1. Listen more than you speak 2. Don't announce anything unless it's done 3. When everyone else is doing one thing, do something else 4. Don't display a lot of your possessions. Envy and jealousy are real and so is energy. 5. Moving in silence involves not having too much pride and living a private life without any shame Final note: Protect your energy, value your privacy, and recognize who has good intentions for you.

@DarkroomMedia007

Жыл бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽🎯👏🏽👏🏽🎯👏🏽

@thomasrivera535

Жыл бұрын

Wow

@AtheneHolder

Жыл бұрын

thank you!!

@thomasrivera535

Жыл бұрын

You are so dead on silence sanctify your journey

@nicolejones9914

Жыл бұрын

This comment hit! 💯

Don't tell them what you're about to do. Don't tell them what you're doing. Just show them what you did.

@loschepescrazyschepes1275

Жыл бұрын

🎉

@tchibazz

Жыл бұрын

This is just it

@hughjackson9279

Жыл бұрын

I would like your comment, but it already has 111 likes. (LOA)

As introvert I naturally move in silence that’s one pro about being introverted.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

That’s a good double whammy!

@jeccym8715

2 жыл бұрын

I have a friend who thinks I should share everything because she shares everything too and am like 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 duh, I don't have to my friend

@fashionforwarddd

2 жыл бұрын

Thats one thing I love about introverts!! Among many other things.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

a fendi!

@MimiWentGlobal

2 жыл бұрын

Especially before,during and after the pandemic 😂

I "disappeared" nearly a decade ago. Silence is so regal and powerful. It allows you to transform into something better

@princesslynns

8 ай бұрын

THIS!!!

I’ve always “moved in silence “ in doing so, I’ve been labeled anti-social. Keep them guessing, is my motto.😊

@pendafen7405

11 ай бұрын

Same. As a clinically-diagnosed avoidant/ASD person, I have always lived this way. Tbh taking it to the other unhealthy extreme of reclusiveness sometimes...

I deleted social media awhile ago… lost touch with a lot of friends. I noticed I always had to be the one reaching out, planning, etc. A couple months ago I made the decision to pull back and it is like I have awoken! I am finally finding peace within myself and my close loved ones and value the simple things in life now. Not everything is about showing off I have a life and finding that privacy like you speak of was the best thing that happened to me. 👏🏼

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

I so resonated to this, Krista! Good for you on finding the beauty of pulling back and just existing as-is 👏🏾

@TweetsIsBoss

Жыл бұрын

this is literally me right now, like i've had ig deleted for i think 2 or 3 months now and one of my friends literally was like oh i didnt know you deleted ig, meanwhile i wasnt texting in the gc for that whole time ☠️ really puts things into perspective when your presence isn't missed much

@Malcolm_LaFlare

11 ай бұрын

I ended social media during the MySpace days. I never went to Facebook\Twitter or whatever came after. I make it a point to never change my phone number so if anyone wants to reach me they can. Hide all accomplishments and dont invest in things people can steal or take. I know this video is for women but a lot of smart men already move like this.

@calisongbird

11 ай бұрын

@@Malcolm_LaFlarewhy “hide all accomplishments” though? Are you on LinkedIn? Depending on your line of work, refusing to network and display some of your professional accomplishments can block career opportunities and professional growth.

@oldyeller6518

11 ай бұрын

Whatever. You tube IS social media 😄😄😄

There an old saying “confidence is silent but insecurities are loud.” This video is well articulated. Thank you for sharing.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

you’re welcome i love that quote

@XOChristianaNicole

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful quote. Thank you, for sharing.

@thaconqueror777

Жыл бұрын

This was a barrrrrr 🔥

@oiiuyyy

Жыл бұрын

🏹👈

“The pop out only counts when you’re not always out”

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

and that’s just how the cookie crumbles 🍪

@TheDiaryofDestaney

Жыл бұрын

💯

DON'T ANNOUNCE ANYTHING UNTIL IT'S ALREADY DONE! You've nailed it, lady! plus, "talk is cheap." For example: when it comes to "jobs".

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

omg yes!!! until you sign that direct deposit form or sign contracts DO NOT SAY NOTHINGGGGGGG ‼️

@britjj5126

2 жыл бұрын

Yep. Jealousy, envy and projection is very real ouchea!

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

@@britjj5126 extremely real

@gorgousbeatmakeupp5477

2 жыл бұрын

Even when you sign contracts don’t say a word. Evil eye is real. Never announce your blessings. Who cares if ppl think you not doing anything in life. It should be only, you, god and very close ppl around you that is concern about your well being should know!!!

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Another word!

I resonate with this message so much. I recently went back to school for my degree and I would update my family members and friends on my accomplishments throughout my academic journey. Although my loved ones responded to my updates, they never mentioned anything about my academic successes. Instead, they would change the subject and talk about something else. I realize now that sometimes when they say nothing, it’s just as bad as them making negative comment. I decided to take a hiatus for the next six months and move in silence. I would advise anyone reading this to take the six month challenge and keep your energy to yourself. See what happens. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

That happened to me before as well and I also feel that no acknowledgement is as bad as a negative comment sometimes when it comes to your accomplishments. People DO NOT want you to win and it’s your job to discern that but to keep going. Great advice Michele!

@stylzgohardllc.1132

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations, to you and all you put your hands to !!¡¡♡

@vanessabell7154

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. This has happened to me but people tried to one up me. What's funny when people ask me how's school they school and act like they care but I realized they just trying to keep up with my success. I noticed a lot of people change the subject and ignore you. It's a shame. I'll take your advice I wish I never told people at all. Good luck with school. Blessing 🙏🏾

@Nat0528

Жыл бұрын

All of this💪🏽

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

You’ll love my next video - it’s on this subject!

I’ve decided to not tell anyone anything anymore. Every time I say something about what’s going on or about myself they always give me a negative comment. So I’m just literally not going to say anything. The negativity is killing me. Better to just be silent in this situation too. Silence is golden.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

That’s kinda how it unfolds. Or if you tell your business then all of a sudden your situation doesn’t work out for you. I’m mute. 🤐

@trevorsebastian1341

Жыл бұрын

@@EvieAswiti all the sudden I just remembered a Japanese proverb, “a skillful hawk never shows it’s talons.” I was always quiet when I was little, maybe I was on to something back then 😆🙊🙊

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

I love that quote! Cementing that in my brain 🧠

When you move in silence you get better results and definitely protects your energy!!!

It’s always better to exceed people’s expectations in the real world than struggle to live up to the portrayal of yourself you’ve painstakingly curated.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

This!

@siitae

Жыл бұрын

Wow a word

@colettithekid

Жыл бұрын

@@siitae ❤️

Yup envy is real!!! As soon as I told everyone I was applying into nursing school I never got in 3 years later still haven’t got in. Ever since I’m a ghost. Don’t attempt nothing family related just keep to myself.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Yep don’t speak on anything until after it comes to fruition - best of luck on your nursing journey!

@aintnoneyabusiness7634

11 ай бұрын

why can't you get a job? just curious because where im from they always hiring

I always say this ! “ STAY EXCLUSIVE”,like Beyoncé for example, she don’t show up to every award show! But when she do , she’s appreciated more!

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Yep! Access low, standards high!

@tribemandigo453

2 жыл бұрын

..like what party. I am at the party 😎

I quit social media in January 2020 almost 3 years ago and my life has never been better! My friends and family are always wondering what I've been up to and what not but Im loving my privacy so much!

When You Build In Silence, People Don't Know What To Attack.

I never thought Kelly Rowland would give me the insight I needed. 🙏🏾

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you love ❤️

@theshampoocoach

Жыл бұрын

😄💞

@shaybuttah2350

Жыл бұрын

😂 I thought the same thing!!! This woman is very beautiful

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you doll 😘

@trinacernogg9755

Жыл бұрын

She's beautiful and black just like Kelly Rowland

Matthew 10:36... "Your worst enemies will be members of your own family" So sad, but true! Stay strong and blessed! 🙏💜

@scarlett9750

Жыл бұрын

This is so true. Whenever i succeed on doing something, my family members always gotta be the one who dim my light and make me feel worse about myself. I’m planning on cutting them off when i can find a job and a place to live or when i finished college.

@pendafen7405

11 ай бұрын

Yes! Blood relatives have traumatised and used me worse than almost anyone (except one really bad criminal former boss, but let's not talk about it ;)). The idea of 'family first, always' is dangerous toxic programming designed to keep us stuck in the cult.

Very good tips. I do most of it and I had friends that were annoyed and said "you do everything on the down low!" It just made me laugh cause they are really just haters and it feels good just keeping most things to yourself.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

I love that for you. I feel the same!

“Nothing in this life is owed to us, everything in this life is a gift to us” ❤

@EvieAswiti

11 ай бұрын

☝🏾

I’m 15 and just recently began doing this after seeing how addicted my peers are to keeping everyone updated with what they’re doing and being in competition with each other to see who does or has the most. I just got tired of it and decided to let go of these overstimulating apps for a couple of months and see how my life improves. Also, my “friends” hardly check up on me anymore. You see who’s really there for you.

@EvieAswiti

11 ай бұрын

omg 15???!!! and you’re this self aware 🥹🥹🥹🥹 i’m so proud of you bae. Keep holding onto this wisdom. It’ll take you far in life 💕

I can relate so much. I got a new car earlier this year myself & literally as soon as I posted it not a month later i could feel the energy shift from certain people. Some people( true friends) remained the same but others stopped hitting me up and wanting to hangout with me. It’s disappointing that they acted that way towards me but on the flip side I’m glad God revealed to me who needs to stay in my ife and who needs to depart from my life! Thanks for the vid… great points!

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

That’s how it goes - good for you for realizing. Thank you for watching 😊

I love how you mentioned that you don’t have to say how humble you are & let your life be the living testimony of that! 🙌🏾 I’ve always asked “Are you really humble if you have to say it?”… This video is great! 💕

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy you caught that and resonated, love. Thank you so much for watching!

@calisongbird

11 ай бұрын

It’s like people who rant about how much they “hate drama”…. They’re almost ALWAYS the ones who start and thrive on it.

Truth!....I always move in silence. My Mother told me , Never let your right hand know what your left hand is doing. I learned early in life!

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Wisdom 🏆

Valuing your privacy and what people Don’t know won’t hurt them because of what you know

Especially in the age of social media where we feel obligated to update every minute of our lives, this is a welcome advice. Anyhoo to love in silence stay away from all social media !

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Social media is trickyyyy… especially for the kids

I agree! Moving in silence is key. Many people talk way to much and speak on personal matters. And are upset when they are judged for it. I also dont like talking on the phone and having friends. That becomes a headache and obligation in the long run. Moving in silence is also so important for us black women especially because people are always observing us and studying our every move.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Very true especially the last point

I'm glad you made this video. I'm learning how to move in silence, because some people don't have your best interest. Thank you!

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

It’s very very important to be aware that not everyone wants the best for you and that is life. When you know better you don’t even take it personal - WE MOVE! Thank you for watching 🤗

@KATALAMBANOIT

2 жыл бұрын

Yep. I couldn't agree more.

@giumarch5922

Жыл бұрын

Word!!

@IreneThomas

Жыл бұрын

I am on the same journey, I realized I share too much and that’s not ok.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

All about balance. Sometimes oversharing and over explaining ourselves point to another root cause

This has been the way I move since I became an executive director of a nonprofit. 99% of my social media content is events/programming that I'm hosting, collaborating with, or supporting. Absolutely no personal or family drama, and political posts are spare. There is so much peace when you stunt on 'em in silence, and make their jaws drop at your hard work. Don't say anything about your goals and plans until it's time. Hit the gas on 'em when they have no idea how you made big moves.

I identify a lot with this video…I do a lot of these things naturally. I usually never post on Instagram unless I’m going out, so naturally people think I’m always doing something fun, going to “pretty places”, or just always put together…when in reality I’m a homebody. Great video!

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I so resonate with that. You’ve always seemed on the right track 💕

@ijeBeauty

2 жыл бұрын

Sameeee

@MrNanah38

2 жыл бұрын

Why would you need to post anything, do you need validation from strangers? Weird.

@jayy2hott557

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrNanah38 it’s 2022 he jus adjusted to present day and not living in the 80’s 😂

You must be mu spirit twin because this is exactly how I move. You have more peace in your life when you move in silence.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

the peace is GREAT do you hear me? 👏🏾

Definitely resonate with your video. Im 32 and nvr had instagram social media or any of that stuff. Most of my energy is just spent on doing things that make myself happy and not using too much energy to curate this image of myself to the world to prove I'm anything. I'm very protective on my own energy and privacy is such a valuable thing to have ...its helped me build my own confidence in who i am ...completely outside of the ego

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

You are not missing a thing and reading this comment inspired me to keep going on the limited personal social media life - thank you 😊

Why she looks like Kelly Rowland...Good message.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@NurseFafane

2 жыл бұрын

I know right so gorgeous😍. She reminds me both Kelly and Jackie Aina at the same time.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

@@NurseFafane thank you so much! I love them both so I’m flattered 😊

12:13- "Moving in silence involves humility." That's it right there ♡

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

That’s the ticket right there!

Thanks for sharing this educational moment with us. Sometimes we make the mistake of announcing our next step thinking every one is going to celebrate your journey. That's not always the case.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

THIS IS THE ONE ☝🏾 Yep and that lesson is one of the hardest pills to swallow! Appreciate you for watching 🤗

@aaacl08

Жыл бұрын

This is so true!

Thank you for this video I love your energy just like mine. I cut just about alllll those talking heads and flying monkeys out of my life. I had to learn to shut the hell up literally. shut them down. I now move in silence and it is absolutely incredible what you can accomplish. I am manifesting, achieving great things and none of those from my pass know about it I can show you better than I can tell you.. I love talking, a born speaker with a gift to gab, I had to STOP. I was wondering what took my blessings so long to show up; I was talking too much and the energy vampires was right there waiting to tear my shit down. So glad I woke up. Peace and blessings to all who discovered this video YOU are a Blessing Evie ty..

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

This really touched me bc I resonated soo much I also went through something similar. You’re very welcome and I’m so happy you found my content a blessing. Goal accomplished! 🥹👏🏾🙏🏾

@alexciss

2 жыл бұрын

“Energy vampires” 🧛‍♂️ 😆

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

this is the one ☝🏾

This just confirmed the way I choose to move. Everyone feels like if you don't post it, it never happened & that far from factual. Quality over quantity is truly a lost art in itself.

GOD has such funny sense of humor!! I didn't even type anything but your video was recommended in my feed and I've been feeling like for the past month during this ME SEASON. It's my time to be alone and move in silence. I haven't been doing that I'm been doing too much talking. But after watching your video it has given me so much clarity and understanding and A SIGN. Thank you for taking out the time to create this video!!

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Wow this was so resonating I am so happy you found your way here! You’re very welcome love and I’m glad to have you here on my channel 💕

@108MassAve

Жыл бұрын

Same here. Same scenario.

@555hotline

Жыл бұрын

same exact feeeeeeling

@ogwinshawty9866

Жыл бұрын

I’ve shared so much helpful information@work to help my co-workers&they r still so hateful um so mad@my self for this but my lips r zipped from now on…

Humility and less attention being okay and accepting was a true gem 💎 thanks 🙏🏾

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome!

Being in quarantine helped many to go into true stealth mode. Now, y'all outside, but it's super easy to maintain when the folks who needed to be out so bad, are talking so loud to overcompensate, they don't even notice you've slipped away.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

This is the one

My uncle still has this beautiful African tribal mask on his living room wall that looks just like her. Has those really strong facial features, hair and vibrant colors.

Beware of people who asks you personal questions about your life! Where you live, where you work, how's the family ect.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

I’m actually going to do a video on this!

You're never a loser until you quit trying.amen

I agree. Moving in silence preserves energy. 🌻

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Yes it doessssss

Ms. Lady, you are on target! God gave me this message months ago, as I move towards my dreams, silence and learning to love myself has given me strength, peace, clarity and real insight into how others react to your silence and humility!

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Amen, Katherine! thank you for your kind words

@katherinejohnson4217

Жыл бұрын

@@EvieAswiti Ms. Evie, thanks also, because humbleness is a big part of the silence. If you are silent as one talks, a certain mindfulness and insight steps in. The person gives you more feedback on a level you never saw when you talked with them before and did not listen to them in silence.

I’m a shame of having all of my business all out on front street not because I’m ashamed of my life …but because I truly believe everyone doesn’t deserve to know about my full life💕 Private life

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

yeah I’m the same no need to share everything I don’t need that validation in every single detail of my life

@godsown4683

2 жыл бұрын

@@EvieAswiti it helps to be silent. I was dumped but the good thing is that I had kept the whole thing silent while I watch what's going on. Eventually he dumped me and married someone else. Imagine the drama if I had advertised my relationship with him. Plus He is kinda of a public figure. I believe the pain would have doubled. Some people say I am very secretive but I know where I am coming from and why I decided to keep my life private..

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Whatever works for you and brings you peace

Thank you for sharing.❤️‍🔥🔥 This reaffirms many of my core beliefs and values. It also reminds me of the scripture Matthew 7:6. It speaks about not casting your precious pearls before swine. Over the years, I’ve completely changed how I use social media. I value my privacy and I just don’t believe in giving people a free and open window-glimpse into my life. Curiosity motivates people more than compassion, and I like to be in control of what people know about me. I also think that some people are only meant to be in our lives for a season, so I’m not really into “following” people from my past when they have no relevance in my present or future. (Ex: high school classmates) But that’s just one opinion. I loved your message. You have a new subscriber.❤️

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

This was beautifully said. Thank you so much for resonating and God bless you. Taking your privacy seriously and protecting your peace is an art 🖼 and I’m the same way I’m not close with everyone from my past and that’s okay… I value the season we were in and I always will but we must move forward if the ppl don’t fit into the next chapter. Welcome to my channel and Happy Resurrection Day!

@souzogenesis

2 жыл бұрын

👍🏽❤️❤️✨

I just had this thought last nigh before I fell asleep. I’m on a journey to actualize my most authentic self. Thank you for sharing this powerful message.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

You’re very welcome and best of luck on your journey. Enjoy the process!

I am trying my very best to move in silence God , I just want the right people by my side & I trust my intuition & my discernment & I’m a chosen one woman 👩 & I been protecting my energy & my energy field & I’m listening to my intuition ; - Kim 👩🙏❤️😇

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Kim 💕 ask God to grant you wisdom and bless your efforts. You’ll watch Him work!

@ilovetosingx3670

Жыл бұрын

@@EvieAswiti - You’re welcome 😇🙏❤️ & God is amazing ! 🙏❤️

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

@@ilovetosingx3670 Yes ma’am He is 🙏🏾

Howdy hey baes! Thank you so much on the feedback on this topic. Do you want a part 2 about boundaries? If so, like this video and comment &/or drop your questions here! 👇🏾

@PrincessSharifa434

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, please!

@ACTHEMOGUL

2 жыл бұрын

Yes share tha boundaries vid asap sis 🤎

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Roger!

@ButterflyT23

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, please do. Boundaries are needed in all aspects of life.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

noted hun thank you

VERY powerful word today, I am now moving in Submarine silence...No more talk. Confirmation.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Come through submarine vibes! 👏🏾 It’s the only way to go nowadays. I’m glad my video confirmed it for you 😊

@hhhoneycomb

2 жыл бұрын

love this submarine silence

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss gotta be

@michelewashington2119

2 жыл бұрын

“Submarine silence” ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Exquisite hit the nail on the head with that one

Ok 👍🏾 Really factual I used to be a very quiet person that lacked no confidence in communicating appropriately and when I need to communicate something But I was diagnosed with schizophrenia a couple of years ago and I don’t believe them I’m a Christian and I’ve always believed the reality of the matter is that saying less is saying more And protecting my energy People now think I’m always hiding something or holding back rather than silent It’s difficult but I think it’s important to keep an eye on the words I use and things I do Say to and around others and my energy But thanks for this this was great 👍🏾 I’ll always look for a way to keep my peace ✌🏾

“The pop out only counts when you’re not always out.” 👏🏾👏🏾

@EvieAswiti

8 ай бұрын

The one.

The fact that it’s Friday the 28th and it’s Halloween wknd is blowing my mind🤯😭 definitely needed to hear/see this. I get so excited at times and want to share what God is doing in and through me and a lot of times it’s not met with the same enthusiasm. God has been telling me ALL of what you’re saying. Thank you for sharing💕 stay beautiful... inside and out. Praying your channel grows in mighty ways✨

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ☺️

10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list

It's amazing how I am hearing this so much now. I have adapted this concept over many years. I even do this in the work place.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

ESPECIALLY the workplace 😅

This came up in my feed and I'm so glad it did. Growing up, my mom taught me not to reveal all my cards and announce every move I made, which made people wonder about what we were doing! I'm going to watch this again, this is a great video, because every you said I've done something similar. I feel like too many people in my age range, basically my peers (i.e. 18 to 35) are really into posting everything they do, at all times, trying to keep up with the Joneses, keeping up with the status quo and compete with each other. That's not me at all. And one time I didn't post on social media for over a year at different periods of my life. It's definitely true I've leveled up by moving in silence. I come off as mysterious, but at the same time some of my peers wonder how i did it. I only mention things to people I trust, and I don't announce right away until the deed is done...Anywho, thanks for making this.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

This was beautiful. Very well thought out and written. I’m happy for you. Appreciate you for watching and you are welcome!

@aleshapeters

Жыл бұрын

@@EvieAswiti Thank you love!

Yes absolutely, applying for my Phd in creative writing and keeping it totally silent.

"talk is very cheap" I love you girl

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

thanks babe love you too! 🤗

You are God sent. This video is what I have been doing for the past 5 months. I used to be a very chatty person but I just stop posting and telling people alot about me. I thank God I did.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Don't you just love it here? It's so great. Thank you for watching!

@happyhealthyhadlee

Жыл бұрын

Agreed, so good! I'm always trying to ask more questions & listen more than I talk - my tendency is to overshare but it gets in the way for me deeply connecting with people!

Another reason why it's very important to move in silence, is the fact that when people know that you're seeking validation for your possessions, they will exploit you! In other words, they know that you're insecure, and you seek other people to validate you. Ultimately, they will pretend to care about you, just to gain access to the resources you have.

You're so right Evie, do not let anyone know your plans. I didn't want people to know my plans, but I had to tell them my plans because I want to become a police officer and to become a cop you must tell your whole family, co-workers, former co-workers, bosses, former bosses, neighbor's, former neighbors, and former classmates because the chief of police would have to do a background check on you if you want to become a police. However, I didn't want to let any of these people know what I was up to but a police officer told me if you want to be one of us you're going to have to let everyone know and you're going to have to go searching for your old elementary, middle, and high school friends. I told my friends that I want to become a cop and they will have to answer questions to a police about me how I acted in school or would I be a great cop? And they was like "You want to be a cop?"

So crazy that this video popped up on my recommendations this morning....I always 'move in silence," and will continue to do so.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss that’s what I love to hear 👏🏾

Wow this is such a beautiful message .I can sense the mix of gentleness but strength inside of you. This is the balance everyone must strive for be humble enough to know your not better than others but confident enough to know your worth and value .thank you got this video saved

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Awww this was soo beautifully said thank you soo much 🥹☺️ I’m happy you got the message and it’s resonated with you

Beauty and brain. Exceptional beauty and I am proud to call you my African queen... .

“Don’t tell anyone your business”. My aunt told me that when I was 12.

*the 'exact' reason why i don't show my face online. brilliant advice!!! bravo!!!* 🤫

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

thank you!

Omg. All 3 things has been happening to me in the last 2 years. I’m going through one of the toughest challenges in my life. I’m able to overcome it and now I’m just learning to appreciate what has given in my life. I just know one thing that after all, I’m much stronger than I thought 😢❤ Thank you for making this video and I’m thankful to this magical universe.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

You are so very welcome. Appreciate you for watching and commenting. Glad things are going better.

I RESTRICTED ALL MY VIRTUAL FRIENDS IN MY MESSENGER ..TO PROTECT MY INNER PEACE FROM GOSSIPS AND ALL I CARE IS ABOUT MYSELF AND LOVE MY SELF WORTH..SO I COULD CONCENTRATE FOR MY HEALING AND MOVING ON FROM TRAUMA

Love this video. Let me share a small story of mine as well. I am appearing a very important examination, and I needed to refer previous year question papers. My friend wanted to help me but she had given them to another friend from our friend circle, so she told me to get it from her. That friend said sure but is now trying to find ways to avoid me. It's just long gone question papers. There's no guarantee that I would pass by referring those papers but this little issue taught me a big lesson. When people, even friends see you working on something, they don't wanna see you win. I will be more careful and guarded around my female friends.

I just came across your video and clicked because I found the title intriguing. I've never heard of this term before but realize its something I do now (when I was younger, I wa quite 'noisy'). Based on what you're saying, its for the appearance of mystery and having a busy and fulfilled life, yet its all orchestrated. It defeats the purpose as you're still centering others. I think its more meaningful and takes less energy when one centers themself. To make use of this new-to-me term, "move in silence" for you and for you ONLY. Protect yourself and your energy for you and not because you want to appear mysterious. I now move in silence but I do it for me. I don't even think of other folks. You might think its selfish but hey...less headache.

Thank you sooooooo much Sis, I am right where I need to be without regrets . I'm just moving in silence!

Hello, my 1st time watching your video. I am a foodie. I love taking pictures of my food when I go out to eat. I also like my privacy and/or boundaries to be respected. I definitely post my food pics when I get home. ALWAYS! *Great piece of advice.* You look gorgeous by the way :)

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Aw, welcome to my channel. Glad to have you here and thank you so much for watching. Thanks for the compliment and yes! Never post in real time with specific locations

I must I agree keep yo shit in silence. I tried to be nice and a mentor by telling friends and family about my business ventures but it only led to hate and jealousy. It suck’s that it has to be that way . Keep it to your self 😊😊

Never announce departures, only arrivals

Silence is Golden !!

Privacy is so underated.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Very much underated! See you get it. Btw, I love your name!

@Hijabibti925

2 жыл бұрын

@@EvieAswiti 👌🏻🤗💐yessss

All I can say is that I love you.moving in silence will be really hard for since I'm already a social media freak .I would really want to work on myself thanks

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

I love you too. Thank you for watching 💕♥️

This is my third time watching this video. I absolutely agree with the content and will always come back for a reminder.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Yay! Thank you love

Thank you for this video.. I use to be very reserved growing up I don't share anything... being an adult I felt like I've been judged so I find myself explaining alot till I become the person who shares almost everything and it's depressing... even though I'm making moves feels like I'm not progressing

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

You’re very welcome - you should check out my boundaries video on my channel I recently uploaded

@kimberlyfowler5748

Жыл бұрын

My story is same, I’m 57, am making progress, hang in there you will make it

Love this reminder to listen more than you speak, it's totally something I want to incorporate more in my life!!

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

You can and you will darling

Man, I’ve learned this the hard way

A woman after my own heart! Thank for this much needed discussion.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome, Maria! Thank you for watching and don’t forget to share this with whomever needs it 🤗

Great video and totally agree! I NEVER post anything regarding my current whereabouts. Ever. I have a very close friend who literally posts a trail of what she's doing and who with. Whenever there's an event, you can expect a photo collage to immediately follow. She knows that I do and she got to the point where she said why be on social media if you're so private? I use it to keep in touch. Honestly, I don't like everyone knowing everything I'm doing. Maybe I don't get why people feel it's very important to let everyone know every move they make or don't make. What I do is, if I find a new place to shop or eat, I'll post a photo or two of the food/products and the name of the physical stores and/or websites. Yes, it's about sharing. But, many things should be kept private. I'm with you! Too many people about, you won't see me out and about. I'm home. Yes, I love Halloween! However, not big on parties these days. Moving in silence, I definitely do. Showing off possessions is what they call these days, flexing. First of all, it's fake. They themselves can't afford these things. They buy them on credit. If one is making payments, they don't own those things. Besides, again, I don't want everyone knowing what I have or don't have. You'll end up with relatives/friends you didn't know you had! A lion never has to tell anyone it's a lion.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Love that “a lion doesn’t have to tell anyone that it’s a lion” 🦁 👏🏾

The being too accessible and taking for granted is the truth 😳! Haters are annoying and real. Once I bought a bmw and a bunch of people stopped taking to me… like, the heck 🤷🏾‍♀️!

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

That happened to me too when I bought my car years ago

@amysocool7

Жыл бұрын

the crab in the barrel mentality is so bad in our community

Do what's good for you: mental, physical, financial, emotional . Spiritual.. do you , regardless

I just came across your video and wanna thank you for this amazing underrated topic. I’ve been moving in silence since COVID and people be calling me weird cause they don’t see me post nothing on social media lol. To be honest, I’ve never felt much happier and at peace. New subscriber here too! ✨

@EvieAswiti

10 ай бұрын

That’s amazing that you found peace and happiness. That’s a special privilege. Welcome to my channel, love! 🤗

You have a old soul, you have been raised Very Well

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

That’s such a lovely compliment. Thank you so much. 😊

Great video…I’ve been moving in silence for a while now, and doing so has brought soooo much peace into My life…. I’m loving the silence and getting more involved in experiencing and loving Mother Earth!!! 🙏🏽

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Rose and yes to PEACE! I love it here and I love that for you 💕

I was accused of being "lonely" by a cheeky (obnoxious) manager at work. I told him, "That's what you think, because I don't come here and discuss my private life with YOU" :-0

I clicked because I saw a gorgeous woman but the message was so on point and exactly what needed to hear. 🙏🏾

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Yay! That makes me so happy

Thank you for this incredible message. You're a breath of fresh air. Keep doing your thing! You're incredible.

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the lovely compliment! That I will do 😊

I like that…how do I give the most of myself while keeping the most of myself.❤️‍🔥

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

It’s beautiful yeah? Balance and harmony ☺️ thanks for watching 💕

"THE POP-OUT ONLY COUNTS WHEN YOUR NOT ALWAYS OUT".. BOOM.. DROPS THE MIC. THATS A WORD IN ITSELF!

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

This is the one ☝🏾

Yes it’s true. Don’t say too much because people will steal your success

So true indeed and so wisely said. Big thumbs up girl

@EvieAswiti

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you love 💕 appreciate you watching!

So glad I found you ❤ I’m in love with your vibe. It’s given poise and elegance 💋

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! more to come 😉

Everything Evie's saying is FACT. There was a celebration event last weekend that I didn't go to and I'm glad because I've actually been too busy and was too exhausted to attend. Like Evie stated, it's good to create scarcity regarding your attendance at parties, get -togethers and events. You need to create that scarcity of you so people appreciate when you actually do show up. Moving in silence also protects your time.

@EvieAswiti

Жыл бұрын

hey now ☝🏾

Well said Queen 👑. I definitely move in silence, it's the way the streets raised me at one time. Salute