I pray that God watches over me & my unborn baby. Thank you Kaiora, nui te aroha 💜💜💜

Kaiora, I totally relate to this and even experienced my miscarriage same year, time and about the same amount of weeks along. I thought I couldn't get pregnant for years and so was so excited to be, until we had the miscarriage, baby was ectopic growing in the tube. I had comments made to me, it wasn't meant to be, you can just have another one, you weren't that far along anyway. Hit me like a punch to the chest. It hurt to hear that. I feel like I could have benefited from some counselling as it felt like my hurt was invalid according to some of my closest, and you just shut it away, as it was first trimester. Broke my heart and I still remember like it was yesterday. My mum said to give baby a name and I did, it helped me to feel like this was a little soul to be remembered no matter how long we got to love it and a part of us just like any other baby would have been . I will never forget that experience beautiful and sad at the same time and still cry for the loss, you never forget. Much love to all that go through the pain and I hope that other people will be more supportive of someone going through it, and to think before they speak too. 💖

Piki Te Ora much love to you I truly appreciate you sharing💜💙❤️

I know how you feel, and how shut out I felt about my miscarriage

If I were there I would have hugged them both and let the mamae come forth