ME/CFS: 10 HELPFUL things I do during a flare/crash

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Flares and crashes are part of life for people with ME/CFS. In this video I go over 10 things that have helped me feel a bit better during these difficult episodes. This video is an updated version of a flare video I did a few years back. I've included new things as the course of my illness has changed in many different directions over the years. I hope you find it helpful and remember, always talk to a doctor before trying anything new.

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  • @treasuredpieces
    @treasuredpieces Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your videos I’ve been living with CFS for 40 years I’m so tired of being tired

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    Жыл бұрын

    Its definitely a tough illness.

  • @Di-Pi

    @Di-Pi

    11 ай бұрын

    Me too, since 1988 😭😵‍💫

  • @SensaSand

    @SensaSand

    Ай бұрын

  • @SensaSand

    @SensaSand

    Ай бұрын

    Since 1999

  • @backdownontheboat6038
    @backdownontheboat60382 жыл бұрын

    For a condition characterised by fatigue, insomnia is a particularly cruel symptom….

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    It really is. It becomes a terrible cycle.

  • @parmym.7177

    @parmym.7177

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes so true!!

  • @catchappie

    @catchappie

    Жыл бұрын

    OH, YEAH! I like your phrasing: "particularly cruel". I have to laugh because I'd try to take a nap right now if only I could sleep!

  • @catchappie

    @catchappie

    Жыл бұрын

    Melatonin: The woman who owns the health food store suggested a new brand of melatonin and it's much more effective that the brand I've been using. It's called "Source Naturals" and I get it in 1 mg. chewable pills. I read a research paper in JAMA from April 2023 on the inconsistencies of melatonin gummies. Some had much more than noted on the label; some and no melatonin and CBD. Without noting it on the label, some of them had both. I wrote one of the listed researchers, and heard back. He told me to look for the USP label which is the most that supplements are certified. (Then Source Naturals aren't USP but the health food store owner knows the company and the president and quality control people.)

  • @pakabe8774

    @pakabe8774

    8 ай бұрын

    @@catchappie IMO the worst thing to do, when you suffer from conditions who aren't understood well yet, taking any kind of active pharmaceutical ingredient - especially when the ingredient works contradictory.

  • @rainicascadia5514
    @rainicascadia55142 жыл бұрын

    On better days, when I can cook something, I make extra and freeze in portion sizes. I helps when I'm crashed to still be able to have a healthy meal in stead of junk food. I live alone so self reliant here.

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Smart. Thats a good strategy.

  • @rainicascadia5514

    @rainicascadia5514

    2 жыл бұрын

    And much to be said for crock pots and instapots! They do so much of the work for you.

  • @irenezevenster6995
    @irenezevenster69955 ай бұрын

    Thanks for your advice and helpful videos. I have CFS/ME for over 40 years. I look out for getting too cold, because that triggers pain and therefor exhaustion too. So for me helps hotpacks, Stoov, (=heated cushion) , anything that helps me get warmer. Either in or out of bed. Too much noise triggers brainfog and related problems. So watching tv I then try to chose wisely. Or without sound, but with undertitling. I am still learning to set bounderies, either physical, of emotional, or mental.

  • @HopefulCanadian

    @HopefulCanadian

    Ай бұрын

    Is feeling extra cold an ME/CFS symptom too? I thought that it’s because I’ve lost so much body fat/muscle.

  • @lautjecrown
    @lautjecrown Жыл бұрын

    As both ME/CFS patient and np doctor, I would like to mention that drinking big amounts of water alone will dehydrate rather than hydrate you in the end, especially when you've got low circulatory volume like with ME/CFS. You will need to add some sodium too it. I'd advice either to add 3g of salt to a liter water or use Oral Rehydration Solution (it's also got about 3.5g of salt per liter). I wouldn't recommend sport drinks, because they're mostly sugar, no sodium. Personal things that help me during a crash: meditation, no TV, classical music or mantra music (repetitive patterns in music relax your CNS), cuddle with loved ones or animals (if that's physically possible) for oxytocin, and of course all the other things you mentioned. It's a pretty good list!

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    Жыл бұрын

    Great advice, thank you!

  • @cherylallis2458

    @cherylallis2458

    Жыл бұрын

    I take about a 1/4 teaspoon of sea salt in the palm of my hand, throw it in my mouth and chase it down with a big glass of water. I don't like the taste when adding salt to the water itself.

  • @pakabe8774

    @pakabe8774

    8 ай бұрын

    In my experience sugar helps, especially after longer exertions. Before knowing about ME/CFS, I realized getting sick after I exertet myself, like after doing my groceries getting typical symptoms of PEM. Taking any kind of sugar mitigated all symptoms. You can see the downside of this, because as a result of that my body weight raised over time. Not understanding any cause resulted in banning sugar as much as possible, resulting in not recovering from PEM symptoms for months. During that time I started reading a diagnosis manual for ME/CFS, because I wanted to understand. That way I found out, that there is an ATP issue involved and as a result of that things looked different. I realized two things: a) Sugar had an influence to my symptoms; b) even I can crash after short exertions, very often I can time it to about 90 minutes of constant (not high) exertions. I am not a doctor and therefore have no medical education, but I tried to figure out how or why ATP could cause my conditions. As I understand the issue, there are different ways of ATP production. But if the production of ATP isn't working as intended, there is a sugar treshold for about 90 minutes and after that most needed ATP relys on body fat or amino-acid metabolism. The funny thing is, getting a heavy crash always comes with a "flash" like an adrenaline shock, like blood is flooded with huge amounts of adrenaline (dizziness, sweating, palpitation), so that I can't even sit and have to lay down (if I can) or have to let my body fall down, to avoid uncontrolled falling. I am not educated enough to understand it right, but as I understood, adrenaline is used to make more energy available by activating fat metabolism. Sorry if I'm saying stupid things, English isn't my main language and especially in medical topics things are not always named similar - even it is often latin based.

  • @ResilientME
    @ResilientME2 жыл бұрын

    Pretty much a perfect list. Personally for me I binge YT on my phone which is basically the equivalent of your TV.

  • @Confetticat1

    @Confetticat1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too! I watch so much KZread when I don’t have energy for anything else.

  • @treasurechest2951

    @treasurechest2951

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too. There’sa duality beteeen something being bad for you vs the damage of deprivation :) im learning to balance it, with tv and diet.

  • @rhondaphillips432

    @rhondaphillips432

    2 ай бұрын

    Me too❤❤😊😊

  • @SensaSand
    @SensaSandАй бұрын

    God you are helping me so much. I will show your videos to my husband tonight. Hope he watches.

  • @HopefulCanadian

    @HopefulCanadian

    Ай бұрын

    I’ve already sent 2 of these videos to my husband and he legit cried because he also totally gets it.

  • @SensaSand

    @SensaSand

    Ай бұрын

    @@HopefulCanadian that’s so sweet. My husband didn’t even watch. He yelled at me.

  • @HopefulCanadian

    @HopefulCanadian

    Ай бұрын

    @@SensaSand yelled at you?!? 😢 people with invisible chronic illnesses already feel guilt, shame, loneliness your support system shouldn’t make you feel worse 😟 I’m so sorry if this is something that hurt you 🫤 My husband is my biggest cheerleader and support. I celebrate when I can shower, wash my hair (sometimes he has to help me the shampooing/conditioner 🙄) I’ve had to really be ok with allowing help 😒 Anyhoo he also celebrates my small daily victories and is patient with me when I’m stuck in bed for days 🫤

  • @SensaSand

    @SensaSand

    26 күн бұрын

    @@HopefulCanadian ❤️❤️❤️ thank you 🙏

  • @SensaSand

    @SensaSand

    26 күн бұрын

    @@HopefulCanadian your husband is a true angel!! God bless you both!! ❤️

  • @HopefulCanadian
    @HopefulCanadianАй бұрын

    1:09 learning to let go of the guilt and shame of letting people down and only being able to be present sporadically, was the hardest thing to deal with mentally 😢 I just discovered your videos and I’m legit in awe of how you and a lot of the comments hit the nail on the head 🙌🏼

  • @ChristopherLeskanic
    @ChristopherLeskanicКүн бұрын

    Vegetables and fruit have carbs..... I appreciate the video... God bless!

  • @llamagirl2679
    @llamagirl26793 ай бұрын

    I too binge watch an awful of tv. I suffer with ME/CFS and Fibro plus several other conditions. Thank you so much for your videos.

  • @sarahkottemann6871
    @sarahkottemann6871Ай бұрын

    Just discovered your videos and could cry just to hear these debilitating symptoms validated out loud. I have such a hard time describing some of the things I experience to my friends and family. I tend to describe the heaviness I feel in my body like there are 80 lb weights on my limbs, that someone filled my body with liquid cement, or to walk feels like I am trying to walk through a swamp of thick mud and I’m in up to my neck. Thank you for hosting these important discussions. ❤

  • @kimbykimbers3750
    @kimbykimbers37502 жыл бұрын

    Thank you again. AUDIOBOOKS. These are saving my life as I truly can’t do anything at all. You are a star!

  • @lautjecrown

    @lautjecrown

    Жыл бұрын

    Mine too!!

  • @cherylallis2458

    @cherylallis2458

    Жыл бұрын

    The public library near me sent me regular books and audio books by mail because I am disabled. I would listen to them and put them back in the library bag and the post office would send them back to the library. Maybe your library provides a similar service.

  • @KidCity1985
    @KidCity19852 жыл бұрын

    Please need to understand resting is productive, healing is accomplishing something.

  • @lifewithspirit323
    @lifewithspirit3232 жыл бұрын

    If I feel a flare coming, or if I know one may be coming because I’ve had a busy week, I always make sure that I have easy, healthy food in the refrigerator, like rotisserie chicken, hummus, fruit and vegetables to juice, etc. I do eat snacks reasonably, as well. I order my groceries from Instacart when I just can’t get around to getting groceries. I also clear my schedule as much as possible, meaning sometimes I have to cancel plans. From there, I typically rest in the bed and ride it out until it passes. Since I’ve done over 20 UBIs (ultraviolet blood irradiation), I seem to recover quicker, experience fewer crashes, and have more sustained energy. Miss you, Johnny! Sending love to everyone experiencing chronic illness!🤍🤍🤍

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great advice. Smart to have easy made food ready to go!

  • @francescachristy8761
    @francescachristy8761 Жыл бұрын

    Good list. Thank you for doing it. Just thought I would mention that for me massage causes a crash in the same way physical exercise does (much to my surprise), so I need to avoid it. Also, I'm glad you can watch TV but I think for a lot of people, perhaps those more severe, this adds to symptoms rather than relieves them. I don't have a solution to the deep boredom of resting. I like down as much as possible and break essential tasks into small chunks with lying down in between. I meditate and do deep body relaxation like yoga nidra, on very low volume on repeat or use my own internal voice and imagination to do the same. Listening to a familiar audiobook on repeat can help some people as it's distracting from thpughts but less stimulating than TV. Diaphragmatic breathing with long slow breaths also helps me. Thank you for recording these.

  • @emileconstance5851

    @emileconstance5851

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, the "deep boredom of resting" is very difficult to deal with--when I get excessively bored or understimulated my mood seems to dip, so it's tricky trying to find a good balance. So hard finding activities that are restful but also enjoyable/engaging. I love reading, but my brain gets too taxed, especially during flare-ups, so most days I ether can't read or have to strictly limit my time reading; I am able to watch tv if it's relaxing--like historical dramas--but can't watch anything that's stressful or too stimulating. If anyone has ideas regarding activities that are relaxing but not overly boring, I'd love to hear them!

  • @francescachristy8761

    @francescachristy8761

    Жыл бұрын

    @@emileconstance5851 I doodle with coloured pencils sometimes. It means I can enjoy the process without being too attached to the outcomes. It has to be time limited though on small squares of paper

  • @llollipop1990
    @llollipop19902 жыл бұрын

    To those suffering with CFS/ME, I would consider seeing a speech therapist. It helped immensely when I had CFS/ME. They are not only for speech, they help with mental processing and cognitive fatigue. I am currently seeing a speech therapist again due to a concussion. Concussion symptoms mirror some CFS/ME symptoms. I would suggest you do a video about speech therapy and CFS/ME.

  • @pakabe8774

    @pakabe8774

    8 ай бұрын

    There is one downside of this suggestion: In ME/CFS there is an ATP issue involved, meaning: At times there is a lack of ATP production, causing any cell (including brain cells, but not only) lacking in power. Another point is: ME/CFS is a physical condition, yet not cureable and it is degressive. You said, you had CFS/ME, meaning you do not have it any more. So it is impossible you suffered ME/CFS.

  • @denisebraisby4251

    @denisebraisby4251

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm too exhausted to speak during a crash

  • @jennifertehanisarreal
    @jennifertehanisarreal Жыл бұрын

    Rhythmic breathing exercises really help me tap into the parasympathetic system and relax. These meditations that don’t require visualization or much mental work are the best (speaking for myself, but want to share in case it’s helpful) because it calms the body without taxing the mind. I count and breathe in strongly for 4 quick counts, hold a moment, then slowly exhale as softly as possible 5-7 counts at a slower pace, hold, then start over. As long as the exhale is longer it really helps me. Breath, the book by James Nestor really helped me create a toolbox for flare ups - particularly left nostril breathing. Love the comments here with all the helpful tips. I’m learning so much. Hate the disease (multiple conditions, for many of us), love the community (online and off) that makes it doable. Having a space to be in solidarity and not have to explain what PEM and other realities are like to people really is healing. Yay community. Thank you everyone 🫶🏼

  • @randomskits1990
    @randomskits19902 жыл бұрын

    Cold A/C and a weighted blanket...headphones with sleep music help on crash days...

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    I need to get a weighted blanket!

  • @rickdent3999

    @rickdent3999

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I get tons of blankets and play the rain from you tube at night 🌉🎉❤🎉

  • @visionvixxen

    @visionvixxen

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!!! Oh my gosh. 😂. I need this for survival in humid areas….

  • @suzanneknight-om4dn

    @suzanneknight-om4dn

    8 ай бұрын

    These things have helped me also , the weighted blanket , audible earphones , Crash weeks .. thank you ,

  • @goldilockz6517

    @goldilockz6517

    8 ай бұрын

    Weighted blankets help with panic attacks as well.

  • @beverleychong11820
    @beverleychong118202 жыл бұрын

    I'd agree with everything you said. The only thing that was a surprise was the heart rate monitor thing, I'd never thought about it. I might look into it and consider purchasing one. The other thing is that when you're in a severe crash and you live alone it's hard to eat well. The most important thing is to do the best you can. I find it difficult switching off sometimes and find meditation really useful at those times. Thank you for this content, you have a lovely smile :)

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the kind words. The heart monitor approach works best when you have had a CPET test done. Its a detailed measurement of your oxygen levels, it basically lets you know when your body goes into your anaerobic threshold. I have a video with Dr. Snell, he was one of the people who pioneered this type of testing for ME/CFS. That might help give you a good idea before you buy anything. =)

  • @beverleychong11820

    @beverleychong11820

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fight4me747 Ahh, thank you so much, I'll have a look x

  • @suryanarayanandorairaj131

    @suryanarayanandorairaj131

    Жыл бұрын

    I became several shades darker during a 15month period Has anyone else noticed a similar change

  • @catchappie

    @catchappie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@fight4me747 Good luck on getting the CPET. Which doc referred you for it? I saw my cardiologist and he said No... not relevant or necessary. I haven't asked the pulmonologist. I still haven't found a PCP doc who knows ME/CFS.

  • @robinpresleywoodward

    @robinpresleywoodward

    Жыл бұрын

    Boost!!

  • @susanturner139
    @susanturner13911 ай бұрын

    These are great ideas, Johnny! I think distraction is the best thing. You like to watch TV and I like to listen to audible books. That way, I can close my eyes rest and be totally distracted from my uncomfortable situation!

  • @janetschott5640
    @janetschott56403 ай бұрын

    Great advice and reminders. I also find that praying and listening to relaxing music helps.

  • @lizbethglickman2725
    @lizbethglickman272510 ай бұрын

    Really good summary. Going through 2nd severe crash inside of a month. Years since this happened. Rest. Rest but in bad place. Awful medical care. All the they want is money. Being harassed. That does not help.

  • @hollyw9566
    @hollyw956610 ай бұрын

    I have a whirlpool bath. When we moved into this place, the tub was a mess and had gunk in the lines. I've been too tired to do much about it, besides the obvious scrubbing of the tub and so on. Still, I've only been taking showers in that tub. So finally, I got busy and put about a gallon of white wine vinegar into a tub of hot water and a goodly squirt of Dawn dishwashing liquid. I let it soak. Periodically, I'd go in and run the whirlpool to knock the stuff out of it. I drained the tub after a few hours and then scrubbed the tub again, thoroughly rinsed it, and it's ready to go. I've got a nice lavender bubble bath, and I'm going to start using it. It took a year. This in itself has been depressing for me, because I used to be a serious house proud person. I'm glad I've finally gotten it ready. I'm looking forward to my first nice float. Other things that help me during a flare are getting my mind off of it and distracting myself. I read a lot of mysteries and thrillers These take me out of myself. Which is often a place I need to be. I'm also very slowly teaching myself Russian, working on my French and Spanish, and picking up a little Irish. I'm lucky in that I have a lot of interests, and even if I can't do much anymore, it's very enjoyable for me to watch, say, house restoration channels, makeup videos, and animal videos. Some channels I recommend strongly for making you feel better are Leslie the Bird Nerd, The Girl With the Dogs, Smitha Deepak's makeup channel, Cooking with Alia . . . there are many. There's nothing better for a person, even for a healthy person, than getting outside of your own head for awhile.

  • @user-rn2zk6wx1w
    @user-rn2zk6wx1wАй бұрын

    I have had it for 40 years now.Awful 😢 It never ends

  • @lucysweeney8347
    @lucysweeney834726 күн бұрын

    Very helpful thank you & best of luck.

  • @Lilzvx
    @Lilzvx9 ай бұрын

    Good ones! I’m gonna share with my family, so they realise I’m not the only one occasionally logging off from reality

  • @pattic6077
    @pattic60772 жыл бұрын

    My way of resting has been to try and read. It occupies my mind and keeps me still

  • @deadams8905
    @deadams89052 жыл бұрын

    Something that I have heard helps is electrolyte drinks. I would personally skip the Gatorade because they gave so much sugar but there are electrolyte drinks out there that don't have any.

  • @jacobclark6942

    @jacobclark6942

    2 ай бұрын

    There are electrolyte waters now with no flavor or sugar. These I drink daily now as when I had my last crash, my husband made me drink a Pedialyte and I felt a lot better by morning. Hydration (not just water, but balancing salts) was a big game changer for me.

  • @Spewl_Studios
    @Spewl_Studios2 жыл бұрын

    I've been getting into doing a lot more of these things lately and the difference they make is amazing. Also just a tip but fruit has a lot of natural sugars in them so I'd recommend maybe staying clear of fruit during crashes

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great advice. I usually try and eat high antioxidant and low sugar fruits, but sometimes tasty watermelons get the best of me.

  • @mindcrucible
    @mindcrucible Жыл бұрын

    I've found using a projector for binge watching instead of a TV/monitor/back-lit screen during crashes can make a big difference.

  • @irenes6627
    @irenes66274 ай бұрын

    Thank you for helping us. I am struggling with awful gastro symptoms that are not going away after 5 months....I thinks its connected to a biopsy procedure I went through which was horrific and extremely painful just before I crashed. Currently I'm in bed as my fatigue is so bad that I feel unwell, nausea, increased pain, tingling in my feet, very itchy skin. I was thinking of asking my GP for a diet plan whilst in a crash along with gastro issues. Your advice is much appreciated x

  • @lovequranmuhammad9078
    @lovequranmuhammad9078 Жыл бұрын

    Love your videos and advice. During crashes, not only is my heart rate and rhythm off but so too is my breathing. Prior to being diagnosed, I had many blood tests done and each time my blood would test acidic= metabolic acidosis. Did some research- holding on to too much carbon dioxide. It’s takes a lot of energy, but when I am to, I do deep breathing exercises. Automatically my exhalation time is longer than the inspiration time. This really helps. Your advice in a previous video about picking warning signs just before a crash is also very helpful. There’ a lot of research on sunlight therapy- not just vitamin D but also we get BDNF ( Brain derived Neurotrophic factor) A lot of sunlights therapy and Alzheimer’s Dementia. We get Brain fog and cognitive deficit. Sadly, in crashes with metabolic acidosis, you get photosensitivity and it’s very bad. But I try about three minutes sunlight

  • @nicolelesnick7258
    @nicolelesnick72582 жыл бұрын

    These are great tips! 👍🏻 I utilize a lot of these too.

  • @deanakelley379
    @deanakelley3794 ай бұрын

    Wonderful help !! Thank you!!

  • @marinailaria2286
    @marinailaria22868 ай бұрын

    Thanks for an informative video!

  • @avalonmist254
    @avalonmist2542 жыл бұрын

    I do a lot of those things to prevent a Crash too.

  • @aprilflynn
    @aprilflynn Жыл бұрын

    When I want to eat well but don't feel up to cooking, I keep frozen chicken breasts and frozen broccoli on hand and cook them in the microwave with a little butter and salt. Not gourmet but works in a pinch.

  • @merplight
    @merplight15 күн бұрын

    1.A massage gun helps if i have no one around to give me a massage or can't make it to the spa. 2. Hot water bath to alleviate pain and stiffness (if i can manage to shower) 3. Agressive supplementing with b-12 5000 mcg and sulbutiamine helps me return to my baseline faster and eases fatigue and cognitive impairment

  • @glendapolich7549
    @glendapolich7549Ай бұрын

    So helpful.😊

  • @rhondaphillips432
    @rhondaphillips4322 ай бұрын

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS YOU TUBE PROGRAM. FROM GEORGIA ❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @craigsurette3438
    @craigsurette34388 ай бұрын

    I add specific parasympathetic response inducing breathing exercises. I make a point, of slowing my type A ass down, dropping everything for the time being and lying in "corpse pose" with my eyes closed and breathing slowly, easily and naturally. I will add classic"Progressive relaxation and "box breathing" to this as needed to get me to just drop into a deeply relaxed, semi meditative state, and stay in it for as long as i can. The rest and reset i get from this purposeful resting greatly speeds up my recovery from PEM/overdoing it.

  • @kevinb1574
    @kevinb15742 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your videos. I just came across you channel and have been watching the videos. I am only 7 months in and still trying to figure this out. It is getting slowly worse and looking for answers.

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey there, just go easy and don't "over do" it until you have some more answers from your doc.

  • @kevinb1574

    @kevinb1574

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fight4me747 Did you have a hard time convincing your doctor this was real? I am sorry I have not been through all your videos yet. In fact, I need to find a new doctor due to the unwillingness of the ones I have seen to even consider this.

  • @jennifertehanisarreal

    @jennifertehanisarreal

    Жыл бұрын

    Solidarity - I went through soooo many specialists and doctors and tests before being diagnosed with my conditions. It’s a marathon for sure, and finding the right doctors can be tough. My pcp last year and neurologist were the most helpful and thorough - very grateful they were able to see that something was “off” beyond my fibromyalgia, spinal stenosis, etc. Finding the right doctors who know your history well really makes all the difference. I hope you found your way to a great one 🫶🏼 And if not, that it is coming soon. Took over a year for me to be diagnosed with everything. Wishing you a successful seamless path forward toward awesome providers who hear and understand you fully 💝

  • @myviljaravnbg2086
    @myviljaravnbg20863 ай бұрын

    i find that herbal the, coconut water and water with for ex. cucumber is a great way for me to hydrate when i crach.

  • @Vivalala
    @Vivalala8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the info. I am new to this condition & long covid malaise, so I am learning how to manage. Can you give an update? do you still suffer from this or has it gotten better?

  • @Confetticat1
    @Confetticat12 жыл бұрын

    Some of these I can’t do. Have to use the computer a lot for work. I don’t work full time but when I’m working it’s on the computer. 😢 Also my bathtub doesn’t work so a salt bath would be a lot of work to fill. Especially when I have to go back into the office and can’t take afternoon nap. I’ll probably be coming home and sleeping so not much energy for much else.

  • @masoudhashemi5792
    @masoudhashemi57922 жыл бұрын

    I have all these symptoms after covid I don't know what to.do smallest activity causes so many symptoms I use to be very healthy

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, a significant amount of people are developing ME/CFS after covid. Try and find a ME literate doctor and talk to them about it.

  • @seaweedeater3104
    @seaweedeater31042 жыл бұрын

    Hi there, i know you did a video on wearables a while ago. I just watched it. But would you be able do an another one, up to date now and a bit more extensive? The last video threw up questions. Im wondering if you still use fitbit or is it out of date. ive no idea. What do you use now? Do you have to do a cpet to get your baseline or can you work it out from the wearable? Do you need to use expensive piece of kit or have you heard of any cheaper but effective gear? It would be so great to get a deeper conversation going on this. If you can help it would be great. Thanks Johnny

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, I will try to do a video on that soon. =)

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey there, just did a quick follow up video on this. Posted today. =)

  • @sandrachaney8995
    @sandrachaney89952 ай бұрын

    Please tell me how do I find my Baseline. I have a Fitbit so I can monitor my Heart rate , but never have understood the baseline. Just in a really bad flare up. Have been dealing with fatigue and ME for many years but only diognosed last year as i could not get any doctors to believe I was sick. Finally found a young Dr who heard me and sent me to a specialist. I don’t understand after doing all the things you have mentioned, bar 2, I still get very sick again. I will eat clean, exercise, plenty of water, disconnect mentally, rest and have stopped talking to people about it, because I understand that they don’t understand. I am also a Christian and Luv my Lord with all my Heart, but when I’m told to just have faith and declare that I’m healed, that’s just not enough any longer. I’m so tired now and lost all my passion for life. Can you help. Blessings and Luv to youDear man, you are such a genuine, kind man🥰

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 ай бұрын

    Hey there! I did a test called a CPET test that helped me determine a baseline. BUT, I understand most people cannot do that test. So the other way to do it is to constantly take notes of how you feel along with the heart rate. When you find yourself feeling "ok", keep a close eye on your heart rate. Notate it constantly until you find a pattern. If you constantly see that (example) 105 beats per minute triggers your symptoms than you want to stay under that when you can. Its obviously impossible to do constantly, but you do your best. This is not medical advice and I know it has many flaws, but that is one way to figure out a general baseline.

  • @ronlopez8255
    @ronlopez82552 жыл бұрын

    For me it's bed rest, sunshine outdoors, classical music, meditation, and a case of Red Bull....

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Red bull?! Im surprised to hear that. That stuff flares me up instantly. I find outdoors really does help. Many people don't think it helps much but Im glad to see others benefit from sunshine too.

  • @ronlopez8255

    @ronlopez8255

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fight4me747 It gives me much needed energy! That and pitchers of ice tea! 🤪

  • @bethgillette948

    @bethgillette948

    2 жыл бұрын

    Be careful with energy drinks and even caffeine! They give you a false energy and stress your body more. I the long run they can actually make you worse.

  • @mindcrucible

    @mindcrucible

    Жыл бұрын

    ..... proceed with caution..... I've learned the hard way that false energy can be a slippery slope....ME + single mother of 3 & insanely hectic life had me between 80-120mg of Adderall per day (for perspective, the FDA approved max dose is 60mg/day & I was under close medical supervision)......a couple years of that leveled me up in my illness and now I do pretty much nothing, my children have learned the ways they can help take care of me so I can take care of them...if absolutely necessary, I may take 10mg of Adderall to get me through a couple of vital hours and a crash is guaranteed for several days after.... Btw, I didn't start my me diagnosis journey until I went to my Dr to quit energy drinks bc the insane amount it took me to get through each day was literally killing me. Although, coffee does seem to help me with insomnia.

  • @Amica-Fan
    @Amica-Fan2 жыл бұрын

    Natural sun/heat is restorative as you body isnt using energy to heat itself so can use that energy somewhere else. I find music is a magic energy finder so listen to alot of music but I cant continuously for long so for 10-15 min then turn it off for 10-15 min. Keeping warm during a crash is my hardest thing, if I can keep warm I can heal and come back but I will stay crashed if I cant warm up

  • @ValSMITH-it4lg

    @ValSMITH-it4lg

    8 ай бұрын

    I have a Thermatex heating pad that works well for my muscle aches and sciatica. It might work for your issue,too.

  • @jess53nz
    @jess53nz Жыл бұрын

    If anyone is looking for an affordable wearable i highly recommend a xiaomi mi smart band. I was able to borrow one from our local support group and bought one pretty quickly. Great heart rate and sleep info. My sister who has had a fitbit for years actually bought the model up from me instead of another fitbit!

  • @lydiaahubbell8545
    @lydiaahubbell85452 ай бұрын

    have you used magnesium oil?

  • @meman6964
    @meman69643 ай бұрын

    My crash makes me stupid, I forgot to do anything but lay around and listen to UTube. Florida sunshine 🌴🌞 is the best medicine to keep depression away. I do sit on my balcony for 0Vit D and attitude. Have small ted light, FIR sauna like a sleeping bag, in house bands for eary resistance training, but when crashed I just want candy and naps.

  • @MrElsley
    @MrElsley2 жыл бұрын

    Hey there, Just wondering if you’re still taking the LDN and if it’s helping you? If so, did you feel worse at first (side effects you had?) and what dose do you take? Thanks

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, still on it. The max dose is usually 4.5mg. Some people like to start much lower and work their way up. Thats a good convo for a Doctor though.

  • @HopefulCanadian
    @HopefulCanadianАй бұрын

    5:32 I’ve found a massage therapist who knows my body enough to know where she can and can’t touch me and goes fairly soft for that exact reason, to not make my pain worse.

  • @MrElsley
    @MrElsley2 жыл бұрын

    Hey again, Any side effects when you started up the LDN with mood/worsening of fatigue etc. Any info/feedback is greatly appreciated!

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    None. Just some insomnia in the beginning. But everyone is different.

  • @amyschettini8776

    @amyschettini8776

    2 жыл бұрын

    I started LDN ,currently at the 1 mg and increasing by half every 2 weeks. Noticed having more insomnia. Does that level out the longer you’re on it?

  • @Lilzvx
    @Lilzvx9 ай бұрын

    How often usually it takes till you get back to being more available to people? I find 2 weeks typical, but one month would’ve been ideal.. just less realistic

  • @catchappie
    @catchappie Жыл бұрын

    You have talked about Diet and "eating clean" but I am not finding any good resources about what that means. The most I have found is a reference to Mediterranean Diet or Anti-inflammatory Diet. Do you have a book(s) you can recommend? A special video that is helpful? I've poked around and am not finding anything relating to Diet and that is the main thing I'm uninformed about. Help Please! Anyone??? (And thanks again for al the wonderful videos you have made and are sharing with us. I try to watch at least a couple a day. This is a lot to take in.)

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    Жыл бұрын

    What I do is try and stay away from "inflammatory" foods. But my diet changes a lot. I find I stop tolerating things sometimes. Lots of trial and error. But the constant for is to stay away from "Inflammatory" foods.

  • @catchappie

    @catchappie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@fight4me747 I've lost 25 pounds in the past couple of years and find I'm having trouble with foods that never bothered me before. One thing about ME/CFS, everyday there is something new happening to my body. Everyday there is something new to learn. Thanks for all of your encouragement. Hope you are feeling well today. Also find another brand of health monitor smart watch that is now on sale half-price. Spade and Co. I think it's going to be a good deal to try out the monitoring. It does not have ECG but I'm not sure I need that. Yet.

  • @ljon008
    @ljon0082 жыл бұрын

    Are you almost fully recovered? And how long was your recovery journey from the day you started to put the pedal down on recovery?🙏🏼

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Im not recovered at all. Just maintaining.

  • @djVania08

    @djVania08

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fight4me747 are you aiming for recovery or just waiting for cure / managing symptoms?

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@djVania08 Im doing everything I possibly can to recover. I have yet to achieve that though.

  • @1timeslime971
    @1timeslime97115 күн бұрын

    boy-oh-boy did you ever ‘hit’ home regarding too much electronics and then the Epsom salt bath! WOW, I am in the middle of a bad flareup bad just was so sTIFF AND SORE everywhere that I did not want to take an Epsom salt bath and I sat there and watched electronics all night…UHG…

  • @alysmarcus7747
    @alysmarcus7747 Жыл бұрын

    who has money for massage and speech therapist and well , any other type of thing you would have to pay for, or - during a crash get dress get in a cab and go to them. i would really like some help. but when it comes to every group or person i listen to for helpful things - it comes down to $ and where do you get that if you can't work. Serious question.

  • @visionvixxen

    @visionvixxen

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly?!? Especially being that we usually can’t get high paying jobs if any jobs at all because of this problem?!?

  • @cherylallis2458

    @cherylallis2458

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep searching for ways to get passive income.

  • @SparkVisionHub

    @SparkVisionHub

    5 ай бұрын

    Stock trading I guess but that’s stress itself

  • @robinpresleywoodward
    @robinpresleywoodward Жыл бұрын

    BTW…If diabetic, no salt baths or foot soaks.

  • @jimmill3384
    @jimmill338411 ай бұрын

    Look in to LDN

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    11 ай бұрын

    Been on it for years! Made a video about it! It has def helped

  • @nahord33
    @nahord332 жыл бұрын

    Hello are you still posting videos? I recently found your site and curious if you are better.

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, I still post from time to time. I have not recovered.

  • @nahord33

    @nahord33

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fight4me747 52 years of health and suddenly I was diagnosed in 2020 with syrinx and progressively getting worse with symptoms that Syringohydromyelia cause. Last summer I spent most of the time indoors out of the heat and was constantly exhausted and resting did not help. Trying to find out if I have M.E./CFS too.

  • @briechilli4496
    @briechilli449610 ай бұрын

    Problem is im not sure how good for us all these emf wifi 5g gadgets and if they actually making us sick too ???

  • @1timeslime971
    @1timeslime97115 күн бұрын

    I frequently refer to myself, as Im a 60yr old female…I say im like a cracked & chipped teacup. you cannot put boiling water in chipped cup, or fill it too full. you need to hold the cup lightly, and handwash.

  • @antons4419
    @antons4419 Жыл бұрын

    Is there a reason why you avoid carbs with CFS?

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    Жыл бұрын

    Carbs convert to sugar. Sugar is something we should stay away from according to many doctors. Im not a doctor so I would def talk to a professional before you do anything

  • @pascalineh4792
    @pascalineh47922 ай бұрын

    How long is a crash please? It’s been 2 weeks…:(

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 ай бұрын

    Hey there, it really depends on the person and how hard you push yourself. It can extend the crash. I've had crashes last days and have had some last months. The key is to rest. I know that sounds obvious, but a lot of people don't listen to their body. Hope you feel better soon

  • @AlbaLynxQueen
    @AlbaLynxQueen Жыл бұрын

    My hr is 120 after standing up😢. I try to walk slowly outside, sometimes it keeps at 120-130, and sometimes it's drops to 90-110. It's not normal?

  • @SparkVisionHub

    @SparkVisionHub

    5 ай бұрын

    Yeah I’m 31, very healthy. That is normal for ME. Mines use to stay at 123 + but it’s that mental factor too if you think about it too much. I noticed if your outside in the heat that definitely will affect it, also since after realizing a lot of that I noticed it is avg around 118 but slowly seems to be stabilized now there

  • @bluebirdn3730
    @bluebirdn37302 ай бұрын

    I havent a clue what the rest of the video will be after number 3...why coz i turned my phone off 🤭 p.s even in a crash, never lose your sense of humour, sometimes its the only thing we have control of 😉

  • @janmcguire5268
    @janmcguire52686 ай бұрын

    I rest. It’s all I can do. I feed myself and feed my cats and that’s about all I do!

  • @RamonaMcKean
    @RamonaMcKeanАй бұрын

    I lie down, listen to/ follow yoga nidra meditations. Dr. Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist) highly recommends yoga nidra for its beneficial effects on the nervous system. Ally Boothroyd has a wonderful yoga nidra KZread channel. She incorporates the physiological breathing/cyclic sighing that Huberman advocates.

  • @1timeslime971
    @1timeslime97115 күн бұрын

    many symptoms are DIRECT results of insomnia/insufficient rest.

  • @sandi6818
    @sandi68182 жыл бұрын

    Been going through a crash for a month or more. All I wanna do is sleep when I’m not working.

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that. I hope you come out of it soon

  • @lydiaahubbell8545
    @lydiaahubbell85452 ай бұрын

    When I am in a flare, that is when Au tend to eat junky comfort food.

  • @HopefulCanadian
    @HopefulCanadianАй бұрын

    Showers are on “good” days but can sometimes use up all my spoons 😒 (Not sure if anyone else refers to spoon therapy 🤷‍♀️)

  • @prince6592
    @prince659211 күн бұрын

    Magnesium glycinate has give me a little more energy !!

  • @lindahoskins3692
    @lindahoskins3692Ай бұрын

    In a flare my skin so sensitive I cant tolerate bedsheets or tight clothing. So a massage would be a torture for me.

  • @MoltenArmour
    @MoltenArmour2 жыл бұрын

    no crashes, just perma shit here :(

  • @fight4me747

    @fight4me747

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that

  • @livingwithchronicfatigue751

    @livingwithchronicfatigue751

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm kinda the same tbh, my ME isn't so much characterized by crashes and better periods, but by large swings in my energy and capability week to week with the occasional crash.

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