Happy Friday from "pouring with rain" Copenhagen! 👋🏼😍 You have a choice of four self-care options...what do you choose this week? 1, 2, 3 or 4? I'm doing 1 and 2!

@ekirluh1073

2 ай бұрын

I choose self-care option 1

@kittycuddler5973

2 ай бұрын

With elderly neighbours I do #4 every week. ❤

@sallycroft2191

2 ай бұрын

Self care of elbows and feet. Also, on sunny days, I will have my morning coffee outdoors. Thank you for inspiration!

@meredithrock

2 ай бұрын

Happy Friday to you as well. Just starting your video, and working on laundry.

@LisaDupree-sf7fi

2 ай бұрын

1. I keep putting extra thick cream on my feet and putting socks on to soak it in better to soften my feet. 2. My son and I ate lunch at the dog park yesterday. 3. I have been listening to some old favorite music and singers. 4. My son and I give small bags of snacks and self care items to people without homes we see on the side of the road. Lisa Anne Dupree 🙂🌻🦋

I learned a saying when I was in high school: The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step. That's the way I see your ten minutes. Thanks for you videos.❤

Thank you, Diane, for giving of yourself and your time even though you are not feeling well. Each of your videos are an inspiration to me and I would miss you if you weren’t there. (Although I would totally understand!!! You have to take care of yourself first!!) I hope you enjoy your quiet weekend and I hope you are feeling much better soon. I’m praying that you feel better quickly! ❤

Saturday night. I actually accomplished more than I thought I would. I am in widow’s fog state of malaise. But looking back , I did fairly well at managing this past week. Thank you for your support .

@deliarealtor

2 ай бұрын

I thinking I’m in widows fog too. It’s been almost 6 months since my H died, I really don’t feel like doing anything. I hope yo are feeling better soon.

@emmelia-6068

2 ай бұрын

My condolences, Jeanne and Delia 💜🙏💜🌷 Prayers for you both as you go through this hard time. Give yourselves plenty of space and grace ❤

One thing that has stuck from flylady for me is to keep a clean sink....well...this week I almost fell over when hubby was at the sink ...he said who is leaving things in this sink I like to see it clean! So, yes they are watching and learning.

Tornado Warnings all around me here in Oklahoma, USA. While waiting to see which way storms go, I'm cleaning my kitchen. If we get blown away at least my kitchen will be clean!

@emmelia-6068

2 ай бұрын

How did it go for you? I pray you and yours are safe. I saw some horrific videos and photos... 😮❤

@cathyb6358

2 ай бұрын

I pray that you and many others in Oklahoma will be safe.

@missnavigation

2 ай бұрын

​@@cathyb6358 storms went North of us. So all is well. Thank you.

@missnavigation

2 ай бұрын

​@@emmelia-6068storms missed us. Some of the family lost power for few hours. But all safe and sound. Thank you.

@maki90

Ай бұрын

This has been a rough spring for us Okies, indeed. Glad it missed y’all! It missed us, too, though I got to see scud clouds feed in on the north side of town, that was something wild to see!

Hi Diane thanks so much for being there to help and support us even though your not feeling well hope your better soon sending hugs ❤

Overachiever this week, because every suggestion you have I already did this past week -- well, right now I am having a pedicure after a week long vacation in Maui, While I was there, I ate breakfast everyday outside; and now that I returned home, will pull out our porch furniture to eat outside whenever possible. I enjoy listening to the birds (sometimes eagles) and see the bugs, butterflies and blooms. As for volunteering, while I was on vacation I volunteered at a free donation center for the victims of the Lahaina wildfires (in August 2023). I sorted, merchandised and helped anyone who came into the store looking for items. The people who have been doing this since August are amazing and were so grateful I took 2 hours of my vacation to volunteer. My heart was full. I just bought tickets to see Harry Conick Jr. at an outdoor winery concert. I barely listen or know his music so I am hoping to enjoy something new.

Absolutely, removing unimportant items is very contagious. Many family members are picking up on that and slowly doing their part! ❤

Diane, You said that you are not a family channel as your family don't feature in your videos. Some of the tips and advice you give gave made a big difference to my little family. The planning of family fun in particular❤.

Music brings us so much joy. This past weekend I was able to travel to another state to see a bestie's grandson in Mama Mia. So much fun!🦋

Thanks for showing up even you are not really fit, I have been lying with a bad cold all week, but sticking to my minimal morning and evening routines ! It gave me hold! I will take small steps outside to get better. Get well, too!

🙋‍♀️my hubby declutters his clothes and tools. For my soul, I mowed a traveler’s lawn one less things for them to do when they get home.

@DianeinDenmark

2 ай бұрын

Great idea! So nice of you!

I know what you mean by keeping my family private. In our time of life, my husband is 73 and I am 68. When I do my weekly vacuuming, my husband will take the vacuum cleaner "away from me" and does all the floors! What a dream boat! Hope you begin to feel better! CB

Apparently, I missed this video last week and thought I was watching today's video. LOL! Anyway, your comments about Sue brought tears to my eyes. Happy Birthday to Sue! What a lovely group of friends you all have. ❤

I love how you celebrate your friends. Sounds like Sue is a great person to have around.❤

Going to bring out the patio furniture so we can have coffee in the morning in the sunshine. Thanks for the inspiration ❤

I got a pedicure, bought some new self tanner and made reservations for a mother's day tea!

I'm a physiotherapist. When my patients say anything along the lines of "it's so hard to find the time to do the exercises" and they clearly want to, I recommend you.

Diane, thank you! Saturday a week ago, a family member was hospitalized and then sent to rehabilitation. Between visits to both places, running to the person’s house, and shopping for items, there was no time to clean my home. I didn’t worry because I’ve followed you for a while and knew my place was under control. Your inspirational videos made me feel confident. -M. M. ❤

Happy birthday to Sue! Enjoy! I’m getting ready to go camping next week so I will be enjoying my breakfast outside!

Dear Diane, My three year old and i went to the library today to pick up some new reads for the weekend. We both love it there and go every week. Regarding the subject of 10 minutes: Especially as a working mom with lots of volunteering tasks in church, kindergarten and beyond, the 10 minute chunks are soooo valuable. Progress over perfection. I would feel absolutely defeated, if i had to do it all and spend hours and hours. By the way: i made your over night bread-rolls again. This has become a beloved Friday night tradition. When the Little One is asleep, i clean up the kitchen, shine my sink and prepare the rolls for Saturday morning. I start the dishwasher and when i hear the water stream into the machine i know: the week-end is here :) pure self-care right there. See you Monday and feel better soon. Love from Germany, jule

@SharonKBM

2 ай бұрын

This is lovely. You are creating a wonderful memory for your child ❤

Diane, you made a comment which was really freeing for me in my cleaning/declutter journey. You said “I do these things for me.” And that’s exactly what it needs to be for me - focusing on the type of organized home environment I enjoy and not worrying too much if the rest of the household are “pulling their own weight” so to speak. Because really I quite enjoy cleaning when I get to it and am thankful my husband has a high tolerance when we dont. And when he is in the cleaning mood, he cleans sometimes too in his own way and style. So that is a good reminder that at the end of the day, I am really doing it for myself actually. :)

My Granny has been staying with me for a few days, so I’m catching up on some videos. Thank you for your motivation. Everything was tidy enough and my routines kept me going. I was able to focus on time spent with her. Thank you!!!

Thank you for doing this video. In spite of not feeling well. I hope you feel better very soon. I’m surprised to hear that you are afraid of water, as much as you swim. it’s great that you are facing up to your fear by taking swim lessons.

Hope you feel much better soon. Appreciate you making a video for us even when you’re not feeling well ❤

Hi Diane! I will try to have a meal outside and to listen to some new music. I never listen to music except for Christmas carols in December, so that'll be a fun stretch. I want to thank you for always being so body positive, showing pictures of yourself and your friends in swimsuits and being honest about your ages. I just turned 48 and I haven't worn a swimsuit in many many years, and you have really inspired me to not worry about my figure and just get out there and exercise. So just having that mental shift is a form of self care for me!

So this is exciting…. My son’s band are releasing their first single on Tuesday so I’ll be listening to that! The band is Purple Suns and the music is very dreamy and easy to listen to! So excited for them xxx

And mission #2 for me. Eating outdoors is so simple and yet so delightful - my littles love, love, love it when we take our meal or snack outside. :)

PS that blue cardigan suits you so well!

I hope you get better soon 🤞🏽 For Camilla, for years in Spain it might have been women doing everything and men would be the ones working out. For quite a few years now it's different. In our home ( I'm 58, my husband is 65 now retired and empty nesters ) my husband usually cooks and does the shopping, we both do house chores some each of us always do, others we take in turns. When my daughter lived at home she had to take care of her room, hoover the house some days a week, not leave things everywhere, put her dirty clothes in the laundry basket, put her clothes away when they were clean, she also made and cleared up her breakfast and dinner ( the big meal is at midday here) hope that answered your question 😅. Talking about books I recommend Atomic Habits by James Clear. It reminded me of your 5 to 10 minutes timer. Happy birthday Sue! 🎉 Well done Diana!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Have a great weekend xx

@camillafjallman6404

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your answer. I`m just curious. I`m exactly your age, and my husband too. We also take turns in the house work. It`s just that when I watch videos in this category (I like them) I get the impression that the women does all the work in their home. Of course I respect that their family is not in the films, but I don`t often hear for example ”We take turns fixing the zink in the evening” or things like that. That is why I wonder. I hope I didn`t hurt anyones feelings, I didn`t mean to. I`m glad to hear about you and your husband. Thank you for taking time to answer!

@debbieredhill

2 ай бұрын

@@camillafjallman6404 It certainly didn't hurt mine. So don't worry. I love knowing about people's customs and ways of living also out of curiosity and knowing other cultures and ways of life. You learn a lot. Have a great weekend xx

I'm going to set up my deck furniture so I can start having meals and coffee outside! 🥰

Happy birthday Sue! Have a great weekend Diane!

Thank you, Diane, for inspiring us even when you are not feeling well. I hope you are back “in the pink” soon. 🤗

Finished my afternoon routine and take a break now 😊 and who is here ... Diane ❤ Have a nice weekend

Hello Diane I was already doing flylady when I discovered you a few years ago. You brought it to a whole new level for me. I lost my husband of 42 + years , to a stroke suddenly on April 15 2024. I had relatives arriving within hours of his hospitalization and because of the flylady system every thing in my house, guest room etc… was company ready. He was in hospital for 5 days before he passed and I can’t tell you how much the routine helped me. I plan to use the system to go through his items as I’m up to it and I will just be kind to myself, as I navigate my new normal. Thank you. Lynette Kipp Royal Oak Michigan USA

@user-rx9xu4mo8n

2 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss. Take care.

Finally decluttered the ensuite bathroom and powder room vanities! Another 20 mins in the garage with hubby to declutter. This has become a weekly task. Hubby is now on board as he sees the gains we make in a short time on a regular basis.

Happy birthday to Sue! You are also an inspiration for many people, Diane. Happy weekend for all!😃🥰

As always, I am truly grateful to end my work week with your Friday video. It’s such a treat ❤

Thank you for the book recommendation for a couple of weeks back. I've recently listened to the first two books of JM Hall and I really enjoyed the reader's voice. It lets me travel all the way back to the Lake District where my Nanna and Grandad used to live. They passed in 2007 and 2015 respectively. The characters remind me so much of my Nanna and her friends. It's so lovely to reminisce. Thank you for that.

Happy birthday to Sue! Have a wonderful weekend Diane 😊

Happy Friday! I always take my lunch and a book onto my patio to enjoy. I also always close my eyes for a quick nap. I love napping outside. For Mother’s Day, I always request my son to write a short letter highlighting a favorite memory of his childhood. I like this activity because he has to think a bit, write and also it increases his appreciation of his parents. And the letters make a nice collection for mom. My husband also did this activity the last few years of his mom’s life (and sadly, his own) and it’s now given us a short peek into family history that otherwise could have been lost. Enjoy your weekend.🌸

@victoriaoliver9958

2 ай бұрын

I may have to borrow this wonderful idea! ❤

I love the 10 minutes , so I get started and things done. 🎉

Thank you, my LOL is done, my essentiell evening routine too. Now I have a bubble bath. Greetings Simone from Germany ❤

My local church does a Play and Stay, each Thursday and Friday. So I volunteer to help with one session on Friday. It's a chance to meet people (most are younger than me) have a cup of coffee and talk. There is also a bit of work to put this away and out for the next session. Really enjoy it and love Fridays because I know I will meet up with a great group of women.

Hi Diane, I’m a long time fan. I started watching to learn the Fly Lady system which I now enjoy. My photo is outdated, I’m in my 50’s. I’m loving your style and colors you’re wearing! Love T’s with blazers and cardigans. Thanks for the style inspiration! I love the balance of taking care of ourselves, our relationships and our homes that you are so talented at sharing!

Hope you feel better Diane, try and get some rest. You are such an inspiration.

Book suggestion - Hello from Canada! My son is a police inspector in Nelson British Columbia, and a friend suggested a book series called A Lane Winshaw Mystery by author Iona Whishaw. They follow the country life of a women (Lane Winslow) who moved to Canada post WWII who becomes involved in solving local crimes along with a Nelson police inspector. Of course I had to read them! There are 11 books in the series and I just love them all!

I’ll plan my day to enjoy breakfast outside after my morning routine and lunch outside if I can swing it. Thank you for being you!

I did the kitchen while listening and I'm going to the orchestra tonight..alone but I'm going!

You take care Diane ,thank you and have a lovely weekend 🎉🎉🎉

Thank you Diane ❤ I’m a bit behind because of work but I just wanted to say that you really have been helping me to Simplify and Thrive this year ❤❤

I can certainly say that it is amazing what can be done in 10 minutes . I always do my 10 or 15 minutes then have a break. Can do my pamper time during my break. The timing gives me permission to not continually be doing housework and get overwhelmed. ❤

I hope you’re feeling better! I was so pleased that I could walk past a local car boot sale, smile at the stall holders and not need to buy anything 😊

I always look forward to your inspirational chats! Keep going 🎉

Mission #1: I took several hikes this weekend at Yosemite National Park! Good way to get my body excited for lots of movement this coming season. Mission #2: I ate some meals outside because we were camping! It was a wonderful weekend to take in nature. 🤗

Dear Diane. Thank you for answering my question! 😊 And thank you for your videos and your help. Hope you're feeling better soon. Best wishes, Anne

from last week, combined 1 and 4 - went for a ramble on a local nature site (up for sale for housing - so wrong) to watch some animals in action (short-eared owls hunting; male adders 'dancing'; larks ascending; listen to the nightingales; and looking at/smelling the flowers. Mother's day has already gone over here. I not only use Flylady zones in the house but have divided my garden into 5 zones too which works well although I sometimes have to dodge the rain!!! This week will try to do all the challenges except #2, I loathe eating outdoors but if it stops raining long enough will definitely take my coffee out into the garden and listen to the sparrows squabbling. as always, thanks for the inspiration and the boot up the bahookie on occasions.

Thank you Diane 😊 This week I’ll be doing self care mission 1 and also spreading some kindness 🥰

Put on an lol, emptied the dishwasher and made the beds while listening to your video. Have been inspired by you to read more. On my 7th book so far this year. I haven’t read that many books in a year since university! Thank you for your inspiration not only with cleaning & decluttering but also taking the time to do things for myself!

Saturday morning washing up at breakfast time. Giving me the motivating lift to get MR done today. I volunteer at a parent/tots/baby group on Fridays, doing the 0-5y session in the morning. Tidy up, then set up for babies (0-14mths ish) in early afternoon before the school run. It's a group i attended when my children were small, so I'm now giving back. ❤😊

Hello Diane. My husband started decluttering his own clothes. I have been following you and doing Flylady. He sees that things are running more smoothly, and is now joining in on his own.

Happy Birthday to Sue! 🎉 You are both an inspiration to me. ❤️

❤ your constant encouragement!🎉

Lovely to have a companion as I tidy up!

I will enjoy coffee outside over the weekend. I have been listening to music that I have not heard for many years. It all comes back.

Will eat my lunch outside tomorrow when we have an unusually warm day for late April. Wishing you a restful weekend Diane.

My job had a company wide volunteer day on Friday! It was so fun

Feel better soon! Thank you for spending time with us even when you are feeling down.

Happy weekend, Diane! Thank You for your video, I folded the laundry while I watched your video. You are so motivating!!! 🌻

Hi Diane! I really look forward to your videos. I always started my Saturday morning by watching your video about planning for the week. It just sets the tone for having a productive but also enjoyable weekend. And I have completely adopted the LOL method. Again, doing that first thing every morning makes me feel like I’ve started the day winning. I’d be doing self care 1,2 and hopefully 4. Everything except eating outside. I always appreciate the suggestions and have started adding them to my journal. Thank you for your encouragement and authenticity. I hope you realize all the good that you are putting out in the world. ❤

My husband decluttered his side of the wardrobe once he saw me doing my side and the space I created! X

Pedicure is done as a spring treat! Enjoying Toronto with my son this week and went to see Niagara Falls for the first time! A cold water experience in a different way! So, a whole week of self care really! Back home on Sunday night with routines beginning again Monday morning. Finished "Of Manners and Murder" which I enjoyed! Have a great weekend!

Hello, Diane! Thank you for another cheery video. I'm going to prep for summer for my self care. (I just had varicose vein surgery yesterday, so that might count!) I love the JM Hall books as well, especially the narrator, Julie H. She makes the books come alive with her excellent narration! What fun! Have a wonderful weekend!❤😊

Happy birthday 🎉Sue❤

Happy birthday to Sue! 🎉🎉🎉

Thanks Diane. Great inspirational video as always. Go you! 💖

Hi Diane, I took my breakfast outside this morning. Sun is shining in Glasgow. Great blog as always x

Hope you feel better, Diane. You are such an encouraging, inspiring voice in my life. Thank you!❤

Thank you Diane, feel better soon. ❤

Thank you for the motivation I’ve been unwell all week and having lots of tests so the housework has slidden! Back to it tomorrow little by little. Enjoy your long weekend

I'm going to pamper my feet and ive got some lovely pink varnish to put on. Also i will have my breakfast in the garden ,it's beautiful weather now here in 🇬🇧 ,thanks Diane xx

I do selfcare every Sunday, it‘s a relaxing routine for me. Listen to audiobook Jane Eyre, so lovely. Thank you for sharing. Greetings from cologne Andy

Happy Friday! Hope you get to feeling better soon! The spring cold or allergies were here a few weeks ago.. but now they are gone! I'm doing self care 1&2. Our weather is getting warmer so be outside a lot more! See you Monday!

Fabulous inspirational video Diane. Thank you.

Eating breakfast or having tea on the back deck sounds good to me!! Thanks@

🎉🎉🎉A mini-pedicure with a Nail Polish from my daughter - a present from Mothers Day!🎉🎉🎉

I guess my husband the exception about family members starting to declutter from watching us do it. I have been decluttering and downsizing my own possessions for over 10 years and he steadfastly refuses to even consider getting rid of one thing. It is very frustrating. I choose self-care mission #1. Have a wonderful quiet weekend, Diane. Thanks for everything. ❤

@beverlymartin1414

2 ай бұрын

Yes I understand completely- Not even a paper clip❤

@SharonKBM

2 ай бұрын

@@beverlymartin1414I'm glad to know I'm not alone, but I'm sorry you have to deal with this, too.

I will paint my toenails etc and hope to have a coffee outside Get well soon Diane 😊

Hope you’re feeling better soon, Diane!

Hello Diane from the Ottawa Valley, Canada. Doing something for someone else. Yes! As I was watching your Friday video, I was making a meal for my brother and sister-in-law's family as they recently lost an elderly family member. Homemade soup, sourdough bread, and Morning Glory Muffins. My prayer is that the food will help comfort them during this difficult time.

Fly lady REALLY does work!

Didn't feel well this week, so I took some downtime. Still accomplished my goals, so I am happy. Choosing self-care #1 and #4 as I pick up grocery store items for donation at a food pantry. Also, I have actually worn out some of my clothes and I donate them to textile recycling in my city. This includes shoes and sneakers.

Thanks for the 'chat'. Hope you're feeling well again! This week I'm choosing nr 1. 👡

Thanks so much for your video, Diane. I hope you feel better soon. I have been struggling with allergies but hopefully will be better soon. I am choosing self-care missions 1 and 2. I need to paint my toenails and will have coffee on my patio. Have a wonderful weekend ❤.

Happy 60th, Sue!

🙋🇳🇱Just a quick hello. And again: thanks for all the nice tips and advices.

Thanks for the self-care ideas like finding new music!

I’m with Jen on this self care of doing the morning wordle and sharing with family. Also ticking off number one in self care as I’m watching your video while at the gym ❤❤❤

Hapoy Friday, Diane! So sorry about your cold or allergies. Hoping you start feeling more like yourself soon. I hope to complete missions #1 and #4. 😊💕💐🦋💟