To the lady in the video cutting her flowers with her dog running around, thank you! I lost my husband in 8 weeks to the most horrendous pancreatic cancer ♋️ that spread like wild fire...........it’s just been 1 year without my beautiful man, a true gentleman. Been together forever ❤️ we adored each other. Now I’m like you, learning to live, alone. Sometimes I can’t breath & other times I feel a great achievement when my independence kicks in. Just wanted to say thank you 💜

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Cece - We are very sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. And like Elrieda says, not every day is easy, for her there are still difficult days. But step forward, one day at a time, and allow the heart to heal. Hold the memories close to your heart. With much love to you xxx 💚

@florence1395

3 жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you so much, I subscribed because the video’s & true stories are liberating, thanks again 🤍

@cmoberg2036

2 жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you for this loss. We also have gone through horrible losses and the loneliness is real it's hard to go forward so I keep you in thoughts and prayers

@bridgetedwardsmentalhealth409

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your heartbreaking loss Ma'm - my heart goes out to you. From personal experience, grieving is a unique journey that takes its own shape and form for each one of us. I've slowly come to the realization of accepting all that goes with grief and loss - the ups and downs, and instead of resisting, judging or critising how I feel, the acceptance of what I feel has been very helpful. May you find inner peace Ma'm 🌺💞🌺

@fortbumper

2 жыл бұрын

yes it take much courage but you are not alone ! ....

"You must cry because that´s good for the eyes and the soul."

@maryr6300

3 жыл бұрын

Yes....love that.❤️

@CapriccioCello

3 жыл бұрын

True❤

@wilburshuman

3 жыл бұрын

especially........................ The soul. The eyes, are just the gateway there.

@shivanichoudhary9129

3 жыл бұрын

My mom always says that you should cry when u feel like it its good for your stomach 😄😂 ,all this after scolding me in my childhood.I feel lite after crying sometimes.

@ivywang416

3 жыл бұрын

I'm crying right now.

When I was just learning English, I remember my teacher taught us this; when people ask you “How are you? “ you just answer “I’m fine.” and don’t tell them how you really feel, nobody wants to know how you really are. This is largely true but over the decades, I learned those of whom that really care about you, will take the time to observe your face and emotion, and take the time to listen. I think it’s all about kindness to one another; even with a total stranger.

@ReflectionsofLife

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing these thoughts and experiences. Yes, very often it is just a greeting, a custom. But some people really want to know, absolutely true. And it's good if we can share. Have you watched the first video with Elrieda, it's called ‘All In The Mind’. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

There is absolutely not one upload from this channel that I do not learn something from ❤ just phenomenal work.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you! Such a beautiful message. Hope to bring you many more. Thanks for inspiring us to keep going. Have a wonderful 2021. Best wishes from , Michael and Justine

@sammuis01

3 жыл бұрын

I'd wish I could go and visit this lady and that beautiful part of the world she lives in. It would be good for my soul. I have cried my eyes out. Thank you for this wonderful interview. 🙏

@donnaryan6711

3 жыл бұрын

Said so well..this channel has stolen my heart and soul.

@adskifreeradicalvantonder5441

3 жыл бұрын

So true. Thank you

@mercedessamkhya3542

3 жыл бұрын

I love this Channel. I always learn something. Thanks

Watching her, I feel great respect and love for a person I have never met. Just knowing there are such people in the world makes it a better place.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@mirianansotegi649

3 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@nerildalima7008

3 жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife your videos are inspiration for me. Thanks!

@wilburshuman

3 жыл бұрын

She has to be, one of the Most Beautiful people (Inside and out)......... That walk this earth today !!! What a Special person she is !!!!!!!!!!!!!! It must be something in the water there, where you find all these Unique and wonderful people......... In this country, we seem to have lost this a good, 50 yrs ago.......... As a young man, I knew many of them, most born before the turn of the last century, or just after. Thanks again, for all you do !!!!!!!!!!!!!

@mariamijal6825

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree!!! Greetings from Argentina

I am so glad to see you visted this wise lady again! First time she talked about losing her baby girl, this time about losing her husband. How much pain and yet, how soft her eyes, how warm her heart, how loving her attitude toward everybody and everything! She is living example how one can live after properly done the inner work required. 🌸

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Well said! Despite all her loss, she is still such a beautiful soul. Such an inspiration to us all. We hope you have a beautiful 2021. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

@MadhanKumark86

3 жыл бұрын

So much wisdom in her words and compassion in her eyes., I like how this channel focuses on the lives of people with depth of perception and they have a way to present it poetically on the screen.., kudos to the team !

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Madhan Kuppaswamy - Thanks for your very kind words x

@guilherminacarvalho5598

3 жыл бұрын

I make your words mine, the first video of the channel I saw, was with this lady and immediately captivated me. What a beautiful soul

@enaasica9109

3 жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you Michael and Justine for all your great and inspiring work! Best wishes for the new year and love from Slovenia, Europe. Vesna

Nowadays when someone asks me "How are you" I always say "Fine". The sad truth is they really don't want to know. Wonderful video it made me 😢

@patjos7719

3 жыл бұрын

I guess what matters is that YOU are one of the listeners, the ones who ask "How are you really?" Peace to you.

@alexandercove1194

3 жыл бұрын

How do you know that that person isn't truly wanting to know how you feel? Do not assume that people are unfeeling...the fact that they ask you how you are is a gesture of kindness and maybe they might know just how it feels to be down....give our world a chance...reach out. You may get many a brush off but maybe you may be the saving grace of a person in great need...love you...keep your faith...relax and enjoy what life you have

@Noone-rt6pw

3 жыл бұрын

When I ask someone how they are, I really mean what I ask. Up until a bunch of low life maggots will script a scenario and act out drama bs, where a person naturally feels repugnance towards such animals that only think of tests and trials.

@lindawilson8434

3 жыл бұрын

I guess the next question should be"no how are you really ?"

@beatereich5466

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Yasmin, ask yoursel " how are you" and then be honest. Tell YOUR SELF how are you realy doing. I talk to my soul.....she listens ALWAYS and she helpfull always. The First thing my soul gives me back is Comfort. I learned to to rely on others. And not to blaue them anymore because they realy often don't want to listen when you are not fine. It is not their job. My job is to listen to ME to my SOUL. THAT set me free more and more. I wish you all the best! Trust YOURSELF......trust your soul. She is always loving....giving.....in compassion and so much more🥰she is already with you...just look in her direction.....she is your LIGHTHOUSE. You can't get lost....you can FEEL lost and alone but you are NOT!! Never ever forgot this TRUTH.....your soul loves to help you🥰

Thanks to Elrieda Pillmann for sharing her story with us x

@parry3231

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Elrieda Pillmann, you are a great blessing in your own unique life and the grace of being a guide for anyone who is seeking a life of love, appreciation, beauty, gentleness and wisdom. You display your love and your happiness in your honesty and it is a delightful experience for us to meet you .Thank you again for taking the time to speak and to share your thoughts and your life with us.

She is a true philosopher . Life does go on no matter what . A person , has to live until they die. Love the fullest life possible , and that means having sad days too. People put on smiles and express that they are having a ball. But, actually they are crying and screaming inside . As a empath . I can feel the truth.

@ReflectionsofLife

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing these thoughts Sue. We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, in case you haven't seen it yet - ‘All In The Mind’. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

When the elders talk, it hits everything. 💚💚💚

I love this. "Give people time to just be with you, give them time to be." She's a beautiful soul.

@ReflectionsofLife

Жыл бұрын

So glad you enjoyed the message Elrieda shared, Kimberly. We released another video with her, it's called 'All in the Mind', maybe you haven't watched it yet. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

@kimberlysunshine001

Жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife thank you so much ❤️ I will check it out!!

Promise me one thing, no matter what will happen guys, you will never remove this channel. Pls make more videos for us viewers. It make me relax and away from my anxiety. It's very calming & help me realize things more. I really love your channel. God bless you all who make these kind of videos possible.😢🙏❤️

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Stephanie, you have made our day. We promise never to remove this channel, we also really hope this is just the very beginning of a beautiful journey. Making these films bring so much joy into our lives. Have a beautiful day. Michael and Justine

@stephanieagacita5288

3 жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife thank you so much. God bless u all. ❤️❤️❤️

@louieperryanderson5751

3 жыл бұрын

that was a very good and excellent one and it's expiring I love this. Channel. It adds a lot to me even though I'm a show presenter!

"People say more without saying something." 🙏💗

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

So true.

@litelightli2848

2 жыл бұрын

so profound😊😊😊

This is truly what I need at the moment, these days I often find myself come to your channel to find peace whenever I feel emotionally discomfort, and today is a day like that, so thank you so much for this beautiful film, thank you.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

You are so very welcome, we hope your day and year is filled with brightness and love.Thanks for your kind words. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

@ranimvegas9085

3 жыл бұрын

There are also many uplifting channels that do have the same contents: Simple joys Happy zen life Lavendair ( with the chainese / American amazing girl) Aida

It is fine not to be fine. Experience it, embrace it, breathe, and whatever is going on inside of you will go when it has received the love and attention it needed from you. 😊💝

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

So true.

@jimmybiemans8264

3 жыл бұрын

I was so optimistic two months ago, I don't even recognise myself in this comment anymore. I wish I would still embody the wisdom I shared here that time. And it has just been two months since then... After 27 long years, I finally stood up to psychological abuse since it happened during the funeral of my grandfather last week. The reward for doing so, was more psychological abuse. I had to go to the police for protection, and they rejected my desperate cry for help beforehand without listening first. I feel numb, I can't even cry anymore... All I want is to be helped, even saved, but I have a hard time accepting a helping hand, because of the fear there will be a catch...

@thatswhatisaid8908

3 жыл бұрын

@@jimmybiemans8264 my dear boy, i wish i could help in some way. I know what it is like to be sent packing by policemen who don't believe your story. I hope you are safe now. Can you talk to a therapist? I hear that there are some now online if you can't see one in person. There would be no catch there. I am going to try your first wisdom, and i thank you for sharing. Love and hugs from Australia. 🇦🇺

@Chahlie

2 жыл бұрын

Jimmy, I understand you absolutely. I finally cut off my family, but that was just the beginning. The first time I went shopping and bought something for myself I felt guilty, looking around to see who was watching. Do not wish to be helped or saved. I was like that all my life, and now that I am gaining a sense of self I am not looking for a magic rescuer, and that's when you know you are on the right track. Evil people are always on the lookout for people looking for help. That being said, I found one of the hardest things to do is to accept and embrace and DEAL WITH fears. I used to repress them, almost physically, so as not to dwell and that didn't help in the long run. Best wishes to you :)

@jimmy-stevenbiemans1486

Жыл бұрын

This is a different account, but the same person as the original comment. I am well again. I saved myself and I am currently living an autonomous life, free from abuse. I have a social foundation and hopes and dreams for the future. Thank you for the kind replies you sent me. I really appreciate your sympathetic empathy towards me 🙏🏻❤️‍🩹

"You won't see it grow" ... what an awful thing to say to Mrs. Pillmann. It made me cry for her.

@alexandercove1194

3 жыл бұрын

If a person says "you won't see it grow". It is an example of someone who cannot see beyond their own horizon... it's not whether or not you'll see anything come to fruition...it's the knowledge that someone else will enjoy your efforts, your love and the caring you feel for the next generation....we have enjoyed all the efforts of others before ourselves.,..those people knew they were only here as a temporary home and yet they gave back just as we must joyfully do...here's to a great year of doing what we can and working within our own realm and making sure our children feel this is a good and loving world that belongs to us all....love to you and your family...keep the faith

@susantomkins8798

3 жыл бұрын

It speaks of that person's lack of vision more than anything.

@ingejustavanderhelm5208

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexandercove1194 "A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in." - Greek Proverb

"Fine is a cover." A common reply when deep inside is a struggling heart.

@tamiclose

3 жыл бұрын

It is indeed a cover. It always takes further inquiry into intimacy and this requires presence and time.

@thatswhatisaid8908

3 жыл бұрын

It is easier to pretend. I always imagine people freaking out and backing away if i said anything else.

Oh, to be intimate with, "How are you, really?" To hold time and space for this intimate dialogue. I've been challenged by this because I would have to be intimate with my own pain, but I truly believe what we're all seeking is intimacy under the disguise of accumulating things.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

💚

I think that knowing that you can't control everything gives one a sense of relief that the world will do what it must and we only have to control ourselves.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

So true.

@Carolmaizy

3 жыл бұрын

I learned that when I was told I had breast cancer. It was totally out of my control. But I could control my attitude and my response to the situation. I decided to learn what lessons I could from the experience, to be strong for my family's sake, to let myself shed tears when I felt overwhelmed, and to summon up courage when I felt nervous or afraid. I am cancer free for 9 months now, and am grateful for every day and for the family and friends who I share my days with.

Some old people have the most beautiful minds and hearts, they learn to grow through their painful experiences and make a good thing out of them and themselves. My deepest respect for them. Beautiful snapshots great job !

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much - we hope to bring you many more films in future. Have a beautiful 2021.

It's really good to see people heading values on KZread rather than artificial, hollow 🤳 Instagram📷 society. I would like to stress on what her mother said to the other one that they are expressing their personality and will also accept other.

Seven months ago I lost my husband after a year with cancer. I felt and feel the same thing that this lady said, I got emotional and cried listening to her, because every day I laugh, and I seem to be fine, but I'm still grieving and honestly I don't feel well, but almost all the people who ask me how I'm doing , I say, I'm fine. But the reality is that I need understanding, words, or silences, but not live as if everything continues the same as before, because it is not like that, since it is very recent. Thank you for publishing these experiences of real people, in which we feel reflected, that make us think and feel, and embrace us from a distance. Huge hug for you.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. We sending our thoughts and love back at you as we know that grieving does not just go away.. Huge hug . From Michael and Justine

@patjos7719

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss. May you find peace and may Love heal your broken bits and your heart. If I were there I would ask of you, 'How are you really?' and f you wanted to speak I would listen and if you wanted to be silent I would listen too. Thank you fro sharing, for reaching out. Peace,Love and Light to you always.

@claudiadeangelis8698

3 жыл бұрын

@@patjos7719 Thank you very much for your words, they have touched my heart. Thanks for your wishes, too I wish you have a good year, especially healthy. huge hug ♥♥♥

Dearest Elrieda❤Thankyou so much for your beautiful self🙏🏼Your beautiful words❤Your beautiful way of coping🌿🌷🌼🌻🌺🌹💐🌸

@ReflectionsofLife

4 ай бұрын

Such lovely words, thank you. Glad you enjoyed the message she shared with us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

@elodieleaf

4 ай бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife 🙏🏼💗🥰

I cried my eyes out..I lost my love last year and I am always saying I'm alright..when deep down I am not..thank you for this I needed it .a good cry not even realizing I needed it..thank you 💜

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Denise for sharing. Sending you strength and love, grief is such a personal thing. Glad this little film was able to help in a tiny way. Thank you for sharing with us how you felt.

@patjos7719

3 жыл бұрын

Denise, I hope that you can close your eyes and see us all right there with you, all of the Lovers, all of us together, holding one another in Peace, in Love, where we've always been. :)

@Denise-wj4yy

2 жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife ❤

@MESENJAH

Жыл бұрын

my blessings to you Denise 🙏 ❤️

the sparkle in that lady's eyes is priceless .the realization has taken place within.... very beautiful video. deserves to be shared .thank you for the glipmses of wisdom on this chanel

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

You are so kind - thank you. |we hope to bring you many more films this year.

@Dominique03

3 жыл бұрын

So true.

I am so glad I made the decision to support your beautiful films a few months ago! My heart and my spirit is always lifted with your uplifting messages. We need more 'good news' in this world.....especially now.....blessings

@Rojermans

3 жыл бұрын

try craing :)

@patjos7719

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, it is because of kind-hearted people like you that I can watch these beautful videos :)))

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Anne, we really appreciate everyone one who is on this journey with us. We are so humbled by the support and Justine and I will continue to bring you more films. Have a beautiful 2021. Best wishes, Michael

@bewusstsein3527

3 жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife thank you.. i cant support you guys financially but i can share this video just to spread awareness ..

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@music Of nature - Sharing with those who you feel need to hear our stories, that means the world to us. THANK YOU for all the support and encouragement for what we do. x

"you must cry because thats good for the eyes and the soul"💔😪💗💗💗

@tamiclose

3 жыл бұрын

Tears are our natural water.

I understand how you feel . You are sad, but keep doing small things like gathering flowers, taking care of your animals, taking a cup of coffee. Do the things that make you feel better. You know, you are not alone. Take care of yourself. Love from France

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for these beautifully kind words of support for Elrieda's journey x

And also a HUGE thank you to this team of incredible volunteers who assist with language translations on our films, helping to share these messages with a wider audience... Catalan - by Pau Zabaleta Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Pān Yung Chih Croatian - by Davor Bobanac French - by Natalia Hoffsteter German - by Tanja Pütz Hindi - by Nadeem Shaikh Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa Italian - by Vincenzo Mocerino Korean - by Chloe Park Malayalam - by Vishnu Reji Polish - by Anna Konieczna Portuguese - by Jonatha Koeller Romanian - by Iulia Nastase Russian - by Assiya Marzhanova Spanish - by Marianne Carrere Turkish - by Ahsen Aygören

@genesisdelacruz9187

3 жыл бұрын

How may I assist in Filipino translations? 😁

@bewusstsein3527

3 жыл бұрын

@@genesisdelacruz9187 tagalog .. kaya mo yan

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Genesis dela Cruz - YES, we would love your help. If you drop me an email (hello@greenrenaissance.co.za) then we can chat further about this. Thanks so much. Justine x

@genesisdelacruz9187

3 жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife Appreciate it!

@kingalakatos5742

3 жыл бұрын

I discovered recently that many films have subtitles! What a great news, so I can share these films with not English speakers too! (Hungarian and French especially) huge thanks for the volunteers!

Green Renaissance is fast becoming my favourite KZread channel. Every film fills me with so much love, hope, and faith in humanity. Thank you so much for every single video. They truly are all beautiful, glowing, radiant gems of life and wisdom...

@ReflectionsofLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words and encouragement, we appreciate it Sando. So glad the videos give you so much. Regarding this video, we had released an earlier film with Elrieda, it's called 'All in the Mind'. Have a look. 💚

This has got to be one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen. What a treasure this beautiful woman is for all of us.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

We agree - she is such a beautiful soul. Hope to bring you many films like this one. best wishes, Michael and Justine

Seeing these videos is a constant reminder to me on what is important in life. When we priotise things against their natural order of importance, our life becomes 'out of order'.

@ReflectionsofLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Anurag, for seeing such value in these stories. Have a happy weekend. Justine and Michael 💚

Words of wisdom and guidance....

Watching these videos makes me think of a time when we appreciated our elders and learned from them. They have lived so much life and can impart knowledge and wisdom to us. Even from one elder to another 😘

Unfortunately some don’t care to hear more than “I’m fine” I’ve had to accept that and find those who do care to know more. ☮️💕

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

We agree - surround yourself with people who really love and and care about you, no matter how you feel. Have a beautiful 2021.

@carolbrannigan-pavitt9564

3 жыл бұрын

Some don't care. However, sometimes people do care to know but they don't know how to ask that next deeper question or what to do or say with the answer. They haven't yet been taught or know that listening is all that is needed.....

She is so beautiful, I love her warm voice, she is gorgeous 😍 If I could visit her I would only sit there and watch the landscape and listen to her, she has so much to tell us🙏🙏 Thank you for this Video 🤗

If there is one thing that isn’t a waste of time in this life, it’s planting a tree

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

YES! We totally agree. x

To those with ears, listen and repeat.

*It's amazing to hear about your wisdoms* 💚 *For me as a 22 years old your words are pure gold, thank you so much* 🙏🏼 *Also the film is very beautifuly crafted!!*

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome. Hope to bring you many more films like this one in 2021.

Your films are a beacon of beauty and solace in an accelerated time of uncertainty. Thank you deeply.

This woman is an angel ! Loving your new film!

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much.

We are all tiny parts in the universe. Every good dead we can do is a little piece of magic.

"You new leaves when the spring comes" ... ahhhh, how beautiful. That is life!

@ReflectionsofLife

Ай бұрын

Nice that these words meant much to you. We have another video with Elrieda, it's called ‘All In The Mind’ (kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4FrlrScf7qddtI.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

When you lost someone you loved, God at the same time would give you another valuable things to make you happy! May the Lord bless you! Add oil🙏🙏👍

@ReflectionsofLife

2 жыл бұрын

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✨🌼Beautiful & Soul touching Words 🌼✨

The most beautiful message from a very wise and profound lady. She warmed my heart!

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Maria, she is such a wise beautiful lady. Thank you for watching and being on this journey with us. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

Ask your friends how are they really? Make sure ✌🏼

@vIBEDoUT-Channel

3 жыл бұрын

☮️

I usually say "fine" because I can sense that people who ask me are not genuinely concern of how I am doing. In this world we are living in, few are those who are genuine.

@patjos7719

3 жыл бұрын

So long as YOU are one of the genuine ones, that's all that matters :) Peace to you.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

We wish that 2021 is full of love and that you are surrounded my people who bring you joy. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

Societies evolved and remained civilized thru listening to the wisdom of their elders. What we did for thousands of years. These videos are so important in giving a voice to the now voiceless elders, devoid of elders roundhouses,. . A world where people just entering into their adult life can spew out whatever dribble pops in their experience-less heads and they actually manage to "influence" people with this... It really is concerning. (I am a young person who knows she knows nothing...so maybe this is dribble too)

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@00 Pisani - Ah my friend, you know much more than you give yourself credit for 💚

💚“Wear your heart on your skin in this life.”💚 It's beautiful as always 🙏💐

@ReflectionsofLife

Жыл бұрын

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"don't touch me, handle with care, this side up" powerful stuff...

@ReflectionsofLife

Ай бұрын

Glad her message meant much to you. Not sure if you have watched the first video with her already but here is the link: ‘All In The Mind’ (kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4FrlrScf7qddtI.html). Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

I truly needed to see this...while I thoroughly enjoy all of your videos, and they mean so much to me, this is one that I really needed to hear. My dear husband is 11 years older than me, and we've been together for 37 years. We are so close, and are not only in love, but best friends. In the back of my mind, as we have grown older, I have worried about what I'm going to do if he passes on, which one day he will. I truly cannot imagine my life without him...but Elrieda has given me a bit of hope that I may be able to go on....the cycle of life...thank you for doing this video...

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome. We agree Elrieda has given so many of us so much hope. We hope you have a beautiful 2021. Thanks for watching these films. Best wishes, Michael and Justine

@patjos7719

3 жыл бұрын

His Love for you will make you strong. Peace to you and may your years together be filled with the Joy of Now. :)

@yvonnemiller7204

3 жыл бұрын

@@patjos7719 Thank you so much...XOXO

What a sweet, sweet Woman ❤️ Thank u for your life lessons and also the tears, lol 🥰

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Lori Guercio - The tears mean that the story reached deep into your heart and moved you. Thanks for giving it the space to do that. x

@loriguercio4374

3 жыл бұрын

@@ReflectionsofLife True ❤️ God bless u guys!!

Love your filmmaking!

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

Danke schön, an alle Mitwirkenden für diesen tollen Film. Es tut so 👍

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your very kind words Lem. We love making these films. Best wishes, Justine and Michael

We are all vulnerable, that's a strength. Love the way she's done her hair up. Her eyes speak too.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

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I am grateful for your efforts to bring this valuable, heart touching, always timely and inspirational content. Many thanks for spreading the light.

@ReflectionsofLife

Жыл бұрын

Our pleasure Debra! Thank you so much for your kind words and your very generous contribution towards our project. We appreciate so much. And do you know about the first video with Elrieda? It's called ‘All In The Mind’. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚 Warm hugs, Justine and Michael 💚

" You must cry because that is good for your eyes and your soul." Only the one going through the deep pain can tenderly comfort us with this wisdom.

Grazie per i sottotitoli in italiano.Bellissimo video,pieno di sentimento e contenuti.Anche io ho una certa età e capisco pienamente ciò che vuoi esprimere.Grazie!!🙋🌺🌺🌺🌺🤗

Oh, I LOVE her! This speaks volumes to how being familiar with one's own pain is a necessary qualification to know the value of being a present and intentional listener over a cup of tea. Lot of healing happening at that table of hers. Beautiful. Thank you.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you - we feel so blessed to have visited this wonderful lady again. She is a beautiful soul. Thanks for your kind words.

The words of wisdom from this lady is awesome...simply awesome! “Crying is good for eyes and good for the soul” is grand advice! My wife shared this channel with me and I will in turn share it with my siblings, most particularly my brother who is a troubled soul.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Dave Chavez Jr - Thanks for sharing with those who you think could benefit from finding some connection to these stories. Hugs to you friend x

As I see this video,I am in tears over my own life not knowing what it will be..like . Right now I'm not fine......I live in a stressful time...the USA is also in a very stressful time..I have tried very hard to understand what is going on , but I think only GOD can help with this and I have to let him take care of this as I can't...pray for us and our country...😭

@patjos7719

3 жыл бұрын

All will be well my friend, this is just a passing thing, a winter, spring and a new dawn will come soon.

@dellahayden4705

3 жыл бұрын

@@patjos7719 thank you

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

We sending strength and love and really hope 2021 is a kinder more beautiful year for all of us. Best wishes from, Justine and Michael

This channel always gives me a hope in depressed world of mine

Every single video touches my heart! This one has a specific tone of itself...the soft and experienced voice of the lady gave it that beautiful tone. I loved it! Please never stop making such amazing, inspiring, soul touching videos. We need these badly.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you! Justine and I really love making these films for you and and this beautiful community. We keep inspired by receiving messages like yours. We hope despite the challenges we all face in these times to keep filming. Have a beautiful 2021. Thank you, Michael

@louieperryanderson5751

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah she's a genius and lovely touching stories

I didn't know I needed this video so much. It is so hard to feel all these wonders and mysteries when you live in a city full of concrete and people running from place to place.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@barbara vallejos - Even in the city, we can find ways to slow down, to connect. It is more difficult, but we can all do our little bit to show and share more care for those around us. Warm hugs to you 💚

Feelings are always there but sometimes you can't share them with other person .At times like that you have to accept yourself rather than waiting for someone else's acceptance.

It's a great privilege to be able to plant trees on your own piece of earth and go on to spend your lifetime there watching them grow. Not many people are in that situation these days. Depending on what country you live in, where you grew up, what kind of occupation you have or had and your parents'occupations, partners etc. cost of living in your area, rates, land taxes, environmental conditions like fires and droughts. I live in Australia, in case you hadn't guessed. 🙏🧡

@ReflectionsofLife

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your views and experiences here with us. And so true, that in todays modern world, having access to land and a garden is a rare privilege. Elrieda runs a small farm, hence her ability to access land. And she takes the most beautiful care of what she has access to, tending to the land and allowing nature to flourish. She is a precious soul, caring deeply for all of life around her. Big love to you, across the seas from South Africa. Justine and Michael x

Hi, Renaissance team, haha, yes: why must we always be polite? We don’t want to bother someone with our problems, I guess, knowing they’ve their own ones. But how can we learn to deal with all without sharing and learning from each other? The older I grew, the more I saw the signs of people who REALLY want to know or to share. Beautiful, how Elrieda doesn’t care about seeing the results of her plantings, because that’s NEVER under our control. But PLANTING is. It is said that the famous author GOETHE went out for walks with pockets full of seeds and spread them everywhere... our wild garden is so full of seeds, that we do the same and I recognise the flowers and herbs around us, some grow, some don’t . We have so much to share, not only with people, also with nature around us. Great to meet Elrieda and lovely, how your filming was underlining her words. Love, Monika❣️

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Monika Marsollek - Fabulous message. And I love the story about Goethe - thanks for sharing that. I'll make sure my pockets are well stocked with local indigenous seeds for all my future walks :)

Thank you to all the beautiful people in all of your heart and thought provoking films ! Your channel is a huge gift in this life .❤

@ReflectionsofLife

Жыл бұрын

Our pleasure! We are glad that we can share these stories. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

This lady is so strong and accept her life and live her I’ve the fullest. I lost my only son last year. Only four months I broke in pieces and I don’t want to move on. I know my son would not agree and he will not let me live like this. She inspire me and I think I am not a Superman and I will not use the Fine to cover my feeling anymore. I am not fine and it is my answer to question how are you. I will move on and do my gardening and see the world.

@ReflectionsofLife

2 жыл бұрын

We are truly sorry to hear about your loss Baan Song Jum, thank you for sharing this with us. May you be able to heal, take courage and strength from e.g. videos like this one, by doing gardening, maybe meeting friends, etc. It takes time to heal and there is no time frame for as to how long it takes. We certainly wish you all the best for the road ahead. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

@ReflectionsofLife

2 жыл бұрын

Another video which might help you is 'Through The Storm' (kzread.info/dash/bejne/pnZtms6dnrjJhKg.html). 💚

Prioritise mental well being. Very good advice. Thank you.

Thank you Green Renaissance for doing these films 💖

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Our pleasure!

@mohmmedabdulrasoul3664

3 жыл бұрын

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Absolute bliss... This channel will live on. You know why.. there is so much good here and this world that you are tapping.. It will feed itself

@ReflectionsofLife

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Prajakta - for believing so much in these stories, and the power of learning from each other. We send you love. Justine and Michael 💚

Your channel calms my soul. I come to watch your videos whenever I feel lost. Thank you. Thank you so much.

@ReflectionsofLife

2 жыл бұрын

Your words humble us Menwa - thank you for seeing such value in these films. Hugs! Justine and Michael 💚

There is a saying if you ask a dutchman how they are/ pull up a chair- - - Im half dutch /i say that, unless you want to hear don't ask that question how are you /its insincere and rude, go green renaissance !

Thank you. Wise and a beautiful soul. Oftentimes, when someone responds with “ I’m fine”, they are not.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

We are she really is a wise and beautiful soul.

There is a beautiful simplicity in Wisdom💕🤟🏼☺️

Oh,how I adore all those wise, elderly,soft spoken people. I wish I could sit with them for hours

@ReflectionsofLife

Жыл бұрын

So kind, we are so pleased you enjoyed listening to her. We released a second video with Elrieda on our channel, ‘All In The Mind’. Enjoy. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

This woman’s appreciation of the beauty and healing powers of our natural world really touches me. The day after losing someone close to me in death, I, too felt as if all the beauty in nature was speaking to me! Heightened awareness, despite grief. I felt a little guilty to feel both emotions (wonder, joy & deep loss) at the same time. It’s good to know sorrow & hope can go hand in hand. 🌈🍃

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

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What a beautiful and touching video about a beautiful soul: Elrida 💚 Planting a tree is NEVER a waste of time!! 💚 "How are you?? - You must listen behind the words"! So true!! 💚

This got me teary eyed.

This woman is such a beautiful gentle spirit🌸🍃🌸🍃🌸And I love the way you film how you capture very moment and movement you feel as though your there🍃

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Veronica Lidström Joannides - Thanks for appreciating all the tiny details, the intimate moments xx

"I can´t control everything." Why control. Does nature control, name one aspect of nature that controls. Just be and let it be, Just give your love and be loved .

@thatswhatisaid8908

3 жыл бұрын

We are all control freaks. Some of us are only wanting to feel in control of our OWN lives, though.

It's just so incredible and amazing as always that I learn from this channel. And the lady is awesome. As a survivor of covid-19, I felt lost and struggling a lot. My mental health is breakdown. And now I learn to keep my mental health to be better and watching this makes me cry suddenly without I'm realising it. And I feel better. Thank you for amazing work you've done.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Simply Slowly - Take good care of yourself. Covid has knocked the world on it's side, and we'll take time to recover and adjust. Be gentle on your body and your mind, and give yourself time to heal. We send you big hugs filled with love. Justine and Michael x

Elrieda, your soul is beautiful like a tree. 💚

@ReflectionsofLife

20 күн бұрын

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What a beautiful soul this lady is. I need to start seeing the world in a more positive light

@patjos7719

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! :)

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

We do still live in a very beautiful world ..

I love this woman so much. Shes the most beautiful human i have ever seen 🧡 God bless her soul

@rachelsutton4232

2 жыл бұрын

I agree 100%

I just love this one... What truth the lady speaks, so much food for thought, so precious.... Thank you again! Yes, we need words/movies like this more than ever. Loving the written intro.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! Hope to bring you many more this year. Have a wonderful 2021.

I think I am almost always fine. Having a dog makes most days fine. My last one died in my arms about five years ago. He was fifteen. It was much more difficult than I thought it would be. My recent one is a 3 year old chocolate/ sable American Cocker Spaniel and I think he shall probably outlive me. At any rate, he is probably my last dog. Dogs are wonderful companions. I always get a warm feeling when I see people with canine companions.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Hi John, you sound just like us. We chose not to have children but have 7 rescue fur "children" - four dogs and three cats. Any they really make our world a better place. Especially in the times we living through - they teach us about unconditional love. You might like this film we did about dogs - kzread.info/dash/bejne/do123LCyhsucaZs.html Best wishes, Michael and Justine

So simply said....yet so true and profound.

Simply BEAUTIFUL.

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

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Soo much wisdom ... touched my soul 😇💜

Thankyou that is life Your wondrfull thankuou

I listen to these vids when I need a lift. Especially, before I go to sleep. What a way to dream.

@ReflectionsofLife

27 күн бұрын

That is so touching. We are so glad you find them uplifting. You might have watched the other video with Elrieda already but here is the link again: ‘All In The Mind’ (kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4FrlrScf7qddtI.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

This lady is light and love and everything beautiful ❤

Such a wise woman

If someone would have told me moving & letting go would bring my joy back I’d have laughed. But that exactly what happened! recently we moved to a tiny A frame house on a lake Minnesota. We left the city and sold our family home. I had to let go of 70% of what I owned to fit into my new house. Wow was that hard yet freeing!! Letting go freed up my time & space to enjoy life. Clutter was gone. Which helped my mood & mindset. It was in the quiet of the trees in the forest I could finally hear myself think. It was there I felt protected and safe to dream. Dream for myself. I spent endless hours walk & hiking and I stopped counting my damn steps! 😆 I saw such beauty in the differently types of moss, ferns and birds. Happy to say that I am a recovering couch potato! So, I needed to get my balance back. I got out my old kayaking & bought a stand up paddle board. I fell more than I stood at first. Now I’m not bad. I found Just being near the water brought me such peace. Then the strangest thing happened. I began to WANT to wake up in the morning! This was huge! Because I dreaded mornings & was depressed a lot of my life. It was Under the stars and northern lights I realized how beautiful MY life could be. Gratitude welled up. I got rid of more than just my possessions when we moved. I left depression & anxiety. It turns out a quiet life & simple life was what was what my soul needed all along. It ONLY took me 51 years to find my inner peace & happiness. 😆🤷‍♀️ but I am So glad I found my way even it it’s taken a while. I just love these short films and they’ve brought so much joy to me. I feel a kindred spirit in these stories and the people in them.

@ReflectionsofLife

2 жыл бұрын

We appreciate your kind words and that you shared your experiences and thoughts with us - how you freed up space in your surroundings and within you to arrive at a very happy and content place. So wonderful. The place you are living at now sounds great. May your happy journey continue, it is so good to be united like this. Greetings to you on Lake Minnesota, Justine and Michael. 💚

Beautiful soul!! I love her❤

You have a very beautiful dog and a beautiful soul

Done so beautifully as always....lovely lady who hasn't lost her zest for life in spite of her loss

@ReflectionsofLife

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words. So happy you liked the film. Have a beautiful 2021.