Oof, I can't decide on the fabric... i'm just gonna get both 😆

@vanessahinds8320

2 жыл бұрын

That’s what I would do! So precious! Yay Kieran!!! I’m so glad he’s flipped back!

@Chronically_Kimberly

2 жыл бұрын

I like the animals. But both would be good too.

@marydanielle7183

2 жыл бұрын

i was gonna say... why not both xD

@wlsncthrn

2 жыл бұрын

I was going to say the same thing.

@beckybattle6089

2 жыл бұрын

I was going to day both. They are all so cute so it was near impossible to choose.

I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself. It's hard, especially against someone whose in a position of authority like a doctor. You deserve to have the type of care you want and to feel comfortable. Fire away! You do not have to put a doctor's ego above you're mental health and happiness.

@rebeccahylant7695

2 жыл бұрын

Both

@canadianmum2040

2 жыл бұрын

Well put and agree 100%♥️

I am a nurse and I also spent 3 months on strict bed rest and many medications in the hospital with both of my pregnancies. Before I was pregnant, I had never been a patient in the hospital before. I found the whole experience so eye opening. The biggest thing I noticed is how I had so little control over anything as a patient. The drs and nurses decide so many things for you. When you eat, time of tests, blood draws, visitors, showers, etc. I remember the kind of day I was going to have was decided on by if I had my favorite nurses or not. Some of my nurses were very strict and they were very condescending. I am SO proud of you for advocating for yourself. I was the exact same way. I didn’t want to be any trouble, especially being a nurse, I felt like I really had to be a good sport about all of it. I too, did it at cost of my own well-being. I know it wasn’t easy for you, it must have been so difficult but you absolutely did the right thing. It’s just the beginning of many things to come for you as you will have to advocate in many situations for your son throughout his life as his mom. My experience made me a much better nurse. I am so impressed by you. You are one tough woman. I look back at my time in the hospital as a very special experience that you will treasure forever. Hang in there. You are doing SO well. ❤️

I love the animal themes better. So happy you have a support group of friends who have also had still births. So happy to see Rachelle and Justin’s newest arrival. Glad you had her videos to help you work through. So excited for the day you hold baby Kieran in your arms.

Can’t wait to see the beautiful boy you’re going to have, Stefanie. I had a son (35 years ago) and I can’t possibly describe how much I adore that boy! My husband passed away ten years ago and the very little family we have left, live in another continent. So he and I are a great team…we are each other’s compass - and anchor! I believe the dynamic between a mother and a son is very special indeed. So…welcome to the wonderful world of baby boys! ❤️

Your friends who have lost baby's, you all speak the same language of true understanding of your losses , you have walked the the walk in life , and forms a bond and makes such beautiful friendships wishing all your friends safe pregnancy and safe deliverys .

He’s the cutest! Those ultrasound moments are amazing. Ask for a 3D one. Some techs will do it if you are nice to them. I had so many ultrasound photos 21 , I believe. Asking help when needed is very important. I had a hard time asking for help too. I drove myself to my doctor at 34 weeks, I had an emergency c section due to preeclampsia, i had no one in the hospital with me as support, I had my baby in the NICU for 12 days during Christmas of 2019, and I drove us back to a friend’s house because we were homeless then (because of her biological father). I didn’t ask for help until my baby was born. I’m glad I did. I was in an abusive relationship and her father didn’t even want to see her after a month. We have a no contact order for 5 years now, thank God. I asked for help for me and her, and now, I’m glad we are safe. If I didn’t do that, we could have been worse off, or have been hurt bad. I leaned to ask for help as soon as my baby was born. No one will deny help for a baby. When Lizzy was born, I learned to advocate for us. I knew there was help. She is my rainbow baby, and the only one I can have (I’m 44). 5 miscarriages, three I delivered after 13 weeks. When I held that baby, I knew I can do anything. I will fight for my safety. I was important too, because the baby needs me. My therapist on our current EMDR sessions told me to see myself as my version of when I was a little girl. She said, take care of that little girl, like you are caring for your daughter. A lot of self compassion and self forgiveness is what I learned. Asking for help gave me and my daughter a better life. I also learned that when you ask for help, and the person said no, it’s not about you being denied. They are choosing themselves, and that’s acceptable, and there’s always someone else who will say yes. Love and hugs to you.

Every update is such a joy. I can't imagine how you are so positive through all of this. Also, you should never have to defend yourself for advocating for your health. So many people have never been in your shoes, myself included.

@lynnabbott9777

2 жыл бұрын

Happy Day! Good news all around, for your friend and for Kieran. What a joyful start to this day! 💙🧡💙

I hate when people say "get over it and move on". You never get over losing a loved one much less a baby at any stage of life. Time doesn't heal; it only allows us to "deal" with things in our on way. The way you and Cameron are dealing with the loss of your daughter "is" the best way for you so for all those people that don't like it....go some where else! I am glad you are including your daughter in things. It will allow your son to know that he had a sister. He may have questions about her later on. Many prayers and blessings for you and your family.

You may not know it but, you are a very strong woman. Little man is so lucky to be getting you for a mother. I know the two of you will always have a close relationship. I too have a difficult time asking for help, and I never think ,” why me”, I always think “why not me”.

Oh my, Kieran is sooo cute! I just love seeing his little face so clearly! And, speaking of unconditional love, that's what I have for you. We are very much alike, even though I'm decades older. I still have trouble speaking up for myself, but never hesitate to advocate for others. I wish that Facebook support groups had been around during the time of my losses. That is so wonderful that you have connected with these others. I'm so happy that you had an uplifting day! Sending you a virtual hug and lots of love!🤗💜🫂

Good morning, I completely understand what you are saying. Givers are often self care people and have a very hard time speaking up or asking for anything for themselves. When you share something so unexplainable no words are needed. Only those that have had the same situation can know your heart. Both of the fabrics are beautiful. Stars. Look that strong busy baby. So exciting. You are so awesome . Enjoy all these wonderful things that are happening. He is doing so good. Head down. Thank goodness. Until next time. Hugs & good wishes.

I think it’s inspiring to see you advocate for yourself without having to assert yourself a lot or confrontation. It is an admirable quality❤️ I think I know what you mean… I used to be a home care worker, and cared for someone in a hospital bed for 12 hours a day for a few months. So when I had to be the one on the hospital bed while I was getting induced for the stillbirth of my daughter, I still felt like I shouldn’t be the one being cared for. I shouldn’t be on the other side of that patient table. Even when I was in the ER because this flu wouldn’t let me keep anything down, my husband encouraged me to speak up more and ask him for what I need. It’s hard. But doable☺️ Speaking of finding people that “just get it”, I have my first Pregnancy after Loss support group online tonight.

Girl, get all of those patterns! And don't listen to the naysayers. You've been through SO much and you know what you need in your life and your baby's life. The hospital staff is there to serve YOUR needs, not the other way around. So excited for you and glad you're feeling okay.

Omg little man showing off during your ultrasound was just amazing he’s so cute. 😻

Omg!! It was a good day. Im so glad to hear all your new news!! It was good to hear your thoughts. Isn't it amazing how fond we become of some we've never met? I sometimes think of how similar we are in nature ....im not sure why you've become important to me but I pray for you daily and know you are special. Oh...btw ..voting for the animal print flannel. Wouldn't the tiny flowered one need something else for detail on it? Kinda bland? Be safe. Take ❤ care

I know all pregnancies are different, and all babies and mommies are different.... With that said, I wanted to acknowledge your gestation - *30 weeks!!!!* That’s absolutely awesome 👏🏻 I had early labor with my last son on the day I turned 28 weeks- was hospitalised and went through many horrible but successful measures to stop labor. We got the injections on also for his lungs and they needed a good 2 weeks to be helpful. We made it to exactly 30weeks before it started again without any hope of stopping again. He was 2lb9oz. He only needed some oxygen support for about a week. He spent another 3 weeks working on growing-holding his own heat, learning to eat and expend less energy eating than he ate. He has had no problems and is now a happy,healthy 22 yr old. You’ve got this!!!

Im almost 75. Been watching you for a few months. Love to follow your sweet adventures, and I’m rooting for you and your family all the way. You have often looked very familiar to me, and I’ve wondered who you remind me of….well, I figured it out, finally. It’s me….a very long time ago. I looked very much like you in my youth. Very similar features. Go figure.

I’m so excited for you, and thankful for you for your sharing your precious journey. I lost my daughter (5 months old at the time) to a distracted driver - she would be 6 years old on Aug 15th. When my rainbow baby came in May of 2018 - my world got bright again and I saw so much hope and light. Nothing will take away the loss, heartache, and extraordinarily painful journey of child loss - but these rainbows make the world worth living, and living fully.

I am amazed by how you two are handling this pregnancy. I saw all the videos and I could feel all the joy and the excitment for this little guy and also the grief for his big sister and it amazes me. Don't get me wrong, even if you were anxious all the time or couldn't enjoy the pregnancy until is over and the baby is born you're still amazing and people who deal with this are amazing no matter what. But it's amazing to hear you both sharing your story. I have a special place in my heart for both of you and I'm sure you will enjoy this little man as you enjoy your pregnancy and his sister pregnancy. It's just because you decided to share it, because you put a voice in a matter that no many can hear about it. Because whether people want it or not, it doesn't matter, all it matters is that she is his big sister and you more than anyone know that. No matter what horrible people do or say, you are strong and happy and GET loss, and you don't SHAME loss, no matter which kind of loss you grieve: babies, grandfathers, cats, whatever. All of these matter for people with kind hearts and capable to feel and share love and receive it and of course you're gonna mourn and grief and it doesn't have an end, I take it like you, I see grief as a process that goes with you as waves. Sometimes are super strong, another times you can cope with it. You just go with it and learn to surf them but knowing that they will always be there because someone super special went to another place, whatever that place it is. And knowing , altrough grief is forever, that you loved one will always love you no matter what and take care of you in your heart and in anyway possible. Because she, in your case, is there, taking care of you and his little brother. And to hell with all of the people who "love" to hate. That's the only love they can handle, just hate. I pitty them, really, because they are unhappy people who want to spread misery and hate. I know it hurts to read it or hear it and maybe my advice is crap but try to read and hear the people who admire you and love you and have, trough your history in this channel, learned to love you and appreciate you. I send you big hugs and kisses from Uruguay. I'm so expectant for his arrival lol I open youtube everyday! But yeah, wishing always to find you pregnant at least until 34 weeks! You keep it going, you are doing great!

I'm so proud of you advocating for yourself and baby, there is nothing wrong of standing up for yourself, you don't need to defend yourself or explain anything to anyone, it is none of our business, you only need to share what you feel comfortable with and those rude asses giving you a hard time, can go get a life, obviously their lives are not happy or they wouldn't be attacking you. You go girl, you keep doing you. It's a beautiful thing when your rainbow babies are born.

YAY!!! Keep on doing well Stephanie and Kieran!

I feel so happy seeing every time you upload! Found you guys recently and after what you have gone through with your daughter I’m so happy to see you feel so positive 💕💕

Oh my gosh sweetheart, I totally get you. But you are in the hospital for a reason! Nurses are amazing people for the most part. They are there to take care of you. Getting you and Kieran to a healthy delivery date is the goal. We all are so excited for you and Kameron. Hang in there mama and let them spoil you💖

Amazing news about your friend and Kieran, yay! I feel so happy for you

If you need any pointers on how to advocate for yourself, just let me know. I’m 71 and I don’t put up with anybody’s 💩! I’ve had to fire a few doctors in my day, too. I’m extremely proud of you for doing what you did!! I wish I’d had social media when I lost my son. It would have been nice to talk to someone that understood. When my beautiful rainbow son was born, I was able to help another mother thru her initial grief. Paying it forward is so rewarding. The flannels are both beautiful. If I had to make a choice, I think I’d go with the animal print (which is the opposite of my initial thoughts. You are such a giving person. Try not to be a doormat any longer, you have that sweet little boy to think of. After he’s born, you won’t have any trouble standing up for him, so do the same for yourself!! ❤️💕❤️

Thank you for sharing the ultrasound loved it ❤️

Congrats on all the good things! I'm glad he's head down now and yes, let's hope he stays that way!

This is great news! Yay Kieran- stay head down for your mama💕

Awh, I love the animal themed ones! 🥰 I’m so happy you and little man are doing so well and that he is head down! Sweet boy 💙💙

Loving your journey and can't wait to see baby Kieran 🥰🥰🥰

I love all your video's so much! I'm always excited when I see you've posted one haha.. little Kieran was so cute, glad he is doing so well and is no longer breech, that sure must be a peace of mind! Good on you for standing up for yourself, I admire you for doing so. And for the swaddles.... I'd go for the themed patterns! they are so pretty.

Sending you a continuous stream of blessings. With every day, the future gets brighter. I love the way Kieran is already bringing out the best in you...there is nothing so wonderful as a humble empath advocating assertively on behalf of her child's well-being. You rock, mama!

Love you guys!!! I love your glasses - Got myself a pair just like them!

I get SO excited when you upload and I LOVE the new intro!🥰 Little Kieran was a cutie on ultrasound and I’m glad your fluid levels have stabilized…that’s great news! Still praying and rooting for you to make it to 36 weeks🙏🏻🙌🏻 It’s so sweet of you to make swaddles for other loss parents’ babies at your hospital. I love both the stars and prints, but the stars may be the safer bet. As always, thank you for sharing your journey. Much love to you, Kameron, Kaia and Kieran!🥰🥰❤️❤️

Good to hear everything is going the right way Stefanie. I can’t wait to see Kieran. I prefer the animal print fabric but l also think stars would suit a night time swaddle. Hugs from 🇬🇧

I really like the prints. It's such a treat to see your little man. I'm just so happy for you and Kameron.

Just love seeing your updates, glad to see you little man is head down. Don’t listen to those negative people they are most likely jealous of you. Keep positive and happy. Sending my love to you from Australia. Oh I love all those patterns of material and it’s such a lovely thing your doing. Keep smiling.

You absolutely did the right thing! ☺️

I am so proud of you! Keep on advocating for yourself. Always trust your gut. You got this!!!

So happy for you! Such a good day ❤️

You're absolutely amazing! You're one of the strongest women I have ever seen! I'm so grateful you're able to have such a great day with so much great news ❤ . Sending you, Kameron and Kieran all the prayers and hugs!

Yea!! All sounds great!!❤

I love all 4 of the patterns 💗 Just know that these mommy’s are going to just love and appreciate the kindness of the wrap you did for them and not even care about the pattern 💗 I remember the 7 weeks I spent in the antepartum unit waiting and waiting for my daughter to be born. Watching you brings back those memories and emotions and am so proud of you. Keep doing so well and am praying 🙏🏻 for you both 💗💗

Good morning and great news!! I like both of the fabrics. Take care and have a good day*

That ultrasound omg so cute!

Great news! Praying for you and baby.

He is sooo cute ! I love seeing your happy videos :)

I'm so happy for you! I love all of the fabrics! I have a soft spot for animals. Thank you for sharing how everything is going. 💙💙

I love all the fabrics. I'm so happy for you

I love both of your fabric choices! Happy sewing.

They work for you Stefanie. You are an amazing person and your are going to be an amazing mom!! You go girl!

Love, love, love the animal prints! Those are so precious!

I absolutely love how your new intro incorporates both of your beautiful children. You are such a lovely family!❤️

Yay so happy things are going well! so exciting I can't wait to see your beautiful little boy!! xxxxx

Most definitely the themed, it's so beautiful... And I'm so glad that little man is doing great! and I'm glad you're doing great ! You're doing such a great job right now! I have the same problem about advocating for my own health care, so I get it....take care😸💕💙

Cheering and praying as always!! 🎉🙏 His ultrasound pictures are too cute!! I love all the fabric 💗 you really can't go wrong with any of those! I especially love the pink one with the little birds ☺️ you are just doing the most amazing job at staying positive throughout this journey!! So happy for your friend and her rainbow baby 💗

Love all 4 of the flannel choices. This is such a caring thing for you to do. It will mean a lot to parents suffering such a huge loss. 💕

I was just watching and I think both fabrics are adorable 🥰 I was going to suggest both as well 😊 Congratulations and I can’t wait to see your lil guy 🙏😘

Yessss! Kieran good Job! You are getting ready awesome little man

Yay for being head down! That’s great. Loved seeing his little face 🥰🌈 And congrats on your friend’s baby! Hope all goes well

I love the animal themes. So happy your both doing good!

I love all 4 fabric patterns but really love the animal print ones ❤️ continued prayers for you and sweet baby boy 💙

The themed ones looks so adorable

After my first miscarriage I found a wonderful group of ladies online on a forum and I seriously credit them with helping me to keep my sanity. Sadly there was some politics that went on and we wound up bouncing around on some to some other boards and when we all came up for air there wasn't a lot of us left =( I miss those ladies sometimes. But I also joined a wonderful group online when I was pregnant with my daughter (who was born in September 2020, so we all went through early covid days and lockdowns together) and we still all check in with each other almost daily. It's so so nice to have people around you who are in the same boat.

Congratulations yay can’t wait to hear when the baby comes

Hi Stephanie the excitement l felt when l saw Kieran head down and moving around. I can only imagine how you are feeling seeing your beautiful baby. He is doing everything right. That's so wonderful you have friends that have been through the same as you, such a support. It will be lovely when you all catch up with your rainbow babies. I think the animals are gorgeous for those swaddles but also the stars are lovely too. Thank you Stephanie for keeping us updated, l love it when l see you. 💖💖

Kieran looks so so adorable!!! So glad to see you so cheerful and happy!!!! YAY Kieran & Mommy!!!!! 💗🙌💪🙌💙

I live for you updates. Great news ♥

I love your new intro, happy to see Kaia and little man together in your intro. It is beautiful to see your family ❤️💙

I'd go with both flannels,always best to have a choice.Sending love from Ireland,thanks for sharing your life with us,that ultrasound was lovely to watch my sons are 23 and almost 18,technology has come on so much since then 💜💜💜

Your little one is sooooo cute! I am so glad you and he are doing well and in such good spirits. Glad you are doing what is best for you too and advocating for yourself. I look forward to your new videos and enjoy watching you!

So glad you had such a great day! I think all the fabrics are lovely.

So happy for you! Do both!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

So cute! So glad you got to see So much of little man today 💙

I right there with you! I put everyone before myself. It's hard to retrain ourselves to take care of us! I'm proud of you.

Can't wait to see Kieran 🧡🌟

He is so cute!!! I’m so excited for you and can’t wait to see the beautiful baby boy!! 🥰 I’m the same way about not standing up for myself…I have a very hard time. But, I’m so unbelievably proud of you!!! You are glowing and look so happy!!! ❤️❤️❤️ now for the fabric…I like the animal ones the best!! Take care! And let’s hope Kieran stays head down!

Head down is wonderful news! Stay strong sweet mama, love the updates!!

So glad everything is going good. I liked all 4 patterns.

All four fabrics are so pretty 🧡 the one with the birds is my favorite! You and Kieran are doing amazing 🥰 I’m so happy for you! It was so exciting to see him! I feel like he was flexing, showing off his muscles 😄

Stephanie I just want you to know that you are a strong, beautiful woman and blessed!!!! Look at your strength!!! How far you've come, you, Kieran, and Kameron!!!! WOW that beautiful amazing healthy baby boy ❣️ I'm so excited for you!!!! I'm so excited to see every new video of your story because WOW!!!! 💖🥰💕 Your story from heartache to new and wonderful news is just so heartwarming! My best friend lost her beautiful Natalie at term to stillbirth and I visit Natalie and talk to her about her mamma. And her momma knows. She lives so far away but she's coming back next month!!!!! Because someone gifted to her plane tickets to and from!!!! It's been years. God bless you sweetie, you are being prayed for, all of you. Love Heather 💕🥰💖

I love the felt with the sweet little animals!! It's so precious.

Bless you Stefanie. You're a lovely lady. Excited about your little boy X

You have such a good heart. Fingers crossed for many, many more great days!

Absolutely about a group going through the same thing you are! My mom has dementia, never saw that coming! Hit me like a ton of bricks, joined a FB group, so helpful! I love the the animals print! So happy little man is head down! So exciting! You got this momma! Xo

I’m so so so so happy for you Stefanie!!! Congratulations 🎉🎊❤️❤️❤️❤️

I so happy for you!!! I love all 4 prints. Since they are on sale just make of each. Glad you are in the hospital getting the best care. Can't wait to see your little man. Thanks for sharing your story.

Hi Stefanie, yay! I love good news. I can only imagine how happy you are for your friend. I hope baby is now here :) I'm so glad you're doing so well. Stay positive, it won't be long now. Time will just fly by. Personally I love both patterns, the plain and the animals, they're all lovely. Wishing you all the best, as always....big hugs from Toronto and thank you for sharing xx

What an exciting day!!!!!! Great job, Little Man on staying put and being head down!!!! HOME STRETCH, MAMA!!!!!!!!! Also...both fabrics would have been my choice lol they're all so cute!!!

I like all four of the fabrics, congrats on bub turning 🌷

❤️ it is so good to see your happy lil guy. Not long now

Your daughter’s birthday “layout” was amazing..loved the cake..good job parents🎈

Good for you for standing up for yourself! You need to keep that an on-going thing. So proud of you!!

I’m personally a fan of both the stars and animals. Maybe do a little of each? I would say that each family that receives your special gift will love whatever pattern you do. What a blessing you will be for so many. God bless.

A good day indeed! So happy you have a group of Mom's that you can relate to. Kieran's ultrasound was just so cute! 😍 You made an great decision in standing up for yourself.💕

So fun seeing little man. Such a cutie 😊 So happy for all the good news 💗

All your choices for the flannel are appropriate Stefanie,I guess the stars are a safer bet,what a lovely gift for your hospital.Baby boy looking great💙💕

The animal themed fabric is so cute!

First off, I’m so excited for the patience your Little Man has had. I’m really happy you’ve been able to keep him in lol. I can relate to not wanting to be a bother to others but Mommy’s in waiting get a pass lol. Get whatever you need!! I vote for the themed flannel. Sending hugs and prayers for your continued good health and Little Man’s good behavior! Head down!! He may not hang in lol! Get ready! Can’t wait for your next update!