Marry Me & You’ll Be My Only Fan: “DeeDee” Russell v Antwain Henderson

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"DeeDee” says if Antwain doesn’t put his mother in her place, she's leaving with the children. Antwain says “DeeDee’s” lack of respect for his mom has him rethinking their future.
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  • @All_Things_Shay
    @All_Things_Shay Жыл бұрын

    This girl said if I have to deal with the betrayal, the mama etc etc then I should have a ring. Chile you should be running away not trying to get a ring 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @keyeviondavis9647

    @keyeviondavis9647

    Жыл бұрын

    Probably can't go anywhere, because she ain't got no money, talking about, she be hustling, woman you have 4 children, YOU NEED A JOB

  • @authorlydiagreen1862

    @authorlydiagreen1862

    Жыл бұрын

    exactly!! like run forrest .. run girl

  • @viviancoleman8109

    @viviancoleman8109

    Жыл бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @CerseiLannister999

    @CerseiLannister999

    Жыл бұрын

    Whole time, The Ring a horror movie, in their relationship anayway.

  • @kattiethomas4687

    @kattiethomas4687

    Жыл бұрын

    Run!!

  • @leeleegrace9015
    @leeleegrace9015 Жыл бұрын

    This is what low self-esteem and marriage obsession looks like. Take notes ladies. Please stop!

  • @ayefo7800

    @ayefo7800

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen!!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @vanessakenney3144

    @vanessakenney3144

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your comment with facts.

  • @CreativelyKia

    @CreativelyKia

    Жыл бұрын

    Cynthia G be talking about it 💥

  • @delilahspivey1093

    @delilahspivey1093

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, PLEASE STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @1LocWonder

    @1LocWonder

    Жыл бұрын

    When she said “I need to at least have a ring to show for it” SHOW FOR WHAT? You being silly a bunch of years? 🤔

  • @keyeviondavis9647
    @keyeviondavis9647 Жыл бұрын

    OMG, SHE WORTHY OF HAVING YOUR CHILDREN, BUT NOT WORTHY OF BEING YOUR WIFE, MAKE IT MAKE SENSE, DUDE 😡😡

  • @Beast_Lee

    @Beast_Lee

    Жыл бұрын

    It's almost like anyone can just be a baby mama

  • @meeksluvspink9047

    @meeksluvspink9047

    Жыл бұрын

    He doesn't deserve her and he knows it.

  • @Beast_Lee

    @Beast_Lee

    Жыл бұрын

    @meeksluvspink9047 deserving is what you make yourself...she didn't make herself deserving...she made 4 kids with him with no real commitment...being a mother doesn't make you deserving of marriage....motherhood is basic biology...a 13 yr old can do it....being a wife has its own separate merit system...she isn't wife material..neither is he husband material..we need to stop thinking being mothers automatically makes women worthy of being wives

  • @JoBunny87

    @JoBunny87

    Жыл бұрын

    That's what most men do. They want to spread their "legacy" and choose baby mommas they know can control and be a mother to their kids. Doesn't mean the man wants them. he knew she would be easy.

  • @CerseiLannister999

    @CerseiLannister999

    Жыл бұрын

    Rite. In this case it was her blessing I disguise tho.

  • @natnat0576
    @natnat0576 Жыл бұрын

    he slept with your aunt and you want to marry him....what in the holy hell is going on here

  • @charleslee1644

    @charleslee1644

    11 ай бұрын

    SAD REALLY SAD

  • @elafayettestone1799

    @elafayettestone1799

    9 ай бұрын

    Right!!

  • @dashawnalong6144

    @dashawnalong6144

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@charleslee1644that's dirty for sleeping with her auntie and everybody that's gross 🤢🤢 man I don't like him or his mom they both are belongs in the streets him and his mom and her auntie and the woman frr I'm glad that she not going to marry him that's real sad

  • @celiawilliams269

    @celiawilliams269

    4 ай бұрын

    This woman does not know what love feels like or looks like. She will settle for any pot hound ( lowest class of dogs)

  • @NDB82
    @NDB82 Жыл бұрын

    This whole relationship is so raggedy. 🙄🙄🙄

  • @nannynewsviews542

    @nannynewsviews542

    Жыл бұрын

    Falling all apart

  • @lotusgsxr750

    @lotusgsxr750

    Жыл бұрын

    Raggedy is the word! I'm tired 😫

  • @leeleegrace9015

    @leeleegrace9015

    Жыл бұрын

    It really is! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @semoyaallen4105

    @semoyaallen4105

    Жыл бұрын

    Girl this is first class mess my brain felt like scrambled eggs and I know im not uneducated

  • @magicthirdeye9548
    @magicthirdeye9548 Жыл бұрын

    This is so repulsive to me. People really still think being a wife is a prize. He demands her to meet his, “requirements,” while showing what piss poor husband material looks like. And she still kept replicating his dna and thirsting for marital slavery. I feel sick. This is sick!

  • @mariemarie5623

    @mariemarie5623

    Жыл бұрын

    FACTS! Where are her standards and requirements??? She is yearning for validation like he some kind of prize.

  • @lillies2011

    @lillies2011

    Жыл бұрын

    You see all this and find that she is the only one at fault? Are you kidding me? They met when she was in middle school.

  • @justtracy7175

    @justtracy7175

    Жыл бұрын

    People really need to learn what MARRIAGE is “biblically “ If they know what it consists of biblically people wouldn’t rush to do if🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ This man is not ready to marry NOBODY!!!🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @vanessaandrews152

    @vanessaandrews152

    Жыл бұрын

    And his dumb Mama sitting up there supporting his BS

  • @SONeal012

    @SONeal012

    Жыл бұрын

    Not every one "think" marriage is a prize or being a wife..only these women who don't value themselves with no spirituality..no real morals or value..Marriage is great when you partner with the right one but even then you both must be committed to make it last. .and when I say commitment I mean to love, respect &.grow together ..

  • @eulasbelcher296
    @eulasbelcher296 Жыл бұрын

    This should be a Divorce Court special with Judge Star, Judge Lynn Toler and Judge Faith. Three opinions, one verdict. One hundred percent REAL!!!

  • @ch4singdeath

    @ch4singdeath

    Жыл бұрын

    No it needs to be Judge Mablean, Lynn Toler, and Star Jones. Judge Faith don't know nothing about marriage. DC ratings wen't down because of her a Juan.

  • @nonilovechild5524

    @nonilovechild5524

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes that would be great. Judge Faith would give her generation perspective.. Judge Toler would give the wisdom and Judge Star would make us laugh.

  • @sonicisblue

    @sonicisblue

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm with you. I had stopped watching when she was Judge. I know this may sound mean but I wasn't too crazy about her

  • @sydnitaylor3249

    @sydnitaylor3249

    Жыл бұрын

    Add mabeline too!!!

  • @cshree2955

    @cshree2955

    Жыл бұрын

    I need judge toler to call him tacky and low brow

  • @quishafoster4602
    @quishafoster4602 Жыл бұрын

    Never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn't want to be with you. Period

  • @vondamiller5463

    @vondamiller5463

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @katrinaparnell6529

    @katrinaparnell6529

    Жыл бұрын

    Lynn Toler; these words stick with me all the time.

  • @Mszz_Gario4U2NV

    @Mszz_Gario4U2NV

    6 ай бұрын

    My dad told me this ONCE and that stuck with me. Watching Judge Lynn Toler and her words was like hearing my dad talk to me time and time again through her talking to all those women she haf to say that too.

  • @JGTVijep
    @JGTVijep Жыл бұрын

    First mistake is staying with a man with no ring for 12 years.. smh. The moment a man cheats on me the first time I run! What is wrong with these desperate girls.

  • @lovicebrinkman1

    @lovicebrinkman1

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @gayou7061
    @gayou7061 Жыл бұрын

    The saddest part is, she's not leaving him 😔

  • @charleslee1644

    @charleslee1644

    11 ай бұрын

    FEMALES CAN BE SIMPS TO THIS ONE IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE SHE IS A GLUTTON FOR PUNISHMENT

  • @ollieanntan4478

    @ollieanntan4478

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah, he put his hand around her waist while they walked out. He'll keep her around as a fallback as he keeps shopping for other women.

  • @LethaLong-yi6yj

    @LethaLong-yi6yj

    12 күн бұрын

    ​@@ollieanntan4478that was really really nasty I really do feel bad for her but she had to put up with the mother and the auntie and everybody but why she want to marry a man that slept with the auntie that was really trifling

  • @syndi-cb9ok

    @syndi-cb9ok

    11 күн бұрын

    I think because she has kids by him no other man will want her

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage Жыл бұрын

    He doesn't need to go get a WIFE .... he needs to go get his LIFE together!!!

  • @dariusx4829
    @dariusx4829 Жыл бұрын

    12 years and 4 kids and NOW you want a ring?! 🤨. Somebody, please make it make sense.

  • @avispajotte8535

    @avispajotte8535

    Жыл бұрын

    All she is intrested in is a RING...

  • @MrCeejaythadeejay

    @MrCeejaythadeejay

    Жыл бұрын

    She need a NuvaRing

  • @ariamarshall5161

    @ariamarshall5161

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m sure she’s always wanted a ring. He just never & will never give it to her. She was a fool for giving him 4 kids & 12yrs.

  • @Mentagasm

    @Mentagasm

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MrCeejaythadeejay 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @erinjohnson4273

    @erinjohnson4273

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@ariamarshall5161Big facts

  • @sandrarice4197
    @sandrarice4197 Жыл бұрын

    Being a wife is not performance based!!! What does he bring to the table? He cheats, has a baby outside the relationship, and expects her as a wife to be performance based. He doesn't deserve her!!! Young women, please don't move in with these men, play house, and have their children until you have your ring and married. That's your leverage as a woman. Don't let these men have the cow and milk free!!! Value yourself!!! You are worth it!!!

  • @mlm1916

    @mlm1916

    Жыл бұрын

    @Sandra Rice ✔️

  • @erinjohnson4273

    @erinjohnson4273

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @romeojeanete2501

    @romeojeanete2501

    Жыл бұрын

    Even marriage can't guarantee you forever after and peace. Some men marry just because. Is rather be happy not married then be married unhappy. Marriage can't bring you the happiness or peace you deserve. But honestly lots of woman need to be honest with themselves if you want to get married make it clear to him and do not accept any less

  • @Mike198526sexy

    @Mike198526sexy

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes it is, you wouldn't just lay with any man. You would marry a man that does this and that, which basically equals performance/standards.

  • @cola_314

    @cola_314

    Жыл бұрын

    See deserves better. The AUDACITY!

  • @mimineren8787
    @mimineren8787 Жыл бұрын

    It’s disturbing how these black mama never want to keep their son accountable.

  • @teisham4508

    @teisham4508

    Жыл бұрын

    This! Most of the moms be jealous of the gf/wife so they try to sabotage their relationships

  • @lawrencemiller8198

    @lawrencemiller8198

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea I personally think that the mother of the guy was cloaking him which wasn't a good thing cuz if he did wrong she was supposed to hold him accountable for his actions rather than pet him and try to throw everything on his girlfriend which wasn't right both him and his mom have some growing up to do!

  • @feliciawright7479
    @feliciawright7479 Жыл бұрын

    Let me make sure that I have this right: he had a “break baby “ and was “seduced” by her aunt and he has the nerve to have requirements of her. Sis, he does NOT love you! He does NOT want you! Please don’t let him tell you again. A ring is NOT going to solve your problems, make him respect you or make you feel more secure in your relationship.

  • @LatoyaLlab
    @LatoyaLlab Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad the Judge told her the truth

  • @mlm1916

    @mlm1916

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope it sank in‼️ She's been 'DOING WIFE' without 'BEING A WIFE'.

  • @latashaepps1060

    @latashaepps1060

    11 ай бұрын

    He told her the truth and she refuses to hear it 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @charleslee1644

    @charleslee1644

    11 ай бұрын

    BUT IT WENT IN ONE EAR COME OUT THE OTHER

  • @VashtiPerry
    @VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын

    She still delusional at the end. SMH

  • @ruthlynaaron6725

    @ruthlynaaron6725

    Жыл бұрын

    Right. Bet she'll still be waiting on that ring this time next year, with baby number 5 in her arms. It's just sad😮‍💨

  • @drapertraci7
    @drapertraci7 Жыл бұрын

    This young lady was not taught important things that she needed, like self-respect, self-worth, and protect your fertility. Too many women believe they are entitled to marriage because they had babies. That's not how it works. Exactly why we have to know who we are getting pregnant by. That sorry excuse he had about why he wouldn't marry her was so sorry, he had to laugh at it himself. Especially after disrespecting her with her AUNT and an ex! That was even worse. I just can't! This is sad! #respectyourself

  • @jacklynferro4336

    @jacklynferro4336

    Жыл бұрын

    And she gave him her virginity. She pursued him. She can't go backwards but she can definitely become better. It's sad

  • @charmainewalker8627

    @charmainewalker8627

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jacklynferro4336very sad 😢

  • @thePhoenixQueen
    @thePhoenixQueen Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry that this girl's self-esteem and self-worth are so low that she thinks this guy is the best she can do.

  • @kre.7339
    @kre.7339 Жыл бұрын

    Wow................low self esteem is real! She wants to marry this guy after all of eww. Just sad!

  • @VashtiPerry

    @VashtiPerry

    Жыл бұрын

    What she said was she wanted to get because of all that. Even worse…

  • @CJ-jx1xw
    @CJ-jx1xw Жыл бұрын

    After 4 children...she's not living up to your standards... 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️👈🏾

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage Жыл бұрын

    Once I heard that they have been together for 12 years a lot of children and no marriage.... I was already DONE! This is a hot mess!

  • @Djinn2002
    @Djinn2002 Жыл бұрын

    She has his FOUR children and she needs more under her belt to be his wife??!! He brags about having a job for 3 years, and 4 kids with a woman he hasn't married...🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

  • @Beast_Lee

    @Beast_Lee

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea..its almost like anyone can be a baby mama because that's a low requirement

  • @Djinn2002

    @Djinn2002

    Жыл бұрын

    @Beast Lee it shouldn't even be a thing! That's we have so many lost children..they grow up to be inmates..broken homes everywhere

  • @ruthlynaaron6725
    @ruthlynaaron6725 Жыл бұрын

    Well! After years of watching DC, we finally have a physical definition of low self esteem/respect. I was ready to pull my hair out the last time she said "that's what wives do". As for him, judge Star summed him up perfectly...FOUL!🙄

  • @jacklynferro4336

    @jacklynferro4336

    Жыл бұрын

    She is clearly misguided. It was very heart breaking and distasteful that she really believes that a wife should endure abuse sad so sad

  • @dominiuqewaston2492

    @dominiuqewaston2492

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol he’s listening to his mom, he’s ridiculous the mom is too smh

  • @gayneldergrazette5064

    @gayneldergrazette5064

    Жыл бұрын

    Judge star should have correct her when she said that

  • @miztinkerbellno2
    @miztinkerbellno2 Жыл бұрын

    Never let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you...Judge Toler

  • @annamarieb271
    @annamarieb271 Жыл бұрын

    This isn't standing by your man. This is standing by everybody's man !!

  • @youmakemelaugh222

    @youmakemelaugh222

    Жыл бұрын

    Ewwww she sharing that dirty peen and welcoming it back with open cat & jaws... tf🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @lawrencemiller8198

    @lawrencemiller8198

    Жыл бұрын

    Loll I don't think I could've put it any better myself

  • @mboyd692

    @mboyd692

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @scottsh1120
    @scottsh1120 Жыл бұрын

    Never let a man tell you more than once he don't want you

  • @Cscott1821
    @Cscott1821 Жыл бұрын

    Her mannerisms are that of an older drunk lady about to get upset at a cookout 😭 She’s very beautiful, her look and voice put me in the mind of Teyanna Taylor. However, she needs an attitude adjustment and to care more about herself as a woman and mother instead of trying to force a relationship.

  • @katrinaparnell6529

    @katrinaparnell6529

    Жыл бұрын

    You hit it right on the nose about her demeanor and attitude. As well as her resemblances to Teyana Tailor.

  • @maxdminimalist715
    @maxdminimalist715 Жыл бұрын

    What happens when you think being ride and die means getting a piece of glitter for years of abuse and disrespect.

  • @VashtiPerry
    @VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын

    She should be ashamed and so should he. 12 years with no resolution, no goals, no guidelines for how your going to have a proper family or give a proper family to your children. 😮

  • @sassysmile5428
    @sassysmile5428 Жыл бұрын

    She ain't going nowhere definitely need an update soon smh lol

  • @dwahndenson6385
    @dwahndenson6385 Жыл бұрын

    Neither him nor his Mother has an once of respect for her, and this is primarily do to the fact, she has no respect for herself, why do women began having babies, with men, who don't value them like this, and it's the children who suffer, more than anyone, in these type situations, how dare her disrespect them babies that way no matter, how she feels about their mom, she was dead wrong for that, maybe what she really needs, is her own man, so she can stay out of their business 😡😡

  • @SpontaneousVirgo
    @SpontaneousVirgo Жыл бұрын

    The mother is a HUGE issue!

  • @robbbietheim2096

    @robbbietheim2096

    Жыл бұрын

    She need a man 😁

  • @terrywilliams8571
    @terrywilliams8571 Жыл бұрын

    DeeDee please let asshole go , you are very strong and outspoken, collect your child support and go on. GOD love's you and take care of yourself and your children.

  • @jacklynferro4336
    @jacklynferro4336 Жыл бұрын

    She's scared of being a single woman with children. She rather settle. It's unfortunate that she made herself comfortable by justifying his actions by blaming other people. She should practice self love and embrace that time and energy into herself. I hope she has more love for her children than for their father. We are in living amongst people in this world with different levels of trauma. The way she is trying to correct her world view is toxic

  • @erinjohnson4273
    @erinjohnson4273 Жыл бұрын

    At some point as women we have to have higher esteem and standards for ourselves. Protect your fertility and stop playing wife

  • @chanelhopeful5336
    @chanelhopeful5336 Жыл бұрын

    Hold up, did she say that’s what wives Do, wow she’s trying to normalize cheating, this is utterly ridiculous!!!!

  • @byBrieMoore
    @byBrieMoore Жыл бұрын

    Not, "I took him back. That's what wives do!" Who told her that? Who showed her that? The lack of self-esteem, and role models, really has her messed up. Shame!

  • @NefertitiNubianQueen
    @NefertitiNubianQueen Жыл бұрын

    This guy has no respect for this young lady. She gotta do better before he puts a ring on her business. He needs a frigging slap. He is rude, what kind of a gettho man did the mother raise? This poor girl I feel for her but she has to go & be her own woman & don't be afraid to move on.

  • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
    @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 Жыл бұрын

    How immature is the mother to be crank calling ppl how old are we

  • @arcticfox22
    @arcticfox22 Жыл бұрын

    Her family have failed her. Was there really nobody around to speak life into this girl? The advice judge star gave, is probably the first time anyone has told her that

  • @A_-js8gm
    @A_-js8gm Жыл бұрын

    At some point women need to learn to put themselves and their children first. Why would you want a ring from him? He has no respect for you! Lord help her.

  • @JazzyJeffRealTalk
    @JazzyJeffRealTalk Жыл бұрын

    Lawdy dawdy and everybody always makes me laugh 🤣😂💀

  • @shaanahmontanna
    @shaanahmontanna Жыл бұрын

    He proud of that job ain’t it?!

  • @maddenmaze6891
    @maddenmaze6891 Жыл бұрын

    Did anyone notice when they walked out he put his hand around her waist ????? He’s manipulating that women !!!! I wouldn’t want him to touch me after telling me in so many words he don’t want me as a wife…

  • @nickiwallace72
    @nickiwallace72 Жыл бұрын

    He minimize his actions and maximize hers.. but yet and still, she's fighting for a ring when he's told you in more ways than one that he just not that into you... and sleeping with your aunt.... come on Sis.

  • @SB-tc2jr
    @SB-tc2jr Жыл бұрын

    Let's start a goFundme and buy this girl a RING!!!!!

  • @stylefan32
    @stylefan32 Жыл бұрын

    Even though that man and his mother are a complete mess, for a 28 year old mother of 4 she's very immature. She needs to grow up and find her own way.

  • @charleslee1644

    @charleslee1644

    11 ай бұрын

    SHE IS STUCK ON STUPID

  • @tpoppy9303
    @tpoppy9303 Жыл бұрын

    12 years and no ring. That dude dont wanna marry you.

  • @youmakemelaugh222

    @youmakemelaugh222

    Жыл бұрын

    I left an old dude year seven I wasn't playing... Nope

  • @FinDom1
    @FinDom1 Жыл бұрын

    Some women will put up with anything just to say they got a ring.

  • @charleslee1644

    @charleslee1644

    11 ай бұрын

    SHE TALKS WHEN SHE SHOULD LISTEN

  • @rozzjack
    @rozzjack Жыл бұрын

    See dudes like that are so terrible. She’s been cooking, cleaning, and raising 4 babies for you, but he’s still talking about she needs to meet his requirements??? What else does he want? He’s just gaslighting her. He doesn’t want to marry her, but is too much of a coward to admit it. He wants her to be his sex maid and nothing more. And she needs to value herself. She needs to be counseled by wise women in her family. It seems like she doesn’t have any. So sad.

  • @i-zumba8569
    @i-zumba8569 Жыл бұрын

    I really feel for this girl. She's the only man she's known all her life so she find it difficult and scary to leave her. She can't imagine what her world would be without him. My advise for the girl is to leave the kids with him and move on with her life.

  • @Idk-hy9zk

    @Idk-hy9zk

    Жыл бұрын

    This is a bs excuse

  • @HadiyaNuriddin
    @HadiyaNuriddin Жыл бұрын

    No, no. They should stay together so that no one else has to deal with them.

  • @annamarieb271

    @annamarieb271

    Жыл бұрын

    😅😅😅

  • @kevinblackmon5007
    @kevinblackmon5007 Жыл бұрын

    This is a comedy! He's real funny, a REAL comedian 😮

  • @angielyons980
    @angielyons980 Жыл бұрын

    Honestly, if she wanted to be a wife, she should have waited on having all of those babies. This man has no respect for her at all. She can stop trying to show him her worth and focus on believing in her worth. The woman in his life right now is his mother, and she needs to make nice with his mom. If she really wants that "ring" because that is it will be- " a ring." Hopefully, she can move on and just be a mother to her children and co-parent with him. So sad. 12 years! Judge Star nailed it on this one!

  • @minkki5656
    @minkki5656 Жыл бұрын

    What was this lady taught by her family? She doesn't value herself, self esteem is extremely low, continuing to say she's a wife because she puts up with his shenanigans, yet, there's no ring, and he said out loud he doesn't want to marry her?? What will it take for her to open her eyes and brain? He's a nasty, inept man that knows he can treat her any type of way, and she will stay. Another woman that's not going anywhere. Just living in a toxic hell hole.

  • @Dxsmel

    @Dxsmel

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s a sad situation people put themselves in this situation man gave her 4 kids and she let him They both have low self esteem and should’ve just been high school lovers This is a prime example of a relationship past it’s expiration date They both need to grow up and that unfortunately means growing apart

  • @davidakins3788
    @davidakins3788 Жыл бұрын

    She has a real smart mouth,she don't let nobody finish, neither one respects each another

  • @BreeJaxxs
    @BreeJaxxs Жыл бұрын

    This hurt my soul and I cried for her because baby girl lost herself a long time ago and the sad part is that she feels like she hasn't hit rock bottom yet, after all of that he put her through.

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 Жыл бұрын

    ANOTHER CLASSIC CASE OF: WHY BUY THE COW, WHEN THE MILK IS FREE??? STOP MAKING SOMEBODY A PRIORITY - WHEN YOU'RE JUST A OPTION TO THEM!!!

  • @tearapowell3780
    @tearapowell3780 Жыл бұрын

    What she said at the end gave me chills. She was with him for soo long and the attachment b real and she just wanted the title even tho she deserves more

  • @Idk-hy9zk

    @Idk-hy9zk

    Жыл бұрын

    She sound stupid

  • @BAWNBAWNBAWN
    @BAWNBAWNBAWN Жыл бұрын

    Run gurl,he don't want you 😢

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 Жыл бұрын

    I have one question: WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO MARRY THIS DUDE??? HE'S NASTY!!!! I find it interesting that she's gotta meet his requirements, but he has none for himself. We have to get out of the mentality of "keeping our family together" with men who don't want that.

  • @cynthiaward4512
    @cynthiaward4512 Жыл бұрын

    Sister, don't let a man keep making you his least priority, Step On And Step Proud, You Are A Beautiful Strong Women..Peace and Blessing ❤❤❤❤

  • @wolfmancool
    @wolfmancool Жыл бұрын

    This man is sounding a foghorn about how bad he is. If after sleeping with her aunt, she still wants to marry him, she needs to look at herself & get help.

  • @Jedi_Jonson
    @Jedi_Jonson Жыл бұрын

    Why, why, why, WHY!! Someone, please help me understand why a lot of women think getting a ring and being married solidifies your relationship? Or makes you complete? A ring does not fundamentally change who a person is before or after marriage. Why aren't they chasing having a compatible partner with the same values and goals in life, instead of literally being with someone who cause you nothing but heartache, but they think it's worth it in the end if they can get a ring and say "I'm his wife" I just don't get that logic.

  • @minervaloves
    @minervaloves10 ай бұрын

    She's a good person and she's beautiful. I hope she gets some therapy and can be with someone who deserves her 🥰🥰

  • @nelly2362
    @nelly2362 Жыл бұрын

    He is a momma boy...let him go be with her lol

  • @MH_Prof
    @MH_Prof Жыл бұрын

    How dumb is this? 12 years, 4 kids, and no commitment. He still doesn’t know if she’s the one. Now here she is begging him to marry her. Stop creating families before the commitment. All out of order.

  • @NolaDarling333
    @NolaDarling333 Жыл бұрын

    Awww hurt my heart when she said WE CAN TRYYY😢 AWW poor baby she love him but he dont love her 💔

  • @jennevamadison3803
    @jennevamadison3803 Жыл бұрын

    All this girl want is a ring. Smh!

  • @bebebe1354

    @bebebe1354

    Жыл бұрын

    Sad

  • @maryburke7850
    @maryburke7850 Жыл бұрын

    Where is her mom she wasn’t taught to have self worth I see

  • @melaninandaura9713
    @melaninandaura9713 Жыл бұрын

    Thinking that getting a ring as some kind of reward for having to deal with heartbreak and pain is such a broken mindset. Like oh I’ve suffered beyond belief so I deserve to be legally and spiritually bound to the person who caused it for life. WHAT?!!

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength Жыл бұрын

    She ain't going nowhere............sadly.

  • @rozzjack
    @rozzjack Жыл бұрын

    He’s one of those dudes who think they’re the smartest person in the room, but is far from it.

  • @penelopeparks5022
    @penelopeparks5022 Жыл бұрын

    Having a baby with someone else, during our relationship, is a deal breaker! He is really with the other BM.

  • @AstrologicallySpeaking1
    @AstrologicallySpeaking1 Жыл бұрын

    Judge Star you know darn well the Bible says to let go of the mothers apron strings. That mother needs to mind her business!

  • @SB-tc2jr
    @SB-tc2jr Жыл бұрын

    Ms. Eye Rolling, Neck Rolling Russell is WAY too immature! 4 Children and she acts like one! She needs therapy for whatever is hurting her and not allowing her to grow up! She wants love but as JS said, he is not the one that's going to give it to her. She needs to pick herself up and stop being a doormat! Spend sometime healing and loving herself and her children and she will eventually get the love she deserves. Mr. Man, is pretty low (extra baby, and her AUNT) - he can go build a family with one of them! It's in him to be a good man but it's going to someone else to bring it out of him! He feels that she is beneath him!

  • @henryyogen563

    @henryyogen563

    Жыл бұрын

    She never had a childhood... That's why she comes across as immature

  • @SB-tc2jr

    @SB-tc2jr

    Жыл бұрын

    @@henryyogen563 ahhh, I think it's more than that...

  • @HerbalQueen

    @HerbalQueen

    11 ай бұрын

    He’s a grown man who runs to his mother to handle his relationship disputes…NO ONE will bring the man out of him…he needs to grow up himself and stop procreating

  • @SB-tc2jr

    @SB-tc2jr

    11 ай бұрын

    @@HerbalQueen Thanks

  • @delilahspivey1093
    @delilahspivey1093 Жыл бұрын

    If this is a real case, he's a graduate of the Premiere Clown Academy, and she needs MUCH psychoanalysis. They should have provided it to her.

  • @chrisk2734
    @chrisk2734 Жыл бұрын

    She needs to cut her losses

  • @thewise2443
    @thewise2443 Жыл бұрын

    what has relationships come to... does no one the definition of loyalty and honesty anymore

  • @JoBunny87
    @JoBunny87 Жыл бұрын

    A few things: 1. She thinks mistreatment is a badge of honor and deserves a ring. I can’t stand people who put up with BS think they are good people or suitable partners especially considering they only choose toxic relationships to reinforce the self hate they have. 2. She chased HIM. Women should never chase men. It is in a man’s nature to take as much as he can- could be sex, ego stroking, financial support, your energy- it could be anything… even if he doesn’t like you. Men take whats convenient. This man went as far as putting 4 babies in her. In this case, he used and took her reproductive system to benefit himself- which is spread his seed. She was nothing but an incubator to him. Most men see women as tools and that is a fact. It’s in their nature. That’s why women should not chase them. 3. About his mom. I am so sick of women- especially black women- coddling their boys. It’s destroying them. That mother is competing with his sons baby momma. She helped him cheat. It’s emotional incest. I bet she’s a single momma. 4. The plaintiff is talking about “respect is earned, not given” yet she’s been chasing and respecting a man who mistreats her for TWELVE YEARS. 5. Black women are just ridiculous. Yeah he’s trash. But Black women have standards lower than h3ll. This is on black women. 6. She’s not going anywhere.

  • @erinjohnson4273

    @erinjohnson4273

    Жыл бұрын

    And let the church say amen 😉

  • @lexislove639

    @lexislove639

    Жыл бұрын

    6!!!!!

  • @dreamgrlarchive

    @dreamgrlarchive

    Жыл бұрын

    this is on his autonomous self. he knows what he’s doing. all because the women around him are enabling and have low self esteem is no discount of the fact that he is an adult with his own mind. he is the problem.

  • @dreamgrlarchive

    @dreamgrlarchive

    Жыл бұрын

    as a demographic black women standards are awful i agree but the issue isn’t solved by blaming us for the actions of a man that’s doing what he wants to do.

  • @JoBunny87

    @JoBunny87

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dreamgrlarchive I'm a black woman myself. I am not blaming black women for the actions of a man, I'm blaming black women for being so desperate and putting up with this mess. It's time for black women to stop putting themselves through this and raise the standards no matter how much our counter parts cry about. There's nothing we can about degenerate black men but we can do something about OURSELVES.

  • @quiquigoodman1169
    @quiquigoodman1169 Жыл бұрын

    One of the best episodes I’ve seen in a while 👏🏾

  • @MsBizzyRae
    @MsBizzyRae Жыл бұрын

    So, she’s mad that she ONLY a baby mama, but she’s allowing him to make her just a baby mama🙄 all three of them are wrong…all three of them are childish as hell. So, why does she want to marry him? He sleeps with EVERYONE! someone needs to talk to the girl and ask her why she is holding on to him? Smh as the best judge would say, “you keep giving him more of what he already doesn’t appreciate” smh what a clown!

  • @helgapataki4156
    @helgapataki4156 Жыл бұрын

    The minute you let him go is the minute your life will increase!! Your skin will glow & get brighter. Be kind to YOURSELF ❤

  • @shamaria2191
    @shamaria2191 Жыл бұрын

    self-esteem is in the toilet, sad thing is they got together so young and she doesn't know how much better she could do. she's so beautiful I hope she works on her self-esteem, for herself and her children.

  • @annamarieb271
    @annamarieb271 Жыл бұрын

    I don't feel one bit sorry for her SMH

  • @charleslee1644

    @charleslee1644

    11 ай бұрын

    YOU CAN TELL BY THE WAY SHE WALKED OUT OF COURT SHE WAS NOT LEAVING HIM AND HE WILL KEEP WALKING ON HER

  • @northphillyp
    @northphillyp Жыл бұрын

    Marry into that family for what?..sis was knee deep in this foolishness 3 kids ago and if her and moms ain't somewhere near the same page after all these years it ain't never gonna be right.. ya stuck

  • @vanessakenney3144
    @vanessakenney3144 Жыл бұрын

    28 and been waiting on a ring for 12 years. WOW SMH

  • @tyclark259
    @tyclark259 Жыл бұрын

    This Young Woman Needs To Focus On Her Educating Herself, Maturing, And Self-Esteem THATS IT THATS ALL

  • @Dannisandi86
    @Dannisandi86 Жыл бұрын

    This is wild. How many different times does she need to be told he don’t want her. She needs to wake the hell up !

  • @latoshamajors5085
    @latoshamajors5085 Жыл бұрын

    So she's good enough to keep putting babies up in her, but she's not good enough for a ring. Omg... I'm already pissed off!

  • @maryboone6695
    @maryboone6695 Жыл бұрын

    You don't need a ring let him go after 12 years he isn't going to marry you

  • @ladytnynj8284
    @ladytnynj8284 Жыл бұрын

    This poor young lady! 😢😢

  • @VashtiPerry
    @VashtiPerry Жыл бұрын

    She is slow. He is disgusting. Sorry. I’m praying for y’all

  • @rweston7685
    @rweston7685 Жыл бұрын

    She’s deserves so much more! Lawd have mercy! Poor girl.

  • @Trisa8
    @Trisa8 Жыл бұрын

    I'm not worth love, respect, kindness, protection, honor - that is what she secretly feels every time she screams about being a wife. Who destroyed your love for self. Who put in you that you ain't worthy of an ounce of respect and why the hell do you let anyone dishonor your soul? That dude is as the young folks say, for the streets.

  • @wordplay6665
    @wordplay6665 Жыл бұрын

    Him and this damn job for 3 years with his 5 kids 🙄 congratulations sir 👏🏽 you are employed

  • @xSoSurreal
    @xSoSurreal Жыл бұрын

    Four children, no ring, an annoying mother and a child out of wedlock! Wow. Girl, run! He does not want you.

  • @pratkier
    @pratkier Жыл бұрын

    I cringed everytime she said that a wife is supposed to accept cheating and side babies. That's why she's not a wife. No one ever taught her what a wife is supposed to be or a husband or a marriage for that matter

  • @lillies2011
    @lillies2011 Жыл бұрын

    This is pure evil. 12 years, 4 kids, this man has no integrity whatsoever

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