no matter who did what, who said what, who instigated what, it’s just sad the house ended on a sour note with drama
@fernanwrc.250
Жыл бұрын
exactly
@nkft1
Жыл бұрын
all houses end it like this, I was already expecting it
@yb6038
Жыл бұрын
@@nkft1 nah a few have not ended with drama
@rahhmann
Жыл бұрын
Bruhhh!!! 💔😔
@iamxzavier_
Жыл бұрын
Agreed 💯💯
@SparklezandBows Жыл бұрын
The lesson here is never mix business with friendship
@Sonia-tv4nu
Жыл бұрын
fax
@cladiusn3153
Жыл бұрын
100%. Say it louder so that those in the back can hear!
@kevinbui8405
Жыл бұрын
but what about good mythical morning
@typoprone
Жыл бұрын
I think the lesson here is don't fall in love with your best friend. 🙊
@ASarma11
Жыл бұрын
📠
@oliviaarsenie Жыл бұрын
The takeaway from this is: communicate, don’t just assume the others know what you’re thinking.
@nez01
Жыл бұрын
100%
@eboliator
Жыл бұрын
agreed. but from kelly's video it seems that elliot isn't really a confrontational person. if he had been more transparent with his feelings then maybe this whole issue could've been patched before it bled out.
@nez01
Жыл бұрын
@@eboliator that’s the thing tho. The people who aren’t confrontational actually bring the issue and make it bigger because they don’t communicate. Anyways
@eboliator
Жыл бұрын
@@nez01 well I believe it’s a good thing that kelly and ashley are shining light on the situation. Elliot is a role model for many with a large following. The things he said about ashley if true, is something the fans deserve to know. He shouldn’t be allowed to get away with it if his plan is to just keep quiet, ignore, and hope kelly and ashley just magically forget what he said.
@nel2506
Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@1duke9love98 Жыл бұрын
we've all had drama and miscommunications with our friends. we've all said hurtful things we don't really mean. usually we can reflect and learn from our mistakes to heal our relationships and/or ourselves and become better people. unfortunately for you guys, your situation is online for thousands of people to consume, analyze and berate. unfortunate, but like everything, the drama will pass. hope its sooner than later so you all can move on in peace and learn from the experience to become better people.
@sakinafatima5387 Жыл бұрын
Well, I feel that lack of communication among Elliot, Kelly and Ashley lead to misunderstandings and beef, if that's what u call it. Discussing stuff in person and posting it online is better than just doing it without any talk. Also, I'm not on anyone's side. I love them all. Just sad that they didn't end on a good note.
@WesleyLindsey
Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more
@aznantboi
Жыл бұрын
you can't communicate when the other party isn't there, unreachable, or wants to do something else. Elliot says he's leaving 1 month early. K&A say let's leave together.
@henloworld514
Жыл бұрын
I agree, and same. I loved watching their content and I’m sad how things ended.
@sakinafatima5387
Жыл бұрын
@@aznantboi clearly you're leaning towards Elliot on this one. Remember, there's two sides to a story. They were gonna upload this news on they're group ( combined channel) not on their individual channel. Again, I've had fights with ample people and the reason in mostly all cases was that we weren't either receptive about each other's thoughts or miscommunication.
@pearlykc
Жыл бұрын
I feel like he's only addressing it so briefly is because he cannot damage control the other stuff without straight up capping and denying them
@WesleyLindsey Жыл бұрын
Ngl this beef is so interpersonal and no one is truly wrong-wrong. This should’ve stayed inside the group 😭. This is something you guys will recover from in like a year or so.
@Bronnybronny
Жыл бұрын
Completely agree
@eliizaamackenziee
Жыл бұрын
agree as well
@Sonia-tv4nu
Жыл бұрын
agree
@user78554
Жыл бұрын
They will never be the same, once you mix business with friendship its over
@nicholashastings
Жыл бұрын
Bro hated his roommate and his best friends girlfriend, that’s wild 😂😂
@ceoprismm8872 Жыл бұрын
Kinda rubs me the wrong way Elliot acts like he's above it all now when it was his actions that started it. Feels like he's being intentionally dismissive throughout the video - "only equal equity was discussed with the lawyer" yeah probably because cutting out Ashley was only discussed behind her back, "different posting schedules" yeah thats why everyone else was blindsided and Elliot just happened to be the first one to control the narrative
@karathompson7776
Жыл бұрын
His video wasn't even offensive LMAO. At least the guy didnt spent 38 mins bashing the two of them for a profit with a few "maybe we can be friends down the line" comments to protect himself. At face value Kelly went off the handle from Elliot's first video which was 9 mins of him talking which compromise a breakdown of him in the rain for like 2 mins, him talking about himself for like 3 mins, some old b-roll footage, and him barely saying much about why he moved. Clearly the comments got Kelly into his feelings and instead of being logical decided to make the video. Which tbh was just them bashing him as said with the few fake throw ins of him acting like he gives a shit about Elliot. Even Ashley made the effort to throw shade about AM in the video which btw is a question mark itself since she had instances of not treating AM well considering.
@carlie215
Жыл бұрын
@@karathompson7776 where's the shade about AM? Timestamp pls. Maybe I kinda missed it. It's so long video. Wanna know
@hooramoher5980
Жыл бұрын
@@karathompson7776 This is true. Kelly was fuming and forgot Elliot was once his friend who boosted him on KZread. He plays victim along with Ashley and thats the most frustrating part.
@ashleyjanepagador4919
Жыл бұрын
@@karathompson7776 I literally don’t remember her saying shade towards Anne Marie? With this situation, Kelly and Ashley were getting a TON of hate and probably there was a lot of emotion and things that they should have said more properly. As they said it was hard to even get in contact with Elliot. And if someone were to say they HATED my partner I would be extremely upset. There was extreme miscommunication within the house but I’m glad they split and decided to go they’re separate ways
@SubtleChanger Жыл бұрын
I wish you all of the best Elliot. As bystanders we(the fans) will never have the full detail of this disagreement, and they often say there are three sides to every story. However I know it can’t be easy to have a conflict of two- versus one ( which is what it is in this scenario). Stay strong, protect your mental peace and know that there are people out there routing for you xx
@rinjulawaiba9892 Жыл бұрын
I don't want to take anyone's side but I wish everything gets sorted asap :(
@noaburgstra5926
Жыл бұрын
you dont have to you dont know them they dont know you you can appreciate their content but dont get parasocial with taking someones side
@Beckst
Жыл бұрын
impossible for ashley when he treated her like that
@jarvindriftwood
Жыл бұрын
Sorting it asap could be rough. Time heals all wounds. As big as this is now in 6 months, a year or five, it might not matter near as much.
@jenosleftshoulder
Жыл бұрын
yes this
@melodyk3981
Жыл бұрын
@@rozzark821 we can turn the argument around and say the same about kashley acting the role of victim. kashley handled it the wrong way posting 40 min video dumping on elliot nonstop plus ashley's mom dumping on elliot too. then there's elliot's 4 min video defending himself against these attacks. elliot is more private as a you tuber than kashley. he's not comfortable airing all the dirty laundry for 40 min from 2nd hand info lesser known you tubers just to get 1/2 to 1 million views. there's no talking it out ever. elliot just wants out of this toxic kashley circle and move on with his life at this point. elliot is more private than kashley. everyone got their 40 min or 4 min of videos in and needs to shut it and go their separate ways.
@ashantiyancey7538 Жыл бұрын
This is a situation between grown adults and I hope they can finish whatever they need to off camera.
@bazzbash4556
Жыл бұрын
@@anonymousabc9157 agree 100% what a brat man.
@imodxbox
Жыл бұрын
they're kids
@cristina1071
Жыл бұрын
um? idk but this seems like a comment for Kelly’s channel? He has made two long videos about this making accusations toward Elliot. This is Elliot’s first time addressing the situation in a short 4 minute video. His original video didn’t even mention Kelly or Ashley at all..
@bazzbash4556
Жыл бұрын
@@cristina1071 if you can't connect 2 and 2 together then u either don't really follow them or you're dumb as hell.
@cristina1071
Жыл бұрын
@@bazzbash4556 my point is that someone else made a 40 minute video about this, and this video is literally 4 minutes, so why are people commenting on this video to stop talking about it on camera instead of the 40 minute video from Kelly? If you don’t understand that I’m not gonna say you’re dumb as hell because this is stupid internet drama not worth insulting people over, but it doesn’t hurt to look at it from another perspective lol
@henryfly2984 Жыл бұрын
Cheer-up Elliot. Things happen for a reason. We all make mistakes, and learned along the way. Do what you love, move on....Can't wait for your next chapter.
@TravelwithYiew Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your clarifications too, Elliot. Really not easy at your end! I just hope that you will have a good rest during this period and continue to inspire us with your content!!! Looking forward!
@adwitiya8751 Жыл бұрын
The fact that best friends are having beef online is sad. I really hope their friendship and misunderstanding ends. It's heartbreaking to see this 😭
@Minato96
Жыл бұрын
This shows that they weren’t real best friends to begin with. Understandable tho, they’ve been friends for only 2years?
@olinafan4459
Жыл бұрын
that's what happens when business get mixed with friendship
@allucard1018
Жыл бұрын
@@Minato96 lmao that’s now how it works. Relationships are complicated.
@HonorViego
Жыл бұрын
I’m the 666 like : )
@adwitiya8751
Жыл бұрын
@@Minato96 i wouldn't say they weren't real. They were legit real and that is why they both are hurt by eachothers actions. It's just that sometimes things don't always work out. We don't always get to keep everyone close. Time happens and life happens. It is so wrong to label it as fake friendship... 2 years or not relationships are complicated
@jim7855 Жыл бұрын
Elliot, Kelly, Ashley, Annemarie. Long ago, the four roommates lived together in harmony. Then everything changed when shit hit the fans. Only the Avatar, master of all four roommates, could stop them. But when the world needed him most, he vanished.
@jayrollo1352
Жыл бұрын
Everything changed when Kelly and Ashley started f*cking.
@brothajones327
Жыл бұрын
Luke was the avatar
@1zzyfox
Жыл бұрын
best comment yet
@goldvolk
Жыл бұрын
Corny ass comment.
@henryascension8702
Жыл бұрын
no more words needed.
@julieslifeee Жыл бұрын
Everyone has their own side. It’s really sad to hear and watch everything dissolve away 😔however I do appreciate everyone keeping us involved and updated
@haileej7100 Жыл бұрын
Love you Elliot. Stay strong and know that we are here to support you no matter what was said about you and no matter how ur friends slandered you online. Wishing you healing and peace and I’m looking forward to your future videos❤
@kn95xo
Жыл бұрын
@Mathe Jone maybe he just didn't want to add to the drama? or stoop to their level? ever thought of that?
@JaydenVids Жыл бұрын
I can't take it seriously when its called ur mom's house
@evanaguilera4986
Жыл бұрын
💀
@tiffanymari1771
Жыл бұрын
it’s because imong mama
@stanleyh2510
Жыл бұрын
Fr 😂
@stinkynoodles8312
Жыл бұрын
@@tiffanymari1771 bro chill, balay lang sa ilang mama
@WhatAlex
Жыл бұрын
BAHAHAHAHAHAHHA
@FlexwinakaEdwin Жыл бұрын
This sounds like a new chapter in life has started. New opportunities, new chances and a lot of new experiences. Obviously it's not always easy but hopefully you have friends and family to support you emotionally on this rollercoaster we call "life". Don't lose hope and don't lose inspiration over conflicts in life. That's completely normal an I'm glad you don't act like everything is beautiful all the time. I really respect your authenticity. Thank you for making Videos - greetings from Germany.
@byronb. Жыл бұрын
"Most content houses end in disaster." - Colin and Samir (after interviewing ur moms house) 04/26/22
@user-ef6sj4dx1r Жыл бұрын
Take care, Elliot. It is such a joy to watch your vlogs. Hope you will get some real good rest and come back with great contents. 🍀 Wishing you nothing but the best.
@from_bitterbean6681 Жыл бұрын
I hate when this happens to KZread creators 😭😭. But at the end of the day I’ll still be supporting everyone, you all are strong humans, and deserve the best. 💖
@fypharris Жыл бұрын
The fact that i dropped everything I was doing when I saw this notification 💀
@m4tthiaz
Жыл бұрын
Same lol
@tenshi84
Жыл бұрын
Lol same
@KshitizSinhaPhoto
Жыл бұрын
same lol
@nicoleemede2376
Жыл бұрын
Exact same thing 😂😂😂
@ndeleon
Жыл бұрын
same😭
@Agentsingh Жыл бұрын
Stay strong, Elliot! Friendships falling apart is rough. Cheering you on yo get through this :) I’m not “choosing sides” but just excited for all of you go re-find joy even if it means your friendships won’t be rekindled. A lot of your audience is young and still learning about life. They think talking will just “solve the problem”. Here to remind you that Friendships don’t always have to stay forever. They can end at that chapter and everyone will still be ok!
@kc4948 Жыл бұрын
Most of my friends (and myself) had some sort of friendship/roommate drama in their early 20s. It’s a challenging time, and I’m so beyond grateful that we didn’t have the Internet following our every move as we navigated adulthood. It’s clear from my lens that everyone in the house made mistakes. You’re figuring out who you are as an adult, and it’s completely understandable that you will all take missteps in relationships, life, and business along the way. Growth can be wildly uncomfortable (especially with millions of people watching and commenting). Wishing you and the others a bright future, as you take these lessons learned with you. You’re beyond talented, Elliott, and I’m excited to watch this next chapter unfold!
@HamidLawal Жыл бұрын
Not on anyone's side I will continue to watch everyone's content because I enjoy it. I persoanlly believe It's just a misunderstanding and communication breakdown between friends. Hope for the best for all of you!!
@bostonsanchez8860 Жыл бұрын
I don't think anyone is to blame just miscommunication. We've all been there, all there is to do is remember the good times and move on yk? love you Elliot!
@CeceKP Жыл бұрын
Hope you guys can work it out offline. This ‘beef’ should never have been on the internet, but I get how fast it can get out of control when you all have these platforms. It’s terrible losing your friends, especially if it’s over something like miscommunication or such. Ofc we as the viewers will never really know. It could have been more than that or whatnot but I just wish you guys all the best. Even if someone is to blame or if everyone is partly to blame, *everyone has the chance to grow from this and do better.* Hopefully this new chapter will bring happiness to all of you (even if not together) and hopefully you guys can reconcile one day. *Also Elliot* , I don’t know if you’ve been struggling a bit with your mental health maybe (and I’m really sorry to even touch on that if that’s not the case, or even if it is), but if that’s the case I truly wish that you will have hope in your heart and the strength to get better. I’ve been struggling a little myself lately and I honestly felt a similar vibe coming from you, so sorry if I’m wrong. *But I do believe it’s hard to fix relationships with others if you’re having a hard time with ‘yourself’* (your thoughts, emotions etc.) speaking from a place of experience.
@electricdragon7777
Жыл бұрын
How do you know he's struggling with his mental health
@AleksanderLydkunst
Жыл бұрын
I mean….. if my supposed best friend left on a family trip for his dead grandmother with his girlfriend to support his mother I wouldn’t take it personally as abandonment, then talk smack about him to all his other long time friends calling him whipped and saying how I hate his girlfriend… but that’s just me🤷🏻♂️😂 For a “non-confrontational” person, Elliot seems to have gotten his mental release from being a snake instead😀 I know everybody’s young, but damn Kelly and Ashley’s response was very mature while staying real.. this video is clearly Elliot attempting to do damage control, and that’s why he’s emphasizing how he’s not obligated to clarify anything to the audience, but had no problem pointing fingers in his original video or talking mounds of shit about Kelly behind his back… y i k e s
@ashwin.unlead
Жыл бұрын
@@AleksanderLydkunst elliot just being dramatic, he really needs to work on himself. Or this will bite his ass again.
@lieshlkisen3102 Жыл бұрын
You’ll get through this, no worries. Lets move forward, will keep on supporting you 🎉
@maverickwanders2256 Жыл бұрын
i hope you are doing ohk dude , love your content and don't let this pull you down or anything , will always be watching your videos and supporting you , its very sad to see ur moms house ending on a rough patch ....
@typoprone Жыл бұрын
"I never once suggested that there should be anything than a complete even split of equity at Ur Mom's House." Sly choice of wording. I think the allegation was that you didn't *THINK* that Ashley deserved equity. Not that you suggested it.
@jagicyooo2007
Жыл бұрын
so he's the snake
@melon2378
Жыл бұрын
exactly lol..
@unicorntv2048
Жыл бұрын
Didnt Kelly say that Elliot was suggesting it to him, too?
@alexandranics1319
Жыл бұрын
!!!
@josiahaguero3877
Жыл бұрын
i noticed that too
@SamTavrs Жыл бұрын
Two things come to mind. Immaturity on all parties involved, and two NEVER mix business with friendship, because it will always end up in such a precarious scenario.
@dbald2525
Жыл бұрын
to*
@simplicitydevolved4805
Жыл бұрын
Mostly immaturity from a dude who openly told his “best friend” he hated his gf. This guy gave phony/fake/ flake-y vibes since day 1. This is the type of dude who will promise you he’ll be there then flake out last second
@jamesuugsw
7 ай бұрын
I think u can mix business and friendship but u have to be business partners first u feel?
@gausly1032 Жыл бұрын
even things might’ve gotten rough towards the end of the house i will still always support you elliot, and kelly and ashley. you guys are all incredible people and i love all of your videos.
@PongVangMusic Жыл бұрын
I think there were different feelings and disagreements which leads to a blurred line of communication. It happens when you live with people. Its a normal thing. We loved this content house. But it didn’t work out. There were somethings that were said and done but at the end of the day its nothing too serious. Don’t overthink it. You live and you learn. One chapter ends and another one begins. All love and blessings to everyone!
@sunraes
Жыл бұрын
I agree on this people have had worst roomie stories LOL
@jcrdance1410 Жыл бұрын
Although the house may have not ended the way everyone expected it, as long as y’all are transparent I just really hope you all will be okay with each other, ur mom’s house really gave me something to look forward to every week, I love you original 4 as well as all the friends that came along after, and I appreciate all of your guy’s filming styles! Here’s to new beginnings and to hoping that everyone will move past from this, thanks to you Elliot and all of you bcus you guys always give the best quality content 🙌
@sherw8253 Жыл бұрын
You are entitled to how you felt … your last video made sense to explain the early exit from Ur Mom House. It’s sadness. Outsiders like us shouldn’t take sides or comment whose faults. The issues are between you and Keashly. Hope there’re lessons learned and everyone comes out to be a better person. I was concerned about you seeing the other two people have already moved on with new house mates. Wish you well.
@cheedarcheese5811 Жыл бұрын
you guys are young adults navigating life and miscommunication will happen. i hope you guys can learn from this situation and move forward without ill intentions towards each other ❤️ you guys can still all prosper in life even if you're not together making content.
@Witchworkanimations
Жыл бұрын
Yes facts!
@anumahmed1244 Жыл бұрын
I’m not on either side, but I hope everyone can take some time to evaluate everything in depth and when both of y’all are ready, can do a reunion video❤️❤️❤️
@localbrownboy
Жыл бұрын
Nah, once a snake always a snake
@elyshe
Жыл бұрын
@@localbrownboy agreed
@alexqi3089
Жыл бұрын
@@localbrownboy who
@jagicyooo2007
Жыл бұрын
@@localbrownboy WHO THE FK IS THE SNAKE BRUH
@abhisekpal2552
Жыл бұрын
@@jagicyooo2007 Viewers.
@BigAkwes Жыл бұрын
Since the day the Colin&Samir video came out months ago I knew they were gonna end badly. Soon later Marie left and it all came crumbling down
@DAMfoxygrampa
Жыл бұрын
What's that video about ?
@BigAkwes
Жыл бұрын
@@DAMfoxygrampa they did an episode on the group “ur moms house”
@DAMfoxygrampa
Жыл бұрын
@@BigAkwes Went and watched it, thanks for the suggestion! Definitely had a foreshadowing air of "this might not work out"
@BigAkwes
Жыл бұрын
@@DAMfoxygrampa facts
@KT-tr1yz Жыл бұрын
Fighting Elliot. We love you. Take a rest as much as you need. Leave and forget that make you feel uncomfortable. Do what you make you feel happy. Build quality time. May be do business offline to be success ...changing mood and make your mind busy with another job. After all, when you think you have enough time for yourself, come back. we would be so grateful and supportive as usual when you come back . You are talented creater. You can't imagine how much you are amazing. You are still so much loved Elliot.
@amelia2449 Жыл бұрын
The equity part: I think "formally" elliot never suggested anything less of an equal split. I do think that he "informally" or off the record talked how ashley didn't deserve any along with the other things he said about ashley. just my opinion tho
@MikaelaSchultz
Жыл бұрын
yes, good point!
@faizanhusain7845
Жыл бұрын
Yeah you were there right?
@MikaelaSchultz
Жыл бұрын
@@faizanhusain7845 they said “I think” hahah
@fram24
Жыл бұрын
Most likely
@sennie6296 Жыл бұрын
Guys be careful of your words!! When someone is struggling with problems please don't just assume things and comment your opinions. Keep them to yourself. Because your simple words can hurt someone so bad. You never know what's going on other people's lives because they obviously can't say everything and anything.
@jerefied
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@carolyncain617
Жыл бұрын
That is si true
@itsjaaah
Жыл бұрын
absolutely. Well said!
@SteveJobIess
Жыл бұрын
A lot of words coming from someone advising others to "Keep them to yourself"
@kaelinpark3222 Жыл бұрын
sending love to you and all the roommates, can’t believe everything’s ending this way
@JuliesHabits Жыл бұрын
힘내세요. 이번일은 본인의 인생에 큰 자산이 될거에요. 계속 응원하겠습니다! 앨리엇님은 정말 창의적인 사람이에요.
@seekingbliss7726 Жыл бұрын
Can't wait to watch the next chapter in your life. Come back stronger Elliot. Lots of love. ❤️
@amaral7314 Жыл бұрын
i am just saying but you were the first one to make the "situation" public... And said that things should have been kept private only after their response...
@ms.fieryazn76 Жыл бұрын
Regardless, it's PRIVATE matter between 3 of y'all..all these all other stuff is no one's business..love message don't spread hate you are advocating...keep being authentic as you are..stay positive and get yourself in good mental headspace..your true friends and loyal subscribers will stick with ya no matter what..stay blessed❣❣
@j03yyy Жыл бұрын
it doesn't matter who did, said, confronted, and whatever else to whoever, if you guys are truly best friends u will hash things out
@bewatter3014
Жыл бұрын
Best friends ? Kelly stabbed him in the back. You dont need to be friends with everyone. Furthermore with a pathetic friend like kelly
@r0__0t88
Жыл бұрын
some relationships just aren’t worth saving
@lovejaret Жыл бұрын
no matter what happens between you guys, this video is 4:20 minutes long and that brings me joy
@chodey3569
Жыл бұрын
same
@Ken-ij3ic
Жыл бұрын
what's the meaning of 420
@Bronnybronny
Жыл бұрын
I was gonna like but it was at 420 likes
@nuri4825
Жыл бұрын
Happy 420 🥳
@shihabali237
Жыл бұрын
@@Ken-ij3ic 20th of April = Smoke Weed day
@helendo2280 Жыл бұрын
I just find it kinda weird how he ignored Kelly’s calls and sent him a whole ass letter. This situation is just weird
@alexandranics1319
Жыл бұрын
This
@nimrode
Жыл бұрын
right like how are they expected to keep stuff offline like he says, if he wouldnt even pick up kelly’s calls 😭😭
@josiahaguero3877
Жыл бұрын
fax
@MsAudience
Жыл бұрын
I think he preferred that way so that he can collect his thoughts together
@elyshe
Жыл бұрын
@@nimrode couldn’t agree more🤣💀
@secretdreamervlogs3358 Жыл бұрын
My definition of friendship Elliot and Kelly 🥺 ...sad to witness all this ..I just hope and pray everything gets sorted out and they become friends 🥺
@jayrollo1352
Жыл бұрын
Kelly always felt like a sell out. Look how he attacked Eliot in his first video about the situation when Elliot didn't even say anything about him.
@davuax1177
Жыл бұрын
usually it‘s bros before ho*s
@Alex-sw1fr Жыл бұрын
well, the crazy part is.. he didn't start or bring up anything(kept private).. but is taking responsibility and going forward. Best anyone can do in a tough situation.
@aylargd
Жыл бұрын
Yes i think he did the best thing...he respected to others privacy and didn't blame anybody
@cew138
Жыл бұрын
How dors he take responsibility when he denies everyting in this video and does not own up to other stuff, like the Elliot hates Ashley stuff. He doesnt even say anything about it. Not one this was he taken responsibility for..
@Alex-sw1fr
Жыл бұрын
He said he wouldn’t talk about certain things(could be anything you consider left out or entitled to hear), probably cause video format isn’t the time or place for it?? Responsibility is what is in his control and not what is in others.
@flymetotheup9904
Жыл бұрын
@@cew138 okay Elliot hate Ashley he must have his reason or we don't know if it's true.
@tranhoangdung071
Жыл бұрын
@@cew138 So what? I thought you are free to hate, as long as you done and said no harm to the individual? No?
@chindelacruz3081 Жыл бұрын
I think what Elliot was upset about is that kelly and ashley made it seem like ur moms house broke up when (at that time) Elliot just left. At their last day elliot thought they were going to make an elliot leaving Ur moms house video but then he just found out that they were all leaving
@borabobo Жыл бұрын
Once everything is sorted and you feel better, im expecting great content! Sending strength your waaay ❤
@zhongbot Жыл бұрын
Why does it matter if they are ending the house if you already gave up your rights and stepped away from it?
@anonygirly
Жыл бұрын
I agree, I feel like the equity clarification (which is not really clarified but just 'he said she said') was the only thing in this video that needed to be said. Clearly 2 people (a couple) aren't going to keep UMH alive and I don't think that's what people were really upset about. It was the claims about equity and hating Ashley.
@heyyou3609
Жыл бұрын
@@anonygirly He also clarfied that they didn't intend to post at the same time, which was a big issue to K&A in their video, so that needed o be clarified too. I also think Elliot thought that UMH is gonna continue and new people were going to join, that's why it was shocking for him to hear that kashley are leaving too. At first I was siding with kashley on this but then I watched Elliot's last video about leaving UMH and realised the situation isn't as black and white as it seemed at first
@anonygirly
Жыл бұрын
@@heyyou3609 yeah both good points but also not necessarily clarifications, just his word against K&A's (prob just multiple misunderstandings). I don't think it's black and white either - most relationship issues aren't. Even if his intention wasn't to hurt Ashley (whatever was said), he can still apologize for impact. Perhaps he's handling interpersonal stuff offline, but he brought interpersonal stuff into the public with his first video... Also clearly K&A can (and did) invite other ppl to live with them, but keeping the brand of UMH would've realistically been weird considering the terms the original 2 other members left on. It's not Real World lol
@WhatAlex
Жыл бұрын
right
@user-qf7yrscsw6x
Жыл бұрын
So true!
@jonaswilliams6303 Жыл бұрын
Sure, in public on legal terms Elliot wanted proportional equity. What I gathered from Kelly’s video is that behind closed doors Elliot didn’t actually believe that. If Elliot quit ur moms house a month before lease ended then I understand there’s no agreement when to post but as friends it seems disrespectful to completely negate ur friends’ wishes for the ending of the house you guys put together.
@jordanapalmer2557
Жыл бұрын
But they are no longer friends hence moving out early 😅
@hooramoher5980
Жыл бұрын
Guess you missed the part when Elliot said, there wasnt any agreement to post in the same timeline and that he left a month before this all happened hence, his right to post his own video. Kashley only felt disrespected because they did not expect they will be bashed. But look, who always try to be so defensive and pour scorn on someone else? Guess what its your kiddo Kelly and his puppy love Ashley.
@kn95xo
Жыл бұрын
@@hooramoher5980 "But look, who always try to be so defensive and pour scorn on someone else? Guess what its your kiddo Kelly and his puppy love Ashley." -> 💯💯💯
@nancysun4166 Жыл бұрын
Elliot, never take anything for granted in your journal through life , human relationships are complex but the real friend should learn from each other shoulder to shoulder and grow in wisdom together, but the reality they are different in front of the camera and behind the door, We need to keep moving ahead , learning to adapt and finding our wisdom Be yourself and believe in that Elliot within you👍👍 we all love you ❤
@fbspin Жыл бұрын
Sadly friendships that turn into business relations are hard to manage. Hoping things will get better
@esohe6677 Жыл бұрын
The biggest thing that he could have addressed was his behavior and hateful feelings towards Ashley but he chose not to which kinda confirms it
@henloworld514
Жыл бұрын
tbh I feel like his feelings are kinda understandable. It’s hard to watch your best friends slowly drift away from you.
@mynameis11111
Жыл бұрын
@@henloworld514 so many people get into relationships and things change, but for him to bitch and cry about it and then hate her while she is being kind to him is just immaturity at it’s finest, like cmon he needs to grow up, I think he’s upset that he’s stuck and can’t make great content, I think he wanted to move in with Kelly and make videos with him, but then Kelly ended up making videos on his own and with Ashley, so he’s looking at Ashley as the thing that is getting in his way, it’s all business for him, it’s not about friendship, friends don’t act like this, he’s off
@dominic1297
Жыл бұрын
the irony that he brought ashley up into the house too
@jordanapalmer2557
Жыл бұрын
@@mynameis11111 does it matter though. His feelings are valid, and he must hate them even more for airing their dirty laundry like that . I even unsubscribed from them cause why did they need to bring their drama online. We didn’t need to know their arguments. Some people say things in the heat of the moment and he was explicit when he said he started to resent his friends so he need to move out. I would resent friends like that as well.
@willpower7700
Жыл бұрын
Very much doesn't confirm it
@SushiLeader Жыл бұрын
Seems like there’s been a lot of misunderstandings, hopefully y’all can get together and talk about it, these videos just gonna add more fuel to the fire 😢
@SteveJobIess
Жыл бұрын
Elliot shouldnt have ruined the friendship by taking it to the next level. Now he's upset he got friendzoned by Kelly who doesnt reciprocate the same romantic feelings.
@jayrollo1352
Жыл бұрын
@@SteveJobIess Kelly is a sell out and a child. Two people get into a romantic relationship. Of course that's gona affect the business deal. And then he has the nerve to attack Elliot when he's been staying professional. Kelly is a loser. Watch him start attacking Ashley when they break up.
@SteveJobIess
Жыл бұрын
@@jayrollo1352 annemarie posted then later deleted her sharing it was actually elliot causing her to leave. But even then, wanting to keep a good relationship with him so continued to appear in videos with him. As well, teddy who is a business partner with elliot on a totally separate business venture has shared on his channel about parting ways due to difficult work culture. Keep fanboying all you want, but more people are speaking out.
@jayrollo1352
Жыл бұрын
@@SteveJobIess The fact that Annmarie recanted her story doesn't help her case. It's one thing to be scared to come out, but it's another thing to take it back after it's put out there. And this whole "trying to be friendly" with the guy who supposedly is toxic makes no sense. Normal people do not do that. And Teddy parting ways doesn't mean that Elliot is to blame by any means. Co-founders separate all the time for various reasons. The fact that no one seems to even see Kelly and Ashley's surprise relationship as resulting in any sort of rift with ur mom's house leads me to question their thought processes. Workplace relationships are frowned upon for a reason. But everyone for some reason is championing this happy-go-lucky, everythings-gona-be-okay notion. It's plain and obvious that Kelly lacks deep understand of the situation and instead took offense to a reasonable concern. Now he's using Ashely as the scapegoat by making it seem like Elliot was attacking her.
@JoshELTORO Жыл бұрын
Damn...this was kinda pathetic and a low effort attempt to have the last say in the situation without adding anything of value and it doesn't really change anything.
@mau9598 Жыл бұрын
I've been following all of you guys since last year and I really enjoyed each and everyone's content. It's just sad things had to end in a bad way. I hope you guys eventually let things go and rekindle your friendship. 😓
@giriboysgf Жыл бұрын
what irks me is that everything he said in this video doesn’t at all match up w what kashley said in theirs but the fact that the entire friend group (excluding Elliot’s gf ofc) is living together now w them just further makes me believe kashley more. either way I’m beyond sad about this bc I’ve watched Elliot for years :( still think I’m gonna watch and support but it’ll be hard to see him the same idk
@artykovtimur
Жыл бұрын
sameeee :0
@chuchi9935
Жыл бұрын
I kinda agree he also keeps saying how I left Left the house how I I I when like the lease was ending so the whole house was ending kinda weird
@inosukehashibira8713
Жыл бұрын
Whos Elliots gf
@namcox40
Жыл бұрын
Again like his last vid it still feels vague. I just hope all is handled off camera
@naagamkarga4477
Жыл бұрын
@@chuchi9935 he is saying so because he already knew that all of them except for him are moving in together in a different apartment, which is equivalent to just him leaving
@jspotdot Жыл бұрын
I hope all the people involved step back from this situation and take a deep breath…. All of you are extremely talented and I’m confident you’ll find your way through this. I hope you find a way to use your talents to help society as a whole, the bubble you’ve been living in is great, but there’s other opportunities that can utilize your skills. Breathe, breathe, breathe
@reimisia Жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, this video was confusing and didn’t really clarify anything lol. But it’s yalls business and ofcourse you shouldn’t feel obligated to speak your entire truth onto the internet. It is a personal matter. I hope everyone becomes healed and grows from this experience either way.
@parkjessica4444 Жыл бұрын
imo his careful choices of words make him more sus
@lizard1438
Жыл бұрын
disagree. It just means that he’s not the type of person to say whatever incendiary words that come to his head to escalate the situation
@dominic1297
Жыл бұрын
@@lizard1438 " i start to resent my best friends" ........bbbruh
@Lachataoriginal Жыл бұрын
I mean if y’all never had a “set date” to post the videos then why ignore Kelly when he tried contacting you? It’s just kinda weird. And his whole “you not being a good friend and talking shit” you not addressing it kinda makes it seem real… kinda sad how everything went down tbh but oh well you live and you learn
@sonam8722
Жыл бұрын
Bro was you were there when Kelly called Elliot? And why would he wait it’s his channel his discussion.How can you say he is not a good frnd are you a god or what . See his video I can say he is a mature grown up man he handle it very professionally and that Kinda video or KZread you should definitely follow.
@loganfong3175 Жыл бұрын
Elliot, been watching you since 2018. Love your videos, hang in there, everything will work itself out over time! Hope you’re doing all right, wishing you all the best 🙌
@melaninmya5313 Жыл бұрын
Awww Elliot sorry that things ended this way. You have such a big heart.
@lifttillwedie Жыл бұрын
YES nothing needs to be brought online nobody in ur moms house has an obligation to share personal problems. I am disappointed in the way the house ended completely. Keep going strong Elliot, much love ❤️
@SteveJobIess
Жыл бұрын
But we know about all these personal problems because, wait for it... everyone in ur moms house posted publicly about it. They are the ones making this public, then posting videos about not making it public.
@Daboyricco
Жыл бұрын
Hes the one who posted first and literally talking shi behind their back 😂😂😂😂. Why you think even his own friends left him behind
@shinyeee1709
Жыл бұрын
@@Daboyricco man you sound like a child typing (if you are an adult it’s embarrassing) If you bother to watch his last video, Elliot never attacked anyone within the house. He expressed his discontent without attacking Kelly and Ashley. Things within the last 6 months had been snowballing (Annemarie leaving & followers of UMH tired of the oversaturated Kashley content.) although it was right for Kashley to explain their part (because of the comments they were getting), they literally painted Elliot to be the wrong one without Kashley not claiming a part of the responsibility to the downfall of their friendship and UMH.
@Daboyricco
Жыл бұрын
@@shinyeee1709 watch Kelly’s video. He has receipts you delusional elliot fanboy😂😂😂. Why you think his other friends left him behind as well and moved in with Kelly and Ashley? You’re really slow honestly. If you can’t see Elliot’s manipulation and deceivable actions throughout his video just shows you how delusional you are.
@RubysTUTORials2 Жыл бұрын
Wish everything just stayed private, hate seeing friends argue like this online and so public
@joshuanazareth6977 Жыл бұрын
Take care Elliot, it’s time to move on to bigger and greater things. I’m looking forward to seeing what’s next for you
@emmatoris3555 Жыл бұрын
Not amber still in his comments ☠️ Ashley’s family is embarrassing why do they wanna keep dragging this on
@hafren_
Жыл бұрын
Where did Amber comment? What did she say?
@emmatoris3555
Жыл бұрын
@@hafren_ bro I’ve been trying to reply to u but my reply isn’t appearing. Check the urmomashley subreddit, the ss is there. Imma keep this reply short bc youtube is trying to silence me LOL
@emmatoris3555
Жыл бұрын
@@hafren_ let’s see if this comment shows up. But basically amber agreed to a hate post towards Elliot that was by a burner account called “Bob” that is said to be obviously one of the family members if not amber herself.
@hafren_
Жыл бұрын
@@emmatoris3555 dang.. thank youu for your effort to keep replying 🤣🤟
@fifi8314
Жыл бұрын
their mom is embarrassing and toxic af. i unsuscribed from amber as soon as i saw it
@rootbeary Жыл бұрын
elliot, you were very mature about this.
@Camille-jw6hk Жыл бұрын
Everything will eventually gonna be okay. Keep going Elliot 🤍
@alisonnichola88 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Elliot, I hope you are doing well and keep going we will always support you. 😀
@karolkaz Жыл бұрын
Watched Kelly's Addressing the End (ATE) video & rewatched Elliot's I'm Leaving (IL) video. I still think Elliot did not throw shade at Kelly or Ashley. The mistake was made when Kelly posted "The Truth" (TT) video which then started this drama. It was excerbated when Kelly humiliated Elliot with the ATE video, I will be surprised if the friendship can be salvaged after the ATE video. It would have been better if Kelly gave Elliot time to heal & save the friendship. I am not looking at this from a business perspective, I am looking at this from a place of compassion for someone who isn't as lucky, as Kelly & Ashley, who was unable to deal & adapt to new situations as easily. I forget sometimes, but Elliot is just 22 and this is his first real job, so it is understandable that he struggles with this. Both Kelly & Ashley knew Elliot had been having a hard time processing all that has happened & is quite a sensitive person. You two have each other in this and should have been the bigger person & let time heal. Kelly & Elliot seemed to have a deep connection & joy together, sad it is lost over an over-reaction on Kelly's end when he responsed with his TT video. Again, I strongly believe there was nothing to response to, Elliot was just being soppy & confused about his life & future. All this either shows the egotistical & political side of Kashley or the lack of foresight & maturity at Kelly's end on how to handle this problem. Kelly's TT video & ATE video have bigger ramifications & damage as it was an expose video on Elliot. Elliot with his IL video & this video was not an expose and did not create any public humiliation on anyone like Kelly's ATE did. Kelly, please be the bigger person, talk to a more mature impartial person & do damage control.
@kn95xo
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯 exactly! even if it was not his intention, kelly's videos are a big blow to the reputation of a guy he once considered (and confusingly, pretends to still consider) his bestfriend. and even if elliot's IL video did throw shade at kashley (arguably), at least he had the decorum to not mention names (and show people' faces and channels/platforms). that way, only UMH's true viewers wud've known who he was referring to in his video. if he was even throwing shade at all or intended to. heck, at this point, i'm just curious to know how things fare several months or a year from now at the new creator house kashley have put together. and also, how things are with kashley by then. wonder what they'll do with all their couple videos once or if they eventually break up. and what kelly's gonna do then and what his reflections on his past words, deeds, and decisions will be like.
@jananassier6736
Жыл бұрын
it’s hard to be a bigger person when the other person isn’t answering your private texts to reach out and elliot’s video might not have seemed like a diss but they were on an agreement to post their vids at the same time to avoid backlash but elliot didn’t uphold said agreement exposing kelly amd ashley to loads of backlash
@karolkaz
Жыл бұрын
What Elliot did does not warrant a public humiliation like this. Not all friendships lasts, but when there is a fall out, we don't do an expose, it is called integrity. When Annemarie left, tongues started wagging too. That is the life of a public figure, people are always going to speculate. The way I see it, Kashley is thriving in a new house with roommates who were mutual friends with Elliot, that alone says enough about them being fine friends, but fearing backlash over Elliot's IL video, they over reacted. If I were their new roommates, I'll be very worried about stepping on their toes. KZreadrs are more vengeful & vicious than Hollywood celebrities when things turn sour, cos their livelihood is a numbers game.
@kn95xo
Жыл бұрын
@@karolkaz "Not all friendships last, but when there is a fall out, we don't do an expose; it is called integrity. xxx If I were their new roommates, I'll be very worried about stepping on their toes. KZreadrs are more vengeful & vicious than Hollywood celebrities when things turn sour, cos their livelihood is a numbers game." exactly! 💯💯💯
@nehalarora1495 Жыл бұрын
From what I get after this video is that he wanted to do a video where they show him leaving ur moms house because he did not want to be a part of it much longer. But kelly and ashley did not want that. They wanted to keep it lighthearted and pretend that everything was fine which definitely wasn’t . The same thing happened when Annemarie left. But I guess elliot was not having any of that and he posted early. The video did not throw any shade towards kashley but that is what miscommunication does between people. If kashley really cared about elliot’s feeling like they claimed in their video, that video would not have been 40 mins long. Getting that personal was a low blow coming from them, they could have taken some accountability but all they did was blame Elliot, this is what happens when the power dynamic changes and its better ur moms house ended because eventually there would be two parties in that agreement kashley and elliot, when there should be three to have better decision making in place. I hope Elliot is fine❤
@efdiemel
Жыл бұрын
This! 💯💯💯 Annemarie just posted an ig story with Elliot, Nic and some other friends hanging out. I'm glad they're all there for Elliot, he'll need as much support as he can get rn.
@nehalarora1495
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I saw her stories 🥰
@nehalarora1495
Жыл бұрын
People in the comments are blaming him for posting early and betraying them. But even if he would have discussed with them about his narrative, they wouldn’t have agreed for sure. It’s clearly 2 against 1
@efdiemel
Жыл бұрын
@@nehalarora1495 Exactly. It's obvious Kashley's decision prevails among them three. They wanted the situation to appear as if everything was cool and they're just moving on to the next great chapter of their lives, just keep doing what excites and all that stuff. Elliot wanted transparency and I salute him for that. I'm so glad he didn't go along with Kashley's fake narrative and posted his video first, acknowledging where they all went wrong with the house and the group. It's his right to share his truth to his audience. I think it's very selfish of Kashley to hinder him from doing that, throwing tantrums on the internet after things didn't go their way. The entitlement 🙄
@Scripsure
Жыл бұрын
Completely agree. Kelly could have just left it with one video but since that backfired on him, he made another 40 minute confrontation video which is just plain weird
@godsdrinkingbuddy9668 Жыл бұрын
don't care who did what i just want everyone to be chill with eachother
@jagicyooo2007
Жыл бұрын
it's over, you'll never see them together again
@Adamsutek
Жыл бұрын
@@jagicyooo2007 naah they will get together eventually, it's not like forever type of drama
@jagicyooo2007
Жыл бұрын
@@Adamsutek fake stays fake
@omnientertainment5852 Жыл бұрын
I really haven’t watched many of your videos for a while. In fact I’ve seen most of your early college videos. That said, I have no idea what’s going on but I do feel for you man. You overcame a lot and will continue to stride. Keep your head up.
@liyuanyuan5941 Жыл бұрын
Hey, Elliot. I started to watch your videos since you were at Vandy. I am sorry for what happened. Take care of yourself. You are such a smart and talented kid and very mature. You will be great!! Go commodore!!
@DoGzrule430 Жыл бұрын
this gave a whole lot of nothing 😭we only know bits and pieces of the story but as a college student living with 4 other roommates communication is KEY and i feel like UMH didn't have solid communication at all. it doesnt help that u guys have platforms so ofc it blew up...i'm just saying it all could've been handled privately and its sad to see the end of genuine friendships (at least i think they were) :(
@ayanna3238
Жыл бұрын
right? it just seems like nobody’s really saying exactly how they feel and tip toeing around each other to avoid it, while also silently pointing fingers about who’s not saying what. this whole situation is quite bizarre for that reason imo. i just hope they can work this out in private 😭
@yellowgreen2378
Жыл бұрын
Yeah people started to talk and giving hate comments about the “beef” when elliot posted about hating his bestfriends 🥲
@bobbyw1074 Жыл бұрын
Hey no worries don’t feel too bad. Things happen. No blaming. Feel better regroup. Hope you guys reconcile sooner or later.
@mjp5926 Жыл бұрын
Well, let this be an opportunity of growth for both parties and be a lesson on communication. They'll be doing their own stuff, you'll be doing your own. And hey, we first followed you on your college journey. I felt that solo content was more genuine and quite more relatable.
@zielziel Жыл бұрын
sad UMH ended like this, i hope you guys get everything sorted out off cam/privately. wishing all the roomates peace and sending lots of love esp to you elliot, take care !!
@stephyamara9757 Жыл бұрын
best way to address issues! shows how mature you are elliot proud of u!
@rinira6796 Жыл бұрын
we’re ready to move on and excited to see your new chapter !!
@hafren_ Жыл бұрын
♥️ you dont need to but thank you for clarify your side of the story, it's just really sad that the house ended this way.
@jithiyt Жыл бұрын
Sad how it ended but we're thankful for the good times more than anything
@yoongy1 Жыл бұрын
Hey Elliot , I'm really sorry how everything ended but for this new chapter we will all be here with you . Sending you lots of love and hugs and hope to see more of your videos
@ainulnazirah6721 Жыл бұрын
Hi, elliot. This is my first time put on a comment in youtube haha. So yeah, honestly, your vids always give motivational supports to me. You got this, elliot. Take your time. Everything will be okay. 🙂
@jaxenmorphis1537 Жыл бұрын
Never do business with friends or family. All that will do is create tension. My parents taught me this when I started out, so I thought I’d share with others.
@DivyankKarolia Жыл бұрын
Notice that this video has a single shot unlike Kashley's video made up of multiple cuts, that shows clarity of thought and it only comes when you are telling the truth.
@tylerTaaca1 Жыл бұрын
Ngl, Ive been with Elliot since the Day in the Life videos, but something just seems off man. No hate, but if Kelly and Ashley wanted to end the house altogether, what’s wrong with that? That pivot doesn’t paint anyone in a bad light, unless you wanted to upload your video regardless of what narrative it created for them. Hoping that you can make some new dope stuff tho, live and learn yanno
@melon2378 Жыл бұрын
The fact that he doesn't want to address all the things he said about kelly and ashley just means its probably true.. very disappointed as a long time viewer tbh. I think if he made a video and talked about how he was feeling and why he said some things then maybe the viewers would understand... as for me, I don't think I can look at him the same anymore knowing he undermined a woman content creator due to jealousy and basically betrayed the trust of his best friend.
@sennie6296
Жыл бұрын
Hey, not going to argue, we never know what actually going through someone's life and between people so please don't just assume things just because you are curious about someone's life. Because everyone is not the same, some people don't like to talk about their problems, some people tend to confront meanwhile some people keep everything to themselves and hurting inside. I'm not taking anyone's side. But everyone is sensitive because of this, so your simple words can hurt someone so bad (specially Eliot is kind of separated) so be careful with your words guys
@VyTran
Жыл бұрын
I don’t think Elliot owes us any explanations of what he might’ve said about Kelly and Ashley. Even if he did, I feel like this would open another can of worms and cause more drama / hate towards everyone involved.
@AmorphousEcru
Жыл бұрын
It's probably true but I doesn't mean that it is true, definitively. We should all learn to respect people's privacy. Just because he's a public figure, doesn't mean his life is entertainment for you to bash him down and root for who you think is right. Also, people shit talk all the time and say things they dont mean out frustration and anger. It's an unfortunate situation, and people speculating are only adding fuel to fire and creating a toxic environment.
@grace1200
Жыл бұрын
Honestly who cares if it is true. He is allowed to feel what he feels. Did you want him to speak his mind and list off all the reasons he dislikes her. Because he could but that would cause more drama and also probably make Ashley look bad. When people dislike friends it isn’t usually for no reason at all. Don’t judge him for having emotions and being thoughtful about not disclosing this to the internet.
@marylou2668 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I never found your "im leaving ur moms house" shading Kelly and Ashley. You obviously noticed you were resenting your bestfriends and you needed time for yourself and thats good. mental health is a real thing. I think what made this whole situation to be public was Kelly's clip of him reacting to you posting. This all could've been avoided publicly if Kelly didn't include that clip. Then Kelly then posts a video of him and Ashley addressing the 'ur moms house' and says something along the lines of "I just wish that it wouldn't have to come to posting this video and having to address it public" in the video. When really Kelly's clip was the one who caused all speculation and forced them to explain.
@marylou2668
Жыл бұрын
@Mathe Jone ive never sent him a nasty comment 💀 or attacked him ever. but I agree he has every right to defend himself but im just saying this could've been handled privately
@marylou2668
Жыл бұрын
@Mathe Jone its seriously not dramatic and I dont think elliot meant to post it knowingly how people will react. If elliot did know his friends would get hate, he wouldn't purposely post it. In the end its the "fans" who make up their own narrative about the situation based on their own opinion. In my comment im saying, since people were already making up assumptions, like it was kellys and Ashleys fault, Kelly shouldn't have posted that clip because it would then make it public. When its really just between Kelly, Ashley and elliot. But again I agree he has a right to defend himself.
@marylou2668
Жыл бұрын
@Mathe Jone okie dokie
@ulhagyamarmamong2297 Жыл бұрын
just let it go eliot! just let it be we all are not fool we can figure out same we can realize who's are what going through! just forget all shits whatever happened! we love you and we purple you! let it be from your life all negative people’s.....
@meltedsocks2270 Жыл бұрын
Elliot , I love you (and of course i respect your need for privacy on this matter) but its not even the equity or business side or the content house that matters, its the FRIENDSHIP you shared with these people way even before the house started. I'm only saying this cause I've made so many mistakes around friendships ,ones that i wish i didn't make cause its not everyday that you come across friendships and relationships so precious and rare. Once you find something good ,you always cling onto it. I hope you ALL can figure this out ..I love you guys .And i'm wishing you all the best in this new chapter.
@StoicD55 Жыл бұрын
It’s all in the past bleh bleh All I would like to say to you is that you’ve got loadsss of amazing amazing experiences ahead of you, I’ve been watching your channel from the first video, you’ve come so far because of being this insanely driven talented chill guy you are so enjoy the ride elly choi boi 🤜🏻🤛🏻
@ui.ux_vanessa Жыл бұрын
I've been following your videos right from when you were still in college & that's not gonna change. ❤
@shanebido2327 Жыл бұрын
I wish you all talk this out. It gets better with communication, promise. Love you, Elliot. Here to support u always. ♡
Пікірлер: 3 000
no matter who did what, who said what, who instigated what, it’s just sad the house ended on a sour note with drama
@fernanwrc.250
Жыл бұрын
exactly
@nkft1
Жыл бұрын
all houses end it like this, I was already expecting it
@yb6038
Жыл бұрын
@@nkft1 nah a few have not ended with drama
@rahhmann
Жыл бұрын
Bruhhh!!! 💔😔
@iamxzavier_
Жыл бұрын
Agreed 💯💯
The lesson here is never mix business with friendship
@Sonia-tv4nu
Жыл бұрын
fax
@cladiusn3153
Жыл бұрын
100%. Say it louder so that those in the back can hear!
@kevinbui8405
Жыл бұрын
but what about good mythical morning
@typoprone
Жыл бұрын
I think the lesson here is don't fall in love with your best friend. 🙊
@ASarma11
Жыл бұрын
📠
The takeaway from this is: communicate, don’t just assume the others know what you’re thinking.
@nez01
Жыл бұрын
100%
@eboliator
Жыл бұрын
agreed. but from kelly's video it seems that elliot isn't really a confrontational person. if he had been more transparent with his feelings then maybe this whole issue could've been patched before it bled out.
@nez01
Жыл бұрын
@@eboliator that’s the thing tho. The people who aren’t confrontational actually bring the issue and make it bigger because they don’t communicate. Anyways
@eboliator
Жыл бұрын
@@nez01 well I believe it’s a good thing that kelly and ashley are shining light on the situation. Elliot is a role model for many with a large following. The things he said about ashley if true, is something the fans deserve to know. He shouldn’t be allowed to get away with it if his plan is to just keep quiet, ignore, and hope kelly and ashley just magically forget what he said.
@nel2506
Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
we've all had drama and miscommunications with our friends. we've all said hurtful things we don't really mean. usually we can reflect and learn from our mistakes to heal our relationships and/or ourselves and become better people. unfortunately for you guys, your situation is online for thousands of people to consume, analyze and berate. unfortunate, but like everything, the drama will pass. hope its sooner than later so you all can move on in peace and learn from the experience to become better people.
Well, I feel that lack of communication among Elliot, Kelly and Ashley lead to misunderstandings and beef, if that's what u call it. Discussing stuff in person and posting it online is better than just doing it without any talk. Also, I'm not on anyone's side. I love them all. Just sad that they didn't end on a good note.
@WesleyLindsey
Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more
@aznantboi
Жыл бұрын
you can't communicate when the other party isn't there, unreachable, or wants to do something else. Elliot says he's leaving 1 month early. K&A say let's leave together.
@henloworld514
Жыл бұрын
I agree, and same. I loved watching their content and I’m sad how things ended.
@sakinafatima5387
Жыл бұрын
@@aznantboi clearly you're leaning towards Elliot on this one. Remember, there's two sides to a story. They were gonna upload this news on they're group ( combined channel) not on their individual channel. Again, I've had fights with ample people and the reason in mostly all cases was that we weren't either receptive about each other's thoughts or miscommunication.
@pearlykc
Жыл бұрын
I feel like he's only addressing it so briefly is because he cannot damage control the other stuff without straight up capping and denying them
Ngl this beef is so interpersonal and no one is truly wrong-wrong. This should’ve stayed inside the group 😭. This is something you guys will recover from in like a year or so.
@Bronnybronny
Жыл бұрын
Completely agree
@eliizaamackenziee
Жыл бұрын
agree as well
@Sonia-tv4nu
Жыл бұрын
agree
@user78554
Жыл бұрын
They will never be the same, once you mix business with friendship its over
@nicholashastings
Жыл бұрын
Bro hated his roommate and his best friends girlfriend, that’s wild 😂😂
Kinda rubs me the wrong way Elliot acts like he's above it all now when it was his actions that started it. Feels like he's being intentionally dismissive throughout the video - "only equal equity was discussed with the lawyer" yeah probably because cutting out Ashley was only discussed behind her back, "different posting schedules" yeah thats why everyone else was blindsided and Elliot just happened to be the first one to control the narrative
@karathompson7776
Жыл бұрын
His video wasn't even offensive LMAO. At least the guy didnt spent 38 mins bashing the two of them for a profit with a few "maybe we can be friends down the line" comments to protect himself. At face value Kelly went off the handle from Elliot's first video which was 9 mins of him talking which compromise a breakdown of him in the rain for like 2 mins, him talking about himself for like 3 mins, some old b-roll footage, and him barely saying much about why he moved. Clearly the comments got Kelly into his feelings and instead of being logical decided to make the video. Which tbh was just them bashing him as said with the few fake throw ins of him acting like he gives a shit about Elliot. Even Ashley made the effort to throw shade about AM in the video which btw is a question mark itself since she had instances of not treating AM well considering.
@carlie215
Жыл бұрын
@@karathompson7776 where's the shade about AM? Timestamp pls. Maybe I kinda missed it. It's so long video. Wanna know
@hooramoher5980
Жыл бұрын
@@karathompson7776 This is true. Kelly was fuming and forgot Elliot was once his friend who boosted him on KZread. He plays victim along with Ashley and thats the most frustrating part.
@ashleyjanepagador4919
Жыл бұрын
@@karathompson7776 I literally don’t remember her saying shade towards Anne Marie? With this situation, Kelly and Ashley were getting a TON of hate and probably there was a lot of emotion and things that they should have said more properly. As they said it was hard to even get in contact with Elliot. And if someone were to say they HATED my partner I would be extremely upset. There was extreme miscommunication within the house but I’m glad they split and decided to go they’re separate ways
I wish you all of the best Elliot. As bystanders we(the fans) will never have the full detail of this disagreement, and they often say there are three sides to every story. However I know it can’t be easy to have a conflict of two- versus one ( which is what it is in this scenario). Stay strong, protect your mental peace and know that there are people out there routing for you xx
I don't want to take anyone's side but I wish everything gets sorted asap :(
@noaburgstra5926
Жыл бұрын
you dont have to you dont know them they dont know you you can appreciate their content but dont get parasocial with taking someones side
@Beckst
Жыл бұрын
impossible for ashley when he treated her like that
@jarvindriftwood
Жыл бұрын
Sorting it asap could be rough. Time heals all wounds. As big as this is now in 6 months, a year or five, it might not matter near as much.
@jenosleftshoulder
Жыл бұрын
yes this
@melodyk3981
Жыл бұрын
@@rozzark821 we can turn the argument around and say the same about kashley acting the role of victim. kashley handled it the wrong way posting 40 min video dumping on elliot nonstop plus ashley's mom dumping on elliot too. then there's elliot's 4 min video defending himself against these attacks. elliot is more private as a you tuber than kashley. he's not comfortable airing all the dirty laundry for 40 min from 2nd hand info lesser known you tubers just to get 1/2 to 1 million views. there's no talking it out ever. elliot just wants out of this toxic kashley circle and move on with his life at this point. elliot is more private than kashley. everyone got their 40 min or 4 min of videos in and needs to shut it and go their separate ways.
This is a situation between grown adults and I hope they can finish whatever they need to off camera.
@bazzbash4556
Жыл бұрын
@@anonymousabc9157 agree 100% what a brat man.
@imodxbox
Жыл бұрын
they're kids
@cristina1071
Жыл бұрын
um? idk but this seems like a comment for Kelly’s channel? He has made two long videos about this making accusations toward Elliot. This is Elliot’s first time addressing the situation in a short 4 minute video. His original video didn’t even mention Kelly or Ashley at all..
@bazzbash4556
Жыл бұрын
@@cristina1071 if you can't connect 2 and 2 together then u either don't really follow them or you're dumb as hell.
@cristina1071
Жыл бұрын
@@bazzbash4556 my point is that someone else made a 40 minute video about this, and this video is literally 4 minutes, so why are people commenting on this video to stop talking about it on camera instead of the 40 minute video from Kelly? If you don’t understand that I’m not gonna say you’re dumb as hell because this is stupid internet drama not worth insulting people over, but it doesn’t hurt to look at it from another perspective lol
Cheer-up Elliot. Things happen for a reason. We all make mistakes, and learned along the way. Do what you love, move on....Can't wait for your next chapter.
Thanks for your clarifications too, Elliot. Really not easy at your end! I just hope that you will have a good rest during this period and continue to inspire us with your content!!! Looking forward!
The fact that best friends are having beef online is sad. I really hope their friendship and misunderstanding ends. It's heartbreaking to see this 😭
@Minato96
Жыл бұрын
This shows that they weren’t real best friends to begin with. Understandable tho, they’ve been friends for only 2years?
@olinafan4459
Жыл бұрын
that's what happens when business get mixed with friendship
@allucard1018
Жыл бұрын
@@Minato96 lmao that’s now how it works. Relationships are complicated.
@HonorViego
Жыл бұрын
I’m the 666 like : )
@adwitiya8751
Жыл бұрын
@@Minato96 i wouldn't say they weren't real. They were legit real and that is why they both are hurt by eachothers actions. It's just that sometimes things don't always work out. We don't always get to keep everyone close. Time happens and life happens. It is so wrong to label it as fake friendship... 2 years or not relationships are complicated
Elliot, Kelly, Ashley, Annemarie. Long ago, the four roommates lived together in harmony. Then everything changed when shit hit the fans. Only the Avatar, master of all four roommates, could stop them. But when the world needed him most, he vanished.
@jayrollo1352
Жыл бұрын
Everything changed when Kelly and Ashley started f*cking.
@brothajones327
Жыл бұрын
Luke was the avatar
@1zzyfox
Жыл бұрын
best comment yet
@goldvolk
Жыл бұрын
Corny ass comment.
@henryascension8702
Жыл бұрын
no more words needed.
Everyone has their own side. It’s really sad to hear and watch everything dissolve away 😔however I do appreciate everyone keeping us involved and updated
Love you Elliot. Stay strong and know that we are here to support you no matter what was said about you and no matter how ur friends slandered you online. Wishing you healing and peace and I’m looking forward to your future videos❤
@kn95xo
Жыл бұрын
@Mathe Jone maybe he just didn't want to add to the drama? or stoop to their level? ever thought of that?
I can't take it seriously when its called ur mom's house
@evanaguilera4986
Жыл бұрын
💀
@tiffanymari1771
Жыл бұрын
it’s because imong mama
@stanleyh2510
Жыл бұрын
Fr 😂
@stinkynoodles8312
Жыл бұрын
@@tiffanymari1771 bro chill, balay lang sa ilang mama
@WhatAlex
Жыл бұрын
BAHAHAHAHAHAHHA
This sounds like a new chapter in life has started. New opportunities, new chances and a lot of new experiences. Obviously it's not always easy but hopefully you have friends and family to support you emotionally on this rollercoaster we call "life". Don't lose hope and don't lose inspiration over conflicts in life. That's completely normal an I'm glad you don't act like everything is beautiful all the time. I really respect your authenticity. Thank you for making Videos - greetings from Germany.
"Most content houses end in disaster." - Colin and Samir (after interviewing ur moms house) 04/26/22
Take care, Elliot. It is such a joy to watch your vlogs. Hope you will get some real good rest and come back with great contents. 🍀 Wishing you nothing but the best.
I hate when this happens to KZread creators 😭😭. But at the end of the day I’ll still be supporting everyone, you all are strong humans, and deserve the best. 💖
The fact that i dropped everything I was doing when I saw this notification 💀
@m4tthiaz
Жыл бұрын
Same lol
@tenshi84
Жыл бұрын
Lol same
@KshitizSinhaPhoto
Жыл бұрын
same lol
@nicoleemede2376
Жыл бұрын
Exact same thing 😂😂😂
@ndeleon
Жыл бұрын
same😭
Stay strong, Elliot! Friendships falling apart is rough. Cheering you on yo get through this :) I’m not “choosing sides” but just excited for all of you go re-find joy even if it means your friendships won’t be rekindled. A lot of your audience is young and still learning about life. They think talking will just “solve the problem”. Here to remind you that Friendships don’t always have to stay forever. They can end at that chapter and everyone will still be ok!
Most of my friends (and myself) had some sort of friendship/roommate drama in their early 20s. It’s a challenging time, and I’m so beyond grateful that we didn’t have the Internet following our every move as we navigated adulthood. It’s clear from my lens that everyone in the house made mistakes. You’re figuring out who you are as an adult, and it’s completely understandable that you will all take missteps in relationships, life, and business along the way. Growth can be wildly uncomfortable (especially with millions of people watching and commenting). Wishing you and the others a bright future, as you take these lessons learned with you. You’re beyond talented, Elliott, and I’m excited to watch this next chapter unfold!
Not on anyone's side I will continue to watch everyone's content because I enjoy it. I persoanlly believe It's just a misunderstanding and communication breakdown between friends. Hope for the best for all of you!!
I don't think anyone is to blame just miscommunication. We've all been there, all there is to do is remember the good times and move on yk? love you Elliot!
Hope you guys can work it out offline. This ‘beef’ should never have been on the internet, but I get how fast it can get out of control when you all have these platforms. It’s terrible losing your friends, especially if it’s over something like miscommunication or such. Ofc we as the viewers will never really know. It could have been more than that or whatnot but I just wish you guys all the best. Even if someone is to blame or if everyone is partly to blame, *everyone has the chance to grow from this and do better.* Hopefully this new chapter will bring happiness to all of you (even if not together) and hopefully you guys can reconcile one day. *Also Elliot* , I don’t know if you’ve been struggling a bit with your mental health maybe (and I’m really sorry to even touch on that if that’s not the case, or even if it is), but if that’s the case I truly wish that you will have hope in your heart and the strength to get better. I’ve been struggling a little myself lately and I honestly felt a similar vibe coming from you, so sorry if I’m wrong. *But I do believe it’s hard to fix relationships with others if you’re having a hard time with ‘yourself’* (your thoughts, emotions etc.) speaking from a place of experience.
@electricdragon7777
Жыл бұрын
How do you know he's struggling with his mental health
@AleksanderLydkunst
Жыл бұрын
I mean….. if my supposed best friend left on a family trip for his dead grandmother with his girlfriend to support his mother I wouldn’t take it personally as abandonment, then talk smack about him to all his other long time friends calling him whipped and saying how I hate his girlfriend… but that’s just me🤷🏻♂️😂 For a “non-confrontational” person, Elliot seems to have gotten his mental release from being a snake instead😀 I know everybody’s young, but damn Kelly and Ashley’s response was very mature while staying real.. this video is clearly Elliot attempting to do damage control, and that’s why he’s emphasizing how he’s not obligated to clarify anything to the audience, but had no problem pointing fingers in his original video or talking mounds of shit about Kelly behind his back… y i k e s
@ashwin.unlead
Жыл бұрын
@@AleksanderLydkunst elliot just being dramatic, he really needs to work on himself. Or this will bite his ass again.
You’ll get through this, no worries. Lets move forward, will keep on supporting you 🎉
i hope you are doing ohk dude , love your content and don't let this pull you down or anything , will always be watching your videos and supporting you , its very sad to see ur moms house ending on a rough patch ....
"I never once suggested that there should be anything than a complete even split of equity at Ur Mom's House." Sly choice of wording. I think the allegation was that you didn't *THINK* that Ashley deserved equity. Not that you suggested it.
@jagicyooo2007
Жыл бұрын
so he's the snake
@melon2378
Жыл бұрын
exactly lol..
@unicorntv2048
Жыл бұрын
Didnt Kelly say that Elliot was suggesting it to him, too?
@alexandranics1319
Жыл бұрын
!!!
@josiahaguero3877
Жыл бұрын
i noticed that too
Two things come to mind. Immaturity on all parties involved, and two NEVER mix business with friendship, because it will always end up in such a precarious scenario.
@dbald2525
Жыл бұрын
to*
@simplicitydevolved4805
Жыл бұрын
Mostly immaturity from a dude who openly told his “best friend” he hated his gf. This guy gave phony/fake/ flake-y vibes since day 1. This is the type of dude who will promise you he’ll be there then flake out last second
@jamesuugsw
7 ай бұрын
I think u can mix business and friendship but u have to be business partners first u feel?
even things might’ve gotten rough towards the end of the house i will still always support you elliot, and kelly and ashley. you guys are all incredible people and i love all of your videos.
I think there were different feelings and disagreements which leads to a blurred line of communication. It happens when you live with people. Its a normal thing. We loved this content house. But it didn’t work out. There were somethings that were said and done but at the end of the day its nothing too serious. Don’t overthink it. You live and you learn. One chapter ends and another one begins. All love and blessings to everyone!
@sunraes
Жыл бұрын
I agree on this people have had worst roomie stories LOL
Although the house may have not ended the way everyone expected it, as long as y’all are transparent I just really hope you all will be okay with each other, ur mom’s house really gave me something to look forward to every week, I love you original 4 as well as all the friends that came along after, and I appreciate all of your guy’s filming styles! Here’s to new beginnings and to hoping that everyone will move past from this, thanks to you Elliot and all of you bcus you guys always give the best quality content 🙌
You are entitled to how you felt … your last video made sense to explain the early exit from Ur Mom House. It’s sadness. Outsiders like us shouldn’t take sides or comment whose faults. The issues are between you and Keashly. Hope there’re lessons learned and everyone comes out to be a better person. I was concerned about you seeing the other two people have already moved on with new house mates. Wish you well.
you guys are young adults navigating life and miscommunication will happen. i hope you guys can learn from this situation and move forward without ill intentions towards each other ❤️ you guys can still all prosper in life even if you're not together making content.
@Witchworkanimations
Жыл бұрын
Yes facts!
I’m not on either side, but I hope everyone can take some time to evaluate everything in depth and when both of y’all are ready, can do a reunion video❤️❤️❤️
@localbrownboy
Жыл бұрын
Nah, once a snake always a snake
@elyshe
Жыл бұрын
@@localbrownboy agreed
@alexqi3089
Жыл бұрын
@@localbrownboy who
@jagicyooo2007
Жыл бұрын
@@localbrownboy WHO THE FK IS THE SNAKE BRUH
@abhisekpal2552
Жыл бұрын
@@jagicyooo2007 Viewers.
Since the day the Colin&Samir video came out months ago I knew they were gonna end badly. Soon later Marie left and it all came crumbling down
@DAMfoxygrampa
Жыл бұрын
What's that video about ?
@BigAkwes
Жыл бұрын
@@DAMfoxygrampa they did an episode on the group “ur moms house”
@DAMfoxygrampa
Жыл бұрын
@@BigAkwes Went and watched it, thanks for the suggestion! Definitely had a foreshadowing air of "this might not work out"
@BigAkwes
Жыл бұрын
@@DAMfoxygrampa facts
Fighting Elliot. We love you. Take a rest as much as you need. Leave and forget that make you feel uncomfortable. Do what you make you feel happy. Build quality time. May be do business offline to be success ...changing mood and make your mind busy with another job. After all, when you think you have enough time for yourself, come back. we would be so grateful and supportive as usual when you come back . You are talented creater. You can't imagine how much you are amazing. You are still so much loved Elliot.
The equity part: I think "formally" elliot never suggested anything less of an equal split. I do think that he "informally" or off the record talked how ashley didn't deserve any along with the other things he said about ashley. just my opinion tho
@MikaelaSchultz
Жыл бұрын
yes, good point!
@faizanhusain7845
Жыл бұрын
Yeah you were there right?
@MikaelaSchultz
Жыл бұрын
@@faizanhusain7845 they said “I think” hahah
@fram24
Жыл бұрын
Most likely
Guys be careful of your words!! When someone is struggling with problems please don't just assume things and comment your opinions. Keep them to yourself. Because your simple words can hurt someone so bad. You never know what's going on other people's lives because they obviously can't say everything and anything.
@jerefied
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@carolyncain617
Жыл бұрын
That is si true
@itsjaaah
Жыл бұрын
absolutely. Well said!
@SteveJobIess
Жыл бұрын
A lot of words coming from someone advising others to "Keep them to yourself"
sending love to you and all the roommates, can’t believe everything’s ending this way
힘내세요. 이번일은 본인의 인생에 큰 자산이 될거에요. 계속 응원하겠습니다! 앨리엇님은 정말 창의적인 사람이에요.
Can't wait to watch the next chapter in your life. Come back stronger Elliot. Lots of love. ❤️
i am just saying but you were the first one to make the "situation" public... And said that things should have been kept private only after their response...
Regardless, it's PRIVATE matter between 3 of y'all..all these all other stuff is no one's business..love message don't spread hate you are advocating...keep being authentic as you are..stay positive and get yourself in good mental headspace..your true friends and loyal subscribers will stick with ya no matter what..stay blessed❣❣
it doesn't matter who did, said, confronted, and whatever else to whoever, if you guys are truly best friends u will hash things out
@bewatter3014
Жыл бұрын
Best friends ? Kelly stabbed him in the back. You dont need to be friends with everyone. Furthermore with a pathetic friend like kelly
@r0__0t88
Жыл бұрын
some relationships just aren’t worth saving
no matter what happens between you guys, this video is 4:20 minutes long and that brings me joy
@chodey3569
Жыл бұрын
same
@Ken-ij3ic
Жыл бұрын
what's the meaning of 420
@Bronnybronny
Жыл бұрын
I was gonna like but it was at 420 likes
@nuri4825
Жыл бұрын
Happy 420 🥳
@shihabali237
Жыл бұрын
@@Ken-ij3ic 20th of April = Smoke Weed day
I just find it kinda weird how he ignored Kelly’s calls and sent him a whole ass letter. This situation is just weird
@alexandranics1319
Жыл бұрын
This
@nimrode
Жыл бұрын
right like how are they expected to keep stuff offline like he says, if he wouldnt even pick up kelly’s calls 😭😭
@josiahaguero3877
Жыл бұрын
fax
@MsAudience
Жыл бұрын
I think he preferred that way so that he can collect his thoughts together
@elyshe
Жыл бұрын
@@nimrode couldn’t agree more🤣💀
My definition of friendship Elliot and Kelly 🥺 ...sad to witness all this ..I just hope and pray everything gets sorted out and they become friends 🥺
@jayrollo1352
Жыл бұрын
Kelly always felt like a sell out. Look how he attacked Eliot in his first video about the situation when Elliot didn't even say anything about him.
@davuax1177
Жыл бұрын
usually it‘s bros before ho*s
well, the crazy part is.. he didn't start or bring up anything(kept private).. but is taking responsibility and going forward. Best anyone can do in a tough situation.
@aylargd
Жыл бұрын
Yes i think he did the best thing...he respected to others privacy and didn't blame anybody
@cew138
Жыл бұрын
How dors he take responsibility when he denies everyting in this video and does not own up to other stuff, like the Elliot hates Ashley stuff. He doesnt even say anything about it. Not one this was he taken responsibility for..
@Alex-sw1fr
Жыл бұрын
He said he wouldn’t talk about certain things(could be anything you consider left out or entitled to hear), probably cause video format isn’t the time or place for it?? Responsibility is what is in his control and not what is in others.
@flymetotheup9904
Жыл бұрын
@@cew138 okay Elliot hate Ashley he must have his reason or we don't know if it's true.
@tranhoangdung071
Жыл бұрын
@@cew138 So what? I thought you are free to hate, as long as you done and said no harm to the individual? No?
I think what Elliot was upset about is that kelly and ashley made it seem like ur moms house broke up when (at that time) Elliot just left. At their last day elliot thought they were going to make an elliot leaving Ur moms house video but then he just found out that they were all leaving
Once everything is sorted and you feel better, im expecting great content! Sending strength your waaay ❤
Why does it matter if they are ending the house if you already gave up your rights and stepped away from it?
@anonygirly
Жыл бұрын
I agree, I feel like the equity clarification (which is not really clarified but just 'he said she said') was the only thing in this video that needed to be said. Clearly 2 people (a couple) aren't going to keep UMH alive and I don't think that's what people were really upset about. It was the claims about equity and hating Ashley.
@heyyou3609
Жыл бұрын
@@anonygirly He also clarfied that they didn't intend to post at the same time, which was a big issue to K&A in their video, so that needed o be clarified too. I also think Elliot thought that UMH is gonna continue and new people were going to join, that's why it was shocking for him to hear that kashley are leaving too. At first I was siding with kashley on this but then I watched Elliot's last video about leaving UMH and realised the situation isn't as black and white as it seemed at first
@anonygirly
Жыл бұрын
@@heyyou3609 yeah both good points but also not necessarily clarifications, just his word against K&A's (prob just multiple misunderstandings). I don't think it's black and white either - most relationship issues aren't. Even if his intention wasn't to hurt Ashley (whatever was said), he can still apologize for impact. Perhaps he's handling interpersonal stuff offline, but he brought interpersonal stuff into the public with his first video... Also clearly K&A can (and did) invite other ppl to live with them, but keeping the brand of UMH would've realistically been weird considering the terms the original 2 other members left on. It's not Real World lol
@WhatAlex
Жыл бұрын
right
@user-qf7yrscsw6x
Жыл бұрын
So true!
Sure, in public on legal terms Elliot wanted proportional equity. What I gathered from Kelly’s video is that behind closed doors Elliot didn’t actually believe that. If Elliot quit ur moms house a month before lease ended then I understand there’s no agreement when to post but as friends it seems disrespectful to completely negate ur friends’ wishes for the ending of the house you guys put together.
@jordanapalmer2557
Жыл бұрын
But they are no longer friends hence moving out early 😅
@hooramoher5980
Жыл бұрын
Guess you missed the part when Elliot said, there wasnt any agreement to post in the same timeline and that he left a month before this all happened hence, his right to post his own video. Kashley only felt disrespected because they did not expect they will be bashed. But look, who always try to be so defensive and pour scorn on someone else? Guess what its your kiddo Kelly and his puppy love Ashley.
@kn95xo
Жыл бұрын
@@hooramoher5980 "But look, who always try to be so defensive and pour scorn on someone else? Guess what its your kiddo Kelly and his puppy love Ashley." -> 💯💯💯
Elliot, never take anything for granted in your journal through life , human relationships are complex but the real friend should learn from each other shoulder to shoulder and grow in wisdom together, but the reality they are different in front of the camera and behind the door, We need to keep moving ahead , learning to adapt and finding our wisdom Be yourself and believe in that Elliot within you👍👍 we all love you ❤
Sadly friendships that turn into business relations are hard to manage. Hoping things will get better
The biggest thing that he could have addressed was his behavior and hateful feelings towards Ashley but he chose not to which kinda confirms it
@henloworld514
Жыл бұрын
tbh I feel like his feelings are kinda understandable. It’s hard to watch your best friends slowly drift away from you.
@mynameis11111
Жыл бұрын
@@henloworld514 so many people get into relationships and things change, but for him to bitch and cry about it and then hate her while she is being kind to him is just immaturity at it’s finest, like cmon he needs to grow up, I think he’s upset that he’s stuck and can’t make great content, I think he wanted to move in with Kelly and make videos with him, but then Kelly ended up making videos on his own and with Ashley, so he’s looking at Ashley as the thing that is getting in his way, it’s all business for him, it’s not about friendship, friends don’t act like this, he’s off
@dominic1297
Жыл бұрын
the irony that he brought ashley up into the house too
@jordanapalmer2557
Жыл бұрын
@@mynameis11111 does it matter though. His feelings are valid, and he must hate them even more for airing their dirty laundry like that . I even unsubscribed from them cause why did they need to bring their drama online. We didn’t need to know their arguments. Some people say things in the heat of the moment and he was explicit when he said he started to resent his friends so he need to move out. I would resent friends like that as well.
@willpower7700
Жыл бұрын
Very much doesn't confirm it
Seems like there’s been a lot of misunderstandings, hopefully y’all can get together and talk about it, these videos just gonna add more fuel to the fire 😢
@SteveJobIess
Жыл бұрын
Elliot shouldnt have ruined the friendship by taking it to the next level. Now he's upset he got friendzoned by Kelly who doesnt reciprocate the same romantic feelings.
@jayrollo1352
Жыл бұрын
@@SteveJobIess Kelly is a sell out and a child. Two people get into a romantic relationship. Of course that's gona affect the business deal. And then he has the nerve to attack Elliot when he's been staying professional. Kelly is a loser. Watch him start attacking Ashley when they break up.
@SteveJobIess
Жыл бұрын
@@jayrollo1352 annemarie posted then later deleted her sharing it was actually elliot causing her to leave. But even then, wanting to keep a good relationship with him so continued to appear in videos with him. As well, teddy who is a business partner with elliot on a totally separate business venture has shared on his channel about parting ways due to difficult work culture. Keep fanboying all you want, but more people are speaking out.
@jayrollo1352
Жыл бұрын
@@SteveJobIess The fact that Annmarie recanted her story doesn't help her case. It's one thing to be scared to come out, but it's another thing to take it back after it's put out there. And this whole "trying to be friendly" with the guy who supposedly is toxic makes no sense. Normal people do not do that. And Teddy parting ways doesn't mean that Elliot is to blame by any means. Co-founders separate all the time for various reasons. The fact that no one seems to even see Kelly and Ashley's surprise relationship as resulting in any sort of rift with ur mom's house leads me to question their thought processes. Workplace relationships are frowned upon for a reason. But everyone for some reason is championing this happy-go-lucky, everythings-gona-be-okay notion. It's plain and obvious that Kelly lacks deep understand of the situation and instead took offense to a reasonable concern. Now he's using Ashely as the scapegoat by making it seem like Elliot was attacking her.
Damn...this was kinda pathetic and a low effort attempt to have the last say in the situation without adding anything of value and it doesn't really change anything.
I've been following all of you guys since last year and I really enjoyed each and everyone's content. It's just sad things had to end in a bad way. I hope you guys eventually let things go and rekindle your friendship. 😓
what irks me is that everything he said in this video doesn’t at all match up w what kashley said in theirs but the fact that the entire friend group (excluding Elliot’s gf ofc) is living together now w them just further makes me believe kashley more. either way I’m beyond sad about this bc I’ve watched Elliot for years :( still think I’m gonna watch and support but it’ll be hard to see him the same idk
@artykovtimur
Жыл бұрын
sameeee :0
@chuchi9935
Жыл бұрын
I kinda agree he also keeps saying how I left Left the house how I I I when like the lease was ending so the whole house was ending kinda weird
@inosukehashibira8713
Жыл бұрын
Whos Elliots gf
@namcox40
Жыл бұрын
Again like his last vid it still feels vague. I just hope all is handled off camera
@naagamkarga4477
Жыл бұрын
@@chuchi9935 he is saying so because he already knew that all of them except for him are moving in together in a different apartment, which is equivalent to just him leaving
I hope all the people involved step back from this situation and take a deep breath…. All of you are extremely talented and I’m confident you’ll find your way through this. I hope you find a way to use your talents to help society as a whole, the bubble you’ve been living in is great, but there’s other opportunities that can utilize your skills. Breathe, breathe, breathe
Not gonna lie, this video was confusing and didn’t really clarify anything lol. But it’s yalls business and ofcourse you shouldn’t feel obligated to speak your entire truth onto the internet. It is a personal matter. I hope everyone becomes healed and grows from this experience either way.
imo his careful choices of words make him more sus
@lizard1438
Жыл бұрын
disagree. It just means that he’s not the type of person to say whatever incendiary words that come to his head to escalate the situation
@dominic1297
Жыл бұрын
@@lizard1438 " i start to resent my best friends" ........bbbruh
I mean if y’all never had a “set date” to post the videos then why ignore Kelly when he tried contacting you? It’s just kinda weird. And his whole “you not being a good friend and talking shit” you not addressing it kinda makes it seem real… kinda sad how everything went down tbh but oh well you live and you learn
@sonam8722
Жыл бұрын
Bro was you were there when Kelly called Elliot? And why would he wait it’s his channel his discussion.How can you say he is not a good frnd are you a god or what . See his video I can say he is a mature grown up man he handle it very professionally and that Kinda video or KZread you should definitely follow.
Elliot, been watching you since 2018. Love your videos, hang in there, everything will work itself out over time! Hope you’re doing all right, wishing you all the best 🙌
Awww Elliot sorry that things ended this way. You have such a big heart.
YES nothing needs to be brought online nobody in ur moms house has an obligation to share personal problems. I am disappointed in the way the house ended completely. Keep going strong Elliot, much love ❤️
@SteveJobIess
Жыл бұрын
But we know about all these personal problems because, wait for it... everyone in ur moms house posted publicly about it. They are the ones making this public, then posting videos about not making it public.
@Daboyricco
Жыл бұрын
Hes the one who posted first and literally talking shi behind their back 😂😂😂😂. Why you think even his own friends left him behind
@shinyeee1709
Жыл бұрын
@@Daboyricco man you sound like a child typing (if you are an adult it’s embarrassing) If you bother to watch his last video, Elliot never attacked anyone within the house. He expressed his discontent without attacking Kelly and Ashley. Things within the last 6 months had been snowballing (Annemarie leaving & followers of UMH tired of the oversaturated Kashley content.) although it was right for Kashley to explain their part (because of the comments they were getting), they literally painted Elliot to be the wrong one without Kashley not claiming a part of the responsibility to the downfall of their friendship and UMH.
@Daboyricco
Жыл бұрын
@@shinyeee1709 watch Kelly’s video. He has receipts you delusional elliot fanboy😂😂😂. Why you think his other friends left him behind as well and moved in with Kelly and Ashley? You’re really slow honestly. If you can’t see Elliot’s manipulation and deceivable actions throughout his video just shows you how delusional you are.
Wish everything just stayed private, hate seeing friends argue like this online and so public
Take care Elliot, it’s time to move on to bigger and greater things. I’m looking forward to seeing what’s next for you
Not amber still in his comments ☠️ Ashley’s family is embarrassing why do they wanna keep dragging this on
@hafren_
Жыл бұрын
Where did Amber comment? What did she say?
@emmatoris3555
Жыл бұрын
@@hafren_ bro I’ve been trying to reply to u but my reply isn’t appearing. Check the urmomashley subreddit, the ss is there. Imma keep this reply short bc youtube is trying to silence me LOL
@emmatoris3555
Жыл бұрын
@@hafren_ let’s see if this comment shows up. But basically amber agreed to a hate post towards Elliot that was by a burner account called “Bob” that is said to be obviously one of the family members if not amber herself.
@hafren_
Жыл бұрын
@@emmatoris3555 dang.. thank youu for your effort to keep replying 🤣🤟
@fifi8314
Жыл бұрын
their mom is embarrassing and toxic af. i unsuscribed from amber as soon as i saw it
elliot, you were very mature about this.
Everything will eventually gonna be okay. Keep going Elliot 🤍
Thank you for this video Elliot, I hope you are doing well and keep going we will always support you. 😀
Watched Kelly's Addressing the End (ATE) video & rewatched Elliot's I'm Leaving (IL) video. I still think Elliot did not throw shade at Kelly or Ashley. The mistake was made when Kelly posted "The Truth" (TT) video which then started this drama. It was excerbated when Kelly humiliated Elliot with the ATE video, I will be surprised if the friendship can be salvaged after the ATE video. It would have been better if Kelly gave Elliot time to heal & save the friendship. I am not looking at this from a business perspective, I am looking at this from a place of compassion for someone who isn't as lucky, as Kelly & Ashley, who was unable to deal & adapt to new situations as easily. I forget sometimes, but Elliot is just 22 and this is his first real job, so it is understandable that he struggles with this. Both Kelly & Ashley knew Elliot had been having a hard time processing all that has happened & is quite a sensitive person. You two have each other in this and should have been the bigger person & let time heal. Kelly & Elliot seemed to have a deep connection & joy together, sad it is lost over an over-reaction on Kelly's end when he responsed with his TT video. Again, I strongly believe there was nothing to response to, Elliot was just being soppy & confused about his life & future. All this either shows the egotistical & political side of Kashley or the lack of foresight & maturity at Kelly's end on how to handle this problem. Kelly's TT video & ATE video have bigger ramifications & damage as it was an expose video on Elliot. Elliot with his IL video & this video was not an expose and did not create any public humiliation on anyone like Kelly's ATE did. Kelly, please be the bigger person, talk to a more mature impartial person & do damage control.
@kn95xo
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯 exactly! even if it was not his intention, kelly's videos are a big blow to the reputation of a guy he once considered (and confusingly, pretends to still consider) his bestfriend. and even if elliot's IL video did throw shade at kashley (arguably), at least he had the decorum to not mention names (and show people' faces and channels/platforms). that way, only UMH's true viewers wud've known who he was referring to in his video. if he was even throwing shade at all or intended to. heck, at this point, i'm just curious to know how things fare several months or a year from now at the new creator house kashley have put together. and also, how things are with kashley by then. wonder what they'll do with all their couple videos once or if they eventually break up. and what kelly's gonna do then and what his reflections on his past words, deeds, and decisions will be like.
@jananassier6736
Жыл бұрын
it’s hard to be a bigger person when the other person isn’t answering your private texts to reach out and elliot’s video might not have seemed like a diss but they were on an agreement to post their vids at the same time to avoid backlash but elliot didn’t uphold said agreement exposing kelly amd ashley to loads of backlash
@karolkaz
Жыл бұрын
What Elliot did does not warrant a public humiliation like this. Not all friendships lasts, but when there is a fall out, we don't do an expose, it is called integrity. When Annemarie left, tongues started wagging too. That is the life of a public figure, people are always going to speculate. The way I see it, Kashley is thriving in a new house with roommates who were mutual friends with Elliot, that alone says enough about them being fine friends, but fearing backlash over Elliot's IL video, they over reacted. If I were their new roommates, I'll be very worried about stepping on their toes. KZreadrs are more vengeful & vicious than Hollywood celebrities when things turn sour, cos their livelihood is a numbers game.
@kn95xo
Жыл бұрын
@@karolkaz "Not all friendships last, but when there is a fall out, we don't do an expose; it is called integrity. xxx If I were their new roommates, I'll be very worried about stepping on their toes. KZreadrs are more vengeful & vicious than Hollywood celebrities when things turn sour, cos their livelihood is a numbers game." exactly! 💯💯💯
From what I get after this video is that he wanted to do a video where they show him leaving ur moms house because he did not want to be a part of it much longer. But kelly and ashley did not want that. They wanted to keep it lighthearted and pretend that everything was fine which definitely wasn’t . The same thing happened when Annemarie left. But I guess elliot was not having any of that and he posted early. The video did not throw any shade towards kashley but that is what miscommunication does between people. If kashley really cared about elliot’s feeling like they claimed in their video, that video would not have been 40 mins long. Getting that personal was a low blow coming from them, they could have taken some accountability but all they did was blame Elliot, this is what happens when the power dynamic changes and its better ur moms house ended because eventually there would be two parties in that agreement kashley and elliot, when there should be three to have better decision making in place. I hope Elliot is fine❤
@efdiemel
Жыл бұрын
This! 💯💯💯 Annemarie just posted an ig story with Elliot, Nic and some other friends hanging out. I'm glad they're all there for Elliot, he'll need as much support as he can get rn.
@nehalarora1495
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I saw her stories 🥰
@nehalarora1495
Жыл бұрын
People in the comments are blaming him for posting early and betraying them. But even if he would have discussed with them about his narrative, they wouldn’t have agreed for sure. It’s clearly 2 against 1
@efdiemel
Жыл бұрын
@@nehalarora1495 Exactly. It's obvious Kashley's decision prevails among them three. They wanted the situation to appear as if everything was cool and they're just moving on to the next great chapter of their lives, just keep doing what excites and all that stuff. Elliot wanted transparency and I salute him for that. I'm so glad he didn't go along with Kashley's fake narrative and posted his video first, acknowledging where they all went wrong with the house and the group. It's his right to share his truth to his audience. I think it's very selfish of Kashley to hinder him from doing that, throwing tantrums on the internet after things didn't go their way. The entitlement 🙄
@Scripsure
Жыл бұрын
Completely agree. Kelly could have just left it with one video but since that backfired on him, he made another 40 minute confrontation video which is just plain weird
don't care who did what i just want everyone to be chill with eachother
@jagicyooo2007
Жыл бұрын
it's over, you'll never see them together again
@Adamsutek
Жыл бұрын
@@jagicyooo2007 naah they will get together eventually, it's not like forever type of drama
@jagicyooo2007
Жыл бұрын
@@Adamsutek fake stays fake
I really haven’t watched many of your videos for a while. In fact I’ve seen most of your early college videos. That said, I have no idea what’s going on but I do feel for you man. You overcame a lot and will continue to stride. Keep your head up.
Hey, Elliot. I started to watch your videos since you were at Vandy. I am sorry for what happened. Take care of yourself. You are such a smart and talented kid and very mature. You will be great!! Go commodore!!
this gave a whole lot of nothing 😭we only know bits and pieces of the story but as a college student living with 4 other roommates communication is KEY and i feel like UMH didn't have solid communication at all. it doesnt help that u guys have platforms so ofc it blew up...i'm just saying it all could've been handled privately and its sad to see the end of genuine friendships (at least i think they were) :(
@ayanna3238
Жыл бұрын
right? it just seems like nobody’s really saying exactly how they feel and tip toeing around each other to avoid it, while also silently pointing fingers about who’s not saying what. this whole situation is quite bizarre for that reason imo. i just hope they can work this out in private 😭
@yellowgreen2378
Жыл бұрын
Yeah people started to talk and giving hate comments about the “beef” when elliot posted about hating his bestfriends 🥲
Hey no worries don’t feel too bad. Things happen. No blaming. Feel better regroup. Hope you guys reconcile sooner or later.
Well, let this be an opportunity of growth for both parties and be a lesson on communication. They'll be doing their own stuff, you'll be doing your own. And hey, we first followed you on your college journey. I felt that solo content was more genuine and quite more relatable.
sad UMH ended like this, i hope you guys get everything sorted out off cam/privately. wishing all the roomates peace and sending lots of love esp to you elliot, take care !!
best way to address issues! shows how mature you are elliot proud of u!
we’re ready to move on and excited to see your new chapter !!
♥️ you dont need to but thank you for clarify your side of the story, it's just really sad that the house ended this way.
Sad how it ended but we're thankful for the good times more than anything
Hey Elliot , I'm really sorry how everything ended but for this new chapter we will all be here with you . Sending you lots of love and hugs and hope to see more of your videos
Hi, elliot. This is my first time put on a comment in youtube haha. So yeah, honestly, your vids always give motivational supports to me. You got this, elliot. Take your time. Everything will be okay. 🙂
Never do business with friends or family. All that will do is create tension. My parents taught me this when I started out, so I thought I’d share with others.
Notice that this video has a single shot unlike Kashley's video made up of multiple cuts, that shows clarity of thought and it only comes when you are telling the truth.
Ngl, Ive been with Elliot since the Day in the Life videos, but something just seems off man. No hate, but if Kelly and Ashley wanted to end the house altogether, what’s wrong with that? That pivot doesn’t paint anyone in a bad light, unless you wanted to upload your video regardless of what narrative it created for them. Hoping that you can make some new dope stuff tho, live and learn yanno
The fact that he doesn't want to address all the things he said about kelly and ashley just means its probably true.. very disappointed as a long time viewer tbh. I think if he made a video and talked about how he was feeling and why he said some things then maybe the viewers would understand... as for me, I don't think I can look at him the same anymore knowing he undermined a woman content creator due to jealousy and basically betrayed the trust of his best friend.
@sennie6296
Жыл бұрын
Hey, not going to argue, we never know what actually going through someone's life and between people so please don't just assume things just because you are curious about someone's life. Because everyone is not the same, some people don't like to talk about their problems, some people tend to confront meanwhile some people keep everything to themselves and hurting inside. I'm not taking anyone's side. But everyone is sensitive because of this, so your simple words can hurt someone so bad (specially Eliot is kind of separated) so be careful with your words guys
@VyTran
Жыл бұрын
I don’t think Elliot owes us any explanations of what he might’ve said about Kelly and Ashley. Even if he did, I feel like this would open another can of worms and cause more drama / hate towards everyone involved.
@AmorphousEcru
Жыл бұрын
It's probably true but I doesn't mean that it is true, definitively. We should all learn to respect people's privacy. Just because he's a public figure, doesn't mean his life is entertainment for you to bash him down and root for who you think is right. Also, people shit talk all the time and say things they dont mean out frustration and anger. It's an unfortunate situation, and people speculating are only adding fuel to fire and creating a toxic environment.
@grace1200
Жыл бұрын
Honestly who cares if it is true. He is allowed to feel what he feels. Did you want him to speak his mind and list off all the reasons he dislikes her. Because he could but that would cause more drama and also probably make Ashley look bad. When people dislike friends it isn’t usually for no reason at all. Don’t judge him for having emotions and being thoughtful about not disclosing this to the internet.
Honestly I never found your "im leaving ur moms house" shading Kelly and Ashley. You obviously noticed you were resenting your bestfriends and you needed time for yourself and thats good. mental health is a real thing. I think what made this whole situation to be public was Kelly's clip of him reacting to you posting. This all could've been avoided publicly if Kelly didn't include that clip. Then Kelly then posts a video of him and Ashley addressing the 'ur moms house' and says something along the lines of "I just wish that it wouldn't have to come to posting this video and having to address it public" in the video. When really Kelly's clip was the one who caused all speculation and forced them to explain.
@marylou2668
Жыл бұрын
@Mathe Jone ive never sent him a nasty comment 💀 or attacked him ever. but I agree he has every right to defend himself but im just saying this could've been handled privately
@marylou2668
Жыл бұрын
@Mathe Jone its seriously not dramatic and I dont think elliot meant to post it knowingly how people will react. If elliot did know his friends would get hate, he wouldn't purposely post it. In the end its the "fans" who make up their own narrative about the situation based on their own opinion. In my comment im saying, since people were already making up assumptions, like it was kellys and Ashleys fault, Kelly shouldn't have posted that clip because it would then make it public. When its really just between Kelly, Ashley and elliot. But again I agree he has a right to defend himself.
@marylou2668
Жыл бұрын
@Mathe Jone okie dokie
just let it go eliot! just let it be we all are not fool we can figure out same we can realize who's are what going through! just forget all shits whatever happened! we love you and we purple you! let it be from your life all negative people’s.....
Elliot , I love you (and of course i respect your need for privacy on this matter) but its not even the equity or business side or the content house that matters, its the FRIENDSHIP you shared with these people way even before the house started. I'm only saying this cause I've made so many mistakes around friendships ,ones that i wish i didn't make cause its not everyday that you come across friendships and relationships so precious and rare. Once you find something good ,you always cling onto it. I hope you ALL can figure this out ..I love you guys .And i'm wishing you all the best in this new chapter.
It’s all in the past bleh bleh All I would like to say to you is that you’ve got loadsss of amazing amazing experiences ahead of you, I’ve been watching your channel from the first video, you’ve come so far because of being this insanely driven talented chill guy you are so enjoy the ride elly choi boi 🤜🏻🤛🏻
I've been following your videos right from when you were still in college & that's not gonna change. ❤
I wish you all talk this out. It gets better with communication, promise. Love you, Elliot. Here to support u always. ♡