I met Tommy a few weeks ago in a petrol garage. Please believe me i had not a clue who he was. It was early in the morning i was putting diesel in my van and i ask him and his friend if they would mind helping me unlock the petrol tank. Omg we had a little laugh n chat but i promise i didnt have a clue who he was. As this lovely guy pulled off in his car he said its okay ive paid for your petrol !!!!! How kind and nice was that. Ive actually thought about how kind that was of him everyday since. Take it from me Tommy Mallet is a true gentleman and i wish him and his family health and the best in life. I hope our paths cross again cause he is such a nice young man and i know a good person when i meet one.

@suzannetaylor9571

15 күн бұрын

Oh my god I love that. Tommy is amazing I’ve said it from the start this guy is amazing ❤

@dawson1ize

15 күн бұрын

Awe that’s lovely. He seems like a gem.

@leonorajb

15 күн бұрын

Yes him and Georgia are good people

@princessjulia5646

14 күн бұрын

Definitely

@BumboyWillynut

14 күн бұрын

Gives u hope for humanity don’t it xxx

I wish there was a Tommy Mallett helpline for anyone going through hard times. I reckon just a 20 minute chat with this bloke could change someone’s life around

I literally never comment on videos.. but this geezer is a breath of fresh air.. Great guest @James English

@Clairemccourt202

16 күн бұрын

Definitely 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I have so much respect for you Tommy and how you've spoken so well about ADHD.

Everytime there’s a Tommy interview I click on it FAST . I love his mindset and can see his Growth in this interview .. keep it up Tommy . I love how REAL he is

In my 60's and I've news for you chum, if you're blessed you will keep learning. Wear the world like a loose garment. Blessings from Belfast.

@beyondthedressingtable

11 күн бұрын

He might never see this , but I have , and I love that “wear the world like a loose garment” that’s profound ❤

@suzirobson8935

7 күн бұрын

I've never heard 'wear the world like a loose garment' but it's stayed in my head since I read it earlier and I felt compelled to come back here and comment! 😊

@Slazza

5 күн бұрын

What a wonderful way of putting it. God bless you

What a podcast. Tommy Mallett is some geezer and so happy his life has changed for the best. Remember his first scene in TOWIE and seeing where he’s come from then to now is a breath of fresh air

Tommy, i don't know if you will see this, but thank you for opening my eyes and giving me my own lightbulb moment on the reason i have felt the same way as you my whole life. I am now sure the answer is ADHD. James, thank you for your brilliant podcast and brining on guests like Tommy with important and relatable stories such as this one.

Tommy is a very down to earth fella. He’s been through a lot. But love his energy and attitude to life. Keep on going fella.

Mallet, loved the story. You have walked the path, that so many people are yet to walk. Just this podcast will change so many lives.

Just stumbled upon this guy today. Been watching him all day, listening to his success story and his ups and downs and him striving for legacy. Then I see this within the first 24hrs of discovering him. I hope 'I lost it all' isn't meant in the literal sense.

Well done Tommy , you should be proud of yourself. You’ve grown and evolved so much 😊

I've recently been diagnosed with ADHD at age 44. I really appreciate Tommy sharing his experiences. Especially considering taking medication, I've been on the fence. But thank you. Enjoyed the pod 💙

This man is the only authentic working class diamond to come out towie, love to him his misses and his bub & monkey xxxxxx

this episode really deeply hit home for me, i have a recent bipolar diagnosis aged 28 and finally can see a finish line. i always thought i would end up in a psychiatric ward. the amount of relateable things that both tommy and james spoke about emotion wise is me to a tee. i am not alone and if your reading this, neither are you.

I’ve never related to a podcast before as much as I have with this guy. Proper banger of a pod.

Can't wait for this....what Tommy has been through and how he has come out the other side is totally inspirational. It's not easy pulling yourself out of a dark time,but if you can you will be rewarded.

@logandouglas6935

16 күн бұрын

love this

Seriously, I could write a book here with all my thoughts and opinions on this one but it would take too long so I'm just gonna make it short n sweet, nothing but respect for you Tommy, 💯 you've been through it, n came out it, hats off man 🙌🙌

Its like listening to myself. I thought i was gonna lose the plot. Symptoms were mad crazy. Diagnosed snd medicated and changed my life. I always knew but thought a diagnosis would be pointless. My son is severe adhd/asd. Doctor saw me for 90 minutes. Severe combined type. Detrimental effect on every aspect of my life. Offending. Care system. Prison. Addictions. So pleased you did it now. I wish i had did it 20 years ago. Im 50 now. Diagnosed 2021. I had conduct disorder too. Lifes so different now. Always knew i was different. Keep going Tommy. Wish you well The drugs. Can sooo resonate

Great podcast James ! Never watched Towie but i genuinely like this guy. I love his character, high on life, erratic, somebody who has had struggles and understands life. I share his adamant mindset and determination so i get him. I wish him and his family the very best. Keep them coming James ❤️

@JamesEnglish

16 күн бұрын

Thanks ❤️

Jeezo I’ve just been diagnosed at 45 with adhd. So similar to this guy. Do multiple things and have had multiple businesses, some good, some not so good, think way in advance about random shit, temper from zero to 100 In the blink of an eye and very additive personality but always refuse to “give in”. I got told about 10 years ago from a few people but refused to seek help. Glad I finally caved and seen a professional. Great listen this boys 👍🏻

Well done Tommy for being brave enough to change things in your life and for realising happiness is the greatest gift of all❤️

Who else got excited that it was Timmy Mallet?

@Lesley-Ann2018sux

17 күн бұрын

I thought it was him. Mallets mallet. Was looking forward to seeing where that wee dude went.

@Mimms2222

16 күн бұрын

He lives in my village

@66737pbain

16 күн бұрын

Say bleugh 🤣

@paulmclean2374

16 күн бұрын

Think Timmy had adhd as well 😂

@psychedelicvoyager9331

16 күн бұрын

​@@Mimms2222have you met him?

Personally, in my opinion, I think the message is clear here. That is money really doesn't bring happiness, it helps, but your health happiness and those you love are the riches thing in life you will ever own. Amazing podcast James. I have always said from day one Tommy was on TOWIE he was one nice genuine young man. He is a very wise person. I wish him every happiness and success for his future, and I am so pleased to hear he is finding himself for the amazing person he is. Best of luck to you both. You're a good bloke, too, James.

I don’t comment on podcasts but wow!! That was powerful, what a boy he is.

Great interview James. Love Tommy’s honesty and he’s positivity, what a breath of fresh air. Thanks for sharing. 💚💚💚

Best episode ever, totally engaged in the conversation, energy skills and passion lads - keep spreading this energy :)

Tommy love your energy, down to earth attitude and overall what a genuine, kind caring person you are. Your family is beautiful and I wish you so much happiness, luck and love for you and your family because you so deserve it. Thank you for sharing your story because you will help so many people. Talking and sharing your experiences (when your ready and happy too) can help and touch so many people. Bless you✨✨

Most real, meaningful, inspiring, uplifting podcast ♥️ he’s on such a positive journey and it’s lovely & inspiring to hear it ✨✨✨

I love this and can totally understand where Tommy's coming from I definitely have ADHD and am on a 18/24 month waiting list hanging on in there ❤ this interview is brilliant and gives me more hope for the future 😊

Well done, Tommy! What a great guy. So authentic 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😊

Pure raw honesty "Right There " !!! Thankyou so much Guys learned so much about me ? and knowing that thru my worst Trauma im strong enough to see a great future

Been waiting on this for ages and so happy Tommy done it with James. Respect to Tommy wish you well mate xxx

Never comment but . Thanks Tommy ingot diagnosed with emotional unstable personality disorder 2014..and you literally described my brain ...struggled in school with out cnt even fill a form out going into meltdown. always thought I was misdiagnosed... you've actually made me want to investigate this further with the doctor.thanks xx good luck to you and your lovely family... always loved you on towie ! X

Tommy nailed it.. great interview. I can resonate on so many levels.. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 47 and my brain has been my biggest battle my entire life. I too lost a child when I was 22 and I’ve struggled to navigate the emotional trauma until I was diagnosed. Medication has been life changing for calming the brain and finding wisdom. I no longer have to take the medication after a year and a half and the skills of learnt to navigate my emotions and the realisation that with trauma comes great wisdom and strength. I no longer feel self conscious of being different.. as Tommy said ADHD can be a gift. Perspective is everything. Also we are all on a journey and our mindset can shift at any time.. it’s ok for Tommy to come back in 3 years time and have a different perspective as he navigates his growth. The real gift is awareness, which leads to compassion for others. To realise your struggles and trauma can heal others is priceless ❤

Brilliant interview love how you listen and let the conversation flow some people could learn from your technique.

Really enjoyed this made me smile listening, Tommy you’re amazing x

Loved this thanks so much, his explanation of ADHD is amazing to listen too. My son has it and my husband who found out later in life also and explains this just the same

I’ve always loved , Tommy, now , even more . So glad to see he’s doing well now. Great interview as always James ❤️

Brilliant interview 👍

I have nearly been to where Tommy been after my misses had our prem baby 18 months ago at 26 weeks and nearly died on week two and had a rough first 1st year , we was in hospital for 27 weeks and I've seen what families go through whilst in hospitals similar to Tommy's and wifes trauma when they lose a child the pain is like nothing you every go through unless it happens to you . I totally get his ADHD mindset . Think he nailed this interview . He couldn't speak more truth.

Tommy learned a lesson the hard way ... he now understands .

Absolutely loved this interview both such real people smashed it 👏

Loved watching and listening to this ❤ honestly love Tommy & Georgia have watched them from the beginning of Towie to going onto Mallet to Baby steps I love that he has this amazing story to tell, super proud of him! Hope he stays happy and sending him lots of positive energy! ❤

Great interview. So many in the same boat and it is scary how relatable it is to myself and many others yet there is no help out there for adhd in adults.

Brilliant, true, heartfelt interview. Love you Tommy great interview James, thanks

@JamesEnglish

16 күн бұрын

👍🏼

Looking forward to this one 💯

Loved this !!! Great family, Georgia is your rock, I’ve always thought you two are amazing together and now you have your own family It’s beautiful to see. Look after yourselves every day

James is brilliant and Big up Tommy really enjoyed ur mad stories… and how ur learning every day. Totally relate 🌟

Great watch glad you’re happy Tommy! James keep up the great work brother 👍❤️

@JamesEnglish

16 күн бұрын

❤️

Real Talk Great interview 🖤

What a lovely guy Tommy mallet is,and your brill aswell James you both need to give yourself more credit for what genuine lovely guys you both are ❤xx

Brilliant podcast. That’s the best way I’ve heard adhd explained. Brilliant lad ❤👍✊

Not going to lie when I first seen this guy years ago in towie I couldn’t stand him but wow he’s changed hell of a lot I love the way he is a brilliant husband and a brilliant dad wish nothing but the best for him and his family

Loved this , that young man talks a lot of sense, well done Tommy 🎉

Great episode! Cho ku rei to James & Tommy xx

Well done Tommy you said it all so fantasticly well you should be proud❤ keep going loved watching xxxxxx

Fantastic Tommy so much to learn, understand from sharing your experiences. You are there mentally… and that is the most important ingredient for a happy life..if you could put that in a bottle and give it away..’thank yous’ will be endless…You’ve started by being utterly honest with good and bad! Wow!

Never heard of him until now … what a bloke related so much apart from the money lol 😂… but that isn’t to say am not putting the pedal to the flaw on life ….. legend thanks James and what a bloke this is he is ….. let’s goooo time to get back the grind ❤it ain’t ever over 👊it will pass ….. start working … it will always pass good en bad ☝️✌️

Great podcast best one in a long time 👏👌

Will always , support Tommy he is an inspiration, been through the mill , still pushing , himself to learn by life . Life throws stuff all the time just learn and grow for yourself 🎉

Oh I can't wait for this!!

Lovely real well spoken guy Love their family x

Love Tommy amazing guy brilliant interview James much love ❤

Iam 44 my wife asked me all the time to go to the doctors every thing you said Iam the same, hdhd just listening to you then was like a kick up my back side Iam going to book an appointment tomorrow and get the help I need thank you Both 🙏🏻

Great guys great positive energy give your family our ❤️

Never sell your soul for fame and fortune

Inspired me on another level this! Wow

his evolution since his last interview is so remarkable.

I love how open you are Tommy. I messaged you on instagram but you never got it 😔 Adhd is your super power. That's what I tell my son ♥

Like this guy…but anyone who’s been on a similar journey you’ll be able to see where he is…excited that he’s seen the light after the dark for the first time but….there’s always so much more learning life keeps teaching you…when you think wow great I’ve cracked it…normally ready to get brought down another level….interesting to see where this guy is in 5 years hopefully in a even better place with more lessons and more happiness

Really relate to this xx

I like many knew you and Georgia from Towie. Unlike others who have different media avenues since Towie you 2 are the only ogs I still love and follow. Both you and Georgia being so down to earth and honest still makes you both so lovable. I've 2 sons 🎉with adhd and totally understand how you felt after finding out you had adhd and again after starting meditation. (My sons went from crazy mad boys to understanding others with emotions loving boys after meds and support since knowing of adhd. Keep being you Tommy and as a couple remember Tommy and Georgia your 100% couple goals. I'm 45 today and wish I'd found what you Tommy and Georgia have found already xx

Love this ❤

Great Podcast ! 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

Tommy is a wonderful human being. Great podcast James 😊

@JamesEnglish

15 күн бұрын

Thanks

Unbelievable this fella. Good luck mate. ❤️👍🏻

Great talk I like Tommy, honest chap it seems 👏🏼👏🏼

U can’t deny it, Tommy talks a lot of sense 👏🏻 Also he’s right, ur life is laid out for u the moment ur born. It’s all in ur birth chart!

Love this guy

On fire 🔥 bro 👊🏻

Love him ❤ great interview

@JamesEnglish

16 күн бұрын

❤️❤️

LOVED it... everything I thought this interview would be and more 👏🏼

Bravo Tommy 👏

Love ur pod ! Tommy is unreal ❤

@JamesEnglish

15 күн бұрын

❤️

Being present and finding balance in everything you do and need , don’t ever lose the mad part of yourselves, and intrusive thought’s are so normal 😂

God bless to you tommy and family wish yous all the best cuz 🙏 top fella 👍

Probs up there in my top 3 of your interviews if not the best one, this lad is proper I shit you not such a down to earth lad very grounded no fake bullshit class!!

He is the greatest role model there is for men and young boys ❤️

I’m 52 was diagnosed with ADHD 2014 on meds & now going through menopause I was 1st ABA boxing coach woman of southern counties…I broke my back fucked wrists can’t teach nomore… my adhd is thru roof, 2day I’ve thought nthin else other than wanna killi My neighbour 😂 & that sounds like ima lunatic… but u ride through it tmrw I may not think that…. It’s a roller coaster, it don’t stop triggering tho… I laugh so much when james said im running & think I cud fuckin ruin u 🤣😂😂 that’s a battle every day most people have with mental health… I relate 2 that… ur a gd lad Tommy & many will listen & b inspired ❤💪 I inspired many & im proud of myself 4 that…🙏🏽 just remember u will always have shit days buddy its howu handle the comeback not the comedown as it never goes away x

So happy for you Tommy that you have your ADHD under control ❤

They are the couple who came out of Towie. Lovely little family

So SO relatable

top show james ,tommy is a good lad always liked him.

So proud of you Tommy

Can’t wait for this one 🫡

@JamesEnglish

17 күн бұрын

👍🏼

I just love Tommy ❤

Lol mate I’m 24 minutes in and I’ve been crying for like 18 minutes solid. has just hit me so hard.

This is mad… I’ve known I have ADHD since I was a kid and I’m now 31, I’ve never understood it and always tell myself I’m past all that but now realise it’s in me more than ever. It’s literally right there in front of me, what the fuck, this podcast is insane 👌🏻 I think this podcast will help so many people I couldn’t turn it off there’s so much I can relate to even though my situations different.

Love him...can relate to so much 😊