Omg ur so real for mentioning the preplanning convos 😭😭

@MariaMulokole

Ай бұрын

Lool, I gotta be prepared sis🧍🏾‍♀️😭❤️

@lmaoaims

Ай бұрын

@@MariaMulokole honestly!!!!

I've never related to a video more. I also replay awkward interactions with people over and over in my mind 😅 and forget about the positive ones. With social media being so common I think there's actually a lot of us. Love your channel btw ❤

@MariaMulokole

Ай бұрын

Omds yesss!! I’ve literally stayed up at night replaying interactions😭🧍🏾‍♀️it’s tough out here LOL. But honestly I’m glad to know we’re not the only ones x & wow thank you SOO much!!!😭❤️❤️❤️ you don’t know just how much I needed to see this comment rn (I was feeling discouraged & in my own head- so thank u again!🩷)

I feel it even with my fam members, there's literally no person in the world i can be fully comfortable with. Like gosh even now i feel shame to share this, even if it's just a message on KZread...

@MariaMulokole

Ай бұрын

Awh, don’t feel ashamed love🫂❤️ (there’s nothing new under the sun!! Meaning, many ppl around the world, feel the same way u do.) Maybe there’s underlying, unhealed trauma? I know that’s a major contributing factor in my case at least🙏🏾. Whatever the reason may be, I pray things can change for u (& all of us) very soon, as we were made to be social beings 💕x

Social anxiety is such a vicious curse. It definitely took me to a dark place. In retrospect... I think it started veering into psychosis at times.

@MariaMulokole

22 күн бұрын

Social anxiety really can get to the extremes sometimes😭

I also avoid as much human interaction as I can. I will always go to the self checkouts, I also never or rarely meet new people and it takes me years to make bonds with people.

@MariaMulokole

9 сағат бұрын

You get meeee!😭💘

@MariaMulokole

9 сағат бұрын

The anxiety I get whenever I know, I have to leave the house is a joke🥲🧍🏾‍♀️

Girlllllll this is me, except that i am an introvert with social anxiety. I am so glad online shopping exists.😂😂😂😂 Funny thing is, when i connect with other introverts, i feel like an extrovert. We get loud and talkative. Sometimes i think it's coz of how we connect psychologically and relate to each others' dilemas. I am learning to drive at 31yrs old so i can avoid even using taxis and uber. You know what's crazier, i work in healthcare but i never feel anxiety around my patients but rather work colleagues. 😂😂 Yes hun, small talk is a struggle for me and i do mentally prepare for every conversation. Social anxiety is the bane of my existance but in a weird way, it has also protected me from alot. I just take everyday as it comes.

@MariaMulokole

Ай бұрын

Listennnnn, when I say online shopping saved my life yh😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🧍🏾‍♀️. & I totally get what u mean about sometimes feeling like the ‘extrovert’ around others, lolol💕. Siss, I’m supposed to have started driving well over a year ago but I’m such a procrastinator🤦🏾‍♀️. It’s ok tho, I’ll learn this summer🙏🏾. I’ve never had a problem with taxis & Ubers since it’s just me but things like crowded buses are a NO❌🙅🏾‍♀️😭. And awhh, that just shows u feel at home (comfortable) with ur patients🥺, colleagues are often a different story for many ppl aha x. Your last point is a fact! I believe it’s ironically protected/saved me from a lot too. God bless u & thank u for checking out my channel, my love❤️

I was meant to find your videos, this is literally me 😭😭

@MariaMulokole

Ай бұрын

Well then, I’m happy u found my videos bæ!😭🫂❤️

This is me to a T, girl~ Social anxiety isa bitch and it's even more annoying when you're aware of it and still don't know how it came about or how to confront it 😩 but take it one day at a time sis~ understand that you are a beautiful person, a beautiful soul, wit a beautiful heart. Your channel really helps me know that i'm not experiencing this life alone and i truly appreciate your content💛💛

@MariaMulokole

24 күн бұрын

Wow sis, thank u for this comment😭. Honestly, the amount of ppl saying they can relate, really shows there’s nothing new under the sun. There’s always someone, somewhere experiencing the exact same thing as u.. crazy! But yh, like u said, it feels good to know you’re not alone🫂. We got this!❤️

@sakora.j

24 күн бұрын

@@MariaMulokole 🥹🫂

Okay someone pls tell me if they relate😭. lately I have been trying to combat my social anxiety. When I’m talking to ppl whether ik them or not I physically can’t look them in the eye and so, I’ll force myself to look them in the eye and forget to blink because I’m so nervous. I get scared that they will notice that I will mess up and then I get worried they will ask me why I am crying 🤣

@MariaMulokole

Ай бұрын

Girl, it’s truly a battle out here lololol😭🤣. Glad to know I’m not the only one tho with the eye contact thing x

@lmaoaims

Ай бұрын

@@MariaMulokole sighhh we must stay united😔✊🏾

social anxiety is the worst :( and i also get those random surges of extroverted-ness that i can’t explain. one thing that’s been helping me deal with social anxiety is reminding myself how courageous of a person you have to be in order to live with it! it makes me feel so much better interacting with others and the world. you really are courageous for still trying even if it is overwhelming and uncomfortable 🫶🏿☺️. the worst that can happen is an embarrassing or sour situation, but it happens to all of us and eventually you move on from it. the world doesn’t end, thankfully lol 😭💀. this really helps me put myself out there and relieve my nerves. no matter how you feel socially, you can handle it. and your existence alone is proof of that. 🫶🏿 baby steps!

@MariaMulokole

Ай бұрын

Finally, someone who relates to the surges of being extroverted!!!😭 I’m sure if anyone ever caught me in those moments, would refuse to believe I even have social anxiety loooool xxx “your existence alone is proof of that” !!! That’s a golden nugget right there sis✨ Thank u for ur wise & kind words! Especially, on how to deal with it🙏🏾💕 ur the best☺️💋