Please make sure you guys read the captions before commenting. I answer a lot of questions in there and throughout the entire videos. Also we are not only on YT, we have other socials that we share other things to, that may also answer your questions. Thank you to everyone that does and truly support us! Love you guys ❤😊

@jeannestrickland7027

4 ай бұрын

I am part of your cheering squad. I retired from a 35-year career working with special needs children. I don't agree with everything you do, but I definitely applaud the ongoing effort. Wishing you only the best.❤

@brendacarter4098

4 ай бұрын

Thank for your response. Is Miko with you and your family 24 hrs a day? If so why ? Please respond.

@MBXGill

4 ай бұрын

Definitely applaud you mom. You’re teaching me a lot about how to parent. We’re all figuring things out. ❤

@almalockett7162

4 ай бұрын

What a great brother! You are all so good trying to help Mikko experience good things.

@RPostVideos

4 ай бұрын

We live in the same city. I find it reassuring that my city has such amazing parents! ❤

I love how her brother put his arm around mikko when you were fixing her knee!

@JAKEYRAWILLIAMS

4 ай бұрын

That’s brotherly love

@rosameijering5161

4 ай бұрын

Amazing

@michelleantico2627

4 ай бұрын

He was very loving

@Taliya134

4 ай бұрын

Yeah it’s 3 in the morning and I’m crying my eyes out

Big brother was amazing! He was so gentle and to be willing to wear a bandage shows the empathy that he has for others. You guys are amazing parents raising amazing children!

Your son was very helpful with her! So adorable big brother trying to comfort her.

I am an adult with social anxiety. It is dibilitating. I have young children and it effects them leading me to be depressed for being a bad mom for not being able to take them a lot of places. You two are wonderful parents- Sending love to you all❤

@kab9706

4 ай бұрын

Same, I go through phases of extreme social anxiety still, at 30 years old. My 4 year old now has the same problem :( but at least I'm aware of the issue and we do our best to make progress and let him know it's not his fault. My parents had no clue how to help or identify my struggling.

@shurondaadkins5944

4 ай бұрын

I hope you don't mind me asking but do you allow other family members to take your children out since you have social anxiety?

@6laqListeD

3 ай бұрын

You may benefit from medical marijuana

@psychicsara

3 ай бұрын

I can relate ❤

@psychicsara

3 ай бұрын

@@6laqListeDyes it has helped me!!

@3:12 what an amazing, compassionate, kind, loving brother! It’s clear the children are seeing this behavior from their parents and within their home. Well done momma and daddy 🥰

Big brother is so tender and caring with Mikko❤

Being in a school program that provides specialized services to help her. I work with kids like Mikko and the daily practice & exposure in programs for students like her does help them. You are all doing a great job at home; however allowing professionals to play a bigger role in her life will help her & also you all as a family with outings etc.

As a grandmother to 2 autistic non verbal grandson's i think you and your family are amazing mikko is blessed to have so much love surrounding her melted my heart ❤️ when her brother put his arm around mikko

Oh I have so much to say she is such a lil princess the way her brother can calm her down is amazing such a beautiful fam

Matthew is the star of this video. His support of his little sister brought happy tears to my eyes. With this support, Mikko will be able to navigate the anxieties a little better. Thank you, Matthew!!! ❤😍😘

As a pre-k teacher I have students with IEP's and their therapists come to the school and work with them, having great success. Whether they are doing speech, cognitive, behavioral, physical.. they are wonderful at their job and the children look forward to their therapy days. Granted, it doesn't always start out so smooth but with time and routine they become more open and receptive. I've seen students go from having full blown meltdowns during drop off at the beginning of the year to skipping in excited to see their friends. I've had some refuse to hold a pencil to being able to write their name in the span of a few months. And like you said, I've also seen them regress for no apparent reason. I'm not sure if you are utilizing any sort of preschool environment but I do encourage it. It's an individual choice that takes just as much effort on the parents as it does the child and I know how hard and exhausting it can be. Some days my parents look just drained from the night before or even a rough morning they have had with their little ones. If you can find a good school with trained, educated, and compassionate teachers and therapists.. it can be such a positive experience. And it can be a powerful tool to have in your toolbelt. I wish Mikko and you nothing but love and success. Keep your chin up, Mama! You got this, just remember to be kind with yourself :)

That must make you feel really, really proud when you see your son showing so much kindness and compassion to Mikko.

Aweee what a sweet brother..❤

How her brother pulls her in and hugs her when she begins to cry....... priceless❤

I'm a teacher and I see this a lot. Look for professional help. To help her socialize and develop other skills also a school with a special education will help her a lot. God bless you por for love caring and patience

I have a 3 and a 1/2-year-old little girl with level 3 autism AD.H.D she's non verbal, she has Narrow eating habits and sensory processing disorder all the Things that come with autism. Just like you. I wanted to help her on my own and it got to a point where I realized. I can know a little bit about a lot of things but professionals know a lot about one thing and so I had to get outside help. Trust me, trust me, not the route I wanted to take. I ended up taking her to the public school district and got her an got her IEP with autism on it. a 1 on 1 a that's with her through her day and she gets 5 therapies at school now and it's helping. I have 100% access to her and to the people with her and her 1 on 1 aid Is the same special education teacher everyday. I think you're doing great and don't worry. It will work out because it has too!!!!!

@aliciamoore963

4 ай бұрын

Exactly what you were supposed to do❤

@AmeliaEarhart537

4 ай бұрын

They said in the description that they're getting her help.

@shannonsmith5914

4 ай бұрын

I was just sharing my experience so she knows she's not alone. I don't need you editing my voice, I did read it!!!

@AmeliaEarhart537

4 ай бұрын

@@shannonsmith5914 I wasn't. I said that in case you didn't know. You don't need to be rude.

@user-zw1ec7ui7z

3 ай бұрын

They can't diaognose adhd at 3 .

Big brother is so sweet to little Mikko. 😊

My now 6 year old os stage three autistic, honestly when he was younger i didnt understand him,but i do remember him having anxiety when going to play with others, i just continue to socialize him and show him its okay and allow him to progress at his speed. Now at six he does a lot better, but still only likes to interact with children he knows or are similar in behaviors of you get my drift. Mikko will get it, stay strong Precious you got this. A little push is okay.

Mathew had me tearing up 🥹, he was so precious sweet and kind. 🫶🏾

I think of Mikko social anxiety like an immune system response. The more exposure the system gets to "germs" in her case "people" the easier it will be to deal with the next time she encounters the same situation. Growth occurs outside of the comfort zone. It is clear that she sees anyone outside of family as scary but eventually when she gets the clearance for therapy she'll need to learn how to deal with other people in her safe place. Rather than avoid the social interaction entirely, make accommodations. Perhaps wearing her headphones or bringing something she loves from home, maybe even the blow up pool. You can also play the sounds of "outside" noises while at home so she gets accustomed to it. Like the sound of people chattering, birds, cars, dogs barking etc

Mikko reminds me a lot of my daughter she’s the same age and level 2 autistic. My daughter recently has been going to ABA after being home with since she was born (not recommending ABA if not for your family) buuut there’s simply some experiences you’re not going to be able to give Mikko and she could really benefit from being in a group around other kids her age at her level outside of her safe space and safe people. Giving her the opportunity to see how other kids like her may navigate can help her in her own way 💛 send yall lots of love

Mikko could really benefit from some professional services at this point. Early intervention is key with autistic children to ensure better outcomes. It could help her with speech development, address developmental delays, aid in socialization, and better prepare her for the school setting and for life outside of the confines of the home with her family.

@aliciamoore963

4 ай бұрын

I agree 1000%! I say the same thing in every video that is posted!

@kab9706

4 ай бұрын

I totally agree, my son is the same age and has the same difficulties as Miko. He's been in school since 3 and a half. He's started to exhibit social anxiety, but I think his fear would be much worse if not for school and taking him to public settings like the library, indoor playgrounds, etc. But Miko is making amazing progress in other areas like speech. One day at a time. ❤

@urbanlady1.

4 ай бұрын

I’m glad Mikko has the parents she has.

@sharonthompson7981

4 ай бұрын

I agree with you totally!! I hope Mikko's parents take your advice. Sooner....rather than later.

@Djdnjskalskf

4 ай бұрын

@@aliciamoore963why haven’t they enrolled her into early intervention?

Mama, have you looked into, or are you interested in getting Mikko into ABA therapy? If so, it could be such a help for her and for your family as a whole. Mikko can really benefit from being around other kids her age on a daily basis (school) and from working with professionals to address your concerns (ABA, speech, and OT). Keeping her secluded within the family, and you trying to tackle all of her needs alone will be more of an up hill battle than not.❤

I know she loves her daughter but there's professionals out there that can assist the mother and show her different ways of dealing or overcoming the situations. My little cousin couldn't talk . We got him professional help and he was talking in 2months😁🤴🏽🙏🏽✌🏽

@aqueenaija

4 ай бұрын

My son is not talking and he has professional help for months. He's almost 2yrs. Everyone's situation is different.

@jsblackdiva

4 ай бұрын

@@aqueenaijathat's true, but they need to get the child help instead of dealing with situations and not making progress.

@meghanc8940

4 ай бұрын

She said in the description that they are getting professional help

@steggopotamus

4 ай бұрын

Her video notes say she's taking her in for help with professionals. I also think it's also time to maybe not show her face as often. But I know that's new territory.

@haleybice4763

4 ай бұрын

@@aqueenaijavery different!

She fell and bumped her knee like every other three year old. Some times children, even children with autism get a scrape. No biggie, wipe it off and move on. I’m sure Mikko will get distracted or find interest in something else within the next few minutes. Most children also have social anxiety. She needs to be around other children, maybe other children with autism. They will learn and teach each other. Seems she’s incredibly isolated at home and only around family.

This is so sad because the parents are not always going to be with her!

@ranc1977

4 ай бұрын

It could be sadder - with dead mother complex and ACoA ACE dysfunctional family that doesn't care at all about the kids.

@dajourphil0soph3r36

2 ай бұрын

So you recognize too that the World could use more systems that actually help youth and adults who have neurodivergent developments?

I have social anxiety. I can kind of relate to Mikko. My social anxiety is related to severe anxiety I’ve had from a young age. I’m not autistic but I can relate with the social anxiety part.

@aqueenaija

4 ай бұрын

are u taking any medications for social anxiety?

@kokuhakuqiun4215

4 ай бұрын

@@aqueenaija not anymore. Had hydroxyzine for anxiety but I’ve leveled out.

Honestly I have a cousin who’s like Mikko they’re both non-verbal and autistic. Wish we could meet up to see how they’ll interact with each other.

I love how her big brother was comforting her. That’s so sweet of him ❤! He’s a great example 🫶🏾!

I absolutely love your channel and Mikko is the cutest thing ever. If I could suggest that as someone with social anxiety maybe you could try putting her into a day camp or somewhere with professional care to help her become more comfortable with the outside environment. I’ve heard sometimes with a stranger it’s difficult but more effective than parents because children know their patterns and know how to regulate themselves around them. It’s just a thought but I hope you guys continue to thrive for the future ❤️

I love that even though its hard, you do the up most best is showing her through it and getting the job done. ❤❤

She needs professional help. I know you love her so much and want to protect her but you have her living in a bubble. I have a little cousin that has autism like Miko but he goes to a special school for children with autism. He is nonverbal also. He has been around children in his school, so he knows how to be sociable. He plays with kids. Sometimes he may have a melt down but not often. The school has helped him a lot. I know it has to be hard as a parent to see your child go through moments like this. I pray you and your husband will fine some way to help Miko through this with success.

@aliciamoore963

4 ай бұрын

Beautifully spoken❤

@JC-vz9hz

4 ай бұрын

I agree. If not, what will happen when she enters school. She needs to learn to adapt.

@tonitwitty9529

4 ай бұрын

Read the description. She said they are going to get her professional help

@lindasamba4816

4 ай бұрын

​@tonitwitty9529 Yeah, for the social anxiety, but that's not all she needs. She's needs to be going somewhere regularly, be it school or therapy, something away from her home, it's hindering her tremendously being in that constant bubble.

@dalefleming6356

2 ай бұрын

She's getting professional help.

What helped my son who has the same issues was incorporating professional help in addition to what we parents were doing, ie, We put him in school which was the best decision ever. He can now go with us in public places with no issues. He's 5.

I think Mikko is ready to go to school. She reminds me of my Goddaughter she didn't talk either. I encourage her grandmother to put her in school, and it was like magic she started to talked. She had a lot to say. She only went 2hrs a day M-F. I think she could benefit her and your fam. She is ready Mikko is smart.

The way Matthew went to comfort his Mikko warmed my heart he is such a kindhearted child he is going to grow up with a big heart you guys are such amazing parents God bless you all! ❤🙏

You guys are doing amazing with Mikko. I encourage you guys to get professional help as well. It’s a process but she’ll adapt. In some videos I feel like she’s playing on you momma. 😅 these babies are super intelligent. Let go and let the professionals help. You’ll be less stressed and you can give more focus to yourself, your hubby, and the twins. Everyone will benefit. Cause I know. You are overwhelmed! Thanks for sharing 🫶🏽

Her dad is the BOMB, he knows exactly what she needs.

Really think she should have some help outside the home. With mom it’s so easy for her to give in and let her have her way. Just think mom need to see if she would be stronger w/o mom being there and letting her give up.

@elleburns2445

4 ай бұрын

Totally agree!👍🏽

This little girl is too precious for words. Such a loving family, warms my heart.

Probably one of the worst things that come with anxiety besides being extremely over stimulated

@ranc1977

4 ай бұрын

It is not anxiety at all - it is over stimulation. CBT is placing labels on us which are misdiagnosis and this label makes anxiety so much worse - because CBT sets us up to build Victimhood mentality (TIV) with the "anxiety" label.

@HigherHer_B

4 ай бұрын

@@ranc1977 I’m autistic and I said what I said. And both can be true. Overstimulation can cause anxiety.

@ranc1977

4 ай бұрын

@@HigherHer_B This is simply not true. You are confabulating reality and try to force Victimhood mentality (TIV) in order to gain sympathy from the others. If I am anxious, then other people won't be rude to me. Well, they will. In fact - we will attract plethora of impulsive borderliners and narcissists when we play on social mask of being "anxious". Anxiety like anger is quick short term emotion that quickly transforms into something else when we are emotionally healthy and when we are in sane healthy ambient surrounded by healthy people. When there is imbalance - such as exposure to narcissists - we will stay stuck in "anxiety" mode - which is nothing else but Autistic Shutdown and Stimulation Overload. It is CBT ableist therapy that keeps us sick with misdiagnosis and wrong labels.

@HigherHer_B

4 ай бұрын

@@Falonspeaks No life at all. But I’m not concerned. They need to find something better to do.

@ranc1977

4 ай бұрын

@@Falonspeaks Differences of opinion don't have to be threats. 🟦 Adam Grant

The cutest is big brother being right there along her way. The melt in my heart was the end once she seen it didn’t hurt then her hugging you and saying thank you while tapping your back. Ugh melted my heart 😢🥰

I don’t think social anxiety is regression. On the contrary, it’s progression in being more aware of our surroundings, of other people’s thoughts and looking at us, of being judged, the possibility of being touched or talked to, etc. It’s very normal for social anxiety to progressively get worse from toddlerhood through puberty.

@ranc1977

4 ай бұрын

Amazing comment! I love yt commentary - there are always some hidden gems here - and I always take copy past and snapshot of those to put on my social media! People like you are like angels! There are so many smart and kind and nice people out there but they are too afraid to speak up their opinion which may be contrary to groupthink, herd mentality and CBT tyranny - so they keep silent - and then neurodivergent fall easily to prey of hoax and scammers and dumb people who repeat what DSM is lying to them.

@musicmama2864

3 ай бұрын

I was thinking something similar. As children grow they develop more awareness of people around them and people's reactions to them. It can be emotionally painful.

@ranc1977

3 ай бұрын

@@musicmama2864 "As children grow they develop more awareness of people around them and people's reactions to them. It can be emotionally painful." Yes. I like this quote: Someone's intelligence can be measured by the quantity of uncertainties that he can bear. Immanuel Kant - I don’t think social anxiety is regression. On the contrary, it’s progression in being more aware of our surroundings, of other people’s thoughts and looking at us, of being judged, the possibility of being touched or talked to, etc. It’s very normal for social anxiety to progressively get worse from toddlerhood through puberty. YT Java-D

What a compassionate brother your son is. Sending Mikko and your family loads of love.

You are a beautiful mother with incredible patience and love! The way that you cared for her in this instance with the help from her brother is absolutely precious!! And what a sweet, loving brother she has too! 😊

Its ok mama. This too shall pass my Quentin used to be the same way to the point I would go home & cry. Used to be so bad I couldn't even work nor take him anywhere. Now at the age of 12 gets his needed services,he is in school, loves his teacher, his peers, nature, the zoo, anything vintage(he picks out some of my clothes),loves music, helps me prep dinner, clean, feed the pets & his favorite store is Target. Every time we go he drags me to the book section. It was tough but his bright eyes & smile were well worth it. Mikko will get there, much love from the Sunshine State 💛 ❤

I absolutely love how Matthew came to comfort her! I think you guys are doing a wonderful job with all your children. Even though I don't have any small kids My kids are adults. But your videos are so informative and inspiring I just love to watch how you all grow as a family I think it's wonderful. I pray that God continues to bless you all and give y'all All the knowledge that you need for your family❤

Matthew is an angel, what a great big bro comforting his sissy and helping to get her all bandaged up! 😢💕🥹 Miss Mikko is so precious. Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us! ❤️

I love how calm and loving you stay, and you can see the same caring nature in the young boy as well. ❤ Cheering you on!!

You are helping me so much ~ My son was recently diagnosed ~ I haven’t been able to stop crying ~ your strength is amazing

What a wonderful brother and young man your raising it’s beautiful to see his compassion for his baby sister

Your son is so loving and gentle with her. Patiently holding her hand and reassuring her that everything will be okay ❤❤❤ what an amazing family you have!

May i kindly say that u should get her into a school that can service all her needs. I believe it would be beneficial to her growth.

The anxiety I sympathetic nervous system was thrown into as you attempted to bandage the scrape is insane!😵‍💫 Having siblings that are willing to "demonstrate" the process is very helpful. Give him extra hugs for being s supportive brother. 🤗 I know that he will not always be able to do this for her, but I'm so glad he is willing to help now. #GoodJobMommy! 🥰

You guys need some help. .please reach out!!!!

If there is ever a silver lining in children having special challenges, it’s that their siblings grow up to be the most wonderful empathetic, loving, caring people in the world. The way they want to care and protect their siblings is so cute and so wonderful.

Can I say you are such a great mum.You are patient understanding and kind.wishing you love x

What an adorable sweet brother!!❤❤❤ and what a genius patient sweet mom you are!! Wow I'm in awe. Much love to you!!❤❤❤

You are an awesome family! I ❤ how compassionate you are with your daughter and son and how you work together as a family. I understand the struggles that you deal with hour by hour because I am on the spectrum myself (high functioning) and deal with social anxiety daily. Please take care of yourself, give yourself approval for some down time. If relatives or understanding friends offer to be with your daughter even for an hour while you nap, take them up on the offer without feeling guilty! And please don't feel guilty if you don't post regularly. Surely, anyone drawn to your channel must realize that posting is difficult while caring for your family under these circumstances. Sending love to you all! ❤❤❤😊

I am so proud of you for sharing your experiences so that others can learn from you! That takes a tremendous amount of courage. TREMENDOUS! I have a high functioning autistic son who is now grown. I felt so ill-equipped to parent him. I had no training and little understanding of autism. As my son grew, I grew with him. One of his older sisters is now a behavioral therapist who works almost exclusively with non-verbal autistic children as young as 2 years old. Her love of her brother motivated her to find ways to help children with similar problems. As she went through college and began working in this field, she continually said, "Mom, these methods would have helped my brother so much, but they were not available when he was little." I sincerely hope and pray that you and your family can find the appropriate help for your daughter so that her anxiety is reduced and so that she will have ways to communicate her wants and needs. You are doing an amazing job with her! I know it's hard, but never give up on your precious little girl!

Her brother is sooooo sweet. My heart goes out to them because I know it’s ruff. I also have a non verbal 3 year old granddaughter but she totally opposite of Mikko. She plays with other kids. And she goes to tumbling every Wednesday. She does everything but is just nonverbal. Watching your videos also keeps me aware of what could happen. I put her in daycare so she could get use to being around other people without have fits. It actually works. We are now trying to get her to go poop on the pot . We have the #1 on pot down to a science now but we working together to get her not to be scared of the big pot as well. This is not easy and you have to have a lot of patience with your kids and grandkids with autism. I appreciate you sharing and telling your truth. Your next steps is to get her to trust people other than her family. It must be done. Prayers up for strength and healing for Beautiful lil Mikko.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤎💯

I love the way that your son went to console her after she fell. She has an awesome big brother!! ❤❤❤

Love how big brother comforted his sister. This was super heartwarming

the brushing teeth!!! oh my ❤️ I’m an ABA behavior technician and those wins are so amazing to finally see!!

Have you tried having her watch old videos of herself too recollect when she could go out with others? Just a thought

The trust and love that she has for her siblings and her Mom and Dad is so amazing and touching to see!❤

Take it one day at a time! Change will come all in Devine timing you know what’s best for Mikko and your family. Love watching you both grow and progress much love!

I love how her brother tries all he knows how to comfort his sister! So sweet! Good job parents❤😊

Awwww her big brother is so gentle and helpful with her. I love it.❤❤❤❤

God bless and keep you and your whole family. You are helping so many by sharing your story.

Just here to say that you are doing amazing ❤ as a BT it’s so frustrating when we work with a child that can definitely thrive, but consistently is a huge part for autistic children and we have parents who use us as a babysitter and don’t care to implament what we do, so how are they supposed to understand what is right. Parents like you always make my heart happy knowing that they are going to a loving home and parents who will take their time to help through their hard times and not just yell at them.

I just love Mikko's siblings. They are amazing and well, gentle with her. Bless them.

Aww that’s so sweet how the big bro console his baby sister Mikko and that was so nice of him and that just made my day and kudos to twin bro which was so nice of him to do to show her love and the twin sis is good with Mikko too which I’m just loving the family in general of how supportive they are of her needs and to deal with her emotions too so god bless the family for that nice interaction with Mikko at the park

I’m glad you understand what it is you can handle and have no problem with getting her the help she needs! Mom you are amazing! Matthew is so sweet ❤

I just want to commend you and your family. The caretaker role is hard and even harder with special care. Momma and Dad, take it one day at a time. Make sure you take care of yourself as well. Every day, maybe a new adventure, and it's okay. I love your drive. You may not always get right it, but your family is still living, thriving even if it's chaotic at times and working through it. I just wanted to encourage you and let you know that you are doing amazing. You are definitely appreciated for the education lessons. Sending love and hugs.

This is heartbreaking. She has made so many strides and I guess this is the rain before the sunshine. I love how your focus is always on her and her well being.

Do you think it would help to send her to a daycare program for a couple of hours? One appropriate for autistic children, of course. Perhaps being around other kids would help? IDK. You're doing a wonderful job. 😘

My son is going through the same thing right now, just before he turned 3years old he got triggered at a Christmas party, and all of a sudden started melting down and ever since then he doesn’t wanna leave the house doesn’t want to be friends doesn’t wanna see teachers nothing and then the stage went away after just every day trying to reinforce and doing it all over and over again until he was comfortable enough to leave a house again, but then recently, it triggered again from my birthday party. So I’m guessing it’s gonna be an ongoing thing, but the thing that I did realize is every time this happened he had a huge developmental development., he can brush his teeth by himself. He’s putting on his own shoes. He’s looking at us way more and connecting to his peers. He’s hugging his teachers. Like a whole new child.😮

Just the regular kind of social anxiety as an adult is hard to deal with, i cant imagine the level of frustration and anxiety it must make her feel 😢❤ keep your head up beautiful family

I should add my daughter could not cope in mainstream public school and is now at a private school which specialises in helping verbal children with dyslexia, ADD, ADHD, Dyspraxia, ASD and many other issues. It is an ecosystem supported by occupational therapists, speech and language therapists, it also has an educational psychologist and the PE teacher who understand what to do with these children with different needs. Also their teachers and all the other professionals are teaching each other. most of the staff are all on permanent contracts so it keeps the amount of staff leaving to a minimum. It’s very important for these children be able to be able to bond properly with their teachers and for them to be a constant in their lives. We realised we are very blessed to be able to afford this. it should be the norm though in all governments’s school provision. It is much cheaper to help these children when they are young so that they can become contributing members of society.

One day at a time …stay patient …you all are doing an amazing job….your son is so caring and protective of Mikko

It's big brother for me❤He has not learned to help mommy but keeping sissy calm in the closest and sweetest way. Great job big brother

The way u make videos is perfect. U and ur children are beautiful stay strong mama ❤️

Miko and my son are the exact same age- 4 in July. We went through this high social anxiety at the playground and are coming out the other side now. He still has high anxiety, but has stopped avoiding other children, or telling them “you go away!” which was a fun stage 🤦‍♀️ We did just what you are doing- gentle, scaffolded, continued exposure to the playground and other kids without any pressure. The goal was for him to have a positive experience and learn he is safe- nothing more. Keep going. The hurt knee is a bummer but you can’t control that ~ go again tomorrow. Your son’s support for his sister is beautiful to see. What a sweet child he is. ❤

I am so happy she has you for a parent. Because some parents even when they know their child has special needs they will not be so calm and understanding like you.

One day at a time, sis. Y’all create a really loving and supportive environment for Mikko, and I know that goes a long way.🩵

Your family is very gifted with patients and wisdom thank you for sharing. 😊

Hi Precious…I experienced this with my toddler, he’s the same age as Mikko. What I did was slowly start to take him around people more often, it’s a slow process but I feel like she will eventually open up. My son cried a lot initially but now he’s used to it. He was at the point where he would cry and run away when we had visitors at the door but now none of that. He struggles every now and then a tiny bit but for the most part he’s more comfortable. I see a huge change. I have faith that she will be fine. 😊

Her big brother to the rescue! He is so sweet. Comforting and hugging her after she fell ;) and to show her how safe the bandaid was. It brought tears to my eyes!

Mikko's brother is a grwat gentleman❤. So gentle loving and understanding

You are so strong, and you are doing great. It can be a hard decision to hand over some of the weight to someone else, especially when a lot of those programs were harmful to their patients in the past. You are doing great, and you can do this even when times change and things move fast. You can do this even if you need outside help, no shame in asking for help.

You are truly an amazing woman and mom. It's hard l do understand. Children with spectrum are special... Praying for peace and comfort. ❤🙏

She’s such a beautiful angel. 😇 ❤

I can tell her regression is hitting you hard. I empathize. Before her regression it felt like she was growing and moving forward and even speaking some words (even if she was just repeating you). I can also relate to what you said about not dealing with change very well yourself. But I have to say, who does really? I don't think I've met even one person who just seamlessly glides from one situation to the next lol. 😅 Anyway, I was wondering if you and your husband have talked about maybe getting getting a counselor that specializes in autistic children for Mikko? My son has Tourette's (which I know is vastly different than ASD), and we used a wide variety of treatments available to him. I am not saying that you aren't doing an impeccable job. You are doing amazing, with her PT, with the way you handle yourself around her, with how you are helping others with your videos. I was just asking because the counseling may give you a tiny 1 hour break, and it may help her on top of what you are already doing.

I'm so proud of you and your fami Miko truly blessed to have you all

I think that was so nice & sweet of her brother right there by her side

I do get wanting to write down your thoughts beforehand to make sure you get it all out, but what I also like is to see people communicate in a way that is natural to them and I’m referring to the part where you mention how “KZread viewers” want people to communicate in their videos. I want to see you communicate in the way that is most authentic to YOU ❤ authenticity is what draws me in. I think everyone needs to be more authentic in their daily lives and online if they are online. We are all unique and different. We do not fit into molds. I want everyone to enjoy life to the fullest by feeling comfortable being who they are. “People are desperately seeking realness.”

I can only imagine how hard it is to see your beautiful daughter struggle with this. My heart goes out to you. ❤

Ya know sometimes this is just energy you may be portraying in Certain circumstances that can make this worse then it has to be. When she falls down and gets hurt it to much coddling in those instances take care of the wound and stay high calm positive energy. Also try some good supplements they have this kids multi calm by nature's plus you can give her at bedtime . Try almond or oat milk cause the sugar is and causes anxiety so healthy diet plays a big part in mood.Maybe have her play an instrument and build her confidence with things she is good at and enjoys doing.🤍

@ny4000

4 ай бұрын

Exactly. The excessive coddling and fears could be projecting onto Mikko, thereby adding to her own anxiety. I think it may be a little nature AND nurture working in combination here. And the parents always viewing everything Mikko does or feels through an autistic lens is not serving their daughter well either. It may be causing more harm than good.

@jsblackdiva

4 ай бұрын

@@ny4000exactly. It seems when Mikko gets upset over something Precious will say it's a sign of Autism and a meltdown. In many instances she is being a child that's mad because you are not letting them do something they want to do. The moment she cries or gets angry, she gives her a hug. When the father steps in she straightens up. She needs to be around other people and surroundings so she can grow.

@ny4000

4 ай бұрын

@@jsblackdiva 💯. The girl knows what she is doing. She has the mom’s number big time. She may have autism but with the proper professional help, she will likely be able to lead a normal (or close to normal) life. But the parents need to first accept that their daughter needs outside help. They seem to be in denial about that.

@jsblackdiva

4 ай бұрын

@@ny4000I feel that she is has social anxiety because she's only around her family (from the videos). I also think when they went to the truck she started to cry because she thought that they were leaving the park which she has done in the past. Instead of teaching lessons, it's coddling.

@ny4000

4 ай бұрын

@@jsblackdiva yes, agree. The parents mean well I am sure. But their version of gentle parenting could actually be exacerbating the problem and making it more difficult for all of them. A professional would be able to make an unbiased assessment of Mikko to try to parse out what behaviors of hers are actually due to autism and what behaviors may have been learned and due to her being spoiled and coddled by her parents.

Your son is absolutely fantastic as well as your daughter. Great job Mom!