When I discovered that my partner was having an affair ... I suggested they meet for 'closure' which went great. As soon as my partner went out, I changed the locks, started packing, gave my landlord notice, called my best friend and neither the apartment nor I were home when they got back! Good thing I didn't have a car I suppose.

@lf9341

3 жыл бұрын

Love this!

@millville

3 жыл бұрын

@@lf9341 I didn't have a car. Imagine trying to do what Clara Harris did with hired help pulling a UHaul while running along behind, pushing a shopping cart with houseplants and a cat!

@lf9341

3 жыл бұрын

I don't even know why women (or men) would be interested in someone married. They are just going to cheat on you too. Must be desperate.

@lindas5964

3 жыл бұрын

@@lf9341 I believe most of them don’t want a permanent relationship. They’re looking for the challenge of destroying another relationship, the thrill of getting away with the “secret” etc. If the relationship settled down into a ordinary routine, they’d lose interest fast.

@millville

3 жыл бұрын

@@WillChil466, They had already pretended everything else so their meeting for 'closure' was perfect! I mean, the perfect window of a few hours to vacate.

"I think Clara literally interpreted one of the old slogans of Mercedes-Benz, engineered to move the spirit." Thanks Dr. Grande for the regular supply of sarcasm. 😌

@candiiiiiiicane77

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@Kuulei265

3 жыл бұрын

That one caught my attention too!

@analeticiagallardo2314

3 жыл бұрын

Brilliant 👏

@redram5150

3 жыл бұрын

Makes me wonder if you’d be yucking it up if a husband ran over his cheating wife a handful of times

It’s not worth it being with someone who doesn’t want you. Especially not worth it losing your freedom. Great video Dr Grande!!!

@lf9341

3 жыл бұрын

True, but he also made a fool of her.

@ponytail3786

3 жыл бұрын

@@lf9341 if she hadn't stalked him like that, she wouldn't have known that she has been made a fool. He tried to keep her happy. What's wrong with that??

@CastledarkDweller27

3 жыл бұрын

@@ponytail3786 oh please. youre saying as long as she doesnt FIND OUT hes making a fool of her, its ok, and she should be happy?

@lf9341

3 жыл бұрын

@@ponytail3786 Her co workers TOLD her he had something going on!

@jhoughjr1

3 жыл бұрын

@@ponytail3786 if the bank security cam hadn't caught me stealing the money , id be free. I was trying to make the bank happy.

Women really need to be taught to value themselves. She didn't need to change her looks she just needed to ditch the cheater and move on. Fabulous video as usual, Doc! 🙌💙🌞💙

@sharonrenedavenport8995

3 жыл бұрын

👍

@trauma2beauty934

3 жыл бұрын

Well said. Be yourself, everyone else is taken.

@elijahgavin6706

3 жыл бұрын

While this is true, I can’t help but imagine if your comment would have been the same if it were a man who ran over his wife having an affair

@GGiblet

3 жыл бұрын

@@elijahgavin6706 well if a man did this kind of thing and had the same issues it would still be applicable- everyone should have a clear sense of self worth and value as an individual, we are all equal and valid

@redram5150

3 жыл бұрын

It’s interesting that you’re seeing it from the POV she wasted her time, rather than she overreacted and acted rashly to a situation that didn’t call for violence, let alone the level she exhibited

"Mostly because of the part where she ran him over with her Mercedes five times". Man, Dr. Grande, your dry wit kills me every time (no pun intended)

@elanahammer1076

3 жыл бұрын

Yes dry very dry! Lol

@sandracmyers

3 жыл бұрын

Omg I just spent 5 minutes typng that exact comment I swear...

@arlynpage7491

3 жыл бұрын

@@sandracmyers If so you, too, would’ve misquoted him by leaving out the word “where”. 😖😜😖😆❗️

@aokigaharakomorebi

3 жыл бұрын

@@arlynpage7491 Typo, obviously

@arlynpage7491

3 жыл бұрын

@@aokigaharakomorebi Undoubtedly, but if one is gonna quote someone then said quote needs to be verbatim.

My heart goes out to the daughter. I'm mostly baffled by how much Clara was willing to change herself to try to keep her cheating husband in her life. Like, you don't need better boobs, you need a better partner. 😢

@edwhite7078

3 жыл бұрын

That's the opinion coming from many broken homes. Once you have a child with someone that changes. If it doesn't for you then you're part of the problem. People do change for their families all the time. Stop acting like the only solution is breaking up a family.

@deanwright7611

3 жыл бұрын

Fine sentiments I'm sure. But better boobs don't hurt.

@Nok112

3 жыл бұрын

Forreal

@Nok112

3 жыл бұрын

@@edwhite7078 a woman does not have to sacrifice her dignity. Children aren't always better for staying in a toxic, unloving environment with two parents that only live together for their kids.

@alimar0604

3 жыл бұрын

I agree Cindy Lu. She didn't need that worthless guy 🇬🇧

All I could think during the ad read was "I am not diagnosing this product, only speculating on what could be happening if you purchased it." 😉

@amberjones6162

3 жыл бұрын

😆😆😂

@marymonroe7042

3 жыл бұрын

@@amberjones6162 @C L Love it!!!!

@elanahammer1076

3 жыл бұрын

😜

@colorbugoriginals4457

3 жыл бұрын

Lol that's good

“The two went out to a salon” Yes! Do some selfcare then get out of that relationship 🙌 “…to change her haircut and color to be more attractive to David.” 😑

@rogerpattube

3 жыл бұрын

“There’s a solution to every problem”.

I love how Dr. Grande has the most practical sponsor possible haha

I've read a lot about this case, and watched the crime docs on tv (Dateline, American Justice, 48 Hours...etc.) Anyway, I think she was definitely aiming for him, she was in a rage, she was doing a Betty Broderick...didn't give a flying flip as long as she got rid of him. Dr. G...one more thing: Love your shirt!

@nancyjones6780

3 жыл бұрын

Yep, I think there should be an official "Betty Broderick Syndrome " in the DSM

@cUser691

3 жыл бұрын

@@nancyjones6780 Categorized as DYV “Dumped for Younger Version Syndrome” in DSM.

@CastledarkDweller27

3 жыл бұрын

@@cUser691 does anyone know why this is generally.... a man thing? why arent women dumping their old, going baldy, not as exciting, getting paunchy hubby for a younger version?

@susanh1447

2 жыл бұрын

@@CastledarkDweller27 Honestly! I’m still taking collagen and vitamins, working out and lifting weights 🏋️‍♀️. My husband, on the other hand, is losing muscle, going gray, and drinking! Fortunately I make more money, too!

Sometimes it’s better to let go and walk away. You can’t make someone love you and want to be with you. Clara could have had all those cosmetic improvements and started her own new life with someone who appreciated her. (Edited cause I forgot to say I love the pink shirt today).

Why didn't the hotel staff call the police as Gail's head was being pounded into the marble floor?... there may have been a better outcome.

@mads229

3 жыл бұрын

I wondered the same thing, they just escorted her to car like it was nbd??

@E.C.Animation

3 жыл бұрын

Right! At least 911 after seeing a women get her head pounded into the marble! WTF!? Then they just went out into the parking lot like their attacker wasn't out there waiting? Foolish. But of course, look what they did: an affair in his shared business with his wife? Stupid and thoughtless beyond belief. Doesn't excuse what she did though.

@elijahgavin6706

3 жыл бұрын

Takes them a bit

@jhoughjr1

3 жыл бұрын

@@mads229 Lol and wait an hour for the cops to show up? Also businesses dont like having police show up and avoid it if at all possible.

Loved your analysis. I feel bad for his teenage daughter. The fact that she was dragged into it definitely compounds the tragedy. Too bad that the adults in the situation weren’t thinking of the children involved.

@DottieMinerva

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. She was inside the car when it happened! I don’t remember what show it was, maybe 48 hours, but the daughter did an interview with them for the episode. Felt terrible for her.

@zenodotusofathens2122

3 жыл бұрын

Do you "feel bad" for David Harris who was hit by a 2500 pound vehicle, thrown 20 feet and run over 4 times by a homicidal maniac?

@lf9341

3 жыл бұрын

@@zenodotusofathens2122 Not really. I feel for his kids and Clara.

@zenodotusofathens2122

3 жыл бұрын

@@lf9341 What if the roles were reversed and David Harris ran over his cheating wife?

@cesarincamendozaloyola4407

3 жыл бұрын

Good question. It is a homicide case, plain and simple.

Dr. Grande, I find your calm demeanor, quite calming to me, even though you are describing some very disturbing cases. I wish you good health.

In my opinion, this is the only channel that has consistently put out top quality content. Can’t remember a time without Dr Grande on KZread. Great stuff.

Rage and anger, because she was so emotionally wounded.

@zenodotusofathens2122

3 жыл бұрын

So SHE is the victim or her husband?

@jhoughjr1

3 жыл бұрын

@@zenodotusofathens2122 Yes she is the victim of his dishonor.

who remembers when Dr. Grande had little, if any decorations at all? LOL

@nancyjones6780

3 жыл бұрын

The tan wall and the computer 🖥 that said Dr. Grande! Those were the good old days but I love the new set up!

@steph7738

3 жыл бұрын

I remember suggesting a candle but still haven’t seen one.

@elanahammer1076

3 жыл бұрын

I think I remember when that occurred? The good ol days when Dr. Grande was not in need of another brick in the wall nor did he ever get arrested by the fashion police 👮‍♀️ for wearing flannel? Lol I miss it when he committed fashion infractions? Lol 🤔❤️❤️‍🩹🇺🇸🧐🌎✊👮‍♀️😜

@Throatzillaaa

3 жыл бұрын

Who remembers the intro with the little stacking text books?

@bthomson

3 жыл бұрын

His fans are obsessed with his decor and wardrobe! So much fun to comment on the changes!

I always smile when I hear this story. My bad. I too have had cheating husband who lied repeatedly about stopping his behavior. I too competed because my narcissistic husband manipulated me into feeling like a failure. I have done the same thing as Clara, in my mind, like 100 times. I finally moved 2000 miles away so I wouldn't get myself in trouble. I am glad she's out of jail.

@trace9657

3 жыл бұрын

I am glad you got away and didn't get yourself in trouble. He wasn't worth your freedom.

@CastledarkDweller27

3 жыл бұрын

i like your style Kathleen Reardon.

@jeniferjoseph9200

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad you were able to get away from that destructive behavior. He would never have been worth the jail time.

@linak7155

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you didn't give in to the temptation. It would hv ruined your life.💮🏵️🌺🌼🌻🌷🌹

@oyeyipo

3 жыл бұрын

Glad that she is out?! Put ones peepee in another's hole do not and should not warrant taking a human life.

Don't cheat or someone ends up hurt. Just leave them if you don't want to be with them.

@JiveDadson

3 жыл бұрын

Don't run over anybody with a car more than four times in one episode either.

@elanahammer1076

3 жыл бұрын

Good advice sometimes people do not know when to walk away or fold their hand so to speak! Lol

@bethanychatman9531

3 жыл бұрын

@@JiveDadson well duh.

@asia.b

3 жыл бұрын

@@JiveDadson Ok, so just 3 times. 📝 Got it.

@E.C.Animation

3 жыл бұрын

Right! Is it so hard to say "I don't want to be with you anymore." before starting a relationship with someone else? I've said to people; never cheat, because it only takes one person to completely mess up your life (like running you over or pounding you into the marble, etc.) and you don't know which person that could be. For example, could be the gf of the guy you cheat with but didn't even know about her. Or you could just catch a bunch of permanent and painful STDs. Either way, get messed up for life. Honesty is the best policy.

Did anyone giggle when Dr Grande said “buttocks in his face”? 😆

@erikparent8176

3 жыл бұрын

For a man thats quite an irresistible temptation! It's like temptation island, without the island! 🏝🚫😘

@desertdragon2397

3 жыл бұрын

Some were even getting physically ill because of this. Giggled, oh yah.

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

I let out an audible laugh in the middle of my office

@annal7364

3 жыл бұрын

I’d giggle more if he said the actual word. It’s a bummer that will probably never happen.

@penelopehughes-jones5265

3 жыл бұрын

I giggled through much of this…which is very weird. By the time Dr G said, ‘never go to the post office again,’ I was hooting, not lolling, hooting!

“…maybe a few seconds before it happened…” that part hollowed me. Self control is so important.

"Lovey-dovey-stuff" is definitly new vocabulary to me. I already loved his term "baloney cannon", but this is even better. 😊 You don't learn such expressions in English textbooks.

@bthomson

3 жыл бұрын

English as a second language is tough! So many informal ways to say everything! So many terms that everybody just knows from tv culture(if you can call it culture!). Good for you that you like gathering these gems!

@ferociousgumby

2 жыл бұрын

"No matter how you slice it, it's still baloney" - Confucius

@316nicolez

2 жыл бұрын

He didn’t make that up by the way. It’s been used for decades

Never ceases to amaze me how she automatically forgave him and blamed the girl and herself (for not being attractive enough). David was a complete bastard and she was a successful business woman; she coud have had a great life without him. I'll never understand a woman chasing a man she knows doesn't want her or the need to kill him on her part. Of course she was guilty, how could anyone question that fact? Thanks for sharing. 😎

@dianecalderon1700

3 жыл бұрын

It can be hard for someone when they’ve only planned their life with their partner in it. But David was no prize. I can’t believe Clara said that she didn’t see him.

@polarbearsrus6980

3 жыл бұрын

@@dianecalderon1700 Right but she obviously had low self esteem. I can believe she said she didn't see him. However, I can't believe she didn't see him.

@billbull1JB-EH

3 жыл бұрын

@polarbearsrus she wasn't chasing him lol this is not a young trending couple, its about class and social status and how "friends" perceive them as, there's no love but an image, growing up i saw a lot of women get cheated on and i heard and saw things of what those said woman did to keep their partner happy, living a lie, on denial, no self worth and no dignity the last thing they would ever do is hurt their partner no matter how abusive their male partner was be it emotionally or physically. The lady in the video who got cheated on cared more about her image above everything else including her daughter that tells you all you need to know and also she drove a Mercedes so yeah

@polarbearsrus6980

3 жыл бұрын

@@billbull1JB-EH Rght, my ex daughter in law... it was all about her image. I get it, I could have selected a better word then "chasing". No bull, Bill. 😎

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it's hard for people to come to terms with certain things. Her admitting that this was all David'fault would mean her entire married life was a lie and her life as she currently knew it would've have to fall apart with that realization. That sounds like it was too much for her to bear.

I can share my experience. Dentist office standard teeth cleaning. The office only had curtains to separate patients. The sexual tension between Dr., and the hygienist was so bad it got embarrassing to us clients. Guess who was the receptionist, Dr.s wife. Always interesting and appreciate your point of view. Hanky Panky. Is always a deal-breaker. Thank you. Peace

@someonerandom256

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened when my mom was a patient at a dentist's office 😆 I don't know if it's just a dentist thing 🤷🏼‍♀️

@cindyhoomalu1566

3 жыл бұрын

When I was a teenager my dentist was married to his dental assistant. They were sweet to each other but not inappropriate or making anyone feel uncomfortable. The wife was always so nice to me even I was always flirting with her very attractive husband. At that time I did not realize they were married. Oh, to be so young and stupid! LOL

Great video. This one bothered me because she could have just walked away. Why give up your freedom.

@elanahammer1076

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly why give your freedom away? It sounds like more than road rage?

@martyal

3 жыл бұрын

I wish she had taken everything he had and let the little princess have him. Her highness would not have stuck around very long.

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

The thought of her married life coming crashing down was too much to bear. It's different when you've created a successful life with someone. The issue here was that she cared more than he did.

@elanahammer1076

3 жыл бұрын

@@TomikaKelly I am not sure 🤔 but caring to kill? That is not love. If you have love ❤️ for yourself and anyone else there is not a need to kill your spouse. I think 🤔 she just lost it. It is never ok to take a life of anyone unless it is self defense or an act of war. This is not an example of justifiable homicide. This in my opinion is someone who could not let go. Your thoughts, I would love to hear some meaty dialogue. Thanks!

@cindyhoomalu1566

3 жыл бұрын

I think in cases like this a lot of people speculate how they themselves would react, but seriously you don’t know until you are in the middle of it all. I always said I would just leave and move on, but it really doesn’t work like that. I’m genuinely happy for you that you have no idea what you’re talking about! Does it “justify” murder? No, but I can see how it happens.

Just noticed the 781k subs! Congratulations! I'm calling it - you'll hit 1M by Christmas!!!! Wooooo!

@elanahammer1076

3 жыл бұрын

What subs? That’s a lot of sandwich eating this year! See if Dr. Grande can get a sponsor over tuna! Just avoid any fishing expeditions that don’t involve tuna in a subway ok? Then maybe he dispense coupons to each and every one of his followers! Lol 🤔

@jamaaldavis6243

3 жыл бұрын

I hope he gets it by Halloween 🙌🏾

@pyarkaaloo

3 жыл бұрын

781k subs? That’s a lot of sandwiches...

The good doctor posts early today. What a treat as always! Thank you for what you do. It is therapeutic for so many of us.

@erikparent8176

3 жыл бұрын

Early bird gets the worm too early, if you ask me! ⏱🐦💤

The kids were the real losers here, especially the poor daughter witnessing this horrible premeditated act. Great shirt 👚 Dr Grande. A perfect contrast to this grim story.

@316nicolez

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like the daughter may have been in the car. Having to feel her fathers body underneath the car being killed... so sick

@Mountlougallops

2 жыл бұрын

@@316nicolez agree

I feel bad for the daughter sitting in the passenger seat the whole time.

@DottieMinerva

3 жыл бұрын

I remember the private investigator video. The car bounced every time it went over his body.

@Mama_Bear524

3 жыл бұрын

How traumatic. I wonder how she’s doing

Flashbacks to my former marriage. Living with the anger takes such a toll even if expressed nonviolently. Never wanted to inflict pain on that affair partner but DID imagine chopping off her hair at times.

@bestiefswlady5251

3 жыл бұрын

@@BucketHeadianHagg Glad you kept your sanity! :) Wish I could say I was that virtuous - but my moment of revenge was lying next to a naked man on the phone with her explaining that he was “running late” getting back into town from work...(This was significantly later and definitely by mutual agreement)...

@joan-lisa-smith

3 жыл бұрын

You misspelled "head" lol

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

This right here...yes and, if we're being honest, it's the nonviolent, silent rage that fucks with you the most.

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

@@BucketHeadianHagg Wait, what? What type of job did your spouse do?

@cindyhoomalu1566

3 жыл бұрын

I was fortunate that the affair partner was across the ocean. I didn’t want to murder her (and him) so much, I just wanted them to feel the pain I was feeling. The things in my head were definitely not right!

Dr has convinced me I’m wasting time going to the post office.

@possumaintdead

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

That sponsorship has me sold. I absolutely hate going to the post office. My whole family is aware because they all receive their Christmas gifts in February, even though I love shopping so the gifts have been ready and boxed up, only to sit near the front door for 6-8 weeks while I make excuses not to go stand in line at the Post office Lol

Hardest working man on KZread. Always a pleasure finding new content. Thanks Dr. Grande!❤️

A friend rang me on one occasion to tell me she was on her way to smash up her ex's car with a baseball bat. I asked her to swing by my place and pick me up first so that I could watch. When she arrived, I suggested we get ice cream first. We went for ice cream. Then I suggested we went to see a movie. Cut to the chase, we had a great evening and no-one got arrested. That 30 second burst of sanity that she had when she picked up the phone kept her out of jail.

@erikparent8176

3 жыл бұрын

Your a peach! 🍑

@simonw1313

3 жыл бұрын

A false moustache, parking her mercedes at a decent distance from the crime scene to be and a credible alibi could have achieved the same.

@lf9341

3 жыл бұрын

I did the same!

@cindyhoomalu1566

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone needs a friend like you!!!

Sorry, the dentist can't come in today, he's feeling a bit run down.

@legitbeans9078

2 жыл бұрын

Stop 🤣

@susanh1447

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@madeleineprice3556

2 жыл бұрын

Bahahah

@angelaberry7501

Жыл бұрын

😅😅

@variousJnames

9 ай бұрын

Never gets old 😂😂😂

Dr. Grande’s speculations are spot on! I’ve been a true crime fan for years, and will always go to the channel to see if he’s covered the subject when I run across a book or article that I’m interested in reading. Keep up the fantastic job!

i’m so glad i discovered this channel 👌🏼💖

I remember when this happened. I also remember thinking 'Wow, she really does a very thorough job'😳

@quickflip7185

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha

David was (flat out) wrong about the fury of a woman scorned. Thank you Dr.Grande for running over the (5) impacts that an affair can have on a man's life. 😉

It was very sad that their daughter witnesses the entire thing

@marciasloan534

3 жыл бұрын

NOT CLARAS DAUGHTER

@Mama_Bear524

3 жыл бұрын

@@marciasloan534 ?

Just... get a divorce. Clara could’ve found a better man and maybe would have a better life than before.

@elijahgavin6706

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe a man with a better character but $650k a year? Doubtful

@ronnie8984

3 жыл бұрын

@@elijahgavin6706 Wasn’t Clara making half the money?

@elijahgavin6706

3 жыл бұрын

@@ronnie8984 did she actually personally own that stake in the company or was it just because she was married to the owner and did administrative work for the company? I don’t remember hearing that in the video

@Mama_Bear524

3 жыл бұрын

@@elijahgavin6706 she was a dentist. Had her own career. She wasn’t rich because of him.

"Engendered To Move The Sprite" 🤣🤣🤣 Dr. G... the undisputed champion of Dad jokes.

I started watching this video because I thought it would be about Clara Harris, the daughter of Senator Ira Harris and one of the four people in the presidential box the night of the Lincoln assassination. She was present as a guest of the Lincolns along with her fiance' Major Henry Rathbone. Later, after they were married, Rathbone was stationed as a military liaison in (I think) Sweden where he choked her to death. Still, a decent video, thanks!

@elijahgavin6706

3 жыл бұрын

Cool movie premise

@missmodern

Жыл бұрын

😲

A nice early surprise from Dr Grande, a great case for speculation.

At first when I saw your title Mercedes Homicide I thought it was the name of the woman🤣🤣🤣 I was like "hmm, that's a funny name"! Good one as usual Dr.G! 💜🌵

@mrs.reluctant4095

3 жыл бұрын

Well, you were absolutely right. Mercedes is a Spanish first name for a woman. The car was named with a girls name.

Dear Men, Be patient, separate, even divorce if you must. But don't cheat.

@commodityjane

3 жыл бұрын

No it's called, wanting your cake and eating it too.

@TheAllianceEnt

3 жыл бұрын

@@commodityjane that's different than cheating?

@JiveDadson

3 жыл бұрын

Dear women, Do not kill people.

@TheAllianceEnt

3 жыл бұрын

@@JiveDadson Dear Women, Leave married men alone.

@user-cs1un6sp1wRennata

3 жыл бұрын

I wish that it is that simple . . .Life and people are more complex than that

great video!!! so fantastic to see new content this often.

No man is worth prison time. While I find infidelity disgusting, murder is much much worse, and never ever ok. To run someone over 5 times...yikes.

@erikparent8176

3 жыл бұрын

What about a young leonardo DiCaprio? Is he worth it? 🤔😉

@evelynwaugh4053

3 жыл бұрын

@@erikparent8176 Like in What's Eating Gilbert Grape🤔? I think she can resist his appeal😏.

@user-cs1un6sp1wRennata

3 жыл бұрын

@@erikparent8176 no he's not

@amberlytheharpyqueen

3 жыл бұрын

@@erikparent8176 nope. NO man and no woman either. While someone can be attractive or funny etc I don't value that over my morals and freedom. Besides looks fade and arnt that important to a relationship in my opinion. If your partner is loyal,honest and kind and you are the same back and you are both happy THAT is what's truly important.

@erikparent8176

3 жыл бұрын

@@amberlytheharpyqueen Ok ladies! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

the Grande Moustache Mug in the backround has me giggling

Dr. Grande: please consider doing an analysis of the Victoria's Secret Karen's massive freak out this week.

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

If you're Black you understand how it feels to be in that position. I have LITERALLY had a coworker steal a high profile account from me and when I demanded the account back she called an meeting and started to cry...🙄

@Griselda_Puppy

3 жыл бұрын

@Tomika Kelly *I feel ashamed that this country has not come farther in the area of equality & giving ALL Americans the same rights and opportunities! Sorry that you had to go through that, as well as the struggle for equality that you're forced to live with on a daily basis! God bless* 💜

@QueenOfTheNorth65

3 жыл бұрын

That was REALLY something, wasn’t it? 😱

@QueenOfTheNorth65

3 жыл бұрын

@Over It You clearly didn’t watch the original video. If you HAD, you would understand what Tomika is talking about.

@skinsey85

3 жыл бұрын

@Over It Nothing "safe" about a definitive statement based off an assumption lol Have you seen the video they're talking about? It's a specific incident in regards to their specific comment. Context matters.

I find your voice so soothing , thank you for excellent enunciation , and soft speech .. its a pleasure to listen to you : )

oh my goodness. David Harris was one of my friends when he was in graduate school for Orthodontics while I was at the IU School of Dentistry.

"The best or nothing".. Interesting case.. As always, Your analysis is excellent. Thank you Dr. Grande!

Yay! New Dr G! Thanks so much Doc!☺️🙏👏

Thanks Dr. Grande, I always find something new to learn in each analysis.

Thanks for your consistency, information and entertainment, Dr. Grande! 👏😁

Have an amazing Thursday, Dr. Grande! ❤️

Really sad that Clara degraded herself for this man. I can genuinely see why she snapped.

@lf9341

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. He could have a least cheated with someone her coworkers didn't know about.

@redram5150

3 жыл бұрын

Makes me wonder if you’d be yucking it up if a husband ran over his cheating wife a handful of times

@brotherbear1162

3 жыл бұрын

@@redram5150 I'd bet no.

@PardonMyPresence

3 жыл бұрын

That's like me saying I understand why OJ snapped when he saw Goldman at Nicole's house. It's sad that OJ degraded himself for that woman.

@beachz101

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing justifies driving over a spouse 5 times, sorry.

Good morning Dr. grande hope you have a nice week thanks for the videos

The moral of this story seems to be, don’t become one totally with another person, no matter how much love is involved. Keep something of yourself for yourself. She had so little of her own identity and value as a human being that she had to destroy both their lives.

@sarahgupton2552

3 жыл бұрын

@@thekurtcobainfoundation4200 I like your idea to just get a cat.

I’d like more videos where you use the word “buttocks”. Thank you. Lol.

Thank you for the superb video as always. Today is my nineteenth birthday and my sister & I always watch you only speculate about what could be happening in a situation like this :) (also, great work on the podcast)

@cplmpcocptcl6306

3 жыл бұрын

Happy Birthday 🎉🎁🎂🎈🎊

@katie9869

3 жыл бұрын

@@thekurtcobainfoundation4200 thanks you both!!! ❤️❤️

@chloenelson3999

3 жыл бұрын

happy birthday!!!!! I hope you had a great day ! Gah!!!

Excellent video Dr. Grande. Really interesting, thank you for your analysis.

His promos are... How can he keep his voice so so so neutral? LOL. "Stamps.com never go to the post office (pause) again". I love it xD

I think I'm starting to enjoy the word from your sponsor almost as much as the main event! Talk about, "lol"!

Another narcissistic man, ruining lives, women being jealous. tragic outcome. No way would I go to her lengths to keep anyone. Thanks Dr G for humor & intelligence amidst a terrible case😊💙🧡

"Designed to move the spirit" 😂 hilarious Sir 👍 👍 👍. And as per usual a sound analysis!

Good morning Dr Grande. Excellent analysis as always. Thank you Dr Grande.

" ... also the lovey-dovey stuff." LOL!

Betty Broderick on steroids! This is what this case reminded me of. I think Clara was beyond angry. She was enraged that her Husband would ruin their “Perfect Life.” Everything Clara had worked for was at stake. Her image, her ego, “her” man. Along comes someone who ruins all of that. Just as Betty Broderick did, Clara wasn’t going to be left for anyone else. She would destroy them both. As Dr. Grande said, “If she (Clara) couldn’t have him, no one else would.” Great analysis.

"All of them refused to let go." Perfect line to sum up this case. Your plants are looking amazing! 🌞

Your Video's are Always Sooo Interesting Dr.!! Thank You!!

I disagree that this wasn’t in the heat of the moment. This was clearly shortly after a physical confrontation in which a short period of reflection through a red haze generated homicidal urges

@mindysommers

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. I think she snapped and a moment doesn't literally mean a moment. She drove around in a red clouded fugue.

@garmtpug

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Rage just doesn’t quickly go away! She had just gotten done beating the other woman which would have made her even more enraged. I don’t think she went to the hotel to kill anyone. I don’t think she knew what she was going to do.

@lf9341

3 жыл бұрын

@@garmtpug I agree.

@lanceanthony198

3 жыл бұрын

It was in the heat of the moment but it was also targeted and intentional. It’s not like she just pushed him and he happened to fall down some stairs and die. She ran over him multiple times

@daveandcynthiabrock9250

3 жыл бұрын

Im glad she's out of jail. Sorry ...he was a pos narcissist Spoiled brat. I feel sorry for his daughter though! I think she just snapped after all the lies and bullshit.Just sayin.

Interesting, as always.

"Engineered to move the spirit" I knew it, this is an ad for Mercedes Benz. I love the subtle humor. It's calculated like a chess move.

Very insightful analysis Dr Grande! And the fact that you're hilarious just makes it even better!😂Thank you for all you do doc!!💙💙

Congrats on your new sponsor, Dr. Grande 🙂

When I was 2 years old, my godfather was stabbed to death by his girlfriend because she caught him cheating. My dad said that when he went to their house, he could still feel the heat of his friend’s blood when he stumbled into a wall he’d bled on. That etched into my head the dangers of hurting someone by cheating. It’s a dangerous endeavor. Just break things off.

I wonder if there had been more information back then about narcissism if she would have been able to understand she was being manipulated and found the strength to walk away. Im so thankful the mental health community has been raising awareness of Cluster B personality traits, for me I was saved by learning what I was up against. Great analysis Dr G!!

OMG 🥳 congratulations on getting sponsored, Dr. G!!!🤗

Ugh. A man who cheats on you isn’t worth killing for or going to jail for. I feel bad for their kids. The kids are always the victims in these cases that include a couple.

@cesarincamendozaloyola4407

3 жыл бұрын

All those in favor of this lady forget that she made her daughter a witness of this madness. Some call it understandable.

Dr. Grande having alot to say today. Got a video at 12p.m. Eastern time on a Thursday 😁😁

I love your shirt. Thank you Doctor Grande for your dedication and hard work. Your insight is Amazing.

Dr grande thank you for calming my chaotic day down. Your the best! Cactus for life!

Is it bad that I sympathize with the wife? Her husband was a massive jerk. I feel bad for her, but I do think she ran him over on purpose. However, I do feel it was a heat of the moment choice. I do not think it was premeditated at all, she didn't go there intending to run him over.

@octowuss1888

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, it is bad to sympathize with the murderer. You are a bad person. She should have just filed for divorce and taken him to the cleaners.

@jirmtx5525

3 жыл бұрын

No it’s not bad; because this only proves which gender is really oppressed.

@despinacharalambous1728

3 жыл бұрын

The only case that l sympathise with the perpetrator and feel no sympathy with the victim, am l bad?

@mariapillay8196

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely not, it's not bad to empathise its human nature

@jhoughjr1

3 жыл бұрын

Nope. It shows you have understanding.

😆 Buttocks! Also, not diagnosing your cacti, but just speculating that your real cacti may feel disgruntled that you now have an adorable solar cactus or may feel envious of its potential dancing abilities. 🌵😀

I love the analysis, with just a smidgen of dry humor! As usual, great watch!

I never thought I’d like dry humor but dr Grande makes me laugh

This is so tragic for their family. Can't imagine losing relatives like this.

Good Day Dr Grande, Good Day one and all! :)

@maureeningleston1501

3 жыл бұрын

Good day to you too. :)

@mrsapplez2007

3 жыл бұрын

Good evening 🙌🏾

What a case! “The best or nothing.” Thank you, Dr. Grande.

We had a few of these episodes at work also. I remember at one time, she wore a crisp white blouse with a red bustier underneath. You were afraid of opening a door or rounding a corner for what you might run into. Very difficult for employees. You just wanted to say “Please-go get a room!” And yes, he was married with 4 children. So much for that. Later on, after he was divorced, they broke up.

I dont get why people don't just walk away. If my so cheated on me, I'd be done. I'd be hella hurt, but I'd leave. I wish I understood why people try to stay

@erikparent8176

3 жыл бұрын

You have access to the awareness field. An evolved Soul.

@cindyhoomalu1566

3 жыл бұрын

You think that’s what you’d do…. If you haven’t experienced it you truly don’t know.

@victoriascotttheclassicist3692

3 жыл бұрын

@@cindyhoomalu1566 I have. I do know what I'd do, and I would leave

@jhoughjr1

3 жыл бұрын

Great cheaters HATE consequences.

*LADIES: No man is worth going to prison for. And I am in no way a feminist.*

@reneelibby4885

3 жыл бұрын

You are right. But nothing wrong with being a feminist. To me feminism means bot h sexes are equal, so I consider myself one.

That was the most Dr. Grande ad read ever lol I love it

I like the decor in the background. Got a funny cacti thing going on.

It's an easy mistake to make, I've ran over 4 husbands by accident I guess I'm just a clumsy person.

@cplmpcocptcl6306

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@elanahammer1076

3 жыл бұрын

Did you get an insurance pay out? Somehow I sincerely doubt that you would not get caught in a scenario such as this! Lol

This is really ghastly, but even more appalling because her stepdaughter was in the car. Beating up the cheating hussy in the lobby should have been sufficient.

Having breakfast while watching Dr. Grande, what great way to start the day! 😃

I love how the subject matter is so lewd, but you are able to make it all sound so professional using eloquent language!