Mahalia Buchanan : I chose to begin again

Today, we are joined by Mahalia Buchanan. An award-winning singer, songwriter and producer. She openly shares her journey of starting over, self-acceptance and the process of grief, anger and losing her mother
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  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho41978 ай бұрын

    My mom has dementia. The world has turned dark. She was my best friend, but now it feels like I'm her mother. But God has become everything.

  • @sibongilemngomezulu3454

    @sibongilemngomezulu3454

    8 ай бұрын

    🫂 🙏🏼

  • @tamiej_sa

    @tamiej_sa

    8 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @PheladiNewman

    @PheladiNewman

    8 ай бұрын

    trust in Him♥

  • @MissCombs1511

    @MissCombs1511

    8 ай бұрын

    I know how you feel siphokazi, the best thing to do is to find help and not do everything alone, emotionally it will finish you. When my Mom was diagnosed with it in 2019, I didn't understand how this superstrong woman I've known has become this way. Get a caretaker who understands how to support their "new" mind.

  • @dieketsengellenmpolokeng-m5103

    @dieketsengellenmpolokeng-m5103

    8 ай бұрын

    Hang in there babes,, I took care of my grandmother with my mom, and my baby was 6 months , it was hard,,, but I'm glad I was there for her and I'm grateful I helped her and took care of her the way she did for me all my life... 😊.

  • @brendenpraise_
    @brendenpraise_8 ай бұрын

    What an incredible Conversation

  • @breakingbreadwithzizipho5

    @breakingbreadwithzizipho5

    8 ай бұрын

    True!! Old friends catching up, sooooo beautiful 🔥

  • @akhanisopangisa3549

    @akhanisopangisa3549

    8 ай бұрын

    This was teewww good! I was smiling the whole time … this was amazing ! Go Mpoomy ❤️

  • @buyisilemohale2881
    @buyisilemohale28818 ай бұрын

    "You can't be a superwoman..fixing everyone.." I felt that

  • @phumuRamakuela
    @phumuRamakuelaАй бұрын

    I started my channel 3 weeks ago. I am only at 60 subscribers . I was inspired by the current state of unemployment in my country South Africa. I received my degree in 2016 but have been unemployed since then. I am looking for alternative ways to create income. This video is an inspiration to push harder. We all have different reasons why we start our channels. Let's grow ❤❤❤❤

  • @PraiseSpaceOfficial
    @PraiseSpaceOfficial8 ай бұрын

    Mahalia quote: “your perspective starts to become solid when you turn 30”. Very profound.

  • @lilyagyeman9793

    @lilyagyeman9793

    8 ай бұрын

    Very true

  • @minenhlenkosi5008
    @minenhlenkosi50088 ай бұрын

    "life happens and it alters your confession!" - This is so true, I wanna cry

  • @Christlikeliving
    @Christlikeliving8 ай бұрын

    When she spoke about letting things break. I felt that. I feel like the past 3 years I was breaking and now God has started a new thing inside of me. It’s so scary but I’ll let God lead.. Thank you ladies ❤

  • @mathapelombambisa720

    @mathapelombambisa720

    6 ай бұрын

    I second you on this point Sis😊

  • @gobuwanglouw3282
    @gobuwanglouw32828 ай бұрын

    "Knowing how to believe for others, just not for myself".

  • @fgnyabeze
    @fgnyabeze8 ай бұрын

    Its easy to serve strangers than to serve family typical of us fervent christians. GOD HELP ME,help us to serve family the more

  • @tsepisomokone2396
    @tsepisomokone23968 ай бұрын

    Mahalia, just reminded me that I am no longer in my 20s or early 30s. I am now 37yrs heading for 40yrs because of trauma and so much that happened. I emotionally got stuck at 16yrs old but physically I grew. Only now when I am dealing with it my age is catching up with body and man. I am not able to do what I used to anymore. Especially the moving of the whole house furniture when cleaning, while washing and cooking. Then going to clean the yard. Its getting harder. I now understand why a lot of people have helpers its not because they are lazy.

  • @kholisangety9050

    @kholisangety9050

    8 ай бұрын

    I feel you ❤‍🩹

  • @nommynkonyane3404

    @nommynkonyane3404

    8 ай бұрын

    Are you me? I think it’s time I accepted help cause I’m tired 😢

  • @tsepisomokone2396

    @tsepisomokone2396

    8 ай бұрын

    @@nommynkonyane3404 Babes, I have made peace with the fact that I truly need help,there is no use to play tough. Pray about it though, our homes are sacred spaces so ask God to send you someone who will not destroy your home but be a good helper and sister in Christ.

  • @zona_davani
    @zona_davani8 ай бұрын

    This was just amazing. Feels like we grew up with Hali. I always get awed by her wisdom and humour when she speaks. Watching this I’m reminded of a time I was on a fast and fell so ill in the middle of it. Continued with the prayers but on the third day it got crippling worse. Words weren’t coming out of my mouth. I put on Heal Me Jesus by Mahalia and as the song playing I could feel the knots leave my body and I was completely healed. Still a big big song in my life. The Lord works through this lady immensely🤍

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho41978 ай бұрын

    I love her honest account about her relationship with God. We are often scared to admit we are upset with God.

  • @HisPrincess_

    @HisPrincess_

    8 ай бұрын

    Yes and after watching this conversation I had a conversation w God and I really told him im feeling. I was open and vulnerable w him.

  • @tueloxmokgothu122
    @tueloxmokgothu1228 ай бұрын

    Mahalia Buchanan I would always call her like that lol she is divinely gorgeous.😊😂❤ Thanks Mpoomy for this awesome and insightful conversation and the invite is not far fetched.

  • @nkhen_c357
    @nkhen_c3578 ай бұрын

    Had to relocate back home and resign as I couldnt continue to ignore my mum needec one of us full time besides aunty....jooooo not easy. You must become a parent and you have a parent you dont know anymore and she says anything.........but I wont change it for anything. I want my mum to have the best time of her life on her last days....I take her placez and do things to bring back that joy in her.

  • @katlegomonareng4317
    @katlegomonareng43178 ай бұрын

    Mahalia is gorgeous 😍😍 Good Lord, I love her ..♥️

  • @taythankane
    @taythankane8 ай бұрын

    OMG Mahalia is speaking with so much wisdom, I can listen to her the whole day.

  • @misst1869
    @misst18695 ай бұрын

    I came back to this interview specifically because I feel stuck in life / career so I decided to restart by upgrading my matric

  • @dorahmohlago4638
    @dorahmohlago46388 ай бұрын

    Time went so fast😢i enjoyed every moment,love is sacrifice 💞

  • @nonhlakaniphomwelase1207
    @nonhlakaniphomwelase12078 ай бұрын

    I love everything about Mahalia, May God bless her ❤️

  • @tebogolegodi1174
    @tebogolegodi11748 ай бұрын

    By the title alone, I know this will be speaking to my current life circumstance

  • @shantellfredericks
    @shantellfredericks8 ай бұрын

    Sister Betina 🔥 Thank you Mpoomy & Mahalia ✨Love from Namibia ❣️

  • @bothomakuku1803
    @bothomakuku18038 ай бұрын

    Loved her vulnerability so much!❤ Please invite sis Ncebakazi Msomi, kindly consider please 🙏🏾

  • @jeanettemodisana4485
    @jeanettemodisana44858 ай бұрын

    "Going for it, having the faith without the sight" so profound!✨️❤️

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu17248 ай бұрын

    Mahalia is beautiful 🥰🥰😍😍

  • @ntuthukomdluli-pd9jv

    @ntuthukomdluli-pd9jv

    3 ай бұрын

    Shame on u she's a married Christian

  • @uthandokuhle
    @uthandokuhle8 ай бұрын

    I love Mahalia. So authentic and beautiful 🤍

  • @TeacherRuth-zv9mb

    @TeacherRuth-zv9mb

    8 ай бұрын

    a very humble person

  • @kumbukanikaunda3545
    @kumbukanikaunda35458 ай бұрын

    I wish this conversation was a bit longer,this was a beautiful conversation man❤❤😢

  • @reitumetsetumza6072
    @reitumetsetumza60728 ай бұрын

    Already listened on Spotify 😁 I'm here for the beautiful faces 😍

  • @chimangonyasulu6437

    @chimangonyasulu6437

    8 ай бұрын

    Same here 😂😂😂

  • @oliviandyuluwa9776

    @oliviandyuluwa9776

    8 ай бұрын

    Same here, 😂😂

  • @olwethuntwana2514

    @olwethuntwana2514

    8 ай бұрын

    Same here 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sthembilethanjekwayo_za
    @sthembilethanjekwayo_za8 ай бұрын

    Not Sista Bettina 😂😅 oh Mahalia, I never espetted it. 😂 Also this big hug is just for you. 🤗 So sorry about your loss.

  • @IamthatP
    @IamthatP8 ай бұрын

    Love when she speaks on her relationship with God. I have recently learned that to pray alone and spend time in his presence, make time everyday , prioritise God and putting him first is essential in our lives because we get to know Him, what his will for us is and it is easy to be guided in everything we do. My pastor said that you get to know someone when you spend time with them and the same applies to God. Be blessed. ❤

  • @sindynchoe7719
    @sindynchoe77198 ай бұрын

    This was an incredible conversation… so many points I could relate too.

  • @lehlohonolokompe4506
    @lehlohonolokompe45068 ай бұрын

    I loved the part about serving our families. My dad has been sick for the past months and I forgot to see him as human. I always expected him to be the strong one and 'hero' in my eyes. The pressure has also been hectic as the responsible one. Lovely Episode

  • @sthembilethanjekwayo_za

    @sthembilethanjekwayo_za

    8 ай бұрын

    🤗

  • @ArenaOfLibertyMinistry

    @ArenaOfLibertyMinistry

    8 ай бұрын

    Strength to you

  • @comfortp4741
    @comfortp47418 ай бұрын

    This is so touching and transparent, yet so encouraging

  • @TheIncubatorofPurpose
    @TheIncubatorofPurpose8 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful and authentic conversation ladies. May your mom rest in peace. You definitely don’t look like what you have been through. God builds piece by piece. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mnisi_sindile
    @mnisi_sindile8 ай бұрын

    Her song "You love me" always moves me to tears when I listen to it ❤

  • @lilyagyeman9793

    @lilyagyeman9793

    8 ай бұрын

    I burst into worship one morning n sang the life out of that song. God bless her

  • @relebohileinnocentia
    @relebohileinnocentia8 ай бұрын

    This conversation was everything!❤

  • @abigailcindysmouse6279
    @abigailcindysmouse62798 ай бұрын

    Beautiful. Love this ❤

  • @Nokwazi.
    @Nokwazi.8 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful conversation.

  • @MrsMasekoa
    @MrsMasekoa8 ай бұрын

    Absolutely loved the conversation on the podcast🥰🥰 so pure

  • @user-jc4en7zv8r
    @user-jc4en7zv8r8 ай бұрын

    I love the openness between the ladies. This is phenomenal. Thank you for sharing about yourselves with us.

  • @kebaobabantle7828
    @kebaobabantle78288 ай бұрын

    this was so wholesome. thank you. also causes me to look at my personal journey with greater appreciation.

  • @ntomboxolonguqu263
    @ntomboxolonguqu2638 ай бұрын

    I'm super excited for this conversation ❤

  • @christinegono9442
    @christinegono94428 ай бұрын

    This was beautifully put together❤❤ I felt every word!!

  • @phatsimomaele6969
    @phatsimomaele69698 ай бұрын

    Absolutely loved this. Sometimes we need to allow ourselves to break

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele69658 ай бұрын

    So so good❤ Loved the authenticity!

  • @carolnkumane5763
    @carolnkumane57638 ай бұрын

    Been waiting like forever ❤❤❤

  • @user-fl3sv3yc7d
    @user-fl3sv3yc7d8 ай бұрын

    Just saw this on TikTok, My favorite ladies 😍❣

  • @HisPrincess_
    @HisPrincess_8 ай бұрын

    I went and listened to the whole podcast and wow, the intimacy in this conversation IS EVERYTHING and MORE ! 🥺 Can not wait for the new album shuu 💕

  • @evebodirwa
    @evebodirwa8 ай бұрын

    This episode was so refreshing. ❤

  • @phuleymaps1113
    @phuleymaps11138 ай бұрын

    SUCH A BEAUTIFUL CONVERSATION, LOVE You Both❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tafadzwachiteme7319
    @tafadzwachiteme73198 ай бұрын

    What a conversation !! What a confession! What a power-packed session!!!

  • @mablekhupari815
    @mablekhupari8158 ай бұрын

    I LOVE Mahalia, this was great

  • @taythankane
    @taythankane8 ай бұрын

    What a wholesome conversation, thank you Mpoomy 🥰🤗

  • @veronicamahlaba6543
    @veronicamahlaba65438 ай бұрын

    Yoh I connected with this conversation. I'm in my 30s and so much was mentioned which I am going through. It confirmed that I am doing just fine.

  • @halle3573
    @halle35738 ай бұрын

    Wow👏 What a transformational conversation.

  • @reabetsoelehumo7721
    @reabetsoelehumo77218 ай бұрын

    Laughing and enjoying this 🥰

  • @siphosethumotsa7586
    @siphosethumotsa75868 ай бұрын

    Holding things together while you are breaking... Shuuu, and the honest conversations with our Heavenly Father are crucial...

  • @LearnwithNoks
    @LearnwithNoks8 ай бұрын

    I’m a 30 year old,now a mom to both my parents,it’s haaard but God has been God..I keep coming back to this episode,loooved it💯

  • @lesegomajola1323
    @lesegomajola13238 ай бұрын

    A beautiful experience is listening to the podcast first then watching the episode after on KZread. It’s like watching the conversation come alive. ❤

  • @tshegofatsodolly6168
    @tshegofatsodolly61688 ай бұрын

    So relatable bcz God desires our honesty in all aspects ❤

  • @lihlesokhele4305
    @lihlesokhele43058 ай бұрын

    Great guest and episode

  • @Modest_U
    @Modest_U8 ай бұрын

    When life happens, don't change your confession.

  • @busisiwembangula9151
    @busisiwembangula91518 ай бұрын

    Beautiful and insightful interview ladies, thank you. ❤️

  • @oleratodiale9518
    @oleratodiale95188 ай бұрын

    The way I can relate to allowing the breaking and lack of control to just take place and I wont lie it comes with such a huge amount of pain and guilt but the is absolutely nothing you can do but trust that God has your back.

  • @Lebogang_ct
    @Lebogang_ct8 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful conversation and lesson to pick. Thank you for sharing ❤❤

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi4268 ай бұрын

    Mahalia is so real, omg 🥺🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.

  • @nokwandawanda1641
    @nokwandawanda16418 ай бұрын

    Enjoyed each and every moment, Mahalia you are so amazing and beautiful ❤

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi8 ай бұрын

    I actually relate to some parts of Mahalia’s journey with her mom’s loss.

  • @snethembamshengu3919
    @snethembamshengu39198 ай бұрын

    This is so touching, loving and encouraging conversation ❤️🥰

  • @lebogjkhutsafalo12-11
    @lebogjkhutsafalo12-118 ай бұрын

    Thank you once more,Mpoomy. I enjoyed this insert❤

  • @selinammatsheko797
    @selinammatsheko7978 ай бұрын

    So relatable hle, it is like she's telling my story.

  • @nonstindisomfuduka8548
    @nonstindisomfuduka85488 ай бұрын

    Loved this conversation, I was waiting the whole day for this episode. 😍😍And Mrs. mom your face beat 💥💥

  • @sulekamnqinana2325
    @sulekamnqinana23258 ай бұрын

    Wow the wisdom of Mahalia, love you Sis .

  • @khanyisagura4377
    @khanyisagura43778 ай бұрын

    Two very beautiful women sharing wisdom ❤

  • @noluthandomadela
    @noluthandomadela8 ай бұрын

    This was beautiful

  • @karabo8847
    @karabo88478 ай бұрын

    When one of your favourite interviewers interviews one of your favourite celebrities. Mahalia is so adorable🥰🥰🩷 Just what I needed for the end year fatigue Beautiful interview 👌 👏 🙌

  • @walkwithorr
    @walkwithorr8 ай бұрын

    I quickly clicked bcos Mahalia=laughter.

  • @zinhlemlangeni01
    @zinhlemlangeni018 ай бұрын

    I love so much Mpoomy. Thank you for coming back ❤

  • @nisodidiza5341
    @nisodidiza53418 ай бұрын

    You look amazing Mahalia, you are incredibly beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @friedanambahu9287
    @friedanambahu92878 ай бұрын

    Wow, I can relate to her story.

  • @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008
    @nokuthulamthimkhulu80088 ай бұрын

    Oh my gosh! Two of my favorite women in one room i'm so happy and enjoying the conversation as well..... Can't wait for the music, her voice heals me❤❤❤

  • @tawandatitonyamuzihwa
    @tawandatitonyamuzihwa8 ай бұрын

    I loved it when she said LOVE IS SACRIFICE ❤

  • @misst998
    @misst9988 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, I really needed this, I was just telling God about the things that pains me, and I was like God this enough,,, indeed sometimes God needs us to be that vulnerable to him, and I loved it where you talk about the breaking season, I felt that

  • @n.dlamini4199
    @n.dlamini41998 ай бұрын

    Firstly you guys are so beautiful ❤️Also you too remind me of Hello Gorgeous! 🥺💛It's beautiful to watch you guys grow and continue to inspire me! My two favorite people, I love you guys so much and thank you so much for such an amazing conversation ❤️❤️

  • @wendyjali1170
    @wendyjali11702 ай бұрын

    So powerful....vulnerability. God isn't surprised by our questions ...mannn He knows our thoughts before they're formed. Psalms 139...He knows. 💝

  • @nkululekonkuly1709
    @nkululekonkuly17098 ай бұрын

    This was such a beautiful deep session.... as always❤❤❤❤. Thank you for the WISDOM ladies and progress to WELLNESS 💐🌺🌷

  • @arinahosharon6354
    @arinahosharon63548 ай бұрын

    Wow soo much wisdom from Mahalia, you cnt be always a superwoman allow things to break & build up again 👌👌👌the fact that she was honest that shes angry at God and we must have real relationship with him tell him how we feel i felt that

  • @ashleymaribe228
    @ashleymaribe2288 ай бұрын

    Beautiful conversation i can relate so much..😔. Having to move back home to take care of my mother. After deaths in the family. I feel like my life is on hold at times. That angry feeling shows up a lot.

  • @mmakgotso_tines
    @mmakgotso_tines8 ай бұрын

    You ladies look so gorgeous 😍😍😍

  • @Tshegofatsomac
    @Tshegofatsomac8 ай бұрын

    Two Gorgeous Faves😍

  • @deborahmonesa5079
    @deborahmonesa50798 ай бұрын

    😢yoh this is a profound conversation❤

  • @bonganidladla_42
    @bonganidladla_428 ай бұрын

    This conversation 👌 ❤

  • @lolomphahlela3925
    @lolomphahlela39258 ай бұрын

    Powerful conversation #hides I was hoping she is going to sing 😊

  • @gcobisasagini380
    @gcobisasagini3808 ай бұрын

    This conversation 🔥🔥❤️❤️👌👌🙏🙏🙏

  • @mirandajustine9422
    @mirandajustine94228 ай бұрын

    Oh this was so inspiring ❤. We want HLE sis mpoomy

  • @ntlametlwanamokgohloa384
    @ntlametlwanamokgohloa3848 ай бұрын

    Loved everything about this conversion 'Our walls break so he can come built and rebuilt us again i am reminded of Jer 31: 4 and situations weigh us down so he can come in lift us up .Real relationships requires real communication .Thank you

  • @tivamilemasilela3963
    @tivamilemasilela39638 ай бұрын

    🥳🥳🥳🥰🥰.Couldn’t wait!! Thank you Mrs Moms🌚.Argh Mpoomy is ❤❤❤

  • @nokuhlemhaule5340
    @nokuhlemhaule53408 ай бұрын

    Well done ❤❤

  • @golesegomotswagole108
    @golesegomotswagole1088 ай бұрын

    I love Hally so much ❤❤❤

  • @121asterix
    @121asterix8 ай бұрын

    This is probably the best wisdom wellness session to date. Inspirational and motivational

  • @nerinemartin5901
    @nerinemartin59015 ай бұрын

    Love is sacrifice....❤🎉❤😊indeed...yoh Mahalia is wise ...❤❤thnx fo making me think about tht statement again ...n making me feel tht i was n am still on the right track... love n light on ur journey thru life❤❤❤