there’s no way i would want this woman’s friendship

@pinkie5963CP

3 жыл бұрын

agree!

@kaykay7156

3 жыл бұрын

There’s no way I’d answer the zoom lmaoo

@kaykay7156

3 жыл бұрын

@@angeliki5135 nobody’s reading all that so I’m gonna keep it short and sweet. If you think somebody is a dirty sinner for how they were born, you are not their friend, you don’t deserve a friend and there’s no way they can feel comfortable around you knowing that there’s a part of you that’s disgusted by them. Maher did the right thing by ghosting her, he shouldn’t have even bothered with the zoom

@angeliki5135

3 жыл бұрын

@@kaykay7156 She wasn't disgusted by him. Please read the whole thing or do not reply back.

@kaykay7156

3 жыл бұрын

@@angeliki5135 it doesn’t matter, you also didn’t negate the other point I made so it still stands. There is no possible way for them to be friends. He can’t be comfortable with her, he can’t share important things in life with her (like relationships) and most importantly, his sister is dead because of people like her. They can’t be friends or even acquaintances

I respect Maher so much for respecting himself enough to leave. I'm sorry he had to deal with that.

@sherrytindi9134

3 жыл бұрын

deal with what ? an opinion someone has ??? he shouldn't be seeking acceptance from someone else as long as he feels he's doing the right thing nothing else matters

@nad163

3 жыл бұрын

@@sherrytindi9134 it was his friend, of course her opinion matters. Feeling like your own friend doesn’t accept you, for who you are, must be very painful

@chocolatebaby852

3 жыл бұрын

@@sherrytindi9134 if it’s his friend from his whole childhood I would want to know if they accept me too

@lindseyperlberg8484

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly a lot of us have to

@weirdtemple1217

3 жыл бұрын

@@nad163 Friends don't always have to share the same opinions, welcome to the real world. People are different regardless you accept it or not. Remember Maher was the one that completely cut her off disrespectfully, she felt hurt that he did that. She doesn't accept his lifestyle, not him completely.

She is so condescending. She doesn’t even wanna try to understand his side. It’s just all about her and how she feels. They weren’t meant to be friends.

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

Are you even trying to understand her? He didnt even let her finish. He was to insecure to do that. I cant stand this fake tolerant crap

@angeliki5135

3 жыл бұрын

She was understanding him though and was denied the chance to explain her side, then badly influenced by Rachel (who convinced her accepting gays means accepting they are born gay, and so since Naminah differed she was influenced into believing she tolerates gays because she did not want an argument) and was then just ganged up on when they tried to make up. Dose everyone just ignore this? It isn't right for someone to not let someone else express themselves completely because he cut her off when she said "could you try to not be gay?" When I am certain she would have used the argument to show him she cannot stop being Christian, that her being Christian and him being gay is a choice but she accepts him regardless to come and eat dinner at her table. It also isn't right for someone else to badly influence someone, especially as a Christian! Rachel should've quoted John 15:10-17, it would have diffused the whole thing to help Manher realize his friend can accept him because the Bible tells us to love one another. Regardless of the Bible telling us to judge people for what they do (in a righteous way only) and that there is right or wrong, we are also told to love one another and not be hateful or rage at each other. So the idea that Christians hate gays is so inaccurate and if you know any Christians like that, they are being misled. Naminah was not condescending, she was simply trying to avoid conflict while she herself could not find the right words to express what she meant.

@thaysblascoquerencia8056

3 жыл бұрын

@@angeliki5135 wrong.... religion is a choice, being gay not...and no one ask her to stop being a christian, just to open her mind and accept him... there is too many ways of belive in God, you just have to find the way to accept everyone, without stop believing in your faith.... simple

@saunsiaraybroussard9967

3 жыл бұрын

Tyre Smith: Exactly! She's very disrespectful and rude! There's no need for them to be friends especially if she's going to be like this!

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

@@thaysblascoquerencia8056 she did find a way but it wasnt good enough for them . . .which is not her fault. .🤷 also no one knows 100% forsure if being gay is a choice or not

he wasnt even asking her to give up her religion, he was asking her to accept him and as a gay man myself I wouldn't want someone like her in my life

@aml9439

3 жыл бұрын

But she DID accept him and said that she'd welcome him and his partner or have you deliberately chosen to ignore that part? Like how much more can she do at this point. So they disagreed on how his orientation came about, but in the grand scheme of things does that really truly matter? As he prefers men not women and that isn't changing is it?

@azureomegaart1816

3 жыл бұрын

@@aml9439 yo she deadass said she doesn't accept him being gay but TOLERATES, acceptance and tolerance are not the same thing

@azureomegaart1816

3 жыл бұрын

@@aml9439 or did you overlook that?

@moth_inthesky8517

3 жыл бұрын

@KMR Yeah, actually people do care.

@azureomegaart1816

3 жыл бұрын

@@angeliki5135 this is the kind of reply I truly respect. watching the vid again i can definitely understand that she felt attacked and influenced to say that, Rachel was hella aggressive, and Maher definitely could've went about responding a more respectful way

If being gay is a choice, then I’d like to know when she chose to be straight? Cause I assume it works both ways...

@2006glg

3 жыл бұрын

I don't think she is straight.

@g.babii13lordknows84

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@nad163

3 жыл бұрын

exactly

@jonittasamuel8974

3 жыл бұрын

I mean she would choose to be straight becuase her belief goes against gay or lesbian people.

@Leoprincess3038

3 жыл бұрын

You guys also assume men can just decide they are women and no......

“This is so emotional for me” until she gets called out 🙄

@zionlioness10

3 жыл бұрын

Lol. 🤣🤣

@sunshinem.7741

3 жыл бұрын

So many people are like this! They act like an issue is important and hurting them, until the real problem is brought up and they go totally sour 🙄

@hollybland9928

3 жыл бұрын

She really didn’t call her out, Niameh, opted to let her have her own interpretation , 3 words could have shut it down , Sodom and Gommorah ... not trying to ruffle any feathers but if we wanna talk about the Bible , nuf said.

@jaynehogue2459

2 жыл бұрын

Do you think she shouldn't be called out

@jaynehogue2459

2 жыл бұрын

Maher expects her to be accepting of him but he refuses to be accepting of her. There is such a double standard it's unbelievable

Dang that is really sad. She isn’t even trying to understand him 😔

@pinkie5963CP

3 жыл бұрын

100th like!

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

They arent trying to understand her. . its all about what makes maher happy. I cant stand fake tolerant crap like this

@angeliki5135

3 жыл бұрын

They didn't even give her a chance to speak.

@KassandraQuiseng

3 жыл бұрын

@@LuhRen there’s nothing to “understand” she’s just a homophobe

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

@@KassandraQuiseng lol how? She invited him and his partner to her home. She still wanted a friendship even after finding out he was gay. He couldnt accept the fact he wasnt going to change her faith. Yall just looking for anything to be offended by huh?

I liked her at first but she seems set in her ways. I would stay ghosted too ✌🏽

@malikwingfield6496

3 жыл бұрын

Why does she have to fully accept him but he can’t do the same

@HELLOkitty90210

3 жыл бұрын

@@malikwingfield6496 because she’s disrespectful, that’s why. He could probably accept her and her beliefs if she wasn’t so rude.

@Sileaine

3 жыл бұрын

@@malikwingfield6496 because if you just tolerate gay people it means you can not truly love them as you are presuming there life choices are bad, using your faith to hate people is extremely dangerous it means you will probably support laws that will directly affect the lgbtqia in a negative way.

@kooistradurk

3 жыл бұрын

@@HELLOkitty90210 that was not the argument. The argument is that he does not have to accept her believes but she must accept his. Simple as that.

@kooistradurk

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sileaine you truly don't see the double standard huh?

I will never understand people using the Bible to justify homophobia or homophobia in general. How does him being gay effect her in any way shape or form?!

@gaaralvr4695

3 жыл бұрын

Right, and she won’t even acknowledge that the Bible was used/still used to oppress people like her because of the color of her skin. Smh

@michaelafleming5084

3 жыл бұрын

Even though the Bible speaks against it, the Bible also tells us to love thy neighbor. Only God himself can judge. We are to love and respect one another regardless of who they choose to lay with at night.

@Kk42892

3 жыл бұрын

@@michaelafleming5084 the Bible doesn’t speak against it. The real translation said that man shouldnt lay with little boys. It was referring to pedophilia not homosexuality. People didn’t start translating the word “arsenokoitai” to homosexual until 1946.

@Atomicqueen9

3 жыл бұрын

@Michael Paul no it doesn't 🙄🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

@michaelafleming5084

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kk42892 Sodom and Gomorrah

Shout out to Rachel for being so well-spoken and able to communicate the truth so pertinently. I woulda lost my cool so fast

@meyou2236

Жыл бұрын

s Add a comment... Tyre Smith 2 years ago She is so condescending. She doesn’t even wanna try to understand his side. It’s just all about her and how she feels. They weren’t meant to be friends. 1.3K 32 Show more replies vitoria 2 years ago there’s no way i would want this woman’s friendship 1.4K 20 Show more replies TheRealSamsClub 2 years ago Shout out to Rachel for being so well-spoken and able to communicate the truth so pertinently. I woulda lost my cool so fast 97 Pariah 2 years ago I respect Maher so much for respecting himself enough to leave. I'm sorry he had to deal with that. 976 15 Show more replies Olivia-rose 2 years ago Love the conversation that Rachel had with Naimah! I am glad they were also able to show and represent Christians who have their beliefs and still support the LGBTQ+ community 🙌🏻 26 J W 2 years ago I can’t imagine ever treating my best friend this way. He came out to me and I accepted him and supported him in every single way. I could never hurt him like this. He’s too important to me. 172 2 Show more replies Ashley 2 years ago She doesn’t have to accept him. He doesn’t have to accept her. They don’t have to be friends. 152 3 Show more replies Jacquelien 2 years ago Did I one day woke up and choose to be straight? Did I decide to like guys? No I did not. Same as he never woke up and decided he likes boys too. It's love. We can not choose who we love. It happens 194 3 nascar 2 years ago beautifully put 7 ᴄʜᴏᴘsᴛɪᴄᴋs Bby 2 years ago That’s the thing people don’t understand , they don’t know how hard it is to try to be something you’re not just because of your religion 5 K B 1 year ago Thank you :) always appreciate people like you and I wish there were more like you throughout history. 1 Me You 0 seconds ago Delusional. That's a lie. People choose who they love everyday. It's called dating, having preferences, sexuality, standards, etc. To equate being homosexual to be born an ethnicity, is like an owl 🦉 saying to the duck 🦆, I didn't choose to be an owl. There are different species of birds, cats, snakes, and HUMAN, etc. SEXUALITY IS AND SHOULD REMAIN AN ADULT CHOICE. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP LYING AND EXPECTING OTHERS TO. It confuses, exploits, and stresses children, who have so much to learn besides sex. There is more to life. Homosexuality might as well be a religion, because all it is is a belief. No one should have to agree with your beliefs.

They wasn’t meant to be friends 🤦🏽‍♂️.

@kaydenae4

3 жыл бұрын

yeah she doesn’t even believe he should have right so yeah

@chiefbologna5719

3 жыл бұрын

She not meant to have friends, he did nothing wrong

@nightsky3981

3 жыл бұрын

They weren’t*

The fact she wrote GHOST in all caps seems really telling. Like, we already thought she wouldn't change her opinion, now we know she was just being more polite for the camera. She's adamantly against all of this. How much you wanna bet that if this was just a personal conversation it'd become an angry argument in a second?

@prophetessesther6566

3 жыл бұрын

Some people write everything in caps.

@sunshinem.7741

3 жыл бұрын

@@prophetessesther6566 And then everyone thinks they're always screaming lol

I don't think she was really that sorry to hear that his sister passed away. The minute she found out that he was gay her demeanor completely changed as well. Sad, but he is much better off without her friendship.

@ikemotosystems1434

5 ай бұрын

I guarantee she thought "oh she's dead, now he can get over it and I can have my friend back"

Maher is well rid of her. A friend not being able to accept something you have no control over is not a friend at all. Hope her “beliefs” can replace a solid friendship she lost over that BS.

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

Naw shes better off without him. A friend who cant take someone thinking differently about life is not a healthy friend to be around

@angeliki5135

3 жыл бұрын

@@LuhRen Thank you Renzo.

@nad163

3 жыл бұрын

@@LuhRen it’s not about thinking differently, it’s about not accepting your friend, for something they have no control over, did you chose to be straight? I don’t think so

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

@@nad163 but did she say she didnt accept him? No. She invited him Nd his parnter over for dinner. She contacted this show in the first place to find him . . like idk what you people want lol she wants him in her life obviously. Her faith doesnt allow her to accept homosexuality and thats fine if thats her choice. But to condemn her for being honest isnt kosher. He obviously feels some type of way about his lifestyle or else he wouldnt have acted this way. She was willing to compromise he wasnt. Plain and simple. She deserves a friend who can handle to truth. Not some insecure person who cant.she can leave him to live in his fantasy land.

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

@@nad163 also why do you assume im straight?

I wish I could articulate an argument like Rachel, my mouth is too profane 😩 she even came through with the biblical receipts 👏🏾 (you see how sis all of a sudden didn’t wanna debate😌) he’s better off without her, he’ll find the love he lost and more 👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨💜

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

Her reference to the bible is jaded and misled. Leviticus 18:22 leaves no room to interpret anything other than what it says. Rachel is not a hero

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

@@kay__907 she really didnt it was rooted in feeling and emotion

@angeliki5135

3 жыл бұрын

I wanted to say something about it too. Because no where in our genes is there a "gay, bi, les, trans, queer" gene. I want it known I am not against LGBTQA+ community or other people having a different sexuality, but please understand you are not born that way. It is a choice you choose for yourself, a behavior that you've adopted as part of who you are and there is no shame there. But please do not go believing that people are born gay, that is an inaccurate statement as much as saying "she was born Christian" is an inaccurate statement. Naminah was trying to help him see the way she saw it while letting him know she still accepts him. Which is possible as a Christian because Jesus teaches us to love one another as if we are brothers and sisters. To be kind and respectful to each other. What Rachel said doesn't go against the being kind to each other, but it dose go against years of research and genealogy. If I had to rate her, considering the way she took the context of the Bible out of context and midled Naminah, I'd give her 2/5 buthole. I am happy to see there are others who will speak up for Naminah, and happy I'm not the only one seeing this insanity unfold as insanity rather then normal for a person to flip out on someone like that. Naminah was not the problem yet every comment hates her because she is Christian and making a choice that is better for her when she witnessed him rejecting her beliefs even though she accepted him as he is. I cannot understand people anymore, everything that is wrong is now seen as right and the dark is slowly coming over is. Be safe my brother and sister, remember Jesus loves us. 🙏 ❤

@LuhRen

3 жыл бұрын

@@angeliki5135 you said that perfectly "everything that is wrong is seen as right and the dark is slowly coming" thats how i feel everyday. Stay blessed, stay in the word, stay prayed up.

@angeliki5135

3 жыл бұрын

@@LuhRen Amen. I will pray for you 🙏 ❤

I can’t imagine ever treating my best friend this way. He came out to me and I accepted him and supported him in every single way. I could never hurt him like this. He’s too important to me.

@gursimransingh1035

3 жыл бұрын

omg you took the words right out of my mouth. My best friend came out to me a couple years ago and in my eyes, nothing and no one can stop me from loving him and respecting him like I did before he came out.

@mimsycookiiess

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I could never not accept someone, no matter my beliefs.

Yes sir! Leave the ignorance and the negativity behind. She went through ALL this to REJECT him face to face. Why didn't she just leave him be?????

It just turned into a religious debate ...

who’s gonna tell her that your sexuality isn’t an option. you can’t control who you love. she makes my blood boil i cannot -

@butterpecan1938

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I had a “best friend” like her. Dropped her like a hot plate back in 2018 and haven’t spoken to her since.

@samargorja6573

3 жыл бұрын

Well they’ve being trying to tell her but she doesn’t listen or understand I feel so sad for her

@samargorja6573

3 жыл бұрын

@Michael Paul I’m not even christian so please don’t feel sad for me

@samargorja6573

3 жыл бұрын

@Michael Paul you feel sad for me because I’m not christian ??? Why? That’s just weird thing to say

@samargorja6573

3 жыл бұрын

@Michael Paul I mean I feel for your concerns, that’s so sweet of you but I am afraid they are misplaced I don’t want to get into religious debate but Even though I respect your believes but I should not necessary agree with them

Ugh the way she talked to his sister and then his sister died. That is so awful :c his life is way better off without a person like that around.

@prophetessesther6566

3 жыл бұрын

She wrote a post on HER PAGE not on his sister's page. His sister commented on HER post as I'm doing on yours. She didn't kill his sister nor did her post kill his sister 🙄

@moo777

3 жыл бұрын

@@prophetessesther6566 if you would have paid enough attention to what my comment said you can see I never accuse anyone killing her.

@moo777

3 жыл бұрын

@@prophetessesther6566 and in my opinion you seem to be a part of the problem if you dont think she was in the wrong tor posting such awful things. That only enables bullying and harassment even more. So maybe instead of projecting your own stuff on to me then take a look at yourself in the mirror and do a little thinking because it doesnt take a brain surgeon to know that perpetuating it more is why people do end their lives. Yes that makes the people who provoke and break a human down like that need to be held responsible and go back to kindergarten

@moo777

3 жыл бұрын

@@prophetessesther6566 also might wanna check in with Jesus and God because they would be very disappointed in you.

@weirdtemple1217

3 жыл бұрын

@@moo777 A person can have an opinion about homosexuality, just like a person having an opinion about interracial relationships and marriage. Me myself I don't think its right that two same sex should get married, but that's my opinion.

Love the conversation that Rachel had with Naimah! I am glad they were also able to show and represent Christians who have their beliefs and still support the LGBTQ+ community 🙌🏻

Did I one day woke up and choose to be straight? Did I decide to like guys? No I did not. Same as he never woke up and decided he likes boys too. It's love. We can not choose who we love. It happens

@nazius

3 жыл бұрын

beautifully put

@ssbby5774

3 жыл бұрын

That’s the thing people don’t understand , they don’t know how hard it is to try to be something you’re not just because of your religion

@meyou2236

Жыл бұрын

Delusional. That's a lie. People choose who they love everyday. It's called dating, having preferences, sexuality, standards, etc. To equate being homosexual to be born an ethnicity, is like an owl 🦉 saying to the duck 🦆, I didn't choose to be an owl. There are different species of birds, cats, snakes, and HUMAN, etc. SEXUALITY IS AND SHOULD REMAIN AN ADULT CHOICE. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP LYING AND EXPECTING OTHERS TO. It confuses, exploits, and stresses children, who have so much to learn besides sex. There is more to life. Homosexuality might as well be a religion, because all it is is a belief. No one should have to agree with your beliefs.

I just want to give him a hug ☹️

@maherahmed8784

3 жыл бұрын

Love you

@aleah8399

3 жыл бұрын

@@maherahmed8784 love you too

@maherahmed8784

3 жыл бұрын

@@aleah8399 if you have ig, lets keep in touch

@aztecwrrior1997

3 жыл бұрын

@@maherahmed8784 maher youre brave for coming out my dude i stand and support you guys no matter what

@hamtaro6471

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. I was getting emotional and angry af 😔

Yeah I liked her at first but now 🙄 I would’ve said sweetheart you came looking for me & if you can’t accept me please don’t try to contact or look for me again.

I'm glad Maher ghosted her. She's nasty

@weirdtemple1217

3 жыл бұрын

So having an opinion about gay getting married is nasty?

@hidar9973

3 жыл бұрын

@@weirdtemple1217 ✨yes✨

@weirdtemple1217

3 жыл бұрын

@@hidar9973 People will have opinions, face reality, this is not a Disney fantasy.

@sorrynotsorry4myopinions590

3 жыл бұрын

@@weirdtemple1217 Telling someone you're not allowed to have rights when the person saying that has rights is fucked. And considering she's black and had no rights in the past, you think you wouldn't put someone in that position yourself. nuff said. she's a shit human being.

@weirdtemple1217

2 жыл бұрын

@@sorrynotsorry4myopinions590 She wasn't saying anything about being gay is not a right, she just has an opinion but will tolerate him, she even said she would invite him and his boyfriend, y'all weren't listening.

Some people "live" by the bible, when they judge those who just live in the moment. I guess they missed their part of the bible that says judging is a sin too. I say LIVE and let LIVE. Stop being so deep. We only get one shot at this.

@kaydenae4

3 жыл бұрын

she doesn’t even live by it, she just picks and choose what she believes from the bible

@EJ1887

3 жыл бұрын

@@kaydenae4 Exactly because I'm sure it says something about premarital sex she had, lol

@kaydenae4

3 жыл бұрын

@@EJ1887 sho does 😂

@christyambrown

3 жыл бұрын

Lol I'm pretty sure there's something in the Bible about the fabric of the clothes she's wearing being sinful too. People really like to pick and choose what sins are forgivable, and somehow always choose to abide by the beliefs that oppress others.

@moth_inthesky8517

3 жыл бұрын

@@christyambrown Wait fr? 🤣

This is why so many kids go running away from my family because they treat them horrible

@mimsycookiiess

2 жыл бұрын

True, these beliefs put people in danger

She said she can truly be herself around him and has missed him for 3years yet won't let him being his true self. She's passing judgement when apparently only her God can judge.

there’s literally women saying that she tried to get with them in high school. she seemed closeted and I guess that’s true

@Atomicqueen9

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like she really hates herself

@thisiscait

3 жыл бұрын

Where are these people?

@ujung-ahujung-hae7503

3 жыл бұрын

what are the names?

@najagatling1249

3 жыл бұрын

And they lied 🙄

Rachel’s argument was PERFECTION! 😍😍

@weirdtemple1217

3 жыл бұрын

No it wasn't, she was forcing Naimah to have the same opinion as her.

@najagatling1249

3 жыл бұрын

No it was dumb

@rebekahparker4647

3 жыл бұрын

No it wasn't Rachael was doing exactly what she was accusing Niamah of...she was craming it down her throat

@mimsycookiiess

2 жыл бұрын

How was she forcing anything??? You guys are weird af. All she did was give a different perspective. And she’s also right.

She not straight though so 🤷. She was projecting.

@christyambrown

3 жыл бұрын

Haaaa...I wanted to say it

@prophetessesther6566

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone that doesn't believe in homosexuality is gay right

@imaginephoenix3283

3 жыл бұрын

@@prophetessesther6566 apparently so

@honeybaby7840

3 жыл бұрын

@@prophetessesther6566 there's no "believing" in homosexuality it's not like the fucking easter bunny. It just so happens that a lot of people who are openly homophobic turn out to be gay themselves because of internalized homophobia.

People that say "being gay is a choice but I don't see you as less of a person", IGNORE THAT LAST PART BECAUSE IT IS A LIE. A person that says something like that are the same people to be out hanging out then say something rude and hurtful then spout on and on about "belief this" and "belief that". There are people in this world that will accept you as you are. No one needs to settle for someone closed minded like that. Let the ignorant hide behind their big brick wall of stupidity.

@Hexighost

3 жыл бұрын

'but' means forget everything i said beforehand, now i'll tell you what i really think

@lisaflower5994

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hexighost hahaha yep, I was thinking Dr Phil says , but means......

@robbiehewitt4961

Жыл бұрын

How is it ignorant to believe that it’s a sin and it is wrong when it is. It’s not saying that I’m going to stone you. It’s that fact that people are born who they are but also we are all born of sin and have our own wrongs that we will have to stand on to be forgiven for

I’m not gonna criticize her for her beliefs but at the end of the day if she truly wanted him back in her life she , she’s would of accepted him no matter what . Just because you believe in something doesn’t mean you can’t support a friend

@SynestriaVI

3 жыл бұрын

Sad truth is just that she loves her faith more than her friend, unfortunately.

@prophetessesther6566

3 жыл бұрын

She did say she would support him HOWEVER everyone wants her to say what she doesn't believe so in reality everyone wants her to not be true to her self yet be true to him

@oneandonlywife4

3 жыл бұрын

@@prophetessesther6566 i do give her credit for that ... but how she's going about it and how she's strong in her beliefs i dont think she would have accepted him fully

@honeybaby7840

3 жыл бұрын

@@prophetessesther6566 she said she would tolerate him being how he was born. I can tolerate doing something I don't like but at the end I still won't like it. I do understand what you're saying though

@mimsycookiiess

2 жыл бұрын

True, as a Christian, I would put my beliefs to the side for friends and family. It’s weird to let your beliefs control that. If you truly love someone, you would accept them fully. And you either accept them or don’t. No In between.

He needs to ghost her bc everyone is okay to be lgbtq community we are fam and we stick together

@aztecwrrior1997

3 жыл бұрын

Im straight and i stand by yall no matter what

I don't know why people say "being gay is a choice" Im sure people don't just wake up and be like "I'll be gay today" just so they can endure hate, depression, suicide, and rude comments from others for the rest of their life.

@gaaralvr4695

3 жыл бұрын

THIS. How do people not understand this??

@maherahmed8784

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly my thought and what i said on the show!

@Project199x

3 жыл бұрын

@@maherahmed8784 yuh I don't get why she had a hard time accepting u as a friend I really don't. Religion shouldn't of been the excuse to judge u my guy. So it was right for u to dip out on her. Keep ya head up high man.

@Project199x

3 жыл бұрын

@@maherahmed8784 🙂 no problem dude.

Throw the whole "friend" away.

She couldve been nicer. With everything. So sad to watch. Poor guy. Getting his feelings hurt again

Ghosting was the best decision the first and second time she is so close-minded and her whole ora was robotic ghost ghost

That escalated quickly... She just falls back on "that's what you believe" without really examining her own or the other person's belief.

The anger from her came from the fact she liked him. Forget religion she's mad she liked him and can't have him because he's gay and doesn't see her that way. That's straight up a women scorned.

Maher- any relationship that causes you to not be yourself is a relationship with too high a cost ! Can't put a price on peace

@mimsycookiiess

2 жыл бұрын

👏👏

And see this is what happens when you let your beliefs get in the way of things 💯✊🏾

@mimsycookiiess

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@weirdtemple1217

2 жыл бұрын

So someone has to be politically correct around you?

@missebone

2 жыл бұрын

@@weirdtemple1217 I'm not the one who taking it as a personal problem. I'm just sharing my opinion

@weirdtemple1217

2 жыл бұрын

@@missebone Sorry I didn't really mean you, I was generalizing

@missebone

2 жыл бұрын

@@weirdtemple1217 Forgiven... and what I meant to say was that she let her beliefs get in the way of her friendship. We live in the world with people like her have that personality

I don't think being gay is a choice. Nothing in the bible says that someone chooses their sexuality. Just like all kinds of attractions are not a choice. My conservative, christian bf's best friend is trans, he also became an officiant to wed a cis woman and Trans woman to each other. He religiously does not agree with gay marriage from a religious standpoint but understands how laws and government and economics operate and believes gay people should be able to marry since marriage isn't a religious institution in the United States.... it's a legal union with drastic economic benefits. Regardless of my personal beliefs and my boyfriend's beliefs, Rachel really did a good job explaining about the love of Christ and how Jesus wouldn't have turned Maher away. I am Christian and I love my LGTBQ friends as I would love myself. I am happy they are able to live their life as the way they came into this world would deem so!

@dropsmic3224

3 жыл бұрын

The Bible is Incorrect anyways it has many contradictions. the Quran is correct.

I understand him more than she is. It hurts to hear her beliefs isn’t right. If the person is gay we just have to accept it. I hope him the best and move on to a new life and make new friends

@mimsycookiiess

2 жыл бұрын

Frr

She put ghost in all kaps to like damn

I’d rather keep her ghosted because it’s like she wants to be right about everything and if she can’t accept him for the way he is then it’s over

@weirdtemple1217

2 ай бұрын

3 years later and I'm going to comment. So it's extremely unacceptable to not accept someone who's gay, yet it's ok to be unacceptable when a person is Christian?

If Maher was really her friend, she would have accepted him for who he is. I admire his transparency

This breaks my heart. My best friend of almost 18 years is gay, he didn’t come out to me until after we graduated, but I didn’t think ANY different of him. How could I? He’s the exact same, nothing about him changed, except he feels comfortable now with his sexuality and who he is. And now we all hang out, and are all best friends, Me, him, and his boyfriend.

dont remember jesus saying one thing about being gay, not one

@sherrytindi9134

3 жыл бұрын

louder please the people in these comments I just...CANT!!

I've had so many students come into school, day in and day out, being themselves unapologetically and I felt so touched and proud that I provided a safe enough space for them to do so. Not everyone gets acceptance from everybody in their life, but I'm glad they at least felt safe and welcomed with me. I hope Maher finds people like that in his life as well, he definitely deserves the best.

She might actually be gay herself & ashamed ... that’s why she reacts like that 🤷🏽‍♀️ just a thought .

@ThePinkPurples

3 жыл бұрын

I agree.That’s that self hate

@GoodKarma11

3 жыл бұрын

Thats legit what I think just commented the same thing!

@xye.g641

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Just don’t seem right to me .

@bresbeauty

3 жыл бұрын

Yep I agree I get that vibe from her

@BeaMode1990

3 жыл бұрын

Those be thee gayest ones. I had this woman who called herself liking me years ago but she was a bible thumper & saying how homosexuality was an abomination on her feed.....but in the same breath she was in my inbox trying to flirt with me & wanting me to fall for her on the low. So its real.

She’s filled with so much hate

@weirdtemple1217

2 ай бұрын

3 years later, I know and I need to ask, maybe you have changed, but I wanna know how is she full of hate?

He has every right to not be friends with her. If someone would vote against your rights and your safety then absolutely CUT THEM OFF, especially if you’ve given them another chance like he did.

Lmao she needs to find some friends “of her faith” since she can’t bend or compromise

It's sad that she allowed a childhood friendship to be ruined because she disagrees with his sexual orientation. She needs to grow up and think for herself.

It’s 2021 and people like her still exist? Ew omg😭✋🏾. That was the person that finally made you feel comfortable. Y’all been friends forever. And you won’t even try to BUDGE from your “beliefs” for a second?? Wow

@jaiden97

3 жыл бұрын

Forreal people needs to stop being judgemental

This one hits hard, he’s a very strong man and I’m glad he’s doing what’s best for himself 100% it’s a hard decision to make

He doesn't need a person like her in his life love is love I'm bisexual and my family and friends accepted me for me and its my lifestyle

This was shocking to say the least. I feel so sad for him. But I'm glad he ghosted. He deserves better.

@maherahmed8784

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@COTY2015

3 жыл бұрын

@@maherahmed8784 I hope you've found a wonderful support system since this show was filmed. I'll never understand how people who follow a religion that worships someone who regularly preached to love your neighbor and not judge anyone can do the entire opposite and use their religion to justify such cruel actions. I grew up as a Christian and as we've always been taught, jesus ALWAYS stood with the underdog and the people who were labeled as "outcasts" in society. You deserve all the happiness in the world and I hope it brings you some peace that I know that you did not "choose" to be the way you are. You were born this way and God (or whoever the hell is up there) makes no mistakes. You'll always have an ally in me.

@maherahmed8784

3 жыл бұрын

Coty Peterson thank you so much!

I’m glad he got closure for himself and she got ganged up on. I can’t believe she had the audacity to put him through it a second time. True friends know who their friends really are before they know it themselves. She wants to be his friend only to benefit her. The point Rachel made was spot on. How can someone who is looked down on by something that is not their choice and have the audacity to do it to someone else knowing how it feels/hurts.

9:00 that argument just made it worth watching this. Was not expecting such a well informed opinion here. Good casting this host

Rachel's explanations is on point

How about I thought ole girl was a lesbian?! I think the reason she feels so strongly is due to repressed feelings. I’ve been there

And I’m even lesbian and I like girls so everyone has rights for being lgbtq community 🌈

I so want to hug him so hard right now!!😭😭😭 I want to be his friend. He deserves so much better! 💖💖💖

@MOVISUALS

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much! Love you! -Maher

@nahtally.b9139

3 жыл бұрын

@@MOVISUALS you heart and gut feeling will always tell you the truth. You should be accepted for who you truly are with no compromise. She was just a paragraph in your life. True friendship means 100% acceptance regardless of any religion. Continue to be true to yourself and never hesitate to cut any negativity from your life. We might not know each other but I will still send you lots of love and hugs from Montreal Canada!! 💖💖🙂

@MOVISUALS

3 жыл бұрын

@@nahtally.b9139 Thank you so much, it means a lot. If you have IG, i'd love to stay in touch with all my supporters! My IG is Donttouchmaher

I'm a lesbian and I have been not talk to by my family because of my sexual orientation and its not right or ok in my life

@ashleyashley8062

3 жыл бұрын

No it's not right, I'm sorry💕

@hatpb

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry to hear that, hope you’re okay 💕 You are amazing just the way you are

This show is so weird. If someone ghosted you MOVE ON. I don’t get the point in hunting them down so they can fell you to your face I just didn’t like you anymore

@itsZarin

3 жыл бұрын

Many relationships have been mended on this show. All it required was communication which is what they provide. Most ppl are too arrogant and pig headed to actually have an adult conversation about what issues they have with their closest friends.

@asiabilal4488

3 жыл бұрын

@@itsZarin you don’t even actually know that. They could just be doing it for the camera so they don’t look bad. Being an adult shouldn’t mean stalking someone down who no longer wants to speak to you.

Love them as a casting duo!!!🧡

I don’t understand how she can judge someone for being gay but she got 2 kids out of wedlock 😑

@prophetessesther6566

3 жыл бұрын

Oh you petty petty smh

@nightsky3981

3 жыл бұрын

How do you know it was out of wedlock?

Yikes, wasn’t expecting the homophobic twist here.

I LOVEEEEEEEE Rachel!!!! Love love love her. Such a beautiful voice of reason 💛

im so disgusted by her mindset.

You can still be strong in your faith and accept a friends lifestyle. I have. And it doesn't change who I am. Real love and friendship includes acceptance.

@dropsmic3224

3 жыл бұрын

She literally just accepted it....... she will not just blind fully follow everyone else’s normalized beliefs.... you can’t just force people to change their religious beliefs....

@ptarahburgess

3 жыл бұрын

@@dropsmic3224 I get it but as a Christian we're supposed to show love and acceptance. That's why although I believe in God I still haven't found a church that isn't filled with hypocrisy.

@cashmereclown8512

3 жыл бұрын

@@dropsmic3224 no she didnt "accept it". You could literally see in her face and behavior that she suddenly felt differently towards him because of something that is both out of his control and had NOTHING to do with her. She said "I dont view you as lesser" and that was bull

@gaaralvr4695

3 жыл бұрын

You seem like a good person so I’m sure this wasn’t intentional, but calling someone’s sexuality a “lifestyle” is harmful. It’s not a “lifestyle”, they are just living their lives as who they are. It asserts the idea that it’s a choice, thus invalidating the existence of the LGBTQIA+ community because it implies that they are just straight people choosing to live their life “differently”.

@ptarahburgess

3 жыл бұрын

@@gaaralvr4695 Well honestly some of my gay friends and family members use that term. And there's absolutely no way to keep up with which terms are appropriate or not within in the community. I just respect everyone wishes to live their lives!

Find some friends that actually expect you for you ❤️‼️

This is why I love Rachel cause we grew up so similar and love how she is really trying to show the girl the correct biblical definition not the nonsense this little girl has and she deserved to be ghosted 🤷🏿‍♀️ good for him 💙

Idk but Nahima low key gives me lesbian vibes

@brookebergamo

3 жыл бұрын

I know right

This was just a messy situation, but religion is very sacred to some people and everyone was raised and taught different. It is all a matter of opinion so I think this was best for them, but I don’t think someone should compromise their beliefs for a relationship. If she believes in something, just let her be and let her. We all have our beliefs in things that we won’t change for anything.

As a believer of God this was hard to watch… we all sin and we are all supposed to love each other regardless. Just because you don’t agree with the lifestyle Doesn’t mean you can’t accept someone or love them … we all fall short smh.... apologies to Maher it’s like her lack of wanting to understand his current identity created a wall.

@iloveesmile

3 жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you!! This was really hard to watch & comprehend. As a Christian, we are called to love one another and just because I don’t agree with one’s lifestyle doesn’t mean I’m going to stop being friends with them. At the end of the day, that’s a conversation between that person and God. It doesn’t have anything to do with me

I love how Rachel said " Me and Naimah are going to a separate room for "girl talk" and literally put Naimah in her place. Maher is better off without Naimah as a friend.

@weirdtemple1217

2 ай бұрын

She didn't put Naimah in her place, she was cramming her beliefs down her throat like she's forced to accept it. Not a good way to have a good communication with someone. She can have her beliefs, trying to force change is not good for anyone.

I wish I can face my ghost and tell him how I feel.

This was one of the hardest and most intense revelations segment to watch on this show so far. We all envision ourselves to be in any of these people's shoes. Rachel slayed her explanation lol.

Naima has every right to have her beliefs and faith. She wants to be respectful to hm but she doesn’t have to love his choices. You can’t force her into loving his life

@immortal7436

5 ай бұрын

Exactly

@weirdtemple1217

2 ай бұрын

Facts

Im a straight woman but i love lgbtq coz most of my friends are gay and lesbian. In my beliefs we are all the same, its about acceptance and love.

@Safarichromosomeslol

3 жыл бұрын

you should love your friends based on personality, not because they are not straight...

@gloria8267

3 жыл бұрын

@@Safarichromosomeslol 🤦🏾‍♂️they didnt say they love their friends just cause they are lgbtq+

@Safarichromosomeslol

3 жыл бұрын

@@gloria8267 Its sounded like that

I’ve been sitting here binge watching all of these I love it 😂

Love the host's words on religious interpretation. Good for you love ❤

Wait omg I’m so early these comments are fresh are need to come back & let them brew

@mulabarbie4366

3 жыл бұрын

I*

Never give up. U guys r important in this world

imagine some people dont wanna have any type of relation with you just because the way you are... its sad, i wish both of them alright

I was in a girl relationship once when I was 3rd yr HS. My mother is a full Catholic religous person. She said that it's okay to have a crush on a girl but being in a relationship is a no no. She really lost it when I defended me and my exgf's relationship. I remember she even prayed over me and used the Holy Water. After that, I never had one again.

This show is amazing thank you for uploading it's like 22:04 here in Norway😊hope everyone is doing well take care each other pls I♥️y'all🙏🏾

Maher is a very strong kind man He deserves a better friend

I’m just so shocked this is still even a discussion on mainstream media in America. There is enough hate in the world without condemning people who just want to love

What faith is she practicing?

@prophetessesther6566

3 жыл бұрын

Christianity

@hamtaro6471

3 жыл бұрын

The faith of bigotry lol

She will be lonely forever smdh

Wow this was a good watch ^_^

Y'all want him to be true to his beliefs but expect her to abandon her's. As long as she is not disrespecting him as a person, she is entitled to have her own opinion!

i wanna be his friend does he have any social media

@maherahmed8784

3 жыл бұрын

Yes i do, my IG is donttouchmaher

I laughed when she said "science a and b" honey religion and science are on extreeeeme different ends of the scale, you can't have your cake and eat it too.

Omg i just want to hug maher he doesn't deserve to have someone in his life that doesn't accept him for who he is.

People need to STOP comparing being gay to being black. It is NOT the same damn thing.