I’ve been a counselor since 2007 and Must tell you he is spot on. It doesn’t matter what you’re identifying as, we are wired differently, still two brains Mars and Venus. Read the book it’s still gold. Nice video though

5 point important point that everyone can benefit from 1.Don't give unsolicited advice 2.Understand people need space sometimes 3.Listen to people when they alk 4.It's the little thing that count 5.When someone is upset,don't take words literally-try to understand underlying issue

@TheBillaro

Жыл бұрын

god bless you

John Gray's book has been very accurate with my experiences with men as well as my own behavior. He has taught me how to grow.

@TheKarthik1310

7 жыл бұрын

do u read books

@Lisa_M_V

6 жыл бұрын

Gwen Bell he’s a GENIUS. If only most people took the time to read this the divorce rate in the western world wouldn’t be at 80%!! Shocking

@sivvu_siv

4 жыл бұрын

@@Lisa_M_V 80% 😲

@dayanafigueroajimenez6640

4 жыл бұрын

Excellent video content! Forgive me for chiming in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you heard the talk about - Lammywalness Beautiful Marriage Guide (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a good one of a kind guide for learning how to find a husband minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend Sam at very last got astronomical results with it.

@mykasiurka

4 жыл бұрын

Cheers for the Video clip! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Lammywalness Beautiful Marriage Guide (do a google search)? It is a good one off guide for learning how to find a husband without the hard work. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my close friend Aubrey got amazing results with it.

A generalization is not automatically stereotyping. The exception DOES NOT override the general.

@OnePercentBetter

7 жыл бұрын

?

@dylang2255

7 жыл бұрын

OnePercentBetter Behavior of a group of people will reveal trends of common traits, this is a fact. Men and women are generally different and this is seen in all species. At the same time of course we are both human.

@xmanhall360

4 жыл бұрын

I love that saying.

@yenesisvillalobos7048

4 жыл бұрын

Excellent Video clip! Forgive me for butting in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you heard about - Lammywalness His Happiness Guide (google it)? It is an awesome exclusive guide for understanding what men really want minus the headache. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my mate after a lifetime of fighting got amazing success with it.

@betheltylor9010

4 жыл бұрын

Kudos for the video content! Forgive me for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you tried - Lammywalness Beautiful Marriage Guide (do a google search)? It is a smashing exclusive guide for learning how to find a husband without the normal expense. Ive heard some super things about it and my cooworker at last got cool results with it.

The book has been one of the most influential reads I've done in my life. Great video

This book helped me understand things about men that I did not before: 🔥men pulling away and needing space from time to time. 🔥men wanting acknowledgment as women want empathy these differences were so big to understand but I am trying to remember these consciously. thanks for the great video bro

@wallflowers6489

3 жыл бұрын

오 한국인 분이시네요 신기하네요 ㅎㅎ

For me, this book is the bible for relationships. I have much respect for Dr. Gray and his work. Thank you for this video. 😊

I read this book about 2 years ago and i just LOVE the solutions mentioned in the book. So practical. I have seen couples having issues that are described in the book. How could one say it's not worth to read? I have tried a few lessons given and they worked. I think every lesson worth a million if it really improves your life and it DID !!! One of my Favorite books. I highly recommend to everyone.

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

I'm glad it has helped you Shazia. If its working for you than that is fantastic!

This book saved my parents marriage. And I'm glad I have read this book because it has helped me tremendoulusly not to snap at women and take them literally as I used to. In fact I gave this book to my gf and she is far more understanding now. I would say this is the greatest love advice to come out in the pre-SJW-everything-is-gay-dont-offened-me-with-violent-language-diversity-over-integrity generation the millenials have brought about.

@josef.torrealba6992

4 жыл бұрын

Kudos for the Video! Sorry for butting in, I would love your thoughts. Have you thought about - Lammywalness Beautiful Marriage Guide (do a google search)? It is a good exclusive guide for learning how to find a husband without the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my friend at last got great success with it.

This book helped me a lot especially after engagement...we got married after one year..and even now I can totally understand him and also our life is wonderful 😊

@SlothGaming

5 ай бұрын

Still happy and together?

This book is still relevant 30yrs later, and should be required reading for people who are seriously interested in dating with a purpose 👍🏾👍🏾

Straightforward , accurate , excellent

Anthony Robbins: The most important factor in a relationship is consciously choosing your mate before you get into the relationship. Start by making a list of what you seek in a partner. Then underline your must's. Last, ask yourself: What type of person would I have to become to attract that partner, then set about becoming that person. Men are From Mars women are from Venus Will not help much if you are simply with the wrong partner.

@OnePercentBetter

7 жыл бұрын

@mk9179

5 жыл бұрын

I do not agree with him. First, he has divorced once. Secondly, after you found the one you think she is perfect for you, and after you got into relationship with her, it is very probably you will find her completely different comparing her before a relationship with you, because she now needs and sees you in another way, and at that point you come back and take the advice of this book to make your relationship better.

@priyankatheartist8643

5 жыл бұрын

well said

@dika_hilman

4 жыл бұрын

I agree. The book won't work unless you accept your partner as the way they are

@ninavorobeva4927

4 жыл бұрын

So you're saying that once you are with the right person, you will never have any misunderstanding with your loved one? No. This book is not about finding the right person, it's about gender differences, that's all.

This book has been super super helpful with my relationship. Most of the generalizations he makes have been true with my girlfriend and I.

Thanks! I appreciate the effort you've probably taken to make this video.

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

I probably did use some form of effort to make the video xD Thanks David! More to come.

You did a great job brother.....Loved every bit of the video especially last part for advice. Keep going 😃

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Im glad to hear Roshan. More videos on the way! -Brandon

First time viewer and I had to subscribe! Finished this book last week and while it may be outdated it is still filled with great knowledge like you said! I seriously consider this a good book that can help many relationships

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Try it out, see what works, see what doesn't, and you can't go wrong :) I'm glad you benefited. Welcome to the channel! -Brandon

@leoncharles1431

2 жыл бұрын

read the book " who moved my cheese" by Spencer Johnson you will love it

This is so accurate to my relationship, its scary! I feel I am very understanding when it comes to my boyfriends needs, he needs space, doesn't understand the underlying meanings etc. I certainly will try to make him watch this and take into account the things said in hope of improving our relationship. The problems in our relationship are basically the ones listed in the video! Hope it all works out, thanks for the help

@arminius6506

3 жыл бұрын

Well many of us are aware of underlying meanings but most of the time we're too tired and exhausted (because of work or other probles) to dig deeper, just choose better time to be poetic 😉

I love your review. I have watched this video several times and today just recommended to my daughter. I like how you explain the book and also the valuation and I think it's very constructive and positive.

Amazing summary at the end , thank you

Thank you for taking the time to explain the book

I've noticed there's 2 reactions to this book: "This book is evil and sexist!" "This book has saved my marriage!" Lmfao

@zzzzzz-zv9ev

Жыл бұрын

99% of woman dont knoe what the f..they want in ther life so they are pathetic and misrable ..they dont know how to coup with stress for them all is men falt they cant control ther fealings and cant undrstand shit moust of the time ..in short they are only capeble of spewing shit how other need to live and they them selfe dont know how to live so they buy all kinde of shit to make them happy and still dos not make them happy ..they want men to reed ther minde but they have nothing to read about if woman and men are book woman wood be title and story wood be men ..in short if they are not shown the way they dont know what they are or to do if they dont finde a men by 30-40 they get 10 cats and become biter and angry whole life they dont know wtf they want or who the f .they are we think they are weak i say they are predators pretending to be weak . They live a weak life whit ful of hatrede thats why no woman likes other woman and they think men is a posesion of hers.. They cant invent anything they can only mimic thats how they go true life copying other woman and espesely men .. We can see that in history espesly last 100 years you can see they didnt invent 1 thing becos they dont have brain capacity to create yust copy .. You can be ofended but its true all 1000%

@Malitubee

Жыл бұрын

And I swear there’s no in between lol

Great job! Really enjoyed this

I've never read this book, but i'll add it to my list. Great presentation!

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Cheers :) :D :]

@phoebelane4305

7 жыл бұрын

+OnePercentBetter l a'm a

Great video bud. I learned a lot. Great little bit at the end about your personal takeaways

I have read this book recently and find it so relatable. What we see as correct attitude apparently is not the case. Overall, its a fun read and a great learning experience

I think this book is also useful, because as a woman now I know how hard it is for some man to understand my approach and behaviour during an argument. It'll help a lot in my business and private life too.

Thanx, I liked the book itself. Summary was also good. : )

The man is a genius. I apply all his advice and it works extremely well 🤗

@gabrielmr088

4 жыл бұрын

Nice Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you considered - Lammywalness Beautiful Marriage Guide (google it)? It is an awesome one off product for learning how to find a husband minus the headache. Ive heard some great things about it and my cousin got astronomical results with it.

@tusseriesfavoritas7441

4 жыл бұрын

Cheers for the video content! Forgive me for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Lammywalness Beautiful Marriage Guide (just google it)? It is a good one of a kind product for learning how to find a husband minus the headache. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate after many years got great success with it.

@leoncharles1431

2 жыл бұрын

@@gabrielmr088 are you a robot? lol

@gabrielmr088

2 жыл бұрын

@@leoncharles1431 no lol

thankx for givng us your precious time

@OnePercentBetter

7 жыл бұрын

Likewise Kazim.

super chill how you make this!! it helps me a lot understanding! *,* from the netherlands!

Great. You explained well and it's helping actually.

Thank you so much for this video

Awesome video! Your videos are getting super interesting :)

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Thanks I appreciate it :) Out of interest, Are you in a relationship in which you can apply these lessons?

@PracticalPsychologyTips

8 жыл бұрын

+OnePercentBetter Definitely

@caroledore5136

Жыл бұрын

Comment parler à un homme notre besoin

thank you for letting me see another persons perspective and good work on the video

@OnePercentBetter

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you Panda -Brandon

와 감사합니다 정말 책을 이해하는데 도움되었어요~!! 속도를 내리고 들으니 좋게요 감사합니다

Good job summing it up

Hey all! I read this around a year ago. I've found its helped me a bunch! As I state at the end, take the advice objectively for best results. Let me know what you think. -Brandon

@naveenkumars1110

7 жыл бұрын

Really Awesome man... You are doing really great .I luvd everything in this video .Gave great understanding of this book, Keep on doing like this. Wishing and Thanking you in advance...

@yuvrajsahu2783

5 жыл бұрын

Please review about girls fact book... ❤

@inelsclassics4378

3 жыл бұрын

Then why were you trying to thrash the book towards the end of your video?

John Gray is the master at relationships! Congratulations to him and his wife Lin Wang on their marriage May 4, 2020. He never knew his true soul mate we be so close to him. (Lin was his tour guide and translator in China for many years). All of his books and teachings have led to this beautiful relationship. And they are growing family!

Very beautifully put👌👌👌

Great video man!

I enjoyed John Gray's points a lot, it describes feminity and masculinity in respectful and insightful ways

That video just made my day... and night :D :) Thanks!

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

:D :D

Very good summary

you rock!!! this is a deep one!!!

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

A deep one indeed Cosimo :)

Really good video, I read the book a few months ago, but I feel that this book is a little bit outdated but still has some good advice like the one you mentioned. Great Video!!

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Have tried any of these lessons out?

@Prim3Pursuits

8 жыл бұрын

+OnePercentBetter The best one that I took from the book was probably to not take a woman's word literally, but instead I look at her body language and hear her tone, to understand what she means.

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

+LonelyBookaneer Oath to the tone of voice! Over the past 2 years Ive found my girl's tone of voice reveals everything. We were playing a trivia card game the other day and she wpuld read out 3 possible answers to me. By paying attention, I noticed she would put less emphasis on the two answers that weren't right, which would leave me with the correct answer! In real life situations when she asks something like - "Brandon, do you want go to the movies, or the beach?" She already knows exactly what she wants but its up to me to pick the right one xD I listen to her tone of voice yet again, and the order in which she says the options. I swear she always says her perference as the first option... Hehe, girls are funny.

It is very nicely explained,

@OnePercentBetter

7 жыл бұрын

I'm glad. :)

thanks for the video!

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

and thank YOU for watching karim! More to come :D -Brandon

Thankuu so much I really appreciate your efforts ♥️

👍🏻Thanks for the logical advice

thanks for compilatIon man

@OnePercentBetter

7 жыл бұрын

Ya welcome

I found that helpful thank you 😉

I love ur channel. Helps me in saving a lot of tym

Even i can relate to this book and the best thing to your video thanks a lot for this video and its really really helpful 😊

Hey I am very much interested in watching your videos. It is very helpful to me not only me to the all. You are doing good job by posting such videos which make us understand the content in book within 10 minutes. You are my hero. I am very much fascinated about your life and your experiences. Please do make video regarding your life and life experiences.

You should do a book review on a book that talks about emotional needs. Btw you accent is awesome!

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the reccomendation! I can't think of one I've read that covers emotional needs but I'll consider it for a future video

Awesome.

I always need space from everyone including my family. 24/7. I'm social.when i have to be or when the time comes but damn I spending time with people when i should be by myself learning and doing what i love.

Thanks a lot

Awesome video brother! :)

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Thanks Vic, can't wait for your next one :P

I'm smiling. Thank you.♥️

very well said :)

This is very good^^

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you like it Vesle. Stay well! -Brandon

Thank you💚

Thank you.

love it!

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

great video. 👍

Awesome......

This video is wonderful... I like Your videos

Thank you, سوپاس

This book improved my relationship from 0 to 60! Damn.

Lovely video sir !!!

@OnePercentBetter

7 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it Aakash!

@aakashwallpaperworks

7 жыл бұрын

+OnePercentBetter My pleasure sir

Great book for relationship study😁

You are awesome! I would like to talk to you about some training.

love the book!! it's amazing!!

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

Thank you for this brief on the book. I am reading it now for the first time have avoided because thought it generalised too much. However would agree with common behaviour differences. Though I have known men who would talk all day long so they obviously feel this need too not just women. I like the main points you made as in some ways this book is more complicated than it needs to be. Peoples attitudes can really have a big affect in any relationship not just close relationships which I don't think John Gray goes into.

I find the advices you listed at the end more simple and realstic and they apply to both genders

GREAT

Holy cow, thats a lot of work....

thanks, it realize me a bit ;)

Good video. Which software are you using to create these video? Working all by yourself or taking help? Good wishes from India.

@LokeshRankaSubscribe

7 жыл бұрын

thanks

Good read. Most of the points stated are very relatable but it focuses on what men should do and accommodate rather than what the women should do. Nevertheless, this book will help me in my relationship.

It helped.

wow dud u are doing a great things

One of the Best song ever heard....

It helped

this is great, It's so interesting, I hope some men read this book...

@calsitup

7 жыл бұрын

I hope some women read this book too. would be interesting to know how many men and women have read this book.

this video is amazing ,

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you you loved it Sana :)

@sanadarekhan6014

8 жыл бұрын

+OnePercentBetter i also the video of who moved my cheese, that video helped me alot, Thank You

@sanadarekhan6014

8 жыл бұрын

+Sana Darekhan saw*

@OnePercentBetter

8 жыл бұрын

Fantastic, I really love to hear that. Let me know if there is anything I can do to improve my videos so you can benefit from them even more! All the best with your ventures.

@sanadarekhan6014

8 жыл бұрын

+OnePercentBetter i think You just keep on uploading such type of videos, it is very helpful and easy to understand the overall concept

God bless you bro

Generalization is not always a negative connotation , men and women are different even if some individuals can crossover

Those rules are similar to the book The Four Agreements.

This book along with the Rational Male books make a good compliment to each other 📚👍

I am feminist but agree with most of the information in this book. Definitely worth a read!!

First time seeing this but one thing I don't understand is when my wife and I argues if I stay quiet she gets even more paranoid because I'm not talking back to her 🤔

What about attitudes ? We choose to have attitudes and expect others to deal with it. No one has to put up with someone with a bad attitude.

Can u plz tell the beautiful lullaby song name

The five things you listed at the end apply to everyone.

U r awesome... ❤💙❤👍👌

@OnePercentBetter

5 жыл бұрын

solution for all my problems lies here.! thank you....

I agree with john grey