Living My Nightmare (Part 1)

Thanks for watching and letting me open up about what this last year has looked like for me.
Stay tuned for part 2.
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  • @SLOANHOOKS
    @SLOANHOOKS2 жыл бұрын

    we are here for you Shyla!

  • @yasminejones7842

    @yasminejones7842

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are on a grind for real

  • @shir4762

    @shir4762

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your in the video

  • @flower998-4

    @flower998-4

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes we are! sloan always supported Shayla💜

  • @evyluv0

    @evyluv0

    2 жыл бұрын

    You’re in the video!

  • @juniorgt8301

    @juniorgt8301

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes we are

  • @elenisophia
    @elenisophia2 жыл бұрын

    You know you're healing when you can talk about your story with so much poise and clarity

  • @diannesmith5186

    @diannesmith5186

    2 жыл бұрын

    ^Facts agreed with her

  • @roxanabeautyshine7360

    @roxanabeautyshine7360

    2 жыл бұрын

    exactly

  • @ralphiesmommy

    @ralphiesmommy

    2 жыл бұрын

    true.

  • @emmacanavan1853

    @emmacanavan1853

    2 жыл бұрын

    ELENI I LOVE UR BOOKS I DIDN TKNOW U KNEW SHYLA

  • @priscillaxsafi

    @priscillaxsafi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yessss!

  • @ladna313
    @ladna3132 жыл бұрын

    The part where she said “it was almost a exact replica of what my mother had went through” i lost it 😭 because that’s exactly how my life feels at this moment. 😩

  • @vanessalara8464

    @vanessalara8464

    2 жыл бұрын

    i feel you so much sis 😩

  • @pinkandval6743

    @pinkandval6743

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same🥺

  • @encouragemysoul6042

    @encouragemysoul6042

    2 жыл бұрын

    It is never to late to value yourself.

  • @fae4650

    @fae4650

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 💔

  • @alinaalexandra593

    @alinaalexandra593

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here 🥺

  • @Emerald-kh1pe
    @Emerald-kh1pe Жыл бұрын

    When she said if it wasn’t for her daughter she wouldn’t be here it felt like she could’ve meant that both ways 🥺I’m so glad Shyla is healing and growing as a mother

  • @jeciiserrano663

    @jeciiserrano663

    Жыл бұрын

    They get it from their Dad

  • @brendahenk8335
    @brendahenk83352 жыл бұрын

    Shyla did what Catherine can never do!!!!! Seriously so proud of you.

  • @HopeShobha

    @HopeShobha

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agree!! It is only up from here!

  • @liaadv3893

    @liaadv3893

    2 жыл бұрын

    The hate and association she gets from ace family is cancelled 100%

  • @randombyrosa99

    @randombyrosa99

    2 жыл бұрын

    Stop comparing them weirdo

  • @oliviag3831

    @oliviag3831

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@randombyrosa99 they are in similar situations so…

  • @desiree6617

    @desiree6617

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just because shyla had a tough time with Landon doesn’t mean Catherine is going through the same thing with Austin. Landon & Austin are 2 different people. Is as if you’re saying if you’re related to a serial killer you’re one as well. Which isn’t the case. Landon may be abusive, that doesn’t mean Austin is.

  • @justinechamelle9535
    @justinechamelle95352 жыл бұрын

    I’m sensing a bit of healing. The fact she posted even a snippet of Landon’s face in these videos and was talking about her journey with him, it’s healing

  • @tiana3945
    @tiana39452 жыл бұрын

    The mcbroom brothers always gave me a weird narcissistic vibe smh I’m so happy for you, on to bigger and better things queen! 💗

  • @aleshakauser7182

    @aleshakauser7182

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shut up

  • @lisa-marierota8860

    @lisa-marierota8860

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hundred percent

  • @AlanMartinez-fn3ge

    @AlanMartinez-fn3ge

    2 жыл бұрын

    You know she is lying?

  • @usagiprincess4387

    @usagiprincess4387

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AlanMartinez-fn3ge You know she’s telling the truth

  • @baddiedianita9044

    @baddiedianita9044

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AlanMartinez-fn3ge how ?!

  • @eleneb8171
    @eleneb81712 жыл бұрын

    Shyla you will be a self made billionaire one day! Mark my words. With this level of strength and determination you will go places with your baby girl your haters could never imagine. I will continue to be your number one fan keep going and do not look back❤️

  • @luciafajardo5234
    @luciafajardo52342 жыл бұрын

    Bullying is never okay. I can remember seeing all the hate comments towards you. I can’t imagine what you felt. But I’m so glad you overcame it! You’re doing an incredible job as a mother and human being. God bless

  • @markzelinski4434

    @markzelinski4434

    2 жыл бұрын

    If they want they can bully me! Bullying a woman?! Absolutely disgusting

  • @ilovetumblr99

    @ilovetumblr99

    2 жыл бұрын

    I remember too. people were so mean. they micro analyzed everything she did/said

  • @sweetdisposition8085

    @sweetdisposition8085

    2 жыл бұрын

    I always wondered why people shit on her?? She doesn’t deserve it

  • @Ashley-mp8sy

    @Ashley-mp8sy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@markzelinski4434 to be fair she did lie about something extreme.. she wasnt getting hate for no reason

  • @markzelinski4434

    @markzelinski4434

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Ashley-mp8sy have you seen what this familiar does? Their liars! She was brainwashed! My sister went through the same thing! The McBroom family are liars and sick sick sick people! This poor woman

  • @anzeela3807
    @anzeela38072 жыл бұрын

    Unless you’ve been in a narcissistic relationship it’s so hard to explain all of this without sounding crazy. Their families will always enable them as well. Ugh this kills me.

  • @SymphonyTaylor

    @SymphonyTaylor

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @prettygang720

    @prettygang720

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shyla has her issues too, idk y’all are just bypassing her violent actions

  • @angelitaarchunde7223

    @angelitaarchunde7223

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes explaining a conversation or an argument I should say with a narcissist makes ur head spin it doesn’t even make sense nor can u re explain what had happened . It’s confusing & makes no sense

  • @Jellybellyirish

    @Jellybellyirish

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@prettygang720 nah you can't call abuse retaliation violence. You're literally part of the problem with this bullshit. Also all your other comments on Shyla's channel are weird and biased. Landon?

  • @anamartinez7174

    @anamartinez7174

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@prettygang720 when you’re really hurt you tend to say things or act crazy but you won’t really know how that feels until you go through it

  • @mariahm16
    @mariahm162 жыл бұрын

    I was in an abusive relationship for 7 years we have a 3 year old daughter. I finally left when she stood up for me it was a wake up call.. watching this hits home and gives me hope as a single mother that I can do anything 🤍

  • @veronicaargueta7714
    @veronicaargueta77142 жыл бұрын

    I’ve never seen her smile this much. I’m sooo proud of her.

  • @Breanamk
    @Breanamk2 жыл бұрын

    I just know Landon and his family is just watching this with hate IM PROUD OF YOU SHYLA !!! Literally drop your brand ASAP I’m ready to buy your merch

  • @lolal3822

    @lolal3822

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏽🙌🏽 I think its like comfy loungewear/ gym wear one that she put on her story yesterday !!

  • @Louieva578

    @Louieva578

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lolal3822 I'm hope so, it looked bomb

  • @iraisvargasperez

    @iraisvargasperez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @danahportlouis3776

    @danahportlouis3776

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lolal3822 right I like the color can’t wait

  • @jessewithtattoos

    @jessewithtattoos

    2 жыл бұрын

    quit bringing them both up on eachothers videos. we get it. shes a narcissist and so is he. both are immature and not putting their kid first

  • @Momofgirls
    @Momofgirls2 жыл бұрын

    When you said you fought so hard to not have a relationship or a guy like your dad and still got wrapped in the toxicity I felt that! Wow this speaks volumes so inspiring!

  • @faithhaley2535

    @faithhaley2535

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @Veeerin

    @Veeerin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 😢😞

  • @Jacobeluhv

    @Jacobeluhv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow…

  • @bigs1356

    @bigs1356

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow she’s using her kid for vid content

  • @faithhaley2535

    @faithhaley2535

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@bigs1356 what are you even talking about ..

  • @racheldawson418
    @racheldawson4182 жыл бұрын

    "I am thankful for my struggles because without them I wouldn't of stumbled across my strength".... Shyla u are an inspiration, don't ever stop or change who u are, because u are AMAZING X

  • @xoVioleteyezxo
    @xoVioleteyezxo2 жыл бұрын

    I love how you’re not just disappearing and you’re standing strong. Best revenge against a narcissist that wants to control you. You are a smart woman Shyla, happy for you 💜

  • @godfirstfamily4880

    @godfirstfamily4880

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! 💜

  • @saritacorrea6022
    @saritacorrea60222 жыл бұрын

    seeing how easily he left her without a home without a car, without money, shows the type of person he truly is no matter what happens in a relationship she is the mother of your child she should have a good home a mansion like he does or at least a decent home because it’ll be ur daughters home too, a good person wouldn’t leave the mother of his child basically on the street. Or at least he could of offered to help her out while she got a job or something what an ass! He should be paying child support!

  • @biviann

    @biviann

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯💯

  • @patticakes763

    @patticakes763

    2 жыл бұрын

    But she wasn’t married to him

  • @TheChoralist

    @TheChoralist

    2 жыл бұрын

    He literally posted the video of them fairly splitting up the assets they had together. They gave her a car and a bunch of shit she wasn't even entitled too. They're not married. The video is still up on KZread go watch it. Cause you're mistaken big time she got everything she asked for

  • @yanethcramos2267

    @yanethcramos2267

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!!!! But like said before he doesn’t pay for anything, it’s all his family’s money. Oh and throughout the relationship Shyla was bringing in the money working two jobs then making videos, who does that? A Queen 💖

  • @jayparrilla6733

    @jayparrilla6733

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Tina Tijerina I honestly feal like karma is different how in the hell can you wish her the abuse she was getting stop supporting that abuser it dosen't matter what he said his family always is trying to cover up his mess he makes when they were together all he would do is leave her and the baby todo shenanigans and then treat her like shit and follow his brothers ways who also is a bad husband and a bad man to his wife just cause they said they did something they did it recently to cover up the statement about how they left her without anything and first of all she was paying the car and bills she had stuff but it was under there name even the ring he said he was going to give her that guy is not someone you should be defending I'm not saying she's a saint but dosen't mean your are going to come over here and be belittling shyla like that get something better todo and stop ✋ putting negative comments.

  • @MakeupbyaliBarba
    @MakeupbyaliBarba2 жыл бұрын

    Getting out of an abusive/toxic relationship is extremely hard. I’m going through the process right now and I didn’t realize how isolated and how brainwashed I was into believing that the relationship I had with this person is how a relationship “should be”. Once those blinkers are off you realize and see what everyone has been telling you about for years.

  • @CamrynAlexis

    @CamrynAlexis

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending prayers your way

  • @tiffanyleeson3723

    @tiffanyleeson3723

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just know ur so strong and you can do this!❤️❤️

  • @maritzamorales3207

    @maritzamorales3207

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you have kids with him ? How are y'all dealing with it ?

  • @princessbubblegum4073

    @princessbubblegum4073

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am in a relationship that I doubt if it’s really healthy for me.. how can you recognise the signs?

  • @carolinestacey7928

    @carolinestacey7928

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@princessbubblegum4073 right there with you unfortunately

  • @shaniixee7213
    @shaniixee72132 жыл бұрын

    She definitely looks happier without all the bad… like she’s always been beautiful but she glowed being happy!! I love her and soul and I’m sooo proud keep living for you and her l😫😫💗

  • @messillahdobrodoli9607
    @messillahdobrodoli96072 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this! I’m a mom of three boys, my oldest and middle son are on the autism spectrum. I was in an extremely physically and emotionally abusive relationship with their father for six years. One morning, I got up, saw him (for the hundredth time) drunk again on the living room floor. I told myself this is the last time my kids and I will ever have to deal with this. I packed up, went to my parent’s apartment, and now I’m here. I’m back at work, back at school getting my bachelor’s in psych, and going to figure it out. We’ve got this!

  • @ruthduran7395

    @ruthduran7395

    Жыл бұрын

    I went through the same thing 😭 my son is on the autism spectrum

  • @arianaperez626
    @arianaperez6262 жыл бұрын

    I’ll never forget how awful the internet has been to Shyla, especially in the hardest moments of her life!! WE LOVE YOU!!!

  • @jayparrilla6733

    @jayparrilla6733

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Tina Tijerina get a life stop ✋ hating got nothing better todo that spread negative thoughts and talk trash about other woman specially a mother who if you have negative thoughts you should look at your self and you situation and try to reflect .

  • @flow4458

    @flow4458

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Tina Tijerina I'm with you that we don't know anything for sure. But dude, you can't say that she's treated him bad either then! Your comment is deprived of all logic on this earth, srsly, try to use your brain before typing.

  • @jayparrilla6733

    @jayparrilla6733

    2 жыл бұрын

    A hope one day in KZread and many other public places or platforms a safe place for people and that judging is not allowed 🚫 and not public insulting and maybe putting people down will make you think about the consequences of your desition

  • @user-uh2xn5mc2d

    @user-uh2xn5mc2d

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Tina Tijerina you need help miss girl.

  • @stephaniemagdaleno6881

    @stephaniemagdaleno6881

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Tina Tijerina how do you know she’s psychotic? By the way you’re talking about someone you don’t know you really sound crazy yourself.

  • @sumz3530
    @sumz35302 жыл бұрын

    Landon breaking your heart was the best thing that ever happened to you, you’re a completely different person and we love it

  • @Tartebio

    @Tartebio

    2 жыл бұрын

    “ on cam”

  • @Aprokoheadquaters

    @Aprokoheadquaters

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Tartebio no dear cause she’s in her most vulnerable part of her life rn and y’all have seen the ugly already. There’s nothing more to hide this is the real her

  • @andreadea2448

    @andreadea2448

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Aprokoheadquaters girl don’t worry thats most likely landons fake account trying to hate on Shyla cuz he’s a bum and no one likes him

  • @aceplays123

    @aceplays123

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think Landon did nothing I mean to me just by looking at him he dosnt look like he would do something that bad

  • @fatimamohamed7893

    @fatimamohamed7893

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aceplays123 do rapists have a certain look? do robbers have a certain look? no. and just like that narcissists like landon don't have a certain look, they can look like anything u sound so delusional.

  • @kismarydiaz360
    @kismarydiaz3602 жыл бұрын

    this story is almost exactly like the book “it ends with us” so heart breaking.love you shyla!! ❤️

  • @lovelymaby3933
    @lovelymaby39332 жыл бұрын

    She was never my favorite to watch but this Shyla right here ! I’m here to stay! The fact that u make me feel like waking up early and chasing my dream I love a motivational woman ❤️

  • @avivirk7278
    @avivirk72782 жыл бұрын

    "Tough times don't last, tough people do" You're a warrior Shyla created through trials and tribulations, my heart is with you beautiful!

  • @evelynespinoza9386
    @evelynespinoza93862 жыл бұрын

    The fact that you were so respectful to Landon after it all. And still strive to give your daughter the best life and yourself. You are a superhuman 💖

  • @elizabethgasca9983

    @elizabethgasca9983

    2 жыл бұрын

    💫💫💫

  • @cheyenneunderwood356

    @cheyenneunderwood356

    2 жыл бұрын

    what respect did she give him? she literally posted all the shit that already was brought up. she definitely shit talked him and included videos that were overly dramatic

  • @lifeofnicole2358

    @lifeofnicole2358

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cheyenneunderwood356 must be a fan of Landon

  • @litzycabrera9716

    @litzycabrera9716

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cheyenneunderwood356 abuse supporter.. Ill pray for u honey 💯

  • @cheyenneunderwood356

    @cheyenneunderwood356

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lifeofnicole2358 no one said it wasn’t her story. I’m just saying that this person said “she didn’t slander him” but she did lolll. and also, i’m not saying I support whatever. there are two very different sides of the story and both seem believable with each piece of evidence given on both sides. if it did happen, that’s horrible. do I still watch landon/the ace family, of course. just like I watch her 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣because you never know what is the truth. there is 3 sides to a story. his side, her side, and the truth.

  • @godfirstfamily4880
    @godfirstfamily48802 жыл бұрын

    Wow I’m literally in tears, “How did I end up in a relationship with a man as an exact replica of my father when I tried so hard not to get here!” I felt that in my soul. I can relate 💜 Just recently divorced and this healing journey has been the toughest 2 years of my life. Thank you for using your voice. I can relate 💕

  • @MiSzCASSiEx3

    @MiSzCASSiEx3

    2 жыл бұрын

    Most people repeat the same habits that happened with their parents because it’s what we know. Our subconscious attracts us to people that are like our parents.

  • @aliciatheecoach

    @aliciatheecoach

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes I can relate to her I was 19 and I met exact same guy as my father tomorrow I will be 21 and we broke up three days later now am doing my KZread channel and focusing on me

  • @Miky9694
    @Miky96942 жыл бұрын

    The way she talks about everything, she looks that she find herself and peace after everything, so happy for her 🤍

  • @brinleesells4266
    @brinleesells42662 жыл бұрын

    That’s what happens when you’re genuinely a GOOD person. You will always come out on top. Stay strong.

  • @CuteBerry
    @CuteBerry2 жыл бұрын

    Don’t y’all just love seeing people thriving and bouncing back out of dark situations 😩🙏🏼 I’m here for it !

  • @brittney6845

    @brittney6845

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes 🙌🏽 🥺

  • @Virgobaby1982

    @Virgobaby1982

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m totally here for it

  • @slimtina

    @slimtina

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I just wanna give her a hug 😂😂😂

  • @jenniwilliams3295

    @jenniwilliams3295

    2 жыл бұрын

    LOVE IT. yes escaping hell and making your own (which she was doing before his loser a$$) She wins. They are all going down, its a matter of time and she will come out clean as a whistle.

  • @stephaniew.7201
    @stephaniew.72012 жыл бұрын

    Shyla… this was raw. This is the girl we’ve all known and love. The hardest conversations are the ones that are worth listening to. You are a beautiful soul and you’ll have a happy life. I’m so happy to hear ur side of this shitty story. You’re a Soulja girl. Keep ur baby close and find love in between. 💕 #ily

  • @paytonreid202
    @paytonreid2022 жыл бұрын

    gosh I just love her so much… literally she is a goddess, & handles things SO well. praying for you shyla.

  • @courtneyfulton4243
    @courtneyfulton42432 жыл бұрын

    You described it perfectly! I didn't realize how bad my relationship was until I had my son. I remember the moment it clicked. I was sitting in the hospital bed, it was like 2am, I was breastfeeding, and I was staring at my sons father asleep on the couch. I knew in that moment that it was never going to work between us. I tried so hard because of the baby, but I knew staying was only going to make it worse for my son. Now 3 years later, my sons father has only seen him 3 or 4 times and is struggling with drug abuse. It makes me sad for my son. Sad because he deserves a father that will love him and be there in a way that I can't. 💙

  • @jessicaalberton

    @jessicaalberton

    2 жыл бұрын

    OMG 🥺

  • @genesisorozco9669

    @genesisorozco9669

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well your son is going to grow up and appreciate you so much for being mom and dad ❤️

  • @Mm2k11

    @Mm2k11

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m slowly realizing this now as 5 years in with our child…

  • @mikhaelasantos1352

    @mikhaelasantos1352

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Mm2k11 girl I feel you mines 3. Hurts so bad tbh ...

  • @courtneyfulton4243

    @courtneyfulton4243

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@genesisorozco9669 thank you 🙏

  • @annabellehayes
    @annabellehayes2 жыл бұрын

    Loved this so much! Men think they have so much control over women and im so glad to see her doing better and her own thing!

  • @jIguess

    @jIguess

    2 жыл бұрын

    Cry about it

  • @christianhudgins7487

    @christianhudgins7487

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jIguess thats what im saying

  • @jIguess

    @jIguess

    2 жыл бұрын

    @jess eo nah I’m a woman

  • @BeachioSandschannel

    @BeachioSandschannel

    2 жыл бұрын

    @jess eo Radical feminists exist.

  • @Juangoosgoos

    @Juangoosgoos

    2 жыл бұрын

    can you pweaaase not generalize UwU (I am so sorry for making this comment what the fuck)

  • @Lifewithkellyann
    @Lifewithkellyann2 жыл бұрын

    I just adore Shyla so much. She is so real. So authentic. It’s honestly refreshing. Everyone is always trying to make everything look a certain way. Make everything seem “perfect”. Shyla just keeps its real. You’re going to do BIG things Shyla. Bigger than you ever dreamed. So happy for you!!! ❤️

  • @brianamartinez1006
    @brianamartinez10062 жыл бұрын

    I don’t usually comment but you are truly inspiring to single mothers, i am a single mother in a rough time rn & this gave me the pick me up that I needed. ✨

  • @damaris2085
    @damaris20852 жыл бұрын

    “I tried so hard to runaway” and “ here I am like an exact replica” this touched my soul!!! Ive been in that EXACT same moment in life! Wow, Shyla, I cried hearing that. So real!!!

  • @deliavasquez2698

    @deliavasquez2698

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same I got chills when she said that!

  • @AlejandraGarcia-yx6us

    @AlejandraGarcia-yx6us

    2 жыл бұрын

    This!!

  • @TierraiT

    @TierraiT

    2 жыл бұрын

    Saame!!

  • @Merstuka
    @Merstuka2 жыл бұрын

    It’s so refreshing to finally see this personal and vulnerable side of you! I’m happy to see you growing and glowing 🤍

  • @karenjandres7023

    @karenjandres7023

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!

  • @jasreetdhaliwal487
    @jasreetdhaliwal4872 жыл бұрын

    I am so proud of you Shyla, you have come a long way. I have seen everything from day 1 and the progress of you inspires so many young women. Thank you so much!

  • @gem9561
    @gem95612 жыл бұрын

    I love this woman's honesty.

  • @Kmurphyyyyyyy9
    @Kmurphyyyyyyy92 жыл бұрын

    She a whole different woman, WE LOVE YOU SHYLA. So inspiring 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Dems967
    @Dems9672 жыл бұрын

    “I was capable of going without something” -Shyla So powerful

  • @ilsepalos8425
    @ilsepalos84252 жыл бұрын

    I love how much you’re glowing & I can tell you’re genuinely happy. I can’t wait for your journey Shyla. You really inspire us women that are going through the same situation.

  • @amandaleighplans
    @amandaleighplans2 жыл бұрын

    You have such a lovely, down to earth personality. So much respect for prioritizing your daughter and taking care of yourself!

  • @nancyducat6654
    @nancyducat66542 жыл бұрын

    As a woman and a mother of 3 little ones going through the same situation, I couldn’t help but tear up and realize how strong we are as women❤️ so proud of you Shyla

  • @zaavan.rivera

    @zaavan.rivera

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yea

  • @jenniwilliams3295

    @jenniwilliams3295

    2 жыл бұрын

    Proud of you as well! You have got this momma. One step at a time.

  • @chanelsahr4602
    @chanelsahr46022 жыл бұрын

    I can see you falling in love with yourself and it looks good on you. Through pain we grow and learn to appreciate what truly matters. So proud of you, Shyla.

  • @maryanne4686
    @maryanne46862 жыл бұрын

    I just want to say thank you so much for this video!! Actually thank you from everyone for even posting at all. It feels so good to see a woman rebuild herself and actually thrive and get everything they deserve without the help of a man. Its so motivating and pushes me to keep on track with my own goals and dreams. So seriously THANK YOU SHYLA

  • @celinahernandez3349
    @celinahernandez33492 жыл бұрын

    We’re here for you babe don’t look back anymore learn from your mistakes and keep moving up you’ll get there! 💜

  • @lettymariscal7
    @lettymariscal72 жыл бұрын

    I’m rooting so hard for you, you’re inspiring so many single moms

  • @TheLifeofKiara
    @TheLifeofKiara2 жыл бұрын

    girl .. just want to say that you are strong. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @DesNicole711

    @DesNicole711

    2 жыл бұрын

    And so are you Kiara! 🙏🏼❤️

  • @danyaleann3125
    @danyaleann31252 жыл бұрын

    😭 when you said “she’s literally all I have” my mom heart ached for you girl ! ❤️❤️ so glad you’re on the other side of this

  • @keelypritchard3268
    @keelypritchard32682 жыл бұрын

    You're amazing and inspirational! I went through a toxic relationship it's been a few years and I'm still healing from it.. Seeing this helps me stay strong and realise I'm worth more I need to make something of myself again! Thank you Shyla! 💕

  • @zanjtibebe3539
    @zanjtibebe35392 жыл бұрын

    Shyla, I’m going through the exact same thing thing as you right now. I’m glad you are being so open and honest, you made me realize I’m not alone. I’m not the only one, you give me hope and this video was very needed for me. Healing is such a lonely process

  • @reemsings
    @reemsings2 жыл бұрын

    you have no idea how reassuring it is to see you grow into the healthiest version of yourself. I have been following you for some time now and I am beyond proud of who you're becoming, and beyond happy Souline has someone like you to look up to. you have been and continue to be SO brave, a huge inspiration for a lot of women, including the woman your daughter is going to become. and I know exactly what I'm talking about because Souline is going to be like me someday, with a heart full of pride and appreciation for her mom who did everything to protect her peace and well-being. looking forward to seeing more and hearing more from you, thank you for sharing your truth. love from Morocco!

  • @jennyyyS95
    @jennyyyS95 Жыл бұрын

    I am so proud of you . You are a super hero to many women/girls who may be going through the same thing . You’re giving us strength and faith. I love you so much for this . Stay strong , you’re growing each day and it’s bringing you even closer to your purpose in life 🦋🤍✨

  • @maxeen5270
    @maxeen52702 жыл бұрын

    I am truly proud and excited for you! I cannot wait to see where this journey takes you and baby girl Soul. Your growth is inspiring! This self-love journey is going to be everything you've imagined 🙌🏼. Can't wait to join along ❤

  • @samanthabudrawich3086
    @samanthabudrawich30862 жыл бұрын

    Breaks my heart that she went through so much bs. It’s so hard to see the abuse when you’re In the relationship but she’s right…kids really open your eyes. I’m so proud she walked away. Such a strong beautiful soul. You deserve all the happiness Shyla…

  • @sophief7678
    @sophief76782 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t even know who you were until a few hours ago I’ve spent all morning watching your videos and learning about you. I’m so proud of you. You’re such a strong, powerful momma. You’re daughter is so lucky to have you. You will always be her biggest role model! You’re doing so great and I wish you every happiness and success in your life x

  • @heatherc.5760
    @heatherc.57602 жыл бұрын

    This woman is inspiring n a great role model for girls n women. She has started healing cus she now can tell her truth without crying n it's growth, happiness, mentally healthy, she is an inspiration. God bless u shyla n u keep on keeping on.

  • @luisbarrera6891

    @luisbarrera6891

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shes a liar why yall still belive this crap

  • @hanan2317

    @hanan2317

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@luisbarrera6891 shut up😐

  • @luisbarrera6891

    @luisbarrera6891

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hanan2317 aww getting but hurt

  • @wp9743

    @wp9743

    2 жыл бұрын

    Learn to spell!

  • @tamelabrown1044

    @tamelabrown1044

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey 👋🏽

  • @mauhmama
    @mauhmama2 жыл бұрын

    Truly YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION Shyla!!💕 the strength, the poise, the braveness and just the honesty is sooooo refreshing especially on KZread!❤️👏🏼 and I’m soooo sorry you had to endure people tormenting and bullying you at your lowest point , LOVE YOU SHYLA!!💕

  • @samanthaheath2598
    @samanthaheath25982 жыл бұрын

    I’m so ready for part 2!!! The documentary style is where it’s at. You did an amazing job with this video Shyla. I’m so proud of you & happy that you’re finally healing ❤️ So much love , I’ve missed your content ! I never thought you were too much 😌

  • @LifeAsTamigea
    @LifeAsTamigea2 жыл бұрын

    She can hide her feelings and tears well…cause I would’ve started crying before even speaking

  • @yonaguni33
    @yonaguni332 жыл бұрын

    She’s not making the focus what happened to her, but moving forward. I love that for her 🤍

  • @25Claudia85
    @25Claudia852 жыл бұрын

    The smile on your face when you're talking about your brand and how you're proud of yourself is everything :)

  • @carlaperalta2378
    @carlaperalta23782 жыл бұрын

    It’s so sad … you could see all the love she had/has for him and it’s so sad that Landon let this incredible women go. We all are here for YOU SHYLA

  • @jIguess

    @jIguess

    2 жыл бұрын

    I would have left her too

  • @iidesiree6316

    @iidesiree6316

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jIguess why u replying to these comments? just dont watch her, obsessed asf😂

  • @jIguess

    @jIguess

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@iidesiree6316 I’m replying to prove my point and to show my intellectual abilities

  • @jIguess

    @jIguess

    2 жыл бұрын

    @jess eo yes, Male Power!

  • @jIguess

    @jIguess

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Peachylorry who tf is Landon

  • @yaelinherrera7806
    @yaelinherrera78062 жыл бұрын

    She gonna be the next Jordyn woods gonna step on everyone who wish to see her fail so proud of you 💕 this is so empowering

  • @yahainHotPink

    @yahainHotPink

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your 1st name is so pretty!! 😀👌🏽🌹

  • @DN-jg8dl

    @DN-jg8dl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Jordyn woods kissed her best friends sister’s man lmao, she deserved the hate

  • @jadanaziel8252

    @jadanaziel8252

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DN-jg8dl you also forget Tristen has a repeated act of cheating it wasn’t all Jordyn

  • @breannev749

    @breannev749

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DN-jg8dl he kissed her on her way out. Thats literally sexual assault. Nowhere does it ever say she kissed him back

  • @14mzdramaqueen

    @14mzdramaqueen

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DN-jg8dl girl…. khole stole Tristan from his first baby mama when she was still pregnant and he’s been cheating on khole til this day plus he just had another baby on her dumbass lmfaoo.

  • @briannagarcia936
    @briannagarcia9362 жыл бұрын

    This seriously gives me so much hope I’m a single mom as well and the constant struggle everyday to get up in the morning and not feel like you have done anything in your life but than realize wow you are doing it slowly but surely !!! The moment you realize it it’s the best feeling You can do anything you put your mind too and my daughter is my no 1 to me always and supporter.

  • @disneychick1975

    @disneychick1975

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wait they broke up?

  • @ShockResistor

    @ShockResistor

    Жыл бұрын

    My mom had barely worked and finally left my father when I was 13. We lived in a small bedroom for a year but we were at peace and ended up having our own place. You can do it too. Kids just want to be peaceful in a drama free love filled home.

  • @janinechitjian9967
    @janinechitjian99672 жыл бұрын

    Shyla! You are helping so many moms right now. I was in your shoes with my daughters father this past year. The amount of pain and hardship we face. Having to start from scratch. It’s so scary and especially with a child. I understand how you feel. Thank you for this.

  • @amesanchez40
    @amesanchez402 жыл бұрын

    She’s back and she’s better. Thank you for feeling confident to speaking about your life. It’s truly amazing how a mother gets strength for their kids.♥️

  • @arianahernandez6350
    @arianahernandez63502 жыл бұрын

    She’s healing and I’m so proud of you Shyla 🤍 I just know your daughter will thank you for everything and applaud you when she’s older

  • @lynnstrong2010
    @lynnstrong20102 жыл бұрын

    This realness. And openness is what KZread needs. Thank you so much. Keep doing what you love. Keep raising your beautiful little girl. And never give up on your dreams.

  • @danahartley1551
    @danahartley15512 жыл бұрын

    I can’t explain how much I love you, we’re all here for you. This is your year you got this!!!

  • @jessicamedrano5724
    @jessicamedrano57242 жыл бұрын

    I’m going through the same thing Shyla. And when you said “you wake up in the morning and turn to see your daughter sleeping.” I felt that so muchhhh!!! Living couch to couch with my son. Being a single mom. Trying to stay strong. I needed this video. Thank you shyla

  • @poojarathan4438

    @poojarathan4438

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending you all the best vibes mama! Hope this year brings you magic 🥰

  • @rooss9581

    @rooss9581

    2 жыл бұрын

    You got this girl ! I wish you the best and hope good things come to you and your family ❤️

  • @andrealopez5792

    @andrealopez5792

    2 жыл бұрын

    The Lord renews our strength Praying for you in Jesus name amen

  • @nekoleramey4922

    @nekoleramey4922

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just keep moving forward mama! You got this 💞

  • @veryyvethh8601
    @veryyvethh86012 жыл бұрын

    She is so beautiful a family person she seems to have a kind soul. It's an honor to be part of her fan base

  • @kim54321.
    @kim54321.2 жыл бұрын

    this video and the last are literally so inspiring. i went through a similar situation last year, i survived the abuse after 3 years of going through that in a 6 year relationship. my daughter and i are on our own and i know i did what was best for her and myself regardless of everything i had experienced. she’ll be 2 in June and i couldn’t be any more proud of how far we’ve come together. thank you shyla for sharing your story. you’re so brave and strong you did what you felt was best for yourself and Soul and that’s all a mother could do. immediately subscribed. i found this because of Fool Coverage.

  • @09cluts
    @09cluts2 жыл бұрын

    Such a strong person and mother!!! Don’t stop grinding and keep reaching for the stars shyla!!!

  • @CC-fs4ew
    @CC-fs4ew2 жыл бұрын

    This video made me cry, it is so pure and although in the midst of healing Shyla I know God is and will always be by your side and will be your strength through the hardships. You’ve already made impact on so many. Brought light to subjects normally pushed under the rug. Lead by example and given strength and courage to those who are living that nightmare. Your good soul and heart shines Shyla please never dim your light for anyone. ♥️

  • @destinymichelle8382
    @destinymichelle83822 жыл бұрын

    This video is so meaningful. When you said “I felt like I had no meaning to life until I had my daughter” I feel that so much

  • @jadeamberrrr
    @jadeamberrrr2 жыл бұрын

    this literally gave me chills, I love you sm shyla💗

  • @mayayams
    @mayayams2 жыл бұрын

    Literally watching this while in the airport in tears. I’m having one of those moments, single mom of four, and struggling mentally. You aren’t alone ♥️

  • @oliviaprewett6061
    @oliviaprewett60612 жыл бұрын

    So proud that you got yourself and you’re daughter out. That takes so much strength. So happy for you from someone who went through abuse for 21 years of my life. 🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @ashleymoralespr8140
    @ashleymoralespr81402 жыл бұрын

    Once my daughters were born, I was changed, I can’t explain it, I was still me but my thought process completely changed, and I started seeing things that I didn’t see before, I started seeing things through my child’s eyes, what if this was them, what will happen to them, is this okay. & I finally realized it wasn’t okay and it was abuse and I left!!! You shyla are such an inspiration and amazing women. We love you.

  • @pinkkvelvet
    @pinkkvelvet2 жыл бұрын

    This video made me cry I’m am happy you are in a good place mentally and physically, there’s so many woman rooting for you and who have gone through similar situations. ♥️ I wish you and your daughter nothing but success and blessings. 🙏🏽

  • @321ljc
    @321ljc2 жыл бұрын

    you’re the realest! you’re so strong! you seem like you’re at peace with everything ❤️ so happy for you

  • @ashleyprewett1790
    @ashleyprewett17902 жыл бұрын

    I really cannot wait to see this part 2 and this line of clothing you're gonna be dropping !!!! I'm so freaking beyond proud of you Shyla for everything that you've accomplished, all that you've survived and the strength you've gained from all of this ❤❤ There's not alot of women I've been able to look up to but you're definitely one i can say i look up to in so many ways because of how kick ass of a woman you are !!!! You have an amazing energy & the strength you carry with yourself is so motivating... Coming from an abusive household from all of my childhood and so so so many holidays, weekends & moments that were taken away from me as i was growing up because I myself and my brothers I had to be around it like it was just a normal thing. But it never was normal. It was never okay to see the things I've seen and been exposed to. And to see you get that and feel that you understand just gives me so much more strength.... Thank you for being real and so motivating to all Women including myself... Keep doing these amazing hustler moves you're doing !!! And thank you for everything you offer us just being the Woman you are. ❤🙏❤ We love and support you Shyla. 💘💘 Keep being amazing !!!!!!!!

  • @r.b.gfamily455
    @r.b.gfamily4552 жыл бұрын

    I can’t emphasize enough how freaking inspiring you are to all of us but especially us morhers who watch you and follow you from the beginning! Sending you and souline endless blessings that will last you a lifetime 🤍✨

  • @krystallorenzo3206
    @krystallorenzo32062 жыл бұрын

    Shyla has gone through so much, I am so happy to see where she is today!!! She’s glowing!!!

  • @tp8315
    @tp83152 жыл бұрын

    you’re such an inspiration Shyla. I hope everything works out for you and your daughter from here on. ❤️❤️

  • @doridarling
    @doridarling2 жыл бұрын

    I swear I find the most inspiring stories when I’m up late and can’t sleep. I’m excited for pt. 2! 💖✨

  • @jackie7048
    @jackie70482 жыл бұрын

    so happy for you shyla. you’re glowing and you look happier. keep doing your thing love you!!

  • @mariagomez5928
    @mariagomez59282 жыл бұрын

    I work at a domestic violence shelter and I love that you’re bringing awareness to DV because it can happen to anyone! this is soooo important and so happy for you and that you’re healing! Much respects for you Shyla!

  • @LaLa-zj5se
    @LaLa-zj5se2 жыл бұрын

    its an amazing thing to see someone flourish so much after being torn down for so many years. im genuinely happy for shyla and the growth she has shown

  • @shaymahal7592
    @shaymahal75922 жыл бұрын

    Felt this video on so many levels! Thank you for being so raw, authentic & vulnerable with us. You’re so strong and inspiring. Keep that beautiful soul of yours. Keep going gorgeous! ❤️

  • @angelinaperez9897
    @angelinaperez98972 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing Shyla !! I love how you are so happy and smiley in this whole video, it really shows that you are truly happy and i’m so proud of you !! i love you ❤️

  • @Juwlz
    @Juwlz2 жыл бұрын

    So many people support you. I became a widow when I was 28. He was my best friend, the person my entire world revolved around since age 14. I had a miscarriage a few months before a tragic accident took him from me. It was really hard and I am still trying to figure out who I am and what my life is but I'm hopeful

  • @TheCandyxoxo1

    @TheCandyxoxo1

    2 жыл бұрын

    💖 thank you for sharing this. I’m praying for you🤍🦋✨

  • @FreshBoa27

    @FreshBoa27

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending you love and light in your life journey 🤍

  • @erincleaver6063

    @erincleaver6063

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow I’m so sorry for both of your losses, you’re so strong🤍🤍

  • @yahainHotPink

    @yahainHotPink

    2 жыл бұрын

    My condolences twice over!! I will pray for you Julia! 💔❤🌹

  • @anaidaazavedo7102

    @anaidaazavedo7102

    2 жыл бұрын

    You’re gorgeous strong and so so worth it! Good luck❤️

  • @beab1359
    @beab13592 жыл бұрын

    I never watched the channel you used to upload to with your ex, but I can tell from listening to your story that you must’ve been so incredibly caught up in him and how he treated you. I’m tearing up writing this because I know so many friends who have been in abusive relationships, some have made it out and some are still stuck. All I can say is I admire your strength, courage and willpower to keep going, to stay strong for your daughter and for yourself. Men like him have to be held accountable and I know that’s a driving force for a lot of women, but it’s equally as important to simply detach and start to live your life for yourself. That’s the best revenge I think. You’re and incredible woman, I am so in awe and I know you’re setting a great example for your daughter. Thank you for speaking up and for telling your story. Sending you all of my love today, all the way from Sweden ❤️

  • @lusiafono5447
    @lusiafono54472 жыл бұрын

    Big ups to your friends that had you stay over in her sons room remember those people when you get up. Love this for you honey🤍✨

  • @briannaleigh825
    @briannaleigh8252 жыл бұрын

    Oh Shyla you ARE a superhuman especially to your daughter💛 we are here for you girl! So happy, proud, and excited for you and your journey. It’s true, once I become a mother I seen life in a whole different lense especially the BS us moms used to deal with while fighting PPD. You got out, and you will find yourself! Here for you and your journey! xx 💛🥂

  • @jasminekithithee9941
    @jasminekithithee99412 жыл бұрын

    “100% if it wasn’t for my daughter I wouldn’t be here” I felt that and had chills down my spin. I can’t relate so much shyla, so glad you posted this! ❤️ god bless 🙏

  • @KareBear449
    @KareBear4492 жыл бұрын

    Emotional abuse is real!!!! So happy to hear someone acknowledge it and the affects it has on your mental health!!! You are worth it. We see you, we believe you, we are here!!!