this has been one of the most toxic dynamics I’ve ever experienced in my life 😂

I have a cancer mara but im not really passive aggressive

Thank you very much!! You’re the best Brit ✨

So accurate. You explained it in a way that resonates with me as a Leo mars; definitely a scary feeling when someone’s Pluto squares my mars and I feel very restricted in my self-expression and just being myself

I have had this with two guys and yes very dangerous never again. And going forward will always check synastry charts before even meeting the person.

Hi Britney! I experienced this one many years ago -- your description hit the nail on the head. The power struggles, the intense fighting, thankfully there wasn't any violence, but the anger was on a level I had never felt before - I was very surprised by that. As the Pluto person, my wounds were highly triggered; in the end it wasn't sustainable. This one is Not for the faint of heart!

@MalaWaldron

2 ай бұрын

BTW, It was the pluto/mars square

@sylviegoncalves

2 ай бұрын

Hi Mila! Do you mind explaining what wounds he triggered with you being the pluto person? I’m the mars person in my relationship, and I really would like to see more from plutos point of view

😂 me and my ex had this. I was pluto he was mars. We also had moons conjunct🥺. We loved and hated eachother at the same time. Very hard to let go, break up/makeup relationship an emotional roller-coaster. And yea it ended with the police almost being called on us while fighting. It was that intense.

happy belated birthday Brit!

I'm on a spiritual path, and I had Pluto square Mars with my ex 'ascension partner'. It was a highly torturous connection of intense growth, and we triggered the hell out of each other and brought out the worst in each other. Now I have Pluto opposite Mars with my actual ascension partner, and it's like a dream. We have warm, loving, harmonious aspects too, and we bring out the best in each other, and despite of the intensity, we both know that our triggers are not about the other. In both cases I was/am the Pluto person, and I had a more difficult time as my deepest pains, fears and plutoey rage got triggered. Now things are a lot lighter and easier already.

I have this in my current marriage the opposite and the square in my former current 3 years last marriage 14 years

had this in my last relationship. I was Pluto square his Mars. The fights were horrible. Despite having had many positive aspects (moon conjunct Venus, Sun conj moon, many trines...) the fights overpowered everything and it did indeed end in violence.

@lpllll10775

2 ай бұрын

Indeed!the same here too.Sun trine moon,sun trine venus,venus conjunct jupiter and venus conjunct descendant,and other positive aspects,but we have mars/pluto in synastry and mars square sun composite. It's awful, very often strong fights 😮 these two aspects are horrible,isn't possible to have peace...

@shellyr8094

2 күн бұрын

Same!! Its almost tragic

Your interpretation is very spot on! I am the pluto person in this aspect and I’ve never been this attracted to anyone. I would also love to to hear from you about venus trine lilith aspect in synastry.

I had Mars Square pluto in my last relationship. I was mars and he was Pluto. He was abusive. I felt like everything I did triggered him and I was not trying to. He was controlling and when I didn't go along with his plans he was livid. BEST SEX OF MY LIFE!! I think it was the only aspect that screwed us. Its unfortunate as other than that it was a lovely relationship

Great interpretation! I have this with my partner of almost a year 🫣. His 16• libra mars, square my natal 14 degree cancer mars. The orb is 1.6•. I find that since my cancer mars is so passive aggressive and his libra pluto is also, we keep running into issues of avoidance. About once a month, I get emotional and want to end things, and he sees me as being irrational and thinks I am making a big deal out of nothing. His pluto also opposes my aries mercury 1.9• orb, so when I do get emotional, I also finally speak up and am super direct! I find his libra pluto as sweeping everything under the rug and happy to avoid all obvious issues and be pleasant. Sexually, he’s pretty rough, but I’m not sure if it’s because of this aspect or because his mars squares my sun 1.8• orb. 😂

I have this aspect natally and seem to attract individuals that I have this aspect with. And half of the time, they ALSO have mars square pluto. It felt like things couldn't be carefree, it was always about not saying too much or trying to sound in control of the situation

My sister is mars and my best friend is Pluto and have this, spot on! Both Taurus suns with Scorpio moons!!! They are the same but in different fonts. My sister can be outright demanding, and impulsive , and possessive, while my best friend can be the same but it’s more unconscious, intense , and psychological way. They trigger tf out of each other. It kinda makes it easier to blame my sister until you carefully look and see it’s both of them. They almost fought during the Solar eclipse! It’s like a constant tug of war that i don’t understand the reason for because they both are good people and they love each other. But it’s like a bomb waiting to go off. Now they are more conscious and can communicate better though, they just need more space. 😅

🎯 💯👍 Yep, it was definitely brutal. Me, mars opposite them, pluto. Paranoia is a good word for it -on both sides.

I have this natally mars at 11 degrees in cancer 7th house squares Pluto libra at 10 degrees in 10th house. Also completes a t square with Aries Venus in 4th house

I have the opposition natally and in synastry with my bf. For us as plutonian people, we experience it more as being sexually aroused all the time. Like ALL the time 😂-more than with our past partners. I feel like we’ve both grown more confident and bonded off of this transformation. Can you please do synastry aspects with Venus & Lilith? Specifically Venus trine Lilith? Thanks 😊

@ellisrose8017

2 ай бұрын

Can you please elaborate? I have this with my new partner he is a Pluto person(Pluto on the Asc.) & I have Mars in the 1st House as well. In synastry his Mars is square my Pluto. We have alot of trines & positives aspects but this one kinda scares me especially cause there seems to be this constant tension between us & i do not trust him at all

@lorenm7

2 ай бұрын

@@ellisrose8017 She explained the square is a little different than the opposition which is what we have. For me I feel like we feel very safe with each other and are slowly becoming more open to being who we’ve always wanted to be. We learn from each other a lot and are very intentional with how we interact with each other. We’ve both been hurt in the past so being together has been very healing. For us trust is being built and there is very little judgement, if any, because we can see where the other person is coming from. We wouldn’t want to do anything to hurt the other person because we know what that feels like.

@Fxirie_harper08

2 ай бұрын

The highest expression of this aspect (We have the opposition as a double whammy) is experienced once you get to mature. It is an energy that requires you to let go of what you can’t control. What I like in a DW is being able to switch dominant/submissive energy exchange. Once you have matured and gone through life’s trials and tribulations, this passionate interaction can be incredibly binding if both people have evolved and come to understand that which they fear and the nature of personal and coupled power.

Noooo it’s mars is controlling/abusing Pluto. I’ve had this multiple times and the mars person always brought the violence. They were obsessed with me and because I don’t give my power away to them it angers them unbelievably. One of the Mars people still stalks me 30 years later. The more I don’t let them push me around, the more they act psycho.😢

MMA fighter war machine and his ex girlfriend has this explosive synastry. He almost killed her😱

Hi Britney! Do you do readings? How to get in contact please? Thank you

These aspect in synastry, 6 degree orb...is it taken into account? 

What about if its out of sign but in orb? Would this play out the same? Thank you for all your fantastic videos 😊

@britsoulcoach

13 күн бұрын

@@donna-hughes I would count it out of sign although it would probably be a bit easier that way, Thank you ☺️

Does this apply to mars semi-square Pluto also? Or not because it is only a minor aspect?

@britsoulcoach

2 ай бұрын

I would say if does but probably Less intense

Is there any aspect that can soften the negative side of this?

@britsoulcoach

20 күн бұрын

@@Starstorm111 for sure 💛

I just started dating someone and we have this and I’m scared !!!! Is it worse than having someone’s moon in my 8 H because that was brutal lol . How quickly will the fights show up ??? I will say definite attraction!

Brit, can you make this aspect in composite?

@britsoulcoach

2 ай бұрын

I have the square in composite just not the opposition (yet)😉

My ex's replacement of me (on of many I beleive) has her Pluto square my Mars. I have maybe exchanged 2 words with her in the gym and introduced them - his Pluto squares her Venus instant attraction and obsession ever since. 21years age gap! I instantly had bad vibes off her and never inetracted with her again. I am a very successful multiple bikini champion (Pluto trine Mars/Jupiter natally) and she has tried to copy me down to the bikini colour. She even reported me to the taxt office and possibly done something underhand with my work as I got frozen out. The woman is a psychopath. My ex enjoyed working with her on my destruction, but now Pluto is in my corner. I give them no heed as I know what is in their astrology up ahead. I pray they get exposed as both of them did many people dirty and break the law.