Win Your Spouse | Salman Asif Siddiqui
Salman Asif Siddiqui outlines the key elements that make a marriage successful, followed by a question/answer session with the audience.
00:00:00 Preview
00:00:41 Correcting Faulty Presumptions
00:13:29 Agenda of the Talk
00:13:44 What is Perspective?
00:22:10 Why is Marital Relationship Important?
00:25:05 Indicators of a Correct Perspective
00:27:35 Comparing Love & Lust
00:35:32 Activity: Part 1
00:51:43 Two Dimensions of Fearing Allah
01:00:31 Activity: Part 2
01:16:29 3 Spheres of Conversation Between Spouses
01:35:04 Recap
01:37:39 Questions & Answers
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thank u so much salman sir im literally crying while typing this.ur words have power to heal and guide ALLAH apka saya hmare sir pr qayam rakhe keep guiding us.JAZAKALLAH
@syednazeer2750
2 жыл бұрын
Really u write true ,I feel it ,words are absolutely doing like a power
Absoltrue, itna khoobsurat kese soch lete hain ap. Allah qabool farmae itni purkhaloos koshish apki. Very impressive discussion
بارک اللہ فی علمک
Sir... Aap b Allah pak ki naimaton m Sy aik h... Allah pak aapko sehat wali lambi Zindagi dy... Aameen...
@kishwersadaqat2054
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen
@noorulhaq7716
2 жыл бұрын
tensed of 9️⃣ 9️⃣ and a few others are 9p9
Thankyou Salman Shb, you always inspire me in terms of your dialogue. May Allah Bless you with more health, aafiyah, and success. Aameen.
Dr javed . Qasim ali shah n u all are doing vvvvvvvvv important work . U cant imagine how many gretting n wishes i want fr u for this work.
شکریہ بس میں بھی شادی کی تیاری کر رہا ہوں تقریباً ایک ماہ بعد شادی ہے اور میں آپ سے کافی فایدہ اٹھا رہا ہوں
Thank u very much for this vedio. I am so happy that I heard it. We need elders like you sir to guide us and help us to live a stable happy life. Ur age, ur experience, ur way of talking, ur calmness everything makes ur words worthy to listen.
Jazak Allah khairan kaseera 🤲💚❤🇵🇰🍀☘🌾🌵🌴🌳🍃🌿🌲🪴🌱🌹🌷👍⚘
Subhan ALLAH Excellent Jazak ALLAH khair 💓
Alhamdulillah... Allah k bohot shukr hai..I got this lecture... jzakallahi wl khair...❤
Ap Jo kaam kr rhy hn this so meaningful. Ye kaam is mashray my boht Kam log kr rhy hn. Allah apko behtreen jaza e khair day.
Sir you are gem of a person! Very effective lecture. Apne bilkul thek kaha jab tak parents mai acha relationship na hou tab tak hum apne bachun ki achi tarbiat nahi kr saken gy!
Now a days its the most most important topic to discuss and guide ppl. Ur each leacture words are gold for us . May Allah keep u jazaikhair n make ur both life jannat
MashaAllah, Very positive, purposeful guidance for good mutual relationship .... !!!
I am just amazed at level of his knowledge
Thank you sooooo much your sessions are so informative.
JazakumULLAH Khairan Sir, for aLL the Precious Lectures !
Ilm marham ki tarha hota hai... JazakAllah...
Excellent, thanks to the right guidance Allah bless you and your family and increase your intelligence.
الله آپ کو جزائے خیر دے آمین، آپ کے پاس علم کی نعمت ہے۔
These are such eye opening advices not only for the marital life but also to become a better human being and to live a life of contentment. May Allah reward Sir Salman and the entire team of erdc immensely for their efforts. Ameen. And may Allah give us the wisdom to understand these suggestions. Ameen
Behtreen ma sha Allah
Jazakallahu khairan kaseera sir.
Jazak Allah Khair sir. Great. Message
Jazak Allahu kheran kaseera
Salman Saab thank you all this really make sense it’s really helpful and open minds
JazakAllah ❤️
Masha Allah Allah bless you with hikma and Alhamdullilah you are distributing it for the sake of Allah, May Allah reward you immensely for your efforts Ameen
Such a powerful message. May Allah bless you
JazakAllah
Thankyou so much for you work!
Very good content!!! Thanks
Jazaka Allah Bhai Allah bless you with long healthy happy life
Thanks
جزاكم الله خير
SubhanAllah thanks bro
Jazakallahi khair❤
Wonderful advices
hats off such an amazing lecture....its helping alot....Allah bless u Sir.
Thank you Salman sahab Thank you ERDC Team●♡●
جزاک اللّہ
What a lecture, Salute sir 🥀
May Allah bless you more.Aameen
Thank you sir 🙏
Love from India ❤️ Mumbai... excellent video
شکریہ
Sir keep up the great work. Allah bless you.
I have in same condition ,u give a lot, Jazzak Allah
Masha Allah Excellent lecture
ماشاءاللّٰه . جزاک اللّٰه
Great tips
One of the best discussion and v effective guidlines...are provided may Allah bless you sir....please continue..its as sadaqaie jaariah from you.
Jazakallah
Great 👍👍
Jazakallah ❤ Allah pak salmat rakhy amen
🎉❤🎉❤❤❤❤ Objective n effective lecture
Sooo beautiful words....
Excellent. 💯👍
Kamal informative talk!
Thank you so much 💕 from india
Wonderful
fantastic👏
Bless you sir👍💯
Wow great words
Bohat awlaa
JazaakAllah!🤲
Alhmdlilah . Your knowledge and wisdom. Barakallah.
You are very good. Madhalah Allah bless you jizakallah Allah ap ko bht bht ajar ata phermye ameeen sumameen
Jazak Allah
@ghulamruqia9490
2 жыл бұрын
I always try make him happy. But still I can't get success..he thought that I am same like his X wife .but I am not ..X wife was dishonest with him.. every one is change to another..many time I face punishment Which I never ever did any sin..
Allah app ko jazae khair de ameen
How can you solve problems with someone who doesn't acknowledge a problem.Who is a covet Narcissist.The marriage only survived this long because one person was only giving
Asslamualikum sir, kindly make a detail video on this topic " How to cope with the hatred that has been developed for parents". JAZAKALLAH
Sir if possible to have english captions plz ,very productive lecture ❤❤
Thank u so much Allah pak apko jazae kher de ameen mere pas alfaz nehi hain
MashAllah
Very informative and wonderful lecture . i also want to join live session. How will i know about the next session
Jazakallah khair sir
Subhan Allah
Subhanallah
بہت زبردست
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Sir aapke baatein aise lag rahi hai jaise is duniya ki ho hi nai
sir can you please speak about marriage with a narcissist
Mashallah
میں نے دیکھی ہے ایسی ایک عورت۔۔ جس کو ہم مظلوم سمجھتے ہیں مگر انہوں نے اپنے شوہر کی کبھی برائی نہیں کی ہمیشہ تعریف کرتی ہیں اور خوش ہیں۔
*Love from Gujerkhan*
You are requested to organise one lecture only for the financial responsibility of husband about wife and children
Great Information Ma sha Allah. Sochnay ki baat ye he k jha shohar ya bivi bewaffaie krey, yani k shadi ki main base jo k Trust he osko hi tor dey , wha ye lesy apply kia jaey? Jha manipulators shadi kr ley jhoot bol k , shadi k baad pta chlay k sb jhoot bola, ab vo use kr ry he financially b or os k sath sath wafa b nahi he. I wonder how such relationships can be recovered?? how the broken trust can be built again?
@zulaikhazahoorkitchen
2 жыл бұрын
Same question 🤔
@hackthelives
2 жыл бұрын
اگر رشتہ رکھنا ہے تو صبر اور دعا کیجئے۔ اور اگر بہت زیادہ مشکل ہے تو ختم کر لیجیے
@sabaa9952
4 ай бұрын
How ? Yes sir please answer this question
❤️ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللّٰهُ مُحَمَّدٌ رَسُولُ اللّٰهِ ️ﷺ❤
I have come across couples where d husband is complaining about the wife while d wife doesn't complains Similarly couple where wife is complaining about her husband while husband doesn't complain. Thats strange 🤔🙃🙃
Assalam u alaikum kindly tell me k for granted lainay r respect na krnay mn kitna farq h, agar aapka spouse kissi surat bhe aap ki respect na karay r us k liye sb sy easy ho k wo jb dil chahay aap ko reject kr day r abuse krnay lagay to is tarah ka relationship lust ho ga na to is surat mn hm kaya karain?
The first responsibility of husband is the financial responsibility of wife and children. All problems begins in the family when husband under his parents influence ignores these basic responsibilities and diverts his earnings. You never stress on this basic reasons.
If both spouses are living at distance, how they can create good bonding until they get together. Pls advise
@haniamouazzam5543
2 жыл бұрын
same question
@blumoon3709
2 жыл бұрын
Yess plz!!
@tanupriya9831
2 жыл бұрын
Dono mai se koye ek try karo or sath raho
@littlekingdomvlogs1493
2 жыл бұрын
Try to b connected thru good communication..always..avoid n detach from negative speech
@fauziakhanam7319
2 жыл бұрын
@@littlekingdomvlogs1493 this communication....have long time good impacts insha Allah.
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Kindly video ki sound ko increase kren sir ki awaz bht alow hoti hy
Was it an online live lecture??
Assalamualaikum sir
1:13 sir hum aisay hi but husband bilkul bhi is mindset k nahin chahaye umar kitni hi barri ho they take decision without you