Life in a Cult and the recently revealed scandal @inspiredbyherstory

Linda shares about her life growing up in a cult - the good, the bad, and the recent scandal involving 1000's of children.
‪@inspiredbyherstory‬
#faith, #truth, #healing, #2X2, #jesus #cult #children #advocatesfortruth #wingsfortruth #resourcesforhealing #victim #victimsurvivor #recovery #protectiontosurvivors #workersandfriends #workers #friends #sexualabuse #victims #exploit #vulnerability #family #community
Recovery Resources:
Advocates for the Truth - “Giving voice and protection to survivors, exposure and accountability of perpetrators, and justice to survivors.” - advocatesforthetruth.com
Wings for Truth - “Working to inform, guide and support those who have been sexually abused within the fellowship of the workers and friends.” - wingsfortruth.info
Resources for Healing - “To provide resources and expertise to the victims of child sexual abuse, and those working to help victims who are suffering from the lifelong trauma of such abuse.” - resourcesforhealing.org
The Way Out - “Providing assistance to workers who have given their best, but have reached a point in their service where they need to leave the work. Help is available both to the who are staying in the fellowship, as well as workers who need to step back for a time.” - 2x2thewayout.org
Voices for the Truth - “Help us support victim-survivors and empower Friends to create a safer community.” - voicesfortruth.org
Telling the Truth - “This website represents the largest collection of 2x2 historical documents on the internet.” - tellingthetruth.info
Expressions - “Views and voices of ex-2x2s, Time to tell the truth.” - ex2x2.info

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  • @grammabevie
    @grammabevie8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the sharing. This world is full of evil and when evil happens under the guise of ‘good’ it is even more horrific.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Exactly....I completely agree. It's important for us to "think on the lovely things," but we also need to be aware of the harsh realities around us. Thanks for your response.

  • @P_Gamble
    @P_Gamble9 ай бұрын

    Wow, thank you for sharing your story Linda, so amazingly wise, compassionate, thoughtful, loving and kind, and accurate.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching and for your kind comments.

  • @cherylmckerrow9106
    @cherylmckerrow91065 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I too, was raised in this cult. I was raped by an elder when I was 16. It has affected every aspect of my life until this day. I thought for years that I was the only one. I felt isolated and alone and that I had to hide my secret because it must have been my fault. Even though I begged him to stop what he was doing. My life as I knew it ended that day and I was placed on a path of confusion, distrust, anger, fear and isolation. I am so thankful that this evil has been opened up and is seen by so many. The truth ALWAYS comes out. And still, there are so many who choose to ignore, cover up, or just shield their eyes so they don’t have to see.

  • @kjellterskelter

    @kjellterskelter

    4 ай бұрын

    So sorry to hear this, God WILL judge all of them. Our justice system will only do so much, but God will have his way with them

  • @Peete71

    @Peete71

    3 ай бұрын

    There is an FBI investigation into the sexual abuse by those in the 2 by 2s. They are looking for information what happened to you and many others. You aren’t alone, always remember that.

  • @nelliemcclain8921

    @nelliemcclain8921

    19 күн бұрын

    I thought I was the only one too!

  • @KristinaTurnerUS

    @KristinaTurnerUS

    5 күн бұрын

    I actually had my legal and medical rights taken away in retaliation for reporting something similar that happened when I was 16 and I have advanced degrees that I didn’t get to use.

  • @FreidaCrowell
    @FreidaCrowell8 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much I grew up in this and was so skocked at all this abuse We have gotten out after all of this Our Overseer Gerome Flandel is covering up everything he can and we don't see much change at all.

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi. Thanks for your comments! There are some links to various groups that might be of service to you. Hopefully this helps. Linda

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    The cover ups just seem to keep going on and on. I'm glad some are trying to make a difference now. I know how difficult the transition is away from the 2x2, so my prayers are with you.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching the video. I'm thinking of so many, like you, who are now faced with big challenges...those of deconstructing what they've held so dear, and re-establishing some spiritual stability in their lives. It isn't easy....but it IS possible with a continued trust in our heavenly Father who knows us and loves us to our core.

  • @dinahdeuel525
    @dinahdeuel5252 ай бұрын

    I was raised in this group and abused. Praise God He set me free!

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    2 ай бұрын

    Whom the son sets free is free indeed! - John 8:36 Praise God!

  • @DawnalynForrest
    @DawnalynForrest7 ай бұрын

    I grew up in this. All emotions are felt with the broken trust and disbelief. It’s been as a brain lobotomy.

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    7 ай бұрын

    Make sure to contact the support available in the links. Thanks for sharing!

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    An interesting way to describe it for sure.@@inspiredbyherstory

  • @annemariliebenberg4764
    @annemariliebenberg47648 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. I left 30 years ago. I was one that was not believed. I am only discovering now how much of this I haven't had closure on. This coming to light is validating as well as terrible. The relief to realise that it wasn't me being a bad spirit....it was a toxic environment.❤

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I hope that you are able to connect with one of the groups that are linked in the description. I appreciate that you commented. Thanks. Linda

  • @Livelove111

    @Livelove111

    7 ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry you weren't believed and had to go through anything like this.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    It's a grievous thing for someone to come forward and not be believed. I'm so sorry that happened to you. May your healing journey continue with a full realization that you are lovely and your spirit is honest and truthful and beautiful.

  • @ComeToCORT
    @ComeToCORT5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching.

  • @user-cv2ee4wt6x
    @user-cv2ee4wt6x4 ай бұрын

    It has been such a jolt to know there have been so many wolves among the sheep. Kind of makes one go back to Be still and know that I am God. And the words in red in the gospels. And to find a safe place in prayer.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    3 ай бұрын

    AMEN

  • @rachaelsmith2418
    @rachaelsmith241819 күн бұрын

    My family is all in this church. I got out. I was a worker for a short time. Would love to find a group to speak with.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    14 күн бұрын

    @rachaelsmith24118 Just in case you hadn't seen them, there are also a number of recovery resource links listed under the video.

  • @fionaparkerkosykitchenfibr1041
    @fionaparkerkosykitchenfibr10419 ай бұрын

    I belonged to that cult in the UK, left 20 years ago but the majority of my family are still in it. The hardest thing is to accept that all the teachings you have grown up with was a lie! It’s turned me against religion but so lovely to hear your story x

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi. Thank you so much for responding to this video. There are a few links to varaious groups that might be able to help you as you walk through the healing process. Thanks for connecting to us! Linda

  • @Heaveniswaitingforyou

    @Heaveniswaitingforyou

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m so sorry for what you endured in the cult! 🩷🥲I was born and raised in it and left back in 2020. If you want to hear my story feel free to! Sending you love from Canada 🇨🇦 V a n e s s a ‘ s T e s t i m o n y O u t O f S p i r i t u a l B o n d a g e

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching. Yes, that realization still haunts me sometimes, even after all this time. There has to be a deconstruction and rebuilding which takes time and effort. It's not impossible though. :)

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Vanessa, where can I find your story?@@Heaveniswaitingforyou

  • @jlmullen29
    @jlmullen294 ай бұрын

    My wife used to be in this cult. Praise God she came out of it and we were married before the true Church. We are taking care of my mother in law and she is still in this wicked cult. She is so ingrained that even trying to talk to her is a challenge. She did have some workers come to the house for lunch. We had a very heated discussion and they have not been back since. We are told by Mom not to talk about her religion and we continue to pray the Lord will set her free. Thanks for sharing your testimony.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank the Lord your wife has found freedom in Christ. It has been my experience that our words just don't get through the barriers of this group. Prayer is powerful though. Our battle is in the spiritual realm, so we continue to pray. Thank you for watching and sharing your comment.

  • @riverofthewood

    @riverofthewood

    3 ай бұрын

    It sounds like you've escaped one cult only to end up in another. There is no such thing as a "true church". It's all man-made bullshit. Keep going. You're not out yet.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching. It is very difficult to speak reasonably with one whose mind is convinced of the two by two way of life. It's like any other cult mind set, they shut down the conversation. Some have patterned responses to logic and reason, and that can be frustrating for anyone trying to break through that barrier. I think I finally just decided to just continue loving them as always, but to refrain from theological discussions, unless they requested them. I believe our prayers are powerful, and join you in your prayer for your mother-in-law.

  • @riverofthewood

    @riverofthewood

    3 ай бұрын

    What church is the "true church" to which you referred?

  • @jlmullen29

    @jlmullen29

    2 ай бұрын

    @@riverofthewood Thanks for asking. The true Church is the body of Christ uniquely fashioned by our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 Peter 2:5-9 Ye also, as lively stones, are built up a spiritual house, an holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices, acceptable to God by Jesus Christ.6 Wherefore also it is contained in the scripture, Behold, I lay in Sion a chief corner stone, elect, precious: and he that believeth on him shall not be confounded.7 Unto you therefore which believe he is precious: but unto them which be disobedient, the stone which the builders disallowed, the same is made the head of the corner,8 And a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offence, even to them which stumble at the word, being disobedient: whereunto also they were appointed.9 But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light;

  • @RiaSand-bp5gp
    @RiaSand-bp5gpАй бұрын

    Never abused by anyone in group but was abused by a family member and I b ever believed just because someone said it thanks to my parents

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for your comment...however, I don't quite understand the last part of it because of a typo. Can you clarify please?

  • @RiaSand-bp5gp
    @RiaSand-bp5gpАй бұрын

    I appreciate your story. I have had a different experience but I really appreciate your story

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching and commenting. Each one has his/her own experience, and none are less valuable than another's. I do hope yours was on the more positive side of different. I'm grateful for the many that did have positive experiences, and I grieve with those who didn't.

  • @orazha
    @orazha5 ай бұрын

    I knew Peter. This is absolutely shocking. Thank you for video and sharing. My dad was a "worker" before marrying my mom. We've heard lots of stories but, when I started hearing about people leaving the church___ And a tiny bit about why____.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching. It really is shocking. It has taken a long time for me to really absorb the reality of it all. Thank you for your comment.

  • @mitzilove-thelymphatica4788
    @mitzilove-thelymphatica47889 ай бұрын

    41:04 Thank you for sharing your story. How beautiful it is that Jesus drew you to Himself as you asked questions….❤

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    9 ай бұрын

    I'm forever grateful!

  • @karenmartin3159
    @karenmartin31593 ай бұрын

    Linda, thank you so very much for sharing your experience. It resonates with us as we are 4th generation members of this church and just recently stepped out. Your honesty and courage is inspirational and your kindness speaks volumes. It's been one year today since the Dean Bruer scandal became known and the carpet was lifted on so much deceit and cover up. We commend you for your bravery. With love and care from Ontario Canada.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your very kind reply @karenmartin3159. I'm so sorry you've had to go through the challenge of deconstructing something that would have been precious to you as it was to me. It's so hard, yet it becomes something we have to do when our convictions hold us. Sending you love and praying for your journey. Trusting our Father with your care.

  • @darshijacob
    @darshijacob8 ай бұрын

    Relate to this in many ways. ❤

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi. Hoping that you're able to connect with one of the groups within the description of this video. They will be able to assist you with anything you might be needing. Thanks for your message. Linda

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching.

  • @alvinkroeker6167
    @alvinkroeker61679 ай бұрын

    Thankyou Linda for sharing and caring . Alvin and Diane Kroeker

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for connecting! Linda

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    I appreciate you watching. I think of you two and hope you're doing well.

  • @DogsAreAwesomeFriends
    @DogsAreAwesomeFriends2 ай бұрын

    Perplexing isn’t it, grappling with the word truth itself after something you’ve lived in called The Truth is not truth at all? I remember being a little girl and told my neighbor friend my age whose dad was the Methodist minister down the street, that our way was the only true way and everyone else will go to hell. I was raised in the same way as you. I left when I was 17, much to the protestations of my dad, who was an elder and we had at one time Wednesday night bible study in our home. That ended when my parents divorced. Sadly dad died believing all of his kids were doomed, because none of us are in it anymore. I was raised in it. It’s all I ever knew. I always sensed something wasn’t right. I understand. I believe you’re doing really good. I’m glad you are in counseling. I got professional help for years. Your sweet heart has guided you to the real truth, and I’m thankful. I consider myself a survivor. It’s been 43 years since I left. I can’t say that I’m shocked by the news of the abuse for my own reasons, yet I was shocked at how many perpetrators have been made known and I expect that will increase. I feel for everyone who have been affected by this false belief system. Thanks for sharing your story. You’re beautiful. 💛

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for responding to the video, and for your kind comments too. This is something that affects those of us who are or once were involved in a very deep way. Though we've long been out, we still have a connection by way of how profound and powerful the influence is. Thanks for writing, and I'm glad you left so long ago.

  • @DogsAreAwesomeFriends

    @DogsAreAwesomeFriends

    Ай бұрын

    @@lindaaletatame9650 Love you.

  • @kathywaltrip4921
    @kathywaltrip4921Ай бұрын

    Perpetrators don't have just one victim. 550 perpetrators means thousands of victims.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    Ай бұрын

    So heartbreaking.

  • @user-cv2ee4wt6x
    @user-cv2ee4wt6x4 ай бұрын

    I wish you lived by me. God and His Son are sooooo amazing!

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    3 ай бұрын

    Amen.....so true!

  • @chudwickmt
    @chudwickmt3 ай бұрын

    I left the fellowship (can’t call it the Truth anymore) 37 years ago, and this was still a gut-punch to me.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    3 ай бұрын

    Isn't it mind boggling how something can still affect us in such a big way, even after so much time has passed? It shows us how strong the hold was on us. Thank you for watching.

  • @brucegmurdoch
    @brucegmurdoch9 ай бұрын

    Beautifully authentic Linda!

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! Feel free to share this with your friends!

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your comment Bruce.

  • @noregretsforme
    @noregretsforme9 ай бұрын

    My grandparents belonged to that cult. Preachers (two by twos) wed and Sunday meetings in peoples homes. Went to a convention every year. Did not go to a church. Also called non-denominational

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    8 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing! If you're interested, there are various links within the description of this video that might be of service to you. Linda

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes, that's it.

  • @jordanas3750
    @jordanas37506 күн бұрын

    Did she just say that she left one Cult and entered another? And there was no push back from the moderator?

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    5 күн бұрын

    I have learned that everyone has a story. It’s not my job to judge it, especially as it is being shared. The conversation will depend on my response. And, we hear that she eventually found truth. This is her story.

  • @brandonmathueofficial
    @brandonmathueofficial9 ай бұрын

    This was amazing 🎉❤

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi. Thanks for your encouragement in your comments! Linda

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much.

  • @JaniceSimmons-oz5gf
    @JaniceSimmons-oz5gf7 ай бұрын

    I also was brought up in this cult... im from Australia. Very restrictive.... i left when i was 19.

  • @inspiredbyherstory

    @inspiredbyherstory

    7 ай бұрын

    Glad you were able to leave and find freedom. Please feel free to share this information with your friends. There are some links for more information.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    I've heard a lot of scandal there in Australia as well. Seems to have affected the group worldwide. I'm glad you found your way out.

  • @mitzilove-thelymphatica4788
    @mitzilove-thelymphatica47889 ай бұрын

    43:59 Amen!

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @Charity-vm4bt
    @Charity-vm4bt2 ай бұрын

    This Y.T. channel and several other Y.T. channels similar to it were sent to me "randomly" by the Y.T. algorithim. It seems that happened to other viewers, based on their questions - such as, "what is it?" Otherwise, I never heard of this sect before.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    Ай бұрын

    This group (cult) is unique in that it prefers to have no name known to outsiders, and even among themselves claim to have no name. They call themselves The Truth when speaking to insiders. This, and the fact that they don't have church buildings (meeting in homes or community halls), also keeps them relatively discreet. They prefer to be a bit under the radar, believing that those who belong to God will be led to them by Him.

  • @StarSurvivor1585
    @StarSurvivor15853 ай бұрын

    It would be helpful to know what cult this is within the title

  • @Peete71

    @Peete71

    3 ай бұрын

    The cult without a name, internally called the Way or the Truth.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    3 ай бұрын

    This cult is sometimes referred to by outsiders as two by twos.

  • @sheilaoreilly6826
    @sheilaoreilly68264 ай бұрын

    Volume of people involved? Men. Makes our easier to say. I think I've heard off over woman. Not even sure that was within this group.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    3 ай бұрын

    I don't know for sure, so I won't say for sure.

  • @godswarriors7543
    @godswarriors7543Ай бұрын

    Thy law is the truth. Psalm119:142Thy righteousness is an everlasting righteousness, and thy law is the truth. Hebrews 10:16 This is the covenant that I will make with them after those days, saith the Lord, I will put my laws into their hearts, and in their minds will I write them; We have left the truth a long time ago. But now if we choose truth (Jesus) we must obey God in Deut. 6:8-9. Jesus is The Word, John 1:1-5 The Word God spoke: Exodus 20:1 The Word God wrote: Deuteronomy 4:13 and The Word God made flesh John 1:14. Psalm 119:151 Thou art near, O LORD; and all thy commandments are truth. Bring forth that spirit and let your light shine, or as Paul would say, "put on Jesus", Enter into the covenant of God. Ecclesiastes 12:13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    Ай бұрын

    And all His commands are wrapped up in love - Matt 22:37-40 What an amazing God!

  • @godswarriors7543

    @godswarriors7543

    Ай бұрын

    @@lindaaletatame9650 Love is a commitment, a feeling, a state of mind. There is no love in an anarchistic state, yet keeping The Ten and the Sermon as instructed in Deuteronomy 6:8-9 can allow the Spirit to lead us all.

  • @rufuspatrick2764
    @rufuspatrick27644 ай бұрын

    What is the name of the cult?

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    4 ай бұрын

    They don't really believe in having a name. They refer to themselves as the Truth or the Way...but that's not an official name.

  • @TheJaymac72

    @TheJaymac72

    2 ай бұрын

    In the US you will hear terms like Meeting, “The Friends” (very commonly used), The Truth, The Way.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    2 ай бұрын

    @@TheJaymac72 Canada too. In the video, I often referenced it by using "church" but we never did call it that when we were part of it.

  • @tilu3303

    @tilu3303

    Ай бұрын

    @@lindaaletatame9650 Insiders called it "The Truth" or "The Way" - (ironic that Jesus said only HE was the Way, the Truth, and the Life) in the PNW of the U.S. when I grew up in it. I've been referring to it as the 2x2s since getting out in '84. Linda - you reminded me of my Mom in this video who wrote one of the first books circulated in North America after The Secret Sect. Bless you for sharing your story.

  • @lindaaletatame9650

    @lindaaletatame9650

    Ай бұрын

    @@tilu3303 That's awesome! I likely have her book, since I've tried to collect quite a few on the subject! What one is it?