It's amazing how Black people deny colorism particularly against dark skinned Black women.

@barbaragordon6177

7 жыл бұрын

It's not black people that deny colorism.. it's dark skin men and light skin women that deny colorism. I say this as a light skin woman that tries to make other light skin women understand their privilege, and it's like talking to a white person about racism.A lost cause 😩😩

@artforthaheart

6 жыл бұрын

Good Karma sis, two paragraphs?

@kbnumber24

6 жыл бұрын

Because you can't control your skin color. It's like accusing someone of having privilege for being tall and acting like they've done something wrong. Are y'all retarded or something? It's whats in a person's heart not what their skin color is that matters.

@brooklyndecember

6 жыл бұрын

DarkChocolate She wrote two paragraphs talking about she couldn't find a good man until her forties becasue her light skinned made prey to superficial black men. You can't make this stuff up! LMAO

@lennaedaley8676

6 жыл бұрын

Verde Lane I was thinking the same thing. I’m an not dark skin but she spoke as if dark skin girls never get bullied from for being dark. Or have less dating prospects all together. I was just like what was your point sis...

This is so true. I am Indian, and in India you do not see darker skinned Indians on television as often as lighter skinned.

Colorism is a worldwide issue. It exist in other cultures and it is igorance.

@ao1920

5 жыл бұрын

@@youdontknowme3349 we're not talking about white people.

@ao1920

5 жыл бұрын

@@youdontknowme3349 but where is she talking about white people? Isnt she mainly talking about colorism in the black community?!

@jinx526

4 жыл бұрын

You don’t know me White people are responsible for the spread of racism and colorism worldwide. During the age of imperialism and colonialism they brought along prejudice ideology and oppressed the native people. They also perpetuate it media. Most media outlets are run or produced by white people, they choose very commonly to either exclusively include light skin non whites or negative portrayals of dark skins ( or no minorities at all) Some white people feel less threatened by lighter skin people and can empathize with them more. Colorism manifest distinctively in different societies. Whites are no different in this regard, of course this not mean that they all are colorist but I think at this point majority of people of any background living in modern societies have been exposed to it in some form.

@bal9944

2 жыл бұрын

It is very common in Southern America too

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

if you are talking a man liking a certain type of BW such as lil wayne liking a long haired thick redbone that is not colorism Bullying someone due to skin color that is colorism the former is so embarrassing that it's even discussed

what I hate about colourism is how normalized it is.. it never get's called out. It's always labelled as just part of someone's culture, or simple teasing...

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

Men preferring the most pretty is normal. It's a part of life. Everything in life has a preferred and less preferred. Thick waist, small waist. Large mansion small house. Young old. Light dark.

@mehanan8779

10 ай бұрын

@@pr1.8ijmk yeah but light skin isn’t inherently prettier or an evolutionary sign of good health. it’s entirely a cultural preference. thus it’s unfair to compare skin tone to other measures of attractiveness and good health. it’s not “normal”, it’s entirely a byproduct of colonialism

It saddens me when we experience discrimination in our own communities. Hearing "good hair and "she's pretty because she is mixed" drives me up a wall because I see light skinned women being cheated on as well. Look at the number of husbands that JLo and Halle have had. Even the Kardashian can't keep men but for some reason we tend to overlook that part

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

Krystal Jones thank you. Light skin women get called names and disrespected and harassed and womanized too

@Adjoa

6 жыл бұрын

White women experience those things too. But don't they still benefit collectively from racism? And don't most of them deny their privilege? Acknowledging your privilege doesn't mean you have a perfect life. We're talking about a larger system here, not an individual's experience.

@fitchgirl02

5 жыл бұрын

Krystal Jones the kardashians aren’t black, neither is jlo. Halle is the only viable evidence but I get what you’re saying

@pink1237480

4 жыл бұрын

Wheres my husband? I mean by these statistics I should have a husband but nope.

@allombard615

4 жыл бұрын

K J what is your point? You make no sense. Because men cheat on beautiful women proves nothing more than the fact that men cheat.

No light skinned tears here. Light skinned folks need to acknowledge her privilege, stfu and LISTEN to our darker skinned sisters and AMPLIFY their voices when it comes to colorism. Being called light bright or having my blackness questioned does not compare to having my intelligence, credibility, femininity, beauty or anything else questioned because of having darker skin.

@stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359

7 жыл бұрын

Much love to ya my Sista

@ODSTrookieful

7 жыл бұрын

WE

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

Khristian Simone all the things you said happens to light skin black women too girl bye.

@sherrisolomon8673

6 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU for breaking the colorism issue down. Would love to see you do a Hang out with Chrissie and or Rashida Steiner as well as send Cyn g your video.

@tassianeramosramos8061

6 жыл бұрын

I agree with most of what you said, but 'having your black contested' is quite hurtful.

There are so many fresh salty white tears descending from the Caucasus mountains in these comments it created a title wave.

@divestedconservative26

4 жыл бұрын

A "title" wave??? Ever heard of spell check?🤔

So well delivered!!!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

"Why is it across cultures, darker people suffer the most?" What I've noticed from my experience is dark skinned black men seem to have to most aversion to choosing a mate of the same complexion. Look at the power couple photo again. Swizz Beatz is the only exception. Yes, colorism crosses cultures, but this is something in the black community I have noticed as I got older. It seems colorism is targeted at women when discussed, but men suffer as well.

@ao1920

5 жыл бұрын

Diva C. Because the very embodiment of femininity is the most oppressed sex. *Since black symbolizes femininity, black is the most oppressed.* So, therefore 'the darker' you are as a female, the more oppression. Women will not have true liberation unless they elevate and fight for their darker-skinned sisters. Because through the dark-skinned women liberation from patriarchy+racism+colorism and many kinds of oppression against the female energy will end. Because the dark-skinned woman is the embodiment of female energy. The fate of all women and girls and the world lies in the hands of the dark-skinned female.

You especially notice it early when you have relatives or family members who are lighter skinned than you, and see that they get treated differently than you , told that they're prettier, or smarter, or given favor over you, and you know its because they are considered "conventionally" pretty.

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

The same with tall men. Do you see them constantly sitting online complaining? People in life go through this in some form or another.

Thank you so much for this video!

"we have leslie jones now"................................

Even in my culture colorism is such a big issue! It breaks my heart even my late grandma used to favor lighter hair and non brown eyes... She would say things like “she was the prettiest, she had such fair skin” Ps: most people in my country are a dark shade of brown, but most people on tv are “white”

@KnijMagz

3 жыл бұрын

Right, on! I can really see your profile picture but im assuming you are Caucasian?! But even within white spaces I have seen instances of certain "feature preferences". I had a friend in middle school that was white. She had long straight blonde hair, blue eyes, and a soft tan complection, she was also tall and thin. However her sister had dark brown wavy hair, light brown/ hazel eyes, very white skin, and had freckles. Other than that they literally looked like the same person...just different coloration Another white woman came up to my blonde classmate and was like: oh! You are gorgeous i wish my hair was as blonde as yours...i have to dye mine to reach that color. Also your skin looks so nice. Meanwhile she said NOTHING to the brunette! I realized as I got older that ALL communities have this sort of thing. The only difference is white women are generally not oppressed by this phenomena (from what I can tell). Brunettes have their own spaces but are often not the face of white beauty...not to the extent of blondes with blue eyes.

@tzitzidoll

3 жыл бұрын

@@KnijMagz I don’t consider myself Caucasian, I’m Mexican, I’m just a very fair skin Mexican, my family and I are a mixture of a lot of different races, that why I don’t claim any lol, but most families here are like that, we used to have a cast system, it was based on how much European blood you had, so I think that’s were the issue of colorism comes from in my culture.

This video was well done. Thank you for posting it.

I guess I'm the oddball. It seem to me I am one of the few who only admire my real dark melanated females only in the US. Sometimes I ask myself, would I have this same feelings towards dark melanated females if I was a celebrity. Sistas, believe me when I say this, It's alotta brothas out there that feel the same as I do, who has bonafide admirations for real dark skinned sistas.

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

thenaturalman I’m mixed and I have no problem with your preference. You are not the 1st or last black I will hear that from.

@pauloskidane2819

5 жыл бұрын

Facts

@DorothyDandridge

5 жыл бұрын

What do you mean by “real” dark skinned sistas? As opposed to not black enough not “real” light skinned sistas? This is the part of the colorism debate I hate because it’s ugly, hurtful and dismissive. Please note that African is a diverse continent in which our ancestors came from. Dark skinned Africans are specific to countries closest to the equator. So your comment negates “real” Africans who are not mixed that have naturally brown or light skin. Eg. South Africans.

Great video! I thought it was just me who peeped the similarities of the women in that MTV couples picture.

I always learn and appreciate your videos.

Light skin BW are different from Light skin MIXED WOMEN let's not CONFLATE the two😂🤣 cause yeah I'm light but with 4c hair

@ForHarriet619

5 жыл бұрын

uhhhh mixed people have been coming out with 4c hair since slavery. but I agree they're not exactly the same.

@apriljoy1094

Ай бұрын

There are light skinned black women with all types of hair

This needs way more views and you deserve way more subscribers.

Wowww never knew KH tweeted that about dark skinned women. I WAS a fan.

100k!!!! Congrats Kim💗

What a time to be alive.

It doesn't hurt me when people say I'm not black enough because I'm mixed and I identify as mixed. Black women defending mixed girls who chose to identify as black is ignorant because at the end of the day they are helping to contribute to colorism.

@KnijMagz

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I feel that mixed people NEED their own space and identity. They should not be forced into blackness. I dont see mixed people (mixed with black that is) as black. However, I do see them as an extension of black people and the other race theyre mixed with.

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

you can identify however you want to and no one should bully you out of the blk race as some jealous people seem to do or make you stay in the blk race however you are both.

👌🏽 keep up the good work Kim 💯

Good video! Though this focuses more so on black women, I do like how thoughtful and nuanced your analysis is and that you've made a call out to how it impacts all people of colo[u]r. One of my best friends is of Indian (as in from India) decent, who has multiple generations of history in a western country. Long story short when he got married (to another Indian person!) some in the bride's family objected because, well, there was a list (only middle class, a lower caste, a different religion... but also, he's very dark skinned)! White supremacist thinking has been internalized in the minds of a lot of non-white people.

nice truth!

"We are being divisive"? Hmmmm., Gee I wonder who that sounds like when race is brought up? So that phrase is thrown back in our faces. Interesting. No hypocrisy at all. None.

Thank you for educating us about life of black women in America. For us living outside of America think it's all rosy but no. As an African women I always knew Americans black women are beautiful never knew they went through all these trauma

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

Please don't believe it's like this. It appears these stats are being pushed and twisted. It's sad the way AA women are being portrayed

If they are not experiencing colorism they tend to be extremely dismissive towards it

Good video. It’s off topic, but you have pretty skin and hair.

OMG, this is the first time I am hearing about that 'SOOC' casting call. I am horrified, that is disgusting.

All the arguments used to silence talk about colorism are tactics used by people to avoid talking about racism.

you have to love your self

Oh and one more thing , at 42 years old I must say that black people should stop calling mixed people "BLACK" that's half the problem( Ive noticed a lot of blacks finally acknowledging that we are not black recently )we all know what black men look like and to put it in perspective biggie smalls doesn't look anything like Jessie Williams ,personally I've always stood as bi racial even before the popularity of it today. Look at it this way ladies , you call mixed women black but they will never call you mixed , Kanye just re enforced this with his mixed girls only casting call.

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

Modalsoul your comment is bullshit. I am mixed with a brown skin mother of afro Blackfoot native descent and a Caucasian father. I believe everyone is mixed. They just need a dna test to see it. If everyone would acknowledge that fact, we would be more able to accept everyone else and colorism would decrease because we would all have that in common...the fact that none of us is pure negroid or caucasoid. I don’t believe there are other races other than those 2. All other races are varying mixtures of negroid and caucasoid. Those are true scientific race terms. Black and white are colors that no one really is.

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

Neteru XLII thank you!

@flyingisland7583

6 жыл бұрын

White racists had planted this seed in people head during slavery times: Lighter is better

@fitchgirl02

5 жыл бұрын

Oooook I’m confused. You can identify as biracial all you want but we all know that even within biracials, the darker they are, the more discrimination they face. So, people don’t know that logic, wentworth Miller, tori kelly and halsey are all biracial but their darker biracial counterparts don’t get treated like those 4, especially because these people appear white to the eye.

@Believerfearless

5 жыл бұрын

Flying Island exactly! The one drop rule is racist and old

Thank you for everything you said. Thank you for adding research and statistics to your video unlike some other individuals. People need to recognize the specific effects of colorism and that it goes beyond just something mothers have passed on to their sons. But I really loved what you said about black men not receiving consequences for colorism. They don't and we need to check them as well as our families and friends when they perpetuate it.

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

That is sad. The men who likes LS BW people should try to stop them from liking those women? That is controlling, crazy and wrong! Those men can like whomever they want to like! And when they curse you all the way out 🤣

LEL PRAISE KEK

Well as a light skinned black man I've dated female of different races. I've dated dark skinned black women. Color has little to do with what I find attractive. That's a fact. I'm not the only black man who would tell you that. For me it's more about being fairly attractive with a good attitude. Lifestyle, things I have in common with a woman, likes and dislikes. Also spiritual beliefs and how compatible a woman is for me. Virtue is definitely important to me. A truly virtuous woman would understand and appreciate everything I just stated. Only truly good men like me would agree and tell you the same thing in one way or another. Don't forget about body chemistry and how it plays a part in attractiveness.

I’m tired of checking people. It’s driving me crazy

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

Please stop letting other people's issues control what you do And people are tired of this pettiness. If someone has wronged you yes but checking someone because they want to date a light person? Bring up stats that more lighter and less darker people get married? more dark people are in jail? More men marry lighter women he Jada Pinketts and Kerry Washington's so of course. But this lady and the rest of the crew are running around making videos because of it And no video is gonna change that.

I have two stories from my teen years that supports exactly what you are saying. And it was recently when i connected with some friends from Carl Albert that I finally spoke about those experiences. Now add being short and thick (not fat, I ran track) to the mix...I was the complete opposite of the ideal beautiful young woman back in the 90's. T. Miles

I see /pol/ found this video...

I'm tweeting the f*ck outta' this!

Ain’t it sad smh

If you ever read the Willie Lynch Letter he speaks specifically about putting light against dark so we're doing exactly what White America wants us to do

How do people buy into this?

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

The same way she did. A hoard of insecurities. Then you make a video about men preferring other women that creates all of that mess that was talked about and tell insecure people they need to do something about it. I don't know which is worse the messenger or those who take it in. What's next TALLISM? BIG FEET ISM? LONG LEG ISM?

In the world it’s colorism on dark skins but in the hood it’s on light skins

Skin tone _alone_ is *not* enough to account for what all of those researchers and what black women are observing. It's more-so the European facial features that tend to accompany lighter complexions (likely due to admixture) that are placed above the African facial features that tend to be accompany darker skin. Lupita, for example, is African and has dark skin, but her facial features are somewhat reminiscent of European aesthetics (e.g. her nose width). But year, it's all f*ked up.

@ForHarriet619

7 жыл бұрын

Nyong'o is fully Kenyan and she does not have European facial features.

@general_electrics

7 жыл бұрын

For Harriet Right, but that's not what the original comment said. _"her facial features are somewhat reminiscent of European aesthetics (e.g. her nose width)"_

@general_electrics

7 жыл бұрын

For Harriet There's a video on youtube of some cosplay convention from years ago. In it, there's a white woman, who has painted her skin black - jet black - to resemble some character. She makes a statement on camera that black men at the convention told her she looks better than black women. Extremely f*ked up, I know. But that's the mentality of _some_ black men. A lot of times it's more-so about women having European-like features rather than skin tone. It just so happens that lighter skin correlates with European-like features.

@general_electrics

7 жыл бұрын

Weighing of The Heart Uh... Dude you kind of went on your own tangent there. Did you read the original comment?

@general_electrics

7 жыл бұрын

Weighing of The Heart Bruh. That thing is an essay. Ain't nobody got time for that! But seriously. Skimming it, it's off topic.

Good video , I think as a light skinned bi racial guy that colorism is and always will be an issue, it's even an issue in other countries, South America , India etc, but let's put it in perspective, personally I prefer light skinned women because I'm light skinned and they look like me so there's no real issue because it's natural,BUT If I proclaimed my undying love for dark skinned black women that would make it very convenient for dark skinned black men to jump ship to light skinned women ,why they(some)don't prefer dark women who look like them is beyond me,I could never see myself bashing bi racial women.

@pinkchocolate305

7 жыл бұрын

That's not fair. I'm American and I can see the ignorance oozing from his comment. Please don't lump all of us in the same category.

@manoflogic7836

7 жыл бұрын

pinkchocolate305 Not all Americans but i notice that some black american men (like the one who made this comment), seem to have their heads up their asses.

It has been historically like this: people who did manual or field labor had darker skin than those who worked indoors in cabinets. It was UNIVERSAL. Afrika, Asia, Europe it applied everywhere. So people who were not worn out by hard work had fair skin and preserved beauty.

@cherishdeb

2 жыл бұрын

Whiteness is not beauty, so to say that they preserved beauty is inaccurate and further perpetuates color based prejudice. Beauty doesn’t have a color. Colorism is rooted in classism, but it has nothing to do with how phenotypically beautiful you are. That’s the point. Colorism is about proximity to whiteness, not beauty. Whiteness is not beauty.

Kerry Washington hardly fits the bill..

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

Right why was light skin Kerry Washington up there?

Shit, why didn't I think of transforming my light skin color into a job? Would have saved me all that trouble of busting my ass looking for one, but now I know better!

AAH HA HA HA HA HA YES

Real quick.... Colorism is real. It does not go both ways. True... However, most of the advantages listed for lighter skinned black people (with women bearing the burden of representation here) relies on knowing the exact number of lighter and darker skinned people. In short, how many lighter skinned and darker skinned black people are there in the US? In the world? I'm looking for a way to gage these statistics against solid numbers. If we can't do this then there is a problem with the data, and therefore, the conclusions drawn from said data. Right now I see evidence of social gains/advantages but not concrete structural gains/advantages for lighter skinned black people. Those social advantages guarantee NOTHING. Mostly because, lighter skinned black people are and come from black people and face those struggles black people face, except colorism. However, I understand that one (social) affects the other (structural) and visa versa.

@ForHarriet619

6 жыл бұрын

I talk about women and colorism because I'm a woman. But if you look around a prison and see most of the black people there have dark skin and look at top black wage earners and see most of those people have light skin, you don't actually have to have an exact count of light-skinned and dark-skinned people in the U.S.

when some not all dark skinned blackwomen but alot them start loving them selves and dont feel inferior then the brothers will stay

@grandgraphics5319

6 жыл бұрын

LOBE YOURSELF AND BLACK MEN WILL SEE THATM

Buzzwords aside... Why?

Did we ever come to a solution about this colorism that all shades of black face? My solution is raise our sons to have substance and respect and pursue women who look like them or are the same race as them. Mothers have the power. However, men will still go after women with nice features regardless of skin tone. I think the other solution is raising our daughters to own their femininity and beauty. We have mothers who are jealous of their daughters and make sure their daughters lose their hair/edges and feed them unhealthy food making them unsightly. These mothers don’t teach their daughters how to keep themselves up aesthetically and stay healthy. Put our daughters in sports. I put my brown skin daughter in cheerleading and tennis and taught her how to own her beauty and present herself if she wants to attract a man and she has had no problems with that. These things need to be addressed. And the jealousy needs to be addressed.

MUH

What also continues to go unexamined is how Black men internalize colorism. Often when we talk about colorism Black women become the face, especially when we’re talking about dating, marriage, and relationships. But Black men are rarely discussed when it comes to their self-perceptions, and how those are manifested in the women they say they’re attracted to. I have overheard more then a few conversations between Black men where they mock one another’s skin tone. “Stop being so light skinned!” “I can’t see you in the dark, n!gg@.” These comments start in the homes and communities of Black boys at an early age. But instead of us stopping to talk about that abusive language, giving young boys an opportunity to validate their hurt, they’re socialized into choosing a mate that will either validate their blackness (which we often see with light skinned Black men) or attempt to dilute their darkness (which we often see with dark skinned Black men.) I don’t completely blame Black men for projecting their colorist insecurities onto both light skinned and dark skinned Black partners. I do blame sexism which once again expects women to do the emotional labor of healing an entire community. Like all emotional labor, it’s burdensome and doesn’t really expect men to rise to occasion of being emotionally-available partners. We as Black women can no longer expect to solve the colorism issue without Black men. For the sake of our communal relationships and intimate partner relationships, we must do the work of healing together.

Preference😔✌

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA..... HAHAHAHA

Why is it that when you haveba drop of black in you you're automatically claimed as black, but when you claim you have some native american in you you gotta shoe at least a certain percentage to be registered let alone considered on by my elders? Idiotic.. Are we really that board and yearning to he oppressed at every turn? Fyi: people either want a tan or dont- its a serious battle 😂😂 lighten up! ( no pun intended )

If you stop trying to be a victim you might not be a victim anymore..... but what do i know, i am a 31 year old white man, i am inherently evil i am told regularly.

WARNINIG: Lot's of stupid racist comments by trolls below.

Anything to more oppressed

and black men want natural hair, natural eyes, not fake stuff

@kashmo9438

5 жыл бұрын

How when they say nappy head and all kinds of shit that starts women to change their hair

lmao dollar store whoppi Goldberg is promoting racist values hahaha you earned a sub

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

someone else said she looks like Whoopi I can very much see that it's strong

Blacks hating blacks...this is my new favorite channel. Keep doing what you're doing!

I don't get what you mean most races prefer there own ppl the only ones who don't seem to be black men

#ResistColorism

This is so wonderful to see leftist trying to out left wing each other. It's the beginning of the end for their movement. Keep up the good work. We conservatives will just get some popcorn, stand on the sidelines and watch the show.

@samwallaceart288

5 жыл бұрын

Bizzy B I complain about injustice against myself all the time, and I’m conservative. What gives?

Really? Well damn wheres my rich husband? Wheres my perfect little high paying career and I'm pretty much homeless and work a minimum wage job oh and I'm light skin black btw.

@springfresh4344

4 жыл бұрын

Did u watch the video?

Get out of your own head and enjoy life. What do you want lighter skinned people to do? They can't help how they were born.You are obsessed with a lighter or darker shade of skin, I don't get what you want or searching for ? Help me understand? Were you picked on as a kid? Life is to short to be concerned with something so superficial. When you meet the most high did you serve your purpose? The mind of human beings is to complex to change everyone to think like you.

@ForHarriet619

7 жыл бұрын

White people can't help that they're white either, so we shouldn't talk about racism, right?

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

Mensah I believe she wants to inform people about her challenges. I said her challenges because I know women her complexion personally that are doing better than so called privileged women of all races. I have an educated nice looking dark skin not brown skin cousin whose Caucasian husband moved her to Dubai. She is a stay at home mom with their 3 children and he takes her out and treats her good. She acts like she has something against lighter skin women such as myself but praises white women.

hmm do you ever hear white people complain about black supremacy in Africa?

@ifacro

7 жыл бұрын

No, they just move or die, like in South Africa.

@sharr630

6 жыл бұрын

No one brought white people to Africa against their will. They have no business being there and need to leave.

@girlycutestuffs

4 жыл бұрын

White people came willingly to South Africa

And now it starts, first it was black vs white, now it's dark black vs light black. Go ahead and eat each other from the inside.

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

Madam Willow black people don’t want to unite just compete with each other over everything. That’s my greatest issue with other black people...the jealousy/envy is rampant and so obvious and common. That needs it’s own video.

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

Terry Wallis darker skin blacks have despised lighter skin blacks since slavery but they’re not on a plantation anymore but still have that mentality. It’s crazy because there were free blacks all over this country while slavery was only in the southern states.

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

@@goodkarma23 SMH YOU ARE PREACHING NOTHING BUT THE BONAFIDE TRUTH! I CAN'T SAY IT ENOUGH

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

sadly that seems to be the path if you know what men like why make videos and antagonize your fellow sistas? it appears the attacks against the preferred women are rampant in many of the vids

The not one drop rule exists for a reason.

The simple-ton problem of not being pretty or preferred is not an all Black woman's problem. Smh People will do anything for clicks. Only a tiny group of people constantly complain. But hey Black women are beautiful, dating, getting married every day. Everyone has disadvantages of some kind. Ask the short guy. Thin haired girl. Child with no parents. It's called life. As for Kerry she is a light woman and doesn't fit this story. And I also notice she doesn't try to divide Black women like this. And the lie was very disappointing. Several Black women were standing behind their men in the men's power picture. Smh

dats wacists

@serenitythornton4648

4 жыл бұрын

Racist*

I feel bad for albinos

i'm confused are you acknowledging everyone thinks white skin and white facial features are more attractive than yours ?

@ariesberry5771

6 жыл бұрын

We didn't say every man,,,,BLACK MEN,,,,,,,we been noticing that for years,,,,,in the family,,, while growing up,,,, couldn't comprehend ,, back then

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

looks like the focus is on other black women who don't look like the messenger not necessarily other races

color. if you like black so much never wear another color ever again. only color you can wear is black since it's so special. ok? also black isn't really a color. its the complete lack of color. white is the presence of all colors.

If you think of yourself as a victim you're probably going to live like a victim. Life is what you make it.

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

Tell her! Running around making videos because you upset about what somebody like because that's where all this comes from. And while she making the video some man hitting on another person he likes..

God damn I love being white.

@pr1.8ijmk

10 ай бұрын

@ForHarriet619 see what happened? trying to go after LS black women now got the other side laughing smh

Part of why COLORISM is always an issue is black people are highly invested in the notion their race or racism is the root of their problems. When in truth it is inadequacy.

let's get real and delete this nonsense.

Colorism is not a black man problem. This is women Vs women.

There's no such thing as colorisim. .. I'm a black man and I have not experienced it..

@southerndivamag

7 жыл бұрын

Your lack of experience with colorism does not mean someone else did not experience it.

I am so glad, that I am white.

@cocot1903

6 жыл бұрын

Motör Bembel And i'm so glad that i'm Black, powerful and human!!

perpetual victimhood.. the education system in 2016

ever consider black skin is just unattractive?

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

senorbeast09 how is it unattractive? Dark skin hides a lot of flaws and tends to appear more flawless than lighter skin.

@girlycutestuffs

4 жыл бұрын

Yet your women are tanning, getting lip injections, plastic surgery to look like us?

@Rainman8193

4 жыл бұрын

@@girlycutestuffs when women tan, their skin doesn't look like charcoal like yours. only lunatics, literal crazy girls get lip injections. meaning only nutcases want "black features"

She's just mad because she's definitely not beautiful

@arys9455

6 жыл бұрын

envision91 No she’s not stupid.

@allisonmcinnis5929

5 жыл бұрын

Who?

you have to love your self

There's no such thing as colorisim. .. I'm a black man and I have not experienced it..

@chrislyn1868

7 жыл бұрын

that's like saying there's no such thing as pizza because i haven't eaten it.

@Resume08

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly this is just women finding something else to bitch about

@goodkarma23

6 жыл бұрын

Lol smh you never noticed that some black men only pursue light skin women? That’s what this is really about. Darker skin women want a family too and feel they have limited choices in men compared to light skin women. I feel that has merit but I also feel like men go after women who have pretty facial features, long hair or hairstyle that is attractive, a nice figure/body, nice smile or approachable looking women...there are many factors and men are visual. As a result of this colorism, there is great division between black women. Seems like the majority not all brown and dark skin women have something against light skin women off top.

@thefordlord9893

6 жыл бұрын

Good Karma So you want a man who doesn’t want YOU???? Girl get a spine and most of some self esteem. Geez