Meaning of life for men | Jordan B Peterson

The meaning of life for men is responsibility.
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  • @dansmitham2437
    @dansmitham24374 жыл бұрын

    I'm a husband and a father. I've lost sleep cleaning my kids' vomit, or by staying up late listening to them and helping them understand things they're going through. I've gone hungry at times when work was lean so that my wife and kids were able to eat three meals. My joints ache from years in the trades supporting them. Fatherhood/manhood has left me with many scars, but each one is a badge of honor, a source of pride and joy.

  • @f.jideament

    @f.jideament

    4 жыл бұрын

    While I'm really appreciating people like you and knowing how hard to stay on the line as a good father for years, I have to ask you a very cliche but important question: Did you ever feel like "having a child/breeding" was a bad idea after all the things you've gone through, all the struggles you had in your life?

  • @dansmitham2437

    @dansmitham2437

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@f.jideament I wanted to show the world that it could be done right. Now that my oldest is approaching 17, I look back and realize my daughters were the greatest source of joy in my life, despite the hard times.

  • @f.jideament

    @f.jideament

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dansmitham2437 thanks for your answer. I didn't ask you that only because of my curiosity. I asked because today, as a 27 yo male human beign I had a real deep talk with my father when we go to the fishing at a public area in our city. My father at first just tried to deny my arguments because he was trying to protect my psychological state at it's best but when I dig the hole deeper he just surrendered and said immediately said "yes I know how dark this place at it's essence and yes I'm tricked by my own creation to breed and I now realize that the self pleasure I had from the breeding was the most evil thing I had in my entire life. Because you're just forcing one more soul to break their bonds with a greater and complex thing for their own suffering and you're doing it for your own selfish animalistic pleasure. But that doesn't mean you have to do what I've done to you or maybe you do exactly the same but better." So, there are so many things you and I can argue about these sentences and I would like to do it with scientifical facts but it may turn into a clown fiesta on the internet. Because of that I will try to tell you what I told my father to get his confession with a different way: The truth is all of us know that the part of suffering is the only observable truth for the current state of our existence and it is completely illogical to do it to an another one from your kind and yet still almost all the human beings are listening to that damn evil in their body every time. That means almost all the human beings are malevolent and even worst, they're malevolent against the one from their own. When they're getting older and older, they're losing their communication with the evil instincts and bam, realisation of the truth. You can deny it like my father but one day you will realize that people are raped in wars, murdered like insects and consuming each other every day and you just added one or more prey/s to the pool of chaos with your false hope because you're nothing but an ordinary human beign and who gives a fuck about logic when it comes to the self pleasure. When the day comes and your kids talk to you like I did with my father, if they're smart enough to understand at least the concept of creation, please be very gentle and just tell the truth. Don't lie to them with your false beliefs. Just say it, you did it because it felt good to be a father and that's all. You knew you had no control on anything but still you did it because, as the man said exactly the same in the full video and I agree with him, you're a human and you did what you had to. You cannot change your genes and the malevolence in them but you can tell the truth to your daughters.

  • @dansmitham2437

    @dansmitham2437

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@f.jideament Pretty bold of you to assert your truth and then speak of my false beliefs when you don't even know what I believe. I'm going to respectfully disagree with your entire post. Yes there's evil in the world, there's also great beauty and joy and love to be experienced. I don't believe my children's souls were in a wonderful place until I ripped them away for my own pleasure and in my opinion that's a terrible and unhealthy way to generalize the experience of family. I don't believe my children existed as souls before their conception, not do I believe that any soul of theirs or mine will survive the body upon death. I would say that a 27 year old human should gain a little more wisdom and experience about how wide and varied the world is before presuming to so confidently tell another, much older person who and what they are.

  • @f.jideament

    @f.jideament

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dansmitham2437 thanks for your honest answer and I've to tell you I didn't talk about my personal beliefs in my previous posts, they were just one perspective in all others and you mentioned about that too. Also I didn't mean to be offensive about your beliefs and I know I have no idea about anything related to you. That means maybe you're just a mimic of a father, living all alone and posting stuff on internet as if you're a real father. There are so many variations of perspectives. I don't want to take your well deserved precious family time. I just wanted to act like a opposite side and see what is the answer, as I always do in my life since my childhood. That's the most efficient way for me to understand if the other person is really honest with their opinions.

  • @ethanjensen661
    @ethanjensen6614 жыл бұрын

    The cool thing with Jordan Peterson is that even though he's taking a break from new content, he has enough content for years

  • @joshuafaustus421

    @joshuafaustus421

    4 жыл бұрын

    When I watched his videos again, looking for the same answers I had been years ago, I was blown away at the realization how little I truly comprehended upon first hearing. This man's shared wisdom is truly a gift realized, and of utmost importance.

  • @wave6784

    @wave6784

    4 жыл бұрын

    I really hope he recovers from his present struggles. We are not supposed to lose a so well articulated and educated man as he is.

  • @nasti362

    @nasti362

    4 жыл бұрын

    Even just rewatching his old videos I always learn something new about myself

  • @sweetbunny6198

    @sweetbunny6198

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hopefully he'll be more honest when he returns...

  • @ethanjensen661

    @ethanjensen661

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sweetbunny6198 lied about what?

  • @mandrew1015
    @mandrew10154 жыл бұрын

    This man has helped me significantly in my life.

  • @slightlytriggered8550

    @slightlytriggered8550

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @nunyabeeswax303

    @nunyabeeswax303

    4 жыл бұрын

    tell us how!

  • @j-dog7767

    @j-dog7767

    4 жыл бұрын

    This guy has been my second dad

  • @mandrew1015

    @mandrew1015

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Psychonaut I respect your personal opinion. But I am curious as to why you believe "the mental health world is incompetent, dangerous and promotes weakness".

  • @mandrew1015

    @mandrew1015

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Psychonaut I dont understand how that affects the question about your own personal opinion.

  • @coltonkerbs7466
    @coltonkerbs74664 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad I found this man while still in highschool

  • @AakashKumar-do3tx

    @AakashKumar-do3tx

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are really lucky bro..

  • @rolandomayorga5280

    @rolandomayorga5280

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me 2 bro

  • @adiosbaby612

    @adiosbaby612

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wish I did

  • @ryanyao5

    @ryanyao5

    4 жыл бұрын

    U are so luck

  • @samguest78

    @samguest78

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here, only 16, learning a lot of valuable things from him

  • @evanwilliamson3602
    @evanwilliamson36024 жыл бұрын

    I’m a 26 year old Male, autistic, hate confrontation, unemployed due to a chronic illness that is ongoing, and I have no social life. For the first time in 26 years I’ve had the “oh shit, I need to change things” moment. I’m finally realising that I need people. End of.

  • @terribledeed2137

    @terribledeed2137

    3 жыл бұрын

    You may need people, but people most likely don't need you.

  • @turningmememachine7256

    @turningmememachine7256

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@terribledeed2137 that could be said about most people

  • @timconjo7412

    @timconjo7412

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@terribledeed2137 that is the Nihilism Peterson is talking about that will eat you up. That is why he says you need to "lift a heavy load" and be usefull. Be responsible (for someone?) They will need you... See the pattern?

  • @kimmyle0

    @kimmyle0

    3 жыл бұрын

    Always people there for you. Just reach out. Hope you doing better.

  • @Adresant

    @Adresant

    3 жыл бұрын

    I belive in you)

  • @WOJAus
    @WOJAus4 жыл бұрын

    My mum was a primary/elementary school teacher, and while she worked at 'good' schools with a relatively small number of problematic/disruptive male students, there were always one or two. You remember these kids, usually the bully type with a lot of aggression and not very popular. When I was also quite young she told me about how she dealt with those boys, and it has always stuck with me: "I give them a task, a position, someone or something to look after." Responsibility. Even at that age, (and in such small quantities) it was what they needed to help straighten up and stop f*cking around.

  • @akr.2818

    @akr.2818

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thats awesome. Ill use that too. THANKS

  • @Amateur_Pianist_472

    @Amateur_Pianist_472

    3 жыл бұрын

    Old fashioned way was to beat them.

  • @ninanina4799

    @ninanina4799

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes I am a teacher myself and I do the same.

  • @eightyeightdays
    @eightyeightdays4 жыл бұрын

    That first curve he drew was perfect.

  • @MartyFrolik

    @MartyFrolik

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love seeing all of the deep comments and then this one

  • @cumboward

    @cumboward

    3 жыл бұрын

    I came to find this comment. It was beautiful wasn’t it. Some of his finest work.

  • @AlanDeAnda1

    @AlanDeAnda1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh my Gauss!

  • @vibez5847

    @vibez5847

    Жыл бұрын

    definitely, not his first rodeo

  • @jaklynolson5333
    @jaklynolson53333 жыл бұрын

    As a woman I have always appreciated Jordan’s prospective. Even when I hear things my feminine soul doesn’t want to agree with he pushes me to think more logically and learn. I have grown immensely by listening more and fighting less.

  • @robertdunn7573

    @robertdunn7573

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s Female nature for yaa!!

  • @jaklynolson5333

    @jaklynolson5333

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AOmega72 Let me be very clear. In no way, shape or form was I saying women (or myself) lack logic . And to say women as a whole lack logic or it’s somehow “difficult” for them sounds like an insult. I’m saying that personally, in MY own life, have found that if I sit with information longer, allow my emotions about a situation / discussion to subside, I can make better decisions in the long run. Chose my words more wisely. Avoiding the proverbial “foot in mouth” outcome in an argument. Especially when communicating with men, I’ve found they don’t understand how a woman thinks and the feeling behind their words. They don’t catch hints. So, instead, I’ve adjusted my reaction time to remove the chance of being misunderstood.

  • @fatspyro4630

    @fatspyro4630

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same. I was showing signs of becoming an antisocial man, so I started absorbing Dr. Petersons lectures and making changes to myself. This man provokes thought, which is always a good thing in and of itself.

  • @NtheHecker

    @NtheHecker

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AOmega72 I hope for your sake that just came out wrong 😂 Women seem to generally be more developed in their feeling side and intuition. Now you could argue that's at the cost of logic. And while that's sometimes true, to generalize that argument is a dangerous mistake to make. Also while men who develop their feeling side can end up doing just as well as women, the same can easily be said about women developing their logical reasoning. And many of them do. That's also why most women currently end up being smarter than most men. Perhaps us men could follow their example and make the effort in catching up to most women on the feeling side? Not implying that's it's a race. Merely that it's an opportunity for growth that we should take.

  • @jaklynolson5333

    @jaklynolson5333

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AOmega72 Just because we tend to be more in touch with our emotions does not mean we are “governed” by them. I feel like your almost there but not quite.

  • @AmB39
    @AmB394 жыл бұрын

    Please come back Jordan. We miss you

  • @UnPetitPoulet

    @UnPetitPoulet

    4 жыл бұрын

    I saw on his site that he's writting a new book: "Beyond Mere Order: 12 More Rules for Life"

  • @shanks6190

    @shanks6190

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@UnPetitPoulet yaaay

  • @Balthazar2242

    @Balthazar2242

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hope he's heathy

  • @pedrorodrigueztube

    @pedrorodrigueztube

    4 жыл бұрын

    His view on the crisis would be interesting

  • @mujii_22

    @mujii_22

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@pedrorodrigueztube I mean you can infer from his many other videos ?

  • @kyleedwards3168
    @kyleedwards31684 жыл бұрын

    “Grow the hell up, and do something useful” good words to live by. We need more of this in society today.

  • @christiandicus
    @christiandicus4 жыл бұрын

    Female fan here! 🙋🏼‍♀️ his political stance actually made me even more of a fan. These videos have helped me tremendously. He brings me back down to earth and I love it.

  • @nancysellars8780
    @nancysellars87804 жыл бұрын

    Dr Peterson I am a 64 year old white female in the southern US with a graduate level STEM education. You help me everyday!!! Thank you!!

  • @contrerasmcr100

    @contrerasmcr100

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nancy....Let me get them digits

  • @engineergaming5989

    @engineergaming5989

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nice, what specific stem subject was it?

  • @hwd71

    @hwd71

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Nancy, You subscribe to Dan Bacon. Why?

  • @Ivan-hc3tk

    @Ivan-hc3tk

    3 жыл бұрын

    You just had to put “white” didn’t you?

  • @jeanlucdiscard2382

    @jeanlucdiscard2382

    10 ай бұрын

    Capitalize White. You're not a second class citizen.

  • @astonwinter
    @astonwinter4 жыл бұрын

    Why in God's name do we not have men like this running for president

  • @mrsn3sbit888

    @mrsn3sbit888

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because he is literally too woke. Think about all the idiots who can't understand him, they will never vote for him. Trump is the vessel because the will of the people apparently wanted an efficient businessman who can speak plainly.

  • @FIxIoN420

    @FIxIoN420

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because men like this dont want that kind of power due to the responsibility that comes with it. Only sociopaths want the power cause they dont care about the responsibility

  • @chbrules

    @chbrules

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because no rational man would want to subject themselves to such a corrupt system.

  • @catsupchutney

    @catsupchutney

    4 жыл бұрын

    Voters want liars as leaders.

  • @Seaby41

    @Seaby41

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because they don't want to

  • @fernandoromerotenorio779
    @fernandoromerotenorio7794 жыл бұрын

    I seriously cannot believe how much JP helped me. I will be forever grateful.

  • @scottdavenport3195

    @scottdavenport3195

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too.

  • @BrunoRodrigues-fw9ri
    @BrunoRodrigues-fw9ri4 жыл бұрын

    i’m 28. if i haven’t found jp i’d be the same person I was at 18. thank god for jp and all you’ve done. 🙏🏼

  • @carmentrimm7659
    @carmentrimm76594 жыл бұрын

    Its time. Run for Prime Minister. Lobster Party, 2023!

  • @markmayonnaise1163

    @markmayonnaise1163

    3 жыл бұрын

    He'd have a base in Nova Scotia

  • @OokamiKageGinGetsu

    @OokamiKageGinGetsu

    3 жыл бұрын

    When he's done there can we in the US have him? We could sure use a president like him.

  • @imelitetrooper
    @imelitetrooper3 жыл бұрын

    Jordan peterson says things ive known for my whole life, intuitively... but i just needed to hear it. I spent alot of time wasting away, not providing any value to anyone or anything, but now im taking the steps to move forward with my life and he had not a small part in that. Hopefully within a couple years i will be at a point where i can be proud of my accomplishments.

  • @xfreakish6708

    @xfreakish6708

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thats good man, I'm on a journey doing the same. I hope all is going well for you now. Keep climbing!

  • @imelitetrooper

    @imelitetrooper

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@xfreakish6708 Things are going very well! i have a well paying job and a house, i supplement my family's income, everyday i gain more knowledge and take a step to a very comfortable retirement. i did this in only 1 year as a weak, fat, depressed, shut-in loser with a masturbation addiction and no skills or work experience. i am proud of the fruits of my efforts. if i could do it, literally anyone can.

  • @harrythehandyman
    @harrythehandyman3 жыл бұрын

    One thing that broke my heart is that despite my best effort of being a responsible man, I don't feel being appreciated, credited or rewarded. Often I was being taken advantage of because of being a nice guy and helpful. After a few heart breaking events, Quite large portion of my original life goals were destroyed.

  • @wowiswill2132

    @wowiswill2132

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're doin great and I appreciate you

  • @debbabbit9283

    @debbabbit9283

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Harry. It seems that being appreciated, credited, and rewarded takes a long time to receive. Maybe our perceptions can adjust to that by viewing making a difference in people's lives is a payday of sorts. It hurts our feelings to get no feedback, but maybe there's something bigger, a destiny in your future that you are yet to find that you can grow into as well as what you do. Aim high, look for it and don't lose hope.

  • @jakedee4117
    @jakedee41174 жыл бұрын

    "My mind is like a racing engine, tearing itself to pieces because it is not connected up with the work for which it was built..." The adventures of Sherlock Holmes, Arthur Conan Doyle

  • @mujii_22
    @mujii_224 жыл бұрын

    When us youtubers get a special mention *cries tears of joy*

  • @jessiemarsh390
    @jessiemarsh3903 жыл бұрын

    A loyal woman and solid family is the closest thing to happy I could ever imagine.

  • @uberhaxonova

    @uberhaxonova

    3 жыл бұрын

    99% of men agree. Just be smart and hard working. Stay away from pleasures. Accept the hard things. The hard things become easy over time. And new hard things arrive. Staying away from your own pleasures will ironically give you the greatest pleasure in the end. (Women are also deemed pleasurable. That is the final pleasure to balance)

  • @wagnerbertolino2
    @wagnerbertolino24 жыл бұрын

    This whole thing is beyond incredible. It should be preached on our pulpits.

  • @jonahbacon2415
    @jonahbacon24154 жыл бұрын

    This man repairs minds

  • @desigoof771
    @desigoof7714 жыл бұрын

    Get Well soon... Jordan ♥️❤️❤️

  • @vatsaltripathi2628

    @vatsaltripathi2628

    3 жыл бұрын

    What happened to him

  • @TrulyLordOfNothing
    @TrulyLordOfNothing3 жыл бұрын

    This is an award winning 12 minute video. If I had to play but one video to a younger self or kid who asked me about meaning, this would be it.

  • @dejavudvora
    @dejavudvora3 жыл бұрын

    Jordan Peterson inspires in me the confidence, trust and aspiration to be able to build a healthy, lasting marriage. And as the child of divorced parents, hardly branded by that and not religiously committed, no one has ever been able to make me believe in marriage like Jordan Peterson. Thank you for giving me that hope and courage!!!

  • @souljacem
    @souljacem4 жыл бұрын

    I just love and miss this man so much.. It‘s so beautiful to see how every comment under his videos is exclusively positive. This man will become a legend

  • @spiketrademark1099
    @spiketrademark10994 жыл бұрын

    This is such a powerful message. I am going through all the classes playlists again, they have helped me tremendously the first time and this time around it is building on that base and getting more nuances and a more profound understanding. Thank you for saving lives.

  • @archerjohnson1545
    @archerjohnson15454 жыл бұрын

    One thing I love about jp is that he lays it up for you, he gives you 95% and the rest is on you to ponder and apply to yourself

  • @nathansingleton4625
    @nathansingleton46253 жыл бұрын

    My eyes light up lots listening to Jordan Peterson

  • @tapashyarasaily1373
    @tapashyarasaily13734 жыл бұрын

    I m reading the 12 rules ...it's depth and beauty has struck me hard...left me a lot more humbled than I ever was.....thank you Dr Petersen for writing this amazing book....you have helped in raising the consciousness of your readers in a way I couldn't have imagined as possible....

  • @RockCh4lk
    @RockCh4lk4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 31 and I don't know my goal in regard to my career. I have a good income, but I'm still unhappy. I have a wonderful wife and two kids, but can't figure out the damn career.

  • @rolandomayorga5280

    @rolandomayorga5280

    4 жыл бұрын

    😔 try to transform your life into one that is worth living. Research about that

  • @jaredpillow5403

    @jaredpillow5403

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jesus is the way, truth, and light. He’ll give you complete happiness if you accept Him. Don’t have to work for it...it’s a gift.

  • @TheCheweeRevolutions

    @TheCheweeRevolutions

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think you were born to be a property investor.

  • @gustavofedrizzi4822

    @gustavofedrizzi4822

    4 жыл бұрын

    You must have a talent right? See if it's possible to make money out of it. Then start working on it while you have time, hopefully it will come to a point where you're actually making money, then you can focus 100% on it.

  • @BrunoRodrigues-fw9ri

    @BrunoRodrigues-fw9ri

    4 жыл бұрын

    jp talks abour careers. he says most people don’t have careers. keep looking for the light. its that thing, if you seek you shall find

  • @estebancastorena3698
    @estebancastorena36984 жыл бұрын

    To go through the metaphysical and physical transformation of what he taught me brought me to tears. To see the complete guide to what a person should be not only at a particular moment but in the set of games of what life is. Every since putting into affect what I’ve learn I’ve become manager, I’ve set my life in order, I’ve set my relationship with being in order. I will always be happy to let a little piece of me die to be able to learn anything useful to help me and guide others ahead of this crazy journey we call . Life.

  • @DAVYDEE999
    @DAVYDEE9993 жыл бұрын

    Can’t explain how happy I would be to see Mr Petersons lectures

  • @gorilanator
    @gorilanator4 жыл бұрын

    This is Peterson's best video.

  • @topheftyr533
    @topheftyr5334 жыл бұрын

    A man that has literally wept while talking about this issue in particular clearly cares deeply about this.

  • @markscheinfeld3020
    @markscheinfeld30204 жыл бұрын

    Without Father's, men cannot grow up. Find a father, an older man like me who has raised a family. A Pastor, a counselor, but someone with life experience, not head knowledge. Ask for his help. If he is worthy of listening to, he will be honored to help you.

  • @markscheinfeld3020

    @markscheinfeld3020

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dktoString disagree

  • @ryanvandermerwe5587
    @ryanvandermerwe55873 жыл бұрын

    "I watched the first Simpsons episode..... And I deconstructed it" 😂😂💯💯💯💯💯💯 Gotta love JP mahn

  • @MrLazini
    @MrLazini4 жыл бұрын

    I watched the first Simpsons episode the other day... *AND I D E C O N S T R U C T E D IT!*

  • @davidkonevky7372

    @davidkonevky7372

    3 жыл бұрын

    It must be fun to be in a room with him watching Simpsons and he randomly starts to spit a bunch of complex messages he found through the whole episode, like lmao how does he do that?

  • @sebastianvargas8128

    @sebastianvargas8128

    3 жыл бұрын

    ​@@davidkonevky7372 By taking responsibility and training his mind to see patterns :) Spoiler. You're gonna suffer more that way because you know more about how bad is the world we live in, yet is worthy

  • @benfeldman8361

    @benfeldman8361

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmaooo

  • @frankbassoff

    @frankbassoff

    3 жыл бұрын

    @captainsinbad

  • @Norman_Fleming
    @Norman_Fleming4 жыл бұрын

    This is such an awesome clip.

  • @BrotherTree1
    @BrotherTree14 жыл бұрын

    I think the future authoring program can be helpful to all in varying degrees, regardless of human demographic differences because essentially it's about developing self-awareness skills via self-reflection and using it a manner to learn from some of these life experiences to see how you can increase the likelihood of lessening the suffering in your life whilst also improving it towards a better trajectory. And that doesn't seem to discriminate, unless probably your IQ is so low that one doesn't understand how to comprehend meaning of words and actions - to those I feel terribly sad and sorry for.

  • @meenakshiprakash5177
    @meenakshiprakash51773 жыл бұрын

    Men need to be loved,cared for, appreciated and guided when required as much as women.

  • @XZ858XZ
    @XZ858XZ3 жыл бұрын

    I finally realized why I am such an unmotivated poop who can’t find it within myself to do the things other people want me to do. Thanks JP

  • @BattlefieldSailor
    @BattlefieldSailor3 жыл бұрын

    “You only get stronger (build muscle) with resistance.”

  • @cerpintaxt5339
    @cerpintaxt53394 жыл бұрын

    Come back Jordan! The world need more of this

  • @Samviking01
    @Samviking013 жыл бұрын

    "I was watching the first Simpsons episode & I deconstructed it" Jordan Peterson every time he sits down to watch television

  • @thelogos5617
    @thelogos56174 жыл бұрын

    Word!

  • @brkerch8449
    @brkerch8449 Жыл бұрын

    I think I became conscious very late in life, and my regret is the position i put myself into when I was unconscious. Now, this has nothing to do with good or bad outcomes, more to do with not being conscious in doing whatever I did, for if I was conscious about it, I would accept the consequences no matter what.

  • @cookie6627
    @cookie66274 жыл бұрын

    Jordan recently I’ve gained more insight into myself and the world that’s helped me to understand you more. I’m blessed and bless you Jordan Peterson

  • @shashanksadafule
    @shashanksadafule3 жыл бұрын

    Get Stronger every day💓

  • @keeganmclean2017
    @keeganmclean20172 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the most valuable clips to have ever been produced on KZread

  • @davidmendizabal9892
    @davidmendizabal98923 жыл бұрын

    He is right totally right, i listened 2 years ago... Imposible things happened to me

  • @pharaohqua1981
    @pharaohqua19813 жыл бұрын

    he described my life story in the first minute

  • @jordanbpeterson-croatian3640
    @jordanbpeterson-croatian36402 жыл бұрын

    Love him. Listend to this thousands of times ❤

  • @sarkdakras4336
    @sarkdakras43363 жыл бұрын

    Just started watched a few of these videos and I’ve appreciated it! Thank you for posting these!

  • @nunyabeeswax303
    @nunyabeeswax3034 жыл бұрын

    dang now i have to read Pinocchio and and Peter pan again

  • @farshadmn4273
    @farshadmn42734 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Morill128
    @Morill1284 жыл бұрын

    I just want to watch this over and over. So powerful and eye-opening.

  • @akr.2818

    @akr.2818

    3 жыл бұрын

    'X' Same

  • @FGKing-gc3xn
    @FGKing-gc3xn2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so fucked man I have no goal no motivation no nothing. Just emptiness

  • @scottsmith2724
    @scottsmith27243 жыл бұрын

    God damn, why am I tearing up listening to this.

  • @catcollector719

    @catcollector719

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is kind of pathetic

  • @mylesmills3614
    @mylesmills36144 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @stanislavschutz9752
    @stanislavschutz97523 жыл бұрын

    Like isn't enough. There should be a button for "This is one of the best videos of all time. A must watch." (One could use this button only once a year) Because yes, this is Jordan Peterson at his best, on the reason why men aren't doing well in current era...

  • @enochbrown8178
    @enochbrown81783 жыл бұрын

    What a blessing this man is to all humankind.

  • @kathforbes1724
    @kathforbes17243 жыл бұрын

    I bloody love this guy! Legend ☺

  • @oaxacaflockaflame9294
    @oaxacaflockaflame92942 жыл бұрын

    The absolute perfect thing to listen to before I head to work.

  • @ratnalubis1591
    @ratnalubis15912 жыл бұрын

    TERIMAKASIH Bapak JBP. Semoga Bapa Putra Roh Kudus memberkati engkau dan keluargamu dengan kasihNYA yang tak terbatas. Amen.

  • @jackstaub9221
    @jackstaub92213 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @thorthegodofthunder6694
    @thorthegodofthunder66943 жыл бұрын

    Thank u jordan Peterson for everything you showed me i love u man .... I hope one day I talk u...

  • @FAFB00
    @FAFB003 жыл бұрын

    The way he says "AND I DECINSTRUCTED IT"😂 love you jp

  • @u7angbe
    @u7angbe4 жыл бұрын

    God Bless Dr Peterson

  • @1AGRIPPINAONE
    @1AGRIPPINAONE3 жыл бұрын

    I am a longlife viewer you are amazing!

  • @dazacman40
    @dazacman403 жыл бұрын

    Thank god for Jordan Peterson

  • @brohit2500
    @brohit25003 жыл бұрын

    During school whenever the teacher had to assign the prefect/leadership duty to someone she would always choose the troublemakers. The change was so big, all those troublemakers whose names probably would be on the blacklist by the end of the day would be the one reporting to the teachers about the day. It's as if giving them a direction and a purpose made them improve even for themselves and for the people around them.

  • @andreaarshini4595
    @andreaarshini45953 жыл бұрын

    In a house, men like to take care of things that other people can see..i.e. cleaning the car, gardening. Women, we have been assigned other tasks that nobody sees like cleaning the house, going shopping. It is like men need validation all the time. And at the same time they don't appreciate women's contributions. I know a couple. He bought a dog and both of them agreed to take care of the dog. She wakes up early to walk the dog. He says he has a lot of work. She has an important job too, in a position kind of manager. But again, you don't get credit for walking a dog early in the morning, or cleaning the dog mess in the apartment.

  • @morpheux2
    @morpheux2 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you Mr. Peterson, everytime I hear you it's just brilliant. Thanks for brings this topics up, thank you.

  • @manalsaadali
    @manalsaadali11 ай бұрын

    ‘’A man has to decide that he’s going to do something’’

  • @Cepheidvariable
    @Cepheidvariable3 жыл бұрын

    I fkn love this video. He is so right it is insane.

  • @placidoo.saldivar9406
    @placidoo.saldivar94064 жыл бұрын

    I completely appreciate and agree with Jordan Peterson on a lot of things. But it is sad that we need someone to tell us the meaning of life for men.

  • @ishakujoseph2479
    @ishakujoseph24793 жыл бұрын

    You are great Peterson, I m learning from your lecture

  • @andreaarshini4595
    @andreaarshini45953 жыл бұрын

    Jordan always talks about men with a good light on them. They listen to his videos and get conclusions that suit them. That's why so many followers. Things like "women are doing better because are more agreeable". Well, that was for survival in the past for obvious reasons, and it is no longer necessary. Is being agreeable a bad thing? So men are not agreeable? I don't think so. You see, in my workplace I wouldn't notice any difference. If men get more frustrated than women...that I don't know, but we are all act the same..i.e. being nice to your bosses.

  • @curtiso779
    @curtiso7792 жыл бұрын

    The problem is, in the face of all this science and understanding we continue to accumulate about ourselves and our environment, we are questioning even why it is that responsibility gives meaning. Like, why is that so, about responsibility, for what reason, and really to what end? So we can continue having and raising our kids successfully, for them to have kids, and them to have kids..only for ourselves to be essentially forgotten after a few generations or so? (or perhaps not given technology in some ways is immortalising our individuality to an extent). And in the process of our existence, of raising our offspring, we reveal and uncover what seems to be good in the world, reduce suffering around us etc..hopefully, and who knows how good things can get? Sure, but still, to what end, and just why. This is the problem I always come up against personally, despite devouring probably close to a thousand hours or Jordan Peterson. Repeatedly often. I love him, his work, his courage and his own ability to bear tremendous responsiblity. He is an absolute father figure to me in many ways. To what end. Jordan would say something like, well, we don't know to what end, we don't know how good things can be, but it's better than suffering and cowering in a corner simply waiting to die. Something like that. Which you can't honestly argue. But given our target/goal-oriented and curious nature, we are obviously striving collectively towards something, but we have literally no idea what lol. I am unable to act in the world, take on responsibility for this reason. Cause I am acutely aware of all of this. Sure, I'll bear as much responsibility as I can knowing that at the very least it will probably make me feel like the existence of my being is at all justified. An increasing number of us are literally trying to "solve" our mortality. I wonder what Jordan thinks about the prospect of human immortality. I often see the argument that this would be terrible because we would become desperately bored after some hundreds or thousands of years. And probably so. The exact number of years an immortal individual being would get "bored" would be subjective to that being, I can only assume. And also that, it's the finitude of life that gives it its meaning. Maybe so. But then surely you would encounter, experience and reveal more meaning if you were around longer? At least we would get to chose when we die though, on our own terms, on our own accord, surroundings and so on....immortality is just weird. I know Jordan doesn't believe the fundamental issue people face in their lives is coming to terms with their own mortal finitude, rather, it's the complexity of life and our handling of it as beings that suffer and face constant tragedy. Death, we are made aware of young and accept as we grow up cause "that's life". Life and living are confusing to me, and find myself in a state of perpetual paralysis, partly because of its vast complexity, partly because I'm finite...

  • @calob3927
    @calob39273 жыл бұрын

    Would love to hear him speak in person. Bucket list stuff.

  • @svetozarmarkovic7031
    @svetozarmarkovic70313 жыл бұрын

    great speach

  • @castory3013
    @castory30132 жыл бұрын

    The best Paterson lecture ever.

  • @supersmashmike45
    @supersmashmike453 жыл бұрын

    Peterson Genius... thank you

  • @dacrowster
    @dacrowster4 жыл бұрын

    What a chance if you had a teacher like him in your life ! !

  • @Patson-_-
    @Patson-_-3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @janazapletalova7657
    @janazapletalova7657 Жыл бұрын

    Eye-opening thing, even for me as a woman. Thank you.

  • @rashednaboulsi1626
    @rashednaboulsi16264 жыл бұрын

    I need a girl in my life that listens to Jordan!

  • @akr.2818

    @akr.2818

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nice!

  • @sakshi9302

    @sakshi9302

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol , I listen to him ,I'm a girl

  • @AiNEntertainment101

    @AiNEntertainment101

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sakshi9302 ...then we should meet asap. Just hit me and I'll come along.

  • @sakshi9302

    @sakshi9302

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AiNEntertainment101 yeah , we can have a nice conversation

  • @sakshi9302

    @sakshi9302

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AiNEntertainment101 ping me

  • @jeffreypmitchell
    @jeffreypmitchell3 жыл бұрын

    I enjoy the challenge of responsibility.

  • @DTheHAge
    @DTheHAge3 жыл бұрын

    Feedback for your personallity test. I did it and got 82nd in agreeableness. Since it copnsists out of compassion and politeness, this is totally true. But I'm one of the persons you mentioned at 2:07 (well, for it wasn't video games, it was coding). I graduated high school with 23 and magically I was one of the best students in my last 2 years, after breaking up school and repeating classes. Tbh, I still didn't want to do it, but I had something I wanted to do afterwards.

  • @onixtheone
    @onixtheone4 жыл бұрын

    Become the atlas, the world will always need you, even if it is a thankless job, the ones that know you will forever love you.

  • @kevinmcguinness6526
    @kevinmcguinness6526 Жыл бұрын

    Jesus, he answered so many questions I didn’t even know to ask. Protect this man.

  • @schizo4253
    @schizo42533 жыл бұрын

    I am from Turkey. I didn’t know about Jordan Peterson’s political stance after watching countless of this kind of lectures. Just saying.

  • @bandito4492
    @bandito44923 жыл бұрын

    I was watching a live stream and someone committed saying that young men should look up Jordan Peterson. And i did now my whole mind set has changed on a lot of things he has talked about. Now I’m not saying I’m some sort of expert on what he is saying and the facts that he’s stating. But it’s opened my eyes and my mindset. And that’s what this whole video is about and it’s kinda sad on how my current generation is.

  • @veronicalopes8948
    @veronicalopes894811 ай бұрын

    I believe in today i have peace now and tomorrow God has plan future of peace and hope of salvation what you said that women goes along with that what else i can do for me situation is such you speak about responsibility i don't understand about it i don't take any pressure on me you see to it

  • @Peter-ie6po
    @Peter-ie6po4 жыл бұрын

    Lets see how popular this is going to be again

  • @n.randall6152

    @n.randall6152

    4 жыл бұрын

    This was one of his best!

  • @Peter-ie6po

    @Peter-ie6po

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@n.randall6152 yes

  • @troythomasseejr6078
    @troythomasseejr60784 жыл бұрын

    I love you J p

  • @lizziek7157
    @lizziek71573 жыл бұрын

    Any other females out here who watch like all his videos sitting here like 😐😐

  • @divyashree6527

    @divyashree6527

    3 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @GandalfTheGay98
    @GandalfTheGay983 жыл бұрын

    2:08 shiiid that’s me