Look deeper -- write -- the wonders of writing | Nicoletta Demetriou | TEDxUniversityofNicosia

This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. Nicoletta Demetriou beautifully describes the wonders of writing. In this TEDxUniversityofNicosia talk Nicoletta, an ethnomusicologist and tutor in creative writing, explains exactly how to go about writing in our everyday lives.
Nicoletta Demetriou studied music in Thessaloniki, Vienna, and London. Her PhD (School of Oriental and African Studies [SOAS], University of London, 2008) was in the field of ethnomusicology. Her research focuses on Cypriot traditional music, and particularly on how issues pertaining to ideology, politics, and identity influence the way traditional music is discussed and performed. She has also studied creative writing, specializing in life (auto/biographical) writing. Her current research is an attempt to bring ethnomusicology and life writing together, focusing on the lives of traditional music performers. Since 2012 Nicoletta has been a research fellow in ethnomusicology and life writing at Wolfson College, University of Oxford, and also a tutor in narrative non-fiction on Oxford’s Master of Studies in Creative Writing.
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  • @Okpalaemmanuel25
    @Okpalaemmanuel25 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much....I have struggled to be better in writing but have failed to cultivate the practice of writing always...I am even scared to go for a PhD program because of the fear of writing...I dread no more my journey to becoming a great writer starts today

  • @chinasacasmir
    @chinasacasmir Жыл бұрын

    Up to this moment, I never actually thought there would be people who upheld this practice, I would ideally wake up in the morning, with the sole intent to just write anything, put it up on my blog and do so the next day. On some days it would be difficult, and others chill- knowing that people practice this very habit is really encouraging for me at this point in time.

  • @dougimmel

    @dougimmel

    Жыл бұрын

    KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO !!!

  • @kpop_slay3837
    @kpop_slay3837 Жыл бұрын

    I'm getting teary-eyed watching this, I am really having a hard time in writing my research.....

  • @dougimmel

    @dougimmel

    Жыл бұрын

    You WILL finish it in your own time. Doctoral work is some of the hardest work there is.

  • @kpop_slay3837

    @kpop_slay3837

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir, I have forgotten that I commented here when I am really having a hard time in writing lol (I mean it is already 7 months ago haha). Btw, I am now at my experimentation part of my quantitative research sir and I think I'll do better because of your kind words. May success be always with you sir, thank you so much again

  • @A.G.Birajdar
    @A.G.Birajdar3 жыл бұрын

    One of the best talk I ever heard Calming Meaningful Helpful

  • @ringmasterblaze
    @ringmasterblaze6 жыл бұрын

    That was a big exercise in high school creative writing. We started every class with 15 minutes of unthinking stream of consciousness freewriting. Similar idea to some artistic exercises where you draw without looking or without picking the pencil off the paper.

  • @enricobasbas7221

    @enricobasbas7221

    5 жыл бұрын

    FortyNothing so you just write? You don’t read what you wrote? Or you don’t look at what you drew? Just a beginner’s question...

  • @enricobasbas7221

    @enricobasbas7221

    5 жыл бұрын

    FortyNothing so you just write? You don’t read what you wrote? Or you don’t look at what you drew? Just a beginner’s question...

  • @deborahchoma7096
    @deborahchoma70965 жыл бұрын

    Nicholetta Demetriou, thank you for your educated insights and thought provoking concepts for writing. Far from boring, your charm and vocals made listening a melody. You enunciated and spoke with clarity. As a writer, I have, for many years now, created the white space you mentioned, to write for fifteen minutes first thing in the morning. It is a superb suggestion. Thank you.

  • @Ramadmurthy

    @Ramadmurthy

    Жыл бұрын

    I am extremely happy to reply to your comment. This is an attachment among the people of this amazing planet. We are scattered bodies but our souls all together. I just wanted to let you know my deepest feelings. Thank you very much. I look forward to hearing more from you.

  • @bang103tunedin3
    @bang103tunedin35 жыл бұрын

    This could be considered a form of meditation! Thanks for sharing

  • @sandramalone3522
    @sandramalone35223 жыл бұрын

    She is so right. That's how I see it as the morning before I'm even totally awake I write and it's the best I've done.

  • @Locke_daisy3786
    @Locke_daisy3786 Жыл бұрын

    This talk is fantastic and filled with such goodness. I write intuitively and in snail mail correspondence as part of my business. I consider snail mail correspondence (a different writing obviously) about holding space and choosing what to share with the other person. It is another mindful way of being aware.

  • @ahmeds.mansour1293
    @ahmeds.mansour12937 жыл бұрын

    oh, that was great and very smooth and calming. great points, very beneficial. Thanks a lot.

  • @sabirhusain9162
    @sabirhusain9162 Жыл бұрын

    I also think that I should write something every day at least for sometime but I find myself surrounded by strange fear of putting pen on a paper but after watching this information and transformative video I gathered courage to begin. I will continue until I feel some sort of miracles in my personal and professional life.

  • @Ardasssha
    @Ardasssha3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this!! One of the best tedx talks indeed! I ve been writing a journal everyday for half a month now, and all of this is true! It does transform , help you connect to yourself and see what needs to be changed in your life. I re-read it sometime later and see how i progressed as a person (or regressed), how much pain i have or how impulsive i am. Such observations about myself help me to become my own best friend.

  • @socalbro43
    @socalbro436 жыл бұрын

    I'm in! I love the idea of finding and listening to my own voice amidst all the "traffic".

  • @AnyaChuri

    @AnyaChuri

    6 жыл бұрын

    I too! Although I do know I am a tad naive!

  • @deborahchoma7096
    @deborahchoma70965 жыл бұрын

    Nicholetta, Here you go. The first fifteen minutes of an eye opening July 11. This a quiet intimate space where a cat and a son reconnect. Away from outside distractions, it's the beginning, a string of moments to enjoy. Routines reintroduce themselves, whilst the repeats play. What about today will set in motion or trigger the necessary changes to shift the same-old-same of expectations and disappointments? Much like a seesaw, I struggle with the vitality to do what I know, to be what I can, and reach a happy height of achievement. Then I hear an inaudible phrase, "Who you are is enough to be all that you are meant for today." And in this white space of writing intimate thoughts, I choose to be a gentle guide to myself and whomever shares the sacred moment of creating beauty and new beginnings. Today is the dew of opportunity, the fresh morning air of accessing thoughts and ideas; a string of fresh water pearls carefully gathered from the Sydney Harbor of my mind. Each pearl is uniquely formed, and I remind myself that my struggles are mine. But amidst the solitude of writing undistracted, I have already set in motion the creation of something beautiful, vulnerable, and innately raw. So what can I shift in this waterhole of thoughts? What will I find to day in the exercise of duty and in the reach of gratitude. My next act uncovers a heart that is simply willing. There's never going to be a day that presents itself as the perfect time to change my challenges. But the perfect opportunity is, in essence, what I create for myself today. One small shift is a start. Grateful in the blanket of peace; a cat called Abby, a vase of yellow roses, a blue and gold pen, a room that reflects taste, choice ideas, and surrounds me with beauty. I am grateful for health, strength, and solace. I am grateful for people in my life, my family. I am grateful for change and the string of moments, the cluster of decisions. The hundreds of steps I take today are going somewhere. I am not everything I need to be, but who I am is enough for today. I'm not a child who has no control. My body deserves the best, just as it were a quadriplegic with robotic legs. Healing to be happy is a process. It's a development of thoughts, ideas, and the input of loved ones who see more than you can. They simply sing the song in your heart. To new beginnings - available and ready.

  • @the.name.is_kara

    @the.name.is_kara

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow.. I'm inspired.

  • @070707SAM

    @070707SAM

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lovely

  • @dougimmel
    @dougimmel Жыл бұрын

    One could take the transcript of this and SAVOR each and every thought she expresses, which may populate each phrase or sentence with vast ideas that could lead one in many directions. This was a RICH discourse ! I found myself pausing it often, sometimes several times in one sentence.

  • @marygracebanares3993
    @marygracebanares39938 ай бұрын

    Nicoletta was able to point out the very germane concept of writing to my class. Such an enlightening talk. I am actually showing this to my students to inspire them to love and start writing on their own. Kudos to the speaker and thank you for sharing your experiences, too.

  • @c.r.salvador2827
    @c.r.salvador28275 жыл бұрын

    I am so grateful for this.

  • @AmbiCahira
    @AmbiCahira6 жыл бұрын

    Here is a suggestion of a warm-up exercise. Don't do sentences, just let your hand do words. The and though dog dough then why so sow rake barn dog frog goat store clerk and so on. And when these random words have come out and warm-up is over you will easily start making sentences without much effort even if it is a sentence between the words or not. Removing the restriction of feeling like it must be sentences can make your mind go blank on where to start.

  • @louisam6126

    @louisam6126

    6 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing exercise! Being a teen who is involved in writing in a foreign language, I always found it difficult to start to write as there's an idea, there is an inspiration but the sentenced don't come out easily, I'm either stock in the beginning or just can't express myself at all. this helped me, thank you

  • @AmbiCahira

    @AmbiCahira

    6 жыл бұрын

    Louisa M I am glad it helps you! Everything we do benefits from a warm-up!

  • @AnyaChuri

    @AnyaChuri

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @alicehuijbregts

    @alicehuijbregts

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much!

  • @zlizeko

    @zlizeko

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just cant understand how you can let your hands do words... I mean, all words come from mind. Isnt it just writing your stream of consciousness?

  • @dominiccruz1201
    @dominiccruz12014 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed the lecture on writing. Nicoletta explained the whole concept with great clarity and understanding. Thank You for sharing.

  • @astolenhotpocket13
    @astolenhotpocket135 жыл бұрын

    Connecting with yourself.. something I do to in order to come closer to who I really am. I wasn't aware that I needed to hear those words so badly that it hurt.

  • @77777aol
    @77777aol6 жыл бұрын

    In stating, 'the fear of being too close to ourselves' really depends on how we view ourselves. I reckon Nicoletta Demetriu, in her encouraging talk, means being too close to our critical self, or even too close to our public-face or mask. In an ideal scenario, we never need fear being too close to our true or authentic self, which is untrammelled and unfettered, free and wondrous. The 64,00 dollar question is 'how?' ! Certainly writing stream of consciousness helps, as Brenda Urland inspired in her seminal work, 'If You Want to Write'; published in the late 1930s I believe. Let's keep writing, free of self criticism; all the while reading good books ! Thank you ND.

  • @bsaunders

    @bsaunders

    Жыл бұрын

    "I reckon Nicoletta Demetriu, in her encouraging talk, means being too close to our critical self, or even too close to our public-face or mask." I read the opposite -- that people are afraid of getting to close to the self that is not the mask.

  • @user-pb2kg1ng4g

    @user-pb2kg1ng4g

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bsaunders Without doubt !

  • @r.mercado9737
    @r.mercado97377 жыл бұрын

    Listening, ahhhh! So true. I love it!

  • @Mskimberley81
    @Mskimberley815 жыл бұрын

    It’s so tricky to try and clear one’s mind and not write ‘so what am I going to write’ for example. Loved her delivery of this talk very much

  • @Manojkumar-tm9nh
    @Manojkumar-tm9nh2 жыл бұрын

    I am an artist and when I open the SketchBook I randomly make pencil strokes until I have something to draw, maybe that's what we need to do in this exercise as well

  • @kavanshukla9083
    @kavanshukla90834 жыл бұрын

    Just excellent. Her every word is as good as a pearl.

  • @liteshable
    @liteshable5 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful speech. Thanks for sharing the thoughts about writing.

  • @rtj630
    @rtj6303 жыл бұрын

    I completely get her writing ritual in the morning. Completely.

  • @SuperToxic00
    @SuperToxic004 жыл бұрын

    Her voice made me watch this video but its content made me finish watching it. Nice pointers. And so the writing begins!

  • @inukmsk
    @inukmsk8 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Nicoletta. What a lovely conference, very inspiring.

  • @peterv1806
    @peterv18062 жыл бұрын

    This is an excellent video, the message of which is exceptionally profound.

  • @dougimmel

    @dougimmel

    Жыл бұрын

    One could take the transcript of this and SAVOR each and every thought she expresses, which may populate each phrase or sentence with vast ideas that could lead one in many directions. This was a RICH discourse ! I found myself pausing it often, sometimes several times in one sentence.

  • @peterv1806

    @peterv1806

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dougimmel - Well said. I agree!

  • @sheeladas2741
    @sheeladas27412 жыл бұрын

    I got all you said.thank you.God bless you.

  • @ishrakkhafagi984
    @ishrakkhafagi984 Жыл бұрын

    Great and applicable

  • @FleepFlop
    @FleepFlop4 жыл бұрын

    A calm talk amazing !

  • @timemixchine
    @timemixchine6 жыл бұрын

    I needed this in my life, thank you

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge69673 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful amazing soul. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @hamzatalib9926
    @hamzatalib99264 жыл бұрын

    That's true! beautifully explain mam..

  • @AnyaChuri
    @AnyaChuri6 жыл бұрын

    I wonder why does this video have just '380' likes whereas other gibberish talks have aplenty! Thank you! Pen to paper - noted!

  • @timkerbashian3817
    @timkerbashian38172 жыл бұрын

    great new perspective on writing, especially like the notion of 'Writing Therapy', and perhaps the underlying benefit of improved memory recall and new insights - would like to know more about 'Life Writing'

  • @autumn5852

    @autumn5852

    2 жыл бұрын

    Maybe you already know more, start the daily practice and find out

  • @tomsimpson197
    @tomsimpson1976 жыл бұрын

    Even though I've heard this before I thought it was amazing. Loved it.

  • @oanakeating8757

    @oanakeating8757

    6 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful, the best conference ever...

  • @aartimav7743
    @aartimav77433 жыл бұрын

    Finally you able to hear your own voice 😇writing therapy makes you an angel 😇 💖

  • @mindaugascechanavicius8892
    @mindaugascechanavicius88923 жыл бұрын

    quite simple and true words. thanx

  • @GordonTillmanTexas
    @GordonTillmanTexas2 жыл бұрын

    Great presentation. Reminds me of Natalie Goldberg's wonderful book: Writing Down the Bones.

  • @dannyasio8614
    @dannyasio86143 жыл бұрын

    I really love this talk. This is what I'm looking for. It inspires me a lot. I have many realizations now. I followed you in my twitter account.

  • @leonzhu6505
    @leonzhu6505 Жыл бұрын

    This speaker literally gives me ASMR with her voice.

  • @angelamcclain7276
    @angelamcclain72766 жыл бұрын

    Great and inspirational! :)

  • @QuynhNguyen-fe3mr
    @QuynhNguyen-fe3mr2 жыл бұрын

    This speak helps me a lot, it showed me how to write better by starting a new daily routine. I have to write so much for assignments, about some topics but I scared of writing even though I love reading books. Thank you, Nicoletta Demetriou!

  • @aryavijaykumar4700
    @aryavijaykumar47002 жыл бұрын

    Thank you all very much

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant23943 жыл бұрын

    This is kind of relaxing

  • @joaocongo2334
    @joaocongo2334Ай бұрын

    It should have more views!!

  • @learnandgrowrich1899
    @learnandgrowrich18992 жыл бұрын

    Thank you this video is needed for me

  • @TheChunder3
    @TheChunder310 ай бұрын

    I found this most interesting. I’d love to know how the fifteen minute writing sessions actually translated into ‘knowing’ your own voice. How was the writing analysed to inform? Thank you for your insights. I write a journal every day and I’ve learnt something new from this.

  • @sahiltodsam9609
    @sahiltodsam96095 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @subhadravm9973
    @subhadravm99734 жыл бұрын

    I'm going to try doing this...

  • @suewatson647
    @suewatson64711 ай бұрын

    Inspiring, thank you.

  • @RevivingElegance
    @RevivingElegance Жыл бұрын

    I will start doing the daily writing ASAP

  • @nafeezabolia9724
    @nafeezabolia97249 ай бұрын

    Very inspirational Thank you.

  • @Manojkumar-tm9nh
    @Manojkumar-tm9nh2 жыл бұрын

    Amazingly convincing

  • @rajkumarjena20
    @rajkumarjena203 жыл бұрын

    Thank You

  • @tomughazhimo7412
    @tomughazhimo74125 жыл бұрын

    Wow just wowwwww!!!!

  • @socialmediasakini5440
    @socialmediasakini54403 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for such an inspirational and informative talk. We have learned from this great speech about how the writing itself can contribute to knowing ourselves better. The writing in essence is the best way of discovering and realizing our thoughts, feelings and personality as well. As far as I am concerned I should say that the abilitiy of the expressing yourself in writing better than your colleagues or other students do gives you gives you more confidence and big opportunity to success in every part of your life.

  • @anitsingh483
    @anitsingh4836 жыл бұрын

    Remember jack Nicolson in the shining ...he wrote every single day too!

  • @maryjofelstead7156

    @maryjofelstead7156

    6 жыл бұрын

    ?

  • @moo.johnference869

    @moo.johnference869

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sanddollar252 Who , the writer ? If yes , than the entire world learned of his work.

  • @kimlec3592

    @kimlec3592

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sanddollar252 exactly. lol

  • @vijayarya9528
    @vijayarya95288 ай бұрын

    Thank u all very much

  • @Tomiokasan99
    @Tomiokasan992 жыл бұрын

    Thanks .

  • @manikandanu1507
    @manikandanu15074 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful voice

  • @thedesibong
    @thedesibong5 жыл бұрын

    That was deep

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant23943 жыл бұрын

    "You don't care if you spell or not." I wish she was my English teacher.

  • @sfvtkjdrhhdweg3481
    @sfvtkjdrhhdweg34813 жыл бұрын

    I've been journaling since 2008.

  • @ishrakkhafagi984
    @ishrakkhafagi9843 жыл бұрын

    Very good

  • @joshsblee
    @joshsblee4 жыл бұрын

    She is beautiful

  • @iflowlikewater

    @iflowlikewater

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@akshayadevi1220 did you recover from the stroke?

  • @jannarioo
    @jannarioo2 жыл бұрын

    I hope to hear my own voice too eventually!

  • @usham6199
    @usham61995 жыл бұрын

    Wtf where was I..lets think deeper into what shes trying to mean...best insight so far for me

  • @monave2938
    @monave29382 жыл бұрын

    Funny, I started doing this not so long ago, 15 minutes. I right the dreams when I remember them, do you?

  • @dougimmel

    @dougimmel

    Жыл бұрын

    YES !!!

  • @learnandgrowrich1899
    @learnandgrowrich18992 жыл бұрын

    I couldn't write continuously for 15 minutes, is it ok to take some time and let my mind wander somewhere so by this I can write my thoughts

  • @chrisscott7545
    @chrisscott75455 жыл бұрын

    Writing by hand for me was slow to capture the idea in its time. Thats why i moved to key board

  • @johnsexton4250
    @johnsexton42504 жыл бұрын

    I'm involved in 2 disciplines that wasted a lot of my parents money because I didn't really want to study at University.

  • @bariszj
    @bariszj Жыл бұрын

    nicoletta

  • @Bushify13
    @Bushify135 жыл бұрын

    Unintended ASMR

  • @alliemw

    @alliemw

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yessss!!!!!!

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant23943 жыл бұрын

    That one lady; just in the audience on her phone.

  • @samcolgin
    @samcolgin2 жыл бұрын

    hello fellow Creative Writing students

  • @SpeakWritePlayinEnglish
    @SpeakWritePlayinEnglish2 жыл бұрын

    15 minutes a day will turn into hours as time goes by. ;)

  • @michaelm1238
    @michaelm12385 жыл бұрын

    Im starting to find the more I listen to people telling me how to write and what rules to follow I am becoming less creative and in a sense mimicking others who failed to do what I aspire to do. You cannot be taught to be a great writer it has to be within you.

  • @DanielGomez-le5wo
    @DanielGomez-le5wo Жыл бұрын

    يجب عليهم القيام بتمارين البطن حيث يعمل الجزء العلوي من البطن. مع رفع الساقين ومحاولة لمس القدمين باليدين ومتغيراتهما التي تعمل بالجزء العلوي من البطن. سترى التحسينات بسرعة. هذا تمرين لعضلات البطن العلوية. سوف يقضي على الاكتئاب والقلق. كما أنه سيشفي عقلك. سيساعدك تمرين الجزء العلوي من البطن كثيرًا. و بسرعة.

  • @mylestelemaque2362
    @mylestelemaque23623 жыл бұрын

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  • @SyeedAli
    @SyeedAli5 жыл бұрын

    Wait, she doesn't actually write...

  • @mohanraja5099
    @mohanraja5099 Жыл бұрын

    Journaling find own mistakes

  • @paulgee4336
    @paulgee43366 жыл бұрын

    Lovely much? 10 years ago she must have been something and a half.

  • @LuckyStarCorral

    @LuckyStarCorral

    Ай бұрын

    Women become more lovely over time

  • @amituprety6631
    @amituprety66314 жыл бұрын

    A meditative experiment of GIBBERISH writing...

  • @YellowhatDick
    @YellowhatDick5 жыл бұрын

    THIS IS BORING! MY GAWD! I'm going to create a Patreon to fund a new lecture series called 'Topless TED'; That would have my interest!

  • @Djinga
    @Djinga6 жыл бұрын

    BORING, IRRELEVANT