Long Distance Marriage : How It Is Straining Relationships? | Case Study 8

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  • @SangoLifeSutras
    @SangoLifeSutrasАй бұрын

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  • @gr8today

    @gr8today

    Ай бұрын

    Vrs

  • @BharatKumar-et8xh

    @BharatKumar-et8xh

    Ай бұрын

    Vrs

  • @dinesh25meena
    @dinesh25meenaАй бұрын

    Why long distance marriage fail reason (1) loyalty problem (2)job (3) emotion stability issue (4) lack of time spend with wife

  • @SaiAbitathaDUCIC

    @SaiAbitathaDUCIC

    Ай бұрын

    Loyalty is not a problem in this case, honestly. Dishonest people would cheat anyway.

  • @wolfgang4429

    @wolfgang4429

    Ай бұрын

    Society ka structure hi aisa hai ki jin gharo me ladies ko job karne ka allow hota hai. To wo paisa kamane ke liye job krne bahar jati hai ab us chakkar me sasural me ek se ek problem aa sakti hai.

  • @amu808

    @amu808

    Ай бұрын

    Point 4

  • @haiderali-xk4ti
    @haiderali-xk4tiАй бұрын

    kindly make a video on urban girl marrying village boy..what problems she will face and solution

  • @aks7r

    @aks7r

    Ай бұрын

    Please chat or meet or call or a combination of all with boy don't rely on videos

  • @krishna_raj9331

    @krishna_raj9331

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@aks7r right.

  • @Spinster30

    @Spinster30

    Ай бұрын

    Don't marry below your standard..!! That's it.

  • @akashdobhal3054

    @akashdobhal3054

    Ай бұрын

    WhT😂😂

  • @madhavraj1650

    @madhavraj1650

    Ай бұрын

    Mt kr lyf hell ho jygi ladki ki

  • @LifeJoyAdventureVlogs
    @LifeJoyAdventureVlogsАй бұрын

    I was in the middle east in the lates 80s and we had married men living away from the wives for years on end, they could not bring the families back then, it was not easy. I observed relationships were formed i.e. local wife (gf). I would not judge them, not everyone is strong. I would never recommend this kind of a situation, no money is worth it.

  • @LifeJoyAdventureVlogs

    @LifeJoyAdventureVlogs

    Ай бұрын

    @izoldics those relationships were mostly hidden. from different countries.

  • @Staytruegoggins
    @StaytruegogginsАй бұрын

    You indeed are most sorted clarity giver in your target segment. Respect

  • @foodtechbydr.namratasutar9227
    @foodtechbydr.namratasutar9227Ай бұрын

    I wish i was 18 year younger .. Have done all mistakes no support .... still feel as if it was my past pending karmas. I wish you start a university of life beyond syllabus and that every one from 13 to 20.has to attend.

  • @satyanderbhadouriya4728

    @satyanderbhadouriya4728

    Ай бұрын

    I am 18 Years Younger So I Hope You Won't make me regret😅😅

  • @Practical_man70
    @Practical_man70Ай бұрын

    Guruji charanesparsh! 🙏🏻 Bahut kuch sikh keh apsey aab practical hone laga hoon!

  • @madhurani1441
    @madhurani1441Ай бұрын

    Nice topic sir ji, shravan kumar n khud sewa ki thi apne parents ki, apne kandho p baithaya tha unhe, aajkl k shravan kumar apni biwi se sewa karwaana chahte h apne parents ki

  • @nothanks0009

    @nothanks0009

    Ай бұрын

    Yes sravan Kumar was bachelor as well. That's why he could be so dedicated to his parents. Some people don't understand this. They want to have a married life and also want to have greatness of sravan kumar

  • @Equitylearners

    @Equitylearners

    Ай бұрын

    @@nothanks0009 Propaganda running here.... Sharvan Kumar was married and his wife was 'Manthara' . Manthara was the chief dasi of Queen Kaikeyi.

  • @TechwithLove1

    @TechwithLove1

    Ай бұрын

    Biwi ke nakhre bhi to hazar hain unko lagta hai ped lga ho paisa ka

  • @sagarpandey456

    @sagarpandey456

    Ай бұрын

    Haa plss dont marry

  • @lakshmikrithika2521

    @lakshmikrithika2521

    12 күн бұрын

    @@Equitylearnersthe point is even if he was married, He took it upon himself to do seva for his parents. He didn’t dump his wife on their parents to do seva

  • @dean_dinesh
    @dean_dineshАй бұрын

    All this is absolutely true,i have seen it infront of my eyes many families breaking 😮sad reality

  • @arjunsworld205
    @arjunsworld205Ай бұрын

    My In laws are from the village .. I am in Govt job . Since the time of birth of my child they have been forcing me and my husband to build them a house in the city so that they can bring their daughters children to live with them as schools are not good in villages . They want to create a khichri which I detest . My SIL doesn’t have in laws and hardly any relations with her husbands relatives. SIL husband interferes in our affairs a lot. My husband is posted in some remote hill location .

  • @naina763

    @naina763

    Ай бұрын

    I can sense u already r so much frustrated by ur in-laws... B them at village or in city near u.... 1. City life which ever it may b it is expensive..... In village ppl get whole month veggies for free or say half a rate than city.... In city only veggies will cost them 700 per month.... City life is overall expensive.... Doctors visit, education be it school,tution.... N overall lifestyle to maintain.... Who will take care of all this expenses???? Even u buy them a house??? Ask ur saas n saasur they can come at ur place but not ur sil... U can't afford... Straight away u can say...

  • @lakshmikrithika2521

    @lakshmikrithika2521

    12 күн бұрын

    Tell them there are good hostels and if SIL is really serious then send them to a good boarding school. 😂

  • @VivekSharma-zb1ek
    @VivekSharma-zb1ekАй бұрын

    sir, I’m subscribing your channel because I find you most relevant and practical person.

  • @vikasbhardwaj8743
    @vikasbhardwaj8743Ай бұрын

    Sir outstanding. Clear ideas.

  • @arundeep_r
    @arundeep_rАй бұрын

    Thank you for the advice Guruji ! Shravan Kumar comment was the greatest one !🔥 We are grateful for your Guidance 🙏

  • @Equitylearners

    @Equitylearners

    Ай бұрын

    Propaganda caught......😂😂Sharvan Kumar was married and his wife was 'Manthara' . Manthara was the chief dasi of Queen Kaikeyi.....

  • @Equitylearners

    @Equitylearners

    Ай бұрын

    Propaganda caught......😂😂Sharvan Kumar was married and his wife was 'Manthara' . Manthara was the chief dasi of Queen Kaikeyi.....

  • @arundeep_r

    @arundeep_r

    Ай бұрын

    @@Equitylearners Ohh 😯 Thanks for the Comment ! 🙌🔥

  • @bhumikayadav8458
    @bhumikayadav8458Ай бұрын

    U r doing a great work for society.. Thank u so much sir🙏

  • @Rush2KPK
    @Rush2KPKАй бұрын

    You are the best, Guruji❤

  • @andaz-e-Kaamini
    @andaz-e-KaaminiАй бұрын

    Good advice sir

  • @narinderkaur8403
    @narinderkaur8403Ай бұрын

    Exellent video. I knew that what will be your 2nd dialog after Sharvan kumar.Too real words.SHARVAN KUMAR WAS NOT MARRIED ❤

  • @kaushikkantak8271
    @kaushikkantak8271Ай бұрын

    Sir your every word is golden advice. God bless you sir. We need your teachings. Your are master. Respect

  • @abhaysoni926
    @abhaysoni926Ай бұрын

    Sir mai abhi padhai kr rha hu mere dad kw business bhi hai bjt mai abhi bahar ghr se dur rhke padhai kr rha hu lekin mujhko aage dad ks business hi dekhna hai toh kya sir mai abhi ghr chla jau hmehsa ke liye ya apni padhai poori kru..

  • @iamprishaaangelina7976
    @iamprishaaangelina7976Ай бұрын

    Guruji You have a killer mischievous smile, when you are sarcastic.😂😂😂

  • @TheChandanihm

    @TheChandanihm

    Ай бұрын

    Time stamp?

  • @Priya-rf7ov
    @Priya-rf7ovАй бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @jyotisinghbaghel1720
    @jyotisinghbaghel1720Ай бұрын

    Thankyou so much...

  • @vpn741
    @vpn741Ай бұрын

    Mere family me bhi ek h jisne Government teacher girl se marriage ki after marriage boy bhi government teacher ho gaya Ab Wife Rajasthan me posted h and husband 600KM door UP me posted h, last 5 years se dono apne apne maa baap ke sath rahte h aur shayad till the age of 60 alag hi rahenge

  • @NitinKumar-ln3ow
    @NitinKumar-ln3owАй бұрын

    Its an era of dating apps. So, concept of long distance marriage exists just to show society that we are happily married but internally they get engage with outside partners due to easy access of Tinder, POF etc etc. through mobile phone. I feel Amit sir you are not much aware about these apps. I can say hardly 1% couple due to spiritual reasons may not be using dating apps but rest every one every where and even office (concept of office spouse also there) find their like minded partners very easily. These days even normal marriage is struggling due to dating apps and you are discussing about long distance marriage and its solution through your pizza cost workshop 😅.

  • @collegenewsodisha9065
    @collegenewsodisha9065Ай бұрын

    You are 100% right sir

  • @HimanshuSharma-wp5uy
    @HimanshuSharma-wp5uyАй бұрын

    Guruji weekdays me job pe or weekend pe ghar aane par bhi yehi lagu hota hai??

  • @avneetyadav
    @avneetyadavАй бұрын

    Well said sir, salute

  • @shivanianand6182
    @shivanianand6182Ай бұрын

    Are the videos - case study 6 and 7 removed from the playlist???

  • @snehalawate7544
    @snehalawate7544Ай бұрын

    बोहोत सही बात करी आपने...😊🙏

  • @preetigarhwal5269
    @preetigarhwal5269Ай бұрын

    I agree with you

  • @matildamaher1505
    @matildamaher1505Ай бұрын

    I know three families both rheir husband works in Dubai and only one could come home a month a year. And the other would come after 3 years One of my relative where the wife goes to work as a teacher and comes home when the school holidays start. I would call that a marriage

  • @adityasangore5323
    @adityasangore5323Ай бұрын

    Brilliant video

  • @kishoremirchandani8671
    @kishoremirchandani8671Ай бұрын

    Thanks Sir 🙏

  • @soulseeker4465
    @soulseeker4465Ай бұрын

    Bhot dino baad itni bdiya video daali h guru ji

  • @chayanikachakraborty7821
    @chayanikachakraborty7821Ай бұрын

    You are right Sir

  • @arjunsworld205
    @arjunsworld205Ай бұрын

    Sir I will give you one true case study Husband posted in Small rural hilly town in Uttarakhand in Govt sector , Husband and wife from plain area of Uttarakhand. Wife recently delivered child and came to live with husband after recovery . Now wife is full of loneliness because can’t seem to adjust to culture of hills , relatives not there , no friends Evenings can get really boring in hills with long uphill distances to walk even for small amenities Wife adjusted for some. Time but now they keep fighting over petty issues 🙏

  • @arithmeticislove

    @arithmeticislove

    Ай бұрын

    Khaa posting h uttarakhand me?

  • @rameshwarprasadgurjar2378
    @rameshwarprasadgurjar2378Ай бұрын

    एकदम सही कहा गुरुजी

  • @user-mt2ux7hn7k
    @user-mt2ux7hn7kАй бұрын

    Very deep video

  • @BS.bhagati
    @BS.bhagati8 күн бұрын

    On this topic i leave my job HR professionals and now leaving with my family .nice topic you cover thanks

  • @user-zq4fn4gj7r
    @user-zq4fn4gj7rАй бұрын

    Sahi kaha

  • @Abhisheksharma-rf3qh
    @Abhisheksharma-rf3qhАй бұрын

    thanks

  • @akashkevin98
    @akashkevin98Ай бұрын

    Sir your videos are really good. 1. If possible, could you please make a video on loneliness and social isolation. 2. Also, could you please enable English subtitles in all of your videos.

  • @sahiladya8473
    @sahiladya8473Ай бұрын

    What about the armed forces people who sacrifice their life for the nation? Their family, children all suffers

  • @Raythelightlife

    @Raythelightlife

    Ай бұрын

    They can take their family when in peace posting

  • @rdj127

    @rdj127

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah they suffer its part of that job it requires scarifice

  • @niharikavarma4613
    @niharikavarma4613Ай бұрын

    Sir, Jo log dusre city me job kare ke liye jate hai vo?

  • @BUY.YOUTUB.VIEWS.314
    @BUY.YOUTUB.VIEWS.314Ай бұрын

    This video is a great resource for beginners.

  • @purpleflower2900
    @purpleflower2900Ай бұрын

    One thing I would like to say is that long distance marriage is an ancient thing and not a new age problem according to me. In earlier times it was quite a common thing that after marriage the man used to keep his newly married wife in his home and leave for work to long distant places. The newly married wife used to wait and wait in hope of her husband alone with the new in laws. In certain cases loyal husbands used to remember their wives but in many cases the wives existence was completely forgotten by the husbands. In many year times after marriage the wife was not brought to her in laws house and was kept in her parents house. Many years used to be spent without each other just in hope and memories......

  • @keshabroy6094

    @keshabroy6094

    26 күн бұрын

    We r not living in ancient prehistoric times.Those r outdated concepts no longer relevant

  • @rajjanawasthi5332
    @rajjanawasthi5332Ай бұрын

    Right sir

  • @nehasukanyasoni2000
    @nehasukanyasoni2000Ай бұрын

    Guru ji please make video on second marriage quality.

  • @undiyos
    @undiyosАй бұрын

    I request you to no repeat the earlier VRS webinar in case you wish to take a new webinar. Plus the GeMs idea is not working as the contractor again incurs under the table greasing costs. I would request you to touch more upon how the experience of job can be used to do professional consultancy after leaving the job. Also, discuss the framework to be established (saving/buffer etc.)in preparation of VRS /resignation in non pensionable service

  • @Equitylearners

    @Equitylearners

    Ай бұрын

    Ye janab apka nahi apna bhala karne ke liye youtube par aye h....... Tabhi to hamesa webinar ke nam par pizza ka paisa mangte rahte h

  • @AnkitShah55
    @AnkitShah55Ай бұрын

    Very butter words but True

  • @WatchB4UBuy
    @WatchB4UBuyАй бұрын

    Thank you. I was in dilemma. Ki mujhe in laws ke sath rehna chahiye ya nhi. But u made it clear 😊

  • @poojapursani2761
    @poojapursani2761Ай бұрын

    The 48 laws of power, ( very famous book) aap apne hissab se ,in your style rewrite lijiye. Bahut Mazza aayega😅

  • @nothanks0009
    @nothanks0009Ай бұрын

    14:58 golden words

  • @umeshsingh-nf5ki
    @umeshsingh-nf5kiАй бұрын

    If meeting in months for one or last week then

  • @critikasharma2335
    @critikasharma2335Ай бұрын

    Shravan Kumar bang on Sir!

  • @bubblessingh3510
    @bubblessingh35109 күн бұрын

    Uncleji my husband and I are both serving in the army and no matter how many letter we write , seniors officers we meet we don’t get postings together, after three yes of marriage this is the first time we are together and will be posted speeately again for another 6yrs with no respite from the govt . What do we do , we can’t leave our jobs. And we have two small kids

  • @kapilc7760
    @kapilc7760Ай бұрын

    Very true girl should not stay. Back else loyalty issue will come

  • @rajeshwarikumar7227
    @rajeshwarikumar7227Ай бұрын

    What happens when there are no kids , but husband wife live in different cities, because wife wants to work

  • @pradeepchandrashukla7657
    @pradeepchandrashukla7657Ай бұрын

    VRS need of hour.

  • @kapilc7760
    @kapilc7760Ай бұрын

    Very true we are like atm machine

  • @bandna2085
    @bandna2085Ай бұрын

    👌🏻🙏

  • @asheen_199
    @asheen_199Ай бұрын

    What about army people?? Shaadi hi nae karne chahiye????

  • @UttamKumar-ui4gh
    @UttamKumar-ui4ghАй бұрын

    sarkari naukri means defence ki jon jaha hard areas men family saath nahi rakh sakte

  • @workingMomlifeandpassion
    @workingMomlifeandpassion20 сағат бұрын

    Soldiers kya kare sir?

  • @sakshigupta3086
    @sakshigupta3086Ай бұрын

    Relationship

  • @prashaantkr
    @prashaantkrАй бұрын

    Guru ji aaj to Acharya Prashant jasi baat kar di 😊

  • @arjunsworld205
    @arjunsworld205Ай бұрын

    🙏👍👍👍

  • @aradhnasrivastava4471
    @aradhnasrivastava4471Ай бұрын

    Sir single mother son marriage side effect pr video bnaye

  • @sghosh22
    @sghosh22Ай бұрын

    👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

  • @swaatigautam111
    @swaatigautam111Ай бұрын

    VRS... pls sir make a video on this topic... M a female n working in Govt. Sector.. want to quit job..n try to earn some other ways.. bt m clueless..how to initiate in this direction

  • @tnin5634

    @tnin5634

    Ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @Equitylearners

    @Equitylearners

    Ай бұрын

    Not easy to quit Govt. job...... Mungeri Lal ke hasin Sapne.....

  • @Beauty_Factory

    @Beauty_Factory

    Ай бұрын

    Me too....naikari ki wajah se shadi nahi ho pa rahi h. Remote location, but not that much.😢

  • @Equitylearners

    @Equitylearners

    Ай бұрын

    @@Beauty_Factory Which post you hold and where

  • @Equitylearners

    @Equitylearners

    Ай бұрын

    @@tnin5634 kaun si job h jo itna pareshan ho chhodne ke liye

  • @akshaychand2783
    @akshaychand2783Ай бұрын

    VRS

  • @Muskansays24

    @Muskansays24

    Ай бұрын

    Member banne ke kitna value add hua h aapka kindly share feedback?

  • @bhaveshdarwani412
    @bhaveshdarwani412Ай бұрын

    Kya ye humari baat kari jaa rahi.... Naukri karno walo ka jivan bhot jhand hai ....ghar ka sara comfort chhod kar dusri jagah buri tarike se rehna...bekar khana khana...do ghar chalana...

  • @_aditya.sawant_
    @_aditya.sawant_Ай бұрын

    Make a video on sending kids to hostel

  • @sharksofsteel2080
    @sharksofsteel2080Ай бұрын

    VRS..

  • @asheesh_arora_0019
    @asheesh_arora_0019Ай бұрын

    Make Video On Intercaste Marriages in Nortindia

  • @BALVINDER-Singh

    @BALVINDER-Singh

    Ай бұрын

    Already made

  • @vipinaggarwal51
    @vipinaggarwal51Ай бұрын

    What about 14 days duty and 14 days at home

  • @ssss-cl3tf
    @ssss-cl3tfАй бұрын

    I have this problem..female..send me link

  • @DReet1999
    @DReet1999Ай бұрын

    What about 2 struggling doctors?

  • @lerner3887
    @lerner3887Ай бұрын

    Vrs

  • @sarveshandpoonamdayal713
    @sarveshandpoonamdayal713Ай бұрын

    Relatiinship

  • @divyarajput884
    @divyarajput884Ай бұрын

    Sir I'm a lady ,,, लिविंग आउटसाइड for government job,,,, feeling stress

  • @arjunsworld205

    @arjunsworld205

    Ай бұрын

    I can understand you sister .. mere husband aur mein Govt job mein hain alag alag posted hain . Bahut problem hai In laws ke apne agenda chalte rehte hain .. I still think of leaving job so many times . But I know Govt job na nigali jati hai na ugali

  • @himanshubhola9167
    @himanshubhola9167Ай бұрын

    Vra

  • @gurudev6446
    @gurudev6446Ай бұрын

    Sir merchant navy wale kya kre..

  • @snehalpatil1055

    @snehalpatil1055

    Ай бұрын

    I'm wife of mariner😅😅 muje bhi yahi sawal puchana tha

  • @lakshmikrithika2521

    @lakshmikrithika2521

    12 күн бұрын

    I really believe mariners should retire earlier. They earn a LOT. and it’s tax free money. So just put an aim ki itna paisa collect hone ke baad I will stop my work. That way your employment satisfaction is there as well as family enjoyment. I don’t think mariners should work beyond 45. At max. Otherwise then you would have missed your entire youth as well as your child’s childhood. My friends father is a gas ship captain. 6 months home 6 months on ship. Unko 4 bacche unke aas paas aise mehmaano ki tarah ghoomte hai it’s so awkward to see. Though he gets the girls lots of expensive gifts. Or takes them holiday whenever they halt. But they see him as just that. An ATM. It’s actually awkward to see their interaction with their father😅

  • @bhavesh1962
    @bhavesh1962Ай бұрын

    Rohit is rohit......

  • @rohitsawant5805

    @rohitsawant5805

    Ай бұрын

    Bhai mujhe kyu toda mein toh single hu😂

  • @harshrao2716
    @harshrao2716Ай бұрын

    vrs

  • @vipinkumar-dt3qf
    @vipinkumar-dt3qfАй бұрын

    My age 28 I am working in police

  • @BabanKhatke

    @BabanKhatke

    Ай бұрын

    Kmao do no phir.

  • @SachKaSaath772
    @SachKaSaath772Ай бұрын

    Kisi bhi divorcy ko fresh dulha nahi mil raha mere khaandaan mein 9 divorcy ladies ki shaadi divorcy se hee hui hai.

  • @lakshmikrithika2521

    @lakshmikrithika2521

    12 күн бұрын

    My own friend is a divorcee but she got married to a non married guy. There are a lot of factors that come into play. Like the age of girl. Prior years of marriage. Kids if any. Koi ek factor nahi hai😅

  • @user-cd3yr2eo5k
    @user-cd3yr2eo5kАй бұрын

    Women keep affairs when husbands move out 😢

  • @parul264
    @parul264Ай бұрын

    Sir, what if a woman is working away? And now her husband is saying that I married you so you can do seva of my parents .. what should that woman do?

  • @parul264

    @parul264

    Ай бұрын

    @izoldics husband is not willing to do that

  • @jk-gz5hx

    @jk-gz5hx

    Ай бұрын

    Mt kr

  • @anjaliguglani7155
    @anjaliguglani7155Ай бұрын

    Make video in laws toxic behaviour after love marriage….living with unmarried sil….. parents hating the couple living happily

  • @artikumari4618
    @artikumari4618Ай бұрын

    Aap 15year back chl rhe hain

  • @amitparuthi123
    @amitparuthi123Ай бұрын

    kisi ko ni milta divorce ke baad ya to 40+ ka hi koi fresh milta hai

  • @bhavesh1962
    @bhavesh1962Ай бұрын

    Mai Mai Mai Mai Mai....I I I I I

  • @rohitbhardwaj20

    @rohitbhardwaj20

    Ай бұрын

    What does it mean ?

  • @arpanmadrecha946
    @arpanmadrecha946Ай бұрын

    @madhurani1441- the problem is the parents not passing away on time if they pass away early then all problems resolved

  • @hemanyadav1303

    @hemanyadav1303

    Ай бұрын

    Aree🤐🤐

  • @madhurani1441

    @madhurani1441

    Ай бұрын

    Parents should live happily in their own house away from their married children and not create nuisance and chaos in their children's married life.

  • @bharatbhushan-ux1vb
    @bharatbhushan-ux1vbАй бұрын

    VRS

  • @andaz-e-Kaamini
    @andaz-e-KaaminiАй бұрын

    Vrs

  • @SuperHemant786
    @SuperHemant786Ай бұрын

    vrs

  • @Risk_Manager567
    @Risk_Manager567Ай бұрын

    VRS

  • @amolchorghe
    @amolchorgheАй бұрын

    VRS

  • @tanujasharma5071
    @tanujasharma5071Ай бұрын

    VRS