I tell my kids what sex is and when and with whom it suppose to be with. They know what personal space is and what molestation, grooming is. I made them understand that predetors can be family member, pastor, dr or even police officer or teacher. They are teens now but we had this conversation with them since they were old enough to understand. It's just conversations we need to have with our kids and more then anything they should Never feel like they won't be believe. May God continue to touch this young lady.

@ladyqngomane

9 ай бұрын

I will definitely teach my kids as well.

@nonkululekokgomo9452

5 ай бұрын

at what age do you think is the right age to tell them what really sex is?

@tinychefness3546

5 ай бұрын

That answer lies in asking yourself what age children are molested. This evil people don't care how old a child is. So we stared of telling our from age 3. The key is to use age fitting words. Mine are now teen and its soo easy to talk about this things. So what I would say, tell yours about their privates and that know one is to touch it. Help them to understand what that person may say to them and that should never believe them. Those who are closer to kids like family members can manipulate them to believe if they tell this and that will happen to them. Make them aware of those kind of things. Tell them about personal space and how that should look like. Let them know that there are people like nurse and doctors that might touch their privates for the right reasons but that will be in your presents. We are living in a world that docs are also caught in hospitals with these kind of things. Remember sex is God ordained but Satan has made it what it is today and we can not even be open to our kids about it, never. There is a saying ,if you don't tell your kids about sex, what and when its meant for Satan will do it for you. I don't know about you but I cant let what happened to me happen to my kids. Hope this answer helps @@nonkululekokgomo9452

I love her already..she is so well spoken❤

Your story just made me realise that I need to pause everything in my life too …be admitted at psychiatric institutions as well 🥹…there’s so much wounds in me that I keep on avoiding n pretending all strong

@nqobilenokulunga1368

9 ай бұрын

Sending some love bro❤️

Powerful woman, Keep going Rochelle, it is well with you

She’s so beautiful, so well spoken may God give you strength to heal

@yolisamrso9827

4 ай бұрын

Hence the devil is attacking her left right and centre

Her accent is to die for. God has been with u dear.

You are so strong baby girl, May God bless you

Tears run down my face as I watch this🥺 and I ask myself where did you get the strength to endure all of those adversities with immense fortitude? The story is triggering but needed to be told and heard. 🥺 Because there is no greater agony than an untold story ❤️

I hate how the body shuts down in these situation

wow, Rochelle is so brave. I've drawn strength n courage from watching n listening to u girl. U really have been through the most, n look at how gracefully u still carry urself n tell ur story. AND how big ur dreams are.......ure an inspiration !!!!? Congratulations Rochelle

not me finding out we go to the same uni. Thank you for sharing your story❤❤

She is so pretty, intelligent and eloquent.I love how she carefully phrases her sentences.God Bless,you'll go places.And that scoundrel may the Lord deal with him until he repents and confesses.He needs to be exposed,hes an animal

You are so so brave, starring over is for champions 💪

Yohh I hate the spirit of rape 😭😭😭😭😭😭May the good Lord protect all the women from this spirit

@yolisamrso9827

4 ай бұрын

Its a wicked spirit

Girl you are brave. Well done

She is so pretty 😍😍😍😍🥺🥺🥺

I love this girl's energy,❤️❤️🔥

Thanks!Early gang it is🎉🎉

Such a triggering story but it makes me happy to see that she conquered. She carried the story so gracefully even though she didn’t have to. Proud of you sis!!! You are doing so well❤️❤️

Does the guest have a tiktok account or You Tube. She is well spoken and needs to get that voice out there...

@tsholofelomonamodi5163

9 ай бұрын

i agree with you 1000%

Part 2

May you heal. It takes time. Be patient with yourself 😍😍

Hugs😢

This is really sad

But rape is the devil 👿, the aftermath it’s like the perpetrator killed u alive alot of ppl don recover with this

What happened to this girl is what is currently happening in my life 😢

@nomthandazomsenga2948

10 ай бұрын

So sorry, May God heal you🤗

@hopeSue

10 ай бұрын

Sending you hugs and God's comfort

@frostedwindows1

10 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ May you receive healing

One of the twins had flue, by the sound of their voice

No guys don't mean to judge, can we normalize screaming and letting us know when we are in trouble Hearing this makes me to know this guy thought he was in relationship with this beautiful gal and that je was permitted do what he did

@khosiethabekhulu3497

10 ай бұрын

How do you pin down someone that you are in a relationship with? I know some guys like this guy. They are low-key rapists. I once ran away from someone like this and that person was family. He asked me if I was still a virgin and that time we were alone in the house. I pretended not to hear and acted as if I had something to do outside. The other one used to say that I have big thighs. I was very scared of both of them.... I couldn't tell anyone because they were family. And I know how family rapists are protected. They usually send them away or nothing is reported or done.

@zotandomtsana3994

8 ай бұрын

Response to shock sweety its natural you don't chose to clibe the highest fence that you wouldn't clibe under normal circumstances.... for us who freeze you hate/judge ur self wena self for not screaming and it was absolutely not up to u.....

@yolisamrso9827

4 ай бұрын

No this guy knew that he was raping her. He planned everything from the get go...the music was to disrupt her so that people will not hear noise should she scream...If you hear the story the guy seems like an old man respected by the comminity and family. We people behave differently when you are caught off guard and shocked something you never expected. In the moment of shock everything looks surreal, you are still digesting the fact that is this real happening to me, you are still processing it.

@Yongamam

4 ай бұрын

I agree with u i am sorry for what happened to her i dont mean to judge but i wish she would have screamed at that age atleast ur older but u know again i am not in her shoes that didnt happen to me so i cannot judge.

I just don't like the part where she kept the name of the person from her parents! I don't understand 😭

😢

😭All l can say is there is nothing too hard for God, that chap has to 😔 face jail. P

😭😭😭 oh maan

And that someone is me😢…

😕

She is beautiful

That guy must be arrested, wjo knows how many girls are his victims 😢😢

AG MAAN the PART OF A RAPE😭😭😭😭😭😭😭HIT ME SO HARD AS MOTHER... JESUS MUST COME AND LISTEN TO THIS🤞 AFRICAH

Marriage is not for kids...Enter in your own risk....If you dont know God you will not know how to handle marriage..

First to comment..🎉🎉🎉🎉

Awesome video and lovely legd ❤

But rape is the devil 👿, the aftermath it’s like the perpetrator killed u alive alot of ppl don recover with this