Losing my Mother | Conversations with Kanwal | Season 5 | Episode 9

In today's episode, Bushra shares the traumatic day she lost her mother but also how her step mother came in and changed their lives for ever.
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  • @mamanain
    @mamanain Жыл бұрын

    As much as I love this episode, this should be a lesson for all women to not put their lives at risk. The saddest part was she knew she would pass away and was trying to prepare her young kids.😢 Don't put your kids through such unnecessary trauma please. May Allah bestow mercy on her soul...

  • @sheerinrameez3828
    @sheerinrameez3828 Жыл бұрын

    All credit goes the lady who raised her. This poetry made me so emotional. Allah sub ki maoun ko salamat rakhain. Ameen

  • @rimshaafzal7217
    @rimshaafzal7217 Жыл бұрын

    It's heart touching poetry I felt it by my heart because I also lost my mom few months ago.May Allah grant her highest place in junnah Ameen 💜

  • @sabajogiat262

    @sabajogiat262

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen Ya Rab Ul Alameen

  • @Sky_is_a_limit

    @Sky_is_a_limit

    11 ай бұрын

    Ameen ,I too lost my mom 5 months ago

  • @samashaz7610
    @samashaz7610 Жыл бұрын

    The lady is in true sense a real human and you ppl must have supported her too to stand in tough ....kudos to such second mothers ....almighty bless our mothers and make us forever respectful and loving for them

  • @vinaypatel8804
    @vinaypatel88044 ай бұрын

    I am from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳 i saw your all episodes .Each of your episodes reflects the pain that women have had to endure for centuries.

  • @fh21803
    @fh21803 Жыл бұрын

    Both my pregnancies were complicated due to my health issues. Deep down i really wanted a third child but then i told myself what good i would do to my two kids by bringing the third one by deteriorating my health further and not being available for them. I just feel sad, she knew her pregnancy was complicated, she still got pregnant again. These children are lucky that they found another great lady as their mom.

  • @conversation1986

    @conversation1986

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes I agree with you. May Allah grant you health and lengthen your cool shade on your children Aameen Bushra has been very fortunate msa otherwise there’s no replacement for a mother.

  • @childrenintellect
    @childrenintellect Жыл бұрын

    . But the amazing thing is she recognised they were negative towards the step mom! Well done you reflected and you improved. Well done ❤

  • @syedanajam5834
    @syedanajam5834 Жыл бұрын

    Extremely sad, wish the mother had realized that her kids needed her more than her son needing a brother. Loads of love and prayers for you

  • @summaiyaismail5564

    @summaiyaismail5564

    Жыл бұрын

    This is Allah's plan

  • @wajeehakazim5906
    @wajeehakazim5906 Жыл бұрын

    Ufff what a poetry. Cried alot and missing my mother more than ever 😢 kaash maaein hamesha sath rehtein... Kaash😢😢

  • @saimanazad8570
    @saimanazad8570 Жыл бұрын

    Such beautiful poetry for her biological mother and second mother ❤ made me cry and remember my own mother who departed this world 3.5 years ago 💔 may Allah bless Bushra's biological mother with the highest rank in Jannat-ul-Firdaus, Ameen summ Ameen 💐

  • @rubinahussain7602
    @rubinahussain7602 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful story you are so lucky to find another mother. I just felt a bit bad if your mum had known she should not have had a baby she shouldnt have gone for it. But Allah ki jo marzi more awareness is needed that even if you have one child be grateful. Hats off to your second ammi x

  • @najamsehar203
    @najamsehar203 Жыл бұрын

    Allah hr ksi ki maa ko salamat rakhy or apki mother ko jannat me aala maqaam ata farmae.. Ameen❤❤

  • @childrenintellect
    @childrenintellect Жыл бұрын

    Can I say something, parents needs to mature please, you have complications or issue please STOP going for another one ! Understand its not a fun game to keep irresponsible decisions which ends up suffering of other kids.

  • @Halo.H

    @Halo.H

    Жыл бұрын

    Very good comment, people are senseless selfish, use contraception. In the end these feckless parents make children and leave them to suffer.

  • @heyitsrafia2303
    @heyitsrafia2303 Жыл бұрын

    Always listen that someone is narrating a story that someone is negative towards his/her but literally firs time sun rhe k kitne axhay sy inho ny agly ki khasiyat ko btaya even khud ko thora negative kah k soo beautiful Allah tala ap logo ko dhairo khushiyan dikhai.......and the best part POETRY ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @amnaumar8171
    @amnaumar8171 Жыл бұрын

    Sweet wishes for both daughter n mom, specially for having a heart to appreciate her second mom.... Our society truely need such positive people n mindset.

  • @mariyammasood361
    @mariyammasood361 Жыл бұрын

    I cannot imagine my life without my Amma. I can't even begin to imagine what you must have gone through. But I'm glad God blessed you with a loving mum a second time. Lots of love and duas 😘

  • @asratariq896
    @asratariq896 Жыл бұрын

    This is the first episode that i admired alot as being a pakistani n having mother tongue urdu one should talk in proper urdu coz audience of this show are not all aware of english .... I highly request kanwal ahmed kindly look into this matter too... I was saying this because once i was watching one of the episode with my relatives who is not well known with english n suddenly she said yr kya chala jata agr ye loag proper urdu mein shoot krlein kya ye show daikhne k lye hm pehle english seekhein..... Only keeping in mind such audience i raise this point hope none will mind it n take it positively

  • @CrosseyedIntrovert
    @CrosseyedIntrovert Жыл бұрын

    The poem in the end made me cry so much. I live far from my mom and tomorrow is mother's day and I miss her soooo much🥹😭😭😭😭😭

  • @sarahkhanani4864
    @sarahkhanani4864 Жыл бұрын

    Ohh my god this is has made me so emotional. Was holding up tears the entire time but they rolled down listening to the poetry she has written. ❤❤❤

  • @alishbashaikh1097
    @alishbashaikh1097 Жыл бұрын

    This episode was heart touching Istg can't imagine my life without my Amma. Literally cried while listening her poetry!

  • @Totajee79

    @Totajee79

    3 ай бұрын

    Me too.

  • @radheyshyam7501
    @radheyshyam7501 Жыл бұрын

    Maa to maa hi hoti hai .. uski jagah koi ni le sakta…. Jab maa hoti thi tab garam paranthe khilati thi.. marne se pehle tak khana bana k gayi.. got tears in my eyes after watching this

  • @sadiamateen4049
    @sadiamateen4049 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful real life story! Many thanks Kanwal, for bringing out this side of stepmother!

  • @momomirza
    @momomirza Жыл бұрын

    I don’t have words to describe the depth of this episode. My favorite one yet. Lots of love and prayers to this amazing lady and the mothers who raised her to be this wonderful. The poetry at the end …. The best. ❤❤❤

  • @syedamaryamzehra275
    @syedamaryamzehra275 Жыл бұрын

    So many deep messages in just 1 episode. A mother sacrificing her own life just to provide her son with a brother's company. That is how far a motherhood extends🥺❤️‍🩹 And the same loving, spoiling mother, not only having faith in ANOTHER WOMAN to upbring her children but also asking them to respect their second mum beforehand ❣️❣️❣️❣️ Much love and respect to both of your mums!💕

  • @khizranabuzar2103
    @khizranabuzar2103 Жыл бұрын

    Poetry makes me cry ... Love you Bushra 💗

  • @sumaiyashaikh9032
    @sumaiyashaikh9032 Жыл бұрын

    What a lovely poem written, thanks for sharing the poem and your story! :)

  • @anummobin6538
    @anummobin6538 Жыл бұрын

    I can't control on my tears while listening to the poem 😢..ALLAH Meri maa ko salamat rakhe ameen

  • @tehminababar2708
    @tehminababar2708 Жыл бұрын

    So heartbreaking kash maa apny bachon ka pehly sochti instead uss bachy k bary me jo dunia me tha hi ni

  • @ahs4099
    @ahs4099 Жыл бұрын

    What a lovely choice for this Mother’s day! Loved how it shows that a mother is a mother be it biological or not. Beautiful poem from a beautiful person. Thank you for sharing your journey. May Allah bless you with much happiness ameen. ❤️

  • @anisfatima2447
    @anisfatima2447 Жыл бұрын

    I got tears while watching this story and the smile on your face throughout the show tells that you are such a strong lady lots of love to u 😘😍❤

  • @muzzzharoon7489
    @muzzzharoon7489 Жыл бұрын

    So so beautiful and heart breaking at the same time. Much love and prayers. The poem was simply heart touching ♥️

  • @Tkt204
    @Tkt204 Жыл бұрын

    Uff yaar! What a beautiful episode. The simplicity, the language, the unfiltered conversation. And then the last part, heartfelt words for both the moms. Thank you Kanwal for this ❤❤❤

  • @sabaashraf6365
    @sabaashraf6365 Жыл бұрын

    So so heart touching n amazing ...

  • @radiaishtiaq3571
    @radiaishtiaq3571 Жыл бұрын

    Literally the cutest one on the show so far!!

  • @tubakhan5865
    @tubakhan5865 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful gift for a mother's day.... Alhamdullilah ❤ ....

  • @spicesdiariestravelvlogs9062
    @spicesdiariestravelvlogs9062 Жыл бұрын

    Really like this girl. She is very mature , sensible and calm

  • @user-mn1fm7xo8v
    @user-mn1fm7xo8v Жыл бұрын

    My little sister ❤️❤️ I am so proud of you 😘 All the grief we have gone through makes you the purest soul and the best human with the precious heart 🤍🤍 Love you Bushra Rizvi 💕💕

  • @huda.saysyt
    @huda.saysyt Жыл бұрын

    My God! That poem was so beautifully written, each word of it 🌸 May Allah bless your family. Ameen.

  • @narmeensaleem5575
    @narmeensaleem5575 Жыл бұрын

    Left me teary-eyed 🥲❤️

  • @habibazaman8006
    @habibazaman8006 Жыл бұрын

    A real heart touching story, hats off to your second Mom!

  • @ferhatiqbal
    @ferhatiqbal Жыл бұрын

    As salam o aleikum. I've been struggling with grief after my fathers death. I have been waiting eagerly for this episode. The moment I saw it, I said "alhamdulillah". JazakAllah to Bushra for sharing your story. I cried my eyes out listening to your poem. I listen to it again and again. May Allah bless your second mom abundantly such an amazing lady. Lots of love, Farhat from Norway

  • @aroomafatima96
    @aroomafatima96 Жыл бұрын

    She wrote her grief with such elegance!Definitely made her biological mother proud!! ❤️

  • @conversation1986

    @conversation1986

    Жыл бұрын

    Elegance nahin eloquence

  • @alinamuzafar
    @alinamuzafar Жыл бұрын

    Uffff that poetry made me cry 😢 ... Allah ksi ko maan ka gam na dikhaye Ameen.

  • @hadiyabano2136
    @hadiyabano2136 Жыл бұрын

    Loved the poetry!

  • @aishaanwar6019
    @aishaanwar6019 Жыл бұрын

    her poetry is so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Eternal_life.00
    @Eternal_life.00 Жыл бұрын

    Oh the poem. So beautiful 😍

  • @zahrawaseem9918
    @zahrawaseem9918 Жыл бұрын

    A very emotional episode. The poetry ❤

  • @sadaffatima9180
    @sadaffatima9180 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing episode !!!! cant imagine my life without my mother ❣️ i am glad god blessed you loving mum again

  • @jiakhan5526
    @jiakhan5526 Жыл бұрын

    Heart touching poetry nd episode ❤

  • @nabaomer5245
    @nabaomer5245 Жыл бұрын

    So so beautiful! I don’t think Kanwal that I have watched any episode of your series without crying my eyes out. ❤

  • @masoomazehra381
    @masoomazehra381 Жыл бұрын

    Beyond amazing!! Don't have words to expalin what actually i am feeling after watching this story!! Huge respect for bushra and her both mothers.. khuda maghfirat farmaey apki mama ki aur ap k sar par apki farishta jaisi maa ka saya salamat rakhay.. ameen...🤲✨️

  • @biyakhurram5848
    @biyakhurram5848 Жыл бұрын

    Heart touching 😢 Allah pak hr maa ko sehat waali zindagi dain aur jin ki is duniya mai nhi hain unka dousra jahan bht behtareen karen AMEEN ...

  • @saulatraza1888
    @saulatraza1888 Жыл бұрын

    Love the poetry ❤

  • @raisamaryam6288
    @raisamaryam6288 Жыл бұрын

    I literally cried while watching this. So happy that you found such a loving step mother. Your mother thought of your brother, thats nice but she should have thought about you kids too. I literally cried listening to your story when you were telling that you didnt cry taqay kuch bura na ho jae. And that poetry at the end is amazing. I could feel every word in this episodes. May Allah grant your mother higher rank in Jannah. And May Allah bless your second mother and you and your siblings. Ameen ♥️

  • @reeva2075
    @reeva2075 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful ❤️❤️. I have no more words for this episode 😞

  • @anumjadoon
    @anumjadoon Жыл бұрын

    This was just so emotional. Couldn’t hold my tears. I am so happy that you have found another love in another woman besides your biological mom. Allah khush rkhay apko ❤ Allah apki mama ko jannat naseeb kray .

  • @tatheerfatima6948
    @tatheerfatima6948 Жыл бұрын

    Bushra I know u since 2017 or 18 may be but I didn't know about this side of u confident , soft-spoken and specially the story of your mother's dead yr more power to u Allah unhe janat naseeb kry or mama ko sehat or Zindagi dyn Ameen ❤

  • @samarnaqvi1741
    @samarnaqvi1741 Жыл бұрын

    It's such a bittersweet story. May the Almighty bless your biological mother' soul , you're step mother & you 😊.

  • @fouziaraza7697
    @fouziaraza7697 Жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah such a heart warming story. Lots of love and duas for her 2nd mother and may the Biological mother's soul rest in peace ❤

  • @rainforest1983
    @rainforest1983 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful poetry. Any 1 sharing? Amazing n heart felt

  • @bushrafayyaz90
    @bushrafayyaz90 Жыл бұрын

    Tears in my eyes beautifully expressed her feelings in her poetry❤❤❤

  • @sameenhasan5937
    @sameenhasan5937 Жыл бұрын

    May her soul rest in peace. MashaAllah what a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful story. Allah apke Maa baap ka saya ap per hamesha salamat rakhen. Aameen. And what a beautiful poetry. Such a masterpiece❤️❤️

  • @sunwasi6225
    @sunwasi6225 Жыл бұрын

    Outstanding brilliant

  • @mamoonaidrees7015
    @mamoonaidrees7015 Жыл бұрын

    ❤ in tears.

  • @farkhandarashid4073
    @farkhandarashid4073 Жыл бұрын

    Literally felt very heavy to listen to the conversation n tears were rolling down. May Allah bless you all n the lady whom you mentioned an angel. Heart wrenching talk that I'm still feeling anxiety in heart n soul. ❤❤❤❤

  • @ayeshanasir9916
    @ayeshanasir9916 Жыл бұрын

    This poetry had me crying 😭😭❤️❤️❤️ May Allah grant her biological mother Jannah and the 2nd mother all the happiness in both worlds too! ❤

  • @amberrashid7101
    @amberrashid7101 Жыл бұрын

    Wow this episode touched my soul…..what a beautiful poem….. thank you Kanwal for introducing such beautiful souls through your platform

  • @zarminakhan7375
    @zarminakhan7375 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Kanwal ❤ I'm always waiting for your videos

  • @rifatsabih1367
    @rifatsabih1367 Жыл бұрын

    Best gift of Mother's day ❤

  • @anamsaif
    @anamsaif Жыл бұрын

    Love, love , love

  • @user-mw4dl2ub6p
    @user-mw4dl2ub6p Жыл бұрын

    The poem made me so emotional..❤ it was so touchy and lovely 🥰 😭😭😭I live in abroad away from my mom and now I am extremely teary😢

  • @ayeshaatif9990
    @ayeshaatif9990 Жыл бұрын

    Brought tears to my eyes 😥😥 such an emotional episode ❤❤

  • @hinawahid5296
    @hinawahid5296 Жыл бұрын

    Literally so happy to hear that you guys had a great bond with you new mother , unlike some who bear the torture of the new mother despite of being mature adults… kuddos to your new mama who did not try to replace your biological mother instead tried to make her own space in your lives ❤️ I am going through a torture in the name of step mother so this episode for me is a message that all step mothers aren’t same 🥲❤️

  • @aishashokat9136
    @aishashokat9136 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful and heart touching episode. I love you my Maa. ❤

  • @childrenintellect
    @childrenintellect Жыл бұрын

    You will go very far dear inshaAllah ❤

  • @bintehussaini2925
    @bintehussaini2925 Жыл бұрын

    Omg so heart touching ❤

  • @nabbiaarsalan7341
    @nabbiaarsalan7341 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful episode ❤

  • @aamnajaved8980
    @aamnajaved8980 Жыл бұрын

    Such an emotional episode 😭

  • @youngvloggerAdrielLadu
    @youngvloggerAdrielLadu Жыл бұрын

    Loved the poetry ❤️❤️

  • @afiahaq650
    @afiahaq650 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful story ❤

  • @samraqureshi7884
    @samraqureshi7884 Жыл бұрын

    Oh the poetry in the end.. it left me teary eyed 😢

  • @samineali9401
    @samineali9401 Жыл бұрын

    Heart touching❤

  • @kanwaldanish9838
    @kanwaldanish9838 Жыл бұрын

    The poetry in the end brought tears....beautiful😥😥

  • @Kitchen-talk
    @Kitchen-talk Жыл бұрын

    She explained her thoughts life story in that poem beautifully…. ❤❤

  • @samramalik5624
    @samramalik5624 Жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful poetry❤

  • @rafiabilal2983
    @rafiabilal2983 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful poetry ❤ Some individuals don't have the same ending, Miserable life after mother's demise, father backing off after remarrying. Mental torture received from both maternal and paternal side. Step mother has zero concerns regarding the well being of us siblings. Rebuilding our lives on our own. Prayers , no one goes through this suffering.n

  • @conversation1986

    @conversation1986

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah compensate all your losses and sufferings with something that is much better in this world and the hereafter. May He replace your sadness and tears with joy which has no bounds.

  • @sobiafawad9094
    @sobiafawad9094 Жыл бұрын

    Loved it ..made me cry😢

  • @tahiraahmedsyed9114
    @tahiraahmedsyed9114 Жыл бұрын

    poetry sun k ansu agaye 🥺🥺

  • @mummyssecretrecipes833
    @mummyssecretrecipes833 Жыл бұрын

    Cant stop my tears 😢😢😢😢

  • @fj9959
    @fj9959 Жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful poetry ❤❤

  • @Abdullah_Dawood3579
    @Abdullah_Dawood3579 Жыл бұрын

    How did you guys not cried while making this heart wrenching video!!!

  • @mehroonmehnaz4920
    @mehroonmehnaz4920 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing ❤

  • @anumiqbal3773
    @anumiqbal3773 Жыл бұрын

    This poetry gives me goosebumps ❤

  • @uroosasaleem9680
    @uroosasaleem9680 Жыл бұрын

    its really emotional

  • @iqra.diaries
    @iqra.diaries Жыл бұрын

    Amazing poetry ❤

  • @rubaisharehan1080
    @rubaisharehan1080 Жыл бұрын

    Was waiting for so long

  • @Kanwalful

    @Kanwalful

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @BismaHasan-gj7db
    @BismaHasan-gj7db Жыл бұрын

    It make me teary bushra.. 😢❤

  • @mathismagic8166
    @mathismagic8166 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful episode with Beautiful poem.

  • @farkhundajaved9075
    @farkhundajaved9075 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful story ! ❤

  • @hdoll3157
    @hdoll3157 Жыл бұрын

    Love the episode, yehi sb hoa tha mairay sath maa k janay k baad, aur us k bad baap k janay k bad, dono k chalay janay k bad bhot arsay adhora pan raha phir milay mujhay mairay humsafar aur mairy beti maira sakoon ❤️

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