InshALLAH whenever i get married I'll treat my wife in very good manner, InshALLAH

@foodiewaalafood499

3 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah ! May Allah bless you always. The starting point is always a good intention.

@emanabidemanabid7946

3 жыл бұрын

Mash Allah

@theblessedsoul1921

3 жыл бұрын

Inshallah

@rabiaahmed9583

2 жыл бұрын

in shah Allah

@muhammadyahyanaeemmuhammad5374

2 жыл бұрын

because wife deserve respect

I just cried listening to this lecture because I feel this was sent from Allah..this was an answer to my prayer and now I’m feeling soo good..yes i am in an abusive marriage and my tears won’t stop thinking how to deal with it..but it’s like Allah knew I need someone to let me know the true wisdom behind my silent suffering..SARA ASIF ma’am I’m truly thankful from my heart for giving me a guidance which i was truly in need off..May allah bless you for this..you have a true know of what women go through in silence and beautifully letting us know how to understand the situation we are in..I wish I could meet u some day and gain even more knowledge..may Allah bless you emmensely my dear sister Ameen Ameen ❤️

@soulnature5302

2 жыл бұрын

May Almighty Allah bless you.ameen

@zainsdeco11

2 жыл бұрын

Stray strong IL pray for u

@nishafat308

2 жыл бұрын

May Allah give you immense strength 💪 n sukoon. Ameen

@easyhomecooking162

2 жыл бұрын

@@nishafat308 ameen..please make dua for me..to have a better relationship with my husband

@nishafat308

2 жыл бұрын

@@easyhomecooking162 Yes sister I pray may you be get true geniun love n respect from your husband. May Allah save u from evil eyes and bless your marriage n offsprings. Ameen 🤲🏼 It touched when she said u can love a person but your attachment should be only with Allah.

Insha Allah I ll be very kind and generous with my future wife .....Insha Allah ....

@osamakhan2196

3 жыл бұрын

Your future wife will be lucky In sha Allah....

@aliay2743

3 жыл бұрын

@@osamakhan2196 It is her right according to Quran and Sunnah. not lucky. Allah created Adam first , then Eve.

@osamakhan2196

3 жыл бұрын

@@aliay2743 Assalam o alaikum sis i know just appreciating him for good niya 💓

@theblessedsoul1921

3 жыл бұрын

Inshallah

@Haidervlogsoffil

3 жыл бұрын

Agar sohar

I firmly believe that it all begins at home, the way we bring about our kids, especially our boys, we need to instill Islam, love, mercy, kindness, good manners in them, teach them that it's not shameful or demeaning for boys to do housework, love and care for their kids, talk about your feelings etc.... We women raise our kids with a lot of favoritism, which makes the boys feel that they are so much better than girls, this is our biggest downfall, especially in India, Pakistan etc

@choosafood4718

3 жыл бұрын

Well said sis it’s all started from home!

@bullseye9723

3 жыл бұрын

not right , teach women too about mens right too, that when she marries she knows how high status her husabnd has in islam!

@choosafood4718

3 жыл бұрын

@@bullseye9723 right girls ko pata nhe hota shadi kya chez hai kya responsibilities anay vali hain aur onko kya kuch bardasht karna hai that’s why shuru mei husband and wife ko adjust honay mei buht waqt lagta hai.

@truthprevails556

3 жыл бұрын

@@bullseye9723..... As Muslims, if we practice our Deen properly, we should all know our rights over each other, but in Pakistan and India, they put culture over Deen, that's where all the problems start.... If we live our lives like our Deen teaches us, then we should be well aware of how to treat each other..... And that also begins at home

@bullseye9723

3 жыл бұрын

@@truthprevails556 yeah ok, but there is no problem in following culture as long as it goes against islam !! and islam put different responsibilites on man and women! teach women hor to handle the house and teach man how to take up responsibilities and he the leader of his future family!

Each word you spoke is like a pearl... I am not married yet... but I ll keep your words with me forever like a necklace of Pearls ! Your words are like medicine for many women... who are suffering day and night... May Allah reward you the highest place in Jannat ul firdaus!!!💞

@sadiya2418

3 жыл бұрын

Yes same here.. Not married yet but these words are full of wisdom❤

@muzamilahmad4452

2 жыл бұрын

Great Sister. Also forward this video to those girls who are your friends and relative. May Allah bless us all.

@manalkausar13

2 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/nJWop9afg8bHo6Q.html quranic explanation on present suituation

@Lubna3027

2 жыл бұрын

Aameennn In sha Allaah

Can't describe how eagerly waited for mam's video. Please make a video on simple nikah. Last time also I commented for that.👍👍👍

Many religious scholars don’t even accept domestic violence as something to be even noticed.They just say have patience & parents usually don’t support their daughters in such situations & force them to continue whatever the circumstances are.I genuinely salute you for such a great narrative & speaking about this issue with so much grace & respect instead of blaming our women for all the wrong in our society.

@bullseye9723

3 жыл бұрын

not true, not all types are domestic violence in islam. hard beating close to death is know as domestic violence.

@maven5653

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it's really sad that some parents aren't supporting at that time. First they just marry off their daughter or son without educating them about the rights and duties of spouses given by Islam and other things etc, cuz they don't know it themselves. Some just educate their son or daughter according to culture, not islam which is so wrong! Then of course problems arise after marriage. But many parents would just tell their daughter to bear it all and have sabr. Like wth! That is not the sabr which islam teaches about but unfortunately our society is illiterate about true teachings of islam

@bullseye9723

3 жыл бұрын

@@maven5653 no , what they told is right, Allah is with those who have sabr!! and yes women should be told how her hsuabnds have right and how high status he has.. and no one is teaching culture !! what tey are teaching islam!! you can't always brush out islamic laws saying its culture !! what you may think as culture is actually islamic

@maven5653

3 жыл бұрын

@@bullseye9723 bro or sis, like why in the world are you acting like you know the situation of every house in this country or whatever. First I'm not talking about all families. I only used the words "some" or "many" in my comment cuz i know there are also islamically literate familes, God bless them BUT i know and have seen jahalat abt the situations i talked abt. A lot of it, ok. On the other hand your talking as if all family systems are same. And please watch videos of good scholars on sabr, ok. Cuz it's a very confused thing. Sabr is a very beautiful thing but islam also teaches situations when to have sabr and when to speak up, ok. And the situation i talked about does not call of sabr. I'm wasn't talking about small issues where sabr is advised. And also by culture, i meant some toxic norms spread in our societies that HAVE NOTHING to do with islam so i haven't denied any islamic teachings. The cultural things that r in congruence with islam r ok but those which r not, should be discarded. Yes, husband has high status and i acknowledge it too but have i denied it in my comment? No. And that high status does not at all allow him to inflict any sort of abuse on wife. Both should treat each other with love and care as taught by islam.

@bismanoor2669

3 жыл бұрын

@@maven5653 Soooooo true 👍🏻

Wow!! MashaAllah Finally someone talked sensibly .. Alhamdulillah this is one eye opening lecture. Thank you so much for raising important points!!!! Jazak’Allah khairan .. 🤍

One of the best part of Monday’s ... A very practical and conscience answer to many problems rampant in the society

Iam from Bangladesh. Your voice gives me another type of peace!Ma sha Allah!May Allah bless you sister.

Beautifully articulated, thank you for speaking English. Much love from Australia

Masha Allah! Sister Sara I admire the way you talk. It is so enlightening. It is so peaceful. I have been through abusive married relationship for 13 years. I ran to many people to solve the problem. From the time I enrolled myself with Alhuda for quran course my life transformed. The moment I realized no one can solve my problem except my creator. I held the ground firm. Alhamdulillah when I developed strong bond with my rub. I started smiling. I started forgiving the one who oppressed me. I started wishing the best for the one who oppressed me. Today I thank Allah swt for choosing me. I strongly believe Islam is haqq. I strongly believe life is a test. I strongly believe the word of Allah swt is haqq.

@zuhairfan2490

2 жыл бұрын

Did u got a divorce?

@enolaholmes6179

2 жыл бұрын

Didn't you leave him?

@zuhairfan2490

2 жыл бұрын

@@defaultuser7190 Sahi hae, jo 13 saal kae waqt mae sahi nahi ho saka vo ab ho jai ga, bhool hae.dae or time, burae ho kae dil mae hasrat lae kae mr jai. Best of luck! Apni zindagi to barbaad kr hi lae gae aap dusro ko yae ooltae mashwarae na dae.

@abdullahsajid3870

2 жыл бұрын

Plzzz sister plzzzz pray for me

I wish this video never end. And i listen to these words all day. Ur words gave me lots of strength

so comprehensive and so impactful Maa sha Allah Jazak Allah khair

Her voice is so soothing 💗

MashaAllah. Thank you for sharing.

Each and every word is true . A complete lecture for every woman to lead a peaceful life.

Just wow...thank you for such an amazing lecture. May all those who have been wronged in their life find the strength to forgive those who hurt them. And may we all be guided towards the right path. Ameen.

MaaShaaAllah very well said! You have really laid it out exactly how it should be!

MashaAllah ! Thank you ❤️

Subhan Allah! It's beautiful advice by a sister, may Allah reward you . and may Allah guide us all to make better connection with Allah SWT

I loved ur bayan and listen it carefully without skiping single second thanku for giving such lessons which i can never get from any one thanku a lot stay always blessed walekumassalam

Mashallah found something sensibly represented on this issue after very long time . May Allah SWT make us better in out attitudes towards each other.

amazing impressively explained. hats off to u sister. it arrived at the time when most needed as if allah swt is guiding thru this video

I am mother of 3 ,and my mr nasty di everything to make me suffer . At some points i see myself as a changed person .But whenever i was able to be strong it was because of Allah,s help . I want to tell all my friends to be strong ,you never know what future holds for us .And most of the time future is holding sufferings. Establish a strong bond with Allah ,this is the only way to survive in this life .

MashaAllah Allah increase you in knowledge, consistent you in good deeds and make you conveying such messages till the last breath.

Great talk. A must listen.

Best speech on women's day. Thank you ma'am

Amazing bayan👌.. One of the best islamic lecturers I've seen😍.. Shukriya sara ji for ths beautiful lecture.. Jazakallah khair😇😇

Jazakallah sister it was truly an eye opener for us .May we all seek Allah"s help in our every problems. Aameen

Beautifully explained dear,just loved the way you taught us how not to be and the best part is we women should try to develop our relationship with Allah.The moment i surrender infront of Allah was the moment i found myself and got healed inside n out.Words couldn't express my feelings but yes,faith in Allah will surely make a way to the happiness InshAllah

JazaKAllahu khairun kaseera for sharing it

After listening to your lecture and package of advices I have only to say.... " Ye duniya ranj o ghum ka ghalat andaza rakhti hai, Khuda he khoob waqif hai kis par Kya guzarti hai."

@Heenakazi

2 жыл бұрын

Sach kaha..jiski qabar usko khabar🤐

Much neededdd❤️🙏🏼

I USUALLY DONT WATCH LONG VIDEOS BUT I WAS FLOWING INTO IT BCOZ ITS THE VOICE OF MY HEART.

Beautifully explained every scenario in the married life.

Very true and powerful, thank you sister 🙏🏼

MashaAllah, may Allah accept this effort. An eye opening for brothers to ponder and act.........

You are very sensible sister in Islam! Jazak Allah khair..

Jazakillahu khair!

الحمد لله It really touched my heart.as if was told me. جزاكي الله خيرا كثيرا

what a greatt explanation, may Allah reward you for this great work, in both life's

This is very inspirational speech for me, getting through very tough days of my life since my marriage, May Allah give us Sabr and help us to forgive everyone who cause pain in our lives and gives a lot of Ajar in Akhirah

JazakAllah khair sister

Alhamdolillah. U r so soft spoken. Mashallah

Mera Rab k taraf chale......sirf Mera Rab Khush hojaye. Waiting for the answers to magically appear to me.

Assalamualaikum. Im from Dhaka,Bangladesh. - Cant live with out him, Cant live with him! Last part of this lecture may be for me! Yes im practicing muslimah Alhamdulillah but yet i have to change lots of things. Aaj mere sath koi buraayi na huyi ho to main shayed Allah se bohot duur reh jaati. Aur ye vedio bhi nehi dekhneko milti! Thanks Allah! Alhamdulillah for everything! Please make dua for my spouse ( for us)

Ma sha Allah ... Jazakallah khair sister ..Beautifully explained May Allah make this video a life changer for every one watching.!!

I listen your words. that's really touch my heart May Allah bless you and your family sister

So beautifully explained ! Jazak Allah.

جزاک اللہ خیر اللہ آپ کی نیکیوں کو قبول کرے آمین

Beautifully lecture 💕

Jazak Allah khair

I can totally relate to every word you said sister. Jazak Allah Khair

This lecture is a life changing for muslims women, I hope I could meet or talk to Ustaza Sara.

Madam you are MashAllah amazing, i can't really explain while listening to this beyaan, i felt im on the right path now....

Jazak Allah khair 🌹

JazakAllah !!

One of the best lectures on relationship.

Very beautifully explained each point . May Allah reward you sister for everything you doing for ummah

Thank u sister… it was an eye opener for me… may Allah tayala give reward for this.

V nicely quoted example of hazrat aasiya AS.. Her belief and connection With Allah SWT..

MashaALLAH.. May ALLAH bless you dear😊 JazakALLAHu khair

Society needs such type of women and all of us should be ready to make ours sisters and daughters like her. Love ❤from India.

MasahAllah Beautiful lecture

Your words are genuinely a source of motivation… JazakAllah 💐💐

JazakAllah. Very informative video.. ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

May Allah Pak give you more strength & make your voice soooo huge that this evil issue gets resolved within no time Ameen

Thank you for talking about Narcissism. At 12:00 mins

Waiting for this beautiful series

Jazak Allah Hu Khairah mam

Really we have to connect to ALLAh swt you are exactly right dear sister

Jazakillah Khair

Sister Allah give you khair in this life and hereafter...u answesed my each n every question n confusion that m going through...jazakAllah

Beautifully explained EV. Nick and notch of married relationship. Blessed to have ma, m Sara to give this lecture

جزاک اللّہ ۔۔خیرا کثیرا۔۔۔۔I have no words May Allah Pak blessed you in both worlds.and guide us .. ameen suma ameen.

The thing is we can never change a person so if your husband is an angry ,uncaring,selfish,manipulative man he will remain one . So don't waste your time ,if he is not a man who respects you leave him asap ,you will only regret the time gone.

@aleeza7866

2 жыл бұрын

We women are raised to respect our husbands no Matter how they treat us

@sidrakhan6781

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@aminaishtiaq4276

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely correct

@AazimVlogs007

Жыл бұрын

children r chain of our feet.

You just nailed it! MashaAllah

Jazakillah Khair to Youth Club and Ustadha Sara Asif for giving us such a special life long lesson learning opportunity especially for women! May Allah grant you the highest levels of Jannah InshAllah!

@itsuraiya

3 жыл бұрын

Ameen 🌸

@rabiajahangir6214

2 жыл бұрын

@@itsuraiya ameen summa ammeen

@ummatiallhumdulillah8302

2 жыл бұрын

Ameen

An amazing series love it love to listen you

Aameen . May ALLAH bless you ... dil khush kardiya aap ne ek ek baat 100% sach kahi aap ne .. ALLAH paak apki kawish qubool farmaaain . bht dilli sukoon or tasalli milli.

MashaAllah jazakAllah meri behn a very deep information for all of us jazakAllah

JazakAllah Khairan kaseera :)

Jazakillah o Khairan This was very helpful ❤️

Wonderful counseling excellent

I just love the title. Now going to listen to the video

MashaAllah well said! Thanks for sharing sister. Jzk

Love to hear ur lovely words..sis. That our Allah is the way for everything...

Really loved your intro ❤

What a great lecture MashaAllah

I think psychological and emotional abuse is much worse than clear and physical abuse. Because a person can stay strong and well spirited to stand up for themselves in the middle of clearly bad situation (like the wife of firoun). But a person in emotionally abusive environment cannot fight. Their inner self is damaged. No one can see their pain because emotional abusers are charming in everyone's eyes. Even your children think youre crazy. I would say that women in emotionally abusive situations must make hijra from such a man in order to be able to worship Allah the way she wants. I also think she needs to report emotional abuse and not just physical, to authorities that can protect her and help her start a new life free from madness Please leave, for the sake of your sanity. Don't choose to die as a psycho.

Jazakallahu khairan.

Beautiful beautiful your speech 😪 your speech makes me strong JazakALLAH khair love you

You speak so well that I can't even imagine of anything else

Walikum asalaam sister Ma Sha Allah....soo peaceful ...soo informative speech.. May Allah bless you.

Mashallah, jazakallah khair

Excellent lecture ma’am

well expressed....jazakillah

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Salaam sister, Alhumdolilallah I really like your lectures, when your heart transformed , your surroundings get changed, well said ...... ya Allah except our struggles, keep up the good work, may Allah bless . Ameen ya rabul alameen.