Win Your Spouse | Salman Asif Siddiqui

Salman Asif Siddiqui outlines the key elements that make a marriage successful, followed by a question/answer session with the audience.
00:00:00 Preview
00:00:41 Correcting Faulty Presumptions
00:13:29 Agenda of the Talk
00:13:44 What is Perspective?
00:22:10 Why is Marital Relationship Important?
00:25:05 Indicators of a Correct Perspective
00:27:35 Comparing Love & Lust
00:35:32 Activity: Part 1
00:51:43 Two Dimensions of Fearing Allah
01:00:31 Activity: Part 2
01:16:29 3 Spheres of Conversation Between Spouses
01:35:04 Recap
01:37:39 Questions & Answers
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  • @Thedivadeck
    @Thedivadeck2 жыл бұрын

    thank u so much salman sir im literally crying while typing this.ur words have power to heal and guide ALLAH apka saya hmare sir pr qayam rakhe keep guiding us.JAZAKALLAH

  • @syednazeer2750

    @syednazeer2750

    2 жыл бұрын

    Really u write true ,I feel it ,words are absolutely doing like a power

  • @nadiakhan5426
    @nadiakhan54262 ай бұрын

    Absoltrue, itna khoobsurat kese soch lete hain ap. Allah qabool farmae itni purkhaloos koshish apki. Very impressive discussion

  • @amatullah1559
    @amatullah1559Ай бұрын

    بارک اللہ فی علمک

  • @raveenfatima7869
    @raveenfatima78692 жыл бұрын

    Sir... Aap b Allah pak ki naimaton m Sy aik h... Allah pak aapko sehat wali lambi Zindagi dy... Aameen...

  • @kishwersadaqat2054

    @kishwersadaqat2054

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @noorulhaq7716

    @noorulhaq7716

    2 жыл бұрын

    tensed of 9️⃣ 9️⃣ and a few others are 9p9

  • @umairhanif4380
    @umairhanif43802 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou Salman Shb, you always inspire me in terms of your dialogue. May Allah Bless you with more health, aafiyah, and success. Aameen.

  • @asafzal7801
    @asafzal78012 жыл бұрын

    Dr javed . Qasim ali shah n u all are doing vvvvvvvvv important work . U cant imagine how many gretting n wishes i want fr u for this work.

  • @sadamkhokarsadamkhokar8542
    @sadamkhokarsadamkhokar8542 Жыл бұрын

    شکریہ بس میں بھی شادی کی تیاری کر رہا ہوں تقریباً ایک ماہ بعد شادی ہے اور میں آپ سے کافی فایدہ اٹھا رہا ہوں

  • @tayyabaraees9825
    @tayyabaraees98252 жыл бұрын

    Thank u very much for this vedio. I am so happy that I heard it. We need elders like you sir to guide us and help us to live a stable happy life. Ur age, ur experience, ur way of talking, ur calmness everything makes ur words worthy to listen.

  • @nasreensiddiqui3107
    @nasreensiddiqui31072 жыл бұрын

    Jazak Allah khairan kaseera 🤲💚❤🇵🇰🍀☘🌾🌵🌴🌳🍃🌿🌲🪴🌱🌹🌷👍⚘

  • @kishwersadaqat2054
    @kishwersadaqat20542 жыл бұрын

    Subhan ALLAH Excellent Jazak ALLAH khair 💓

  • @farhattanveer8437
    @farhattanveer8437 Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah... Allah k bohot shukr hai..I got this lecture... jzakallahi wl khair...❤

  • @asmanasim3419
    @asmanasim34192 жыл бұрын

    Ap Jo kaam kr rhy hn this so meaningful. Ye kaam is mashray my boht Kam log kr rhy hn. Allah apko behtreen jaza e khair day.

  • @waytojannah9851
    @waytojannah98512 жыл бұрын

    Sir you are gem of a person! Very effective lecture. Apne bilkul thek kaha jab tak parents mai acha relationship na hou tab tak hum apne bachun ki achi tarbiat nahi kr saken gy!

  • @asafzal7801
    @asafzal78012 жыл бұрын

    Now a days its the most most important topic to discuss and guide ppl. Ur each leacture words are gold for us . May Allah keep u jazaikhair n make ur both life jannat

  • @syedarif5872
    @syedarif5872 Жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah, Very positive, purposeful guidance for good mutual relationship .... !!!

  • @tamannabanu9722
    @tamannabanu972212 күн бұрын

    I am just amazed at level of his knowledge

  • @jusminejusmine495
    @jusminejusmine4952 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sooooo much your sessions are so informative.

  • @asifkakar8850
    @asifkakar88502 жыл бұрын

    JazakumULLAH Khairan Sir, for aLL the Precious Lectures !

  • @hadiqayasoob5206
    @hadiqayasoob52062 жыл бұрын

    Ilm marham ki tarha hota hai... JazakAllah...

  • @adilkazi2077
    @adilkazi20772 жыл бұрын

    Excellent, thanks to the right guidance Allah bless you and your family and increase your intelligence.

  • @faizamajid5181
    @faizamajid51812 жыл бұрын

    الله آپ کو جزائے خیر دے آمین، آپ کے پاس علم کی نعمت ہے۔

  • @malaika5413
    @malaika5413 Жыл бұрын

    These are such eye opening advices not only for the marital life but also to become a better human being and to live a life of contentment. May Allah reward Sir Salman and the entire team of erdc immensely for their efforts. Ameen. And may Allah give us the wisdom to understand these suggestions. Ameen

  • @saadahmed1022
    @saadahmed10222 жыл бұрын

    Behtreen ma sha Allah

  • @aslanbrave654
    @aslanbrave6542 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallahu khairan kaseera sir.

  • @songzzzall7395
    @songzzzall73952 жыл бұрын

    Jazak Allah Khair sir. Great. Message

  • @beaware2435
    @beaware24352 жыл бұрын

    Jazak Allahu kheran kaseera

  • @raheelmasroor2104
    @raheelmasroor21042 жыл бұрын

    Salman Saab thank you all this really make sense it’s really helpful and open minds

  • @zahrarasheed8067
    @zahrarasheed80672 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah ❤️

  • @ilmkaymotiseekknowledgekno2226
    @ilmkaymotiseekknowledgekno22262 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah Allah bless you with hikma and Alhamdullilah you are distributing it for the sake of Allah, May Allah reward you immensely for your efforts Ameen

  • @hafizabushra7125
    @hafizabushra71252 жыл бұрын

    Such a powerful message. May Allah bless you

  • @GillaniWajeeha
    @GillaniWajeeha2 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah

  • @torchbearercssacademy-tbak9593
    @torchbearercssacademy-tbak95932 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much for you work!

  • @2cents859
    @2cents8592 жыл бұрын

    Very good content!!! Thanks

  • @pkhan7719
    @pkhan77192 жыл бұрын

    Jazaka Allah Bhai Allah bless you with long healthy happy life

  • @syedshoaibraza6653
    @syedshoaibraza66532 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @abdurrahmanfarooq183
    @abdurrahmanfarooq1835 ай бұрын

    جزاكم الله خير

  • @bushrabutt817
    @bushrabutt8172 жыл бұрын

    SubhanAllah thanks bro

  • @shazianadeem4425
    @shazianadeem44252 ай бұрын

    Jazakallahi khair❤

  • @mohammedkhalilrehman2090
    @mohammedkhalilrehman20906 ай бұрын

    Wonderful advices

  • @khubaibkhan5483
    @khubaibkhan54832 жыл бұрын

    hats off such an amazing lecture....its helping alot....Allah bless u Sir.

  • @fearlesslove3668
    @fearlesslove36682 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Salman sahab Thank you ERDC Team●♡●

  • @allahoakber4822
    @allahoakber48222 жыл бұрын

    جزاک اللّہ

  • @mehtabjamil856
    @mehtabjamil8562 жыл бұрын

    What a lecture, Salute sir 🥀

  • @hafizashamiaarshad2081
    @hafizashamiaarshad20812 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless you more.Aameen

  • @manaalavi6964
    @manaalavi69642 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @sumaiyakhan9368
    @sumaiyakhan93682 жыл бұрын

    Love from India ❤️ Mumbai... excellent video

  • @sadamkhokarsadamkhokar8542
    @sadamkhokarsadamkhokar8542 Жыл бұрын

    شکریہ

  • @ShonuNaina
    @ShonuNaina2 жыл бұрын

    Sir keep up the great work. Allah bless you.

  • @social_corner6062
    @social_corner60622 жыл бұрын

    I have in same condition ,u give a lot, Jazzak Allah

  • @iffatbatool4498
    @iffatbatool44984 ай бұрын

    Masha Allah Excellent lecture

  • @YusufKhan-ip5wf
    @YusufKhan-ip5wf2 жыл бұрын

    ماشاءاللّٰه . جزاک اللّٰه

  • @careandcurefoundation7415
    @careandcurefoundation74152 жыл бұрын

    Great tips

  • @fauziakhanam7319
    @fauziakhanam73192 жыл бұрын

    One of the best discussion and v effective guidlines...are provided may Allah bless you sir....please continue..its as sadaqaie jaariah from you.

  • @wasifwalker1553
    @wasifwalker15532 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah

  • @kiranamjad6
    @kiranamjad62 жыл бұрын

    Great 👍👍

  • @aanmughal2494
    @aanmughal2494Ай бұрын

    Jazakallah ❤ Allah pak salmat rakhy amen

  • @muhammadshahzad342
    @muhammadshahzad342 Жыл бұрын

    🎉❤🎉❤❤❤❤ Objective n effective lecture

  • @mrs.rabailrao7690
    @mrs.rabailrao76902 жыл бұрын

    Sooo beautiful words....

  • @bushraghani109
    @bushraghani1092 жыл бұрын

    Excellent. 💯👍

  • @nadiaaatif
    @nadiaaatif2 жыл бұрын

    Kamal informative talk!

  • @SurinderSingh-xs2zm
    @SurinderSingh-xs2zm2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 💕 from india

  • @salehchitrali
    @salehchitrali2 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful

  • @followislam9383
    @followislam93832 жыл бұрын

    fantastic👏

  • @ghazalaahmad6897
    @ghazalaahmad68972 жыл бұрын

    Bless you sir👍💯

  • @sobiakamran3573
    @sobiakamran35732 жыл бұрын

    Wow great words

  • @asimahameed2616
    @asimahameed26162 жыл бұрын

    Bohat awlaa

  • @misbahgill4337
    @misbahgill433710 ай бұрын

    JazaakAllah!🤲

  • @sumairazafar8877
    @sumairazafar88772 жыл бұрын

    Alhmdlilah . Your knowledge and wisdom. Barakallah.

  • @celebhairsalon
    @celebhairsalon2 жыл бұрын

    You are very good. Madhalah Allah bless you jizakallah Allah ap ko bht bht ajar ata phermye ameeen sumameen

  • @ghulamruqia9490
    @ghulamruqia94902 жыл бұрын

    Jazak Allah

  • @ghulamruqia9490

    @ghulamruqia9490

    2 жыл бұрын

    I always try make him happy. But still I can't get success..he thought that I am same like his X wife .but I am not ..X wife was dishonest with him.. every one is change to another..many time I face punishment Which I never ever did any sin..

  • @islamicverse_1
    @islamicverse_12 жыл бұрын

    Allah app ko jazae khair de ameen

  • @nilumabegum5662
    @nilumabegum56622 жыл бұрын

    How can you solve problems with someone who doesn't acknowledge a problem.Who is a covet Narcissist.The marriage only survived this long because one person was only giving

  • @alilee1000
    @alilee10002 жыл бұрын

    Asslamualikum sir, kindly make a detail video on this topic " How to cope with the hatred that has been developed for parents". JAZAKALLAH

  • @AliRaza-sf1ni
    @AliRaza-sf1ni11 ай бұрын

    Sir if possible to have english captions plz ,very productive lecture ❤❤

  • @rayyanmirza7564
    @rayyanmirza75642 жыл бұрын

    Thank u so much Allah pak apko jazae kher de ameen mere pas alfaz nehi hain

  • @Hamza-ox8hy
    @Hamza-ox8hy2 жыл бұрын

    MashAllah

  • @shaistaismail4011
    @shaistaismail40112 жыл бұрын

    Very informative and wonderful lecture . i also want to join live session. How will i know about the next session

  • @Artlife930
    @Artlife9302 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah khair sir

  • @faisalazad1127
    @faisalazad11272 жыл бұрын

    Subhan Allah

  • @wasifwalker1553
    @wasifwalker15532 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah

  • @nonihalan-e-islamcorner3821
    @nonihalan-e-islamcorner38212 жыл бұрын

    بہت زبردست

  • @murthuzahussain3101
    @murthuzahussain310110 ай бұрын

    There is a long & Complex chain of reasons driving it & there is one such incident that causes a spark - Imagine if there's a mountain of dynamites here and if I use a small matchstick to blow up the entire mountain, the following blast would not be because of my matchstick there was a mountain of dynamites there, that's why it happened. -Murthuza Hussain 31.Aug.2023

  • @moonhasan01
    @moonhasan012 жыл бұрын

    Sir aapke baatein aise lag rahi hai jaise is duniya ki ho hi nai

  • @petal21
    @petal21 Жыл бұрын

    sir can you please speak about marriage with a narcissist

  • @Abidali-ne2rp
    @Abidali-ne2rp8 ай бұрын

    Mashallah

  • @safooranisar112
    @safooranisar112 Жыл бұрын

    میں نے دیکھی ہے ایسی ایک عورت۔۔ جس کو ہم مظلوم سمجھتے ہیں مگر انہوں نے اپنے شوہر کی کبھی برائی نہیں کی ہمیشہ تعریف کرتی ہیں اور خوش ہیں۔

  • @aatifzacky5696
    @aatifzacky56962 жыл бұрын

    *Love from Gujerkhan*

  • @sultanahmad4165
    @sultanahmad41656 ай бұрын

    You are requested to organise one lecture only for the financial responsibility of husband about wife and children

  • @shazianaureen7440
    @shazianaureen74402 жыл бұрын

    Great Information Ma sha Allah. Sochnay ki baat ye he k jha shohar ya bivi bewaffaie krey, yani k shadi ki main base jo k Trust he osko hi tor dey , wha ye lesy apply kia jaey? Jha manipulators shadi kr ley jhoot bol k , shadi k baad pta chlay k sb jhoot bola, ab vo use kr ry he financially b or os k sath sath wafa b nahi he. I wonder how such relationships can be recovered?? how the broken trust can be built again?

  • @zulaikhazahoorkitchen

    @zulaikhazahoorkitchen

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same question 🤔

  • @hackthelives

    @hackthelives

    2 жыл бұрын

    اگر رشتہ رکھنا ہے تو صبر اور دعا کیجئے۔ اور اگر بہت زیادہ مشکل ہے تو ختم کر لیجیے

  • @sabaa9952

    @sabaa9952

    4 ай бұрын

    How ? Yes sir please answer this question

  • @MuhammadSoyebMustafai
    @MuhammadSoyebMustafai2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللّٰهُ مُحَمَّدٌ رَسُولُ اللّٰهِ ️ﷺ❤

  • @Jasia-bh7ou
    @Jasia-bh7ou2 жыл бұрын

    I have come across couples where d husband is complaining about the wife while d wife doesn't complains Similarly couple where wife is complaining about her husband while husband doesn't complain. Thats strange 🤔🙃🙃

  • @AamirKhan-xu7yb
    @AamirKhan-xu7yb2 жыл бұрын

    Assalam u alaikum kindly tell me k for granted lainay r respect na krnay mn kitna farq h, agar aapka spouse kissi surat bhe aap ki respect na karay r us k liye sb sy easy ho k wo jb dil chahay aap ko reject kr day r abuse krnay lagay to is tarah ka relationship lust ho ga na to is surat mn hm kaya karain?

  • @sultanahmad4165
    @sultanahmad41656 ай бұрын

    The first responsibility of husband is the financial responsibility of wife and children. All problems begins in the family when husband under his parents influence ignores these basic responsibilities and diverts his earnings. You never stress on this basic reasons.

  • @hunnyijaz849
    @hunnyijaz8492 жыл бұрын

    If both spouses are living at distance, how they can create good bonding until they get together. Pls advise

  • @haniamouazzam5543

    @haniamouazzam5543

    2 жыл бұрын

    same question

  • @blumoon3709

    @blumoon3709

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yess plz!!

  • @tanupriya9831

    @tanupriya9831

    2 жыл бұрын

    Dono mai se koye ek try karo or sath raho

  • @littlekingdomvlogs1493

    @littlekingdomvlogs1493

    2 жыл бұрын

    Try to b connected thru good communication..always..avoid n detach from negative speech

  • @fauziakhanam7319

    @fauziakhanam7319

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@littlekingdomvlogs1493 this communication....have long time good impacts insha Allah.

  • @NOOBOYSGAMING
    @NOOBOYSGAMING2 жыл бұрын

    5

  • @thinkers787
    @thinkers7872 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @saimasabeen2666
    @saimasabeen26662 жыл бұрын

    Kindly video ki sound ko increase kren sir ki awaz bht alow hoti hy

  • @shaistaismail4011
    @shaistaismail40112 жыл бұрын

    Was it an online live lecture??

  • @khurshidajoya2256
    @khurshidajoya22562 жыл бұрын

    Assalamualaikum sir

  • @sanji546
    @sanji546 Жыл бұрын

    1:13 sir hum aisay hi but husband bilkul bhi is mindset k nahin chahaye umar kitni hi barri ho they take decision without you

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