come close many times and know many people who have hit deer. Its very common in PA.
@reddbyrde
Жыл бұрын
Right! I’ve hit one and I’ve had one hit me. The one I hit didn’t total the car but caused a great deal of damage. The one that ran out of the woods and into the side of my car bent the frame and totaled the car. You don’t always have to hit them. They’ll run right into you! I guess the deer in Wyoming are scared of Judy like we are 🤷🏽♀️
he's never going to pay.
Sigh, that’s what happens when you are 32 and still don’t know how to be responsible for your own things. Good thing the children have their grandmother to take care of them.
The laugh at the end. Classic Judy Judy.
Can you imagine being one of his kids and watching this episode after youve grown up enough to understand whats going on here? This guys ENTIRE attitude screams DEAD BEAT.
I love when JJ laughs!! 😂🤣
My momma didn't play. We had to pay her like the daycare. $91 a week! And RIGHTFULLY SO!♥️
The grandmother needs to get full legal custody of those children and take him to court for child support and not deal with him for anything unless it’s his visitation of the children. He is extremely UNGRATEFUL.
He must be such a disappointment to her!
Some people should just not be parents
She didn’t raise him well. He is clearly spoilt !
There have been numerous times that my in-laws offered to help watch my girls, while I ran errands. So that it can be easier for me. I would always say, "Oh, no thank you. We will be fine. I do appreciate your offer. I really do." Now, my girls would visit their grandparents, a lot, but I would be there too. My in-laws would be taking care of all 5 grandkids, and I never wanted to add more to their "load". My parents were in a different country and my in-laws lived, at the time, 10-15 mins away from us. I will always be grateful that they were always there willing to help out, even if I said "No, thank you!" This guys is extremely ungrateful. His mom is an amazing mother, grandmother, aunt, and human being. Period. God be with her and those babies 🙏🏾❤️.
She asked for em...I wanna take care of my own.. But earlier he voluntarily gave them to his mom.
What an ungrateful son.
I wonder what in this world I could do to find myself in a court opposite my mama?! Couldn't be this type of situation that's for sure!
"I do what I can..." So what does that mean? Maybe a candy bar every once in a while? Mother can take care of the rest.
@Lex-ri8ki
Жыл бұрын
Lmao I’m cracking up at the “candy bar”.
@8213apice
Жыл бұрын
It means nothing
What do you mean "what I'm supposed to do?" STOP HAVING KIDS is a start 😂
Ladies, take note! This guys a real winner.
It hurts to listen to this case. Why does this young man think he can make babies and let mama takes care of them for him? The answer is simple - because he can. I’ve seen countless of children like him today. Children that feel entitled, irresponsible and know no right from wrong. Children don’t automatically learn these values. These are taught. I’ve seen too many parents do the lazy parenting. They work and they serve, work some more and give some more, all day long. They don’t teach or require their children to be responsible, be helpful and compassionate. This is exactly how they turned out. And then sue them? Hahaha. Sue yourself? Just kidding.
@justanotherenigma
Жыл бұрын
Preach!!!!
@JamieM470
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's the child, because many times multiple children raised in the same house with the same rules & morals & life lessons, they'll all grow up to be responsible & self-sufficient, except for one....and that one is the opposite of their siblings, & feels entitled to your time, energy, & money forever. At some point in adulthood, folks need to be responsible for their own actions. Many times you're right---it's how they were raised. But also many times it's just that individual, no matter how they were raised.
@mrpix7262
Жыл бұрын
I bet this man never heard of protection
Did JJ really say " deers" come on JJ! You of all people should know better. 😂
She offered to help you out. Not raise your kids. Those are two different things. You left them there for 5 years and ain’t been back since.
Oh so just because Judge Judy and her guard have never hit a deer means no one has ever hit a deer??? Seems kinda ignorant to say! I mean my husband and I moved to the country and he now commutes 45 mins to work. Guess what…..within the first year….he hit a possum, and a skunk!!! So, things happen!!!!
You don't protect your heart by acting like you don't have one. The same walls you built up to keep the hurt out is the same walls keeping your blessings out. Let your pain make you better and not bitter. Stop taking everything so personal. Decide to see things on the happy side instead of the hurtful side. Hurt people, hurt people. Healed people HEAL people!
So sad.
My dad "ran into a deer," pretty common here actually. It jumped in front of him and he could stop. The deer was somehow fine. The truck wasn't.
@binkytube
Жыл бұрын
Judge Judy said, "deers". Lol
@cutejaners
Жыл бұрын
@@binkytube Yeah that cracked me up too lol
She needs to stop spoiling grown men. She’s a part of the problem.
Here in Michigan there are two kinds of drivers. Those that have hit a deer, and those who haven't yet. It's only a matter of time. LOL
very strange that two mothers disappeared. but also sad he's unwilling to give his mom $1000. even if it was a gift, just give your mom some money.
@LucySkyDiamond
Ай бұрын
Right! Not trying to be rude, but I’m wondering if he had them by junkies
The look in her eyes knowing she raised a sad young man.
My father always told me to never date or marry a man raised without a dad in his life. No matter how strong and loving his mother is. He will always be an unfinished project. He watches his mother struggle and just doesn't give a f#*k.
@jthomas4791
Жыл бұрын
life experience showed me your dad is right... even though I don't want to group everyone....
@corsariocapitao
Жыл бұрын
I guarantee you a lot of men with fathers turn out just like him or worse. At the end of the day it is what you make of your situation that matters. Does your dad think you shouldn't date orphans, too?
@Mrs.LUNAtik_916
Жыл бұрын
You’re right to a default. Not all men who have not had a father in their life is an unfinished project. My husband did not have his dad in his life and is an amazing father to our 3 children, I legit couldn’t of asked for a better husband and father to my children 🥰
@marilynwillett804
Жыл бұрын
@@corsariocapitao No, look I've been alive a long time, I've known hundreds of people in various states and Europe, every single young man who had a good father grew into responsible hard working men. EVERY SINGLE ONE.
@marilynwillett804
Жыл бұрын
Of course no one is perfect, but work steady, married the boys mother and raised his family, most went to church.
Come on judge Judy, let’s not forget some of your “guest” eat the deer. Rigor Mortis & all.
@raintree3383
Жыл бұрын
That was hilarious and disgusting......strange how some people live
@lukerinderknecht2982
Жыл бұрын
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Nothing much to be said as to why so many children are lost, neglected, and abused, and the reason why they feel unwanted, for their mother isn't around, and the dad doesn't want to spend time with them, and they're pawned off to different homes for someone else to care for them. Sadly, many young teens are having babies, and their parents need to take responsibility for knowing who their children are with at all times.
I mean what u want me to do , what u want me to do ? 🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭
The judge was more than fair to him. He owed his mother for the car due to his negligence. And although his character is questionable, the mother couldn’t legitimately ask for furniture money after he moved her for 4 days.
He was standing there like he was Billy badass. Pay your mother!!!!
I hate when ppl say “ I dIDn’T aSk ThEm FoR tHe MoNeY “ ……. Um yeah , you didn’t decline it either 😂😂😂🙄🙄🙄
Is he sleep talking 🤣 I can't tell if he is awake or not
He speaks like a teenager and he is in his 30's. That's all you need to know. Look at what he wears to court.
I blame him and his momma. Clearly she over compensated and spoiled him and he has watched his mom do it by herself all his life so he don’t feel any guilt in regard to her taking care of his responsibilities. I often say, some men don’t want to be fathers they just want to give women children.
I've never been in a car that hit a deer. A duck bounced off the top of my mum's convertible once and it scared the crap out of us as it made a massive bang.
The laughs that Judge Judy do is great😂😂😂
She needs to take all the children and throw the son and nephew away😂😂😂
Deadbeat. He is blessed to have a mother like him. Irresponsible and entitled. Had a baby at 17 didn’t stop there made three more! Then had the audacity to ask his mother for money!!
Why is he acting like they his mom kids and not his?! And I ran into a deer before well the deer actually ran into me lol
MAN NEEDS TO MAN UP AND STEP UP. PAY CHILD SUPPIRT TO YOUR KIDS. STOP ACTING LIKE A FOOL
Mom. You are wonderful. Do you know how many orphans don't have moms?
Mom/Aunt needs to learn the word NO!!!!! Stop enabling grown folks.
I know plenty of people who have hit deer. I’ve had some close calls in rural Alabama. BTW JJ, deer is a singular and plural word.
Shes at her breaking point from the problem she created. That boy needs to grow up
A deer hopped out while my husband was driving. He tried to avoid it, but couldn't. The cop had his friend pick the dead deer up... I live in a very country place.
"Run into deerS" - Judge Judy. Lol
It's not very often that JJ has patience the way she did with this defendant.
The mom speaks so well and her son mumbles….
Judge Judy : “hey!”
That Dude's a CRUMB!
What a BUM!! Ugh 🤦🏾♀️ Useless son and father. A man is supposed to protect his family and provide for their needs.