Life with Carry Grant

Russ Mitchell has "Early Coffee" with actress Dyan Cannon and talks about her new book, chronicling her life as Cary Grant's wife.

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  • @pablojose4890
    @pablojose48902 жыл бұрын

    My dad met Cary Grant in the 1970's. He said exactly the same thing about Cary when he walked into a room. It was electric and everyone could feel the charisma (if that makes sense).

  • @MetalDetectingRussia

    @MetalDetectingRussia

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow cool

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow ! Would loved to have been in that room ! Talk about a CHARISMATIC person !

  • @janecoe9407

    @janecoe9407

    Жыл бұрын

    WHAT A WEIRDO USING LSD. HE GOT UGLY AS HE GOT OLD.

  • @danilaroche1156

    @danilaroche1156

    6 ай бұрын

    He was demonized no doubt.

  • @fedupwitumboth
    @fedupwitumboth4 жыл бұрын

    Cary Grant was and remains my all time favorite actor...so handsome.

  • @andrewsong2055

    @andrewsong2055

    3 жыл бұрын

    North by Northwest and the Philadelphia story might be 2 of the greatest films of all time !!

  • @anitastaveley9187

    @anitastaveley9187

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@andrewsong2055 I loved the Philadelphia Story too...one of my favourites.. Room for One More...another but I loved them all.Do you know what the movie with the little boy and the caterpillar was called ? Can't remember it !

  • @NeenerBananas
    @NeenerBananas6 ай бұрын

    I sat about 6 feet away from him at Hollywood Park Race Track in the ‘80s. I get the whole thing about the atmosphere changing in his presence. I was seated behind him and was just staring. To my chagrin at the time, he turned around and stared right back. It wasn’t too long before he died. He was majestic.

  • @gardensofthegods

    @gardensofthegods

    4 күн бұрын

    It seems like maybe he felt your eyeballs drilling holes into his back ... 🤣

  • @cbeautifulworld11
    @cbeautifulworld115 ай бұрын

    Cary Grant is a legendary icon who will be remembered forever. You would think that CBS would spell his name correctly.

  • @karengretchen9857

    @karengretchen9857

    5 ай бұрын

    Hear! Hear!

  • @gpk1027

    @gpk1027

    5 ай бұрын

    My God !

  • @vickyharp9336
    @vickyharp93363 жыл бұрын

    I LOVED Carey Grant!!! He was the epitome of a gentleman!!

  • @craigjgomez

    @craigjgomez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Who is Carey Grant?

  • @dandansen571

    @dandansen571

    Жыл бұрын

    @@craigjgomez And Carry Grant?

  • @Icon_of_Design

    @Icon_of_Design

    9 ай бұрын

    Except he was a cheater.

  • @gardensofthegods

    @gardensofthegods

    4 күн бұрын

    Very good stories and documentaries concluding one I think in Vanity Fair that was well researched and they talk about how when he was younger and when he first came to America and then some years later made it to Hollywood he was rather awkward and not really that noticeable ... then he started hanging around with actor Randolph Scott who came from money and had class ... and people say he taught Cary Grant everything about being a man with class ... and they were living together for quite some time and people say it's like he took on Randolph Scott's character which was very charismatic and became him . Hard to believe I know but when you look at the photos of him early on in New York an early on in Hollywood you can see what they mean .

  • @bondafisya4645
    @bondafisya46453 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad that the fear of going old caused many individuals to succumb their faces and bodies under the knife and the outcomes are disastrous.

  • @marypapak5759

    @marypapak5759

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am shocked and saddened by the plastic surgery!!

  • @LearnMusclescom

    @LearnMusclescom

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just don’t understand why she or anyone would believe that this type of surgery would be more attractive...

  • @carrob704

    @carrob704

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes, a botched facelift gives one that "wind tunnel" effect

  • @HQBergeron

    @HQBergeron

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am always dismayed when a beautiful woman feels the need to try to remain so by unnatural means which removes all of the beauty of character and wisdom in their faces that is earned over a lifetime and cannot be replaced.

  • @foto21

    @foto21

    2 жыл бұрын

    WHAT IS WITH THE UPPER LIP? Her upper lip is bigger than it was when she was young! I don't get it. It's still happening. As a man, we do less of this kind of thing, but as a man, I also gotta say, just give it a rest. My god. There are young women doing this now, inflating upper lips etc. Look at the boy bands. Plastic surgery is like heroin. Once people do it, they can't stop seemingly, and they never see the reality. It's a mental illness. One day, people will be able to stay young probably, but it won't be by surgery.

  • @stacycarter5579
    @stacycarter55798 жыл бұрын

    The most handsome and best. Actor of all time I love him and all his movies.

  • @johnydome

    @johnydome

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Stacy Carter movies he was in is what you mean

  • @cliffordkent6611

    @cliffordkent6611

    7 жыл бұрын

    Stacy Carter t

  • @rickrick5041

    @rickrick5041

    5 жыл бұрын

    Johnydome No she meant he was a projectionist in a movie theatre and all the movies he played

  • @mariaalano3077

    @mariaalano3077

    2 жыл бұрын

    older.mila.kunis before surgery i saw Diane Canno in HeavenCanWait, she funny and.attractive.

  • @gardensofthegods

    @gardensofthegods

    4 күн бұрын

    ​@@mariaalano3077yes she could sort of look like her someday . Heaven Can Wait is that the one with Gene Tierney where she deliberately caused the guy's younger brother by drowning ? The one that was filmed in these gorgeous locations out west ?

  • @antoniosassogarciafilho1476
    @antoniosassogarciafilho14764 жыл бұрын

    Cary Grant was a gentleman and an Hollywood icon ! Regards from Brazil

  • @colleendaumen136
    @colleendaumen1365 жыл бұрын

    The cosmetic surgery is sad to see, but she really is a lovely lady, what a shame.

  • @barbaras6792
    @barbaras67923 жыл бұрын

    Cary Grant was a beautiful and charming man.

  • @jillwintz379

    @jillwintz379

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally appeared that way. What charm, style, wit and --- most of all --- graciousness .

  • @barbj9785
    @barbj97855 жыл бұрын

    Love every movie this man made. Mr Blandings Builds His Dreamhouse.

  • @reasonrestored9116

    @reasonrestored9116

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s my favourite!

  • @aprillovesgolf7042

    @aprillovesgolf7042

    3 жыл бұрын

    Crazy movie....influenced me to live a minimalist lifestyle.

  • @rachelkristine4669

    @rachelkristine4669

    6 ай бұрын

    Father Goose is my fav , along with Bringing Up Baby & Mr Blandings Builds His Dream House! 😂

  • @ojaspurohit
    @ojaspurohit3 жыл бұрын

    Most handsome, most lovable actor Cary Grant. Cary Grant, Rock Hudson, James Stewart, Eroll Flynn are some of the great attractive faces of hollywood. Very appearance of these stars would create big positive energy. It's sad hollywood has stopped spotting such faces. Current generation players are smart, manly but not handsome.

  • @TubenIt83
    @TubenIt833 жыл бұрын

    I guess it’s too much to expect CBS to spell “”CARY” correctly.

  • @ds7675

    @ds7675

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glaring mistake but in the description box the spelling is correct. Tsk, tsk!

  • @HQBergeron

    @HQBergeron

    2 жыл бұрын

    They probably hired a young social media manager who, like so many young people these days, can’t spell worth a darn, and are too time pressured to proof read.

  • @trainliker100

    @trainliker100

    2 жыл бұрын

    I will grant you that they can't carry off the concept of accurate spelling very well.

  • @sharksport01

    @sharksport01

    2 жыл бұрын

    Its Quarry Granite.

  • @julietteyork6293

    @julietteyork6293

    Жыл бұрын

    They must live up to their Fake News moniker

  • @MrImiller07
    @MrImiller0710 жыл бұрын

    I am a fan of Cary Grant's film work and I respect his decision to retire from movies in order to devote himself to his daughter Jennifer, who is beautiful and appreciative of his love and dedication to her in her formative years. I read the Cannon book and I believe her account of his controlling nature and his insistence on the use of LSD to expand her consciousness. His other companion, Maureen Donaldson, wrote similarly about his dominating personality. Cannon does emphasize the good memories about Grant in her book as well.

  • @patriciascrabeck8093

    @patriciascrabeck8093

    5 жыл бұрын

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  • @kdurston1

    @kdurston1

    3 жыл бұрын

    His mother was very domineering so it's not surprising

  • @Floppyearsmomma

    @Floppyearsmomma

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kdurston1 Wasn't his mother a schizophrenic who was whisked away to an asylum by Cary's father when he was a young child? My understanding was he came home and was told by his father that she had died, and he didn't know she was alive until he became an adult.

  • @fifthbusiness1678

    @fifthbusiness1678

    Жыл бұрын

    His true companion, and love, was that Western star of the 50s and 60s. The name will come to me ...

  • @oldhatcinema

    @oldhatcinema

    Жыл бұрын

    @@fifthbusiness1678 You're thinking of Randolph Scott, but I don't believe the story about a homosexual relationship between him and Grant, not for a second.

  • @gloriayouchisonbrown7734
    @gloriayouchisonbrown77342 жыл бұрын

    I adored Cary Grant and all his movies

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    He was no Huntz Hall, but Mr Grant was indeed quite talented, handsome & charming !!

  • @ceciliem1811
    @ceciliem18117 жыл бұрын

    Cary, was handsome and Dyan, was beautiful! Her meeting him at 23 and marrying him did produce a beautiful daughter!! The age difference may have been a factor in their divorce! Good interview!! 👍

  • @sharksport01

    @sharksport01

    2 жыл бұрын

    Would she have married him if he was a used furniture dealer?

  • @guyrabinowitz

    @guyrabinowitz

    2 жыл бұрын

    Those commas in your first sentence should not have been used.

  • @janecoe9407

    @janecoe9407

    Жыл бұрын

    SOUND SLIKE SHE MARRIED HIN FOR SECURITY, SHE RAN OUT OF MONEY.

  • @rosevanguard
    @rosevanguard8 ай бұрын

    They were two very different people with very different expectations from each other. She seems very sweet. I think she was a great mother and Cary was a devoted Father.

  • @countrydj2
    @countrydj23 жыл бұрын

    I read this book. So many funny stories. It’s a must read. RIP to one of the best actors ever.

  • @williambrock6458
    @williambrock64582 жыл бұрын

    I knew Dyan Cannon when she was with Cary and after the divorce. She had her hair done at our shop on Bedford Dr. In Los Angeles. Dyan is a wonderful person and she has not lost that infectious laugh! She still has great hair....

  • @sharksport01

    @sharksport01

    2 жыл бұрын

    I knew her too. I was her garbage man. Beautiful person!

  • @sherrycaraway5663
    @sherrycaraway56635 жыл бұрын

    Cary never told any stories about his ex-wives, I wish she would have kept his secrets. It's sad when you are married to someone and then they violate that intimacy to tell all the secrets.

  • @missyb9438

    @missyb9438

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sherry Caraway he’s dead and doesn’t know anything and he was a douche, it’s her right.

  • @seandarcy7651

    @seandarcy7651

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Ruby Romaine Probably a money thing never really nice

  • @trafikuty

    @trafikuty

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Ruby Romaine Yes, for the next surgery... I'm sure she was Cary's greatest mistake.

  • @catherinelw9365

    @catherinelw9365

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@trafikuty But she gave him his only child, who he loved very much. So it’s not a mistake.

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    @@catherinelw9365 Indeed ! Cary's daughter Jennifer brought him more joy than any of his marriages and he had his ex-wife Dyan to thank.

  • @lisasuzanne8474
    @lisasuzanne84749 ай бұрын

    I love Dyan so much! She's been my favorite actress since I was young. She's a major Christian and used to go to my Hollywood Bible Study. She's inspiring! ✝️

  • @jenk.6196

    @jenk.6196

    5 ай бұрын

    Just curious. What's a "major" Christian? (I met Dyan back when in Malibu and I'm not sure how "major" --or even a "minor"--of a Christian she is.) Very odd also that a woman now in her 80s dresses like she's trying to be in her 20s. Tight leather pants? Really? Not exactly a class act. (Whatever his faults were, Cary Grant was 100% class...the waiters at Chasens (now closed) will tell you that. It's how celebs treat the "little people" that is the litmus test.) Anyway, it does seem she's getting a lot of mileage from her very brief marriage to Grant: A book (albeit one-sided) , and now a series on BritBox give her this: She doesn't trash Cary (well, mostly) as some ex-wives of celebs do. Now in that department she IS a class act.

  • @elizabethwilk9615

    @elizabethwilk9615

    4 ай бұрын

    @@jenk.6196so if you wear leather pants you are not a good Christian? One of the ladies who runs our Bible wears them. She’s very thin and gets cold very easily. She’s very kind and intelligent and has been married for over 40 years. She wears her leather pants with long cashmere sweaters. She is very ill now and am praying for her. Never judge someone you never know what’s going on.

  • @stuartkidney3257

    @stuartkidney3257

    4 ай бұрын

    @@elizabethwilk9615 People do not need to "judge" Dyan Cannon; rather the books of Proverbs and Psalms judge Dyan Cannon. The entertainment biz is a tough one for any Christian to operate in, I do not have any first hand experience with her so I let God's Word DO the judging.

  • @pamelautopianchoices7598
    @pamelautopianchoices75984 жыл бұрын

    Dyan....i love your strength... hard to walk out on DELICIOUS ...lol seekers are tough... I too am a seeker ...I ry to stay in the present...it helps with the older of it all. I read it...it was given to me. By someone who probably didn’t read it. It was a total read in a few sittings. Busy but made time. thank you for sharing your life and part of Cary’s

  • @carlamoss1227
    @carlamoss12278 жыл бұрын

    Cary grant was very good looking

  • @belalforria

    @belalforria

    7 жыл бұрын

    Only difference is that Grant was still good looking at age 84

  • @amylynnhunt55

    @amylynnhunt55

    7 жыл бұрын

    Except that Clark DIED at age 59. So we will never know what he would have looked like as an Octogenarian. But yes, he was extraordinarily good -looking. Cary and Clark are my faves!

  • @DrMoorehen

    @DrMoorehen

    6 жыл бұрын

    Pity dyan doesnt share this now

  • @sherrycaraway5663

    @sherrycaraway5663

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's one of the reasons he was a huge movie star.

  • @abhinayamarykoshy1264

    @abhinayamarykoshy1264

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Mary's Catholics so was James Stewart !

  • @talkerVoice1
    @talkerVoice18 жыл бұрын

    How sad. A beautiful woman who really over-did the surgery.

  • @rolandalexandermuller1039

    @rolandalexandermuller1039

    5 жыл бұрын

    Looks a bit like a female Mick Jagger

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    Sad but true. She's a very good actress in the right role and seems like an intelligent & sweet lady. But I did NOT recognize her ! She has had way too much cosmetic surgery. She was already quite a pretty lady....there was NO need to have all the surgery. So sad...

  • @CarrieV9
    @CarrieV96 ай бұрын

    She’s fabulous too. Grant is my favorite actor.

  • @normadesmond6017
    @normadesmond60172 жыл бұрын

    Cary Grant took LSD to deal with his childhood traumas. It was seen in psychiatry at that time as a good way to let go of old hurt. And he always said that it helped him a lot.

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes indeed ! He took LSD hundreds of times and thought it really helped him a lot. And he ALWAYS took it under medical supervision !!

  • @normadesmond6017

    @normadesmond6017

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jubalcalif9100 yes, it did. And nowadays it has revived as a way to treat patients with trauma. Would I do it in that situatian? Nope. Do I think it is smart to treat patients with acid? Nope. But it helped him, apparently.

  • @pampam6629

    @pampam6629

    6 ай бұрын

    What kind of traumas he had?

  • @normadesmond6017

    @normadesmond6017

    6 ай бұрын

    @@pampam6629 Born into extreme poverty, Grant was told as a child his mother had died. She had actually been placed in a psychiatric institution. Soon after, his father abandoned him to start a new family with another woman. He was left alone at age 11. Because he was athletic he joined a local circus. That circus went to the US a few years later and he went along. And the rest is history.

  • @pampam6629

    @pampam6629

    6 ай бұрын

    I didn't Know that fact! @@normadesmond6017

  • @AndreaKollo
    @AndreaKollo5 жыл бұрын

    When you live in a world or work in and industry that applauds youth and forgets about great talented individuals as they age, most especially women, its hard not to try to stay young and relevant. Blame society for kicking great people to the curb because they're getting older. Yes, some go to far, and some end up a disaster and I too can't help but think omgoodness ... but I do understand what compels some to at least try.

  • @foto21

    @foto21

    2 жыл бұрын

    Women who aren't famous do this to themselves. Women who are young are doing this to themselves. Even young men are starting to do it. It's a personal choice and a stupid one. Movies don't owe anybody a career. There are films and tv films for older women that have been popular, but big movies are fantasies, and people want to see young people in fantasies. Men get an extra 20 years maybe, but there are time limits on them also, and it all depends on if they make the mistake as well, like Mickey Rourke and Burt Reynolds, both plastic surgery disasters. I wish we could've seen how they aged. It's all in the mind of the bonehead to do this. Hair dye is one thing. Plastic surgery is obviously a disaster, though I suppose some people claim to have had good ones. Somehow, I doubt that.

  • @erinkwalsh
    @erinkwalsh9 жыл бұрын

    so sad to see her! My grandfather knew Carey when they were players in Saint Louis at the Muny! He was still Archibald Leach. Have autographed pictures!!!!!

  • @rickrick5041

    @rickrick5041

    5 жыл бұрын

    Erin Walsh Liar

  • @sherrihinton8567

    @sherrihinton8567

    5 жыл бұрын

    How precious

  • @jramsey9690

    @jramsey9690

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why did she destroy her face with plastic surgery. She looks awful...

  • @anthonynewsome
    @anthonynewsome9 жыл бұрын

    god that's a shock - not seen her in a while & she was such a stunning woman - she would have aged beautifully -

  • @January.

    @January.

    9 жыл бұрын

    anthonynewsome agree

  • @TheCctripp
    @TheCctripp4 жыл бұрын

    Miss Cannon has the best laugh ever!

  • @rickdunn5821
    @rickdunn582111 жыл бұрын

    I have always loved her laugh!!!

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    I certainly have a notion to second THAT emotion !!

  • @clapolla

    @clapolla

    6 ай бұрын

    Thought it irritating

  • @johnydome
    @johnydome8 жыл бұрын

    i only watched this because carry grant was a great actor and loved his acting in hitchock movies

  • @angievalls7664

    @angievalls7664

    2 жыл бұрын

    Cary not Carry

  • @kay3333ify
    @kay3333ify2 жыл бұрын

    Great interview. She's still wonderful.

  • @massabielle2821
    @massabielle28214 жыл бұрын

    The majority of the comments are all about her very obvious facial cosmetic surgery. She was a very beautiful woman and really didn’t need to alter herself at all.

  • @elizabethwhite2151

    @elizabethwhite2151

    2 жыл бұрын

    Easy for someone who is not a woman over 25 who makes a living acting in t.v. and film to say. Obviously, this was not the look she was going for and her plastic surgeon was a total hack.

  • @massabielle2821

    @massabielle2821

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@elizabethwhite2151 : Yes, I hear what UR saying, but there is a point where a person must stop. Aging gracefully could be a challenge if we keep thinking that youth is the only viable worth in life, and especially as we see our bodies changing over the years. But making our faces pay the price for chasing our youth, only comes with ridicule when we become cartoons of ourselves.

  • @speedracer1945

    @speedracer1945

    2 жыл бұрын

    I noticed that right away.

  • @sharksport01

    @sharksport01

    2 жыл бұрын

    She looks like a vacuum cleaner. Even if she did fool someone, one look at the neck shows shes pushing 80.

  • @DR-qf9th
    @DR-qf9th2 жыл бұрын

    So glad he made her laugh. I always loved her laugh. Johnny Carson could really get her going😂🤣😂🤣

  • @beachbunny7256
    @beachbunny72563 жыл бұрын

    This is why I'd never get a face lift!!

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    I once new a lady who tried to have a face lift....but the derrick broke ! And another lady I once knew had so many face lifts that when she smiled her belly button winked !! 😂

  • @billytrueblood5627
    @billytrueblood56275 жыл бұрын

    She’s not a dam teenager. I think she is beautiful for her age.

  • @lauraarcher6996

    @lauraarcher6996

    2 жыл бұрын

    She would have been if she hadn't had surgery!

  • @Loveformula101
    @Loveformula1014 жыл бұрын

    She was gorgeous!!!

  • @MargaretWalkerCellist
    @MargaretWalkerCellist4 жыл бұрын

    SOMETIMES (and I haven't read the book and don't intend to) after a man gets married, he then slips into the role of head of household, and wants things a certain way. And if, like Cary, he's married a considerably YOUNGER woman that doesn't know what his standards are, or how to fit into them before she marries him, the man takes charge, and rules over the woman IF she refuses to FOLLOW his desire to make the standards continue that he had before he was married. High standards are not wrong. Younger women can't always follow this kind of man. That's what an age difference can do to a marriage. Before marriage there is no control issue; but after marriage, there can be, truly. If the man doesn't care what the wife does, that's another thing, but Cary Grant was particular in his dress, demeanor, and many things. IF she wanted him for a life partner, she should have understood this before the marriage, not after. Oh well. He was well-respected in many circles. "Just look at her now". That speaks volumes.

  • @englishlady8863
    @englishlady8863 Жыл бұрын

    One more coffee with her mother. So sweet.

  • @MuhammadEgypt
    @MuhammadEgypt12 жыл бұрын

    The criminal who had operated on her must be sued.

  • @massabielle2821

    @massabielle2821

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh my! I hadn’t seen her in quite some time, but there is a reason to age with grace, as our bodies dictate. I understand what you are saying, Mohamed.

  • @akrenwinkle

    @akrenwinkle

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm trying to think of a worse victim of surgery. Barring the obvious- Michael Jackson- I'd have to say Kim Novak.

  • @akrenwinkle

    @akrenwinkle

    3 жыл бұрын

    @JB JB Both ladies couldn't have done worse if they had let nature take its course.

  • @margaretlouiseable
    @margaretlouiseable6 ай бұрын

    HE WAS delicious! What a man! I bet he grew in that one life time more than many of us have the courage to do in many. Guts, immense charm, and Good God Almighty he was a classy gorgeous man.

  • @carolinen5396
    @carolinen53968 жыл бұрын

    OMG! the pressures of being in hollywood!

  • @carlinkay1151
    @carlinkay11512 жыл бұрын

    She seems like a lovely person and she is also a very good actor!

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    Indubitably !!

  • @jeanneparadise8200
    @jeanneparadise82005 ай бұрын

    Beautiful story and Dylan.

  • @puregoddessuniversity
    @puregoddessuniversity6 жыл бұрын

    She is gorgeous for 75!

  • @rickrick5041

    @rickrick5041

    5 жыл бұрын

    puregoddessuniversity How about for 72?

  • @robinbeech5531
    @robinbeech5531 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent book!!

  • @HTNPSullivan
    @HTNPSullivan2 жыл бұрын

    If you watch this video (see below) about Cary Grant's relationships with men that predate his marriages to women, and if you've ever lived with a narcissist (partner, sibling, parent, friend, wife, husband, maybe even one of your own children) you will recognize all the "red flags" of someone with narcissistic personality disorder. In the video about his relationships with men, you'll hear about when Archie -- as his intimates called him (born Archibald Leach) -- when Archie decided you were no longer useful, he acted like you were a stranger. This is known as "the discard." When he reconnects with his first lover (famous costume designer Orry-Kelly), it seems at first that they're going to reconcile but then it turns out the actor was trying to convince his former lover not to write about their relationship. What he did to his first lover is called "hoovering." Which was then followed by a permanent "discard." There's a much longer interview with Dyan Cannon in which you hear about how he dictated everything in her life, from what she wore to what drugs she took, with him. I lived with a "covert" narcissist, which is what Cary Grant was, a kind of wolf in sheep's clothing -- so often covert narcissists are charming and "light up a room" -- and my former partner wanted to pull me into his religious practices, and when I insisted that I have my own faith and values, he expressed contempt for me as a "nonbeliever." And he used this as an excuse to have an inappropriate relationship with his "spiritual mentor," a female minister my age, who fell for his phoney blah blah blah about spirtuality. What's especially sad about this short interview with Dyan Cannon, and the other longer one I saw, is that it shows how a person can get so brainwashed by a narcissist, he or she will still believe there was love between them and the narcissist, after they're long gone and when in fact you are never more than an energy source to them. You cling to the belief that this person once loved you, because to face the truth that you were living with (and had a CHILD with) a deceptive and empty being who, at most, NEEDED you, is just too painful. I believe Dyan Cannon never shook off his control over her mind and spirit... and it makes me sad to hear her say she wants others to understand his heart and love him even more. She never truly woke up to what happened to her... About his first male lover kzread.info/dash/bejne/ipep17OuqdDOf8Y.html and this one about his controlling behavior (begin at 5:21) kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y42h0cukZay1mbQ.html

  • @sharksport01

    @sharksport01

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree, Dyan is very narcissistic.

  • @marthawhite3353

    @marthawhite3353

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes, Cary Grant would fit this bill. Being so damaged in his own childhood there was nothing inside but probably rage and anger, and - ultimately, pain. But becoming the facade of Cary Grant was a great vehicle for life, that served him well. Except that intimate relationships require vulnerability, connection and a shared emotional intimacy. That he could not do. Ultimately, he was a beautiful false self and deeply narcissistic because of his broken and rejectful childhood. Anger and control come from those beginnings, and replace the possibility of a true and loving connection with another.

  • @shirleyfrost9909

    @shirleyfrost9909

    6 ай бұрын

    U will probably never see this, but u are so right. I lived with a narcissist, my mother, and was in pain til she died.bim now 70 and it never subsides...The hurt. God helps and I try and forgive. Thank u for understanding. 💜

  • @stevenmcwilliam6945

    @stevenmcwilliam6945

    5 ай бұрын

    Glad you lived with him , knew him all these years , were really a close personal friend. I find it shocking how you can completely and assuredly diagnose a public figure without ever actually knowing him. Shame. Who is the narcissist?

  • @thatspiritualhumane
    @thatspiritualhumane4 жыл бұрын

    She looks awesome, I mean the docs must be proud of their cosmetic malfunction !

  • @douglaswade5876

    @douglaswade5876

    3 жыл бұрын

    She looks like crap.....

  • @stefanoarduino2331
    @stefanoarduino23317 жыл бұрын

    Don't carry him too far, we like him... And we like his name to be spelt right.

  • @sheiladineen9483

    @sheiladineen9483

    3 жыл бұрын

    You mean spelled!

  • @IrishEyes1989

    @IrishEyes1989

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sheiladineen9483 "Spelt" is also correct and is, in fact, used more often than "spelled" in the English-speaking world outside of the U.S.A.

  • @cynthiasmith4130
    @cynthiasmith41306 ай бұрын

    He was stunning, even with that head of white hair!!!! His movies were so great!!!! I miss all the best stars from long ago....Now they were all stars too...His daughter looks just like him, she is beautiful....A Touch of Mink is my favorite, with Doris Day..... 😌😌😌... ❤️❤️❤️... 🌹🌹🌹....

  • @maureenohara6755
    @maureenohara67555 жыл бұрын

    Whatever makes you feel better about yourself.

  • @suereed3474
    @suereed34742 жыл бұрын

    Love her!

  • @barbierebel6473
    @barbierebel64733 жыл бұрын

    He was gorgeous!

  • @cynthianoel6220
    @cynthianoel62204 жыл бұрын

    Wow, the comments on here are pathetic. This video has nothing to do with hair, or cosmetic surgery. This is ABOUT her life with the Legendary Cary Grant. For God Sakes people stop being so cruel. All of you people making these viscous comments need to get a life. You all are Soo disgusted with yourselves and your miserable life's that you need to attack this woman on every level.

  • @robingagan6288
    @robingagan62886 жыл бұрын

    I did acid ONCE when I was 17...never touched a drug again!

  • @light279

    @light279

    Жыл бұрын

    Good for you. Sometimes ONCE is all it takes to smarten up. Happy for you.

  • @lennysamuel9290
    @lennysamuel92906 ай бұрын

    The woman's 86 years old and looks younger than women in their 50s! Lighten up😊

  • @alloftheclassics
    @alloftheclassics3 жыл бұрын

    Hey CBS can you correct the title? It's Cary Grant not Carry Grant

  • @RADIUMGLASS
    @RADIUMGLASS5 жыл бұрын

    8 years later and his name is still misspelled.

  • @Cordelia4219
    @Cordelia42199 жыл бұрын

    Why do women disfigure themselves like this? The problem isn't with the body...it's in the head !

  • @elchoya8770

    @elchoya8770

    5 жыл бұрын

    the face too!

  • @lianelayman7577

    @lianelayman7577

    4 жыл бұрын

    They don't do it on purpose.

  • @bellabelisarius2090

    @bellabelisarius2090

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lianelayman7577 OH NO? They do it thinking that they will cheat death. But it will never happen.

  • @TheNeverposts

    @TheNeverposts

    4 жыл бұрын

    FOR LOVE

  • @elizabethwhite2151

    @elizabethwhite2151

    2 жыл бұрын

    The problem is being a woman over 25 who has spent her life working in t.v. and film.

  • @owlprincess5242
    @owlprincess52423 жыл бұрын

    She seems really nice, everyone in comments saying things about her face, yes it looks bad but she is still a wonderful woman inside.

  • @sharksport01

    @sharksport01

    2 жыл бұрын

    How do you know?

  • @trishspinazola287
    @trishspinazola2872 жыл бұрын

    She’s a class act!! No wonder he loved her!!

  • @pamelafolger8449
    @pamelafolger84493 жыл бұрын

    Love her Beautiful Laugh!!💖💖🙏🙏 And Love Cary!💖💖🙏🌹

  • @joycevaneekhout4992
    @joycevaneekhout49922 жыл бұрын

    My daughter had the same experience after she got married. Control was it

  • @MostlyBrenda
    @MostlyBrenda6 жыл бұрын

    Would be nice if CBS spelled Cary correctly in the title.

  • @trixie9246
    @trixie92466 жыл бұрын

    She looks tragic - she was so beautiful

  • @helenheeney2284
    @helenheeney22844 жыл бұрын

    She was beautiful

  • @rosettegarbanz
    @rosettegarbanz7 жыл бұрын

    Talk about cosmetic surgery gone bad!!!!

  • @amylynnhunt55

    @amylynnhunt55

    7 жыл бұрын

    Isn't it awful? Women start to look the same too. I thought "no big deal" but could not stop looking at her lips. She is naturally so lovely, it is too bad that Hollywood sort of makes ladies feel the need to "look young". They just end up with PSF. Plastic Surgery Face, as we call it around here.

  • @Carol-D.1324

    @Carol-D.1324

    6 жыл бұрын

    rosettegarbanz REALLY?! That's ALL you got from this interview?!

  • @Carol-D.1324

    @Carol-D.1324

    6 жыл бұрын

    I guess I'm different. I watched this to learn more about one of my favorite actors.

  • @rickrick5041

    @rickrick5041

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cari D Did they talk about something else?

  • @thomasdelvin3683

    @thomasdelvin3683

    5 жыл бұрын

    she was in charge with how the process would result , she always had an unusual facial structure ,she forgot to limit herself to a face lift and not try to create a face with the scraps o f her youth .which were long gone.@@amylynnhunt55

  • @garythompson400
    @garythompson4005 жыл бұрын

    Steven Tyler is looking great.

  • @akiracastillo

    @akiracastillo

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @50hellkat2

    @50hellkat2

    3 жыл бұрын

    What a nasty comment

  • @kerensagrigson5410
    @kerensagrigson54105 жыл бұрын

    Dyan Cannon is a sweet lady - she looks great for her age !!

  • @jramsey9690

    @jramsey9690

    3 жыл бұрын

    She looks totally fake and plastic. She ruined herself.

  • @andreacrewe3330
    @andreacrewe33306 ай бұрын

    The book is selling because of Cary Grant, don’t blame her….she used to be so incredibly beautiful

  • @stephaniepersin4145
    @stephaniepersin41456 жыл бұрын

    I read the book a few years back. Good book not vilifying Grant that much. Grant gave away her dog without her permission because she was pregnant and he used LSD regularly. He really wasn't a great guy.

  • @ImagesofJosephSmithJun.
    @ImagesofJosephSmithJun.4 жыл бұрын

    Awe, love this, loved Cary Grant, drugs ruin everything good.

  • @jubalcalif9100

    @jubalcalif9100

    Жыл бұрын

    Dyan not wanting to take LSD was not the main factor in the crumbling of Cary's & Dyan's marriage. He turned out to be too controlling and she was too independent. But at least she gave him his GREATEST joy in life : his beloved daughter Jennifer.

  • @loopyjonny1
    @loopyjonny18 жыл бұрын

    sounds an intresting book,please be respectful thats somebodys mother/sister/daughter /aunt/grandmother&friend to.

  • @Roger-sn9ov
    @Roger-sn9ov7 жыл бұрын

    It`s sad that the doctors continues surgery. Even when they come for the fifth time or more. They should say STOP...

  • @ignorantbliss1778
    @ignorantbliss17784 жыл бұрын

    she was so lucky..thats a gross understatement

  • @carolbedrosian4650
    @carolbedrosian46502 жыл бұрын

    I can't get past the fact that they misspelled his name in the SUBJECT LINE of this video!!! "Carry Grant" --- really, CBS???

  • @grettalemabouchou6779
    @grettalemabouchou67792 жыл бұрын

    Love you Samile.💞💞💞💞

  • @elchoya100
    @elchoya1006 жыл бұрын

    CARRY on grant.

  • @ashleymarks6144
    @ashleymarks61443 жыл бұрын

    Jeez. I love Cary

  • @TexasGit
    @TexasGit6 ай бұрын

    Even 12 years later, it's probably ok to go ahead and fix that title!

  • @libajane
    @libajane5 жыл бұрын

    Cary would've hated what Dyan has done to herself. Shame.

  • @marymary20
    @marymary206 ай бұрын

    12 years have passed since this video was posted and Cary Grant's name is still misspelled.

  • @MrLemmy2000
    @MrLemmy20005 жыл бұрын

    she's 75 at this time lets see what you like at 75

  • @sherrihinton8567

    @sherrihinton8567

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very good point

  • @pamelafolger8449
    @pamelafolger84493 жыл бұрын

    💖💖💖💖💖💖!!!!

  • @moviefan8533
    @moviefan85333 жыл бұрын

    You misspelled "Cary Grant"

  • @marcmaschal2897
    @marcmaschal2897 Жыл бұрын

    She trashed him and told terrible stories about him in the divorce and custody battle.A real bitter woman

  • @CarolineOceanaRyan999
    @CarolineOceanaRyan9992 ай бұрын

    You misspelled Mr Grant's name. It's "Cary" -- one R. Amazing. Did some 19-year-old who'd never heard of him create that title? And no grown up was supervising them? Wow.

  • @linniem5982
    @linniem59822 жыл бұрын

    Her book says Grant picked on her from the time she told him she was pregnant. She could have been pregnant when they married and he resented it. It was a brief marriage.

  • @Catherine-ew1ww

    @Catherine-ew1ww

    Жыл бұрын

    She was pregnant before they married.

  • @dod2304
    @dod23046 ай бұрын

    Which intern posted this here and spelled it "Carry"? must be someone very young. Bless their heart. lol

  • @suereed3474
    @suereed34742 жыл бұрын

    Cary Grant is spelled with 1 r. Please correct the title.

  • @sleuthentertainment5872
    @sleuthentertainment58723 жыл бұрын

    Who wrote Carry???? My God!

  • @bobnicholas5994
    @bobnicholas59943 жыл бұрын

    Its so great to hear a cra cra make crazy sound sweet and normal...

  • @johansjr
    @johansjr4 жыл бұрын

    Love her and always will ..... ❤️

  • @hairyscotman
    @hairyscotman Жыл бұрын

    her LAUGH!!!!

  • @chrisallen1934
    @chrisallen19346 жыл бұрын

    You people criticizing should only be so lucky as to look this good at 75 with or without surgery. Dylan never was a classic beauty, and she’s done what she wanted to stay looking how she probably feels inside. It’s very hard to just accept the evidence of aging on your face when your spirit feels much younger. I haven’t gone the route of plastic surgery yet, but I moisturize like it’s my job! And it’s not because of any Hollywood pressure or to please men. I’m simply vain and I love looking younger than I am. I don’t expect that to change much...and I don’t judge Dyan Cannon for doing what she needs to do to continue to FEEL attractive. And again, for 75 she looks fabulous. She’s 80+ now. I think she looks very much like herself, with work done. There’s no crime in that. Man, there really is no way to win here! Let the woman live, dang it. She seems to be doing just fine.

  • @missyb9438
    @missyb94386 жыл бұрын

    Just read her book. Can't believe she let the fact Carey got rid of her dog when her daughter was born. I would of went fkn schizo!!!!

  • @carolynbaylies1761

    @carolynbaylies1761

    5 жыл бұрын

    That was wrong to get rid of the dog. I didn't know this. That's terrible. Dogs and children can be the best of friends. Jennifer would have loved that dog as she grew up.

  • @rickrick5041

    @rickrick5041

    5 жыл бұрын

    NickyB 75 Why did he do that?

  • @melissabowers6268
    @melissabowers62683 жыл бұрын

    Jennifer looks so much like her mother!

  • @lynphillips2109
    @lynphillips21096 жыл бұрын

    Does CBS not know how to spell Cary Grant's name?

  • @cherribenzin8289
    @cherribenzin82896 ай бұрын

    It is Cary not Carry.