Malaysian Student In UK Misses Her Tempurung ('Culture shock' Malays in the west)

All work & no play makes Minah a dull girl. Lighten up.....Get a life...
Have fun. Enjoy! Work hard. Party hard.
Make the best of your student days. Once you have a career & start a family, that's it.
Malaysian students including conservative ones should enjoy their university days.
Stop being a party pooper or miseryguts or spoil sport.
Source: Sent by someone from reddit.
NB: This video was made to counter the views presented in the video that has allegedly been made by the young lady above.
My video was made in good faith to quash the increasing intolerant views of rising and alarming numbers of Malaysian youth.
It is also an attempt to open up conservative intolerant minds.
The video allegedly made by the young lady is a small reflection of the wider intolerance that is being experienced by all Malaysians at home.
I have no idea who she is but her views are very disturbing.
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  • @Highlander226
    @Highlander2268 ай бұрын

    Please tell the student, she shouldn’t speak for non- muslims.

  • @dosleemy

    @dosleemy

    8 ай бұрын

    i think shes anti social autistic introvert person with a lousy accent

  • @esphilee

    @esphilee

    8 ай бұрын

    She should speak in Arab, not English.

  • @dosleemy

    @dosleemy

    8 ай бұрын

    @@esphilee she shud speak iranian

  • @mimikolomamu

    @mimikolomamu

    8 ай бұрын

    Oh...she already reminded to the nons that drinking is bad. alcohol is depressant. Follow her way because if she is not doing it that mean everyone must follow

  • @leejianyong7609

    @leejianyong7609

    8 ай бұрын

    she should have send to arab not uk, if she cant take it just release it dont abuse your own self is unhealthy, lord jesus already knew it in the future

  • @leehyunsong7001
    @leehyunsong70018 ай бұрын

    Many Muslim Malaysians logic: foreigners who come to Malaysia must respect our culture, but when they go to foreign country, they say their culture must be respected.

  • @ppipinping

    @ppipinping

    8 ай бұрын

    exactly! you are right... this is because for the past 60+ years they have been indoctrinated that they are special... my god they fall for it even in the internet age

  • @Veloce2000

    @Veloce2000

    8 ай бұрын

    What to do?? Narrow minded & self righteous locals brainwashed like Talibans. 🫤

  • @MattMatt-kr6ts

    @MattMatt-kr6ts

    8 ай бұрын

    Yup of course...they should caring with they culture n religion...it is make malays strong n have identity...unlike u...alright.

  • @rich.e2700

    @rich.e2700

    8 ай бұрын

    @@MattMatt-kr6tsmalays strong and have identity? Bro literally lost every war in history but sejarah text book tried to glorified it while the Sultans fled😂, even the OG Sultan Abu Bakar was a reformist/secularist😂

  • @ppipinping

    @ppipinping

    8 ай бұрын

    @@MattMatt-kr6ts what culture? intolerance? lack of understanding? Could she be jealous that she can't have fun? She can always go there and not drink... see how everyone but her enjoys herself... if she don't like it then don't stop others....

  • @AbsurdistAsian
    @AbsurdistAsian8 ай бұрын

    She thinks her privileges still apply outside of Malaysia lmao.

  • @Kuasarakyat2
    @Kuasarakyat28 ай бұрын

    About the girl's comment... "inviting all Malaysian participants has a disrespectful undertone" What? - that's courtesy! you can choose not to attend. "clubbing and drinking has never been Malaysian culture." - When was Malaysian culture is just only about Islamic way of celebrating? - are there no non-Muslims in the country..?? 😢 🤔 The biggest enemy of Islam is ignorance and intolerance!!🎉

  • @norlinaabdullah5764

    @norlinaabdullah5764

    8 ай бұрын

    I am a Malay Muslim in my 60s. I am horrified at the way things are developing. Many in this student's generation think like her, all a product of the Education system, both in the public and religious schools.

  • @AmrikSingh-up4gd

    @AmrikSingh-up4gd

    8 ай бұрын

    Like cancer it will impinge on the social noms of the prevailing society with ultimate aim of becoming an ARAB society.

  • @problemperson4221

    @problemperson4221

    8 ай бұрын

    she thinks it's disrespectful for everyone to be invited to an afterparty with alcohol, would she be happier if every muslim be excluded instead?

  • @jinglejungle3410

    @jinglejungle3410

    8 ай бұрын

    @@norlinaabdullah5764 Yes is true. In the 70s, I heard about Islam, and is beautiful. If I hear about Islam now in this century, you know what is my action? I will not embrace Islam because Islam now 'in Malaysia' is no more Islam. Is more of a cultural thing and strictly to not do this and that. So there is no more value caused by this 'alien' group of people.

  • @annydobon8106

    @annydobon8106

    8 ай бұрын

    ​​@@norlinaabdullah5764When I was in school, an elite sbp no less, I could wear the pinafore school uniform even when I was in F5. Nowadays, even at kindy level, girls are wearing the tudung?

  • @mala-dd8fg
    @mala-dd8fg8 ай бұрын

    She wants to dictate what Malaysian culture and values without considering it's a multicultural society.

  • @CarutMencarut

    @CarutMencarut

    8 ай бұрын

    I think she talking about the oppressed-race Melayu culture but she use the word “Malaysian”. English also not Melayu culture so I think she should stop using English. Roti canai, mee, bee hoon, kuewteow, yongtaufoo, apam balik, kuali/wok, pinggan, mangkuk, garpu, sudu dan banyak lagi also not part of Malay culture. So they should stop eating those food and stop using those utensils as well. 😂😂😂😂😂. Hidup Melayu. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @mimikolomamu

    @mimikolomamu

    8 ай бұрын

    In their world ...its only their way. Your culture got nothing to do with Malaysian culture

  • @freewalker2288

    @freewalker2288

    8 ай бұрын

    She's a melayu koyak..

  • @joshwai

    @joshwai

    8 ай бұрын

    What I would tell her.. Go enjoy your life. Put aside religion. Be reminded that there is no PDRM, Jais will raid your home at 3am. Enjoy your free life. Free from Malaysia Conservative PRISON.

  • @martinvanburen4578

    @martinvanburen4578

    8 ай бұрын

    Muslims love to do that. In a civil society, you let people do as they please within the law of the land. If a Christian goes into a Islamic country, they cannot make demands on the the country nor should they express distaste for it's practices if you are their under your own free will.

  • @jhtam6768
    @jhtam67688 ай бұрын

    if you are Malaysian that don't drink, you can choose not to drink or not to join, don't expect every Malaysian especially non Muslim to follow your way.

  • @linustw

    @linustw

    8 ай бұрын

    I am a non muslim and i dont drink a drop of alcohol. I am glad to becoming designated driver for my drinking friends. No issue at all.

  • @jinnsaliun5696

    @jinnsaliun5696

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@linustwSame here. Even though drinking alcohol is prohibited in my religion, I respect others who do even if I don't necessarily enjoy going out with them when they go drinking because I end up drinking soda drinks or coffee more than I should 😂. So just stay home lor...

  • @proxxymax6814

    @proxxymax6814

    8 ай бұрын

    Exactly!!! When I was a designated driver for clubbing, I went into the clubs, danced, and drank Coke! So what's wrong with going clubbing without having to drink alcohol?! No one can stop her to NOT consume alcohol in the clubs!!!

  • @tetuanamirhamzah

    @tetuanamirhamzah

    8 ай бұрын

    She asked for her muslim friends you dense

  • @bowlampar

    @bowlampar

    4 ай бұрын

    Just respect the rights of every Malaysian student in UK, not everyone is a jihadist or inspire to be a terrorist.

  • @aidasu7590
    @aidasu75908 ай бұрын

    My daughter was in US, she enjoyed going out with her lecturer and other students to the Pub where she Did Not drink any alcoholic drinks, and her friends respected her for that. There was a lot of enjoyable scholarly discussion. As long as you know who you are, what is your faith and how to keep yourself safe, you are OK.

  • @theakingkong

    @theakingkong

    8 ай бұрын

    What your daughter doing is maksiat eventhough she don't drink..please repent and shamed for yourself..

  • @westwoodly

    @westwoodly

    8 ай бұрын

    Those who think they can be easily influenced show that they are not real or devout Muslim yet. They'll feel insecure - even a cross symbol on a road or anywhere is a threat to their thinking. They should return to the mosque more frequently and read the Koran more thoroughly.

  • @cnachopchopnewsagency

    @cnachopchopnewsagency

    8 ай бұрын

    Your daughter is an extremist mindset for dont want to drink alcohol with her friends. Just drink.

  • @imranhanafi9716

    @imranhanafi9716

    8 ай бұрын

    Pub and Club are different, Pub where you socialize with a bar and bartender, you can order non alcoholic drinks and socialize, where is club is where you get drunk and dance at loud music.. You can't have discussion in a club due to the loud music. If you are don't drinks then you got no business to be in the club. What should you go there, sit there and watch other people dance while drinking soda for 3 hours?

  • @westwoodly

    @westwoodly

    8 ай бұрын

    That's the most sensible and practical way to choose for an educated young adult in a foreign country or in her own. Those who preferred to be cloistered in their hostel room and interact with only people of their own kind, will definitely have an incomplete education. A waste of resource and scholarship.

  • @90taetaeya
    @90taetaeya8 ай бұрын

    When the 1975 band questioned malaysia’s anti-gay law, malaysians screamed “our country our laws!!”. But they go to other people’s country, “your country, but my laws!!” 😂😂😂

  • @wongkokkeong1642
    @wongkokkeong16428 ай бұрын

    She said, not Malaysian culture or way of celebration. When is Malaysian culture just about Islamic way of celebrating? She is yet another example that everything has to be her Islamic way or no way at all. Why, then, are people like her sent in droves to the West for education when they intend to stay only within the tempurung wherever they may be? Meanwhile, I bet the student is very much like many Malays who couldn't be bothered with checking with Malaysian Hindus and Buddhists before eating beef in front of them.

  • @kavitamunisamy4628

    @kavitamunisamy4628

    8 ай бұрын

    Well said

  • @aziziabdrahman7756

    @aziziabdrahman7756

    5 ай бұрын

    Spot on

  • @leehyunsong7001
    @leehyunsong70018 ай бұрын

    When you watch P Ramlee movies, you do feel during that time the malay society was more open and liberated. This country is in fact slowly moving toward Iran/Afghan

  • @nfuryboss

    @nfuryboss

    8 ай бұрын

    Missed those P Ramlee movies especially the Pontianak episodes and the satay man. Malay women in my days in the 60s were beautiful, articulate, and modern before the Arabization kicked in.

  • @debbiegloury3351

    @debbiegloury3351

    8 ай бұрын

    @@nfuryboss I dont know the period you were taliking about but my dad was an expatriate in Kula Lumpur in late 70s and we resided in Kenny Hill and many of my parents friends were of Malay background.They werent wearing scarves,then,I mean the woman but they werent disrespectful either,cool and fun, yet retain their culture and beliefs.I remember my parents gave parties and they never were offered any alcohol ,we believe in personal choices how you live your lives.Happy days.

  • @rich.e2700

    @rich.e2700

    8 ай бұрын

    @@debbiegloury3351 thats nice to hear, unfortunately the majority lot thinks otherwise and keeps trying to impose their “freedumb” to us

  • @Lena-cl6ye

    @Lena-cl6ye

    8 ай бұрын

    I grew up in the 70s. We had friends of all races. Malays would eat in Chinese houses during cny and I never saw a single woman wearing tudung.

  • @leehw9394

    @leehw9394

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Lena-cl6ye Those was a day is gone! Even now I’m travelling between Malaysia/Singapore whenever I see Malays who wear ‘tudung/hijab’ is definitely from Malaysia because majority Malay Singaporean they don’t except during prayer or they are elderly.

  • @faizulanuar2474
    @faizulanuar24748 ай бұрын

    Bila dia kata invitation to all malaysians including the muslims ada disrespectful undertones, aku yg muslim ni pun mcm, hellooo, politely cakap no but tqvm je lahh. Haizz. Aku xpernah dpt opportunity belajar overseas, masa interview scholarship JPA dulu tak terpilih sbb english tak power, 18 y.o me did not shine enough in the group discussion. But now 20 years on I am proud to say I am able to work and mingle within oil and gas industry with colleagues from various background and country. I guess this girl showed me that I havent missed a single thing by not getting the opportunity 😂😂 Ok2 my english is still bad tapi mat saleh2 aku jumpa are still able to understand me just fine.

  • @chanronnie5079

    @chanronnie5079

    8 ай бұрын

    Bro i like ur comment. 👍

  • @monaalilainez6127

    @monaalilainez6127

    2 ай бұрын

    She goes to study in the UK so she could return to Malaysia speaking like Mat Salleh! She cannot let her hair down as she literally “ cannot” She should go study in Afghanistan

  • @bloomarine08
    @bloomarine088 ай бұрын

    You've hit the nail on the head. Sad and depressing, she has no right to speak on behalf of anyone, Muslims or non Muslims.

  • @nrnar

    @nrnar

    8 ай бұрын

    where have you been all this while? Have you been living under a "tempurung"? FYI, the student is in the UK and everybody knows that the UK is a democracy that practices the right of free speech.

  • @leadsolo2751

    @leadsolo2751

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@nrnarye la, pandai pon kmu nie - Tp x kan dia nie x leh cakap bende yg elok2 - FYI Freedom of speech does not mean must promote narrow minded, hate speech, walaupon boleh, kannnnn ? 😆🙄

  • @nrnar

    @nrnar

    8 ай бұрын

    @@leadsolo2751 I am assuming that you are not a muslim. FYI, in Islam, it is obligatory ("fardhu kifayah") for a muslim to enjoin good and forbade evil. Therefore she is merely doing what any pious muslim would do for the sake of Allah (The God). There is nothing hateful for someone to discourage: 1. the consumption of alcoholic drinks which impair our senses, leading to bad behaviour and the making of bad decisions, 2. smoking which cause bad breath, lung cancer and not to mention unhealthy "secondary smoke" for others mearby, 3. free miximg of the sexes, that may lead to illicit sex.

  • @phillip244

    @phillip244

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@nrnaryes,yes,yes but don't state that's not a MALAYSIAN culture not to...BUT state it's not a 'MALAY' culture.

  • @user-jk4bx6zy1g

    @user-jk4bx6zy1g

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@nrnarL

  • @puvnessharma187
    @puvnessharma1878 ай бұрын

    In the first place she should not be studying in UK.

  • @ongtengkee9225

    @ongtengkee9225

    8 ай бұрын

    gov send her

  • @michellechuah37

    @michellechuah37

    4 ай бұрын

    Come back. Uk Is not a plc for you..U should give your plc to someone who really wants to study in UK.

  • @navinbalan
    @navinbalan8 ай бұрын

    My religion doesnt allow me to drink too. When in college, I used to go with my friends to socialize, maybe "take care" of some people later at night, if needed to. Later, they embraced my culture and when they were organizing an event at their home, they do not serve alcohol anymore because of me. Its an understanding among civilized global citizens. Only weak people get influenced easily.

  • @dswamig

    @dswamig

    8 ай бұрын

    Big deal!!

  • @navinbalan

    @navinbalan

    8 ай бұрын

    @@dswamig yup

  • @ifuknjk

    @ifuknjk

    8 ай бұрын

    mao says """"RELIGION IS EVIL ...."STILL 2023 BELIEVE IN THE INVISIBLE MAN--apes can talk...black hole....god is a white dude...rubbing a stone brings salvation...

  • @ifuknjk

    @ifuknjk

    8 ай бұрын

    in melbourne, after class one bowl of beef bakso... tea n pay... take tram, play squash, go 2 temple, swim in sepertine,..go chinatown....in kyoto joined muslim trainees at dinner.... never resort 2 talking abt. religion or culture... just stupid 2 live a life according 2 an invisible man

  • @jamesgabriel7132

    @jamesgabriel7132

    8 ай бұрын

    exactly my man. my cousin is an atheist, he never drink an ounce of alcohol in his life.

  • @stephenwong9699
    @stephenwong96997 ай бұрын

    She was sent overseas because of her race and religion not due to meritocracy

  • @kingsteveo

    @kingsteveo

    5 ай бұрын

    Racist

  • @tsds24

    @tsds24

    4 ай бұрын

    @@kingsteveo Jgn terkejut. Not today only. Before merdeka already happen.

  • @slkoay2969
    @slkoay29698 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Mariam for speaking out. We've got enough of all these self righteous 'religious' people who want to shove their moral values on others. You're right, they should stay in their tempurung and enjoy their own nasyid. What they can't enjoy, don't stop others from doing so. Keep their narrow minded views to themselves. A respect for other cultures and diversity is a universal value that these extremists obviously lack.

  • @nkjulie7834

    @nkjulie7834

    8 ай бұрын

    Very well spoken

  • @aileenoilingwong

    @aileenoilingwong

    8 ай бұрын

    Narrow minded people are not fit to be in the UK.

  • @selfreflection2117

    @selfreflection2117

    8 ай бұрын

    Don't know which platform this girl's video is originally shown. People post lots of opinions online. It's what you call free speech. Just ignore it if you don't agree with her. She's young. She's got a lot of learning to do. She sounds like it's her first time overseas. Hopefully she will mingle with other international students while still upholding her Islamic values and respect other people's values too.

  • @nurhanaibrahim162

    @nurhanaibrahim162

    8 ай бұрын

    @@aileenoilingwong Nor do the supposed open minded people who go for drunks parties orgies and immoral acts??!!

  • @saraha.9662

    @saraha.9662

    8 ай бұрын

    I suspect you come from Kelantan and endured spiritual abuse. And now you've gone to the other extreme side name-calling people who are religious and who adhere to a moral code.

  • @leonghonseong3494
    @leonghonseong34948 ай бұрын

    The choice is up to her.She either accept or refuse the invitation.She need not make a issues out of this.

  • @jamesgabriel7132

    @jamesgabriel7132

    8 ай бұрын

    of cos she must, dia la terpaling suci dan first class.

  • @CarutMencarut

    @CarutMencarut

    8 ай бұрын

    @@jamesgabriel7132 yes. PUS lah yang terpaling Islam. Nilai2 murni seperti CARUT, RASUAH, BOHONG, TIPU, FITNAH, HASUT semua diangkat walaun2 Parti AJARAN SESAT. Hidup walaun. Hidup Melayu PUS. TAKBIR.

  • @shirleytan1575

    @shirleytan1575

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@jamesgabriel7132😆😆😆😆😆😆paling suci ke paling sibuk???😆😆😆😆😆🤣

  • @al8775

    @al8775

    8 ай бұрын

    Racist...

  • @westwoodly

    @westwoodly

    8 ай бұрын

    Good that she speaks up and let the world knows that she exemplifies the "modern" Malays - Truly Asia?

  • @skrskgs
    @skrskgs8 ай бұрын

    Mariam, this is your best yet. And you are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. Let me tell you about Malay Muslims who were sent to UK after a few years of teaching. 1. These Malay Muslims only had Form Five qualifications. All the rest had a degree + a further year of education. We were all teaching ENGLISH Language. 2. These Malay Muslims were sent to Leeds, York - to get their MASTERS degree !! You're talking about from Form Five straight to MASTERS !! 3. Off they went - to UK for their MASTERS degree. It was a one year course but I believe they has to take some special classes so they were there for two years ( there was a group of them ). 4. They came back and were immediately given the post of Lecturers. From drawing a Form Five pay check to a Lecturers pay check !! We became friends - in fact they became very good friends with me. And they told me exactly what happened in UK. When in UK - they lived in a "kampung" - all Malay Muslim community with Hari Raya celebrations - rendang, ketupat and all. They never ventured outside their comfort zone. Never mingled with the locals. The sad part is - they came back speaking the same horrible English. I'm not talking about accent. The grammar was as bad as when they left - same with pronunciation. What is even sadder is that they thought they spoke excellent English. They will always be asking me for help - how to set questions, clean up their grammatical errors and anything to do with teaching of English. Now, I was just a Language teacher and they were LECTURERS ( supposed to be more qualified than me ) but they were so dependent on my help. It's not their fault that they were pushed to UK. They were ( of course ) very nice to me. One of them knew that he was not qualified to teach English but the other thought he was a Linguist. Masters degree - the COLD IRON woman in charge of the Faculty gave an order that I could not continue with my Masters programme which I was doing as a part time student - just because she felt embarrassed that she could not answer my question at a conference held. But that's another story. The Faculty was infested with politics.

  • @boonleong6949

    @boonleong6949

    8 ай бұрын

    😂So sad n pathetic, but don't give up hope. God gives hope❤

  • @lingy74

    @lingy74

    4 ай бұрын

    I have been in some forums with local university lecturers and was quite honestly stunned by the quality. How the younger generations are being educated at all is a mystery to me.

  • @kevingptan1
    @kevingptan18 ай бұрын

    I’m as old as Malaysia. It is so scary to listen to the voice of this young Malaysian in particular. If that’s the underlining tone, Malaysia is heading to an even scary path of extremism. Young generation heading towards extremism instead of progressiveness. Those who are easily scared by their own shadows. With the former, I see imagery of Afghanistan where girls are not allowed education. Respect the original spirit of Merdeka and formation of Malaysia. Yes, it took the combined effort different ethnicities to convince the British. Cherish our independence of a new plural nation forged out of the harmony of people of different races. Don’t allow selfish politicians to tell you differently. Don’t take it for granted. Young ones, choose and tread wisely.

  • @sazilahahmadsarji685

    @sazilahahmadsarji685

    8 ай бұрын

    Mariam is more scary

  • @johnnycage558

    @johnnycage558

    8 ай бұрын

    @@sazilahahmadsarji685 some middle East countries don't allow women to study or drive cars. So which is scarier

  • @abdulwahub8987

    @abdulwahub8987

    8 ай бұрын

    Islamaphobes. Playing race and religion card to win argument is easy. Try harder next time

  • @ernna6357

    @ernna6357

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@abdulwahub8987auntie your statement is so childish

  • @abdulwahub8987

    @abdulwahub8987

    8 ай бұрын

    @@ernna6357 its true what, you guys memang racist pun its no secret. Just like PAS and UMNO. Malu apa?

  • @josephcheng357
    @josephcheng3578 ай бұрын

    Touche! I find most of the Muslim Malaysians, mark my words, I said most not all, like imposing their religion values on Non-Muslim which I find it very disturbing. Why don't you stand on other's shoes, if you were forced to do haram or eat non-halal foods, how would you feel? We are built to respect each other and that is how Malaysia thrive! I always encourage people who are younger than me, regardless of race and religion, go and explore outside world and you'd gain a lot provided you mingle and not just living under a rock or befriend with your own kind. None of the religions encourage us to imbibe alcohol, we are living in a free world and it's our call whether to drink or not to drink as long as it doesn't harm others. If you can't mingle in the West, I advise you to go study elsewhere, don't take someone else's seat to broaden his/her horizon

  • @urbaniteurbanizer1612
    @urbaniteurbanizer16128 ай бұрын

    I used to follow her on Tik Too until I heard her (before the state elections in 2023) propagating about the importance of political Islam. In other words, she was a PAS follower and her views of what she sees as the best future for Malaysia was shocking to me. I had been taken in by her fluent English and her videos on language and other topics were interesting. I didn't realise she came shrouded in the green flag of PAS. The idea of PAS is turn Malaysia into Iran and you can bet your bottom dollar that would mean curtailing the many freedoms of non Muslims. I stopped following her. It now looks like she has gotten more fundamentalist in her views. For her Islam is the only way and non Muslims better understand it and just keep quiet. If this is the face of the young Malays, I dread for the future of this country.

  • @leehw9394

    @leehw9394

    8 ай бұрын

    Sahih Muslim 22 Book 1, Hadith 36 “I have been commanded to fight against people till they testify that there is no god but Allah, that Muhammad is the messenger of Allah, and they establish prayer, and pay Zakat and if they do it, their blood and property are guaranteed protection on my behalf except when justified by law, and their affairs rest with Allah.” Doesn’t it sound similar to your statement………..is scary!

  • @nemoyap

    @nemoyap

    8 ай бұрын

    “The biggest enemy of Islam is the ignorant Muslim, Whose ignorance leads him to intolerance and whose actions destroy the true image of Islam. And when the people look at him, they think that Islam is what he is.” - Ahmad Deedat

  • @razaliabubakar6390

    @razaliabubakar6390

    8 ай бұрын

    @@nemoyapvery true what Ahmad Deedat says. The Muslims are their own enemies from within.

  • @terrenceloh9608

    @terrenceloh9608

    8 ай бұрын

    i totally agree with you urbaniteurbanizer1612. the young lady is a sad sad case but you mariam is worst . sigh 😒

  • @drbahmasiva3635

    @drbahmasiva3635

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@terrenceloh9608 Why she is worse?

  • @lianglaichan2207
    @lianglaichan22078 ай бұрын

    She's not grateful... She thinks she's there as "religious policewoman"

  • @henrysehgal658

    @henrysehgal658

    8 ай бұрын

    Our taxes pay for her education.

  • @ernna6357

    @ernna6357

    8 ай бұрын

    Sharia kadet polis

  • @LisaChung-tz9lw
    @LisaChung-tz9lw8 ай бұрын

    Why can't government sponsored students pursue their studies in local universities? Are the courses not offered locally?

  • @manalittlesis
    @manalittlesis8 ай бұрын

    Some people think. If I go to your house, I demand you to respect my religion. If you come to my house, you must respect my religion. But your religion is not my concern. She's definitely one of those.

  • @andyng8668
    @andyng86688 ай бұрын

    This student should go to university in the Middle East countries .

  • @HareKrishna-iz4ks

    @HareKrishna-iz4ks

    8 ай бұрын

    Sister Mariam very good jokerr. N good adviser best open minded lady wat ever u say is true ta sis mariam

  • @CarutMencarut

    @CarutMencarut

    8 ай бұрын

    Walaun Melayu & extremism; berpisah tiada. Hidup Haji Bawang. Hidup Sanushit. Hidup SaCow. Parti Ajaran Sesat mantap. Hidup Iblis Syaitan. TAKBIR.

  • @leehw9394

    @leehw9394

    8 ай бұрын

    Shall we suggest to all hospital to distinguish halal and non halal blood donations because we Chinese have porky flavour and we don’t want them to be contaminated😂

  • @phanghuey8238

    @phanghuey8238

    8 ай бұрын

    If she go Middle East ... more worst . Example she won't fight for women right and bring back ideals.

  • @malpalmer3269

    @malpalmer3269

    8 ай бұрын

    Middle East are starting to modernise

  • @toothess7078
    @toothess70788 ай бұрын

    Wa lau eh... speaks with an accent (American, if I'm not mistaken), but it seems like can't take away the narrow-minded views and "kampung" mentality away from her.

  • @JohnMac-ql1vm

    @JohnMac-ql1vm

    8 ай бұрын

    Sampah accent

  • @lisaho1492

    @lisaho1492

    8 ай бұрын

    Ya American🙈

  • @bennykoh1657

    @bennykoh1657

    5 ай бұрын

    She should speak Bahasa Malaysia instead American English maybe she is in UK ( From Ulu Kampong)

  • @subscriptionletterbin5956
    @subscriptionletterbin59568 ай бұрын

    You don't eat durian. It is your choice, you can pass. Don't let people eat durian is unreasonable

  • @rahmat9094
    @rahmat90948 ай бұрын

    To my respected sister Maryam Mokhtar binti Mahathir Mohamad. What the student did was only to give advice to others and had no ill intentention to bring anyone down. The advice is only beneficial to those believe in the existence of Allah and retribution in hereafter. Yes, we understand that the good practice of religion is just something that inhibits the joy of life in the world. Let us be, because we prefer the long lasting merry in the hereafter over something temporary in this world. Peace and blessing unto those who follow the sunnah and the guidance of Al Quran.

  • @azlinaazlina2156

    @azlinaazlina2156

    5 күн бұрын

    Dahsyat btl islam sekular sekarang kan. Apa nak jd depa ni. Semoga dijauhkan dr keturunanku

  • @ismailpilus7659
    @ismailpilus76598 ай бұрын

    The Malay Univetsity students in Malaysia today are of different breed from your kind back in 60s/70s.Their open minded education then were mostly secular-based as opposed to today's Islamic-centric education policy. Their religious brain washing started early in primary schools when the religious studies were introduced in mainstream curriculum due to the strong influence of Ulamaks after the Islamic Revolution of Iran. The UMNO govt and the PAS opposition were battling it out to outdo each others in term of religious fervour. The result is what we see in today's breed of closed minded students.

  • @msukdatin13

    @msukdatin13

    8 ай бұрын

    So stop sending or allowing these students there.

  • @esphilee

    @esphilee

    8 ай бұрын

    @@msukdatin13 it is too late. Entire generation of brain already stiffened. Those with fluid brain will be drained to other countries.

  • @imbossku2400
    @imbossku24008 ай бұрын

    Why go to kafir University? Go lah to Egypt or Iran University. That's for sure a halal University. You don't have to worry studying there.

  • @bennykoh1657

    @bennykoh1657

    5 ай бұрын

    Totally agrees with you .. She have to be enroll to Mid East University instead. She have to respect the United Kingdom culture if not then do not attend the party so why make a fuzz of it.

  • @heping07
    @heping078 ай бұрын

    Her self-righteousness has gone to her head. She is also trying to show off just how pious she is.

  • @yoganathansuppiah3692

    @yoganathansuppiah3692

    5 ай бұрын

    How many boyfriends she have low iQ

  • @patricksiew45

    @patricksiew45

    3 ай бұрын

    Mariam, so well said.

  • @Mallikashan995
    @Mallikashan9957 ай бұрын

    Wow ! You hit the nail on the head ! Yes the student could have gone to others Muslims countries than going to the UK and want them to obey her rules

  • @deanneshane3799

    @deanneshane3799

    7 ай бұрын

    Why shouldnt she go to UK? She's smart enough ( listening to her spoken language depicts that) to be accepted and shes smart enough to know whats right and whats wrong. No one is stopping anyone from going to nightclubs and they can get drunk as much as they like. BUT a Malaysian society should reflect Malaysia. An official party should not be held in a nightclub since many Muslims are involved. Obviously you dont know whats going on in nightclubs. EVERY vice in Islam is there. Should you force Muslims to go under the pretext of respecting culture or is it a way of being divisive.. like many non muslims are being now. Why cant they choose a nuetral after party THEN move on later to the nightclub. Like the koreans do. Move from one joint to another.

  • @chinchansay2012
    @chinchansay20128 ай бұрын

    So sad for the young lady to hear what she said. Not because she wants to impose her religion not allowing other Muslims and non Muslims to go chill and relax at nightclubs but because she has been brainwashed by our religious teachings back home. Agree with what you said. She has a chance to live and know what democracy is like in Europe but chosed to ignore it. Our education system back home has gone down the drains....

  • @Sangsinga682

    @Sangsinga682

    8 ай бұрын

    I used to go to night clubs, discos. I found my peace. No need to patronize such places. I use my time wisely. Socialise thru other means.

  • @huaweihuawei9901

    @huaweihuawei9901

    8 ай бұрын

    You can lead a horse to water but cannot force it to drink.

  • @Chingaez

    @Chingaez

    8 ай бұрын

    The thing about this scenario is that folks like that young lady should back away from something deemed uncomfortable, to people like them. Otherwise, the way the lady main kacau in foreign places only make the locals thinking like this: Why is she even in places like UK and USA to begin with? If people like her go to places like Japan where some video rental shops contains....Rated R stuff, chances are is that she will have sakit jantung by merely seeing that like _right now_ and then saying R-Rated stuff kena banned. Can you see how insane that is?

  • @syedidrus90

    @syedidrus90

    8 ай бұрын

    Melayu kampong

  • @aggieyong8716

    @aggieyong8716

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@Chingaezm 0:12

  • @ammulewis7023
    @ammulewis70238 ай бұрын

    Puan Mariam Sudah Lima Kali dah dengar your point of views. Cukup padat Dan berfakta. Hats on❤

  • @mansorarshad8914

    @mansorarshad8914

    8 ай бұрын

    mak setan then...

  • @ernna6357

    @ernna6357

    8 ай бұрын

    @@mansorarshad8914 mak setan mesti mak kau

  • @appletan5044

    @appletan5044

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@mansorarshad8914siapa tu mak setan? You panggil awak ibu ni? Adii

  • @DTHKN

    @DTHKN

    8 ай бұрын

    Berbual sebijik mcm yahudi mabok minum todi..

  • @sureshkumarbalakrishnan8915

    @sureshkumarbalakrishnan8915

    5 ай бұрын

    Hats off mate 😊

  • @peteryip4398
    @peteryip43988 ай бұрын

    Mariam, you're a beacon amongst darkness of such people. You have put it brilliantly...

  • @lillyFah
    @lillyFah8 ай бұрын

    First of all, she gave her opinion. She has a right to give her opinion. She didn't resort to name-calling, ridicule or shaming, like what you are doing. If you don't agree, just agree to disagree. The language you use is shameful and disrespectful. Asking people to go back into 'tempurung' or study in middle eastern countries just because she stated her opinion on a matter relating to her is so appalling. You're like the school girl bully that ridicule the bright girl in class because you think she'd ruin your happy hour time by telling the teacher. What if i disagree with you by asking you to boozed up all night, wear tight fitting clothes and go stay in your lovely foreign country? On second thought, maybe you'd be okay with that.

  • @jeepiowchan3987
    @jeepiowchan39878 ай бұрын

    So sad to hear this. She is imposing her beliefs into others. When I was in overseas I m matured to know what I can n what I can’t do. No need to impose on others cause the world is not only for people like her. Please open your eyes and see how beautiful is our earth with different cultures, religions and races. There is NO one race or religion is better then the others. We are are the same. Madam what you just said make me feel Malaysia is still worth fighting for. Wish you n your team good health and happiness 😊

  • @AJRA02
    @AJRA028 ай бұрын

    one wants to study abroad n speak like mat salleh but can't get along 😂 sad soul😂😂😂😂😂

  • @michaeltang8607

    @michaeltang8607

    8 ай бұрын

    Looks like a voice was dubbed in her speech video. Doesn't synchronise well with her mouth movements..

  • @AJRA02

    @AJRA02

    8 ай бұрын

    @@michaeltang8607 yeah looks like but smts vids does drag off sync 🤔

  • @pincominco6996

    @pincominco6996

    8 ай бұрын

    Also prepared script

  • @AJRA02

    @AJRA02

    8 ай бұрын

    @@pincominco6996 🤣🤣🤣

  • @user-tg9ri8lu4v

    @user-tg9ri8lu4v

    8 ай бұрын

    @@michaeltang8607 lol if u dare tell ij public la. u chnes eindian always coward

  • @simbakheng3834
    @simbakheng38347 ай бұрын

    Sent to the wrong country for education. Iran, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Bangladesh shall be good for her

  • @stargazeronesixseven
    @stargazeronesixseven8 ай бұрын

    🙏 Agreed! Many CEOs or Presidents of Corporations , during their University Days , they travelled & learnt the Real World Cultures , Believes , Traditions & Way of Life so as to pick the Good Ingredients from the Bad Ones to applied into their future careers! That's how we know the Good from the Bad in ethnicities , believes , ideology , traditions , customs , education systems , governance & manufacturing practices in the Real World! 🙏 Thank You So Much Kak Mariam for the many education & enlightening tutorials over the years! Stay Safe , Stay Healthy & Stay Humble! Many Happy Good Blessings in Return to Kak Mariam! 😊🙏 🌷🌿🌎💜🕊🇲🇾

  • @andychong5984
    @andychong59848 ай бұрын

    Only her version of life is worth living? Why the hell is she doing in UK?

  • @francissanthukasan4264
    @francissanthukasan42648 ай бұрын

    I’m very proud of you that we still have broadminded Muslim in Malaysia we need leaders like you 💪

  • @nextothegiraffe8716

    @nextothegiraffe8716

    8 ай бұрын

    She’s not based in Msia.

  • @nrnar

    @nrnar

    8 ай бұрын

    There is no such thing as a "broad minded muslim". Either you are a muslim who follows the guidance from the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him), or you are NOT a muslim, or even worse, a HYPOCRITE, of whom the punishment for HYPOCRITES is that they will be consigned to the lowest depth of hell.

  • @goodputin4324

    @goodputin4324

    8 ай бұрын

    They're many of us don't worry

  • @nrnar

    @nrnar

    8 ай бұрын

    @@goodputin4324 in your dreams.🤣

  • @markwong9032

    @markwong9032

    8 ай бұрын

    She has my utmost respect all these years! Thank you, Madam Mariam!

  • @karithiyannaidu504
    @karithiyannaidu5047 ай бұрын

    You read my mind.Well said. I do hope that this girl is not funded by our tax payers’ money. What a waste!

  • @yky77
    @yky778 ай бұрын

    Actually, Sarawak we drinks all day long, even beside the main road sell beer, may be because she never came here

  • @vincenttay2812

    @vincenttay2812

    6 ай бұрын

    Trying banning achohol here and see what happen 😅

  • @yky77

    @yky77

    6 ай бұрын

    @@vincenttay2812 sarawak even the native buy and ask their 10yrs old sons come join together and smoke together . Just ask the ladies dont become the frog in the well.

  • @jhtam6768
    @jhtam67688 ай бұрын

    Malay culture is NOT equals to Malaysia culture. Malay culture is only part of Malaysia culture. Malaysia culture includes Chinese , Indian , Iban, Dayak and Kadazan cultures as well.

  • @chongls33

    @chongls33

    8 ай бұрын

    Fully agreed 💯. Don't be a brainless fanatic trying to control other races.

  • @user-cu6kn5ht8d
    @user-cu6kn5ht8d8 ай бұрын

    I appreciate your narration on the meaning of freedom within the context of self..l was in the States for five years and within that five years l have made tons of friends with all religious backgrounds..l got well with everyone regardless of race and religion..thank you for bringing up the subject for your fans and viewers.

  • @nirmalrajagopal2370
    @nirmalrajagopal23708 ай бұрын

    Absolutely agree! Studying abroad offers a valuable chance to explore and understand diverse cultures. It's crucial to engage with people from different races and backgrounds while staying true to our own values and ensuring they are respected rather than compromised

  • @vincenttay2812

    @vincenttay2812

    8 ай бұрын

    Give others a chance to study abroad if she cannot fit in. 😅

  • @elangkovannavamani6709

    @elangkovannavamani6709

    8 ай бұрын

    Translate. in malay.

  • @mickeytang440
    @mickeytang4408 ай бұрын

    I am speaking from the perspective of a former young student. People who act like this are very annoying. If someone invites you to some place, if the place make you uncomfortable, you do have the options to choose, go or not. no one force you, just be polite and said you dont want to join, simple as that. don’t need to make a big deal out of it and still film and post it on internet.such busy body, adn is consider talking behind the back. This is something that only snitcher would do. a lot people don't understand The world doesn’t revolve around you. Your family will cooperate with you at home, but outside, people don’t need to cooperate with you, they can just leave you. People are social animals. When she said things like this, other people might be afraid to interact with her again, afraid that she went to drama again with a small thing. This could lead to a boycott, which is not surprising. If she are happy receive compliments from far away land but have no friends in the Uni. then i just wish her Luck for the uni Years.

  • @lilychoo601
    @lilychoo6018 ай бұрын

    Joget already hilang in Malaysia.

  • @tytan9139
    @tytan91398 ай бұрын

    Thank you Puan. You have said what majority of people in Malaysia wanted to say all this while. A spoilt student like this truly is not deserving to go to UK and spent thousands of tax payers' money.

  • @allwinyay6085

    @allwinyay6085

    8 ай бұрын

    Many of these students do not qualify but benefit mainly due to the unfair education system of rewards. That's fine if only smart ones with healthy attitudes are selected. Famous quote: “It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubts,”

  • @norsyahidazaharudin8839

    @norsyahidazaharudin8839

    8 ай бұрын

    Your video memalukan Malaysia. Shame on you.

  • @DavidLee-bl6gr

    @DavidLee-bl6gr

    8 ай бұрын

    And the money that sponsor her to study are actually from the alcohol duty. 😂😂😂

  • @ii9078

    @ii9078

    8 ай бұрын

    Not Majority Lah

  • @abdulwahub8987

    @abdulwahub8987

    8 ай бұрын

    Fun fact, many muslims students overseas are sponsored by zakat fund. And muslim also pay tax like other fellow malaysian. Thank me later

  • @NabilahHassan
    @NabilahHassan8 ай бұрын

    The young lady just act upon this hadith On the authority of Abu Sa`eed al-Khudree (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say, “Whosoever of you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; and if he is not able to do so, then [let him change it] with his tongue; and if he is not able to do so, then with his heart - and that is the weakest of faith.” [Muslim]

  • @ernna6357

    @ernna6357

    7 ай бұрын

    How about ustaz who smoke outside the masjid? Or youths vaping and smoking? Good for health? Not evil? Munafik

  • @mhmepdn32

    @mhmepdn32

    6 ай бұрын

    The girl is correctly pointing it out.

  • @ismailnyeyusof3520
    @ismailnyeyusof35208 ай бұрын

    The part that gets me is how she smugly thinks she can speak for other people.

  • @smoothoperator1081
    @smoothoperator10818 ай бұрын

    Get her to come back. Study in some local uni or in the middle east. Waste time complaining about other people. Ask you to go abroad and learn and explore you complain. Come back let others have the chance. Kids nowdays. Bajet bajet lebih.

  • @drbahmasiva3635
    @drbahmasiva36358 ай бұрын

    Many people here talk about Iran but I can tell you for a fact that young Iranians are adventurous vibrant and love their fun. Not like this morbid young person.

  • @annydobon8106

    @annydobon8106

    8 ай бұрын

    Even in Dubai 😂

  • @funnlim
    @funnlim8 ай бұрын

    Im shocked shes so eloquent, got accent and all. I grew up where as a kid i go to nightclubs, adult went to pubs, now karaoke and cafes.. it is in our culture. Malaysians do have fun you know? And no one is forcing her to go or drink alcohol as you said. She could sit there and sulk. But she should never have imposed her restrictive views on others. Shes right about alcohol not being good but so is being a boring non participating member of society. Why is she even in england?

  • @Redzwan

    @Redzwan

    8 ай бұрын

    She is actually the daughter of PAS Muslimat Chief of Melaka. It is just PAS religious elitist trying to create a narrative.

  • @youniverseandeye

    @youniverseandeye

    8 ай бұрын

    Accent doesnt mean a thing, grow out of you colonial’s mindset.

  • @drbahmasiva3635

    @drbahmasiva3635

    8 ай бұрын

    Well said

  • @youniverseandeye

    @youniverseandeye

    8 ай бұрын

    @@drbahmasiva3635 well shit can lah

  • @drbahmasiva3635

    @drbahmasiva3635

    8 ай бұрын

    @@youniverseandeye Why? You tak boleh berak ke?

  • @kirohiro7333
    @kirohiro73338 ай бұрын

    I knew a Malay girl who removes her tudung when she enters the pub in London,when nearing her house she puts back her tudung,why this tudung

  • @Mike-tb5gj
    @Mike-tb5gj8 ай бұрын

    I had the pleasure of "stepping out" with a Malaysian woman some years ago. Not only was she extremely beautiful (I was clearly punching above my weight!), but she enjoyed going out, partying and "clubbing" until the early hours. There is a difference between the young lady in the video here and the woman I knew. My girl-friend was Catholic, obviously Christian. In this video, one can encapsulate the attitude of Islam in a very short time. Not only do Muslims not enjoy more liberal habits (and there is nothing wrong with that - I am not here to dictate to them), but they also wish to impose their ideas on those who are not of the same mind. Therein lies the problem. If I was more vulgar, I could say, "If they don't like it, they can push off somewhere else!" The narrator here is absolutely correct and has common sense.

  • @Kak_Anna

    @Kak_Anna

    8 ай бұрын

    Not all muslims are like her.

  • @astor12341

    @astor12341

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Kak_Anna One is one too many.

  • @vinyong88
    @vinyong888 ай бұрын

    Admin error _ sending her to the wrong destination

  • @fazlishak7223
    @fazlishak72238 ай бұрын

    Anything wrong with the girl when she is saying alcohol, drinking and clubbing shouldn't be part of the way to assimilate with the people. The Malaysian association can do something better perhaps sports activity than can let people mingle around. What is bad is bad. Even joget in Malaysia is bad. Not even all Arabic tradition is good. She is a girl with guts telling what right is right and what wrong is wrong no matter where she are.

  • @takiyaazrin7562

    @takiyaazrin7562

    8 ай бұрын

    We captured excellent women for ransom. We decided to have sex with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). We asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born. Sahih Muslim 1438a

  • @sazilahahmadsarji685

    @sazilahahmadsarji685

    8 ай бұрын

    Yup... well done tp the young lady. As for Madam Mariam semoga di beri hidayah....

  • @neofoo23
    @neofoo238 ай бұрын

    This is call self egocentric. Always thinking world is circulating her. Not appreciate and respect other countries culture. As mentioned by Mariam, she should go study in Yemen, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Iran.

  • @jimmyyeo123
    @jimmyyeo1238 ай бұрын

    If you hear what she said she is only concern about her own need her own religion practices she is rather selfish I must say as she does not take into account other peoples needs and practices which can accept drinking and partying. She is totally selfish because if "I dont drink and partying you must not as well" attitude ! So what Mariam describe her is correct saperti katak di bawah tempurong worst still disregard for other peoples practices and freedom of choice. I always believe if you think the event does not equate to your believe and practices DONT JOIN IN period but dont selfishly stop others as well. If we talk about religious aspect I believe we were thought about Tolerance Forgiveness Respect Other culture practices and Religion so she must have missed this lesson ?

  • @chiangweytan5937

    @chiangweytan5937

    8 ай бұрын

    It's literally a tenet in Islam though... We are all infidels doomed for hell since we are not Muslim. Not sure if they practice the Catholic forgiveness crap where if you convert then all sins are forgiven and you are allowed in heaven. Maybe convert still infidel. Since like that, why bother? Just PARTY!!!!!!! 'Holier than thou' arguments are the foundations of the narrow-minded.

  • @user-sh4iz8ux4q
    @user-sh4iz8ux4q8 ай бұрын

    Trying to impose her twisted beliefs on others. By the way why is she not wearing the full burqa or niqab. Is it because it's not her culture? 😂😂😂

  • @jsmohar2226

    @jsmohar2226

    8 ай бұрын

    Very soon will be implemented in Malusia..

  • @ernna6357

    @ernna6357

    8 ай бұрын

    Some in KL already wearing. They even form a niqab club. Iranians call them the penguins

  • @ronythiang8207
    @ronythiang82078 ай бұрын

    I salute you, dear Madam. For the Malaysian Malay what they become now is caused mainly by the earlier government. Use religion as a tool to manipulate people's mind. I admire your open-mindedness, bravo. 🎉

  • @yoganathansuppiah3692

    @yoganathansuppiah3692

    5 ай бұрын

    Ya many playing god they forget they are human

  • @yoganathansuppiah3692

    @yoganathansuppiah3692

    5 ай бұрын

    Now there are many walking gods

  • @arfye74
    @arfye747 ай бұрын

    No one is forcing her to go to a bar, pub or whatever. No one is telling her to abandon Islam or Islamic values. Speak for yourself, Aisyah. Sedap2 belajar di negara yang banyak nonmuslim, ada hati nak komplen. You should have chosen Pakistan or saudi instead.

  • @bkhng2899
    @bkhng28998 ай бұрын

    Just tell her not to go to the event if she is not comfortable. No one force her. But, why impose her standard on others?

  • @ladridwan800
    @ladridwan8008 ай бұрын

    duduk negara orang buat cara negara orang jangan buat negara sendiri, sepatutnya dia kena belajar di palestin bukan UK

  • @icinisan360

    @icinisan360

    8 ай бұрын

    X perlu la sebut Palestine, pundawane. Nk comment guna akal.

  • @Auntie_Joker

    @Auntie_Joker

    8 ай бұрын

    Kenapa x makan babi kat sana 🤗

  • @haniffiksel8621

    @haniffiksel8621

    4 ай бұрын

    Kepal bapak kau

  • @noriwklee
    @noriwklee8 ай бұрын

    Exactly how some non-muslim in Malaysia think of. we did not force you to drink or eat or do anything which is against the Islam teaching. and yet "they" feel uncomfortable and feel that they are not being respected. we feel disrespect being said so.

  • @oktq
    @oktq7 ай бұрын

    Well said indeed ! 👏👏👏 Appreciate Mariam so much so much with thankful of her understanding 🙏...

  • @nfuryboss
    @nfuryboss8 ай бұрын

    The young lady is better off going to a Muslim university. Problem solved.

  • @razaliabubakar6390
    @razaliabubakar63908 ай бұрын

    Like you, Mariam, I used to enjoy socializing and partying during my younger days. Many Malays, men and women also attended and there was much mingling and socializing among the attendees from all races. The question of ethnicity and religious beliefs never surfaced and we were there to make friends and enjoy the companionship of each other. Our hosts or organizers were sensitive enough not to serve alcoholic drinks and non-halal food whenever they knew that there would be Muslim guests attending. Fast forward to today, in the last two reunion gatherings we had in the last few years, I noticed there was a change in the attitudes of these old friends. They no longer sat at the same tables with their old friends from other races. While my non-Malay friends had no qualms about sitting with whoever attended the gatherings I noticed that my former Malay schoolmates and/or friends sat among themselves and rarely spoke to their non-Malay schoolmates and/or friends. Of course, there were a few exceptions where my more 'liberal' Malay friends would mingle among all the attendees but a vast majority of them would talk, laugh, and make silly jokes among themselves at a few tables away from the rest. It upset me to see how things have changed after over 30 years. How do the same group of friends who were color-blind when we were young now keep their distance from others who are of different ethnicity? What changed them over the years? What that Malay girl said on social media has become something that I have come to expect. Wahhabism has crept into Malaysia, brought in by our students who studied in the Middle East and were appealed by the teachings (or shall I say ideology) and decided to import back for our local consumption. This is more so when our Muslim scholars (or ulama) and preachers who graduated from Middle Eastern universities begin to teach and expand Wahhabism in Malaysia. Remember, Wahhabism restricts dissent, and Muslims are not allowed to question what is being preached by Wahhabists, that questioning their teachers (ustaz and ustazah) is tantamount to heresy. The trend towards Islamic conservatism will continue and may become more ingrained in our Muslim society and dissenting voices like yours and mine will become a minority and we will be branded as 'liberals' and maybe even anti-Islam. We will be scolded, heckled, cursed, and maybe even threatened and deemed as 'enemies of Islam'. Even Prime Minister Anwar Ibrahim who for so long been branding himself as a reformist and a centrist has begun to buckle from this enormous pressure from the conservatives and begins to move towards the right.

  • @muhdyasirsadon59

    @muhdyasirsadon59

    8 ай бұрын

    Wahabism? Lol those with strict interpretation are Ashaari sufi Just like ex Jakim extreme preacher and ex kdn religious officer Zamihan mat zin who said that muslim only doby and non muslim are najis. This trigers the suktans of Perak, Selangor and Johor in revoking his accreditation. It’s not the wahabi that interpret strictly its those with shafie ashaari sufi mindset. Plus sufi militan such al maunah also follow sufi tariqah. The old people in pondok preaching closed mindset. Wahabi allows everyone to be criticised. The Gurus are not infallible and can be anytime not to be followed unlike the ashaari sufis that bootlicked their teachers. Plus most secual cases involves sufi ashaari pondoks and maahad tahfiz. Stop blaming all to wahabi.

  • @Mar-enfrance

    @Mar-enfrance

    8 ай бұрын

    Totally agree.

  • @Kuasarakyat2

    @Kuasarakyat2

    8 ай бұрын

    Agree 💯

  • @Mar-enfrance

    @Mar-enfrance

    8 ай бұрын

    The political parties have played the racial divide card since decades or more, blaming other races for the shortcomings and indolence of the malays. This has led to the division of the people and the path of disaster. Malaysia was built with and from the combined efforts of all the people, however they wish to deny the facts.

  • @razaliabubakar6390

    @razaliabubakar6390

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Mar-enfrance political parties are not denying the facts as these facts have been known for decades. They are merely playing up the 3R for political expediency. They realize they have failed the people but still want to stay in power. Hence, they borrow a chapter from the former colonials to hold on to power, that is to divide and rule. Malays in general are complacent, emotional, easily influenced, and easily forget. They are playing to the sentiment of the Malays, knowing full well that the Malays are most concerned with their status as Bumiputera and their religion of Islam. Thus, by playing the 3R card they attempt to secure the Malays as their vote bank since the Malay voters constitute the majority. To a large extent, this strategy succeeded. Other Malay-based parties do not want to be left out and play together, turning it into an acceptable narrative. The ones that are left behind are the non-Malays which include the Chinese, the Indian, and the Bumiputera of East Malaysia who are mostly Christians.

  • @rouge6145
    @rouge61458 ай бұрын

    wow, the madam really hate her guts 😂. Taliban??? that is overkill😂. You hate Islam, thats fine You hate to wear shawl to cover your hair, thats fine You love to mingle² with others, thats fine You love to get drunk, thats fine You u want to get a 1 night stand, thats fine But do not say it is 'golden opportunity' Golden opportunity not necessarily all about alchohol, clubbing and partying Open minded but 'Madam' obviously biased toward western cultures and mock other people belief and faith like mentioning (Afghanistan, Taliban, Nasyid)

  • @CK-kp8wh
    @CK-kp8wh8 ай бұрын

    Be aware of next PRU, there will be more such ill Malay high educated people, like Kepala Batas no trained MP trying to restrict other races .

  • @utube3888
    @utube38888 ай бұрын

    She is definitely unfit to be in a foreign country for her further studies. She should remain in Malaysia or better still study in Pakistan.or other Muslims nation. Other non Muslims would gladly take her place to study in UK. She should also not impose her belief or value on others. She is very selfish.

  • @yeapsoon3115
    @yeapsoon31158 ай бұрын

    She should not be speaking English?

  • @robinsonfrancis1498
    @robinsonfrancis14988 ай бұрын

    Will the same student speak out against the racial discrimination that the very sponsors her education practices against non-Muslims and non-Malays? Racism is worse than alcohol. One of the contributing factors alcoholism among non-Malays is poverty which is made worse for minorities because the government neglects poorer non-Malays.

  • @mrsenorism
    @mrsenorism8 ай бұрын

    Well Makcik, the Aisyah girl was just reminding her fellow colleagues not to get wasted. Aren’t the students suppose to be at their residence at that ungodly hour? If they really want to go out, then shouldn’t have it under student’s organization. Besides, you can always socialize with everyone between classes and other places, so why nightclub? Makcik, if anything bad happens to those kids, who’s to take the responsibility? You? The student board? Or worst the cynical commentators here? Makcik, if you really want to “save” Malaysia, save your soul first.

  • @astrometaqua411
    @astrometaqua4118 ай бұрын

    Just wonder why they are not proud of their own ori Malay culture and ways of living, asking for others 🤔

  • @StardustXI1989
    @StardustXI19898 ай бұрын

    The world doesn’t revolve around your restrictions

  • @jsmohar2226

    @jsmohar2226

    8 ай бұрын

    Yes, very true indeed !

  • @forevergraceful6160

    @forevergraceful6160

    8 ай бұрын

    But certain belief systems seem to programmed their followers to think the world revolves around them.

  • @MsArmy00
    @MsArmy008 ай бұрын

    Hanya disebabkan dia berdakwah utk mengelakkan kemungkaran, Cik Maryam ni mengeji pelajar itu sebagai ketinggalan, kekampungan. Walhal pelajar tersebut adalah pelajar pintar yang mendapat biasiswa penuh daripada kerajaan.

  • @aboicat8182

    @aboicat8182

    8 ай бұрын

    Nama Mariam Mokhtar cam tak sesuai...Mary lebih sesuai kot

  • @kb_zack

    @kb_zack

    8 ай бұрын

    @@aboicat8182 dah tua nak mamposs masih tak nk bertudung. Dari situ dah nampak.

  • @lyxxchu6219

    @lyxxchu6219

    7 ай бұрын

    Most of people here dont understand her point. Boleh pulak dia hina bila pelajar ni ajak yg sama agama canggah buat dosa 🤷‍♀️ risau betul dengan malaysia lately.

  • @ernna6357

    @ernna6357

    7 ай бұрын

    @@aboicat8182 kedua2 Mariam dan Mary ade nama akar yg sama. Pemikir cetek kau

  • @Denzelkoh
    @Denzelkoh8 ай бұрын

    Back in my uni days in a Western foreign country, the Head of Malaysian consulate had a house with bar to entertain visitors. He was Mr Popular, not like the Killjoys of today

  • @NgaKhorham-jb2jl
    @NgaKhorham-jb2jl8 ай бұрын

    🤔Adik rasa, pelajar ini tidak sepatutnya mencipta atau memberikan gambaran buruk dan kritikan seperti ini di luar negara Barat..... Dia perlu kuatkan semangatnya dengan kepercayaannya kepada Tuhan dia dan tiada sesiapa yang boleh memaksanya melakukan sesuatu yang dia tidak suka lakukan. Terima kasih❤

  • @yoganathansuppiah3692

    @yoganathansuppiah3692

    5 ай бұрын

    Dia ini wayang sja to be holi

  • @Highlander226
    @Highlander2268 ай бұрын

    In the west, it’s fairness, equality, meritocracy etc. She should know that!

  • @bluemarlin2u

    @bluemarlin2u

    8 ай бұрын

    She should have gone to Afghanistan and not the UK. She should be happier in a Taliban education facility.

  • @eswaribalan164

    @eswaribalan164

    8 ай бұрын

    Not quite..

  • @ariwata

    @ariwata

    8 ай бұрын

    Not true at all

  • @sassdcc8692
    @sassdcc86928 ай бұрын

    Please dont blame her. She's the perfect product of her upbringing in a conservative home and a school with general Arab culture. Just flush the girl's advice down the wc bowl.

  • @kita_komen4391
    @kita_komen43918 ай бұрын

    i'm so sure that she's not furious and certainly not jealous of not having the chance to dance, drink etc, some ppl just a bit observant than others. just take it as a reminder, it's just a speech, you are free to do anything you like... i do understand ppl sometimes need to ride on a topic otherwise it'll be a dull world

  • @chandrapals
    @chandrapals8 ай бұрын

    Looks like AI is used for dubbing the student’s voice because number 1, the English accent is very American and the timing and the form of her mouth movements are not in sync with the words she is supposedly uttering and so Mariam while your feedback on the topic is legit and true, I would first verify the authenticity of the video.

  • @MS113MS

    @MS113MS

    8 ай бұрын

    May be.....

  • @ur-vr-ys7sf

    @ur-vr-ys7sf

    8 ай бұрын

    you nailed it man !! 😁😁

  • @forevergraceful6160

    @forevergraceful6160

    8 ай бұрын

    your a genius!

  • @tpking2071

    @tpking2071

    8 ай бұрын

    一针见血啊, 大哥!!

  • @boonleong6949

    @boonleong6949

    8 ай бұрын

    Yes maybe but does not take away the poison of the message from the speaker, AI or real, so Pn MM's response and specific rebuttal of the points ate valid❤

  • @alexgomel5805
    @alexgomel58058 ай бұрын

    Too late puan,they have been taught to be like that from primary 1.

  • @oathkeeper8513

    @oathkeeper8513

    8 ай бұрын

    wrong, since tahfiz 😀

  • @eugenec7130
    @eugenec71307 ай бұрын

    It is comfortable and being protected under a tempurung (a.k.a. religion). But because of the protection, the people under the tempurung have lost their ability to identify any danger to themselves and fend off attacks from spiritual threats. A Christmas celebration, the sight of an alcohol bottle or a woman wearing a bikini on the beach will break any defense of these people, and there goes their religious belief. They should instead be trained to be immune from temptations and evil thoughts.

  • @serjtanazim
    @serjtanazim8 ай бұрын

    Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The world is a prison for the believer and a paradise for the unbeliever.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2956 The hadith reflect this matter. Good for the girl stickingto her belief. May Allah reward you with abundance.

  • @xiiaohao3871

    @xiiaohao3871

    8 ай бұрын

    "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5:8 Always remember, Jesus loves you.

  • @takiyaazrin7562

    @takiyaazrin7562

    8 ай бұрын

    We captured excellent women for ransom. We decided to have sex with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). We asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born. Sahih Muslim 1438a

  • @ugh282
    @ugh2828 ай бұрын

    Thank you mdm for speaking out for us non muslims in Malaysia. 🙏

  • @DKX365

    @DKX365

    8 ай бұрын

    She just gave advice for people who want follow nobody is talking to any religion or races

  • @clarismontegue268

    @clarismontegue268

    8 ай бұрын

    Well said madam,the malay students are very scared to mix with others so they should not go to UK on tax payes money

  • @mohdhadib.muhammadgantijwn3164

    @mohdhadib.muhammadgantijwn3164

    8 ай бұрын

    'WOW. wow wow..at least i know there is somebody who is non muslim not feel safe living with other religion in Malaysia but still living in Malaysia ...what a jokes......

  • @harry1975ist

    @harry1975ist

    8 ай бұрын

    @@mohdhadib.muhammadgantijwn3164 No...The non muslim are not scared with muslims ...but not to be a redial muslims when they cm back from overseas universities ....

  • @cahayaqasyeh

    @cahayaqasyeh

    8 ай бұрын

    you take care of your own belief and lifestyle, we take care of ours. We never interfere with yours, but you and other so called "open-minded" peeps, like to interfere with ours. and FYI the Aisyah gal that you and this lupa diri muslim lady mocking abt is a smart student who is major in Math. It is her right to voice out her concerned abt her fellow muslims brothers and sisters. It is every muslims responsibilities to advice and invite those who sway from Islam to return to Islam.

  • @sunnyram8839
    @sunnyram88398 ай бұрын

    Ini lah di panggil Takut Bayang Bayang sendiri!! The product of 22 years of Tun Musang Doktor Pembelit's stomping all over their self confidence and calling them DNA Rosak! Takut Krismas, takut gambar babi, takut tangloong, takut salib, takut gambar wombat ( stupidly identifying it as Babi), takut ucap greetings for celebrations, takut ini, takut itu dan last last takut bayang bayang sendiri!! Malaysians The Citizens of The World kah or Malaysians Citizens of Their Own Delusional World!!??

  • @wongsowching83
    @wongsowching838 ай бұрын

    If she is reluctant and afraid to expose herself 9:00 to the other people or their cultures, why waste the country’s money (collected from tax payers) and depriving others who are more willing to learn the opportunity to learn? Selfish and arrogant!

  • @johanariffinabdulrahman9471
    @johanariffinabdulrahman94718 ай бұрын

    Mariam, the student has not committed a sin. She is a true muslim, maintaining her islamic faith presented her thoughts faithfully to remind fellow muslims to refresh their activities and to keep away from sins. Mariam, please check for yourself the limits in islam as far as socialising is the subject. Sincerely following your homework on the limits of socialising islamically please re address the same issue again. I feel certain that you will reword your harsh language.

  • @chongls33

    @chongls33

    8 ай бұрын

    Controlling others freedom from living is not kind at all. It is the biggest sin

  • @johanariffinabdulrahman9471

    @johanariffinabdulrahman9471

    8 ай бұрын

    Pls comprehend the intention of the student as a reminder to her islam friends; Not dictating. Its okay, if not agreed, simply ignore then. What negative implications has her thoughts implicated on you. Keep drinking alcohol and explore accidents due to drunk driving. Keep socialising and produce more abandoned babies. I hope Mariam Mokhtar respond to my comments.

  • @ernna6357

    @ernna6357

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@johanariffinabdulrahman9471Madam, your argument of keep drinking and creating unwanted babies seems to take place in the real ulu ulu kampong where teenage pregnancy is rampant. Going to pubs and create unwanted babies in UK? Are you living in 1960s era or stone age? Boomer ka?

  • @edau60
    @edau608 ай бұрын

    She misses a golden opportunity to open up her mind to learn and grow. You don't drink alcohol? No problem just order orange juice. No dancing? Try, its really fun. If not just sit at your table and enjoy the music. Make new friends , learn about other cultures and customs. Be a global citizen. We are young only once.

  • @benzpinto

    @benzpinto

    8 ай бұрын

    indeed. as if going to a pub means u have to drink alcohol. if u dont feel like it, then just dont do. no need to advice others and make them feel bad.

  • @84yyds81

    @84yyds81

    8 ай бұрын

    but they say the place is haram, cant even step inside, it is against their religion

  • @problemperson4221

    @problemperson4221

    8 ай бұрын

    @@84yyds81 if it's haram, don't go, no one is forcing her to go to the afterparty, if she wants to hang with her friends so bad, why not host a small gathering herself that doesn't have alcohol, dancing, or clubbing?

  • @xuanli7709

    @xuanli7709

    8 ай бұрын

    @@problemperson4221 Actually I can see some reason in her accusation, the one organizing the afterparty should ask for participants opinion before deciding on the venue. BUT, if majority of the students vote to have it in a pub and she goes on tiktok to accuse the organizer for being inconsiderate, then maybe she should just stayed home tsk

  • @guytruth5598
    @guytruth55988 ай бұрын

    Actually the restriction and the diminishing of ronggeng in Malaysia is a sad story, when I was a little boy in the sixties there will be a party when the sultan visited the area they will doing the ronggeng and dance till the wee hours. Its a big celebration for the communities,three races is part of it, my father will sell ice cream outside the hall.Ronggeng is very popular during any big day. My mother told me the sultan comes surely got ronggeng.

  • @ariwata

    @ariwata

    8 ай бұрын

    It's not just ronggeng. In Kelantan and Trerengganu they abolished all the cultures like wayang kulit, mak yong and rodad. Women are not allowed to sing in public and even aerobic for women is not allowed in open spaces....

  • @guytruth5598

    @guytruth5598

    8 ай бұрын

    @@ariwata yah many Malay culture don't exist anymore.

  • @DanielleFung
    @DanielleFung7 ай бұрын

    thanks for your voice

  • @Fab69621
    @Fab696218 ай бұрын

    Education ministry should have look into this matters.. shame on you without knowledge of our non Muslim culture.tq mdm for sharing.

  • @chanronnie5079

    @chanronnie5079

    8 ай бұрын

    She shud fail her scholarships interview. I'm sure tat penultimate question was asked "Do u see urself any problem integrating into UK life?". Either she lied or the interviewer chosed to overlook - which instead of the interviewer giving her a chance, tis turns into an international joke. My fren fr USA & France oso saw tis video of hers.

  • @aciteh5427
    @aciteh54278 ай бұрын

    She should watch more of P. Ramlee’s movies, or read more of Lat’s cartoons, to understand more about the original Malay culture.

  • @krubasinimuniandy3331

    @krubasinimuniandy3331

    8 ай бұрын

    Well said, congrats..i remember the peace n harmony i always felt when i used to watch those you mentioned.

  • @vister6757

    @vister6757

    8 ай бұрын

    Endangered. Some have gone extinct too!

  • @kltan7261

    @kltan7261

    8 ай бұрын

    They have lots of Joget dance parties in those P. Ramlee movies...

  • @benzpinto

    @benzpinto

    8 ай бұрын

    we have been radicalised since 90s due to influences from extremist coming from outside the country infiltrating our political party.

  • @Kak_Anna

    @Kak_Anna

    8 ай бұрын

    Amen!

  • @user-wy7be8tj3m
    @user-wy7be8tj3m8 ай бұрын

    Dont want to hear what that girl said. Better she go home. Not aligible to study in UK.

  • @sanr.r1151
    @sanr.r11517 ай бұрын

    Thank you for being open and understanding.

  • @jessicajames1280
    @jessicajames12808 ай бұрын

    Did she use our money to go abroad? 😢..we pay cukai for her???

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