Losing my Mother | Conversations with Kanwal | Season 5 | Episode 9
In today's episode, Bushra shares the traumatic day she lost her mother but also how her step mother came in and changed their lives for ever.
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As much as I love this episode, this should be a lesson for all women to not put their lives at risk. The saddest part was she knew she would pass away and was trying to prepare her young kids.😢 Don't put your kids through such unnecessary trauma please. May Allah bestow mercy on her soul...
All credit goes the lady who raised her. This poetry made me so emotional. Allah sub ki maoun ko salamat rakhain. Ameen
It's heart touching poetry I felt it by my heart because I also lost my mom few months ago.May Allah grant her highest place in junnah Ameen 💜
@sabajogiat262
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Ameen Ya Rab Ul Alameen
@Sky_is_a_limit
11 ай бұрын
Ameen ,I too lost my mom 5 months ago
The lady is in true sense a real human and you ppl must have supported her too to stand in tough ....kudos to such second mothers ....almighty bless our mothers and make us forever respectful and loving for them
I am from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳 i saw your all episodes .Each of your episodes reflects the pain that women have had to endure for centuries.
Both my pregnancies were complicated due to my health issues. Deep down i really wanted a third child but then i told myself what good i would do to my two kids by bringing the third one by deteriorating my health further and not being available for them. I just feel sad, she knew her pregnancy was complicated, she still got pregnant again. These children are lucky that they found another great lady as their mom.
@conversation1986
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Yes I agree with you. May Allah grant you health and lengthen your cool shade on your children Aameen Bushra has been very fortunate msa otherwise there’s no replacement for a mother.
. But the amazing thing is she recognised they were negative towards the step mom! Well done you reflected and you improved. Well done ❤
Extremely sad, wish the mother had realized that her kids needed her more than her son needing a brother. Loads of love and prayers for you
@summaiyaismail5564
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This is Allah's plan
Ufff what a poetry. Cried alot and missing my mother more than ever 😢 kaash maaein hamesha sath rehtein... Kaash😢😢
Such beautiful poetry for her biological mother and second mother ❤ made me cry and remember my own mother who departed this world 3.5 years ago 💔 may Allah bless Bushra's biological mother with the highest rank in Jannat-ul-Firdaus, Ameen summ Ameen 💐
Beautiful story you are so lucky to find another mother. I just felt a bit bad if your mum had known she should not have had a baby she shouldnt have gone for it. But Allah ki jo marzi more awareness is needed that even if you have one child be grateful. Hats off to your second ammi x
Allah hr ksi ki maa ko salamat rakhy or apki mother ko jannat me aala maqaam ata farmae.. Ameen❤❤
Can I say something, parents needs to mature please, you have complications or issue please STOP going for another one ! Understand its not a fun game to keep irresponsible decisions which ends up suffering of other kids.
@Halo.H
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Very good comment, people are senseless selfish, use contraception. In the end these feckless parents make children and leave them to suffer.
Always listen that someone is narrating a story that someone is negative towards his/her but literally firs time sun rhe k kitne axhay sy inho ny agly ki khasiyat ko btaya even khud ko thora negative kah k soo beautiful Allah tala ap logo ko dhairo khushiyan dikhai.......and the best part POETRY ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sweet wishes for both daughter n mom, specially for having a heart to appreciate her second mom.... Our society truely need such positive people n mindset.
I cannot imagine my life without my Amma. I can't even begin to imagine what you must have gone through. But I'm glad God blessed you with a loving mum a second time. Lots of love and duas 😘
This is the first episode that i admired alot as being a pakistani n having mother tongue urdu one should talk in proper urdu coz audience of this show are not all aware of english .... I highly request kanwal ahmed kindly look into this matter too... I was saying this because once i was watching one of the episode with my relatives who is not well known with english n suddenly she said yr kya chala jata agr ye loag proper urdu mein shoot krlein kya ye show daikhne k lye hm pehle english seekhein..... Only keeping in mind such audience i raise this point hope none will mind it n take it positively
The poem in the end made me cry so much. I live far from my mom and tomorrow is mother's day and I miss her soooo much🥹😭😭😭😭😭
Ohh my god this is has made me so emotional. Was holding up tears the entire time but they rolled down listening to the poetry she has written. ❤❤❤
This episode was heart touching Istg can't imagine my life without my Amma. Literally cried while listening her poetry!
@Totajee79
3 ай бұрын
Me too.
Maa to maa hi hoti hai .. uski jagah koi ni le sakta…. Jab maa hoti thi tab garam paranthe khilati thi.. marne se pehle tak khana bana k gayi.. got tears in my eyes after watching this
What a beautiful real life story! Many thanks Kanwal, for bringing out this side of stepmother!
I don’t have words to describe the depth of this episode. My favorite one yet. Lots of love and prayers to this amazing lady and the mothers who raised her to be this wonderful. The poetry at the end …. The best. ❤❤❤
So many deep messages in just 1 episode. A mother sacrificing her own life just to provide her son with a brother's company. That is how far a motherhood extends🥺❤️🩹 And the same loving, spoiling mother, not only having faith in ANOTHER WOMAN to upbring her children but also asking them to respect their second mum beforehand ❣️❣️❣️❣️ Much love and respect to both of your mums!💕
Poetry makes me cry ... Love you Bushra 💗
What a lovely poem written, thanks for sharing the poem and your story! :)
I can't control on my tears while listening to the poem 😢..ALLAH Meri maa ko salamat rakhe ameen
So heartbreaking kash maa apny bachon ka pehly sochti instead uss bachy k bary me jo dunia me tha hi ni
What a lovely choice for this Mother’s day! Loved how it shows that a mother is a mother be it biological or not. Beautiful poem from a beautiful person. Thank you for sharing your journey. May Allah bless you with much happiness ameen. ❤️
I got tears while watching this story and the smile on your face throughout the show tells that you are such a strong lady lots of love to u 😘😍❤
So so beautiful and heart breaking at the same time. Much love and prayers. The poem was simply heart touching ♥️
Uff yaar! What a beautiful episode. The simplicity, the language, the unfiltered conversation. And then the last part, heartfelt words for both the moms. Thank you Kanwal for this ❤❤❤
So so heart touching n amazing ...
Literally the cutest one on the show so far!!
Wonderful gift for a mother's day.... Alhamdullilah ❤ ....
Really like this girl. She is very mature , sensible and calm
My little sister ❤️❤️ I am so proud of you 😘 All the grief we have gone through makes you the purest soul and the best human with the precious heart 🤍🤍 Love you Bushra Rizvi 💕💕
My God! That poem was so beautifully written, each word of it 🌸 May Allah bless your family. Ameen.
Left me teary-eyed 🥲❤️
A real heart touching story, hats off to your second Mom!
As salam o aleikum. I've been struggling with grief after my fathers death. I have been waiting eagerly for this episode. The moment I saw it, I said "alhamdulillah". JazakAllah to Bushra for sharing your story. I cried my eyes out listening to your poem. I listen to it again and again. May Allah bless your second mom abundantly such an amazing lady. Lots of love, Farhat from Norway
She wrote her grief with such elegance!Definitely made her biological mother proud!! ❤️
@conversation1986
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Elegance nahin eloquence
Uffff that poetry made me cry 😢 ... Allah ksi ko maan ka gam na dikhaye Ameen.
Loved the poetry!
her poetry is so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
Oh the poem. So beautiful 😍
A very emotional episode. The poetry ❤
Amazing episode !!!! cant imagine my life without my mother ❣️ i am glad god blessed you loving mum again
Heart touching poetry nd episode ❤
So so beautiful! I don’t think Kanwal that I have watched any episode of your series without crying my eyes out. ❤
Beyond amazing!! Don't have words to expalin what actually i am feeling after watching this story!! Huge respect for bushra and her both mothers.. khuda maghfirat farmaey apki mama ki aur ap k sar par apki farishta jaisi maa ka saya salamat rakhay.. ameen...🤲✨️
Heart touching 😢 Allah pak hr maa ko sehat waali zindagi dain aur jin ki is duniya mai nhi hain unka dousra jahan bht behtareen karen AMEEN ...
Love the poetry ❤
I literally cried while watching this. So happy that you found such a loving step mother. Your mother thought of your brother, thats nice but she should have thought about you kids too. I literally cried listening to your story when you were telling that you didnt cry taqay kuch bura na ho jae. And that poetry at the end is amazing. I could feel every word in this episodes. May Allah grant your mother higher rank in Jannah. And May Allah bless your second mother and you and your siblings. Ameen ♥️
Beautiful ❤️❤️. I have no more words for this episode 😞
This was just so emotional. Couldn’t hold my tears. I am so happy that you have found another love in another woman besides your biological mom. Allah khush rkhay apko ❤ Allah apki mama ko jannat naseeb kray .
Bushra I know u since 2017 or 18 may be but I didn't know about this side of u confident , soft-spoken and specially the story of your mother's dead yr more power to u Allah unhe janat naseeb kry or mama ko sehat or Zindagi dyn Ameen ❤
It's such a bittersweet story. May the Almighty bless your biological mother' soul , you're step mother & you 😊.
Masha Allah such a heart warming story. Lots of love and duas for her 2nd mother and may the Biological mother's soul rest in peace ❤
What a beautiful poetry. Any 1 sharing? Amazing n heart felt
Tears in my eyes beautifully expressed her feelings in her poetry❤❤❤
May her soul rest in peace. MashaAllah what a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful story. Allah apke Maa baap ka saya ap per hamesha salamat rakhen. Aameen. And what a beautiful poetry. Such a masterpiece❤️❤️
Outstanding brilliant
❤ in tears.
Literally felt very heavy to listen to the conversation n tears were rolling down. May Allah bless you all n the lady whom you mentioned an angel. Heart wrenching talk that I'm still feeling anxiety in heart n soul. ❤❤❤❤
This poetry had me crying 😭😭❤️❤️❤️ May Allah grant her biological mother Jannah and the 2nd mother all the happiness in both worlds too! ❤
Wow this episode touched my soul…..what a beautiful poem….. thank you Kanwal for introducing such beautiful souls through your platform
Thank you Kanwal ❤ I'm always waiting for your videos
Best gift of Mother's day ❤
Love, love , love
The poem made me so emotional..❤ it was so touchy and lovely 🥰 😭😭😭I live in abroad away from my mom and now I am extremely teary😢
Brought tears to my eyes 😥😥 such an emotional episode ❤❤
Literally so happy to hear that you guys had a great bond with you new mother , unlike some who bear the torture of the new mother despite of being mature adults… kuddos to your new mama who did not try to replace your biological mother instead tried to make her own space in your lives ❤️ I am going through a torture in the name of step mother so this episode for me is a message that all step mothers aren’t same 🥲❤️
Beautiful and heart touching episode. I love you my Maa. ❤
You will go very far dear inshaAllah ❤
Omg so heart touching ❤
Beautiful episode ❤
Such an emotional episode 😭
Loved the poetry ❤️❤️
Beautiful story ❤
Oh the poetry in the end.. it left me teary eyed 😢
Heart touching❤
The poetry in the end brought tears....beautiful😥😥
She explained her thoughts life story in that poem beautifully…. ❤❤
Such a beautiful poetry❤
Beautiful poetry ❤ Some individuals don't have the same ending, Miserable life after mother's demise, father backing off after remarrying. Mental torture received from both maternal and paternal side. Step mother has zero concerns regarding the well being of us siblings. Rebuilding our lives on our own. Prayers , no one goes through this suffering.n
@conversation1986
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May Allah compensate all your losses and sufferings with something that is much better in this world and the hereafter. May He replace your sadness and tears with joy which has no bounds.
Loved it ..made me cry😢
poetry sun k ansu agaye 🥺🥺
Cant stop my tears 😢😢😢😢
Such a beautiful poetry ❤❤
How did you guys not cried while making this heart wrenching video!!!
Amazing ❤
This poetry gives me goosebumps ❤
its really emotional
Amazing poetry ❤
Was waiting for so long
@Kanwalful
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It make me teary bushra.. 😢❤
Beautiful episode with Beautiful poem.
Beautiful story ! ❤
Love the episode, yehi sb hoa tha mairay sath maa k janay k baad, aur us k bad baap k janay k bad, dono k chalay janay k bad bhot arsay adhora pan raha phir milay mujhay mairay humsafar aur mairy beti maira sakoon ❤️