let me try to convince you to go on a no buy // why you should try a no buy in 2023

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  • @exomake_mehorololo
    @exomake_mehorololo Жыл бұрын

    Does anyone ever feel a main problem is having a very unbalanced view or relationship to money and lacking examples?? Like in my family I feel I see 2 extremes... Either people are tending to overspend and be financially irresponsible or they are extremely stingy and almost unhealthily obsessed with not spending any money on anything 😢 so I feel in my life I've only ever gone from one to the other extreme without ever really thinking about the purpose of money, questioning materialism and being actually in charge of your finances and contentment but rather doing what everyone does

  • @sherynemmanuel

    @sherynemmanuel

    Жыл бұрын

    Ooo I know that feeling. I'm glad my parents are fairly balanced. My dad is frugal while my mom is more lenient when it comes to spending. I hope you'll find balance in your financial journey 😉

  • @ampersignia

    @ampersignia

    Жыл бұрын

    I think that’s because binary thinking is easy - so simple to just avoid all spending by closing yourself off to experiences and media, and also easy to go ham with it by saying yes to everything without looking critically. Learning to decide what’s worth it and what’s not is hard. I think it’s worth learning.

  • @noneya154

    @noneya154

    Жыл бұрын

    Check out the book You Need A Budget. It changed my whole mindset on spending all or nothing and I really think you'd get a lot out of it too since that's something you say you haven't had good examples of!

  • @nickiethesaint316

    @nickiethesaint316

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly this!

  • @FightergalMisaChan

    @FightergalMisaChan

    Жыл бұрын

    I know exactly what that feels. My parents are very frugal so when I started earning my own money and got a credit card, I got into terrible debt. And when I got out of debt, I became extremely frugal and wouldnt even do the things I wanted to do. But I feel now I am more balanced. I think carefully about what I actually want like more travelling and trying different cuisines. So I just budget for those and stick to it. The best part is that all of these experiences only took about 14months so not too much time wasted learning those life lessons

  • @viraprofazi
    @viraprofazi Жыл бұрын

    I go on a second no-buy year. Last year I wasn’t buying clothes, shoes, begs and was buying skin care on a one-in-one-out basis. It taught me so much. I continue into 2023, but I now know what i actually need, and I will be buying it: white sneakers, trouser suit, trench coat and leather jacket

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on completing your no buy and best of luck on your journey next year 💕

  • @mayadesai1172

    @mayadesai1172

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi there

  • @afunnything5246
    @afunnything5246 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent video. I needed this pep talk. I’m doing a no-buy for 2023 . I’ve technically already started this month. I got our Christmas shopping done in November, so no excuses. I have a very expensive hobby that I fell into a few years ago and I can no longer justify paying as low as $500-$2,000 for high end collectible dolls, not to mention all the clothes and accessories. Like seriously! What did I get myself into! I love this hobby but when I look back and do the math of the thousands of dollars I have spent on not only on this hobby but other mindless impulse buys at Target or TJMAXX or Barnes & Noble, it’s sickening. All this money I’ve spent, me alone, on non essential items that are cluttering or I end up giving away because I didn’t need it to begin with. I’m doing this no-buy because it’s necessary and I catch myself scrolling looking for stuff to buy and have to tell myself this isn’t what you want, you’re bored or you’re sad or whatever. I’ve come to realize I need to replace that dopamine hit from purchasing with saving. I need to switch my mindset to be excited to save. And to do that I’ve been withdrawing the money I would have blown and tucking it away. It’s already a small little stash and I’m liking it. It’s a struggle not to look for something to buy but it’s paying off when I withdraw the cash, tuck it away rather than hit purchase and the money is gone forever.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad you enjoyed the video and are starting your no buy off strong!

  • @flawedfabulous
    @flawedfabulous Жыл бұрын

    I totally loved this video... You should talk about Fomo, because that's my biggest set back with doing a no buy.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    that's a great idea, thanks for the suggestion!

  • @BuyLessJess
    @BuyLessJess Жыл бұрын

    You convinced me to go on a no buy months ago. The fact that I have more than I need and can reasonably use/wear and still want more doesn’t sit well with me. I love your channel so much and revisit your playlists when I want something so bad it hurts. I’m 78 days in.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I love it ! So proud of you for making it 78 days in!

  • @quietowl1246
    @quietowl1246 Жыл бұрын

    Shawna you are literally the best. I didn’t think I’d want to do another no buy after doing one in 2022 but it was bloody brilliant. I’ve achieved so many goals. I feel like I’ve been plugged back in and I’m loving life. Your channel really helped me to succeed. One thing that always stuck with my was the insanity of ‘buying to try’. I’d think nothing of dropping £30-50 on something to try it, when that’d be enough for a weekly shop. Taking control of your life is such an empowering step. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Your comment 😭 thank you! This is so sweel. I am ultimately glad to hear that you're thriving and taking the power back in your life.

  • @tracynorman4883

    @tracynorman4883

    Жыл бұрын

    That's motivating!!! 😁

  • @susiebilk9905

    @susiebilk9905

    Жыл бұрын

    This made me think, I am famous for buying to try!

  • @pixiethistle
    @pixiethistle Жыл бұрын

    I am convinced! I will plan to do a replacements only no buy for clothes, household items, and beauty products, with an allowance of six non-essential, non-replacement items for 2023. Will you film a video about your no buy rules for 2023 and another about the items you purchased with expenses for 2022, I hope? Your essay-style content is so informative and interesting that I listen to these videos twice!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yesssss!!!! Love to hear it. I'm personally not going to go on a no buy next year, but will be continuing the year of contentment. I'll definitely talk about what next year's project will look like in the next couple of weeks. This year I flip-flopped a lot between no buy or not, and I feel like I found my groove. So much so, I'd like to tackle some other shopping-related struggles next year.

  • @BinaBecker
    @BinaBecker Жыл бұрын

    I was already contemplating a no-buy for my (usually nonexistent) new year's resolutions. Looks like this is a sign for me to buckle down and take it seriously. Everything you said here really resonated with me.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    You got this Bina!

  • @helenhirsch5717
    @helenhirsch5717 Жыл бұрын

    Shawna, I'm not going on a no-buy, but it's not because you weren't convincing, because you completely were right on the mark with this. It's just that the pandemic already forced me to go on a no-buy for a year, and then a low-buy for the next two now, because I stopped going out to the drugstore or TJ Maxx every day. I had bad FOMO and stopping like that actually did not feel very good at first, but makeup shopping was really becoming a problem because I just wanted every I saw, and I wanted to be part of the world I saw on beauty KZread. But the last almost three years have given me a chance to get to learn my collection and love what I have, learn my preferences and just recognize the beauty of each thing I already bought. I started to love makeup for how beautiful it was and not how it made me feel when I bought it or to stop those feelings of longing to have it. Now when new collections come out, I can see what looks like one or more things I already have. A new line of lipstick comes out and the colors are so beautiful and appealing, but knowing my collection now, I know I have at least one product already in that color and that formula, and the more I buy, the less I can use the things I really love and enjoy before they get too old. There will always be more new lipstick to buy, when I finish enjoying some of what I already have. If someone feels like they don't have a healthy relationship with buying, or their collection or the thought of buying more of their item causes anxiety, I completely recommend a no-buy to process those feelings and figure out the why behind it. Great video!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I love that you know what you want! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts here too. I'm not mad about this no ;)

  • @flawedfabulous
    @flawedfabulous Жыл бұрын

    Yes for sure, when I'm having a insomnia bout I tend to scroll thru makeup websites, then order and then stalk the tracking, and once I get it, it isn't as exciting.

  • @exomake_mehorololo

    @exomake_mehorololo

    Жыл бұрын

    Yesss 👀

  • @trishacarlson4122
    @trishacarlson4122 Жыл бұрын

    "what do you have to lose except bad habits?" OMG I LOVE THIS. Thank you for putting this into perspective in such a loving & understanding way. I'm saving money because I want to be financially secure. I don't want to struggle paycheck to paycheck. That's not me. I want to have 10, 20, 30k + in the BANK. That's my GOALS! Will it take time? Absolutely. My patience is being tested. I am doing so much better w/ my money than I ever have. & it's because I have such great influencers to look to for advice. Thank you so much for all you do

  • @sarahwheeler4353
    @sarahwheeler4353 Жыл бұрын

    Can you do a video about how to plan a no buy? Like what question to ask yourself to talk yourself out of buying things when that urge comes up?

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    this is a really interesting topic, thanks for the suggestion! In the mean time, I've made a video kind of like this but for clothes if you're interested

  • @roshnipanda948

    @roshnipanda948

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, please make this video. How to plan and tangible steps to take.

  • @kayleemitchell8071
    @kayleemitchell807110 күн бұрын

    Ok I’m doing it! No buy in June. I started my inventory…it’s not makeup. My addiction is writing, planners, notebooks, journals, pens, tapes, stickers. I recognize I do this when I’m feeling anxious. I’m gonna tighten up this year.

  • @dr.w.makeup5499
    @dr.w.makeup5499 Жыл бұрын

    I started my no buy year Dec 1 and you have been a huge inspiration. Most no buy spaces I’ve been in has been all about minimalism and anti-consumerism. I’m not a minimalist and I don’t think I ever will be. I’ve seen your journey this year in contentment and realized that’s what I want: contentment with what I have but focusing more on the joy of things than the number of things. I hope that makes sense. Im going to read Marie Kondo’s books as well. I really enjoyed your video talking about her method. I’m looking forward to how my mindset will change this year!

  • @exomake_mehorololo

    @exomake_mehorololo

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. That's how I feel too. I'm not a minimalist but looking for balance and to just be more content and reasonable in my spending

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    congratulations on starting your no buy! I'm so glad you've enjoyed my videos and have come o find your focus, I love that for you! I also hoe you enjoy reading Marie Kondo !

  • @anyaconda3155
    @anyaconda3155 Жыл бұрын

    I'll be on my second year of a no buy/low buy and I've adjusted my rules after evaluating what worked and what didn't last year. Next year's focus is going to be my health and contentment. Great video as always!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Congrats on completing your no buy year, and wishing you all the best on your focus for next year, Anya 💕

  • @nollplz
    @nollplz3 күн бұрын

    Hi from 2024 ! I have started a no buy recently, where I mainly decided not to buy : clothes & accessories (I have more than enough), makeup & skincare (I want to use up what I have before buying anything new), books (I want to read all the ones I have), and doordash (I will occasionally go to the restaurant, but at home we shall cook every meal). I realised I was buying too much crap and it wasn't aligned with my values or financial goals. Your videos are really helpful ! 😊

  • @MaisZuuuuut
    @MaisZuuuuut Жыл бұрын

    Your sentence "what do you have to loose except for bad habits" hits me so hard ! I tried doing a no-buy year in 2022 and failed but I have learned a lot and I really want to put the work into trying again. This video helped me so much, I think I will need to rewatch it if I struggle next year but for now, you really motivated me !

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    yay! I love this and I'm glad you're trying again 💕 Wishing you all the best on your journey this year

  • @clairefurness7809
    @clairefurness7809 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! This is definitely what I’ve needed!

  • @Stephanie-ki5oz
    @Stephanie-ki5oz Жыл бұрын

    keeping this as motivation throughout the year. thank you

  • @martinirving153
    @martinirving1536 ай бұрын

    Thank you I needed to here what you had to say today. Thank you ❤

  • @ohhsnapitsharley
    @ohhsnapitsharley Жыл бұрын

    This is some amazing insight and advice, thank you!!

  • @petra1995
    @petra1995 Жыл бұрын

    Ironically, this video more inspired me to work on my "grit" when it comes to my university studies.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm not mad about that 😂

  • @2kim01
    @2kim01 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this 😊😊

  • @ShelleyG1014
    @ShelleyG1014 Жыл бұрын

    I’m convinced to start! Thank you! Cheers!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Amazing congratulations 🤩

  • @basswoodbeauty
    @basswoodbeauty Жыл бұрын

    I haven't even watched the video yet but need to say I love the idea for this type of video, please do the series! I just deleted most of my KZread subscriptions because I just feel like I have to buy something after watching each one. You were one of the about three beauty KZreadrs that I'm still subscribed to, because you talk about beauty but I never feel pressured to buy something. Thank you ❤️

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    it's an honour to make it through the purge

  • @kendspan212
    @kendspan212 Жыл бұрын

    Yes you have convinced me for so many reasons!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yaaaaay!

  • @tkikpar4882
    @tkikpar4882 Жыл бұрын

    I’m in!! Thanks for the time and energy you put into helping others succeed. Truly grateful.

  • @janesteinbrenner5420
    @janesteinbrenner5420 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video ❤

  • @teacherlovesbeauty
    @teacherlovesbeauty Жыл бұрын

    I'm going on a low buy! Lol

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    love it!

  • @pameehanson3866
    @pameehanson3866 Жыл бұрын

    New to your channel and just found you in time. Thru another person I had decided to do a no buy year and you really sealed the deal with myself. I hope you do more encouragement videos in 2023 about no buys. Thanks much and Happy Holidays

  • @YorkshireGirlinDarwin
    @YorkshireGirlinDarwin Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤❤

  • @tcookie
    @tcookie Жыл бұрын

    You make a good case - I've been thinking about going on a no-buy/low buy to recover from a lot of renovation debt and I needed to hear a lot of this.

  • @cyeung8798
    @cyeung8798 Жыл бұрын

    i love this! there should be more content like this out there.. thank you for your insight and perspective

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    thank you 💕

  • @cindyann5841
    @cindyann5841 Жыл бұрын

    I soooo needed this video! You are so funny, but at the same time, you get your point across. I love it!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Cindy 💕

  • @jenbravo2790
    @jenbravo2790 Жыл бұрын

    I was already planning on doing one, but your video was excellent reinforcement! Thank you!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay, Jen! I'm so excited for you

  • @imagease
    @imagease7 ай бұрын

    Wow! Do the work! Love it.

  • @TexasGal.
    @TexasGal. Жыл бұрын

    I was planning to do one in 2023 and you have reiterated why I should most definitely do it. Thank you.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay! Happy to hear it!

  • @NataliaCopeland
    @NataliaCopeland Жыл бұрын

    Watched your video in the end of December. You convinced me! THANK YOU ❤❤❤

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay! Glad I could convince you

  • @j0ann
    @j0ann Жыл бұрын

    This is a beautifully thought out video. Thank you so much for the insight and reflection!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💕

  • @samnieto6463
    @samnieto6463 Жыл бұрын

    No buy clothes/shoes! Here we gooooo 💪🏻 gotta beat this shopping addiction.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    let's do it!

  • @yunaville
    @yunaville Жыл бұрын

    You already convinced me with your previous videos. I am excited

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    ok, I LOVE that you're so excited!

  • @Nicole-rx2fx
    @Nicole-rx2fx Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful video! I look forward to more from you this month - particularly, a "how to be bored" video. I don't particularly feel that I have an issue with buying stuff, but I'd love to have less. In July 2023, I expect to be moving again, and I'd love to move with less. Having less physical stuff would make packing easier along with moving. I don't see myself finishing up a significant amount of makeup products, but in terms of skincare, I could have a lot less. So a No Buy would be perfect for me in 2023. Additionally, I feel that beauty products make wonderful gifts. This being said, I don't need to buy more when I can add new palettes, perfumes, medium-high end foundations, bath bombs, and even candles to my birthday and Christmas wishlists. This allows others to gift me beautiful things I want instead of me looking things to buy around holidays to add to a wishlist because I already bought everything I wanted.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel you on the having less when packing. A no buy sounds wonerful and I'm wishing you all th best with that next year! 💕

  • @pacifica9718
    @pacifica9718 Жыл бұрын

    I was thinking about a no buy year but you have absolutely convinced me. Thank you!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay! I love that 💕

  • @esthermarcen7587
    @esthermarcen7587 Жыл бұрын

    Is really true that learning to be bored is very important, and is necessary for example to cope with routine in a job, I work with youths as a social worker and they are not able to hold a job simply sometimes because they can cope with being bored.

  • @krupskaya3088
    @krupskaya3088 Жыл бұрын

    Yay - you’ve convinced me 🎉! What really convinced me was seeing it as an opportunity rather than a punishment and the joy of really getting to know what you have. I’m a first time viewer and a new subscriber- thank you!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy to have you here 💕 I do hope you'll have some fun on your no buy next year

  • @exomake_mehorololo
    @exomake_mehorololo Жыл бұрын

    Yes please! Convince me 😶my bank account sends his best wishes

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Let's hope I can 😅

  • @hollybrady6306
    @hollybrady6306 Жыл бұрын

    I've been convinced. I have goals I want to start and restart and stuff has gotten in my way too often. You've given some amazing inspiration, insight and advice. I'll definitely be passing this along to family and friends in my life also struggling with this. God Bless.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy to hear this! Good luck Holly

  • @highcontrasthughes1923
    @highcontrasthughes1923 Жыл бұрын

    Saving this for continual inspo!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Love it!

  • @deborahkilpatrick8572
    @deborahkilpatrick8572 Жыл бұрын

    And yes you have convinced me!!!

  • @Patricia7Tita
    @Patricia7Tita Жыл бұрын

    Hi! Thanks for this video. I don’t have a shopping problem. I don’t buy that much. I’ll do it for 3 months because there are something’s that I want to buy later this year. 🙌🏼

  • @EnchantedXennial
    @EnchantedXennial Жыл бұрын

    I'm 90% convinced. I'd love to see follow up videos! FOMO is real, and I get influenced by videos, so I think I need to be more careful about what I watch. Thank you for this video!

  • @lisastjohn3056
    @lisastjohn3056 Жыл бұрын

    I had been thinking about a no buy for 2023, yes your encouraging words have convinced me ❤️

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay! Happy to have you aboard Lisa

  • @jessandrew
    @jessandrew Жыл бұрын

    Yep. I am in! Figuring out my guidelines this week and starting in January.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Love to hear it Jessica!

  • @FromFarOut
    @FromFarOut Жыл бұрын

    I feel like so many of us live our lives carrying a "scarcity" mindset, and that is something I want to heal in my life this year and moving forward. Growing up low income it has been ingrained in me that there is "never enough" whether it's food for the family, clothes in the closet, etc. so I carry around this idea that I need to consume, I need to bring more into my life because what I have is not good enough. I'm trying to protect myself from something that's not happening anymore. My life now as an adult is safe and comfortable and I need to remember that when I feel not good enough for not having the newest makeup release. Thank you for your authentic words and inspiration to take control of our actions. Love & light

  • @samnieto6463
    @samnieto6463 Жыл бұрын

    Turns out I came to YT looking to be convinced… 👏 thanks for showing up for me. ❤😂

  • @lightchiii
    @lightchiii Жыл бұрын

    Love your content! I like it so much I decided to leave a comment to take part in the pool. I know I won’t go for a no-buy because I’m really happy where my life is now. I feel like I’m very fortunate because I pretty much achieved all of the points you pointed out and whenever I decide to buy something, it really brings me happiness and joy for a long time! Thank you so much again for your precious content! Grazie! Love from Italy

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so thrilled to hear you're at a great place in life right now 💕 this is a no I'm not mad about 😂

  • @OlyaVasileva
    @OlyaVasileva Жыл бұрын

    I set this year as a no-buy/low-buy year mainly for clothing/accessories/home decor. I think I have enough to last me lifetime, yet I was still getting new things every other day.

  • @ThisLittlePiggySays
    @ThisLittlePiggySays Жыл бұрын

    Sign me up! No Buy Class of 2023!👩‍🎓 The point that struck a chord with me most was when you challenged the default mindset of deprivation, instead encouraging me to see that this is an opportunity and that time will pass regardless. Knowing this, why wouldn't I want to break out of my comfort blanket of excuses and procrastination, and actually DO SOMETHING within the next 365 days, to develop into somebody whose habits are more aligned with their values?! Challenge accepted. No ifs, no buts. I'm in for 2023. All year. No "but holiday releases are my weakness". No "Birthday exemption". Growth and resilience are built in hard times, not easy ones. Thank you, and let the games begin!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!! You got this!! I love your goals and mindset 🙌

  • @rachelletagala
    @rachelletagala Жыл бұрын

    I started my no-buy in June 2022 so currently still in the thick of it, but you convinced me to start it! Everything you said hit the nail on the head as I'm going through this process. It's been an awesome opportunity to get to know myself and change my habits for (what I deem) the better. My motivation for the no-buy wasn't because I went into debt or was struggling with money, but because I was spending way too much on makeup and was feeling overwhelmed with how much I've accumulated. This video has given me an extra boost to keep going till June 2023! Thank you for your hard work and words of wisdom 🙏 I always look forward to these commentary style videos!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    This is so exciting Rachelle, you're halfway there !!

  • @Kiyonce.Kartier
    @Kiyonce.Kartier Жыл бұрын

    Shawna, you are so self aware and I think that’s why you make such good thought provoking makeup consumption content

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    thank you 💕

  • @shyeri888
    @shyeri888 Жыл бұрын

    No buy saved me $10,000 in 2022 🥰, I never buy clothes or bags just healthy foods to keep me going on this crazy thing called Life.I intend to do it again this year😅 I never realized how savings can be that fun !!!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    amazing! I love that you've had fun doing it too

  • @charlenebrissette3348
    @charlenebrissette3348 Жыл бұрын

    I have the outlook that you should never be bored, there is always Something to do.

  • @ElaniaG
    @ElaniaG Жыл бұрын

    I was 75% in on having a no-buy for some hobby categories, but you've definitely persuaded me the last 25%! Especially the part about a no-buy making room to focus on and achieve other goals with that time, energy &/ money.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes Elania! I hope you thrive next year 💕

  • @franceshernandez1331
    @franceshernandez1331 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Shawna, I am convinced. I will try a no spend year. I feel its going to be fun !!!!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! I love the positive atttidue

  • @cr34tvenuff91
    @cr34tvenuff91 Жыл бұрын

    I like the concept of a no buy year! I have been pretty frugal most of my life but I do have fomo sometimes... I just end up being too cheap to follow through most of the time. BUT I am prone to having explosive shopping sprees where I end up buying things that I don't really use. Luckily they only happen maybe one to three times a year but it's still a problem. I'm about to watch your video on being content with what you have and I'll probably lean more into that rather than a full on no buy year. Thank you for the great content :)

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    i feel you on those shopping sprees that happen a few times a year.

  • @PlannersByKat
    @PlannersByKat Жыл бұрын

    Yes, you convinced me to go on a no-buy for 3 months and then reevaluate. Not a year...yet. I don't have a lot of stuff. The only furniture I have is a desk and a bed. No living room furniture. I buy all my clothes from thrift stores. Since I work from home, I rarely buy clothes. So I feel like I don't need to do it for a year. I might want to decorate my place cheaply or buy a sofa for the living room. If I had a lot, I would do it for a year. Thanks for the inspiration.I will be watching this video again.

  • @sydneyrrobertson
    @sydneyrrobertson Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been thinking about a no buy for a while. I definitely want to do one. I need to decide on my goal and the categories that will help me best achieve them (nail polish and makeup are top contenders).

  • @kathyesargent9088
    @kathyesargent9088 Жыл бұрын

    No buy a-learning experience. Thank you.

  • @adriannaesparza9919
    @adriannaesparza9919 Жыл бұрын

    I planned on going on a no buy for 2023 in focused areas of my life. I want to learn to be content with what I have. You had so many a great point’s. This is a learning experience. Challenged accepted

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Woohoo! You go Adrianna, I love your mindset!

  • @HayleyMarie111
    @HayleyMarie111 Жыл бұрын

    You've convinced me. I'm going to do a no buy for 2023, my first one ever. I really have everything, and more than what I could possible need and use. So I'm excited to get started and use what makeup I have, and its a lot and it gets overwhelming. I can't wait to start and see progress be made.i have SO many foundations,and they're my weakness. I'm also going to do a project pan with my products. I placed 2 orders in the last 2 days on elf. But now I'm done. So thank you for inspiring me to do this. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay, Hayley ! You got this 💕

  • @corinamolea7659
    @corinamolea7659 Жыл бұрын

    Im going in a no buy NexT year because of you! Thanks

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay!

  • @alexandrialembke6229
    @alexandrialembke6229 Жыл бұрын

    I loved this video. I don't have a shopping issue and no debt. But I often buy things that I don't really love. It's not super often but often enough I notice it. I want to be more thoughtful in all of my purchases. I also want to get rid of things but on the fence of minimalism. I think if nothing comes it I can focus on what I have and see if I really love those items or if they can go without being distracted by something I just got.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I totalyl feel you on the buying things you end up not loving. Hopefully we can change this habit next year, i'll be rooting for you Alexandria 💖

  • @morggylynn
    @morggylynn Жыл бұрын

    I'm a little over a month into my no buy and I'm really enjoying it. I started it when I did so that it's close to Christmas and I knew I'd get new stuff to be excited about for a couple of months through the beginning of the year, then it will end right before black Friday sales next year so that I can get the replacements I need then on discount or new things I really wanted throughout the year! Your channel really helped me make this decision

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of you Morgan, you got this!

  • @melissarae4341
    @melissarae4341 Жыл бұрын

    Yes, you convinced me 😊

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    yes!!!

  • @MiaRBeauty
    @MiaRBeauty Жыл бұрын

    Love your perspective of a low buy as an opportunity. For me framing things like this as having an opportunity / the privilege to do it and categorizing them as a form of self care and self love really helped change my approach regarding consumerism, dieting, fitness etc. It's not an imposed hardship, or deprivation, its self care and needed maintenace in a way

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    100%! Sometimes I can still fall back into a mindset of: this sucks or tfeeling like I just have struggle through it to be "better" or "healthier." The mindset makes it actually feel like a struggle...and then it's not fun and sucks and then I don't want to do it and then I'm more inclined to do all the things and participate in the habits I don't want to. Our minds are wild and incredible! They can be our friends or enemies. I like your framing of self-care and self-love in particilar.

  • @cindyklempner7203
    @cindyklempner7203 Жыл бұрын

    Very compelling. I’m convinced.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yayy Cindy!

  • @youareon2something
    @youareon2something Жыл бұрын

    I’m going to do it! 2023🎉

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Wootwoot! 🥳

  • @dkayok
    @dkayok Жыл бұрын

    It's December 31 & I just found your video. I tried to start a no buy year in the fall, but totally failed with all the holiday sales. I wanted to start for the new year and your video popped up. You gave some really compelling reasons that I had not considered. It looks like you have a lot of good videos to support a no buy. So ok, scared but going for it. Thanks!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    It sounds like impeccable timing!

  • @stampinprn
    @stampinprn Жыл бұрын

    I have been convinced. My makeup no buy starts today.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    yessss!!!

  • @meleealways
    @meleealways Жыл бұрын

    Young lady you knocked it out of the park. Well said. Yes, you definitely convinced me.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I'm also glad to hear that 💕

  • @lolaphearse3688
    @lolaphearse3688 Жыл бұрын

    What a fun concept for a series! I am doing a 3 month No-buy, and I am already tempted by by the upcoming Pat McGrath release!! Convince me to not break the NB! Ok,have watched the video-WOW GIRL! That was an excellent one! I will do an Internet No Buy,as I do like to get things on vacation etc,but now pretty much exclusively shopping on line. The “funny” thing with my makeup overbuying is that it was started by HLPoston NO Buy year! Did not even know about Beauty KZread until late 2018,had 3 drugstore eyeshadow palettes,one blush etc. I now have 360 high end palettes-what the everloving heck is up with that??? Keep up the great content!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Lola! I'm rooting for you next year 💕

  • @deborahkilpatrick8572
    @deborahkilpatrick8572 Жыл бұрын

    I did a no buy in Jan and Feb this year and loved it, that was when I found your channel and the whole world of KZread no buy, low buy and panning. It went downhill massively from there to be honest but I did stick to two no buy goals - no new jewellery or makeup except replacements. Failed in other ways and have not saved anything at all, but I am going to start again in Jan and do alternate months so I don't go crazy when I let myself buy anything. I am an all or nothing person usually and I think this way might work for me.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I love that you're willing to try again and you've come up with a creative solution try. You are resiliant Deborah!

  • @Whisky-1203
    @Whisky-1203 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the reminder not sure if I want to do no buy the whole year. But went overboard with makeup towards end of year just became easy with paying all these extra expenses for birthday holiday and car repairs. Lucky I was able to pay off my debt mid 2022 and have consistent savings. One thing I wasn’t prepared for is when I started no buy and was following successfully I wasn’t any happier so the reason was still there. Or I focused too much in one area. Hoping to have more balance in 2023! Just was thinking would like to increase savings to help move to another state. Thanks again for extra motivation.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    congratulations on paying off your debt, that's amazing ! Wishing you the best on your no buy journey this year 💕

  • @rebecca6452
    @rebecca6452 Жыл бұрын

    Great video! I just found your channel. Definitely don’t have a makeup shopping problem- I have literally one mascara and concealer- but I have been thinking about doing a no-buy anyway to save money, be more content, and to give myself more opportunities to enjoy the hobbies I already have stuff for, like sewing clothing and making art. I’m gonna go for it!!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes Rebecca! Enjoying the hobbies you already have is a great idea

  • @lkessler1
    @lkessler1 Жыл бұрын

    I had already instituted a no buy/low buy on makeup and skincare in 2022. I could only replace items that I used up, and I did not have a backup or an alternate I could use. I am using up haircare products that I already had but was not using. But I am going on a no-buy for crafting/planner supplies. I have so much washi tape and planner stickers that it will take me years to use them. I want to pay off the remaining debt so I can use the extra money I'm not spending on crafting items and make a dent in 2023. You had great points about enjoying what we already have and finding ways to fill our time when we are bored (besides shopping)! Great video.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    A no buy for your crafting supplies sounds like a great idea Lori!

  • @randomstuffwithvicky5980
    @randomstuffwithvicky5980 Жыл бұрын

    Yes you convinced me! I had a trial run this year and didn’t manage it, so felt like I failed. I did make huge improvements though and feel I am now ready to go for it properly, starting right now.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay to improvement! I'm going to be rooting for you 💗

  • @randomstuffwithvicky5980

    @randomstuffwithvicky5980

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shawnaripari aw thank you!! 💖

  • @Lizbeth120
    @Lizbeth120 Жыл бұрын

    I watch a ton of no-buy content that is beauty-focused even though I barely have any makeup and rarely wear it. You convinced me in reason 1 ;) My kryptonite is crafting supplies (and random impulse stuff that I really don't need!), I'm doing no-buy January to test it out and we'll see if I decide to carry it through 3-months, 6-months or even for the year. I've been practicing contentment the last few months and trying to use what I have. Good Luck all!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay! I'm happy to hea this, welcome aboard to the no buy january crew Elizabeth!

  • @ciannacoleman5125
    @ciannacoleman5125 Жыл бұрын

    I bought a bunch of craft supplies at the end of 2022 so I decided to do a no-buy January for craft and books. Those are the two things I tend to spend my money on and I need to focus on using what I have. I do have a few projects that I need to get supplies for, but I am going to put that off until next month because it doesn’t need to be done right now. On the book side of things I have about 17 books on my shelf that need reading & can get any other books I want from the library.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay! I love these goals. Thanks for sharing Cianna!

  • @trishacarlson4122
    @trishacarlson4122 Жыл бұрын

    ALSO YES! i did a, less spend & cash envelope approach this year. Which I love a lot, I will continue to do cash envelopes system. But, I think I'll do this too. I'm on the mend of fixing my credit, which I didnt mention below. But that's also a goal I'm keeping up on the past 3 months & so far, doing well! Growth feels awesome! Where is the community tab so I can vote? =/

  • @julias8763
    @julias8763 Жыл бұрын

    I do not have a shopping problem😊 so no need for no buy for me, but this video is great! I really hope it will help someone with shopping issues

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad to hear it Julia!

  • @JenniferH1724
    @JenniferH1724 Жыл бұрын

    I just moved and need to do home repairs. I'm definitely in except the money I would blow will directly go into needs of my home. Things like insulation, windows and so on.

  • @saren3115
    @saren3115 Жыл бұрын

    First video I’m watching of yours, going to subscribe:) I love all the points you said in the video. I’m going to try a low/no buy next year because I’m trying to buy a camper at the end of next year. I’ll try to set aside some “fun” money for myself when I want to go out with friends. My problem is I don’t know how to stick to a budget😓 I’ll need to make one that’s realistic though and based on monthly expenses. I also want to increase my credit score too.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    these are great goals! I'll be rooting for you Saren 💕

  • @marthaosborne9625
    @marthaosborne9625 Жыл бұрын

    This is fun! I am going to go on a no buy for January, I’m going to not buy take out or eating out. My reason is to save money for new tires and to eat healthier. It will help with both of these goals.

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your goals Martha!

  • @klasszikusmacska
    @klasszikusmacska Жыл бұрын

    Yes, but not with this video, but with your whole channel! I found your channel last year and been following and looking forward to every video. I am not planning on a full one year no-buy, more like monthly/seasonal no buys - I just have a financial goal to hit plus it will be a good challenge. With where my country's economy is headed, it would be nice to be super prepared for when the s... hits the fan. I'm also excited because it makes me want to create content again!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    this sounds like a great plan! Also, thank you so much for your kind words about my channel 💕

  • @emilyanne1426
    @emilyanne1426 Жыл бұрын

    I think you convinced me Shawna! You called me out repeatedly here lol. I definitely cope with things by spending. For as much no-buy content I consume, both times I've attempted a no-buy in the past it felt bad and like a punishment and therefore it was definitely impossible to do for a year. I've become a much more thoughtful consumer over the years, but I still make some impulsive choices and I really want to save more money. This was such a fantastic video and I will absolutely be coming back to watch it over again for all of these reminders. Also looking forward to the rest of this series because dang you make compelling arguments!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad the video resonated! Also, sometimes our habits take time to change. You can totally do this Emily 💕

  • @emilyanne1426

    @emilyanne1426

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shawnaripari You are totally right, thank you for the encouragement! And congratulations on 5k!! 🎉

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @mariaradasoto9388
    @mariaradasoto9388 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing video, so well thought and explained. Made me subscribe. I am going to start a low buy year Now. Thank you!

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Maria, glad to have you here!

  • @619to253
    @619to253 Жыл бұрын

    You convinced me. I use shopping as a coping mechanism. I am starting today. I have never taken a vacation. That is where the money will go. Rachelle in Seattle

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, Rachelle! I'm wishing you the best on your journey

  • @Royalbliss206
    @Royalbliss206 Жыл бұрын

    I am definitely going on a need to buy basis instead of just buying everything

  • @twilderrr
    @twilderrr Жыл бұрын

    I am late to the party by a few weeks but I have started an official No Buy for 2023 :) As I watched the video I wrote down my thoughts on each topic you presented and by the end I was convinced. I am getting married in October and while I have paid for a lot of stuff in full already that is another driving factor for my No Buy. I want to make sure I am not scraping by the time the wedding comes and being stressed. I know I can do this :D

  • @shawnaripari

    @shawnaripari

    Жыл бұрын

    this is a beautiful goal, thank you for sharing 💖

  • @joannedarnielle1192
    @joannedarnielle1192 Жыл бұрын

    Please do something on helping to stay home and out of the stores i need motivation. I really need to do a no buy life

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