If you found this video helpful then you might like some of the other videos in the Projector playlist: kzread.info/head/PLl7YaSJLwvvAfgceGwKlJooAov-1GF84R

I’ve always felt like I can’t talk to people. They’re not receptive, my opinions always felt like an annoyance to others. So I’m starting my own channel to connect with like-minded people like myself. Im really pushing myself to do this as it’s completely out of my comfort zone. But I have this deep knowing that tells me this is the right step to take. Tbh it’s been an ongoing open invitation I can’t keep refusing.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Good luck with your channel, Coco. I hope it goes really well. And tbh, the challenge you've been facing is a common one for Projectors. I found that people didn't listen to me and found me annoying when I was 'trying to be heard' all the time. As Projectors we are really annoying to others when we speak out of turn, when we try to force others to listen to us. The better I got a listening and waiting, the more people asked me to speak and genuinely appreciated what I had to say. The LESS attached I got to anyone caring what awesome wisdom I had to share the MORE people valued my input. We're annoying when we force. We're wise when we listen and wait, and it's a practice.

@kellyglennie

Жыл бұрын

What centres do you have defined? I am the same way. 2/4 (hermit / leader, go figure), top 2 centres defined.

@taryncook9930

5 ай бұрын

​@@kellyglennieI'm a 2/4 mental projector with the top two defined as well!!

This was so helpful, thank you 🙏 Being new to HD and diving in, it is exactly like you said, the information for this "mental" type was not as common, so anytime I would encounter advice for projectors it wasn't resonating. I am starting to understand more, and this information you put out is so valuable for us, thank you! The funniest thing is, only yesterday it was explained to me as a "sounding board" for my own voice, which made me laugh because it is what I have always naturally done -- talk to myself while alone in my living room, or in the bathroom mirror, or while laying in bed falling asleep and would have entire interviews and conversations with myself -- I have consulted with therapists in the past for regaining perspective on certain issues which become muddied from conditioning and outer influences (being the open body with only ajna/throat defined) and within a week or month, I have regained clarity to move forward on my own. So much good ! Gratitude Gratitude Gratitude 🙏

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

Yay!! So delighted to hear that tiggerscrunchies. Fabulous. Glad it landed and was so helpful. Feel free to share with anyone who you thinks needs to hear this (including friends who want to give you advice 😂)

@FloatingOrbProductions

6 ай бұрын

If you're actually a mental projector dm me on IG @dylanmagaster I'm one too.

I’m a mental projector. And the bitterness is real. I used to feel so much love but now I’m just like was I just conditioned? It was all in my head? Now I just feel bitterness about everything. I don’t like see people because I actually see and feel them so much

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

Zach, your experience of life at the moment sounds painful. I want to acknowledge that. I feel like Human Design can give us some very (very) important clues to help us understand ourselves and our experience of life, but it's not the whole picture. It tells of us our "nature" but not our "nurture". And, in my experience of many years using this tool it doesn't do that much to support us in healing the aspects of where we were "nurtured" that caused and are still causing us pain. I can confirm that I have met more than one Mental Projector who is really truly happy and well in their life. It is possible. But what these MPs have done is focused on healing that which still hurts them. If you believe you can and really want to create a life with much more love in it again then I gently (but firmly) recommend you focus on healing your nervous system and the pain of your past. If the ways you've tried to do this in the past have not worked, and you're genuinely willing to try something different, let me know in a reply and I'll make some recommendations.

@elleaprilterrell

2 жыл бұрын

Ditto! I feel lost in my head although I do meditate and work out ….that’s why I love how she was explaining “authority”…..I have been trying to make decisions mentally…using the head center - not good🫣

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

@@elleaprilterrell Love it. I think movement is so underrated. The more we can be with how we're feeling and move through it (with gentle loving kindness) the better.

🙏🙏🙏Merci beaucoup Caroline pour toute cette approche et ces clés de compréhension.🙏🙏🙏❤️Catherine de Bretagne en France.

Thank you! Wonderful video. I am a mental peojector 4/6 with no throat defined and what you say is just gold for me!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

7 ай бұрын

You're so welcome!

I’m really new to Human Design. I’m a 2/4 Mental Projector (top 2 centres defined only). I am also realizing I’m an empath so I guess that makes sense with all the other centres open and needing seclusion to recharge? I also wonder if having “no” / “environmental” authority could also be redefined as having a spiritual authority, where finding what truth resonates deep within either through the throat chakra or the third eye (channeling or communicating with spirit guides / higher self)? More like a sixth sense authority? Just spit-balling here…it also sounds like a lot of us have gone through traumas that shut down our empathic abilities, it’s really inline with how to become an empowered empath by working through traumas to reprogram our subconscious and reconnect with our higher self (and our truth); this seems ESSENTIAL for projectors?

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Hello again Kelly. If you're new to HD the best way I can describe it is this: Your intuition has the potential to be AMAZING, yes AND (please hear this) learning how to follow your Inner Authority as I've shared here will tell you IF what you intuitively sensed is for you or if it's for someone else. When we've experienced a lot of trauma it can cause people to try and get out of their bodies and focus on being "super spiritual" - but it's a coping mechanism; it won't lead to the most authentic, aligned, embodied life. Experiencing a lot of trauma can also make us feel unsafe talking about what's important to us with others. Thus, it might feel scary to try and follow your Inner Authority. That's okay. Just notice, and again, focusing on healing the past (as you've mentioned) IS essential to being able to come home to the power and beauty of who you were born to be.

Best mental projector info I’ve heard yet ❤. Thank you

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Yay! Thanks for saying so. Glad it landed so well for you.

Best talk on Mental Projectors that I've heard so far. I dig your vibe! Grazie. ~ 1/3 Mental Projector

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, You ;) That means a lot. And I'm glad.

Thank you for this empowering video. As an ajna throat mental projector 3/6 43-23 I was indeed struggling with having "no authority" and that I have to talk to other people... This always felt wrong for me. What I found out over the years for me, after continously clearing my undefined centers, that my Higher Self is my authority. And I can go up direct to Supreme Source, as the fullest expansion of my Multidimensionality. Its always possible to talk to your Higher Self through the Gateway of your Heart, and the answers are always uplifting ... heart brain coherence is key 🙂

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome. I'm glad it was empowering for you. And your process sounds interesting. It doesn't sound unreasonable at all if you've done a lot of clearing of other people's energies. I wonder, if you can tell me, how grounded to do you feel? How embodied do you feel? Are you going direct up to Source AND still spending most of the time in your body, feeling emotional reactions when things get triggered in your human life? I ask because I know a lot of people with a lot of openness have often experienced a lot of trauma and becoming "super spiritual" is a coping mechanism. But all they're doing is endlessly leaving their body - out of need, of course. But to make really aligned decisions as a human being we have to be in our body. You sound MORE in your body than most, but what do you think? (*Asks curiously) Are you feeling the sadness, the anger, the fear, all the things when they show up and ask to be felt?

@manuela8309

Жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom Thank you. I had a deep healing where my Higher Mind sent me the words, while I was watching my body and my Lower Mind from above: OWN IT. The most important thing is to come into the body and be grounded in the body, in the heart. By coming into the body, bringing consciousness in it, you clear it. Its about facing not leaving ... For me it is no difference. I can be spiritual in the body - we have the whole muliverse in it - or projecting an aspect to where I feel drawn to. There are different technices, the most important thing is to start and come back to your heart. A symbol for grounding could be the infinity symbol - ajna - heart. I have made some technology to help me to keep my open centers clear and assist me in grounding. Spiritual hygiene on a daily basis. I live alone and don't have too much contact to others. I even feel my neighbors very intense. Its getting easier, its like a muscle you can train. I'm clairvoyent, so I can see attachments, energies, fear, anger. Being in this dense body is sometimes like a rodeo ride - while sitting in my room ;-). Feeling those extreme emotions, its getting better, because I focus on transmutation of their root. I can assist clearing the energies of others through my body - always respecting the HIgher Self of everyone. Connecting to Source is one thought and holding the energy. More like be the bridge. The lower mind of the MP is not a good advisor :-) Higher Mind access through heart and deconditioning and clearing. Staying neutral and observing my upcoming emotions is the mastery, and where the magic can happen. Hope I answerd your questions.

@MsSherryl01

Жыл бұрын

@@manuela8309I resonate with your response, very much. I too live alone, not much contact with others, feel public spaces and crowds too intensely, only now beginning to understand better, why that is. Only now, beginning to own it. Recognizing it for what it is and accepting it, healing and grounding in the lovely spacious heart energy. The environment where I live is always informing, be it storm clouds over the horizon across the bay or a visiting bird, iguana, butterfly. When, as a long time practitioner of Tropical and Vedic astrologer, saw my HD chart, I think I was instantly traumatized/healed because I sensed how unusual the chart is, I shelved it for years. When I was ready and in an environment that supported greater embodying of the data, when it felt safe to go deeper, the HD system, once again came to me, by its own. I remembered it and again felt the zap of understanding, began to read how this system of analysis maps out the body’s intuition and the work of deconditioning required as well as the strategy one must employ, I think I cried. It’s all true. There is no work around. Embracing one’s own Self and the eccentricities that come with it, is the only way forward into greater healing. As an interesting side note/realization I have recently really recognized as an MP with 64/47 channel complete, I literally cannot hear what people are saying if it is not authentic, what is overriding their language is all the other data coming from their aura, body and tone of voice. If it’s truth, the language is heard and processed, if not, it’s like word salad radio dissonance between two channels . That information would have been very helpful as a child and growing young person, even young adult. I offer this in the spirit that it may help someone somewhere make sense of this particular and strange reality this MP channel may provide one who has this. To all the Mental Projectors out there, I love us too. ❤❤❤ Be well, Trust Self, give your gifts only when recognized as this is your Protection. ❤

@fsc172

9 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤. I feel validated.

I am not new to HD and I've only listened to this video of yours so far. I am not "listening" much to others by default...and I am not one to follow the heard, so I gotta say this: what you say feels and sounds true to me. The way I see the so called conditioning basically, apart from what you said, is even simpler: every interaction to anything and anyone is an opportunity for me to discover what is for me and what not. No need for judgement, cause the first sensation is usually the right answer. And man, do I feel the environment along with everything that's in it! I don't have many people to work with, but talking to animals, plants, trees, contemplating, meditating, even asking a question before going to sleep, or whenever really, and then watching for the projections showing up as an answer while I continue living my life, works like a charm. To me it is a constant process of inclusion/elimination and "taking the highway" only feels a bit weird when dealing with family. Anyways, thank you for the confirmations, sending much love your way!❤🙏

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

3 ай бұрын

What a wonderfully rich answer. Thank you for sharing Alexis. Glad my work feels good to you. Love received!

Hello, Caroline. Thankyou for developing this video. I cannot express how emotional I became while watching this. I have just discovered that I am what is known to be a "Mental Projector 1/3". Honestly, first perspective in all the labels became rubbish. But once I listened to each aspect, I could not believe for the first time I'm understood (as so often I am not). When your vessel & Intuition is telling you one thing, but others cannot relate, it's challenging on all levels. This video was a confirmation I'm in the right direction to my path. 💚🕯️🙏

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful, I'm so glad 🙌

Omg. Thank you for this.! I totally find value in recording my voice and re listening to what comes out. I’m a 4/6 mental projector with Ajna throat defined.. It has been a long road to find the people who as my advise and appreciate what I offer. 🎉

@SamanthaAlmaCHCsakanyCH-fd2jj

5 ай бұрын

Same...mental projector 4/6 Ajna/troght defined

Thank you so much for speaking with clarity and no-nonsense! It's been SO hard to find real information out there. You've helped me to get a better grip on my design. As a kid, I used to talk out loud to myself quite a lot, of course, adults told me that was the first sign of madness. Now I know I was just trying to find my truth 😂 4/6 Mental Projector

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

Yay! You're so welcome Lottie. I'm happy to be a no-nonsense influence 😁

Exactly, I think all day long and sometimes it confuses me even more. I can clearly feel the difference when my brain/ mind serves to others and myself. When I make big decisions of my life based on my brain/ mind, my life is in Chaos. Even though I was told not making decisions by my brain/ mind before already. I guess whatever can happen, will happen. I’ve learned my lessons. Thanks for the video. 😊

So good to see you on here, Caroline. I appreciate your energy and message

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

Love it. Thank you for sharing your experience, Briana. I hope many a struggling MP reads your comment, especially the final paragraph. Blessings. xx

This video was top tier. It really validated what I already knew and illustrated how I move and make decisions for myself. I’m often reminded that I’m stubborn in the eyes of others, but I know that I have to be very discerning about what “advice” comes my way. I’ve mastered the agree with everything and do my own thing energy. Haha. Btw I’m a mental projector 4/6 profile. I have the first 3 centers colored in. Where I am always learning is how to honor my need to be in the right environment. I don’t love conflict, but the older I get the clearer it has become to me that i need to be in spaces and around others that let me be authentically me. The conditioning and limiting beliefs I’ve had is that I can’t be my authentic self (it’s not safe or I assume others won’t accept it before having true evidence of that) and that’s where the mind tries to make decisions for me. You brought up very great points about letting the mind be a space for study and collecting info but not making decisions. When I feel too “heady” I like to lay down on the floor or a yoga mat and breathe deeply within my body, reconnecting to my body and releasing the pressure from my mind. In doing that, so many thoughts come to the surface, but they release and I feel better. I hope this helps someone, which is why I wanted to share all of this. Be blessed and thanks again.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

10 ай бұрын

You're welcome! And thanks for sharing. There's some really useful stuff in there that I think may well help other MPs here. Big hugs x

This video is a literal lifesaver for us mental projectors. Thank You Caroline!! Please gift us with more.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

Veronika, I'm so glad you feels so genuinely helpful for you. And can you tell me: what was it specifically that makes it feel like a "lifesaver" for you? Knowing that will help me to create more of this kind of really helpful content.

@veronikaprochotska1908

2 жыл бұрын

Dear Caroline, on multiple levels :) Your attitude towards the used terms in human design, like "no authority" and cleaning up such confusions... to differentiate between the wisdom of the truth of my own voice vs. other's projections... how important the environment is... the influence of everything around but not taking the outside opinions as the "right choice"... link of the environment and the identity center (!)... listening to how it feels in my body... that the mind is not an authority and not here to make decisions!!! That it just collects other info.... trying to talk it out to anything basically, even trees, to hear it... etc. I only have my head and anja defined, so all of this is so important and You have been able to explain in a practical realistic way, not just repeating the biased labels and cliché info, but making it actionable. I need to re-learn some human design aspects into what it really means. How to make it work for me, not limit me. Thank Youuu Caroline!!!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

@@veronikaprochotska1908 AH! What a gift. Thank you for spelling that all out for me. That is very, very helpful. And I'm so delighted that this video and my way of communicating is really coming across the way I had hoped. Bless! Happy playing! (BTW, if there are other aspects of your design you'd like to better understand that I haven't covered in a video here please do ask. I'll be happy to consider any requests).

Thank you !! This was helpful! My granddaughter is a unique being with only her ajna & throat defined and I am a reflector.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Seems it took me a whole month to get back to this comment. (Probably makes perfect sense, this speed, for your Reflector self ;) ) Glad it helped :)

Thank you so much I have been crying through this video and Appreciate so much you addressing our small percentage and weird authority ❤️6/2 mental projector who talks to trees a lot.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Awwwh, you are so welcome.

Thank you! 😻😽 I will now be taking to the animals and the trees more than I already do. As a mental projector it’s not that easy to find good people that will just listen. Especially in the spiritual world because they’re also very limited people.

Wonderful video " I am a mental projector 5/1 all three head centers defined. I feel like I am processing information all day long the time I get to relax my mind is when I return home to my beloved small studio apartment to contemplate while I stare at my backyard allowing the wind to refresh my mind and the plants to heal my soul. This video made me understand. Thank you.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

10 ай бұрын

You're so welcome! I love this.

Thank you for this great video. as a mental projector is is hard to explain hou to make decisions to others. i was laughing and crying at the same time at de moment you said "blaah'' . that is the same way i was trying to explain it to my sister. (including the hand gesture).

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

Hehe. Love it! I'm glad it's so helpful, Karen. Maybe this is a resource you can share with others to help them understand your process? If useful, feel free to share. Glad I could make you laugh ;)

Thank you for this information. I feel this deeply, especially looking back at my life. I struggle to cry and feel that this is something that is connected to this. Many thanks again 😊😊

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

6 ай бұрын

Hi Love. You're welcome. Glad it was helpful. And if you're struggling to cry I want to suggest you focus your efforts on deconditioning (I use Trauma-Informed Tapping with my clients and you can do this healing work in other ways too). Healing the wounds that caused you to stop crying will open so many of your wonderful gifts that your HD chart shows about you. ❤️

thanks you. this video was really helpful. I am a 1/3 mental projector with only 1 channel (awareness) and the right angle cross of consciousness. When people give me advice or are judgemental when talking to me it feels very constricting. It feels like they leave no space for me to talk freely and hear myself.

@virgo1195

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree 💯. I have similar issues all the time.

@cathymyers5560

Жыл бұрын

I am also a 1/3 mental projector head/ajna/throat 64-47 and 43-23! Rax consciousness 2

Thank you! This has been the most helpful explanation I've heard I'm so thankful you were so concise!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome! I'm glad you found it helpful.

My 30- year old daughter is this. And I am also a projector who only has one more energy center defined. Ajna, throat,(like her) and also the G center. I fortunately fostered her to voice her own truth from the very beginning. I'm just starting with HD and am totally hooked. Another thing to learn, yaaaaaaH! I love your style. Will most likely connect with you. Any freebees you have, I'm inviting you to send my way. :) Keep doing your amazing work!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Ай бұрын

Hi love. Thanks for your kind words. So glad you raised your daughter this way. Freebies: This channel (so subscribe :P). Email newsletter (link should be in the description). And the emails have a list of all the other free and cheap things I offer beyond coaching. Here's to your slow but steady fall into the rabbit hole of HD ;P

This made so much sense to me. Thank you!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

You're so welcome, Helena.

As a Mental Projector 5/1 Touch etc.. I have discovered my passion for teaching Manual Muscle Testing. I freaking love being me finally 😅

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

4 ай бұрын

😀

EXCELLENT video! One of the most informative, easy to understand, and positive videos I’ve seen! ✨ thank you. 3/6 mental projector ajna and throat defined. ❤️

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Ah, fabulous. Thanks, Christina. It's my pleasure to create genuinely helpful resources. 😄

Excellent, I really appreciate this video and your insight 🙏🏾

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

10 ай бұрын

Excellent. Glad it was helpful 😊

This was the most helpful interpretation of a mental projector I’ve seen. The word choice of the human design system is a huge turn off for me, I know there is nothing wrong with it on the surface but I see many flaws with how the wording might actually makes people feel. It is polarizing, and kind of an ego trap. I’ve been really interested in human design for about a year now and I am so fascinated by how oddly accurate it can be, but I haven’t been living my type really because I’m so confused about what it means to be a mental projector. I’m someone who hardly talks about myself.. This isn’t a pity party at all, but everyone in my life really likes my attention and usually talk about themselves and don’t really know how to ask questions unfortunately. It’s kind of made me lose touch with the ability to talk about myself.. but hearing you speak about how you can do it with animals, by yourself, or in nature helps. I really detested (and still do if I’m being honest) the idea that mental projectors neeeeed someone. Im very independent, despise codependent behavior, and would rather die than only be able to make a decision because some lame meat bag outside myself allowed it. Anyways, this is my thank you! It’s like permission to try living my design

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

Bless. I'm glad it really landed for you. I too struggle with the language of traditional HD but the system is so crazy accurate that I continue to use it in every single one of my relationships in every part of my life. I'm stoked that I was able to interpret it in such a way that you can really hear and feel it such that it's empowering. Thank you for saying so. I do want to share (only read on if you don't want further guidance from me...) that I think the most helpful thing YOU can do (aside from the things I suggested re. talking to animals, trees, yourself) is to actively heal old attachment wounds. I see a space, an opportunity here, for you to create new kinds of relationships where people really listen to YOU and hold space for YOU. And I'm not talking about co-dependent relationships but rather INTER-dependent relationships where there is an equal share of power, where you aren't asking permission of any 'lame meat bag' but rather having someone who genuinely cares about you and believes in you, hold space for you to find your own answers. I know this is possible because I've done it and I understand, at a deep level, how it's possible for pretty much every single human regardless of their HD configuration. But it starts with a choice: you have to decide that you deserve better and be willing to heal the parts of you that you hid behind walls in order to protect yourself. xxx

@wormofthehour

2 жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom you have a lot of good advice to give. I’m curious if you have the 48 in your chart. I think you said some things I needed to hear, and haven’t done. I’m coming from a religious scene that was very judgmental, and they didn’t really like my true thoughts very much. So I think you are right, it is time to find the people in this world who will accept me as is, but the fear in my life holds me back. I’m sure it will be a journey and a process, but I see exactly what you mean Do you have a website or offer paid readings anywhere? I’ve never bought a reading, but you seem like the type of teacher that’s more concerned about clarity than the rules. Thank you for your awareness, that was really nice of you to help me

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

@@wormofthehour I'm happy to have helped. I don't have 48 defined though I do have aspects of my chart that compel me to deeply embody what I learn (and there's lots of experiential energy in my design also!). Back to you: I'd be happy to support you. All my session offers can be found at coachingwithcaroline.as.me (they're also linked below this video in the "show more" section). I suggest you book a "Live Your Design" session as it sounds like stepping out of the religious scene and more into your authentic self with a focus on creating space for empowering relationships is the priority for you (rather than just more theoretical info). You're right, I'm definitely more interested in clarity rather than rules. I think you've had enough rules in your life, hey? Let's see what it looks like to set you free.

@wormofthehour

2 жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom okay, I will save up and buy one. You’ll be hearing from me! Thanks for sharing!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

@@wormofthehour sure! You're welcome :)

Thank you for this explanation. I appreciate you for debunking some of the terms. I’m a 6/3 MP and the rarity of this design make up has been challenging to learn about. I’m curious to know what “good” feels like in the body? Considering there’s no defined ego center this to me sounds confusing as well. I guess it would be more of a subconscious knowing or physiological feeling…. But because there’s no defined measure of “good” it can be a guessing game! Ha ha can you tell my channel of 63-4 is questioning this experience for logic and answers! Ha, anyway. Mahalo and blessings for the info

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 жыл бұрын

Ha! I like your 63-4 questions, dear rare being ;) Since I am not in your body and cannot know what it's like to be you, I can only speak to my experience. (Keep in mind, while I'm also a Projector, I have two motors defined). Here's the best answer I can give Molly: The more I heal old, past pain and allow myself to feel emotions and sensations as they arise (when I get triggered by something) the more I get to experience more health and wellness in my body. Wellness feels good. And while one person might call it feeling "safe", another might call it feeling "energised" or "calm" or "vibrant". But it's definitely a PHYSIOLOGICAL experience I'm pointing to rather than a subconscious knowing. The latter is probably coming out of you because you're an MP ;) Hope that clarifies. In short, decondition. Heal the old. Express how you're feeling. Let yourself be with what is. And you'll feel better and better over time.

GOLD!!!! Thank you 🙏

I like the way you explain..

Thanks for this video! genuinely the only one that has helped my understanding. I only have head and ajna defined, and my husband only has ajna and throat. Our household is fun 🤣.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

7 ай бұрын

LOL. Glad it was helpful! Happy to help :)

Thank you so much

Thank you for sharing this information!! Very informative and helpful. Blessings

Loved this! I’m a 1/3 so I’m SUPER into learning, data and understanding the deepest basics about life itself.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Cool YT name! How perfect for an MP!

I'm here to be influenced by the right people, but I'm my own authority and I do not need anyone to take a decision and I'm here to guide the right people, the ones that are here to influence me.🤪

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 күн бұрын

Yep!

This is so helpful, thanks so much.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

4 ай бұрын

I'm glad. you're welcome!

I am also a mental projector and I've been struggling a lot in life these last years with my emotions and some situations which caused me pain . To be able to understand how to connect the characteristics of a mental projector with how I can sort things out in my life has been a challenge for me! Even though I know a lot, I don't feel confident enough and don't feel good enough to guide others and maybe that is why I don't receive many invites. Nonetheless, HD has helped me to understand myself and why most of the times I'm a question mark for people. I recall making good choices for myself when I felt pleased in my heart with the thought of that thing. There is no relation with a thought or an argument. It just felt good, I felt compelled to do that. Also, when I meditate and I hear a voice inside my head as an instruction, that also makes me feel good and makes sense. Hope that this helps!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Hi Luana, I'm glad knowing about HD is helpful for you. I absolutely agree that HD alone doesn't solve all our problems. I've made immense progress on my "not good enough" stuff by actively deconditioning. I use and teach Trauma Informed Tapping but there are lots of ways we can do this unravelling of old junk, gently and effectively. I strongly recommend that if you're not receiving the quantity and quality of invites you'd like then focus on deconditioning. It will be a game changer for you. (I have a growing number of videos on this on this channel. Maybe have a poke around if you haven't already). And what you've said here: "I recall making good choices for myself when I felt pleased in my heart with the thought of that thing. There is no relation with a thought or an argument. It just felt good, I felt compelled to do that. Also, when I meditate and I hear a voice inside my head as an instruction, that also makes me feel good and makes sense." ...feels really clear and good in my body as I read it. THANK YOU for sharing. You've helped me get an even clearer sense of the MP process that I can never experience firsthand AND I'm sure other MPs who read through these comments may benefit as well. Happy deconditioning! ;)

@luanacanhisares5251

Жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom thank you for answering back and for the tip on deconditioning. I have been working hard on this front! Your sentence on other comments "cure your past" makes a lot of sense as well, related to the issue of being stuck on a situation, thought or idea. It is my pleasure (as you already know as projector, lol) to be able to share and add value!

Brand new to all this. Two days ago. As an MP (6-3, shores) hardly surprising I've been absorbing, learning, soaking up every scrap I can find, cycling through peaks and troughs depending on how well these insights have been being communicated. You've allayed SO many of my worries and am now feeling MUCH better. Actually this "diagnosis" 😊 explains SO much and may even stop my angst about not fitting in. I'm already feeling lighter but getting a licence to rest (I used to have to catnap but feeling guilty about almost ruined the restorative effect) is such a gift. Thankyou for the clarity you're providing. Thankyou. Did I say thank-you?

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Bless! This comment made my morning. You are so welcome 😊

Thank you for making this video😍😍

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

I want to digest this a lot more! I feel seen for the first time. I only have my Ajna and throat defined but have been conditioned to function like a Mani Geni (I think it’s my Gate 34) it feels weird to slow down or talk it out to my dog but I’m gonna give it a try! I’m a 4/6 profile, a songwriter and my channel 11-56 is making me wonder if I might be finding out the truth in the writing and recording of music and songs - that feels good to me. 🎉 thank you!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Fabulous. Yes, experiment, experiment! And I love your insights regarding songs and music. If you have any big aha's around this specifically after you've had time to experiment and digest I'd love to hear them.

Wow thank you so so much for explaining those things! I am a 4/6 mental projector with only head and ajna define! I’ve been so lost with my life and now it make total sense of why I am like that! And some of your other videos on projectors are so helpful and easy to understand!!!! You are incredible!!! I really enjoy your channel!!!! Thank you 🙏🏽🌺✨🦋

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Bless. Thank you Kind One. I'm so glad my work is reaching where it is most needed. 💓❤💖 I plan to keep making more and more resources for Projectors so make sure you're subscribed here (and if you want notifications, hit the bell to get emails when new videos are published).

Dear Caroline, I just want to let you know that the words you chose, and the way you expose things, and your dedication so visible, all are of IMMENSE help for me. I am carrying 1/4 MP design and I carefully listen to what you say, so well explained, and of support as I am studying on my own. Thank you and greetings from Italy. Pat Siddhai

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

9 ай бұрын

Bless! Glad this landed for you Pat. Thanks for your kind words :)

I'm just starting to put this into practice in my life and have a long way to go but just reserving my words until being prompted has been a major factor in the alignment of my mental health.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

"just reserving my words until being prompted has been a major factor in the alignment of my mental health." Tracy, would you be willing to say more on this? (Feel free to say 'no' if the comment section of YT doesn't feel safe enough but if it does I'd love to know what you mean by this, by way of examples if you have any, as this is likely to help other MP's watching along).

I am so grateful for this video and your peaceful energy; it´s the first time I feel clarity about the concepts re: authorities and the "mechanism" to make decisions as a mental projector (only Head and Ajna coloured). I had not quite trusted my intuition till seeing this video, but I know and agree that just speaking to my phone, trees or animals can help me to safely hear/connect with my truth :) Big hug from the UK.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful 🙏 You're so welcome. Big hug received ❤️

Our body soaks up our environment...

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

It does. So much. So it's VERY important that you"re in the right environment for you... one that FEELS really GOOD.

@ambermarie55555

Жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom I feel like I'm not in that at the moment

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

@@ambermarie55555 🙏 I understand. Make it a priority to change it if you can. And carve out time and space at the end of each day to let go of the energy that is not yours if you cannot change your environment right now.

just heard your brilliant message as a mental projector looking for more information to get started with all of this wonderful information. so, so good, thank you so much for clearing my understanding! wow, this was so clear and just blended in with my own experiences and my mind😄

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

You're so welcome! It is my pleasure to create really, truly helpful content. If you haven't already you might like to jump on the email newsletter list where I send out occasional emails with updates on all new resources. There are also two courses specifically for Projectors through my course platform. Let me know if you'd like links to either of those as a way to keep collecting info about your (brilliant) self ;)

@kristinajohligetolstoy3539

Жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom thank you! I already signed up🙏

thank you :)

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

This video about M.P. is so amazing! So clear, so simple, so...fantastic! Caroline, you are a terrific teacher! Thanks a lot! I have a "clear vision" of what mental projectors mean. I am deaf, and English is not my first language, but I use google translate (Firefox can translate CC, fantastic modern technology) for your video. And I am so proud because I am MP 6/4 with three defined centers. Rax Explanation 2 :D Lastly, I feel excellent and proud because of your talk with your energy - I received a lot of positive energy from you! Again, thank you, Caroline! P.S. Can you make a new video about the "ideal career" for M.P.?

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Bless! Zoks4Ever, your comment has made my day. I'm DELIGHTED that technology has been able to deliver the stuff inside my head and heart all the way to yours. Yay for technology. Thank you for telling me how you did this. It's great! And I'm so glad that what you received from my video made you feel really proud of yourself. That's perfect! Just what I hope for when I make videos like this. Regarding the "ideal career" for an MP... you'll have to leave that one with me. I have received your invite and I shall ponder it. The short answer is: there's no ONE ideal career and it depends a LOT on your defined gates and channels. And in your case, there will be things that are better suited to you based on not hearing ( _maybe_ roles that rely on visual, reading and/or touch). Your request is quite nuanced so in case I never get around to making a video on it, *go and study your defined gates and channels* are as they will tell you what your inherent strengths and talents are. As a Projector, you _must_ rely on your strengths and talents (and leverage the wisdom of your open centres) in order to sustainably create value in the marketplace/a job/a business/for others to pay you money. Love!

@Zoks4Ever

Жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Okay since I will just be talking talking to the wall talking to the trees to the pictures to my phone or whatever because there’s no people who are willing to listen. On the way brother who is thousands of miles away . my mother always giving me some kind of advice is which soul out of reality for me and so frustrating. This video was useful I already six years I’m in the human design and I’m so confused with myself. The biggest struggling for me that then there’s no right person right now before I head before I head to be true and they still in touch with me

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

5 ай бұрын

I strongly recommend you focus on deconditioning (with a tool like tapping) because otherwise it's easy to stay stuck. All my Projector clients make a lot more progress living their design when they actively decondition a little bit most days. (If you're not sure what I'm talking about look for my videos with the words "deconditioning" or "tapping" in the title to get you started). Good luck! It gets better when we bravely unravel the past that's still holding us back.

Any advice for a 5/1 Mental Projector with 43-23 channel and left angle cross of demands (which seems opposite of waiting for an invitation) also is this the worst chart I’ve heard I’m projected on triple

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Hey there, I don't offer advice or coaching in the comments here on KZread. If you'd like me to support you with your personal journey with HD you'll usually find links to my coaching options in the description below each video. And to be honest, I've never seen a chart I didn't like. All hope is not lost. You simply need someone to explain your chart to you in a way that feels empowering so you can see how freakin' awesome you actually are. (And as a 5/1 MP you ARE an awesome human, truly!!). So if that's me or someone else, it doesn't matter. But DO get someone, privately, or through lots of Googling if you don't have the cash, to explain your chart or the parts of your chart that make you feel amazing about being you... and then help you understand what to do with all that openness!

What about journaling as a sounding board?

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

7 ай бұрын

Sure! While it would be *better* if you could speak out loud to a human or a pet (since they won't interrupt you!) or even to one or more trees, journalling *can* work really well for some people. Give it a go! Let us know how useful you find it :)

Hi, thank you for the excellent explanation. I'm a mental projector (5/1). With a 23-43 channel connection. I have always had the feeling that others make decisions for me. Any tips for the future :)

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome. Tips: Keep learning and apply what you learn to your life.

@marsquidward

Жыл бұрын

I’m a 5/1 Mental Projector too with Ajna and throat defined and channel 43-23 and my question is what if you don’t have people to sound board with can you just verbally journal with yourself?

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

@@marsquidward I think I mentioned in the video: talk to pets, talk to trees, journal, voice memo, talk to yourself. Talking to another is better but if you don't have anyone safe to talk things out with who won't offer their (damn annoying 😅) "great advice" then those other options will be the next best thing.

Thank you for your great support. You say, that we are not here to take other people's advise but need them to listen to us. I absolutely relate to that but I'm afraid, in my life the few people that I can talk to about myself, prefer to have me listening to them. (no projectors) I had two projector friends formerly who behaved the same way and unortunately I have no pets. I always feel I have to fight to be given some space to finalise my thoughts and I think it shouldn't be this way. I keep getting interrupted, no matter how urgently I need to speak. I could be at the point of wanting to kill myself and people would still not recognise my need of being listened to. Google knows more about me than my friends.

@RainJuvoliQuest

2 ай бұрын

I hear you. If nothing and no one else, it is possible to invent an imaginary friend to talk to. Say all you need to say. Create them to ask you questions so you can answer. Record or journal your conversations. It can be comforting to look back on them. I’m a head/ajna M P and I am 70. It can be a long and lonely road. I salute your tenacity!

@MB-hw8bv

2 ай бұрын

@@RainJuvoliQuest thank you. That sounds like good idea. As a matter of fact I have already done something similar on some occasions. Simply started talking to myself out loudly when I was alone in my room or in nature and I keep journals that contain my thoughts. I'm a head/ajna M P too. Yes, very lonely road, already from early life on. Being a good listener is the quality I most value in people, as it seems to be one of the rarest ones. Not saying that I'm a pro. I salute your warm-heartendness!

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 ай бұрын

Oh, look you and two go! It warms my heart that this video is helping you find each other so that one MP might help another :) Thanks for sharing your wisdom and experience here @RainJuvoliQuest - I would never have thought of making up an imaginary friend but that sounds like a WONDERFUL resource given the lack of real humans willing to listen. I shall be sure to share this idea when I have other MP clients who may have tried all my other suggestions, who also have no family or friends willing to listen and are feeling lost and lonely. I want to make the strong recommendation @MB-hw8bv that you learn and regularly use a deconditioning tool, such as tapping. Just because this is your current experience and even if it's been your experience for a long time doesn't mean it can't change. Through focusing on deconditioning in my life my relationships, both who I attract AND how they behave with me have changed SO MUCH. Change is possible when you shift the things you believe are possible for you and your life.

@MB-hw8bv

2 ай бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom thank you. I value your advise! I have already started doing tapping sometimes, but mostly for calming down my negative emotions. It really does help with that. But I need to dive deeper into the tapping to be able to use it for deconditioning. I also started to do Dispenza Meditations. For me the hardest part is 1) becoming aware of my severest conditioning (my blind spots) and 2) entering into an elevated emotional state during meditation. I always used to say to my mother : "I would never be in a bad mood if it wasn't for the people who surround me. I'm sucking up their energy like a sponge." Long before I knew about HumanDesign. The world makes so much sense now. Thank you for motivating me, Caroline!

@MB-hw8bv

Ай бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom Dear Caroline, in some other video about mental projectors, it is stated that we do not have to de-condition, but to re-condition in the right environment. I need to reflect on it and talk to myself out loud about it for a few weeks before knowing who speaks the truth 😛

Do provide readings of charts?

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

9 ай бұрын

Hi Sara, yes I do. In the video description, (below this video) I'll find a link to the sessions I offer. I look forward to meeting you MP ;)

@sara2222

9 ай бұрын

Dear Caroline, apologies sending on this format, but could not find a way to contact you on your website. I live in England. Is there a way you can do a beginners reading at a time that I am not asleep. No worries if this is not possible.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

9 ай бұрын

​@@sara2222no worries at all. Yes, you can email me at caroline@carolinesouthwell.com and I'll walk you through the process for my UK/Europe peeps :) And if it takes me a day or two to reply it's because I'm currently travelling through Asia. Speak soon.

So you say "if you're not comfortable (in your skin) go somewhere else"...... but isn't an invite "required" for that type of change? 3/5 Mental Projector

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

Short answer: it depends. But... here's what I would say: You do not need to stay in places, spaces or relationships that are unsafe, make you feel bad, make you sick, etc. You need an invite to enter NEW things but not to LEAVE things.

@kerenstarotvision5780

Жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom really kind of you to answer. Thanks so much

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

Жыл бұрын

@@kerenstarotvision5780 welcome! Also, just recorded a YT short to speak to this. It was a good question - more people need to know how to navigate this. So thanks for asking.

@kerenstarotvision5780

Жыл бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom thans!!

🙏💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝🙏

The invitation is required to join others, not to exercise your initiative. Be true to you first. Your authenticity attracts invitations.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 ай бұрын

Just for clarity for those following along, I don't 100% agree with your perspective here friend. If Projectors, any Projector, of any configuration takes initiative without some kind of invite or some kind of recognition they'll meet resistance. And it can be really disheartening when people believe they're doing it right and then get push back from people. I totally agree about being true to yourself and that authenticity attracts invites. 100%. And *everything* in relation to other humans works better when we wait.

@RainJuvoliQuest

2 ай бұрын

I hear you, and I agree. The initiative refered 0:05 to is the initiative to leave. We do not need to be invited to stop doing things which hurt us.

@CarolineSouthwellDotCom

2 ай бұрын

@@RainJuvoliQuest - thanks for clarifying. One Hundred Percent. Yes!

@RainJuvoliQuest

2 ай бұрын

@@CarolineSouthwellDotCom Thank you for hearing me. I appreciate it.