Mindsets We Held Before Marriage (A guide for the single & unmarried!) | Rica Peralejo - Bonifacio

Before you even start thinking about marriage, here are some mindsets that helped us prepare well for it. A full version of this talk can also be found here: open.spotify.com/episode/2220.... Or simply find ANYTHING GOES with Joe and Carla on Apple/Spotify, click on Mindsets Before Marriage episode! I hope it helps you, too! #TheBonis
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  • @jeralyncabangis8811
    @jeralyncabangis88113 жыл бұрын

    "A person is not enough to complete everything that you will need in this life." Only Jesus can satisfy us 🙌❤️

  • @heymacareena
    @heymacareena3 жыл бұрын

    Gusto ko yung, "In marriage, you will lose some part of yourself in order for both of you to become whole." This is such a super good and helpful content for us singles. :) Thank you Ms. Rica! More to come pleease :)

  • @athinaalorro836
    @athinaalorro8363 жыл бұрын

    6 Mindsets for Single People: 1. It's Not up to me 2.I can't get this wrong 3. He/She should Not complete me 4. Do not Fixate 5. Be Honest with yourself 6. Know the Game

  • @francisreyes486
    @francisreyes4863 жыл бұрын

    Christian should realize that there are single blessedness status, not everyone is going to get married and very Biblical and those single who choose to serve God is even be blessed more.

  • @lacrzajejdjd
    @lacrzajejdjd3 жыл бұрын

    First time to listen to your husband. He’s full of wisdom. You compliment each other’s exchange in this session. Hoping for more! ❤️

  • @pinaypie6366

    @pinaypie6366

    3 жыл бұрын

    Truly!

  • @aaronbabayen-on2476
    @aaronbabayen-on24763 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏻🙌🏻💝 “Comfort in knowing that God’s got your back”

  • @ochiereyes2084
    @ochiereyes20843 жыл бұрын

    Just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years and I thought SIYA NA but then again God has other plans for me. Thank you so much for this! Very timely sa pag move forward! 💛🌻

  • @janreyes7009

    @janreyes7009

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Cadadenise

    @Cadadenise

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are loved!

  • @PowrTeam316

    @PowrTeam316

    2 жыл бұрын

    You deserve the "one" who is God's Best for your life.

  • @heidipalomique9489

    @heidipalomique9489

    2 жыл бұрын

    A man God has for you, will pursue you.😊

  • @vincentsagarbarria

    @vincentsagarbarria

    Жыл бұрын

    God has a plan for you! 😊

  • @KuyaKimAtienza
    @KuyaKimAtienza3 жыл бұрын

    gandaaaaaa

  • @TynMejia
    @TynMejia3 жыл бұрын

    "Hapiness should come from the internal presence of God" - Wow.

  • @b_teume2355
    @b_teume23553 жыл бұрын

    As a single person i learned a lot. Thank you. Jesus is the only Being that can satisfy me 😍

  • @cutiepieplayzroblox803

    @cutiepieplayzroblox803

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup.. so curious paano ninyo naconfirm/nireveal ni God na kau nga ang para sa isat isa..😍

  • @Eillujann
    @Eillujann3 жыл бұрын

    I remember when I promise to myself na hindi na muna ko mag boboyfriend after my last one, (before I met my husband), puro work muna kasi laging failed naman at nakakapagod. I need to rest and pause. Then si God ayaw pumayag, he loves me so much and blessed me ng napakabait na asawa. After 1 yr kasalan na. 🥰🥰🥰.. 7yrs this Aug and counting.. Yes, we need a PAUSE in our lives, then you will never know that God PLAY it again for you in the right time. 🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏💗💗💗.. Always love your content po Ms. Rica.. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @elzwherebekind247

    @elzwherebekind247

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good one to note! 💖

  • @Gidagidz
    @Gidagidz3 жыл бұрын

    This is the kind of influencer we all need. ♥️😊

  • @CM-hv4dr
    @CM-hv4dr3 жыл бұрын

    I have someone whom I've known for 9 years already, since we both grew up in the same church and In those years we have built a brother-sister relationship since he's 4 years older than me. Now that I've became more mature (not just by age) without even having the slightest idea, the Lord has brought us together. I'm praying that in our courting stage, this relationship will prosper according to God's will and may the relationship that we're building will bring glory to God! This video is so insightful!

  • @roseannlandicho4574
    @roseannlandicho45743 жыл бұрын

    "Can't get this wrong" mindset is very powerful. I remembered that choosing our lifetime partner is one of the most important decision that we will make. ❤🤗

  • @JesseyJewel
    @JesseyJewel3 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree that the other person should not complete you and that you should be that one whole complete person before entering into marriage. Other relatives would often ask why wala pa akong spouse, but I just know that it's not up to me, because if God wills it, it will happen and He will be the one who'll write that beautiful love story. I also do hangout with the families that I look up to, and it also gives me an idea of what marriage is like, the effort and the hard work and skills needed to make it work having the Lord as part of the team. Thank you for sharing this! More power to your channel, Ms. Rica! ❤

  • @kristalortizluis8706
    @kristalortizluis87063 жыл бұрын

    I hope you'll have a content about your love story, about your guni guni 😂 or how faith/ prayer works like Kuya Kim told on the previous vlog.. ☺

  • @sammywin8535
    @sammywin85353 жыл бұрын

    Really helpful. Especially for me who’s been single for 7 years and counting. 😂 I like that term season. I’m going to hold on to that. Dami ko na namang natutunan.

  • @itnegak8716
    @itnegak87163 жыл бұрын

    True enough when u become honest to yourself about how you feel will help you take precautionary measures to avoid unnecessary heartaches in the future..it works with me everytime and I thank God for providing a way out everytime...still single but Happy😊😉

  • @arlene.p.santos10
    @arlene.p.santos103 жыл бұрын

    I find this vlog relatable. I just worship and praise God for everything He has done in my life before then I met my now husband in Church. We both devote ourselves to the Lord, work in His vineyard, and He really made a way for us to find a partner in life. Kami pala after all. I am really grateful that this man chose to follow my set standards and WAIT until our wedding day. I guess its true, "Ang tunay na lalaki, marunong maghintay." I really praise God for this man of my life and say... "Lord, You really are a good good father. Thank You for giving me the BEST!" Singles, keep praying. God hears. I prayed for this man a LOT! Sya pala talaga for me. 😍 💝💖

  • @chriseyemd

    @chriseyemd

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! When I was single, my non-negotiable for a husband was he should love God above all, including me. The Lord answered my prayer, at the time when I told Him that I’m ok being single for the rest of my life because I have Him. A husband will be a bonus, if ever. God gave me the best bonus ever!

  • @erwynnovilla7611
    @erwynnovilla76113 жыл бұрын

    Been waiting q weekly all the latest vlogs. All worthy to watch!

  • @heatherericaaquino8010
    @heatherericaaquino80102 жыл бұрын

    The only One who can satisfy a human heart is the One who made it.

  • @Belle-jl5nj
    @Belle-jl5nj3 жыл бұрын

    Praying for millions of subscribers. 💕 This channel is a blessing.

  • @iwandergirl7058
    @iwandergirl70583 жыл бұрын

    Everything you both said Ms. Rica makes sense. 💜

  • @HL00403
    @HL004033 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Rica and pastor Joe!

  • @asiaryvi
    @asiaryvi3 жыл бұрын

    Love this! So much wisdom. Thank you to both of you! ♥️🙏🏼

  • @user-bd6yh1pg9j
    @user-bd6yh1pg9j3 жыл бұрын

    more vlogs like this! people like you who has so much wisdom, helps people like us who are struggling. Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @jenelfacun
    @jenelfacun3 жыл бұрын

    Take note:”Wag Dictionary” it’s a friendly reminder 😅

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt820943 жыл бұрын

    Gonna be so excited to watch this lifestyle-informative vlog tomorrow morning! 💖💖💖

  • @cielosangco3111
    @cielosangco31113 жыл бұрын

    This is a very good topic. Thank you for coming out with this ♥️

  • @rosedanganan8808
    @rosedanganan88083 жыл бұрын

    I really loved watching Rica’s vlogs 💜

  • @heideebalta5894
    @heideebalta58943 жыл бұрын

    Always a delight watching your vlogs ❤️❤️

  • @KayVgKatTV
    @KayVgKatTV3 жыл бұрын

    I never miss any of your vlogs Rica! Loving and enjoying every episode. Stay blessed and a blessing to us!🙏🏻❤️

  • @ceejaynadeen2118
    @ceejaynadeen21183 жыл бұрын

    really love this! very encouraging for a single person like me

  • @SirDeeDiaries
    @SirDeeDiaries3 жыл бұрын

    Yung nahihilo ka pero busog na busog naman yung soul mo habang nanonood. Haha. Thank you so much po for this amazing and anointed episode! 🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇 God bless you more po.

  • @berlcabs9394
    @berlcabs93943 жыл бұрын

    I love your family and your vlog makes me complete especially when I'm bored 💞 God bless us all 🙏

  • @manilynarrizacayanes7175
    @manilynarrizacayanes71753 жыл бұрын

    Another meaningful talk to one of my favorite couples!❤❤❤

  • @cass0414
    @cass04143 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this so much! Thanks for sharing your wisdom 💕

  • @lezlee8734
    @lezlee87343 жыл бұрын

    Turning 32 and still single. Been to the point that I'm asking am I ugly Lord? Masama ba ugali ko? Still waiting on my season.

  • @kernelprado5176

    @kernelprado5176

    3 жыл бұрын

    saeym pla us kala ko ako lungs

  • @rossie899

    @rossie899

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here 🙏🏼 hindi ka nag-iisa

  • @michelleshaynecuaresma8968

    @michelleshaynecuaresma8968

    3 жыл бұрын

    I turned 33 last year, still single... then pandemic hits! I met my then-bf and i'm 34 already. We got married and i'm now pregnant... ang bilis pero it happened in God's perfect time.

  • @heyimnotpb
    @heyimnotpb3 жыл бұрын

    This is so great. Thank you so much!! Kudos Mr and Mrs. Bonifacio 🥰

  • @liaxii8899
    @liaxii88993 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for reminding. Relate much!! 😭

  • @jamchannel4202
    @jamchannel42023 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Ms. Rica for sharing these tips. It really help a lot esp for me waiting for the right one.

  • @chelliemoggie7176
    @chelliemoggie71763 жыл бұрын

    That look of love and admiration you both have for each other. 💕 I feel it! I can see the kilig look your hubby has for you as he listens to your comments. I really enjoy these Godly, marital conversations! Thank you for sharing in this platform.🙏🏽💕

  • @jeanalyn0293
    @jeanalyn02933 жыл бұрын

    I love all the wisdom 💖🙂 Can't wait for more contents like this.Empowering relationships and individuals 🙂

  • @duyacvillaruz6572
    @duyacvillaruz65723 жыл бұрын

    Hi Rica I admire your transformation in life you really such a blessing ❤

  • @finetambura3100
    @finetambura31003 жыл бұрын

    UGH, the wisdom that you two have! I look up to both of you Mr. & Mrs. Bonifacio! Continue to inspire and bless people! ❤

  • @rosalieflores5686
    @rosalieflores56863 жыл бұрын

    I really love your vlog. Most specially this topic. ♥️❤️🙌🏼 Lots of lessons and word of wisdom.

  • @enarousselramos3130
    @enarousselramos31303 жыл бұрын

    Love it ❤️ very inspiring and learned a lot! Thank you for this very meaningful vlog. Love to see how you guys let each talk and listen well without interupting each other. God bless Ms Rica and your family.

  • @leiyangmanceras3037
    @leiyangmanceras30372 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this amazing Vlog!! 😍😍

  • @lucellecollamat6
    @lucellecollamat63 жыл бұрын

    This talk I really need now. Mindfulness is very important. :)

  • @mssanchez6752
    @mssanchez67523 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your encouragement, I need this in my season of singleness for 15 years. 😊

  • @misselvlogs7132
    @misselvlogs71323 жыл бұрын

    Can't wait ♥️

  • @marcar2715
    @marcar27153 жыл бұрын

    Nice topic Ms . Rica and Pastor God bless your marriage more.

  • @arlenetablo708
    @arlenetablo7083 жыл бұрын

    Love your vlog Ric God bless you and your fam always ❤️❤️

  • @aiko1220
    @aiko12203 жыл бұрын

    Praise God for your lives. Appreciate all of the great insights and how you always put truth (The Word of God) in it. God bless you Rica and Joseph!

  • @jesslas630
    @jesslas6303 жыл бұрын

    This so timely for me...so many learnings & GUIDELINES in finding my lifetime partner...more vlogs like this...Ms.Rica & Hubby.. God bless u more🙏

  • @nurseruby6638
    @nurseruby66383 жыл бұрын

    Well said. Indeed, happiness comes from your self not from others that you want to depend on.

  • @duquezamarie_
    @duquezamarie_3 жыл бұрын

    This is so helpful for everyone❤️ Ofc we’re all looking forward to a successful and right marriage and this video is so full of wisdom for us to determine if the person we are pursuing or we’re with right now is really for us in the long run. Thanks Ms. Rica and Ptr. Joseph!✨

  • @winteranastasha3425
    @winteranastasha34253 жыл бұрын

    So much wisdom :) more videos like this, please. God bless!

  • @miss.saigon77
    @miss.saigon773 жыл бұрын

    Really agree with that two persons in a relationship both have old sin nature/broken, that you cannot complete each other. Always enjoy your vlog Sis Rica specially when Pastor Jo is in it because you can always hear godly principles not human viewpoint that cannot glorify God

  • @veronicarubio8386
    @veronicarubio83862 жыл бұрын

    Wow! This is so enlightening! 👌✨💙

  • @princessjasmin910
    @princessjasmin9103 жыл бұрын

    Thank u for this vlog. I shared it to my single friends as well.

  • @mjbateo4635
    @mjbateo46353 жыл бұрын

    thank you for this! 💜

  • @louisefaithtaguibao9343
    @louisefaithtaguibao93433 жыл бұрын

    LOVE THIS!❤️

  • @sampeeters8817
    @sampeeters88173 жыл бұрын

    Yay! another life hacks/ take away na naman for us 😍 Thank u for always inspiring us 💕 God bless po 🙏❤️

  • @yhaniedaclan2888
    @yhaniedaclan28883 жыл бұрын

    i really like that reminder of not being a dictionary😁🤗 another learnings for tonight while waiting for God's perfect timing🥰🥰

  • @user-bd6yh1pg9j
    @user-bd6yh1pg9j3 жыл бұрын

    oh my gosh my heart and mind are full ❤️

  • @lizli8339
    @lizli83393 жыл бұрын

    Oh my. This is sobering. Thanks for being God's instrument.

  • @jenniferlalic4800
    @jenniferlalic48003 жыл бұрын

    As always informative and realistic content thanks much :)

  • @cristinaesguerra6012
    @cristinaesguerra60123 жыл бұрын

    One of the best vlog I watched

  • @applelucino856
    @applelucino8563 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Ms. Rica and Ptr. Joe for the message. Kailangan ko po talagang marinig to.

  • @micab5496
    @micab54963 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this! ♥️ God bless youn

  • @annecenteno
    @annecenteno3 жыл бұрын

    Uy panalo to! Thanks Carla and Joe! :D

  • @ma.sidneyreignpagulayan8987
    @ma.sidneyreignpagulayan89873 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the insights more videos like this😆💓

  • @ginasolano4637
    @ginasolano46373 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you two.💖 Marriage must be preserved for it's the Lord plan.

  • @clairepelen
    @clairepelen3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your input and knowledge 💗💓 May God bless your marriage and family always.

  • @KennethPorio
    @KennethPorio3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing Ms. Rica. Tama po kayo, huwag tayo dictionary. Huwag natin bigyan agad ng kahulugan ang nakikita lang ng ating paningin.

  • @lhuzelBrono1121
    @lhuzelBrono11213 жыл бұрын

    wow! i owe your marriage life miss rica lagi akong nanonoud ng vlog niyo at ang dami daming kung natutunan. God bless your whole family♥️

  • @sherylllustanas6288
    @sherylllustanas62883 жыл бұрын

    Watched it kanina on instagram ❤ So inspiring..

  • @desalmo
    @desalmo3 жыл бұрын

    learned a lot on this video and enjoyed watching it. Sarap niyo pakinggan dalawa i swear❤️ thank you

  • @fefletcher9743
    @fefletcher97433 жыл бұрын

    I love ur content...beautiful & spiritual!!!!

  • @CC-dt2vd
    @CC-dt2vd3 жыл бұрын

    Grabe… not a wasted minute. Full of wisdom. 💝💝.

  • @fleurmaria8387
    @fleurmaria83873 жыл бұрын

    The internal presence of God in our life completes us. Thank you God! ♥️

  • @maytiva3154
    @maytiva31543 жыл бұрын

    WOW! My mind get wide when I heard your thoughts of being single to lovers to marriage I hope and I prayed to my partner now that we could reach our goal to have a new life to build our own Family ♥️🙏♥️. Take care and God bless your Family vacation. Keep safe 🙏🙏🙏 Ms. Rica asking for prayers to my goal Relationship 🙏❤️🙏. Thank you so much.

  • @maymontes2848
    @maymontes28483 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Ma'am Rica & pastor Joe big help for us na mga singles. God bless for both of you stay safe..😍😍

  • @eliahcali
    @eliahcali3 жыл бұрын

    Please share your love story. 🥰 Always an inspiration, you two ☺️

  • @faithmomlife
    @faithmomlife3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this! Been married for a few months na po, so many points are reassuring. Salamat po.

  • @katrynacastro7476
    @katrynacastro74763 жыл бұрын

    Accurate. Thank you for sharing, God bless you both exceedingly :)

  • @ivorylopez9216
    @ivorylopez92163 жыл бұрын

    So blessed with this message 💕. Thank you for sharing Jesus.

  • @HollyBg08
    @HollyBg083 жыл бұрын

    I love this!🥺 thank you po!!💛

  • @KellysMum
    @KellysMum3 жыл бұрын

    so inspiring..will share this to my unmarried unica hija,kelly. kindly include her to your prayers. she's covid positive and she's in abroad. i pray that she survives and for complete healing. enjoy, Ms.Rica and Pastor....God bless your family.

  • @henzeldiannebolinto1846
    @henzeldiannebolinto18463 жыл бұрын

    Aweeee this showed at the right moment ❤

  • @kathrinaalindayu9702
    @kathrinaalindayu9702 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤ You are a blessing and inspiration to all couple

  • @pinaypie6366
    @pinaypie63663 жыл бұрын

    What an eye opener ❤️

  • @noelynmanuat3236
    @noelynmanuat32362 жыл бұрын

    thank u for this ❤

  • @redeemedbygod620
    @redeemedbygod6203 жыл бұрын

    Thank you super helpful po ang video na to especially for singles like me. Great reminder po! More contents like these please 🙏🏻🥰

  • @berlcabs9394
    @berlcabs93943 жыл бұрын

    I don't skip ad's for you guys. Mhuaaa 😘

  • @joannao.5333
    @joannao.53333 жыл бұрын

    So helpful 😍❤

  • @erjannjirehfernandez7918
    @erjannjirehfernandez79183 жыл бұрын

    The podcast is really back!

  • @ryamrose295
    @ryamrose2953 жыл бұрын

    Hi ms. Rica!!! Love😊❤❤❤❤❤ur vlogs!!!

  • @vhellyreferolino
    @vhellyreferolino3 жыл бұрын

    Soo much things to learn! thanks po 🙏🏻✨

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