Loneliness

Why did I feel lonely? How to be with loneliness peacefully.

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  • @YourFrienjamin
    @YourFrienjamin3 жыл бұрын

    Funny how we feel lonely in a world full of people. You made great points, Jon. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  • @Cheriesgardenvegplot
    @Cheriesgardenvegplot3 жыл бұрын

    Jon, you sound as though you are such a kind and gentle man. I love your honesty and compassion.

  • @hanibordeau8881
    @hanibordeau88813 жыл бұрын

    Anyone here from Morocco loves this person?? I hope to meet u in pan pan .. I willl do my best to come to thailand and visit u.. all my love from Morocco

  • @sheilavalsan1242
    @sheilavalsan12423 жыл бұрын

    I just love your videos. It makes sense to me to go back to nature even more. I live in the city by no choice. Keep sharing Jon.

  • @francescopaci1080
    @francescopaci10803 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this beautiful message, please go on with your videos, your words mean a lot for me and you' re very precious to me. I feel i have just one Life and my Dream Is to live It happily, your life esperience Means that it's possible. Thank you Jon, a hug from Italy.

  • @cgreen777
    @cgreen7773 жыл бұрын

    Loneliness is epidemic in modern world, especially amongst the elderly. It makes them die sooner.

  • @rudysie4610

    @rudysie4610

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree,,loneliness is epidemic in modern world

  • @LiLoTech

    @LiLoTech

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know that's what is reported, but I know people who are between 90-104 who are lonely but are fairly healthy. It's not necessarily a limit to a long life.

  • @jonioscar1386
    @jonioscar13863 жыл бұрын

    Dear Jon..I think you should supplement this series on loneliness with a video on 'building community' from zero. I'm big fan of you now thank you from Bintan💐

  • @sonylimena2933

    @sonylimena2933

    3 жыл бұрын

    Am from Bogor and am agree with you..

  • @WhatDadIsUpTo
    @WhatDadIsUpTo Жыл бұрын

    I live alone intentionally, way out in the country and I LOVE IT ! I would have it NO other way. To me, living alone is freedom and independence, not lonely, not pain, not suffering. Perhaps I should explain: I'm autistic.

  • @askaritradingengineeringco5590
    @askaritradingengineeringco55904 жыл бұрын

    Dear Jon,A good video in current scenario.Strong connection with family and friend always help to cure loneliness. Regards

  • @olekluften9776

    @olekluften9776

    3 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree with you and Jon.

  • @klytouch7515

    @klytouch7515

    2 жыл бұрын

    Crazy monk... loneliness is when you abandon logical views and values of mankind as it is.. hmmm... hmmm... have more advertising please..😡

  • @Tienganhmrtuan
    @Tienganhmrtuan4 жыл бұрын

    We feel lonely because we spend too much time doing our work nowadays.

  • @russellm7530

    @russellm7530

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah and our rulers intentionally divide us. Divide and conquer. That's part of why they say to social distance.

  • @manuelpreciado6442
    @manuelpreciado64424 жыл бұрын

    you just described me , my family and friends i appreciate your words of wisdom

  • @rakeshbandi2840
    @rakeshbandi2840 Жыл бұрын

    Great point I'm feeling lonely these days due to my thinking which is very different from others

  • @vagabondrob888
    @vagabondrob8883 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your wise words Jon. I hope i can meet you at Pun Pun on day.

  • @Deocharlesc
    @Deocharlesc3 жыл бұрын

    We come on earth Alone, we will leave Alone. Do our best to serve one another and make the world a better place so we don't regret it when we are done.

  • @kaijashililifa5068
    @kaijashililifa50682 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful teaching.

  • @bencyber8595
    @bencyber85953 жыл бұрын

    Jon , you never hide your inner feeling . & you speak forth from the bottom of your heart , Thank you

  • @randyfree6009
    @randyfree60093 жыл бұрын

    Jon I would be your friend in a heartbeat!

  • @San-wl5tw

    @San-wl5tw

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!

  • @balasubramanianp1372
    @balasubramanianp13724 жыл бұрын

    Very nice hearing your words

  • @donnajohnson9324
    @donnajohnson93243 жыл бұрын

    I find a lot of people can not be on their own because it is to quit the tv has got to be on all the time some sort of noise in the city's, I live in the bush and I love just listening to the birds or just the wind

  • @elliottjames671
    @elliottjames6713 жыл бұрын

    Loneliness is so good and easy🙂

  • @ralphfurley4217
    @ralphfurley42174 жыл бұрын

    Love the channel. You remind me of Mr. Rogers.

  • @San-wl5tw
    @San-wl5tw2 жыл бұрын

    13:45 -how everybody wants to receive love but nobody gives it away.

  • @ButWhyMe...

    @ButWhyMe...

    Жыл бұрын

    Social constructs invented by capitalist industries under capitalism have screwed us all.

  • @niki-ez3dt
    @niki-ez3dt4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks sir for your great teachings.

  • @freesoul589
    @freesoul5893 жыл бұрын

    You are, You are inside yourself, Dont worry about pain, You are inside yourself, Neither you live nor you die, You just feel the time pass by, You bliss out after a deep breath of relief, You are, You just are!

  • @godnkr236
    @godnkr2364 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. I love your videos! I can feel they are full of wisdoms 🥰

  • @CurleyTheDog
    @CurleyTheDog Жыл бұрын

    very good point so true what you said!

  • @marymungai4429
    @marymungai44292 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Master Jon indeed I have suffered loneliness and it can lead to other problems like insecurity depression, low self esteem. May God help us to connect with a people a community and person whom we will share life and enjoy love and joy

  • @teovanteo6283
    @teovanteo62832 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @followbruceleeswhiterabbit3812
    @followbruceleeswhiterabbit38123 жыл бұрын

    Awesome vid of this truth

  • @WillW
    @WillW3 жыл бұрын

    Such a great message. Thanks Jon.

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo3 жыл бұрын

    Great message thank you

  • @avashjoshi5800
    @avashjoshi58004 жыл бұрын

    Thanx sir 👍👊👊

  • @MonaKASA
    @MonaKASA4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you this has helped me a lot

  • @natashadickson4819
    @natashadickson48193 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Jon. ❤️ From Maryland USA

  • @normabayongasan2127
    @normabayongasan21273 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your advice and your teachings be safe and healthy always

  • @artiesanchez
    @artiesanchez3 жыл бұрын

    Pure Dharma. 🙏🏽

  • @tertiusvanstaden1586
    @tertiusvanstaden15863 жыл бұрын

    Good reply Sanjay. I mean to say:- you should also do that. "Learn about capitalism" . Definition starts with "free trade": Now the big problem here is:- Show me one capitalistic system that allows free trade. All trade is regulated by laws and by by-laws everywhere. How free is that trade? People are brainwashed to support and believe in a system which can work well, but they do not realize that they are just a small wheel driven by smaller wheels and driving a bigger wheel in a machine which define your time spent. We are not capitalists - we are a possessions/instruments of the capitalist. Now, I have deducted that Jon refers to capitalism as it is practiced, and not as it is meant to be. So, if you rewind and listen to him again, you might find value in what is said.

  • @luthermohandas5213

    @luthermohandas5213

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said.

  • @ButWhyMe...

    @ButWhyMe...

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. He is one step from radicalizing his followers. Keeping anti-capitalism simple also helps though.

  • @donnajohnson9324
    @donnajohnson93243 жыл бұрын

    Your words are so true now I am older what you say makes so much seance thank you

  • @niacinberry5
    @niacinberry53 жыл бұрын

    Good morning Jon..Love I send to you from Maine USA..Much Loves... Love of your manners of truly loving to share..to give..to meditate for us all as new found families..and awakening to Greater Joys and Happiness within and around us. You are Handsome with these Loves you have of humanity..natures..even the soil of the earth needs to be Loved with True cares for healthier growths of. Not just crops but the filtering of water..the building of nutrient dusts and ..beneficial insects. So much. is lost to separations...we are all individuals. in a Better Collective Families...we Each Individually give our best in ways that we may rest and maintain our health..so that as another rests..yet another is awake and rested to carry on in each their own special abilities..while willingly learning the ways of others so each has multiple abilities..even tho not equal to those more abled in their speciality...we can maintain while they rest. What on earth is the Most healthy of. Medicinal Collectives ? The honey bees..they toil and rest..and produce the Best Healing medicines called. Honey..a variety that heals internally and even applied to heal external wounds etc. I send you Jon True Loves a lot since I first met you. Loves of Thank You..Loves of Big Smiles You Cause me to have. Loves of how you re teach to see Honesty in self and look for it in all others. Loves of Heart and Mind..because You are helping to Heal my Soul..and body. Loves to help me Care More tho I am getting into my last phase of living on this earth.Loves to keep learning and sharing when any want to listen..Love of Taking time to touch the natures that I became blind to until your videos. So much Loves you give. and too to be ok Loving myself in personal ways from careful foods to sexual gratification .I no longer feel shames for sexual self gratification now ...Because You Showed Me Your Honesty of Facing even religious fears that were taught as naughty and sinful..by humans whom we now know to be sick minded raping and molesting children worldwide !!!! I have been alone for 31 years..bitter for 26 of them..because I Loved a man whom Never Loved me except for the facts I Never said no to him. When he left me for another woman with. Monies and huge breasts..and told me hateful words to make me see myself as less than her..I died inside...and then I began to love being alone..and to love lonliness..to use lonliness to Punish my Innocent self enough to teach myself to Never. Love Any Man Ever Again. Today I have no more desires to be with a man..and not a woman either...it is like those natural human emotions and needs have walked away out of me... My olde lifestyle O of living in the woods among wild things is beginning to come forwards..but my body is not young and subtle any more...I cannot rely on myself for Springtime wood to cook and be warm..let alone the Very Cold Winters here....lol..time and Harsh events have been my sickness to try and figure out the cures to and for. My Faults..my Mother taught me well..but the church taught me to Keep Forgiving even unto death..and I have been pronounced dead 18 times in my lifetime from Severe Abuses by men in my life..doctors demanding I have to take medicines that I am Allergic to..because another medicine would control my allergic reactions to those poisons....now we are allowed to Refuse such here in Maine..and vaccines too.. Many doctor here now come from your regions..and they offer natural remedies for us.. Many surgeons too are here..Excellent cares too. Our own USA doctors Push Poisons mostly now..and Many of us are telling such to keep it for their families and friends ..we do Not want such poisons any more. Love Sir Jon..Much Loves I send you just. remembering your voice of Beauty..your eyes speak of much pains yet inside you..I 'll send You Loves ..Lots of Thoughtful Loves thru the sun. moon stars and heavens above you as well as Loves through the earth that yet touches lands to lands worldwide even beneath the greatest depths of oceans..rivers and seas...I will send you Much Loves from my feet touching the earth here and it will carry such Loves and Appreciations to you in many aware ways of natures...on the waves of winds and energies of tiniest dust particles..be Loved Jon. and every exhale release more of your lonliness to be replaced with inhaled of Much Loves from us All whom You are Healing. Peace Love Joy and many Thanks for such a Wonderful Person you are. Sincerely..with Loves. Moi from Maine. USA. I am learning to do comments..and though my abilities to reply to replies is very difficult for me..brain surgeries make new ways difficult to stay with...do not think me insincere because of this. I do not need any response from you..Because. I have a healing energy that when someone is bleeding. I can stop it...many here have this and other charms for healing..even a toothache..it is Not demons ..it comes from within ..a Gift from higher powers. I have Greater Awareness now..sensitivities. as a healer ..tho why it never helped me to become as one with a Loving life partner I shall never know ...yet if there is another life after this one..my desire is to be a subtle natured creature..one that is well camoflauged from humans ..and having a long life as does the turtle...or elephant in deepest jungle terrains .

  • @clbtienganhnile3080
    @clbtienganhnile30803 жыл бұрын

    I am T from Việt Nam. It is very nice to know you. I love all your videos.

  • @TheGlassasylum
    @TheGlassasylum3 жыл бұрын

    How can anyone feel lonely while you are in the world, sharing your dream life, and the accumulated knowledge on how to be successful. Thank you. You are living my dream life, and I'm learning from you.

  • @ejorain7074
    @ejorain70743 жыл бұрын

    I'm very impressed with you. you inspired me.. jon jandai can you tell us about alternative treatment for self reliant

  • @human8368
    @human83684 жыл бұрын

    Too goood

  • @nn-cf6qx
    @nn-cf6qx4 жыл бұрын

    ขอบคุณที่ทำให้เข้าใจบางอย่างดีขึ้น... ความเหงามันเกิดขึ้นกับหนูบ่อยมากทั้งๆที่อยู่ในสังคมเจอคนทุกๆวัน.. แต่เพราะหนูคิดว้าแค่มีทอสัพยูทูปก้อไม่เหงาแล้ว.. ครอบครัวก้อต่างคนต่างเล่นทอสัพในเวลาว่างกันแทบจะไม่มีเวลาคุยหรือหยอกล้อกัน.. กินก้อแลเวแต่ใครสะดวก.. ครอบครัวหนูเป็นแบบนี้.. จนมาวันนี้เจอคลิปคุณโจน.. เพิ่งเข้าใจว่าสิ่งที่คิดว่า.. กับสิ่งที่เรารู้และทำ.. มันทำร้ายตัวเองและครอบครัว..

  • @JamesDeWeaver
    @JamesDeWeaver3 жыл бұрын

    "All my loneliness I have felt today It's like a little more than enough To make a man throw himself away" Burning of the Midnight Lamp Song by Jimi Hendrix

  • @wk3960
    @wk39603 жыл бұрын

    TQ 🙏🙏🙏

  • @danielsooweiszen4337
    @danielsooweiszen43372 жыл бұрын

    I strongly recommend you put Chinese subtitles, that would have a lot more people able to watch your video definitely worth the efforts.

  • @Havinginyoureyes
    @Havinginyoureyes3 жыл бұрын

    Advance technology to connect society but still society feel loneliness

  • @Deocharlesc
    @Deocharlesc3 жыл бұрын

    Many are true what you said but Loneliness also like Sickness in your other video, it brings people back and THINK about themselves, so most lonely people actually smart. Too many friends and freedom somehow is like too much party, soon poverty and ignorance. I think we need balance of Simple Life and Capitalist Life, one thing village children lack of is discipline and conventional school makes them obey. So if Home Schooling also include marching, disciplining and stay on top of education system using Hands On experiences, then it will be the Best. DON'T FORGET your past experience make you realize all these, a village boy who didn't go through what you went will not recognize and think about work efficiently, they will continue to be backward until old.

  • @daisuketakahashigovernment9601
    @daisuketakahashigovernment96013 жыл бұрын

    From the grand Elder the la Parama: Right you are...

  • @zenzen6417
    @zenzen64173 жыл бұрын

    Some call him John, Some call him Guru.

  • @kudamuyun3173
    @kudamuyun31733 жыл бұрын

    What happened to "Long Distance Loves" couples 😇

  • @jonahcombs451
    @jonahcombs4513 жыл бұрын

    I feel broken by the system

  • @daisuketakahashigovernment9601
    @daisuketakahashigovernment96013 жыл бұрын

    From the grand Elder the la Parama: We are Terrestrial Social Beings.

  • @devbachu7072
    @devbachu70722 жыл бұрын

    Why lonely i do not have my famuly suport so i know cannot count on them i have thi gs to keep me ocupies garden teavelling

  • @bronsky1410
    @bronsky14103 жыл бұрын

    I need a tree fort

  • @ligbzd837
    @ligbzd8373 жыл бұрын

    Today's kids grow up with little to no social skills because of capitalism culture. We value "money, stuff, and status more than family and/or being together. Something is seriously wrong. And those who finally see this will benefit by changing their lives completely.

  • @ButWhyMe...

    @ButWhyMe...

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Loneliness is profitable under capitalism and stops people from organizing against the economy.

  • @rogathesarwatt
    @rogathesarwatt3 жыл бұрын

    I'm lonely somebody somewhere please

  • @stefankong4295

    @stefankong4295

    3 жыл бұрын

    Heya. You're not.

  • @mipueblo7042

    @mipueblo7042

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey

  • @rogathesarwatt

    @rogathesarwatt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thnsk you guys I'm fine

  • @ronimogy1133
    @ronimogy11333 жыл бұрын

    Capitalist don’t hate happiness, they just don’t know what it is about. They have using the other side of the brain- analytical brain. Different people. Don’t let yourself disconnect from others, don’t send kids to school.

  • @ButWhyMe...

    @ButWhyMe...

    Жыл бұрын

    Capitalists need to profit uber alles, at the expense of everything else.

  • @rinzualapachuau4894
    @rinzualapachuau48942 жыл бұрын

    4

  • @mrnegative48
    @mrnegative483 жыл бұрын

    i wouldn't blame capitalism for everything, it is government control and technology that are the main problems. The lack of a place called home (village life or strong community) and the fact that people are disposable. It's very hard to build strong friendships because people dont share and there is no shared adversity we all have our own goals not community goals.

  • @SanjayFGeorge
    @SanjayFGeorge3 жыл бұрын

    Stupid video. Try to understand what Capitalism is before your criticise it. Understand the difference between Capitalism and Corporatism. You are advocating a collectivism which is the opposite of individualism and freedom.

  • @SanjayFGeorge

    @SanjayFGeorge

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Alex-wk1jv Even if he is refering to it, what is wrong with the culture of consumerism and modern lifestyle? For most of humanity's existence we lived in squalid poverty. And do you think that it is wrong for humans to live so comfortably ? Is it bad that people get more goods and services from their labours today than their ancestors did? The kings of old had a lower standard of living than many of today's poor. And the blame for any faults is to be laid at the feet of the Keynesian Welfare State and not at the feet of what you wrongly call "neoliberal" economics. There is nothing "neo" about a free market - (true) liberalism / capitalism is a timeless and fundamental law of economics and of nature. When you let Capitalism work freely and unfettered, it frees resources to go where they are most productive and multiplies humanity's wealth. However, when you print more currency to make up for your budget deficit, you get higher prices due to more currency chasing the same number of goods. Budget deficits only occur when there are authorities in power who do not have to pay for their bad decisions except maybe an electoral loss. Modernity (and with it, capitalism) has been a boon for individual freedom. The modern welfare fiscal deficit nation state is regimented and high-tax because someone has to pay for all the bribes cronyists have given their political puppets and also for the bribes the politicians have given envious voters through subsidies. Don't blame the manufacturer of a car for the death of it's drunken driver who stole it from someone else. Contrary to your romantic misconception and claim, a traditional village community had NO individual freedom. The post-industrial nation state freed man from the shackles of his tribe and granted him the option of privacy if he so chose it. Traditional communal villages had zero rent because there was nothing worth paying a decent rent for, 'no bills' because the economy was so small that accounts could be easily maintained with human memory and no taxes (if you discoun the fuedal lord). They had no regulations except for the more insidious and powerful prohibitions and obligations imposed by society and no planning commissions except for those which determined crop plantation, human breeding, and when to raid the next village. Probably the only good thing about a society where you are enslaved to your tribe is fewer zoning laws, no licenses, little pollution, and no bosses except parents and elders. Capitalism and industrial progress have been a boon for “individual freedom.” But since you sit on KZread all day inside a box surrounded by a dying planet I would recommend you watch George Carlin's "Saving The Planet".