What I've learned, as a woman, is that having a life and de-centering men will make you do everything he is saying, naturally, without even realizing that you're doing. I am a very busy woman and I also really enjoy my alone time. So I naturally create tension in my relationships with men because they can sense my ability to distance myself from them. Most of the men I try to date seem to be very emotional over me and very confused about my feelings for them. Mostly because my responsiveness is unpredictable, I am very flirty and emotionally vulnerable one day and MIA the next. But its not a game for me, its just that dating is very low on my list of priorities so its what I am doing naturally. It will take a man to REALLY stand out for me to do more or invest more. But even then, I still do less.

“Here’s the non toxic way to do this….actually okay let’s start with the toxic version.” Yes king

@riasb

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@barbarellla1553

4 ай бұрын

😂❤

crack analogy always gets me lmao

@senorita-qh6bm

4 ай бұрын

That had me dying 😭

@Princessisspoiled

4 ай бұрын

Crack analogy is top tier

@JD-gf5bk

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@MzPinkee05

20 күн бұрын

I want to be someone's crack😂😂😂

Inconsistent people are either not interested or they are playing emotional games. Don't entertain those that are emotionally immature

@a.b.creator

Ай бұрын

Not all. Some have ADHD (like myself) or abhor routine of any kind (like myself) ..and I have been complimented on my genuineness multiple times. Consistent? Not on one thing in my life 😂 those who love me understand though. 🎨

I think that all men want is to be a hero and help someone, if they can. So when your heart is tugged thru sympathy for a woman, that’s that. I know a man who actually married his neighbor because she literally showed up on his doorstep in a rainstorm wrapped in a blanket with her two toddlers huddled against her, because her boyfriend had thrown the 3 of them out of his house. If that doesn’t bring out his protective nature, don’t know what would.

"What's the one thing consistent about a crack head? Doing crack!" 😂😂😂😂 yoooo

@ladyjaz6817

13 күн бұрын

😭😭

Sounds like a mix of understanding someone's personal bias, insecurities and need for pleasure makes them fall in love. I'm not the type to exploit that or take advantage. But shits interesting. Alex did it again!

Alex we can get married for two weeks if you’d like

@florencemrwebi324

3 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

I was having a bad day until Father Alex got to the “cat” story!!! I literally spit my food out, laughing so hard😂🤣😂Thank You Father Alex for lifting my spirits up today🙏🏼🙏🏼

I really feel like it just clicks with me,the way you explain things. Honestly, I don't even really do the manipulation part. The way you explain it all just allowed me to express my emotions and stop with people pleasing and acting all nice all the time. I just sit with hiw I feel and how I want to act instead of always being the bigger person.

Ok so without going straight to hell caught me off guard 😂

You are basically Shera7s son, who rebelled and left home.

@wolfdog3226

4 ай бұрын

Lmao

@margotberche7131

4 ай бұрын

It makes me laughing ++++++

@WHaAteVaA

4 ай бұрын

he doesn't agree with her

@queennibaby9752

4 ай бұрын

I’m pretty sure Alex is a Virgo and shera is a Pisces which makes so much sense 😂😂😂

@chantalortega8270

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

This was real deep yet insightful. You killed it once again Father Alex 💯

ur work gets better and better yet it's always been top-notch ... 🙀🤯

Okay hold on because sometimes the unpredictability piece is not on purpose. I just had someone tell me “you can’t talk to me for hours one day and barely the next”…he’s like you gotta taper me down. But the reality is I’m not an everyday talker and I think I was drained but also busy. And Alexxxxx omg you are always spot on. I can always tell someone is insecure with our relationship when they start comparing or asking certain questions but then I know they actually care about the relationship…they are indicators

@bbygirl8363

4 ай бұрын

hes not good match for u if in his big age he gets mad bout it😂he doesn’t have life

I absolutely adore your accent, stances, and diction. Thankyou for sharing!

@rawfit12424

4 ай бұрын

YA tell tht to the girl in elementary school!

These contents and the way they’re delivered are awesome 😎

You just have a vibe I just cant explain it wow

Nice points, thanks for sharing your experiences. 🎉

this content is gold :)

Great vid 👌🏼

Loved this. ❤

Thank you father Alex

Watching this 1.75x it adds to him being funny

“That’s a red flag” a whole damn word!

And I’ve done the projection thing too…I thought it was chemistry or love at first sight because I felt myself falling in love as we were kissing like my soul was leaving my body, I was in a trance. But in reality I was projecting the relationship that didn’t go anywhere months before that lol but that takes self reflection

@QueeninMe

4 ай бұрын

Thisssss

@andreatorluemke4982

4 ай бұрын

Yeah you can wait on the physical stuff as a woman and preserve your discernment amen.

You’re just too intelligent ❤

10:54-57 GOLDEN editing. ps: Girl who didnt want to be touched the next day was going against herself, and hanging with a guy when she ought to have been doing her own thing next day.. since, it's not like ur living t/g.. She wasn't listening to herself. Date day, work/obligation/Personal day, date day.. Not date day and then date day, consecutively.. Tht shows she really wanted to be somewhere else tht following day.. and was choosing a guy ovr herself. Been there, done tht, bought the tshirt.

I'm not looking for a guy to fall in love with me but I do love your advice and tips for being a more independent strong person (woman) thanks ❤

@user-sm1jp4en9u

3 ай бұрын

Where is the video for being independent ?

I want to see Alex with a nice haircut and groomed beard and dressed up 😇 btw, today's vid is 💣💥 !!! 🙏🏽

@liliarohmann8707

4 ай бұрын

Yeah, me too! I bet he looks really hot dressed up!! I think is about time he does 😅

@ericabaysinger6343

4 ай бұрын

The world isn't like that anymore

@massielmena1190

4 ай бұрын

😏 Que Ridicula Ese Es Su Estilo.

@VivSees

4 ай бұрын

@@ericabaysinger6343what, well dressed people are no longer in the world?

"Everyone likes me I'm crack" - howling 😂

@staciegregorio8363

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

How to Fall in Love with a "Dark Triad Person" manual💀☝🏽

Thanks!

you are very fun and witty❤❤

Love your realness 🩵

😂😂😂Alex you’re hilarious

Basketball works for helping the self esteem and focus

IT'S LIKE A BIG SNOWBALL GAINING SPEED AND SIZE.. LISTEN TO IT. 12:14 ..Where was this adv when i was growin' up? i kno; u hear tht one all the time..

Thank you father Alex . Closing argument including Jesus 💪🏻💫

I love ❤️ this

Not Tyrone and his crew 😂😂😂😂

Yep ❤

good video

Can you tell us where to go for the meditation retreat I’d like to gooooo

Love the background music, can you link it?

kts the connection to the past issues unresolved, and wishing to resolve, but you cant resolve conflict w a new person when the conflict is a past person,,,,,,, let it go,, and move on you deserve better than to battle w the past conflicts, move forward life will always bring you better,,,,,,,,, Believe it !

How to engage in a man’s emotions!?

Id love anyone who looks like Prince ,but it fades out quickly because , his energy is unmatched 😊

A virgo is talking

haha you make me laugh so much,,,,, thanks for that,, we All know youre not closing the channel,,,,, hihihiihi cute,,, but Effective right? wink hihihihiihi you say this near the end of all of your sales pitches, sweetie,,,,,, but id love to, however im on a limited budget, and i wish n hope n pray to find a way to actually get one of your courses,,,, cos i think youre Awesome,,,,,, a rare thing,,,,, youre intellectual, love that, youre smart, well read, logical, and just an al round good person and the very best is youre Natural n true to Your Self,,,,,,,,, keep it up, sweetheart! all the very best to you may the infinite divinity, bless you beyond your expectations,,,,,,, xo Amen

❤ Narcissist Create Chemistry, Toxic people too!!! ❤ Are your Programs/ Lessons on Video?

22:30 I know for a fact that his ex's do have brown eyes and hair just like I do...does that mean that he's only projecting instead of healing or does the attraction towards me only have someone to do with his kind of type

Father Alex ❤😂

Alex ander the great!❤

@exoticallovergirl

4 ай бұрын

Alex pander the great!

Please make a video about being friends with your ex for people who dont realise how toxic that is

❤ Are you doing the Meditation Retreat Yourself?????🎉

17:15 that happened to me, he said that if soulmates exist it would have been his first ex...and I would lie if I'd say it didn't hurt

Is this a list to make them fall in love or the opposite ? Like should i be unpredictable or is that a red flag? Im confused lol

Love the toxic advice lol 😂

because the conflict is Familiar to them so they reconnect w past conflict,,,,,,,,,

💜💜💜

Will a sec w benefits ever become more

yeah that healing crap is a triple red flag

lol she used your videos against you sir 😂😂😂😂😂

truth 💣 s

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 everybody likes me I’m crackkkk u funny asf

You are responsible for letting her treat you like that so your ego hates her for it.

“Tyrone and his crew” had me screaming out loud 😂

17:30

dalexis ots not a red flag, because I'm trying to land the guy and get married!!!

♠️

What if they have ptsd? Does the consistency thing count or should they still be a crackhead even with ptsd?

@johntom5563

5 күн бұрын

Rest in peace inlove 😅

@johntom5563

5 күн бұрын

Rest in peace inlove 😅

@cherisew

5 күн бұрын

@@johntom5563 🤣

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

12:10

so insighrful

Man who likes cats is instantly better looking man.

Date bob the programmer☺️

You are so cute

ALEX thats one big chocolate bar behind you..yum.

Is chemistry a sexual attraction thing or how you two talk?

@annyespinal8077

4 ай бұрын

I think how you talk is connection, but I’m not sure , it’s just what I feel

@catcat9582

4 ай бұрын

@annyespinal8077 yea I can't tell either. Ik you can have extreme sparks w someone but the convos are awl or suck

@mahtabart63

4 ай бұрын

Sexual chemistry is what we feel for a person we want to be intimate with. When this is an in-person experience, it's believed that we are responding to the person's pheromones, the hormones that help us understand how someone will be as a mate

@moniqueford9173

4 ай бұрын

Both…but usually starts sexually then speaking the same language

@gallagalina6259

4 ай бұрын

It's something as a magnet attraction and immediate understanding of small movements and half words from both sides...

Nice 🛏️

These games are toxic , please spare yourselves. Triangulation is used by narcissistic abusers

Father Alex, I thought you practice polyamory. Why were you upset with the thought of your girl having another man in her house?😂

that's not what a trauma bond is, very misinformation

I know this is great advice but I can't watch a 33 min video 😂

@Tnc874

4 ай бұрын

Speed it up

@sid_heat 1 day ago “Here’s the non toxic way to do this….actually okay let’s start with the toxic version.” Yes king HAHAHA!